How To Bounce Back From Pain & Use It For Your Greatest Growth | Vishen Lakhiani

In this talk from Mindvalley Live Los Angeles 2019, Mindvalley's founder Vishen Lakhiani gives us insight into how you can use any pain and hardship to learn from, develop greater resilience and contribute those learnings to grow into becoming your best self.
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[@emprezzqueen9213]

My mother's death 6/5/2019 *hip replacement surgery* she was deceased 3 days later couldn't breathe properly

[@gborowme]

@@emprezzqueen9213 Sorry about your mother, My friend.

[@naturemc2]

Who going to decide what is right or wrong. A Roman Republic or a Democrat or a King or a Congress or a community or a Majority or a Religious Leaders or a Human Rights Activist or Judges or a Community or an Army Force or a Society or a....... . Everyone is standing for something. Now, what's right or wrong? Who is going to decide about right or wrong? It's all subjective. Votes! Your intentions for better world and global mindset is no doubt better plan. But, it's not a must plan. We can't force everyone with same mindsets to hold on. We will lose creativity and posing questions for better. Differences is healthy if there are no fundamentalists or extremists. Kill those. I swear that's the problems. Trouble-free world comes after killing the mindsets of fundamentalists and extremists.

[@PeterPiccolo]

Ty really resonates

[@debifambro1039]

My father's death when I was twelve.

[@Radianty_Ella]

My son went to put on our bedtime meditation, and he told me that he had found someone who he likes to listen to who is a mixture of what he watches & what I watch. He pulled up this video to show me.. of course I already know Vishen! Proud mom moment though wow 😭 (he is 9 nears old)

[@gborowme]

Nine years old, beautiful, our beautiful world is in good hands. We can all die in peace. I learned a lot listening to Vishen. Growth is my motivation now I am in the right place.

[@andrejacavnik-executivecoach]

Oh, my, 9 years and so intuitive and conscious already? What a beautiful role modeling x Well done mama bear :)

[@PeterPiccolo]

He is on the right path.. altered states is the FUTURE..

[@ellylolly210]

@@andrejacavnik-executivecoach I

[@tulasigautamkoppala]

The wound is the place where the light enters👌👌👌

[@chungnah7329]

~ Rumi

[@Zukunft-Wohngemeinschaft]

"Your business is nothing more than a vehicle for you growth and to fix the world" This is how I saw it since I can think and why I started so many different projects. I just absolutely love how Vishes speakes so passionately about this and what a great field mindvalley is for this.

[@shailladotcom]

Thank you Vishen for sharing so much enlightening information. Exactly what I needed to listen today. Much gratitude & love from Australia!

[@oriaascentiant174]

One day I will be part of the mind valley team just as soon as I'm done cookin'. ;)

[@sunshineinthestorm675]

Having a rare "incurable disease," and losing everything (health, money, family, career, love, social life, community) because of it, was a massive grief for me. I was certain life was over until the breaking point became my breakthrough. I saw the transformation happening on the inside of me, even while the outside was wasting away, and my suffering because my strength. I became everything I was meant to be through the suffering, not despite it. I transcended the pain and connected with God and my own soul. Suffering is not the end, it is the beginning.

[@sagayamary8344]

I love mr.vishenlakhiani

[@IlonaMaennchen]

it`s absolutely correct what you saying, Vishen. We all have to take care of each other and give more openness and trust. The future will be better when we change our behavior together.

[@HowellConsultations]

If you’re reading this... Don’t give up... success is within reach. Hope our channel helps !!

[@deepikasingh1759]

This videos speaks so much to me. Really admire Mindvalley for taking a stand and encouraging others too to stand up for what matters.

[@MindvalleyTalks]

Thanks for that beautiful written comment! I hope you learn something from this program. Wish you all the best.

[@rajbajrange9767]

Vishen you nailed it. Superb

[@amsa12378]

Never have i ever been inspired by a KZbin motivational channel. I finally found the right place,i just started year 10 this week and all my grades are do bad but i`m gonna try my best! I wish this channel the best of luck

[@MrWillSolly]

Brilliance personified. Brilliance is brilliant...yet so simple. Brilliance plus courage shines brightly. Were we more courageous in peace time would there be less wars?

[@Ganieirfan]

Pain makes people grow stronger!

[@bookofgloryx]

Or it kills them. 😂

[@Ganieirfan]

@@bookofgloryx yeah sometimes 😂

[@nola8504]

Thank you, Vishen. I've been living in Australia now for 7 years. As an immigrant from South Africa who has gone through a number of hard impacting losses in my life, I still feel like an outsider and still wake up sad, on many mornings. Yes, you will never find meaning within your own potential, but only in going beyond your potential and sharing it with the world.

[@beyond_9-5_dreams]

Hello from a fellow South African abroad. Hope you’re doing well now

[@nishamann6913]

Profoundly meaningful..need to listen again n again to get goodness soak in me

[@sunnysim3583]

I seem to come across subjects that relate to me a the time I need it. Maybe coincidence, or that the probability of this relates to most at that time, but it does give me hope, and inspiration. I want to see change in the world- it IS happening, and because I am one of the ethical animal lovers, I support change in Malaysia, because they aren't the kindest nation. So, my soul purposes is to help end suffering, support animal welfare because I connect deeply with them, and those who love them. I'm also meant to support environmental issues. I pick up rubbish from the street if I see it. I try in my little way.

[@CMoore8539]

Thank you for this Vishen!!!♥️ It’s Absolutely disgraceful that there isn’t an Earth Flag!!! Go Vishen! Go!!!

[@phillipbridge5009]

Keep smokin ya pipe!

[@ladybird491]

My suffering was record breaking for many years, and has led me to write great poetry that has led me to steady publishing and writing success. I plan to someday write a novel of my life.

[@sridevirao]

Vishen Lakhiani, I have seen this video just now. I so resonate with everything you have said. Particularly rule no.2. So often we get caught in our limitations and believe that our only mission is to reduce our suffering. I have personally been doing only this - trying to reduce my pain, till one day I realized how mediocre this purpose was. That's when I dug deep and found a mission for myself, based on my own pain, the pain of mediocrity. What do I stand for? I stand for "tapping the best in human potential". This has mission has begun to germinate into an idea for an institution . And it is in this connection that I encountered Mindvalley and now this video. I have enrolled for two Quests and am looking forward to the transformation I am seeking....if fact it is already happening. So thank you Vishen.

[@michellesun9871]

This talk and video brought me to tears….and that’s a rare occasion now but I was able to reconnect with my younger untainted visions and passions before I built up my own walls because of pain. I’ve been working on bringing them down and they’ve been falling brick by brick, sometimes in slabs, but with this talk and inserted video, the walls came crashing down.

[@sanjaysrinivaas2695]

Literally amazing. I need to thank vishen and wishes for the goal which he is pacing for .best of luck pal 😎

[@daphnecarpenter2794]

Great talk! "Rule #1 liberates you..." right on!

[@saileerane3125]

Thank you so so much Vishen!!!! This video is what I was looking for to transform myself. Now my suffering is making sense to me!!!!!!!!

[@MindvalleyTalks]

So glad to see you checking out our videos. We always love giving informative content, this is our mission, for all of us. Thank you.

[@cecilialao8958]

Love your message, Vishen. I wish I’m at the transcendence level, but I’m still struggling at the healing level.

[@TheAngeliaMusic]

I am hear listening because it’s late and everyone is asleep and I can’t wind down. I love binge watching these consciousness expanding mindvalley talks. Thankyou for sharing. Namaste.

[@JeanneDeSilver]

I almost didn't watch this video but I'm so glad I did, otherwise I wouldn't have realized how far left Mind Valley has moved. Good to know.

[@kathykrol5942]

What, moved where?

[@pilze.7213]

You must be fun at parties!!!!!!!!! Thanks for highlighting the point of what's wrong in the world!!!

[@JeanneDeSilver]

@@pilze.7213 touche

[@jacquelinejimenez2574]

I totally agreed since during my worst moments is when I was also transforming myself into an extraordinary human being.

[@PeterPiccolo]

Have to run I’ll come back to this at the right time

[@zainabamadahy9918]

Powerful & loving. Thank you.

[@vibrationofheart9694]

Thank you so much for sharing Beloved 🙏 Bless and much Love 💞

[@joycefung2473]

Wow.. I love you Vishen, I LOVE you. My biggest rock in the way of my path are my wounding. You are changing my life!

[@Sandra-ty4gp]

Amen Thank you, you reached in an jolted my core, I concerned an felt you deeply, for my growth, an I make a stand for the homeless an the wons who has fallen to the evil side, because in the end love is more powerful then evil, I believe love will over ride the evil believer's belief, because everything an everyone on this Earth belongs to the higher power, an as long as love is being manafested at the rate it is moving, soon Satan won't have any followers, an I am excited, on fire about it!!! I'm just a 61 babe with a ball of energy just waiting to exsplode into this bright light that mindvalley has brought out in me what I've had all along in side of me, I am very thankful, they have helped me to understand me an the world around me so I can grow, an help the world around us through who I am, an my pain of endurement thank you mindvalley, with still yet so much to learn, it's not about me it's the world around us vishen lakhaini thank you so much for you class.

[@manjarishukla8787]

Thank you so much for this insightful talk Vishen 😇

[@anaiddj224]

Thank You !!💕💕

[@edwintepuendikum3527]

Thank so much Vishen , now I know my purpose 🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@freyawilder9478]

Such an truthful and inspiring talk.. really enjoyed it.. thank you.

[@nataliarai4371]

Happy Birthday kind Sir, hope you have a joyous and prosperous one, many more to come! 😀🙏🎂

[@thanhthuytienn]

One of my most favorite speech from Vishen 🥹♥️

[@mahbubasgardenandcooking9264]

You are so truly read my intuition, when I gave birth my son , Saadat , I felt I was so powerful women on my age of 21, I was able to deliver a human in the earth, such a powerful feeling I received on that day from my creator , todays the 17 Th December 2020 I listen to you when my doughter siyana in deep sleep she is 10 years old , Saadat is also a mechanical engineer studied from UCL . Your are my philosopher. Your talk is amazing pulling every moment of energy and feeling which we come across through life journey .

[@shwetamahindrakar4613]

Well said.. 👍👍🤝...

[@ShonSpeaks]

Wounded in my emotional soul!

[@shrikantpawar8269]

Thank you so much sir 🙏

[@edenshafe4437]

Thanks Vishen I am passionate about this I stand for unity

[@yarasaoud]

Thankful i found this channel ❤️👍thank you

[@mahbubasgardenandcooking9264]

“Earth flag” when a women become a mum, by giving birth of the first child is amazing feeling , I am so proud to hear you mention earth flag .

[@PeterPiccolo]

Embarrassment is a raw emote

[@1KingJacob]

Speechless.

[@dimpleanil]

Absolutely wonderful

[@englishwithsanjuktadas]

Thank you so much 🙏😊😍

[@musokeshifah711]

Thanxs so much dear

[@ninasadlowskycoachinspirer1943]

Absolutely love this video, thanks so much

[@tulimajumdar1183]

Thank you

[@emprezzqueen9213]

Inspirational Indeed

[@karlaromero3685]

Hi i am from Guatemala and i am not speack english to much but i see all your vídeos and i love you for your Work i am in love with all of you and your ideas your dreams your pasión, God bless you always, you are amazing

[@kathykrol5942]

you need to learn some proper grammer. You need to put commas and periods in the right places in the sentance or it is just a run on, imbarasing, and you shoh l d know this in any language.

[@karlaromero3685]

@@kathykrol5942 Ok thanks 💃😂😂

[@beatacollazo6034]

@@kathykrol5942 you have misspelled: sentences,embarrassing and should....just use autocorrect when you disrespecting others.....

[@alexisdebroqueville7429]

Hello Vishen, I LOVE your passion that we don't feel in your book ! Congratulations for what you're doing ! When you come in Belgium, tell me, I'd love to meet you ! Alexis

[@rosepetal2212]

Brilliant job 👏👌... I love the video... United we stand together for the positive CHANGE... 💞💞💞

[@MindvalleyTalks]

Thanks for that beautifully written comment. Kindest regards.

[@PeterPiccolo]

Really resonates w your polished gem abstract thank you I apologize for the scatterbrained

[@shawtytsb2524]

I LOVE IT!! :) i can related to this YES!!

[@PeterPiccolo]

I can see a ton of steps we can take to improve overall inter connectivity

[@liammorningstar4970]

Vishen Lakhiani where hv u been all my Lifeeee...

[@thekatephillips]

Yes!!! I believe in Financial Transformation. Financial advice and education focus on financial literacy and investment results. I look at money as a way to transform ourselves. It could be a “practice,” just like yoga, meditation, physical fitness or anything!

[@Andre-kv1jz]

Amazing!

[@mariawada]

Thank you for sharing! I'm so empowered to use my voice! growth to fix the world.

[@traggerosbourne6877]

i am powerful , i am extraordinary

[@bimsano]

Awesome!

[@user-ob2cm2tu5c]

A lot of thanks for your message that I love . Thanks from my heart and conscience drives me to more patience with enough skills to overcome this fighting against all ignorance and disabilities maybe cleared of block age have nothing any idea about such transactions where maybe possible to realize as yourself . Normally my inner sense of humanity maybe acceptable for you to get more patience with enough skills to overcome this fighting against all ignorance and disabilities .

[@Yogadakini]

Thanks really enjoyed this x

[@mohammedsaboon7880]

Thank

[@trushakalidas2456]

Inspirational as always.

[@YuliaGrushevskaya-bi6he]

😊 anything can be transformed

[@corinnehall3785]

I agree with you, Vishen. My therapy business is called Global Wellbeing. It is very small at the moment. I believe in sharing ideas, and helping one another. I have recently started to put out some relaxation type content under Global Wellbeing primarily to help my son although I hope it may also help other adults with support needs. I wish you well with all your ventures. Best Wishes, Corinne.

[@dianethomas7149]

Thoroughly enjoyed!

[@mechale111]

This video went by fast... thank you I really enjoyed it

[@JoannaJoys]

Ha! I'm not the only one who boycotts Nestle!!! :D

[@asliddineshonqulov4759]

👍.extremely helpful.thank you for that..

[@janicetelfer6211]

Amen❤

[@MooseBme]

1> "Suffering is the breadcrumbs to your mission, to why your here. What is it going to make you stand for?" - Vishen Lakhiani 2> “Power without love is reckless and abusive, and love without power is sentimental and anemic. Power at its best is love implementing the demands of justice, and justice at its best is power correcting everything that stands against love.” Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. 3> "Suffering ceases to be suffering, the moment it finds its meaning." Victor Frankl Rule #1 "Your "thing" is not about your "thing" rather your "thing" is nothing more than a vehicle for your personal growth." Rue #2 " Your life is not about you. Rather your life is about everyone you touch." - Vishen Lakhiani Your heart is your most selfish organ, it takes all the best blood for its self. If it didn't, the heart would die. If the heart died, it would take down everything else. - Vishen Lakhiani

[@shrikantpawar8269]

Good evening sir.

[@petunalaboritories6566]

pain and suffering has made me a strong woman, i dont fear failure or lonesome as long i am doing it for a good cause Mindvalley you make me unstoppable.

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[@edenshafe4437]

I stand for love I stand for freedom I stand for unity I stand for refuge I stand for equalty

[@obertbrinley6541]

Some great things in that speech. The speech was a little too far to left. He forgot Obama didn't take office until 2009 not 2008.

[@dolsiemercado3140]

I love your view. I have unfortunately meet many people that have entered USA only to make money. They have no interest in making it a better country. Also in America a Women has legal rights to everything. We as adults have all experience some form of prejudice. That does not mean the other country you live in now does not have prejudice people.

[@enigmatic.pragmatic]

Love most everything here. Just a note, that quote is from Maya Angelou and was repeated by Nelson Mendela and has been reworded by your speaker.

[@shutterprod.254]

Very good

[@PeterPiccolo]

My best friend in the world and my mother alike don’t understand this concept of altered state psychology and how intrinsically induced brainwave manipulation is the next step in manifestation , to help shatter the misconception of pain management

[@MindTrip888]

So to me, it means in the whole I am small, but yet I am, and always will be, like everyone else, be significant and never insignificant. As I imagine and look back for eternity into the past lives, and all the souls of the whole universe, ALL are and Always will be SIGNIFICANT! And together we rule and reign and make the things that are not yet being into being, as we create them by our will, our determination, and our emotional well being for the whole... Not so we suffer that others don't, but so we have a guide to help us through it, so we suffer less, and grow more. And we all respect each other in the kindness of good will and personal rights as sovereign beings with free will, which cannot and should not interfere with others free will, being the auto regulation feedback. Learning to treat ourselves well, so we know what others would like and want to be treated. It should be Win, Win and Win... win for self... win for all concerned... win for the greater of all... and none should be a victim or be taken advantage of in the process. At least this rings true for me the more I seek consider changing what I believe and understand as I grow... as you say to Transform... indeed there is a quote from my younger days in religion which says... become transformed by the renewing of the spirit of your mind... indeed if we believe what we believed 10 years ago with no differences, then we are not growing... and if we are not growing we are dying... and when you work out expectations effect health, ageing and life span... we really do need an upgrade in our thinking and beliefs. When you dig deeper you find corruption and inconsistencies in traditions which have lost meaning and become more about control. Unto thyself be true... be genuine... learn to speak only truth in love... learn to encourage others to feel good about themselves honestly... We can all learn from each other... Vishan is a man after my own heart in doing similar research as I love to ponder, in his way. Together, we all have much to share and learn. Even with the 99th monkey. Spirit and Mind... Intuition and Logic... the two combined of the right and left brain working together... consider one on its own is using HALF a brain? mmm might explain why science and religion always fought, each using a different brain... though I tend to go towards spiritual and the mind itself being the software like spirit... ever learning... with an open mind... learning understanding, intuition and how to better expand. Making the world a better place is mandatory... and with the internet... its almost as easy as saying the right thing to bring all together... something that opens an innate desire to grow and become part of the solution by understanding transcending the old ways... peace by kindness and no more war.

[@tiffanyhamby2616]

Why keep asking what Shetty thinks, it seems he and I disagree on alot of things but I think Shertty is a great person I commend him for his work

[@chilichickSantaFe]

You are taking it personally. People who came here legally are now waiting because those who broke in, not through a port of entry, are stealing the legals' place for citizenship. Nothing is free. The rest of us are paying your way, your free ride, when we are trying to pay our own bills.

[@HungNguyen-ij9sz]

I would like to add if you could provide the measurement of ROSE. Is there any formula of standards that we can use to keep track of our progress or it is personally defined? Thank you for your attention towards the question

[@nicolesummers4429]

I don’t care about color I care about attitude. I don’t want to hear religion or your political opinions. I love the fact you want to unite the world.

[@susanzeyn9368]

Thank you!! It's about the journey, not about fixing anything ever, you taking care of your vibration, takes care of everything else... Peace!!😁😁 Abraham Hicks Love the video about the suffering ♥️ Stop watching TV, if you can't grow it , don't eat it

[@amsa12378]

I`m a muslim and i`m proud my religion offered me this at such a young age!

[@anthonywallace4508]

When will you be in London next, I need to here you live,Anthony L&R

[@urmidharachatterjee5307]

👌

[@christicaceres9447]

Where can I find the video you showed please? I would like to share it.

[@caitlincogandoemner3413]

How do I get to attend the "One Month Away with My Kids" next year?!

[@stephanieschreiner4034]

Your the effing bomb Vishen!!! Got the whole boddy goosebumps!!!!yes!! Eff Nestle and the Vatican owns Coke! Lol getem!!! 💛hope

[@PeterPiccolo]

Ness.. sometimes I lose my word I’ve had a tramstic brain injury for way to long and haven’t talked anyone