How to Become a REAL Man in a STRANGE World!

[@UnrulyPeasant]

Dewayne always has a way of picking you up and dusting you off. What an inspiration.

[@greyfox3334]

Call me old-fashioned, homophobic, sexist and whatever you want, but the world needs more men like that...

[@shanedevon6447]

You need more men in your life? To each their own.

[@jimmiejay8174]

@@shanedevon6447idk if we’re reading the same thing but they definitely said the world, not them personally. I swear you people will make a situation out of anything on here

[@greyfox3334]

@@jimmiejay8174 The only situation that exists here is someone TOXIC who needs attention. Any INTELLIGENT person has the ability to understand my comment.

[@jimmiejay8174]

@@greyfox3334 I wasn’t coming at you. There’s a reason I directed my comment towards him.

[@greyfox3334]

@@jimmiejay8174 Don't worry, because I understand that you have nothing against me. However, it's easy to understand that @shanedevon6447 is someone PATHETIC who WANTS attention. I'm sorry but I refuse to waste my time and energy on someone as STUPID as him.

[@richcarpenter8671]

Home Run Trinity! You and this guy are butter and biscuits. Being a fatherless 68 year old who’s been ashamed all his life chasing money, knowing dam well none of it mattered, but did it anyway. Just now getting to see Gods Grace in my life. Better late than never!

[@b0z0__0.]

Amen, God bless you! Welcome to the family!❤

[@eriktukua2678]

The important thing is you got to that place. Later than others, but you got there.

[@karenf9137]

Life has bumps, but it’s still worth it.

[@rossmcmurdo3541]

It's all part of the journey man

[@imuneik]

I’m a retired woman now but I learned soooo much from my father about how to be a good human being…my father was a farmer and a hardworking honest man and all the good in me I learned from him. Sometimes I think I am more of a man than my brother because I LISTENED to my father! You guys are SPOT ON with what changed❤ This is so refreshing to see now. You give me hope. THANK YOU ❤❤❤for sharing this video. It is needed. This is also what is in my heart too… this is what my father taught me about too…. I believe it’s our FOUNDATIONAL spirit and we all need to hang on to it in order to balance our lives. Thanks again for bringing this out in the airwaves ❤❤❤😇 just remember Jesus said that when we run into the hard stuff remember that they hate him first and he took it for us so if we’re getting rough combats, that’s just Jesus at work. You guys are doing a great job.😊

[@LifeintheWest]

So glad you enjoyed it. I agree this type of just real talk is needed so badly.

[@bradneumann9075]

Point on

[@brysonbutler8942]

Amen the Lord Jesus Christ is the answer and present help in time of NEED!!!!!❤️✝️

[@oletimer5853]

Two of my favorite cowboys .. together in one place !!!!!!!

[@garyb4929]

Indeed!

[@thecowboy9698]

"You're not gonna respect yourself if you are not respectable... if you don’t respect yourself, you won't respect others around you, and if you don't respect others around you, you won't respect yourself - they go hand-in-hand." I believe Dwayne hit a homerun with that phrase, and I can personally attest to the TRUTH of that statement in my own life, because I have lived it, and I am on a journey of trying to better myself and my character so that I can not only be a better man to myself, to my family and friends, to the world at large.

[@birddogfarms6981]

Great video, gentlemen.....I'm the man I am today because of my Dad. Hardwork, integrity and lots of compassion. Dad taught me 'service to others" always came before "service to self". Thanks for posting, Trinity. Tom

[@pattybryd7228]

Duane is a very wise man. This is a good program. I enjoyed it. Thanks for sharing.

[@mcaleerranching1808]

Good on you Trinity! I think Dewayne needed someone to tell him in person that he was delivering a good message. Keep telling the West’s story.

[@supergravity66]

"A good man is born to serve". Great conversation! It was great to see both of you together!

[@davidmonnin2792]

Two good men. Wise words. Thanks

[@clifffromme6162]

Hope you and Dwayne take this as a compliment, yall would be considered as normal guys compared to all the ww2 vets that were my dad's age, those guys were really grounded

[@sumatrican5990]

It all starts and ends with respect

[@know-a-guy]

Hey Trinity, I follow both of you men and to see y’all together is solid gold. I’ve noticed that anytime a man answers how many years they’ve been married there’s a pause between the first number and 2nd. I’ve been married 30…. Ah 6 years. 😂 Live a God 1st life brother.

[@nmelkhunter1]

Great talk. I especially liked the point made on charitable giving. It’s easy to write a check to a charity, it’s another to give time to a charity. After all, the time we have on earth is finite. Again, great talk.

[@ivanloera6190]

God bless ya'll and specially the ones who's trying to find a way to grow as good people!! ❤🙏

[@lestercamp7381]

Thank you for this message and wisdom. This message is golden. (I’m 66 years old and still growing).

[@kaiserlink7644]

I haven’t watched your channel lately but this one popped up and I clicked on it. Please do these collaborations again you guys are lightning in a bottle together! There’s so much to be taken from this that anyone could take if they just assess themselves honestly. I gotta watch you guys more again

[@Mendezfarriercompany306]

It took me 37 years old to get to where I am. I learned by hurt and trial, but it wouldn't mean a thing if christ was not in my heart. That's why a man can be protector provider prophet and priest

[@shanedevon6447]

Would Allah & Mohammod work?

[@mountaintruth1deeds533]

If it was a "cleverly devised fable" what is your reasoning then🤔

[@Mendezfarriercompany306]

@shanedevon6447 no because they did not die on the cross and rise three days after and now sit at the right hand of the father for me.

[@sherrimagness9040]

So proud i raised a real man. love this video

[@smille12]

Gents, just thank you . I needed to hear this today, praise God

[@kathleenredick275]

Besides keeping that vow (I don't disagree), couples tend to stop 'courting'. Too many people say they "fell out of love". Nope. You forgot to keep doing the things (time together and 'serving' each other) that keep "love" alive.

[@teriwadding5041]

My dad was a deep sea diver in the 60's so he was away from home most of the time. I grew up with morals from John Wayne movies, which I am grateful for. This ga ve me ideas for modern times. Thanks

[@usmanmanni786]

Live in the word of God without ego like self righteousness.

[@rnsanders7834]

Thanks for sharing! Loved the conversation. Always good to hear others perspectives on real life. Love your interviews!

[@terrythornock6468]

Absolutely awesome and amazing briefing!!!!! Thank you so much Trinity and Duane!!!!! You guys are two of the best people on social media because you both are blessed with so much common horse sense and Self Awareness (SA), it makes you both such a pleasure to listen to!!!! You both credit God, the Father first and your dear, loving spouse second!!!! If every man put God, the Father first in their life and tried to first please God and secondly, please their wife, oh how much more happiness and success we would have on this planet!!!!

[@mud72]

You aren't the contents of your wallet but the contents of your character,mindset & willingness to step up & help those in your community,with or without focusing on reimbursement but being a moralistic, gentleman your parents prayed for you to be... just a opinion but you know in your heart that you Tried to leave the world a better place than it was before your hard work and care was given in a state of Care/Love for your fellow countrywomen and men.

[@maggietaskila8606]

I am not a man but I believe these principles hold true for everyone.

[@sharonpatriot6813]

This is some outstanding wisdom regarding ones character and their ability to keep their word, to honor their wedding vows. Care enough about your spouse's well being to evaluate yourself and adjust accordingly. The Bible is the ultimate source for wisdom in living a peaceful and joy filled life. God bless you cowboys 💞🙏

[@JamesHawkeYouTube]

A man needs to stand his ground and never tolerate disrespect. Live by the principles God placed in all our hearts, love, truth, justice, courage, kindness, and seek wisdom over fickle knowledge. You will live well and authentically.

[@-qj6ps]

Tolerating disrespect is what god placed in our hearts though. The world tells you to be affected by disrespect. Jesus allowed men to mock him openly even in his last moments.

[@MuleSkinnerWS]

Great video. Authentic and edifying conversation. I went to Dewayne's school. Hes the real deal.

[@nohalfwayjourney]

Love this! Thanks to Trinity and DeWayne. Super value to calling out the jackwagons and helping those who need it. Thank you.

[@RickOR]

Great video. I really enjoyed listening to it. Unfortunately, I grew up without a dad, and life has been an uphill battle for me. I was the kid who got beat up, picked on, and never fit in. I was a loner as I grew up, and don’t have any friends. I feel empty inside not having a dad, or positive male influence to ask questions to. I feel like I have missed out on a lot in life when it comes to man stuff. Thank you for your talk, and giving me some great advice. Keep up the good work.

[@hereintranzit]

Awesome video ! God bless you both and everyone watching this.

[@nursetamee]

My favorite line..."You vow a vow" ☺️ Such good advice to men annnd women how to have good character.

[@diggetydogdoggetydoo]

Thank you! That was really awesome. I especially appreciate what you said about what our reasons for giving to others should be and about looking at our own character and how it affects others.

[@barbaraberrier8840]

Thank you for sharing this video.

[@AT-ch5cg]

Dewayne and Trinity in the same room! Now that’s a gathering I would love to have been a part of!

[@245683dv]

An excellent video Trinity, thank you so much. Dewayne and yourself are important and valuable role models with sage advice that is so desperately needed at the moment. Don't underestimate the positive impact you have on people, myself most definitely included. Thanks for all you do. Love your channel. 🖖

[@joyfisher2128]

I have been following you on FB for a bit but never watched one of the videos before today. I thought this sounded like it could be a great video but I was also a little bit afraid of the kind of conversation this might be. I think men and women are very different in so many ways and we are often very confused by the other but I also think that "real men" show vulnerability and have deep, thoughtful conversations and aren't afraid to cry when they are strong leaders, not the opposite. I thought this was a fantastic conversation to be a fly on the wall for and, in so many ways, it applies to simply being a good human, not just a man. As a woman, I think a lot about character and what that means in life and I have really been thinking so much lately about feelings and how hard it is not to immediately act on them when the going gets tough and you just want to do the easy thing to satisfying your immediate cravings so you can "feel better" and/or make the hard feelings go away. Also thinking about how that applies to marriage over the long term as well. So I was really floored to hear y'all discussing that very idea! I definitely was NOT expecting that when I clicked play. If being a real man means leading by example, being compassionate and being able to include everyone, more than just your "traditional" gender, in your conversations, then y'all are doing an amazing job in my book!

[@dougeisenhard6816]

This is an amazing convo and total confirmation of a good group of my friends lives. And the advice is excellent and God inspired. Thank you for sharing

[@sigrid2402]

Wow! This is Gold. Well said.

[@tedboughter-dornfeld5281]

Thank you gents. There are good people, who are wise in the world. There are good men, who try to stand for the right things. This is our reminder. You two men are examples. We are thankful.

[@JMJ-Jim]

My favorite video you've done. Hope y'all can meet up again for another video.

[@cindywhalen5768]

Thank you for sharing so many people need this. So spot on thank you gentleman for this Godly input.❤🙂

[@garyb4929]

Trinity: A excellent collaboration of you & Dwayne. I'm on the other side of young,lol; I came to you'lls channels to reminiscent about my younger years around ranching lifestyle & discovered folks I can share my values with, as a person in Christ. Blessings to you both.

[@sharoneverall9419]

Best interview yet but also a person I follow already! I think he might have been my soulmate

[@bowhntr877]

Great video trinity I'd have to say it's 1 of the better ones You guys together are a wealth of knowledge You definitely open my eyes to a lot of things And I thank you for that

[@singlefin1212]

What a wonderful conversation between two thoughtful well spoken individuals. I am somewhat less of a Butt Head for listening. Thank you.

[@Toddington444]

Sounds like a talk with pops back in the day. He passed in 2021. Only 50 but he taught me a few things. Enjoy your evening boys

[@beaujohnson2021]

Loved the iphone analogy. So true.

[@jackkeeble9272]

Dang great video man thanks, love it 👍

[@DavontaSparkman]

I love this channel ! I’ve been watching all of his videos since you introduced him the other week . He’s a safe place . He reminds me of my papa and “grandpa Jack “ from the show “Heartland “! So good !

[@RosietheRiveter11]

I was moved by the notion of actively helping others, not just giving money. More is asked of me then just writing a check. I've been giving this much thought recently then listening to this video today was God's way of giving me an answer that I didn't know I was asking.

[@imuneik]

I had to share this on X because this is SO ON POINT!😮❤❤❤❤❤

[@blackdiamond7708]

❤🎉 I love both these men but I'm not on social media so thank you for doing that!! 😊❤️

[@mrstringtwister4397]

Good video, thoroughly enjoyed listening to both of your perspectives. Cant say I agree with everything said, but sure cant fault either of you for saying it.. A lot of wisdom shared.

[@weaverzimmerman8509]

The Bible promoted balance I think the only way we can have more balanced in our life to come more like Jesus Thank you for the podcast

[@josephbaker7457]

Trinity, thank you guys for this video. I really needed to hear it. It hit home for me. God bless you.

[@ifronnin]

When I moved out of my parents house at eighteen I was too proud to ask for help with money, or even beef or raw milk from my parent’s farm (they aren’t well off either, although now they’re stable financially). It got to the point that I had nothing to eat but watercress from a cow pasture and ranch dressing. It’s kept me humble and taught me to never be that broke again. I’ll take any morally acceptable job to keep from that level of being broke.

[@captainstewart-burton9120]

95% love. Though when a man says this is just how I am, this is my temper and I can’t change it but I can control it. He is deciding that temper to always be there, as well as the control. You may choose for the temper to not be there but that’s a major mind shift. We are who we think we are.

[@jerrytaylor7935]

Thoughtful points, gentlemen!

[@bradquigley3676]

Great talk gents!

[@anecetohernandez8910]

Good morning I just found your channel and I want to say that you are both too fine men upstanding upright not perfect but striving for excellence in the best way you both know how I order my life that way with my family and I’m grateful to have found this channel God bless you both. Here’s to real men.

[@juliepipkins4227]

I have shared your wonderful video, ty

[@eddmtz4028]

I needed this conversation

[@rossmcgrath4361]

This is a great follow up to the first video you two did. You're both great men. I recently relocated to Livingston Montana after retiring from the military and if you'd ever be willing to have me over to your place, I would love to help you with anything you need help with. As an aspiring rancher/farmer, any opportunity for exposure and possibility to help others is something I would like to take advantage of. Thank you for all you do on this channel.

[@kerry4660]

right on! it's all about the way they are raised! w/o positive male role model or mentor

[@toddshamblin2553]

I thank both of you for this video

[@maggietaskila8606]

Love is a verb.

[@melaniehellum1281]

Interesting video. Enjoyed it.

[@earlestes8649]

67 in July and I never knew my father, and met my mother for the first time when I was about 8. I’ve raised two kids girl and boy respectively I vowed to raise them in church been married now for 47 years in October

[@two-strokesmoke7289]

Ego is dangerous for sure, we all have challenges in that area. (my opinion)

[@smokeydog67]

There are more broken homes without one parent or the other but you are spot on about a boy needing the male influence in their lives. This coddle thing has happened to every kid in this country, most have no respect for themselves let alone anyone else. Society has let down our own children, values have become a joke to younger generations. It’s heartbreaking to see what we have become.

[@marriettavandenberg7639]

Thank you this video helped me a lot

[@Mynx5050]

Two of my favorit men! Much love❤

[@Euthymia2020]

We’ve been lied to our whole lives. “We need the truth” ain’t that the truth!!

[@KarenG55]

The old saying "Money does not make the man" still applies. And wow, that cigar.

[@tonybocelli1754]

All young men are a product of their environments. An emotionally stable and secure two parent family with good moral’s, values and virtues combined with foundational stoic wisdom being utilized in their home schooling creates a strong sense of self worth and a yearning for discovery of their own vision, mission and purpose in life. Young men need strong morally principled masculine role models and mentors to rely upon for the life experience, earned wisdom and virtuous attributes they possess and live their live by as a guiding light to anchor and model themselves after on their journey.

[@CrossTimbersSon]

I appreciate this topic, it is fascinating how it seems, that as image bearers we most often mirror and reflect the God (or gods) that we worship. This happens unconsciously. Our theology effects our reflection.

[@colinkamoda9502]

There wasn't a false word spoken, but my weakness makes me feel I will never meet these standards for a "good man". I have felt this way for a while, and I have more or less decided was that I would stay away from society as much as possible. Not so much for my sake, but to reduce the negative affect on others around me. I know I could go have friends and try to have relationships with people, but it would inevitably only cause pain and unnecessary heartache when I end up being me.

[@krakoosh1]

Happiness comes from how you feel. Joy comes from a faith in God. Character is what you are when no one is looking. From what hear, this stuff applies to women also.

[@otcprepper645]

Thank you Trinity!

[@ryanscott884]

Thank you Dwayne for doing what you do where do you get your cigars

[@realtalk2036]

There are many versions of a man... money can't be your God but a man feels more like a man when he can provide for his family... one of the best explanations of a man xan be seen in the Original Magnificent 7

[@JeremiahCommons]

I agree to all this EXCEPT for when dealing with women like you hear on the KZbinr SSM channel (will show with YT search ssm) strong successful men is the main channel.

[@nancybraybrooks5509]

more and more i hear abt men’s insecurity. i was surprised when i first heard that. i struggle with the fact that some use that for an excuse.

[@bickabraham2397]

Enjoy your platform Trinity & your name is great also!

[@Good2AT]

This world MUST get back to REAL MEN AND WOMEN!

[@kathyrobbins6668]

I grew up in the 60's. Women my age were hood winked--an intire generation lost. I try to do what needs to be done because men are not men anymore. I've never found the Marlbrough man mixed with a good measure of McClintock and a little Jimmy Stewart thrown in. I am a retired nurse and I use to tell my nursing friends, "You can keep your interns, give me a man with a yellow pencil behind his ear with the intent of using it!"

[@jeffcoon9506]

Great video God first and then you can really find yourself . Because life is not fair but it is how you deal with it that matters . Thanks for the videos

[@RasDoc89]

Thank you 🙏

[@shawnbruce6934]

Great video!

[@Sp1n3c]

great insight

[@BenEthridge]

There's one person I'll never be able to get away from...Me. So if I'm not happy with Me, it's because I haven't been doing what I should do to get along with myself, let alone anyone else. Yes I'm the hardest critic of myself. I often have to be aware of just how hard I'm being on myself. I also try to get along with anyone who is capable of getting along with, if not I just let them be. There's one rule I live by, if I say or tell you I'm going to do something and then for some reason find that I can't I'll let you know why as soon as possible. A phone call goes a long ways with me, I figure that works both ways. My word is my bond and if my word isn't any good well what does that say about me. You absolutely cannot get along with everyone, but that doesn't mean you can't try.... Gday

[@steveallen2681]

Thanks for your video ,very good

[@John-5737]

For me a big reason why I take all these negative internet comments so seriously is because I can't understand why people are this mean completely unnecessarily. I just completely can't comprehend why so instead of judging them I'm always putting it on me thinking maybe they're right and I'm judging me too because I'm thinking of them too high because of this core lack of understandment of how a person can be like this. I really can't feel myself inside people with such a behavior I just completely don't get it. And that's what's making me very insecure because it feels so injustice, and makes me doubt myself until I go crazy.

[@Jam-m7m]

You don’t have to be a cowboy to be sexy. But it helps. 😂. I have great hair so a cowboy hat is not necessary. I know what sexy is. It’s doing dishes and changing diapers. Just don’t step over your clutter as you pass by. Pick it up.. talk and communicate with your spouse, tell them your needs. Communication is a necessary ❤

[@clifffromme6162]

You two guys are what this country is based on , I'm a year older than Dwayne but yall are what is called young old men by the old timers. Have rode horses brought in off wheat pastures to get started again, only real men know what it's like to get on a pony like caliber, you're the most alive you'll ever be and the closest to the lord in my opinion

[@potatopirate5557]

Believe me, most single moms wish we had a good man in our life who would spend time with their kids. I believe its important for sons and daughters. I know they exist, I just don't know any. Good examples who are actually safe and have time to give are few and far between, unfortunately.

[@EsthersMedia]

Good job❤thank you