How to Be More Feminine: Simple Hacks That Work Fast

[@alyciaababyy]

Needed this bc Lord knows I’m a hyper independent girly but deep down inside I’m a soft lover girl wanting to operate in her feminine energy 🩷

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

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[@raesunshine9443]

Amen!!

[@hallybatiste2065]

Same!

[@LP-km7gj]

This talk reminds me so much of my grandmother. She always taught me, in her words, to act like a lady. This meant to have clean shaped nails, pressed clothing, etc. Basically she was encouraging me to care for myself and how I present myself. I may only be 38 but because of her, I have old fashioned values and have a beautiful 17 year marriage with a caring masculine man.

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

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[@dabosschic1139]

I have watched you for years. You have became more classy. You stopped cursing. I enjoy your stories and examples. I try to use your tips. I appreciate you so much 💕

[@Kylol1345]

Hey! Ex masculine female here. I agree 100% on everything you say in this video. For one, the appearance. I had a time in my life when all I wore were masculine clothes, never did my makeup, and had a lack of hygiene as well. As I got older and learned how to be more lady-like, I can proudly say that the way you present yourself can help a lot. I still wear baggier clothes from time to time, but recently I’ve been also trying to put more effort into my looks like doing my makeup as much as I can, putting on some extra jewelry, and even adding some extra steps to my hygienic routine. Although, one of my biggest problems was the personality. I lived my childhood with strictly all boys, so I gradually picked up on their behaviors; being a hustler, snapping back, the tone of their voice, etc. and hearing someone like you talk about how to overcome this feels so including since I was basically doing everything you were saying. Thank you for putting this message out there as I hope it helps me and my fellow ladies and feminine men! ❤

[@emilybaez461]

I don’t know why but I notice I get softer in my voice whenever I get into prayer. My faith leads me to embracing my true essence of being a feminine nurturing woman. I love videos like these because it’s a reminder that it’s not just spiritual. I think it takes a lot of self discipline to stay soft in when your partner is very tough. Good luck to us ladies on this journey !!

[@candisjones2229]

One thing that’s helped me walk in my femininity is therapy! Ladies we have to address what triggers our emotional reactions such as fear of rejection or shame. I had a habit of doing things on my own that when men offered to just help me with my bags I would say “no, I got it”. I learned the root cause of that behavior was fear of rejection. The behaviors became a part of my identity and it was hard to see them on my own. I found MJ on my path of learning to love and appreciate me, and been a worthy ride.

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

What’s one way you express your feminine energy in your daily life? Let’s inspire and learn from each other!

[@ItsZalliah]

Gentle head movements and Eye contact; once I notice them making the conversation intentional I’ll soften my eyes and tilt my head a little and slightly soften my voice and they usually focus on me a little bit more and become slightly calmer. it’s almost like I hit a spot that doesn’t get touched often for them. Idk if I explained it well enough but it’s basically feeling the interaction through gestures and senses/energy.

[@ItsZalliah]

And can you do a video on how men view seductive women? I love the art of seduction. I’m not talking “sexy red” I’m talking; Marylin Monroe, Lori Harvey seductive.

[@aandreahill6178]

U should bring out a movie u don’t know how much lives u touch and help I love everything about u so beautiful 💚💛🖤we Jamaican women love u baby thanks for helping al over the world 🙏🏼

[@badluckkittie]

Smiling is my feminine superpower.

[@briannasmetzer8625]

As someone whose female role models were very wounded and in their masculine, very combative, this content is the feminine energy content I’ve been needing: especially the staying feminine in conflict.

[@paulalatham6634]

I was ask why I am always dressed up???? I'm not...just always clean and pressed

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

It makes a difference! 💕

[@shantelsorias]

I belong here. MJ, you’re such an incredible mentor. Thank you. Your tribe is grateful for you. ❤

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

Thank you! I appreciate you being here. 💖

[@MadameSusini]

Very helpful. Indeed, I recently defied the odds by getting married for the first time at the age of 50 years old after moving abroad just over three years ago I believe that my intermediate level French gave me an advantage in appearing. More vulnerable, which many find adorable

[@BeenyKay]

Congratulations 🎉👏🏼

[@heythereliila5918]

This is a life skill. It won’t come in 1 day ladies. I’m still practicing 😂 I practice with strangers or my daughter. I practice in the house how I walk, sit, facial expressions. Cause MJ said not to show facial expressions when the man talk so that’s what ima do 😅👏

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

It's a journey! Keep practicing. 💖

[@Amna-m4r]

Literally my favorite person here on yt u don’t understand how beneficial ur videos are🤍

[@CherieChrist]

I love that you mentioned practical tips! Thanks I will apply❤

[@who-r9u]

thank you so much!!!!!

[@denisa3256]

Thank you, darling!

[@fairyshades]

Love your channel!! ❤

[@The_Love_Clinic]

The feminine read at the end was chefs kiss! Clock it!!!

[@emilybrown1.]

I’m so grateful for your videos MJ ❤

[@MsSturbuck]

It's inspiring.I like how you explain what is it really about in details! keep going with this topic plz ❤

[@reneelb7]

That color is lovely on you!

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

Thank you so much! I love it too! 💕

[@makedahpatterson6505]

Thank you for the road maps 😍 ✨️

[@noellemerritt3534]

Love this color on you.

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

Thank you! I love it too! 💕

[@elisabethngobaleba8848]

My dear Harris, thanks a lot for your words ❤❤❤, they are really helpful ❤❤❤thanks for giving me the tools to get back in my feminity❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

[@heatherw2330]

Excellent video and very refreshing! These types of videos helps me along my feminine journey ❤

[@innocent1401]

My girl is back!!!

[@sheilahepearson]

Yes, very helpful! I like the part of moving physically closer to the man

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

💕

[@sheilahepearson]

Thank you for your response, MJ!

[@dominique.8522]

I would love a topic on allowing femininity to heal

[@JAYD1476]

Giiiirl ,i mean,i have always wanted to look clean and nice. Not even classy lol,just presentable. My Mom operates on her masculine side so much energy wise,& im taking on the same behaviour and i hate it. The only feminine thing she taught me is to look presentable and always be clean. I mean better than nothing 😂. But i need to work on my inner energy. I notice i have chased millionaires but then i step into my masculine energy as soon as they come close lol.(probably bc i resent my absent father& saw my mother struggle). Being feminine s a state of being. Not just for one time or 2. I keep my notifications ON,for this exact reason.

[@Tigeabee]

Instant like! Cause we already know ❤

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

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[@AllAboutBri777]

beautifully said thank you ❤

[@pinkfrk]

This is helpful but I was thinking about what I need a man for, and it’s dumb stuff that I hate doing (taking out trash, cutting down my Amazon boxes lol). I was raised by a single mom and I am very in my masculine energy and in a male dominated career. I think what a lot of masculine men don’t understand is that I can totally be soft, but until a man shows me that he is a safe place for me to be soft and can actually lead in a relationship, I don’t let me guard down. I struggle with this all the time.

[@serinastutler989]

I love your teaching on what men like. Thanks MJ

[@Butterflyheart7]

I need to hear this this came at the right time I was wondering how to be more feminine and wonder if men like feminine women or masculine women thank you for this advice ❤

[@brittainelise7515]

Amazing!! I love this new content you’re doing!

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

I'm so glad you're enjoying it! 💖

[@DearAmberrr]

Thank you! ❤

[@JRLM-e8m]

Love the video!! Also love how well you dress and your clothing style. ❤️

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

Thank you so much! I love to dress up 💕

[@jowannalove1616]

This helps so much thank you

[@rainetravels1410]

With my ex, I would talk to him softly and tell him what I need him to do. And I would have to repeat it a million times but the one time I crash out yell get loud, I get results, it's sad.😢 now he's my ex Example: told him every time he would visit. Don't park on the grass. He kept parking on the grass and his truck got stuck, and we had to call a tow truck and damaged my grass. When he doesn't do what I ask, I get to have to deal with damage control if I don't crash out on him😊

[@rochellesammy7176]

Gold content ❤

[@honeymayfair-rt9tc]

👍👍👍👏👏👏👏👍👍👍excellent excellentes advices !!!!

[@jackiefrierson2199]

Hello from Paterson NJ 🎉🎉🎉

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

Hey hey ❤

[@dianewoods6747]

Thank you.❤

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

I’m so glad you found it helpful!❤

[@dianewoods6747]

Happt New Year from Fresno,CA 🎉

[@karenhill2229]

I love listening to you. you're very intelligent. may God continue to bless you 🙏🏿 N.c. in the house

[@PrisantyaFridayana]

Hi MJ! I love your content! So inspiring and applicable in real life! Could you give me some advice how to stay feminime at home when I have no father, my mom is feminime (unable to make decision and plan) and my brother is passive? I usually do the goceries shopping, plan trip for my family, solving my mom's issue, take an initiative for things at home while on the outside of home, I've been protecting my self all this time, being so independent and now, at 32 years old, I feel tired But I still need to guard my self, protecting me from a bad man Please help, I've been doing some feminime tips like self care etc But when I meet a man, I stay alert. Cause I've been hurt by man many times: ghosting, false promises, wolf in a sheep, etc

[@AskCurt]

Hey MJ where do you get your clothes from. Love the cute tops!

[@Shanieceflordi]

I just had a hard breakup. It's been really difficult since my five-year relationship ended a few months ago. My former partner is still very much in my heart, and I can't seem to stop thinking about him. Nothing has worked to get him back, and at this point, it seems impossible to be with anyone else. I know it may seem strange to admit this, but I miss him terribly and think about him constantly.

[@Shanieceflordi]

How did you find your spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with them?

[@Peaea]

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[@asmr_pocahontas]

Very helpful but can you please about how we move on from the wrong person…

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

I’ll add that to my list of videos! 😉

[@AndreeaTK]

Hello from Romania 🤗 Thank you for all this amazing tips, but can you give some advice also about how to be feminine in a long distance relationship?

[@The_Love_Clinic]

Practice having a soft voice while you speak on the phone, remain calm, patient, and peaceful while he is away, take care of yourself, look good while on FT, whenever you see him look your best and where a dress!

[@sheislove0179]

I love you!!!

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

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[@tikax2085]

This was really helpful MJ, I benefit from your tips as I’m feminine ! Keep sharing feminine tips !

[@iscreamfitness]

This guy is right in the nail

[@EVTD79]

I would love you to give advice on long-distance relationships.

[@anissahill998]

I said a lot of this to my daughter but I still feel she doesn’t listen to anything I tells her so I back of until she comes to me about something

[@annetteprince9615]

Hello from Catonsville, Maryland

[@adkerlegand]

And you are gorgeous to me MJ 🥰😘

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

Thank you!!

[@adkerlegand]

@@MJHarrisSpeaks anytime baby! 💐😘

[@nurseannesinspirationalwellnes]

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[@mirandasanders7987]

❤️

[@EMuro-wu7uy]

Thank you for these wonderful videos. For a very long time I've been on my own. I love your videos, I bought myself some very pretty lingerie to wear. If I feel beautiful on the inside, it shows on the outside.

[@teebookwriter]

The man I am dating is very sensitive to my needs. Yesterday I was upset because a government entity had canceled my appointment. He accidentally sent me a text that was meant to one of his female friends regarding my issue. I haven't checked him yet about sharing my information. How do you suggest I respond or just let it go and limit my personal dilemmas..

[@jessonsalinel9238]

do you have videos for the feminine gays, dear?

[@dominiquelong9773]

Hi, Mr.MJ. I enjoy your videos! Happy “2025” be Blessed !

[@azzaelamin6921]

Andreeeeea Andreeeeeea🤣

[@kmt4739]

💜🙏

[@jasminealexia]

You look so handsome sitting up there with that orange button down on darling 🧡

[@megajustme09]

Hello

[@MJHarrisSpeaks]

Hello!

[@leelew.1462]

But I am doing it all on my own, though. Own my own house, job, own small business, bills paid, everything I need, and priorities together. I can say I want help. I definitely can use it, but they're still jealous of me because they're not all together like myself. They try to bring me down by talking about marriage, pregnancy, and submitting after I tell them my goals and ambition.

[@tmkng1717]

Why does all of this sound like training a dog?😂

[@anissahill998]

I said a lot of this to my daughter but I still feel she doesn’t listen to anything I tells her so I back of until she comes to me about something