How to Be Socially Attractive AF

[@CaptainSinbad]

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[@amandamate9117]

cringe King is back

[@human3213]

@Amanda Mate You are cringe

[@-whackd]

Off topic but Can your app differentiate between when you release with a partner and when you fapped?

[@Govind_Poyapakkam]

“Wear the costume of the person you want to be, and you’re that much closer to becoming that person”. best advice I’ve adopted.

[@livinglikeahuman7918]

Wear a facade is the best advice you’ve heard ? Damn dude do some soul searching

[@luisthebeast806]

@@livinglikeahuman7918 on my point of view this quote is about acting like you would imagine a greater man than you would act, thus becoming a greater man

[@copium-compound22]

@@livinglikeahuman7918 Fake it till you make it isn't fairy tale advice but it works

[@livinglikeahuman7918]

@@copium-compound22 Why do you feel the need to “fake it” ? Genuinely curious not being a dick

[@copium-compound22]

@@livinglikeahuman7918 Most people aren't naturally like who they want to be so we have to imitate who we want to be until it comes natural to us. Pretty sure the bible says imitate Jesus and you will grow to be more like him sorta the same concept honestly it applies to almost everything. I'm not a social friendly sorta guy but when working in retail I had to be

[@mgcc]

Principle 1: Fashion and Fitness “Wear the costume of the person you want to be, and you’re that much closer to becoming that person” Principle 2: Just spread good vibes - Just try to make the other person feel good (give compliments) Principle 3: Be a high vibrating person - Have the expectation of everything going really well - Semen retention - Meditation Principle 4: Tongue Twisters - Makes you able to speak more clearly and confidently - (vocal warmup exercices)

[@immortal2414]

It's better to be friendly to the world rather than the friend of the world.

[@ArchitSach]

The point starting 6:56 is bang on Nikhil. As a high-achieving man, being humble is NOT easy... so important for us to be storytellers about EXPERIENCES rather than results - this stoic quote expresses it beautifully: “Be silent as to services you have rendered, but speak of favors you have received.” - Epictetus

[@mohamm3d312]

So true man, thank you!

[@rajeshpatel1128]

never heard this epictetus quote!

[@joshrunner]

I relate to this so hard. The best conversations I've had when I've felt valued, I was focussing on THE OTHER PERSON!!!! DALE CARNEGIE STRIKES AGAIN!!!

[@dailyquotes1192]

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[@changein2365]

👊

[@ethangarz]

Making people feel good is a literal super power that far surpasses status and clout. Everyone’s human, give ‘em a good time

[@JosephJohnson-mm2bn]

"Just spread good vibes" - Couldn't be more spot on. Love your content Sinbad, keep smashing life

[@thesolution4326]

TLDW: Dress well, speak well, be kind, and be positive In the end, making friends just requires doing what our mothers taught us when we were 5 😂

[@c00Lify]

Not all mother's taught this to their children unfortunately

[@selfish2.0]

Being kind wont get yu women

[@rorschachs1889]

Tongue twisters point is on point when I'm talking to my friends sometimes I fumble to get the words out of my mouth it usually happens when a new person join the conversation who I'm not familiar with.. The video and editing is dope though..

[@adamdrake39]

Principle 4 is my favorite and most actionable. Great advise! I'm doing it. I learnt from a speech coach to day - 'Peter Piper picked a pack of pickled peppers'... but to do it with your tongue completely out of your mouth. Your spray saliva everywhere 😃 (not recommended to do around people!!) but damn afterwards, your pronunciation improves by like 30-40%.

[@thesublime7539]

You deserve way more subs man, keep up the great work!

[@Nemanjap995]

I really enjoyed the idea of spreading good vibes and making others around you feel good. We're often too occupied in our own heads, and feeling self-aware when there's no real need for it. And just making others feel good would, not only make you cool, and make people want to hang around you, but will also lift the entire mood of the room, and will make others more relaxed as well I believe.

[@josiahogaga6125]

You know Nikhil I was a bit skeptical with how much time you spread between each videos you make of recent... But every time you upload, the vibe you give, that sense of pride that you emit, that you have created something, created art; compared to your other video schedules in the past makes me happy as it seems you feel fulfilled... Props to your editors as well... Stay Safe...

[@magnaplated]

The production quality is so inspiring, man. It's been a real treat to see you reach such a profound level of expertise with your editing. Also, not sure if anyone else has told you, but I really miss your podcast episodes with Thomas! I need him back on the show!

[@abhinandansingh5598]

Same here....we really want another season of podcasts with him...

[@spookyskeletins]

Production value on this is insane. You've been absolutely killing it lately, keep it up, Nikhil.

[@Jed_Herne]

The vocal warmups are such a good point

[@TheFlam123]

Bro I've watched the first 41 seconds of this video and holy is the quality of your content so frickin good! Like genuinely, the music, the editing, the B-roll, the lighting. So fricking good and it's only been 41 seconds!! Been watching for about 3 years now, and it's mad inspiring seeing this form of consistent improvement over the years.

[@dallassurfersclub8872]

I love your true to your self mantra. I think it will make you live a happier life for sure. Nice job.

[@itsjusachannel6852]

You're amazing bro,you don't however how many people's lives you've changed. You should definitely feel proud of yourself

[@Denmosocial]

Highest quality footage during self-improvement speeches on KZbin

[@CaptainSinbad]

Hahaha

[@uchihadna920]

On Black and White Denmo so i only notice the HD🤫😋🙌🏿

[@joshcastle9257]

A lot to unpack in this video but it’s all on point. Will watch again 2 or 3 times to soak it all in You’re so right about giving off good vibrations and compliments etc, really aiming to do the same this year

[@djarogames]

I just did 10 minutes of vocal exercises and it improved my voice so much lol. I'm definitely going to be doing these every time I record a video because it sounds so much better.

[@victor.94jc]

The right video in the right time for me. Thank you Captain

[@playGEMJI]

0:43 - Fashion & Fitness 6:41 - Just Spread Good Vibes 10:38 - Be a High Vibration Person 14:08 - Tongue Twisters

[@BudLightBeerOfStarCommand]

Thought it was cool how you admitted things that you felt embarrassed about and are open to growth. Loving the mature direction!

[@incrahul6437]

I feel like I am growing up with you. I have been following you from years. your videos have changed, so does your mindset. Every time I go through life and change my mindset...... boom ...... you upload a video a week later which tells almost the same thing which I have figured it out. Greatness is coming.

[@demetriusmccray1574]

This editing is INSANE

[@ramrand9960]

I’d replace the lights with - creativity is here and now 🙌🏼

[@JoshRoosen]

Spot on gents! Thanks for making the time to make this content!

[@joshuastclairmusic]

I really resonate with your point about finding your own fitness/sport style. I always considered myself ‘not a sports guy’, more creatively/artistically focussed. But nowadays I go running, climbing, and practicing kung fu regularly. Feels very me!

[@anubhavforall]

I have realised that how important it is to be healthy and fit , not primarily for others but first for yourself, and tbh both aspects go hand in hand. I am trying to follow on the principles on the "100 best days of my life" video and tbh it's rewarding, it's new , and I feel good that I am striving on a purpose. 27 March is my birthday, I want to be at a better than where I am now :)) This is like a level up on that. I am going to follow on these :))

[@sunboii]

Link brah

[@pradeepvincentmusic]

Such a great video! Straight outta real life. Genuine AF 🔥

[@MasteryOrder]

Use great ideas to build yourself into a man of character and strength, a man of your word, skilful and with a purpose that also serves the ones around you. If you enjoy ideas about masculinity and mastery, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel. Challenge yourself with some concepts about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would admire. We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well. Looking forward to your points of view. All the best to you!

[@piotr2190]

Again and again I come back to this positive attitide for future even many things in my life just unexpectivly suffer. Thank You for everything you do.

[@blackshadow9033]

Your editing game is FIRE AF , keep it going captain. Also , would like video of your book recommendations and the books you are reading currently. Cheers.

[@Zimboprenuer]

Your content has matured

[@aleidius192]

Maybe if I watch enough Sinbad videos, one day a girl will talk to me.

[@virtuality2000]

This one's a banger! Love the part about being true to yourself in fitness.❤❤

[@AdministrativeResults]

This was a good watch.

[@karantrivedi8768]

Thanks for this vedio bhaiya..Your content is truly amazing and proven from all the levels...Sending you lots of good vibes from India..🙏

[@PabloHernandez-tf4do]

I like the idea of doing the fitness that expresses you the most. For the longest time I always hesitated on running even though I love dying from long distance runs so I would either just not run or make my runs short. Its only lately I've been embracing running by scheduling it in everyday along with weight lifting and it feels right that way

[@SteelShirt99]

I do the same , any training is always followed by a 15-20min medium to high tempo endurance

[@PabloHernandez-tf4do]

@@SteelShirt99 could you give me an example of high tempo endurance? I only know about running and the row machine

[@SteelShirt99]

@@PabloHernandez-tf4do 400metres or more, medium tempo, low rest. I do a set or two of like 2 reps of those.

[@Martick05545]

Glad to hear you’ve reached self actualization… Being the best you is truly the only way to live

[@vancetar5726]

My job demands a lot of social interactions. And levels of de-escalation skills. I found myself becoming more naturally charismatic as time has gone on. And I found myself accidentally doing all of these tips. I love your content and I enjoyed watching you grow as your creator keep it up man. Also a tip for the tongue twisters is wrapping a little too lyrically gifted artist, you won't be able to complete half the stuff they say if you don't have good control.

[@deargodwhyme]

It’s important to remember how little encouragement, validation or compliments most people get. A few years back, I decided to improve my social skills/try to spread good vibes. A few weeks later when I thought it was kinda a waste or corny, an acquaintance paused mid conversation and said “you know, you’re really easy to talk to”. I don’t think they’ll ever realize how much that meant to me in that moment.

[@AKS-_-]

should i even bother trying? Cuz here, complementing people doesn't exist (especially when you're just passing by and compliment someone out of nowhere) I feel that it'll just look forced

[@captainaxlerod1297]

The fact that you're sharing your mistakes and insecurities is so attractive man!

[@officialtbhoops]

Faith is the basis for everything, loved that point you made.

[@InnerStrengthMastery]

This is the easily the top self improvement channel on KZbin!

[@varunkhatri326]

I come here from my friend suggestion and you proved him right and it's worth it. love from punjab

[@GambitRaps]

I see you skillfully avoiding KZbin’s new content policy with that “frick” in the middle of the video

[@BigDog-kp2mj]

The quality of this video is off the charts. Do y’all not see how beautiful this is???

[@josephfinds]

Making people feel good is my super power. Grateful for that.

[@Adrik808]

I love implementing plyometric workouts into my fitness routine and I love it as long as you're active do whatever you want

[@SuperAlphaKirby]

I can tell this is a good self improvement channel because of your stance on fashion. So many other self improvement youtubers talk about becoming what THEY prefer, not what you prefer. Good vid boi.

[@globesurfer122]

One of your best videos yet Nikhil, seriously

[@JohanFitFoodie]

Complimenting authentically without expecting anything in return definitely is the way to go, basically no downside and both get positive energy ☀️😊

[@sma5605]

These are gold tips! I actually tried to abide by very similar principles when I was single. I never thought of tongue twisters though - I used to just accept that my first couple of interactions each day were going to be a bit awkward 😅

[@aye2chill1922]

The voice thing was on point. I do that for sure. I appreciate finding your channel.

[@tradingpsychologist]

Would love to see more videos on how you are dealing with your social anxiety and updates on your pickup skills! It's motivating.

[@hartmnundus4273]

Dude, I love the tongue twisters tip. I discovered the power of vocal warmups on my own, but I think the twisters will be a game changer!

[@TheYoutubeGOAT]

I absolutely love this video dude 🙏🏽 thank you Captain Sinbad

[@Contemporarywise]

That tongue twisters part is the most relatable for me. My voice never comes out.

[@jacobylee6039]

Thats so crazy you said your streak was 3 weeks cause I've been watching your recent videos and have been wondering if you still were practicing bramajhariya or not, or more so for long periods of time. When I first found your videos in the end of 2019 I know you were more steadfast, even making videos for when you released and it felt so good to go along the journey with you. It felt like we were growing together. You with your channel and myself in my own endeavors. Fast forward 2021 and I'm in a relationship and some of the sadhanas I had adopted began to be tested. It can be easy stick to certain ideals alone. But the true test is keeping to them when not alone and how to create the boundaries which aide us in doing so. It's like we create these morphic fields for others to embody what we are doing. Like the monkey test. You were embodying bramajhariya/ brahmachariya which allowed others to do so more easily simply by watching you and tuning in. Who am I kidding I'm preaching to the choir. Thanks Nik!

[@scottmcdowell27]

I think you are my favourite creator in the manosphere. You are also the most likeable to me. I appreciate that you have a good heart.

[@flowerpot8807]

You're a W youtuber bro, I don't sub often to people but you deserve more subscribers fam. Keep up the good work.

[@LindormAce]

Every video you make is like a mini movie makes me wanna get into editing 💯

[@mysteryman595]

Dude I loved the tip on tongue twisters. That resonated so much

[@1995yuda]

I'm an Introvert that forced himself to become a social butterfly and I approve of this video.

[@69faa69]

tips buddy?

[@g7chu]

I love the good vibes principle

[@akinadepraise2020]

Wow I don't comment on KZbin But you made me do this I really appreciate this video It's like you already know everything going on in my life, you're now stating the problems and the solutions. I'm so happy right now. I can really feel your energy and vibes. Thanks so much for this video

[@juanfernandez1585]

You are the best self-improvement youtuber out there man. Such a relatable person and down to earth as well. I'll definitely apply these principles, especially the tongue twister one as I tend to be inarticulate with my speech. Thank you brother!

[@NathanRiediger]

The vocal warm ups put a smile on my face

[@moinahmed1496]

Good to see how far you've come, this video was a delight to watch! Greatness is coming!

[@matheusdejesus]

the way you edit and made this video was just perfectly thought, great labor

[@mradjamesable]

Such a great video. I have to say it again. SUCH A GREAAAT VIDEO. Full of authenticity and integrity with pure nuggets of wisdom. Love it!❤

[@tejassmeshram]

One of your best videos, for me. "Just spread good vibes" resonates with me.

[@dislikereporter2271]

i am sure you are WELL educated in this subject mr sinbad

[@aldorodriguez7310]

The Secret low-key got me started in self-dev

[@greggoldkuhl4246]

Ive said it before, but you are such a cool self improvement leader. Greatness is coming!

[@mauryasameer]

Indian hipster bruce Wayne 😂 nice

[@TheFashionProfile]

honestly the last time i saw your video was a year before and your video just popped on my page and you really look attractive i guess i should give it a try too

[@saintsam7397]

havent seen you in a while, looking goooood man!

[@90secondideas]

You journey is incredible bro! I still remember those old noFap vids. Awesome! So proud

[@lilgrimzy6519]

this is so spot on! thanks for the video I already knew all of this but u reminded me of it :')

[@conlear]

Believe in yourself, that's the place to start !!

[@nitrodelta5580]

I really appreciate the content, dude. I feel like you're the KZbinr who's perspective I relate to the most, especially recently. There was I time (maybe like a a year ago) where, much like you, I was getting super into the Red Pill world watching people like Hamza and 1STMAN all the time. However more recently, I feel like I've started to come out of that phase and have begun to see some of the holes in what they preach (eg. its excessively pessimistic/nihilistic when it comes to people's nature) and with the recent content, I get the sense that you are starting to step away from that stuff as well. It's really great to have someone like you who cares deeply about self-improvement, much like I do, but still has a generally positive attitude towards people and life - all that negativity in the red pill world is really toxic after a certain point. I learned a lot from it, but I think there comes a time to leave that in the past.

[@Griseo-u2x]

Really appreciate you, Nikhil ❤

[@T3HL393nd]

I was feeling like shit, the girl I been seeing doesn't want to be with anymore. But just watching this video has helped me feel better. I will try to incorporate these into my life

[@ManpreetSL]

7:52 lol the chase on the left

[@joelgerman400]

This truly is sound advice. I am speaking from years of personal experience.

[@wavestation999]

"If you look good, you feel good." - Deion Sanders

[@suyagyaagrawal]

These were great and succinct. Good stuff!

[@Megan6772]

Glad to see you back!! 👌

[@yashpatel9048]

Super practible video, thanks

[@timovone2847]

advices so good, i saved both the video and the audio.

[@The7thLove]

This video is your absolute best by a long shot

[@HunterHemingway]

Thank you for this!

[@logandaniel3742]

Love the tounge twisters part! Gonna start practicing that on my way to work! :)

[@MasteryOrder]

Use great ideas to build yourself into a man of character and strength, a man of your word, skilful and with a purpose that also serves the ones around you. If you enjoy ideas about masculinity and mastery, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel. Challenge yourself with some concepts about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would admire. We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well. Looking forward to your points of view. All the best to you!

[@ty2]

My new favorite YouTiber! Keep up the good work G🔥🔥🔥

[@KeefeCarpenter]

This one’s gonna pop. Good video bro

[@PabloHernandez-tf4do]

I still remember when daddy sinbad was talking to us in the rain while telling us not to talk to him unless we've hit 90 days of nofap. Still trying to be able to talk to you one day

[@thegoodfellow41]

Look good, feel good.