How to believe you’ll find love (again)

[@MrTheomighty1]

I already have found love again and this new lady is way way way better than my ex whom I tried all sorts of manifestations to get her back and no I look back I was manifesting an even better relationship, someone whom actually wants me for me

[@SusanWinter]

YAY!!!!!!! Thanks for sharing this note of optimism for everyone to read.

[@zaink7037]

Really happy for you 😊. Hope the same happens for me and others who've are going through heartbreak 🙏

[@GopNik88]

That's cute

[@dominiccobb6470]

That's awesome!

[@surrealfeline]

Where do you even meet people anymore? Im at the mercy of dating sites and theyve all pretty much failed me.

[@sonyamoste]

I watch a lot of coaches every day. You are by far best; your heart comes through. thank you.

[@SusanWinter]

Sonya, you are too kind! Thank you for your support.

[@oscarwilliamson1264]

Sonya monste, you're so sweet and so cute❤❤❤❤❤❤.I will be glad to know you more.

[@acearley4973]

True

[@TonyEvans124]

Hello

[@Vran4743]

Nah, she's like a mother figure to all of us at this point. Especially, if you couldn't go to your actual mother to ask her for advice on such matters. Thank you.

[@nourelhudazuraiki5400]

I've never been in love with someone, the love I had to people in my life was never been reciprocated, I didn't lose hope.. and it hurts sometimes but I always try to find the beauty in everything, I believe when I meet the love of my life I'll realize that it was worth waiting for. Thank you Susan, you're like a life savor and I love you.

[@SusanWinter]

OH...thank you for this!!

[@MelissaGarza]

Speechless VIsual Productions for me if they have to earn my love it was really never there in the first place. My love is not earned it is freely given. Unfortunately most men and others operate on having to earn. When I like someone I know. My love is not for sale.

[@nourelhudazuraiki5400]

@@SpeechlessVisualProductions You are right. The love I had for people was unrequited love, I either like their personality, minds or something about them but never because of something they did to me. Even when I think I did, I misinterpreted all the signs they were giving me and understood them in a way that they probably liked me or loved me, they would be going hot and cold with me and it's frustrating but right now I'm totally convinced that whoever likes me will make it clear and obvious so I won't be at the stage of wondering whether if they did or not. I'm healing now, letting them go is the hardest because there's always something inside you that's telling you there might be hope but obviously it's your heart who's saying that..

[@MelissaGarza]

Speechless VIsual Productions they are the best! Thank you!

[@tjkscorpion]

This is what I went through but everytime I tried to hold on to hope it would bite me in the butt

[@thelittleetherealghost]

You are just fantastic, thank you very much for all you do. I’m in a very hard place right now- I just escaped an abusive narcissistic relationship and don’t really have any great opportunities to meet new people right now so I’m in a lot of emotional pain, but this actually helped calm me down and make me feel more hopeful. Very seriously, thank you.

[@PateJP1986]

Great timing with this video! I broke up with my GF about a month ago and we met today, because I wanted to make clear that staying friends or even keeping in contact would be too painful for me. Our relationship was a real roller coaster and she was an energy vampire who made me feel emotionally drained. Despite the fact that I knew from the beginning that she was full of red flags and some other oddities, I miss her and our happy moments. I'm afraid that I won't experience such passion and even love that I felt with her. Seeing this video gives me hope that there is something better beyond the horizon waiting for me. Maybe something more peaceful and harmonious.

[@ehiggins360]

theraisin No doubt - make room in your life for that person, make yourself the best version of yourself for that person, and put out your “order” to the universe for that person. That person will then appear in your life because you have manifested them through your actions and beliefs.

[@theelegantstylist]

There really is. I have been where you are right now and it feels impossible to believe that you will ever feel more strongly than you do for this person. Give yourself time and practise letting go every day. Spend the time doing the inner growth so you're open and ready...because love will come again. As long as you show the universe that you are open and ready for it.

[@imonmyway317]

@@theelegantstylist Wise words... and so true.

[@Jujuu257]

I will watch this video a thousand times if I have to. I’m now 7 months after my recent break up and both of us thought we had found the one in eachother. But turns out, we’re just not THE fit. I’m heartbroken about it and it’s really tough for me to let go of everything I had imagined for us. I’m trying to believe I can have it all, with another man. Some days I’m so so down. But little spurts of trust in the universe are there. Thank you for your words!

[@Moespeaks]

How are you doing now? Has love re-entered your life again? I am asking as I am also a few months post break up and really want to believe that there is someone for me

[@Jujuu257]

@@Moespeaks maybe it’s not what you want to hear. But I have found love all around me, and most importantly, within myself. There is no new partner because I haven’t dated or met anyone who fits. I have new standards. I’m learning to like and to love myself. I preserve my piece. Sometimes I think of the past of course and it’s a weird feeling. But there’s so much love out there. And when I can see someone like me walking this earth, then I know there will be someone who’s my equal. If that makes sense :D

[@kelpiegirl]

Need to stop looking, and living fully in your truth. Then love will find you.

[@UnexpectedWonder]

@@SpeechlessVisualProductions I feel ya on that.

[@tunanocrust5089]

Joseph Marton love will find you. The one time I did experience true love I left my comfort zone to hang out with a friend and this 1 girl, I didn’t talk to her much because I like to keep to myself and that intrigued her to open up and start a conversation with me. One conversation I hadn’t realized started my first love, until we left. I was fascinated by her and I saw her in these baggy pants with big jacket and hardly knew much about her but she had me wrapped around her finger. I told my friend what I though about her and wished I could talk to her again, and it happened. She took the time out of her day to find out how to contact me and the rest was history. What I wrote may sound corny but I hope it helps you out because I was once like you. Whether you have anxiety, depression, or whatever else someone is out looking for everything you have to offer.

[@tunanocrust5089]

Joseph Marton live everyday like your last. I’m really sorry to hear about that but just know I have my hopes up for you and I really do believe in just a short amount of time you can find it. You seem like an intelligent person and with your reply I can tell you have a good heart. That alone will be enough for the right person, but either way I wish you the best of luck and keep your head up

[@tunanocrust5089]

Joseph Marton that’s all that matters is that you’re happy, not a problem at all I’m tired of seeing the world not get along. Have a great day

[@carolineh1171]

This made me feel a LOT better today

[@richardmcguinn732]

And hope you’ve found peace and happiness again? You’ve got such an amazing and gorgeous profile pics to be honest.

[@k.w.1459]

Maybe people should stop using a “relationship” as a barometer for a worthy life?

[@SusanWinter]

K. W. So true

[@MikeJackson690]

I wish I could but I'm just not used to being single. Since turning 18 (I'm 32 now) I am now in my longest period as a single adult (14 months), but it feels like 5 minutes. It's strange territory for me, I'm not used to be alone. However, I want to feel complete and self-sufficient before I, hopefully, find someone new, but honestly not sure I can achieve that. I regret not getting to know myself better when I was a young adult. Instead, I wasted that time with someone who was highly toxic and just plain wrong for me.

[@k.w.1459]

General Waste I find it odd that you know exactly how long you’ve been single for the last twenty years. Hate to sound harsh but the things you wrote IMO sound like that of a broken person who could probably use some counseling or therapy and just general life experiences or taking some adult edu classes to broaden your horizons.

[@adjoaosei87]

I don’t think the majority of single people who wish to find a mate are doing this. We all deserve to experience the wonderful and unique feeling of being in love - this doesn’t mean that it’s become the only measure of worth.

[@UnexpectedWonder]

Who says we're attaching self-worth to it? Could it be that it's more of feeling incomplete or not fully experiencing a passionate desire?

[@moonbysa]

"Why would you think that's eradicated from your life?" Love your words Susan!

[@SusanWinter]

😊😊

[@richardeidemiller6739]

Because I've been divorced for 22 years and it hasn't come around again for me?

[@jeffreycheng5984]

Love has been eradicated from my life. Never Again. IDGAF.

[@MonicaSancio]

I had such a laugh when you said, "... most of us would have done by 6th grade..." 😂😂What I loved the most is: "... We have to remember it is a mental discipline. Teaching ourselves to expect good, to see good, to acknowledge happy positive... This is a MENTAL DISCIPLINE... No different than going to the gym and doing 100 set of abs or whatever your routine is. It's a muscle. There is a mental muscularity... " You are so brilliant, beautiful & successful, love you Susan! 🙌💜💖

[@SusanWinter]

Monica Sancio Thank you thank you thank you!

[@shaguftaiqbal745]

Susan it has been a tough few months, for I have been pining for my ex to return for good but to no avail. I have been avoiding love altogether, muting the posts of my friends and their partners but what you mentioned about energy has really lead me to believe that turning my back on love will not bring about love or attract positive energy. Instead, you have taught me that one mustn’t be afraid but rather one must fight fear with hope. And for that I am extremely grateful! Love from Liverpool, UK 🇬🇧

[@SusanWinter]

Generic User I’m thrilled to read this. This is huge advancement on your part. Keep the faith!

[@MiaCarter7]

Relationships and singleness both just hurt so bad lol. Really fighting to stay positive

[@dylanpower1438]

I’m 18. Never had a relationship. I just can’t imagine someone actually choosing me. I just feel like I’m not made for love

[@sonyavincent7450]

You're very cute, and even if you were not, you will still find love if you want it.

[@InsomnivityEntertainment]

Another timely video relevant to my current situation, thank you Susan Its so much harder to be a hopeless romantic in an era of casual dating/sex, being over 30(M)

[@SusanWinter]

John C I agree that the job is daunting now. But just because casual and meaningless has become a norm for some people, it doesn’t mean that there aren’t an Enormous amount of others Who are looking for the same as you are. Have you read how many comments people are writing about wanting something real and meaningful? So though it feels like you’re the only one at times, you are not. I hope this helps.

[@littleman787]

I am exactly the same. Feeling very hopeless and I’m much too sensitive for modern dating/love

[@johnbehneman1546]

Thank you, Susan !!!! I keep my vibration high and my mindset on marriage. In the meantime, I just build friends. Then I focus on my dreams and goals. I have learned to be Happily Single !!!! LOL!!!

[@SusanWinter]

John Behneman What you’ve stated is the perfect strategy for magnifying Love. Absolutely brilliant.

[@usernamelady8030]

How do u have dreams and goals? I think i lost them.. and don’t see the point

[@amethystthescientist7716]

Love is always present. If you notice it. Then it builds. Thank you very helpful video!!

[@oscarwilliamson1264]

Amethyst Thescientist,you are so beautiful and so cute.I will be glad to know you more

[@angelastewart7327]

Yes with the virus and staying in I was thinking about when/how love may come along again. Thanks, this was very helpful.

[@acearley4973]

I am really looking for this love, I really want to experience it

[@richardmcguinn732]

Hope you’ve found peace and happiness again?

[@ryanmiller6605]

Susan, I was broken up with right at the beginning of the quarantine period by my partner of almost 2 years, who I truly loved. I so, so needed to hear your message in this video. Thank you.

[@ShelleyG1014]

Thank you, Susan. This video opened my mind to accept if any one thing has happened for me once it can and will happen again if I want it and stay open to receive it.

[@darrenmcintosh8471]

The love you seek allready resides within you its not outside of you the love you feel for another is just a reflection of the love that allready resides within that you feel for your self thats why they say you cant love another untill you love your self no searching is needed when you dont Pursue you attract everything reside within we been lie to and told to look outside the box we should be living life from the inside out not from the outside in

[@lenisecastro2835]

Excellent!! Absolutely excellent! I have hope now. Thank you Susan! 👏🏻👏🏻

[@georgemelvin588]

Smiles, hi Lenise ☺️🌺

[@richardmcguinn732]

Hope you’ve found peace and happiness again?

[@libbynovotny9979]

Susan, this is so uplifting now. i had love before and so hope I can find it again, great video and I want to be loved for me ....what I look like, my beliefs, who i am....thanks I toohave seen great guys who really love their partners....

[@SusanWinter]

Libby Novotny Thank you

[@bennellux]

Your words bring back my faith ... thank you

[@SusanWinter]

💓

[@Zipittydodah]

Thank you for your encouragement and perspective, Susan. I don't ever give up hope for love again. In the meantime, I am loving to myself. xoxo ❤❤

[@oscarwilliamson1264]

Zipittydodah,your comment touched my heart and I will be glad to know you more

[@oscarwilliamson1264]

I'm Oscar Williamson from Alabama,Usa.You?

[@richardmcguinn732]

@Carolina Lamar That’s the best everyone can do for themselves for the time been.

[@ln_elen]

My ex boyfriend broke up with me because of long distance relationship and because he found himself falling in love with someone else. I tried to give him a chance to fix things but he didn’t try to make things right again. It’s been a month but the wound is still there and I hope I’ll find a true love someday.

[@ronikayaghooby4313]

wow Susan is so knowledgeable on all the topics she speaks on, loveeee your channel!

[@SusanWinter]

Ronika Yaghooby So glad to hear you love this channel!

[@lucychild]

Saw this last night and had a dream after where you came to me with a message to honor myself and protect my heart. Love the work you do! Bless you xoxo!!!

[@SusanWinter]

Thanks Lucy

[@oscarwilliamson1264]

Lucy child,your comment is really a heart touching one❤❤❤❤❤.

[@loveinautumn3978]

@@oscarwilliamson1264 yes!

[@Buijoo]

I actually really needed this, thank you Susan.

[@SusanWinter]

Steven, I love it when I read that the timing was perfect!! Don't give up hope.

[@Buijoo]

@@SusanWinter Thanks again Susan, I'll open up my heart again- I've been wanting to

[@DawnFromNZ]

An uplifting video, Susan. Thank you. 😊

[@ليناوصاف]

I found him after a heart break just when I thought I won't survive that ,I'll never open my heart again,and he gave me hope, I loved again and trust me It was 100000 better than anything I ever imagined or wanted ,only to lose him for death and I'm back here trying to find hope in this darkness 💔Rest in peace Islam you mean the world to me I never had enough time with you to enjoy your love 😭💔he gave me great moments it hurts I just want hope because I feel I won't find someone as good as him💔 and it kills me I'll always remember him but I don't want to be lonely and never experience those feelings again 😭

[@CC-br9qg]

i needed to hear this especially today. Thank you so much.

[@SusanWinter]

C C Hi CC. wonderful to hear from you thank you

[@_Hunar_]

i was in a year long relationship. We entered long distance relationship as she got a great opportunity abroad. we hugged all night knowing we will meet again. she left me for a guy she met at her new office. told me she has physical needs and I am not there. I begged her to stay, next day I saw her uploading pictures with that guy in a hotel room. It has been 6 months, I have been drowning and begging people to help me. I am unable to come out of this. This makes me feel like I am half a man, as she left me for someone better. I believed in us.

[@julietegbogota5934]

Please remove that mindset about her meeting someone better, he isn't better than you. You will be fine, I know it isn't easy, but eventually you will heal completely and move on. By then she will be nothing more than a memory. So sorry

[@_Hunar_]

@@julietegbogota5934 I spoke to her yesterday, she said she has physical needs and I'm not there due to long distance. She is leaving me because of that. I get creeps, is it easy to just replace someone who has been their for you for 10 years. You've grown together and yet!?

[@eml3077]

The way you explained this wow I'm having an "aha moment"! You are so smart Susan 💖

[@penelopeplimsoul3617]

You're so inspiring. We really need you now more than ever. These are trying times.

[@melissaa.7970]

You are absolutely lovely. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and knowledge. It’s refreshing in times like these. Stay blessed, stay safe. 💛🙏🏼

[@SusanWinter]

Melisssa, you're too kind. Thank you!

[@hiltoncollins4345]

How are you doing today Melissa A? Its really nice having you on here .. I saw your profile on here and i think we definitely are on the same page on many levels. Trust, communication, loving, honoring, understanding, patience and respecting your partner. So crucial to provide balance. This is what creates such great chemistry between two people that are committed to one another.

[@moonlightstargem1006]

I do believe you can attract the things you truly want but u have to do deep inner work & try to imagine what a life like that would truly look like & feel how it is to have that & understand how to get there. By doing the inner work & changing ur inner energy by shadow working through ur thoughts and emotions, life events, personal relationships & work ethic etc…and then go from there. And it is continual work until you end up in the reality you’ve always dreamed of. Believe it is a possible reality. And change your dream as you see fit as nothing is set in stone ;)

[@milanadran8350]

This makes sense to me now,now i realize everything.you're absolutely right.now im seriously accept what had happen with my x.thanks

[@deborahchristine6855]

You are such an encouragement, so I wanted to be an encouragement back to you. I just encouraged a friend with these words from God's Spirit inside me and thought I would pass them on to you and others as well .....I mean seriously, what more valuable thing do we have to do with our time right now than encourage each other!! 🤗 "💗 one last note, don't deal with the future now. God's grace is sufficient for today. And God's grace will abound tomorrow. When we think of the future, we can only project guesses and we have no clue about the ways God will show up when the future gets here. This produces anxiety. That's why you have to stay in the moment. Because in the moment, you can experience first hand God's grace working as you are living it. When thoughts of the Future come into your head, they must be thoughts of God's Promises that he will always be with you and never forsake you. It doesn't mean that everything you go through will be easy. Just as the Israelites were in captivity in Egypt, it was hard on them but it was designed for their ultimate good. And coronavirus effects are hard, but I believe with all my spirit that it will ultimately produce more good than harm, that it is meant to shape something that God is trying to produce and the Bible is clear that he is always intending for our ultimate good. So that means that for those who have accepted Jesus Christ as their Savior, and draw near to Him in communion, that God will be with you always to see you through even the roughest times. I have had decades of extremely rough times and I can tell you that God is good, and God is comforting through it all oh, and God gives favor to those who love him, and God always comes to comfort in some way or another. So live in the moment. Because in the moment you have in your possession right now God's grace and comfort and provision for the day at hand. It is impossible to stock up on these things ahead of time. The only things you can stock up on is Faith and Hope through the hearing of the Word of God. Everything else is material. Everything else is in God's hands. But thank God that it is, because that is how we know it will be more than okay. We just need to let God lead and be willing to adapt and trust him and let him decide our future instead of trying to control everything in our own strength. We are humbled by trials and that is a good thing. God can work with that. God can make brilliant results out of the humble man. The thing about trials is that they are meant to wake us up and self-evaluate. God cares about our eternal existence and our movement in the right direction towards that. trials cause a lot of people to reach out in the correct and beneficial direction. It allows us to introspect where are spiritual weaknesses are. And if we can keep ourselves from getting distracted from the details of the trials, if we can keep all those distractions away and get down to the ultimate question of, "How do I need to grow during this situation? What is God trying to show me?" Then the trial can do what it was meant to do. For many of us trials are a time of realizing where trust in God and his Plan lacks, and fear rises up. But the Bible tells us 365 times, one for each day of the year, not to fear. Why? Because the Bible also reassures us that every prayer is heard and in the process of being answered..... Sometimes immediately, sometimes later, and sometimes much later. But in 1st John 5:14-15 there is the promise that when you pray God will give you the best response to your prayer. That's why we don't always get what we pray for. Because secretly God knows that our prayers weren't good enough and he is in the process of answering with something that will do us more good than what we originally prayed for. Keep the faith! God loves you❣️

[@SusanWinter]

BB27nMe Lovely. Thanks for your support to one of our fellow KZbin family members

[@oscarwilliamson1264]

Bb27nme, you're so beautiful and so cute ❤❤❤❤.I love your kind words and I will be glad to know you more.

[@maryamzizi13]

I love you so much Susan❤️❤️

[@SusanWinter]

THANK YOU!!

[@seymourelykeley]

Maryam Zizi now try loving yourself

[@Th3Fab3]

Yes, Susan! I still believe! I'm going to get on that journal writing.

[@SusanWinter]

Mama Mab good for you

[@kadijafofana8756]

Oh my God just the world I needed to ear 🙏 thanks again ❤

[@zaink7037]

Really appreciate your help Susan. Lockdown doesn't help also. I liked this girl for 7 years no. Back in the beginning I noticed she'd show me signs and tell her friends about me back in middle school. College there was a hot and cold thing with her. Haven't seen her for 4 years since college and heard before lockdown by a friend she might be married now and has a child. I'm trying to accept to move on but get these moments of thinking about her and feeling down. I really hope I can fully move on and forget about her. I funny came across her 2 years back and saw her when driving out my road and she had a big smile on her face. She probably has feelings for me but moved on

[@SusanWinter]

Hi Zain, This lockdown has been tough, but we'll get through it. I'm currently running a weekly Live series regarding dating and relationships during quarantine. I hope to see you there!

[@oliverrojas7117]

Thanks for making this title video. I have tried to deny needing love and in the respective time l have tried to get to know myself better as I try to improve myself. In the meantime l thought l was above finding love, but we all need love and find “crumbs of it” thru our association with negativity, or positivity in some cases, thru interacting with strangers, associates, or co-workers, if we are not in healthy functional intimate relationships.

[@asterwild]

Thank you so much. You're love!

[@valhnq]

Thank you for everything you do, your videos are so helpfull. take care ❤️

[@SusanWinter]

Valentin Hennique Oh I absolutely love reading this thank you for this message

[@GopNik88]

I think being single and living alone in a nice house with a beautiful garden,full of animals and birds . It's a godsend while we are on lock down. The thought of living with people all stuck indoors would be horrendous..lol.

[@SusanWinter]

Gop Nik It’s beautiful that you’re looking at everything in such a positive way. Gratitude for what we have creates more wonderful gift from the universe

[@NusratJahan-hs2fs]

Yeah me also we are same

[@kimturner9309]

I swear I have felt the same!

[@gregsilsby6884]

I love being single and having my garden, furry buddies and bird feeders. So much less static. I have gone through a lot of heartbreak but it brought me to this point of just being ok without someone else.

[@purrsandfurrs]

I have a friend who was single by 26. She was the most hopeless person I know, extremely pessimistic, unhealthy, always looking for faults in men. Very shy and reserved. One day, a guy approached her and ask for her number out of the blue. He spotted her walking her dog, in old clothes, without makeup. They are now together, and he helped her open up, been patient with her, and showed her that love can be beautiful. Trully a great guy. My point is - if something is meant for you it will find you. No matter where in life you are, no matter if you think positive or negative. Love found her when she was most depressed and had lost all hope. Don’t bother forcing yourself to feel hopeful when you don’t. Allow yourself to feel how you feel, and surrender to the notion that whats meant for you will come to you in the right timing. Meanwhile honor your feelings and try to live a fullfiling life so you don’t waste time until its your time for love. Its not your duty to “manifest” love, don’t blame yourself if you cant “manifest” or visualize something positive, or if romantic movies make you sad. Let God do the work.

[@debbiedolphin784]

Thanks, Susan. Needed to hear this today.

[@richardmcguinn732]

Hope you’ve finally found peace and happiness again?

[@carmelcansler924]

This is great!! Thanks Susan!!

[@MaryJane-hr9vn]

Thank you Susan, you give the best advice out there! You're the only one who gives me hope in what feels like a hopeless situation (finding love), especially now with forced isolation.

[@SusanWinter]

This is beautiful Mary Jane. Thank you

[@hiltoncollins4345]

How are you doing today Mary Jane? Its really nice having you on here .. I saw your profile on here and i think we definitely are on the same page on many levels. Trust, communication, loving, honoring, understanding, patience and respecting your partner. So crucial to provide balance. This is what creates such great chemistry between two people that are committed to one another.

[@MaryJane-hr9vn]

@@hiltoncollins4345 I'm good Hilton, how are you? Yes! It seems that Susan's channel is only one that really talks about relationships in those terms. I wish it wasn't so hard to find someone on the same page!

[@hiltoncollins4345]

@@MaryJane-hr9vn Very true I was emotionally touched by your comment and decided to leave a message for you,Hope you having a great day ❤️

[@RobertoHernandez-rc1mw]

It's been a rough year for me. I've looked at motivational video after video. But yours always give me that little hope or clarity I need on any emotions I may be feeling at the time. I hope to reach out one day, as I am trying to overcome my problems so that someday I can become a motivational speaker and help others like so many people like you have helped me with videos like this. Thank you! I really do appreciate all you have to say, it helps me alot.

[@ranashawky3138]

Thank you for your existence ♥️

[@SusanWinter]

Thank you for your support, Rana!

[@Nareynah]

I want to lock my feelings with a key and throw it into the ocean, so I can never fall in love with anyone again and get hurt..

[@valderesboyle1983]

Thank you for your wonderful videos. Susan you are AMAZING 🤩🙌🏻🙏🏻

[@kirakeynow]

you are a great, beautiful and intelligent woman! thank you so much for your videos, they help me 💕

[@SusanWinter]

Hottschrott This is wonderful to hear and I appreciate your sharing it with me

[@mmirkovich]

Thank you Susan that was great 👍

[@SusanWinter]

Thank you, Maria!

[@oscarwilliamson1264]

Maria Mirkovich, you're so sweet and I love your kind words ❤❤❤❤❤❤.I will be glad to know you more

[@StephenNam]

The last time I was in love was 9th grade. Now I'm in my mid-40s and single, and I still wonder if I will ever find the same love again. Sigh. 😁😍😘💕😆

[@melindasalinas1821]

Thank you! Exactly what I needed to hear right now. 💗😊

[@kaileighwicha]

Love your videos! Have gained some amazing insights watching

[@SusanWinter]

You're a doll. Thank you!

[@goldenhair1981]

Hi Susan, that was really helpful & never thought of it from that perspective. Thank you 🤗

[@SusanWinter]

MH You’re welcome

[@noia888]

this was wonderful, thank you

[@Walkermorning96]

Thank you so much Ms Susan, just exactly what I needed

[@iKylie]

Thank you so much Susan! I love your work and appreciate how interactive you are! I personally gain a lot of knowledge from others and love to listen! Long time fan! -K

[@rashaaltaee3379]

Thank you Suzan, i hope i find love 😍

[@MikeJackson690]

Incredible timing! How did you know I've been asking this exact question lately?

[@contr4dixion]

Beautifully said...

[@isabel8931]

Best advice I’ve listened to! Thank you !! x

[@orchidmooi1963]

Susan! You are the 👍💯

[@piahh8049]

Thank you so much! This was awesome! 🙏💖

[@SusanWinter]

💓

[@margaritatgalante8010]

Always perfection 🧚🏽🧚🏽🧚🏽

[@SusanWinter]

Thank you, Margarita!

[@sararatliff7707]

I've been struggling with this lately. I'm three months out of a relationship that was over a decade long where I did have love, but there were a lot of other factors that were not working. I've been looking at the kind of man I want to marry, and when I look at that list, I feel like I will never measure up to that, or that any man like that my age is already taken and would not be an option anyway. I've been beating myself up about it. I've been fretting about it. I've tried telling myself that romantic love is just not for me and I have to figure out how to accept it and be happy being forever single. I found that I can't. The idea is too painful. I know that I'm not ready to jump back into the dating pool. I am emotionally drained and have nothing to give a man. I know my next steps are to just relax, make plans to build the life I want, and know that, no matter how many years it may take, the possibility is still open to me. My relationships tend to pop out of nowhere when I least expect it. Why should my husband be any different? Being patient will be difficult, I know. Still, all I can do is work on myself and see where life takes me.

[@dominiccobb6470]

I really need this today :D

[@user-jn3gz6bo2y]

what if we feel like we're incapable of loving someone ?

[@ladyanne8139]

Thank you.. Very lovely ..💗💞

[@demonicznykrolik1257]

Seeing all the comments make me kinda sad. All these people, including me, need someone to tell them how to believe in love. We're all people, just human beings needing love. It's sad that even if it's the base of us, we can still not believe in it. After being cheated on I don't feel like I would ever be able to trust again. But these comments also make me realize that there are people just like me, both men and women who actually have feelings. It brings so much hope that I would find someone with true feelings some day too.

[@annabanana7010]

I am 63 married 2 times, living my own life now and if I love again it will happen or not. I quit looking for it through dating sites.

[@oscarwilliamson1264]

Anna Tocco,your comment touched my heart.I view you as a lovely person in need of an honest man.I will be glad to know you more

[@brentrichard9660]

Dear Anna, Finding Love through Dating sites have only created bad experiences for me. My last marriage was a total disaster. I believe I'll find true love someday though. And you too will Dear.

[@richardmcguinn732]

God’s time will come eventually!

[@rosinastarr7250]

how to react when everybody says that you're too good to be true because of your good training and all your videos and how we live with our boundaries and look so good how do we handle the guys that think that we are too good to be true and there's an awful lot of them

[@hiltoncollins4345]

How are you doing today Rosina Starr? Its really nice having you on here .. I saw your profile on here and i think we definitely are on the same page on many levels. Trust, communication, loving, honoring, understanding, patience and respecting your partner. So crucial to provide balance. This is what creates such great chemistry between two people that are committed to one another.

[@richardmcguinn732]

Women like your kind are rare. So please be proud of yourself!

[@francescaromanagarroni6524]

Susan "the best" 💗

[@SusanWinter]

Thank you, Francesca!!

[@AtlantaAngel84]

You are so wise

[@Dirtnation2]

Sept. will be nine years since I lost love of my life. No matter how much I shell out for dating sites and go bar hopping no woman can replace her.

[@k.w.1459]

Dirtnation2 you are a very lucky person then to have found someone to be your true love. Many people don’t. Maybe don’t think of a new woman as a replacement for her so much as a bonus person to experience new things with. Maybe try to find a widow and just have someone to go places with?

[@Dirtnation2]

@@k.w.1459 Am 34, unless their husband died in Iraq am not finding a widow at my age range. I already have female friends. I want someone who is yin to my yang again. I want to feel the rush of dopamine and my heart beating faster when I see them.

[@theroomnumber5210]

You are wise ❤️

[@thetennisjournal]

I’m so tired of women, dating and the bs I just don’t feel like it anymore . Just seems like its not worth it I just steer clear .

[@NusratJahan-hs2fs]

Now you gonna dating boys?

[@tigerraven]

I've never been able to find someone that likes me or wants to date me ive not been on a proper date before and I've tried everything to try and find someone I even changed things about myself and behaviour

[@StephenMarvisTV-ny9yg]

You can definitely find 💯😊 if you don’t mind I’d love to be friends with you

[@rosinastarr7250]

Susan here's a question probably only you can answer. and you don't have to make a video about it but I'm going to share my experience with you. What do you do about children that were never raised in a household to show love nurturing or emotional Health object constancy and stability. how can we expect children as adults to show and reflect love give and receive love if they were never taught that growing up . How can somebody be expected to receiver give something they never learned or received. They can have an idea. But then everybody's definition is different of what love is play feels and how it truly feels

[@SusanWinter]

Rosina Starr if this is the clarity of the insight, then changes can be made. I don’t know if you’re speaking of yourself or hypothetically, but if you are speaking of yourself there’s hope. The sheer fact of realizing the absence of affection can create the awareness that affection is required. From that point on love is a choice

[@tammycaplan7212]

Yes when am ready

[@superviola88]

It's been a year since she broke up on me. I still miss her badly 😢

[@SusanWinter]

superviola I’m sorry for you because this time period Does make it harder.

[@fortune.]

Hi Susan I just found your channel and am loving your thought process. Would you consider doing a video geared towards introverts and dating? It's so difficult. You are right though- mental discipline when the negative thinking creeps in. Thanks!

[@thomasandersen2534]

Thank you.

[@justina1713]

Thank you :)

[@lunallena2933]

Love u susan ❤

[@SusanWinter]

💓

[@keonr1]

What do I do? I’ve given more than anyone has ever given me. Is it hopeless for me to believe that someone will love me the way that I love them?

[@kwc7391]

I have been dating a Narcissist who Gaslights as well. I feel I will never find another as I am getting older (70 in a few months.... lol)

[@AG-vc3od]

Thank you Susan! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

[@stephaniecox8931]

My dear Susan. Finally divorcing a Covet Narcissit. Great sales man. 20 years of marriage and 3 wonderful children. Moving and all of a sudden feeling a vibe of a man and his presence around me. Every time I was around him. He’s 32. 20 years younger then me. What do I do?

[@hiltoncollins4345]

How are you doing today Stephanie Cox? Its really nice having you on here .. I saw your profile on here and i think we definitely are on the same page on many levels. Trust, communication, loving, honoring, understanding, patience and respecting your partner. So crucial to provide balance. This is what creates such great chemistry between two people that are committed to one another.

[@evecharazi6547]

What's if you've been so broken part of you doesn't even want it again.

[@oscarwilliamson1264]

Susan winter, I'm so happy and glad to subscribe to your KZbin channel. Your videos brings hope to a weak heart.I got my personal problem to share with you about my former relationship and hope you can advise me. I loved and care so much for a lady and I was so honest to her and yet she cheated on me multiple times that I have to kick her away now I'm single and looking an honest and God fearing woman to fall in love with.How can I find a good woman?

[@margaretguaragna6504]

I have made so many mistakes since my husband died 30 years ago . Since then been married and divorced 3 times . I have been in 2 relationships that were both narcissistic. I am feeling very disheartened and I can’t find trust in a man . I feel like I make the worst decisions when it comes to relationships and I’m giving up now at the age of 62 . How will i ever find love at this age with so many men who are dishonest and have these bad habits of lying cheating and no morals

[@hiltoncollins4345]

How are you doing today Margaret Guarangna? Its really nice having you on here .. I saw your profile on here and i think we definitely are on the same page on many levels. Trust, communication, loving, honoring, understanding, patience and respecting your partner. So crucial to provide balance. This is what creates such great chemistry between two people that are committed to one another.

[@annharrison4774]

I have been divorced 20 years, but have still not found a long-term partner. I have had a few short term (can't even call them relationships) as they only lasted a few weeks/months) I am in the twilight years, so time is getting short, I will be 70 later this year, and this covid virus makes it difficult as I can't go out to meet anyone like I used to. Was in Meetup, but had a "difference of opinion" with one of the organisers so I no longer attend. So how do I find anyone?

[@oscarwilliamson1264]

Ann Harrison,your story touches my heart ♥ and I will be glad to know you more.

[@hiltoncollins4345]

How are you doing today Ann Harrison? Its really nice having you on here .. I saw your profile on here and i think we definitely are on the same page on many levels. Trust, communication, loving, honoring, understanding, patience and respecting your partner. So crucial to provide balance. This is what creates such great chemistry between two people that are committed to one another.

[@annharrison4774]

@@hiltoncollins4345 Why thank you kind sir, she said. It's nice to have a good comment, rather than some of the nasty comments I have received.

[@hiltoncollins4345]

@@annharrison4774 I'm Good, Very true I was emotionally touched by your comment and decided to leave a message for you,Hope you having a great day ❤️