How To Be Popular As An Introvert

[@TheStyleOG]

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[@theblackknight9783]

One of the biggest challenges of being an introvert is people taking my quietness, and preferring to be alone (eating by myself) as a sign of being antisocial. I just enjoy my own company, and I’m very selective about who I invite into my personal space.

[@jeffreyryder273]

This is the comment ❤^^^^^^

[@eloquentsarcasm]

As an INFJ just starting a relationship with an INFP, things can be.......interesting. She's an anxious and I'm an avoidant, but the crazy part is that we clicked from the first conversation. Once we discovered we shared a deep love of music, that opened the door or more like the floodgates, lol. We can spend hours just trading songs back and forth, discussing the lyrics, tempo, instruments and emotions they conjure up. That ONE connection broke the barriers for both of us, and I know more about her than I ever learned about my ex-wife. Finding a fellow introvert is freeing, we both don't waste time on meaningless jabber, we get into the meat of a conversation and just keep going down whatever rabbit hole pops up. We both have our scars, and suits of armor that Tony Stark would be jealous of, but every time we take off a piece it reveals an entirely new facet of our personalities. I'm better at social settings than her, I can fake being extroverted and deal with people a bit easier, she's much more reserved and shy but has a staggering intellect and savage wit, Introvert + introvert can be challenging at times, but it's the deepest relationship you can find. The popularity I've gained has been a bit of faking, but mostly just simply not giving a damn. As my childhood hero Popeye was fond of saying "I yam what I yam, and that's all what I yam!" Embrace who you are, be authentic, and you'll go far. So many people are shallow and fake, but someone who truly embraces their true self, stands out. People never get tired of talking about themselves, so use your introvert skills of observation and listening, let others talk about themselves and pop in an insightful question once in a while, pretty soon you'll be "That guy/girl who always listens to me, and knows so MUCH!" You'll talk less, drain less of YOUR energy, while boosting their energy by making them feel important and special just for being around you.

[@gdretired4385]

You have some excellent tips. As an introvert for. most of my 62 years, I’m glad that some people are starting to realize that being an introvert is not an emotional or. mental problem.

[@chriswhitfield8283]

I feel this right up my alley as an introvert who try to say in my own lane and keep to myself at times and other times trying to get out of my comfort zone and opening up to people, listening, create, sharing ideals what's on my mind. Thank style O.G for this content.

[@TheStyleOG]

No problem!

[@southerngentleman7315]

The leadership part makes sense to me because since I've been in leadership, I've noticed that my Soldiers are fiercely loyal to me. That's also due to the trait of highlighting the accomplishments of others and letting them know how proud I am of them.

[@TheStyleOG]

Bingo!

[@nerdbamarich2063]

I'm definitely an introvert and an empath as well. Thank you for sharing this video OG. You definitely made a lot of valid points for sure.✊🏾✊🏾

[@Ann-xm4yq]

I am an introvert & leader. You described this 100% accurate.

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks!

[@crazyflame9450]

I’ve been an introvert for most of my life (I still am) and I’ve never really known how to use it to be attractive or get many friends, but this video really made me happy and gives me confidence as I move on to high school. Thank you so much for this video O.G! Now I’ll make friends in no time!!! 😄❤️🙏💪

[@Benny_bandit]

From one introvert to another. This list is 100% accurate . I do everything on this list. Introvert are in season. Win women’s hearts with mystery lol

[@TheStyleOG]

Love it!

[@twizzum5]

Salute OG...once you embrace your introverted nature a lot of these strengths come to the surface ✊🏾

[@TheStyleOG]

No doubt!

[@jus-ejays1236]

As an introvert that took a long time to understand and embrace that I am an introvert, i definitely agree with everything you said in this video, One thing or more so technique to add particularly when interacting with others is asking 'open-ended questions' during conversations. Salute OG!

[@TheStyleOG]

Good one!

[@DrAnguloBombay]

O.G , as an introvert I used to mimic the game and style of a very popular OG in my area...after a while I've become a man of style with good game myself. Thanks for the info once again .

[@Shawntraci]

This is me all day! The traits you have described have been me most of my life. This video was on point good Sir. You always do an outstanding job. Keep the great content coming...

[@TheStyleOG]

I appreciate that!

[@winnigriff8989]

Jeff for an introvert you show a lot of self confidence good video

[@lio_k]

Awesome video! This is me 100%.. I don't like the attention and have a hard time accepting compliments, but I make sure everyone around me ( My team at work & my friends and family) are well taken care of. Having said that, I'm now trying to be more " selfish" , putting my interest first for once.... its been interesting. Anyway, keep up they great work!!

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@michaelalexander8631]

Well said Jeff. You did your research on this topic and presented it well. SALUTE and keep up the good work.

[@ardentdfender4116]

I always say takes an introverted personality to spot one in your surroundings or wherever you work. The thing is though to also recognize while it’s a personality type in temperament and of certain characteristics traits, they all possess on a scale varying degree of introverted ness. Thus they don’t all act the same. Each have a different blend or mix of the other main personality types as minor personality to their dominated personality complex. A thing is to recognize your strengths and what or where your good at things and Len into them to help you excel. Shore up the areas or try to improve in the areas you also know aren’t your normal strong personality areas. I always like to dress up as I learned it from my brother growing up who was more an extroverted person. I often try to let how I dress and present myself in appearance speak for me wherever I’m at. As well on the fun side when I traveling for work and often do why I can sit and just enjoy Airport watching as people pass by, as my mind is hard at work in observation. Given your personality as an introvert, you do often come across as mysterious to many people around you. People often have no real idea what you think as your opinion can be hard to be revealed for many good reasons.

[@ernestcarter7073]

Wow I'm an introvert person too. Wow, you hit our personality on the nose in this video! 💪👊

[@TheStyleOG]

Awesome! Thank you!

[@ernestcarter7073]

@@TheStyleOG you're welcome 👊

[@ashtonbullock]

Hey Jeff. Another great video. From one introvert to another, you described me to a "T". I just keep me head down and get the job done. Now when I need to address something, I speak my mind and keep it moving. I keep a small circle of friends because I hate unnecessary drama. Salute brother!

[@cliftonsledge962]

O.G. this video is one of your best ones, personally it’s going to help me out a lot for real. Thanks for everything and salute 🙏🏾

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute!

[@williamproctor4388]

Perfect video. You described me perfectly. Excellent advice. Thanks

[@TheStyleOG]

No problem!

[@makempay8710]

This was a very good video Style OG. From one Philadelphian to another....Salute!!!

[@roberthagedorn290]

One of your best, Jeff. Thank you.

[@TheStyleOG]

Glad you enjoyed it

[@fabailey2929]

Great post O.G.!

[@lamontemckinney9724]

Og you just described me. Thank and great video , like always 👍

[@TheStyleOG]

Glad you enjoyed!

[@Imperial_F10]

The best self help video for introverts I've seen. Correct on every point. Kudos!

[@lamarkwilkins6428]

Great topic, great tips, classic content style OG.

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate it!

[@carlosdones1652]

Fantastic job my brother has an introvert I shine the light on you and say kudos phenomenal.

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate that!

[@kalstonii]

INFJ here. Former Comm professor, and someone who vacillates about recording for my own channel for that very reason, i have great ideas, but by the time i get in front of a camera…I dont feel like talking about it 🥵 but yes, my style is always a must. It definitely says what i, or my face, may not say about me

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks for sharing!

[@SightNSoundBand]

Spot on OG...

[@isaiahwilson2987]

My dude! ✊🏾 Thank you for sharing. This was an excellent video and right on time. As an introvert, I’m always open to suggestions to break out of my shell, and you’ve given excellent suggestions. My wife is a huge extrovert and we will be attending a gathering with some former school mates this weekend. So I’ll definitely be trying some of these tips.

[@sivad6218]

This one hits home for me bro 💯🎯 been this way most of my life from high school until present day. I’ve always made a conscious decision to dress well even at a young age. 👍🏾✌🏾💪🏾

[@justsaying5633]

Would’ve never thought you’re an introvert. Thanks for the info bro.

[@TheStyleOG]

Any time!

[@canvas57]

On point bro. You've gained life long subscription

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute!

[@KBowWow75]

True introverts don't desire to be popular. They want to be left alone, or around a few people that they enjoy.

[@makavelli7211]

Even when they don't desire to be, but oftentimes they do end up becoming popular because of some of traits he mentioned in the video. Especially for their intellect, communication skills (active listening, verbal and writing competencies, etc) sense of style...

[@dan_4531]

@@makavelli7211 yup. I myself am an introvert at work but people started talking to me just because they wabted to find out more about myself. I always tend to dress nice, keep to myself, and dont speak unless im spoken too. I guess that made people wonder about me and it was inevitable for me to not speak to others even though i didnt want to.

[@pwoodempire]

As an introvert, I really appreciate this video, great content!

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks!

[@shanaprince751]

Thanks! You kilt this👌🏼💯💯

[@elijahselbicky3639]

A little bit of Black Panther, Superman, Batman, and Captain America. Salute OG! 😉😁

[@dreadinajeep]

This one struck home.A lot of these tips I have done to kind of get along in an extrovert world

[@waynegoldmanjr1708]

Great video! I’ve used most of these unknowingly in the past but I definitely want to start using my clothes to speak and start convos for me

[@TheStyleOG]

Yes Sir!

[@zacharywallace2243]

He's truly one cause he does gives one track answers!🤣

[@edkin2013]

Thanks for this great content 👍🏾 Well done

[@ChrisLT]

I like being an introvert. Took awhile to embrace it and understand it, but we have a ton of strengths outlined here.

[@TheStyleOG]

Yes Sir!

[@lsimpson50]

Luckily I'm a member of the introvert club. Great advice. Love the jacket. Brand/model?

[@TheStyleOG]

J Crew Ludlow

[@Jay2.0-]

Great video OG💯

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks Jay!

[@mydogmarleyandme.4325]

Crazy, up until this video. I had no idea I was an introvert. I always would say, it didn’t matter what situation I’m in . I would get the best out of everything and everyone around me. I will come out on top. I was always behind the scenes and never wanted any credit. Going to events, I would show up and just disappear without saying anything to anyone when I left. They called me the Dark Knight because I was there one moment and gone without a trace the next🤣

[@legomaster2317]

Well done, my friend. Great video. Salute!

[@TheStyleOG]

Much appreciated!

[@shadestcm8301]

"I mean they not in their head as much as we are" love your videos.

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks!

[@mookeychase0907]

My brother JTSOG!! 👊🏾😉

[@zacharywallace2243]

Interesting O.G

[@THESHOWwMKSPEXT]

Damn.. I'm an introvert. Good video. Salute,

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute!

[@Darkhalo314]

I struggle so hard with being introverted. It's damn near impossible for me to have friends. It impacts my career and makes me isolate myself too much

[@KC-gh1li]

Thanks for the advice

[@TheStyleOG]

No problem!

[@dpeezy615]

Thank you for this great advice 🙏🏾

[@TheStyleOG]

Any time!

[@LishaArlene]

Yes 🙌🏼 this is so true for me. 👍🏼

[@dholmesjr]

Awesome content...Thanks again for the great tips Jeff. Salute...

[@leroyw3799]

Thank you very much Jeff, you are certainly talking about me .😁😁 points, well taken , you mean so much to me Jeff, since I’ve been watching you for the pass 2 years , I’ve really come a long way. Skincare products and so on , Salute 🫡 Jeff .

[@TheStyleOG]

You are very welcome!

[@oliversutton9973]

Telling all the secrets. Kidding. No lies were told in this video.

[@benjaminmiles7021]

Whats up OG!, this video resonates with me. Yesterday I had amazing interactions with people simply because of how I was dressed. Thank you as always and God bless.

[@TheStyleOG]

Blessings!

[@nanakwabena61]

Salute brother

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute!

[@aaronaustrie]

Great vid. I’m also introverted but I’m ok with that.

[@gregrichter4493]

Awsome video. A lot of info to think on. Great channel. 👍

[@Rahchasportstalk]

You always a good topics OG👍🏾👍🏾

[@oluwaseunenoch6657]

Introverts often appear boring because they can’t hold up a fairly long conversation. I think this is antisocial and there is need to come out of the shell a little bit and talk to people. This is my easy solution: 1. Stay in touch with the latest developments. 2. be actually present in a conversation 3. be the first to say hello, good morning, how are you …. 4. give a firm handshake 5. look people in the eye, don’t stare 6. Most importantly, give compliments, ask questions, let the other person do most of the talking. Makes them feel important and most people feel good about that. Secondly this keeps the conversation more engaging and longer

[@WhiteBeltG]

OG what’s goodie 💯

[@TheStyleOG]

Yo!

[@renegadeace1735]

Wow this is the perfect video for me. I'm also an introvert who wants to be popular.

[@TheStyleOG]

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[@sglatitude]

In summary: introvert people are those who know when to listen and when to talk on weighty matters. Extrovert people usually like to talk a lot, rambling all days which many times lack of substances, and lack on listening department because perhaps their mouth are busy talking and rambling 😂🤭

[@Zo_1987]

Let your Style and Swagger talk for you!💯💯

[@MrKronus1]

On point OG being an introvert myself, makes you more mysterious, which leads people wanting to know you and being impressed when they find out your positive attributes and accomplishments! Salute brother!

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute!

[@Spokenessence81]

I'm an introvert and i completely agree with this! 👍🏾

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute!

[@mark10.8]

This is a very unique topic. Thanks for being this deep.

[@TheStyleOG]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@lazarusgrey4866]

Thank you for all of the content you put out. It’s been a big help.

[@TheStyleOG]

Happy to help!

[@FF-jp8ho]

Thanks for your help

[@bobbyanderson7777]

"Well Said"... STYLE O.G.

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks Bobby!

[@justinmoody1169]

Could I take off my regular belt loops and add in side adjusters to my pants

[@diadreamsinaction6182]

Great stuff... I just found this channel. 🔥 Just subscribed... Following. Thank you

[@mrwill1779]

I'm an introvert and love me some me time but I also like a good outing baseball game or football this is good OG

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks!

[@michaelbullock8011]

Great video and I enjoyed it and have a blessed day

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks Michael!

[@michaelbullock8011]

You welcome keep up the good work

[@aaronaustrie]

That been me in high school. I’ve never had much friends tho a lot of ppl knew me for who I was.

[@jmorgan0829]

Great video bro

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate it!

[@timothyslaughter476]

Whether introvert or extrovert just be you. Not only is it the best way.....long term it's the only way. Eventually you show up.

[@clrkkdd12]

I made this for me, thank you OG Salute

[@TheStyleOG]

No problem!

[@KaitouKaiju]

I always say I'm as popular as I need to be

[@Qmontae]

Thank you Sir!

[@TheStyleOG]

No problem!

[@xxsargenttacox]

I drive trucks for a living being alone is part of the job but i can switch if i need to be professional but damn is it exhausting

[@jholliday3]

What kind of places you get the fly gear from.

[@Dragostrange]

What armchair psychologist determines weather one is an introvert or not? Is there an online test? Is it listed in the DSM-5?

[@Ann-xm4yq]

Sir you have great style!

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks!

[@twanbutler692]

Factz

[@Heyokasireniei468sxso]

first of all who said introverts aren't popular stop conflating introvert with schizoids . Introversion has nothing to do with being sociable

[@jasonq128]

Where did you get that suit

[@TheStyleOG]

J Crew

[@onpoint1180]

well I'm an extravert and I notice a lot too.

[@nicekix3038]

Not as much as a introvert. You could also be an ambivert which is a person who can be extroverted, and introverted. Me personally I’m a pervert

[@johnrountree4043]

I love this guy, i wish he was my best friend : )

[@jeromecruz1442]

Being an introvert helped me during this pandemic,if you know what I mean😏

[@nicekix3038]

No we don’t know what you mean. Tell us

[@jeromecruz1442]

@@nicekix3038 I was quarantined for weeks and I had no problem with that coz I am used of being alone.

[@mitchellbanks34]

All this is me. You ever thought about being a professor of sorts?

[@edwinsimmons7148]

💯 💯 💯

[@jrvthatsme]

This video will be very helpful for introverted teens as they often get lead to believe they are social outcast and unliked. And such negative narratives really get pushed be the likes of school bullies and a-hole type alphas who want to keep other people down so that they can view themselves as being on top. A little good advice can go a long way to turning a young guys view of himself around.

[@TheStyleOG]

Yes indeed!

[@D1Snr]

I don't think you can be popular as an introvert