How to be Productive with a Baby

[@stillwatersblog7370]

Get yourself dressed and put together every day! My job is to be a full time stay at home momma to a 4 year old, 1.5 year old and I’m expecting my third. I know that if I worked outside the home I would have to dress a certain way for the job. I take that very seriously. I get dressed for my job everyday. I put on some makeup and do something with my hair, even if it’s a greasy ponytail. Some days I put on sweats and other days it’s a dress but I always change out of pajamas, no matter what. My son often tells me how beautiful I look and it always sets me up for success!

[@girlteachme]

Love that and it is always so sweet when our kids notice and say something. It is a wonderful discipline to have 🩷

[@katiegodinho2275]

When my friend was close to giving birth to her second and I was freshly pregnant with my 5th she looked at me and in all seriousness and almost panic asked "When on earth do you shower?? How am I supposed to shower??" I internally smiled (maybe chuckled) and said, "I lay the baby on the bathroom rug and take a shower." Then I showed her pictures of my different babies napping on a blanket on the bathroom rug. 😅 now I'm pregnant with my 6th and also a homeschool mom. It's A LOT but it all gets done. No stress mama. It all gets done.

[@girlteachme]

Love this and YES same. Now my baby just tears apart my bathroom while I shower, but she is in there and safe. Love this so much, thanks for sharing with us all!

[@rebekahsl]

So true! Once they are old enough they don't want to come in there when you're in the shower 😅

[@myawimberly6924]

I just found out i’m pregnant with baby number two and this gave me confidence.

[@Kimacho]

I shower with my baby sometimes little slippery lol GYI use a bath stool but the bonding is magical, also shower they they sleep, I still have challenges but taking them laying on the bathroom works too!

[@katelynjohnson9229]

Thank you for emphasizing the importance of motherhood when the world doesn’t.❤️

[@seaofglass77]

My baby carrier ( Ergo brand, but there are lots of good ones) CHANGED MY LIFE. I took ballet class, taught ballet class, ran my little vhu4ch dance company, did my work outs, cleaned, made meals, and now with my second I'm slowly getting her used to the carrier so I can play with my three year old while the new one sleeps close to my heart. We do walks and park time and everything. No bulky stroller, the slight weight is getting me back in shape, and I know baby is getting the closeness she needs.

[@girlteachme]

Love this! Thank you for sharing all the ways you use your carrier, I think this comment is super helpful for mamas to see!

[@kinakonako360]

Twin parenting are a little bit different, so I want mothers of multiple babies to be even more gracious. We don't get to hold a baby all the time when we want. It is constant swtch back and forth especially when they are tiny babies. I have older kids to take care of as well , so my twin babies are often in a safe place laying. Please don't feel like you are bad mother because twin babies don't get as much attachment or time!! Twin parenting require very different strategy. Just a word of encouragement! I love the video! I raised two older kids before twins so I can relate

[@gracewainaina9164]

thanks for the encouragement am a twin mum and i can relate

[@petal8829]

Being a twin mom is just so different. Twins were my first and now I have a singleton too. Having just a single baby is so so much easier. Even when it’s just baby and one of the twin toddlers with me, it’s also easy. When it’s the twins together, it’s a whole nother ball game.

[@mariatorres-vf8lo]

Thank you! I brush my teeth and feel like a queen!

[@Mayberry_Kate]

I’m so glad I stumbled upon this channel. My friends are great, and aiming upward, but another way I “level up” is by following women like you, Michelle Reed, and Delilah from Loeppky’s Life. Of course it’s not a two way relationship, but it still almost feels like a friendship that inspires me. You three make me want to be a better mom and encourage me on my walk with God. I don’t get to be a SAHM, but I do get to work from home and I’m passionate about being a homemaker. Even if I’m also the main breadwinner.

[@littleolivemama]

I discovered your channel a month or so ago, and I'm not exaggerating when I say your channel has significantly improved my life. I have three children 5 and under, and I am a homeschooling mama. I felt like I was drowning and struggling to balance it all, and your tips have helped so much! Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge ♡ Also, can we be real life friends please? 😂 I'm in NC as well!

[@girlteachme]

Wow, so humbled! God is so good to let us all be used in different ways and it is such a fun outlet for me to make these videos. It makes my heart soar that some of the tips have been game changers for you! I have been where you are, being a mama is no joke! And yes, if you are ever near Winston let me know, just shoot me an email 🙌

[@mariamiller4035]

I’m in California and let me tell you, it is lonely! Been doing this for 22 years now and have had very little success with deep friendships that level me up but God has provided just enough for each day and each season. I love your encouraging tips and love that you understand how important it is for an audience of one and to live to please Him🙌🏼

[@rhysphil9332]

I love the baby carrier. I splurged on an artipoppe and I am glad I did because it saves my mental health.

[@gilmoregirl4]

So grateful I came across this video! I am a FTM to an almost 6-month-old, and the past few months it seems like all I do is laundry and trying to keep the house clean and entertain this baby on top of it (and we are cloth diapering as well, so that's an extra 3 loads of laundry a week!). I've just learned how to do every conceivable task that I can while either holding baby or having her playing where I can see her, and now that she has a longer attention span and can do more solo play I feel so much more productive! This video was such an encouragement, and it is so important for moms to remember that they aren't alone!

[@girlteachme]

So glad the video was an encouragement! You are doing amazing 🩷

[@retrorenegade1967]

I'm in the same boat! I have a six month baby girl

[@johannaschmidt3860]

Thank you so so much for this beautiful video and encouragement, alongside very practical tips! I am a 1st time mom returning to work, and it's easy to feel completely overwhelmed!

[@katelynjohnson9229]

I love your attitude! Thank you for sharing. Very relatable and applicable advice for me! Just had my second! God bless!❤️

[@carmskii5699]

Hi! I found your channel about a month ago and have watched a lot of your videos. I’m currently on maternity leave with my 4th baby and heading back to work next week. You’ve given me a lot of amazing pointers and tips for the is time that I’ve been at hope with my new baby and my twins. Thank you for being a positive light and for reminding me that God sees all we do for the family, even if our husbands and children do not see it everyday. Focusing on the fact that The Lord sees all I do and all I am doing to prepare to go back to work and continue to do my best. Thanks!! 🙏🏾

[@user-cb8sg9py7r]

Sitting here with my 5th newborn as well. My oldest is also 10. The baby is only 1 month but ive been very intentional with some routines to stay afloat. It helps for mental health to get the important things done rather than letting them go. You are my friend, so relatable.

[@aymeesretep8754]

These same things help me too. Just had our 10th. Other things that help are accepting help w meals,cleaning,kids etc and keeping expectations lower, oh like for example, paper plates and peanut butter and jelly are there for a reason. So are older siblings. They can help. Its good for them and for the whole family!!!

[@creativereindeer]

My 2-way stretchy (easy) wrap and now carifit carrier have saved me! SO many times folks say they don’t get on with a sling but they need to get personal help to get it fitted correctly, also different body shapes suit different carriers AND just because baby doesn’t like it one time doesn’t mean it’s never gonna work… and practising when not trying to go anywhere!!! Love the grace for a new job idea! Huge to be honest as I’m so overwhelmed with my first. Thanks so much for the encouragement. Xx

[@KitKat10281]

Also, if your newborn isn't a huge fan of carriers, don't get rid of it! My son HATED his carrier as a newborn, but I tried again at 5 months old, and now he LOVES it!

[@sandramoss1417]

Loved this! Thank you ❤

[@jamieleigh807]

Omg your channel is so so so relatable thank you so much!❤im a single mother of 3, two teens and a newborn who has been so poorly. I barely have time to have a shower and I feel so frustrated I appreciate your channel so much! X

[@girlteachme]

Get it girl! You are a hero! Your role is so important and love and prayers your way. Keep taking care of yourself so you can poor into those kids. A mama of 6 in the comments talked about how she showered while her babies slept on the bathrug outside the shower, I get that. Praying for help and a community to come around you and support you friend 🩷

[@ErinTheApartmentHomesteader]

I needed to hear this. I'm trying the 5 minutes with the carrier thing. I have a 5 week old, and because of handling a low milk supply, I feel like I'm working overtime as a mama.

[@RacheltheSAHM]

Keep doing skin to skin time - you got this!

[@Kimacho]

The not have to show off hit me hard so i appreciate you mentioning literally said this "hey as long heaven sees me in all i do, my lord sees me that what matters! " I LOVE the carrier! does it always work? no.. most of the time, yes.. im also new to baby wearing. Do i misplace it yes..do i push through? yes and works but sometimes i use the swing or bouncer and try carrier again a little later. I have to pep talk myself alot deep breath+ pray amd try again or do a different method Example I use a tshirt and/or nursing shirt and put him in it.. I been off social media over 3 yrs....yeah i also need break YT ...i been struggling reading the bible....so starting to bible and nurse at same time. Great video! Very edifying!

[@sonamsharma6806]

Loved it ❤

[@tamiurquizo746]

I used the baby carrier it was definitely a helpful tool. I want another baby, and you have convinced me to do a natural birth. ❤❤❤

[@girlteachme]

Love it!!!! Go for it! Natural birth has been an amazing way to trust and rely in the Lord in new ways AND natural birth is packed with lessons for motherhood. When you feel like you can't go on you are almost done 🩷🙌

[@aymeesretep8754]

Oh another thing that has helped me is streamlinong where laundry goes so in my laundry room i have a laundry basket for clean towels and clean mismatched socks and i dont always match socks when folding i just quickly toss into there and match later or have kids match as they need to. And then i have bins on a cubby shelf by the door w socks for the kids, gloves, hats and shoes are on a book shelf by the door. Also a coat tree and hooks have helpee w that. Never underestimste the value of sleep and red meat, fresh air even if its just 15 min, and protien rich fiood massage, and plenty of good water.

[@bushrariaz7180]

Loved your video,thanks alot for the great tips.I am from Pakistan and back home we have a lot of support system for a new born as close family,I am going to be a new mom away from my country,and its just going to be me and my husband,and I am quite anxious how to manage a newborn.But your video has given lot of reassurance n support n some really practical tips,many thanks!

[@girlteachme]

Oh wow, that is a loss to not have that support, but praying for unexpected care, support and a community to come around you while you are away from home. But if help doesn't come, praying that it is still sweet memorable time where you grow as a mom and in your marriage. Sending love!

[@debchaffin]

i learn so much from you! i’m a first time mom and i wish my baby was okay with baby carrying but he is not a fan no matter how hard i try! 😅 he is a boy on the move and doesn’t appreciate being restrict

[@RacheltheSAHM]

I do lots of walking/bouncing and butt patting til my little guy chills. I make sure he’s positioned correctly then just make him fight through it til he sleeps

[@MILAMGM]

My husband and my life changed (for the better) when he started to like the carrier haha 🎉 I use the wrap cause I’m used to it better but both are so very helpful!

[@girlteachme]

Yes all the love to the dads who are manly enough to wear their babies! Real men 🩷

[@MILAMGM]

@ agree ♥️♥️ when baby is safely held in a carrier, it could be perfect for naps too

[@hannahthehomesteader]

I have 4 kids 4 and under. I finally broke down and became a baby wearer when I had my 4th. It's the only way we can do a grocery store! Otherwise all the tiny humans wouldn't fit in or around the cart haha. I still dislike it for housework, though. I feel very physically limited with it on and move more slowly. I am a fan of putting a fisher price bouncer or dock a tot on the counter so the baby can be up there with me while I work. They're also safe from crazy toddler hands up there!

[@trinitybell945]

Thank you taking the time to make these videos you truly bless me as a mama with these wish we were friends in real life ❤

[@girlteachme]

It is my joy to share any little thing that might be a help! 🩷

[@meginthelife]

Such a good idea to make dinner after you make breakfast!

[@tamiurquizo746]

Thank you for all the helpful tips. Enjoy your content.

[@girlteachme]

Yes, it my joy and such a gift that the tips are helpful to you!

[@natalieyoungers143]

Invest in a great baby carrier. I’m talking to the skeptical moms: IT MAKES ALL THE DIFFERENCE. My first baby I had a $30 carrier. Baby 2 (and onwards), I had a $150 carrier. The difference is so palpable and so noticeable. I can wear that $150 carrier for hours. Truly, truly. Do it.

[@iqralala6244]

My baby carrier hurts my shoulders and neck. What brand do you recommend ?

[@natalieyoungers143]

@ I got the Ergobaby Omni 360 Carrier. I wore it all day while walking all around NYC for a week. I swear by it.

[@iqralala6244]

@natalieyoungers143 thanks so much 🥰

[@Olivia-nd6mu]

I have a 4 week old baby and I’m sitting here in my pjs at noon so exhausted 🥱

[@mrs.dianavanessahill]

It’s normal for us first time moms ❤️ congratulations enjoy your precious babies! It gets better, we get better

[@Cmartin01]

I literally love wearing my baby so much (and so does he) that I had to order a second one 😂

[@LuvbleGemz]

I was hoping there would be more tips on how to manage the baby whilst having 4 other children or even one other child. Tips on how to juggle both or be productive with the added 'stress' of other children.

[@girlteachme]

Thanks for the feedback! I will think how I can add that into a future video. I was certainly thinking about the new mama.

[@Mama.mindfully]

Im babywearing for every single one of my babys nap 😂 its great- bc i struggle with anxiety and would carry that monitor around with me and get worried if he woke up, and so nice to have baby with me!! And also hard bc my back hurts 😂❤ Also I just wanted to say something that could either be helpful or sound rude.. but I do not mean it to come off that way! Can you make your white text on screen bigger and bolder?? I could be blind as a bat, but I'm usually doing stuff, or waking on my treadmill etc and can't see the really small text. I hope that's a helpful suggestion ❤

[@girlteachme]

That isn't rude at all, that is wonderful for you to pause and help me know how my videos can be more helpful! I can certainly work on that, thank you for letting me know. And praises that the baby carrier has helped remove some of that anxiety! love that!

[@tiffany5824]

Hello! Where did you get those little backpacks that are on this video cover?

[@simteriors]

Hi! What is the carrier you are using here? 2:01 The one that can let you wear baby on back? Thank you!

[@Becky44-e7g]

Hey have you heard of wisephone? I wondered if it was similar to the lite phone! I’m seriously contemplating switching to one of them.

[@girlteachme]

Yes I have heard great things about that phone too!

[@Becky44-e7g]

I wish I could remember the video I learned this from but I will link if if I find it. Instead of saying “I need throw a load of laundry in” she explained your brain registers this as the full task to switch to saying “I need to finish the laundry “ just changing the wording changed the way I do laundry. May not work for everyone but for me I do it from start to finish now and I never realized how fast laundry could actually be if you do it all in one day 😃 now I am doing one load a day and it never feels overwhelming anymore lol

[@girlteachme]

LOVE that! Simple mindset shift and switch of language. Thank you for sharing Becky!

[@MelissaHurley1994]

I hate wearing him in the carrier and I have to pee😂 😢

[@camilaw7802]

Thank you 😢. Jesus Christ has used you to confirm much and help me especially about my thoughts.

[@simplyaizhan]

My baby is crying and wants to be held almost all the time 😅

[@Mamaxhija]

Yes that’s me, that’s why I don’t even bother to start something because as soon as a pit down my baby I know he’ll wake up 😣

[@kgsheldo]

What do you mean “be productive with your baby”?? You JUST HAD A BABY 😂😂