How To: Build Confidence and Know Your Worth

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[@lexusparrott2102]

this is how many people things she is gorgeous 👇

[@N0lemts]

I was gonna say you’re this pretty and your makeup is just as pretty.

[@lexusparrott2102]

@@N0lemts what do you mean

[@jasminehaynes6596]

@Lexus Parrott u mean Think instead of things smh🤦‍♀️ can't believe 1k people understood what u wrote

[@Katie-ut6ol]

@@jasminehaynes6596 Maybe because we have common sense and know she meant thinks. Unlike you. Which you apparently think you have to point out every mistake people made because you don't have common sense. You make mistakes too so don't make fun of other people for making a mistake. You also offended us, the 1k you think don't have common sense to understand what she meant. That's on period sis.

[@leieatsrawchicken6540]

@@Katie-ut6ol PERIOD

[@layladilajla]

It's shocking that no one ever mentions the book "Women's Magical Truths" on Borlest. That book is the best thing I've read lately warm recommendations !

[@ilovemusic5177]

I love her, she always knows what she's talking about 😌

[@joycecardinot9284]

That's great bc she's on YT, people on YT should!

[@julianonyango245]

Too bad some of us our parents are the ones who bring us down and do the comparison for us

[@catherinem.6290]

FACTS!!!🥴

[@Tayb3byee]

yup :(

[@rinaj1604]

felt this a little too much 🙂😭😂🙃

[@atugonzaphilomena4572]

Talking to my parents is like talking to a mountain, they wont move an inch

[@brennachatterton1]

bruh so true

[@princessjay6220]

Sisss you came just in time... I’m a college freshman slowly realizing how much of my self confidence I let go of trying to be enough for someone who I didn’t even need. Thank you big sister much love 😘

[@TatyCokley]

Ugh I love seeing comments like this, I am proud of you love!

[@livkiernan5652]

sis this is my exact situation rn too we got thisss 🥺

[@user-eh8nc5zh2z]

I’m almost the same as you. since I went to college and started seeing people who were different from me I started to lose my confidence because we are all in high school on a similar level. I’ve never seen people who are rich or have many experiences and talk about things I don’t know lol

[@fadzi.charis]

For me confidence is being comfortable in my insecurities. Like I'm insecure about my hair, my eyebrows and my feet🙈😂 but I get my confidence knowing that I'm imperfectly perfect. But thank you Taty for the tips❤️ I can never stop learning to love myself and becoming confident 🤭❤️

[@lifeisagameofknowingyourro6327]

Doesn't matter because this mental traits usually come from positive thoughts of having a positive personality is ingrained within the subconscious mind you just don't wake up one day and boom you r confident all of a sudden you need to work on it little by little each day adding positive thoughts in your mind that will change your personality into a positive one that's what I am doing currently because for some reason I think I am not good enough to be a good boyfriend but those thoughts r probably stem from my poor teen age years which I was extremely shy which I never looked girls in the eyes and shit like that but I'm growing everyday peace out✌️

[@Mel-kb3ww]

@@lifeisagameofknowingyourro6327 how do u Ingrane positive thoughts ?

[@mariafausti3128]

@@Mel-kb3ww affirmations usually work for me (complimenting myself, repeating positive thoughts about myself and others, etc.)

[@Kimberlystarkovich]

Why your feet? Lol I hate my feet to it looks like I have a 6th toe and I have extra bone sticking out the back

[@arikazu6877]

When she says don't be like anyone else... remember she is saying to be you but it's okay to be inspired by others but not to try to imitate someone else's image because you are perfectly you!

[@doodlenoodle5860]

Still don’t understand how she still doesn’t have a million subs she’s literally the best advice giver/older sister 💋 ✨

[@cosmetixaesthetix689]

7 months later and she still doesnt :(

[@jemmy6465]

She had 888k subs. She's getting there

[@serenitytea]

She's 106k away now :))

[@gabriellabaldwin2240]

Ikr!!!

[@user-xv1qk7rf9e]

She’s at 907k now

[@anayellygalindo5097]

YOUR HAIR IS EVERYTHING😍😍😍

[@aurie.a]

Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord , she shall be praised. Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates. Proverbs 31:30‭-‬31 kjv

[@brontebell7748]

y'all are every where

[@justdeepscars6414]

Yaasssss🤝🏽 Amen

[@candacebacon4011]

Yes I struggle with this I feel like it’s a roller coaster . I have my good days and bad days . More bad than good. So thank you for doing this video. I feel good when I can give advice to people or dancing or singing.

[@TatyCokley]

My best friend always reminds me that progress isn't linear! It's okay to have a bad day love

[@candacebacon4011]

Taty Cokley Thank you! I always felt if I had bad days I’m going backwards in progressing.

[@Mel-kb3ww]

I’ve been having good and bad but more bad so I’m contemplating just giving up the self love journey . And I would like to know if u are at a better place with self love

[@candacebacon4011]

@@Mel-kb3ww I would say don’t give up, it easier said than done I know , but it’s true. I would start small like writing down affirmation then go from there. What are your passions? As for me I feel like I’m getting there I’m more further looking back from where I started.

[@Mel-kb3ww]

Candace Bacon thank u for the advice

[@niouma4181]

I have a big forehead and I’m “fat” (even tho my friends tell me I don’t and I’m not, trust me it’s true) and I play this role that I am confident but I’m not at all. I feel bad and ugly. I’ve never had a boyfriend or went on a date and I’m 17, so I feel really ugly when most of my friends (who are around 18 and 21) have boyfriend or have attention. Im not jealous, my friends are so beautiful !!! I just feel ugly. Your video really helped, it’s the first time I see you in my suggestions and I will definitely subscribe to your channel

[@user-pv4dc1lo2w]

I’m late but I just wanna say your beautiful and I can kinda relate I’m like skinny and I’m darkskin so someone always tryna make a constant joke but u gotta realize you gotta be your biggest fan and love yourself the most yk

[@enkubella]

hey!! haven't you heard the phrase "pretty girls have big foreheads"? You're pretty not ugly! If it helps at all i also have a big forehead. I'm ethiopian we all do haha. I've been trying to lose weight on and off since I was 13 years old and im 22 now. I didn't finally begin to lose weight until I developed a healthier relationship with food. Even now it's not perfect, but still trying. Also sis you're 17! that's still so young but I know what you mean. I didn't get into my first relationship until I was 21 so I'm a "late bloomer" haha. But from my experience and the people around me getting in and out of so many relationships is no fun it hurts. Trust God and His timing. There is a season for everything. (Ecclesiastes 3:1-8) Make sure your confidence is rooted in WHOSE you are - aka God's child. That automatically makes you a princess of the King of Kings. That makes your worth so high!! have to affirm this to myself daily. Read Psalm 139 for a self-worth reminder. Also if you don't already watch BREENY LEE on youtube. Changed my life. Rooting for you sis

[@niouma4181]

@@enkubella omg thank you so much for your comment it makes me really happy and more confident !! It is true tho, pretty girls always have big forehead😭 and yeah now that you posted that comment I feel like it is better to take my time and stop comparing myself to people. Tysm, take care 🥰❤️

[@rajeswaribabu4471]

Same I am also 17

[@madelinerahter8765]

girl, i just wanted to say that i’m blonde, skinny, and 16, but i’ve been insecure my whole life. this past year i’ve done a TON of self improvement, and i PROMISE you, everything you need, you have. :) all my friends got boyfriends before me, and my first one was when i was 14. it was a long distance relationship, and the guy was really weird, but that was what i thought i deserved. i was SO sad and insecure all the time. i promise you, it’s so worth it to build up your confidence and love yourself first. when you love yourself, you can take on the world. you are beautiful!! EVERYONE feels ugly, and that has taken me years to understand. but the second you change your mentality is the second you change your life. i hope this helps. god bless :)

[@Chrisfavouriteboulder]

How to built confidence: -dont put confidence/your value into the hands of other people -dont put worth into physical things/temporary things/things you cant controle -value lies in yourself ! -value does not lie in the Action of other people -no one else can be you -comparison is the theif of Joy -be the best Version of yourself! -when jelousy comes up, push it down and do something to fill the void -be open about feelings (Journal, talk about it) -make graditude things about things you love about yourself (internal) -Dissconect from social Media -Go out with people you love -Unfollow people that make you feel bad -learn when to say when -self awareness is streghts -it can be scary to feel self love at first -it will be rewarding later on -identify the reason why you are feeling that way -Do things that are specific to you

[@ayandaziqubu9230]

What inspires me is God, knowing I have someone I can speak to n knowing that person won't judge me. My relationship with God is important at this age I'm 15 years old. #Iamenough

[@HaeleePatrice]

Its like she just knows what I need at the moment with every one of her videos. Love you taty 💕

[@leah8866]

EXACTLY! That's what I thought

[@ArmoniSloan]

WE LOVE A CONFIDENT QUEEN 👑

[@mesay.g4390]

10:10 nothing but truth. Disconnecting from social media and putting your time and effort on bettering yourself and spending time with your loved ones needs to become the norm. Love these insightful videos! Good job 💕

[@linnea-me9dc]

istg she can read minds sis I NEEEEEDED THIS

[@layana6630]

“ Be the best version of yourself” YESS

[@melissamartinez6958]

Self love has always been an issue for me. I know u can’t love anyone if you don’t love yourself but in reality I don’t think I will be able too. It’s been years.

[@denishagrindley4312]

Self love takes patience and confidence. I haven't mastered it as yet but I can't wait to have the feeling that I am good enough. ❤😅💖

[@mariafausti3128]

You got this! I go through that sometimes too, but at the end of the day, there is an abundance of love everywhere you look! Love doesn’t always have to be romantic or anything, as soon as I realized that it’s been better for me because I’ve been able to feel all the love that the people around me are willing to share with me wether it be friends, family, people online, pets, etc. You’re amazing, never doubt it!

[@melissamartinez6958]

Denisha Grindley Im sorry for the really late reply 😭😭😭but twiniiiiesssssss😄

[@melissamartinez6958]

i’m allergic to cats Thank you so much🥺You are amazing too❤️❤️❤️

[@liliaandreasoto3006]

Damnnnnn sis she really is preaching. When she said we are comfortable with self loathing 😳😳 made me realize something new today

[@Jasminesim18]

My confidence plummeted when I started feeling like I wasn’t enough. Truly believing that you’re enough really makes a difference in how you view yourself

[@avayac.2281]

Me: watching this My mom: “yes go taty!” Me: 👁👄👁 My mom: “I need self confidence to” *rolls eyes*

[@TatyCokley]

LOL YES MOMMM

[@fadzi.charis]

😂😂 even your mom knows the vibessssss

[@avayac.2281]

Taty Cokley oml I- ,y candy has dropped but girl I am in middle school and : Confidence before you ⬇️ Confidence now ⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️ ❤️ thank you

[@allihopkins7373]

Omg lol

[@jafar.777_]

your mom passed the vibe check ✔️

[@nanaama4083]

I swear Taty always knows exactly what to post when we need it most❤

[@her6330]

YES THE QUEEN HAS POSTED 👑👑💕💕

[@joslyncoleman7946]

i have been trying to find a way to gain my confidence. i look at one of my friends and a see a gorgeous girl. her body:perfect. her looks:perfect. her ability to get a guy with one look:perfect. i'm just feeling a little down. i wanted to say thank you for all of your good vibes. i know some people can't relate to this because they have more confidence. again thank you so much.

[@kenyatah907]

I snuck to the chipotle bathroom during my shift soon as this dropped.

[@blesss3641]

Honestly like I can't even begin to explain how much you are doing. You are soo are pretty, but most importantly your kindness and your willingness to help girls who are struggling with their self confidence is just sooo BEAAAUTTIIFFUUULLL

[@kikisquad1583]

Confidence comes from within...

[@calgoulden8223]

not true. self esteem and self confidence dont always come together

[@simplylightness]

I used to feel bad that i dont have close friend or close family member to shere my ups and downs ...but since i know you i've learned alot....thank yu sis you, like a big sis to me ❤i love you

[@tosin1018]

Let me your friend! ❤️❤️❤️ Sending you hugs

[@ezinneclare1234]

Man this is not just a pretty girl...you're a blessing sis..I cried😭❤

[@raba_mctaba2828]

You know what’s crazy, all these things that Taty said are COMPLETELY true but for me what really helped me is music. Once I started focusing on Me and Me only I felt so much better and music is like the cherry on top. 💅🏽

[@shreksspawn2359]

I’m trying to glow up physically and mentally, and your channel helps me so much. Thank you! Hope you’re doing okay!

[@valeriemuchiri9732]

your hair is poppinggggg and thank you so much for making this type of videos they really help

[@ruhamayonas5456]

How is she this much pretty from the inside and from the outside😍😱😍😍😍🥰😘🤗

[@graymaplanka]

Taty "Always-dropping-gems" Cokley❤🧚🏾‍♀️

[@KPTwinz]

Literally to the 1% reading this we wish all the success in the world. We pray that God continues to bless you. And that you live your life to the fullest💕 (Our dream is to one day make it big on KZbin) Thank you🥰

[@maddisoncanty4882]

Hi Taty, I just wanted to say thank you for being a youtube big sister to me when my cousin or my mom are busy and letting me know my self worth. I love you so much and I hope you have an amazing day.❤

[@TatyCokley]

LOVE UUU

[@innongomane7317]

I love this, we tend to compare ourselves in such a way that we forget how beautiful we are and that lowers our self-esteem.

[@hlengiwetonymdluli7750]

Me: girl you need to work on your confidence Taty: Posts video on it😍😇💕

[@bigcoolin5786]

Thank you for helping me with not just my confidence but remind of my worth idk if that makes sense but your videos have really helped me throughout the past 2 years may god bless you #iamenough

[@TatyCokley]

YOU ARE MORE THAN ENOUGH YESSS

[@miajulissa6500]

#iamenough

[@isla295]

Omg! Thank you so much! Ive always felt at least a little insecure. It took me a long time to figure out who I am. I didn’t feel confident in how I looked or how I was on the inside. You helped me so much! Now I can stand with my chin up! Ive never ever felt like that! And now I can truly say that I love myself inside and out, now matter what anyone says or thinks. I am me, and I am enough. You are enough. Don’t let other people bring you down! Thank you so so much. I will never forget the way you’ve made me feel about myself! 💕❤️

[@urielso3211]

You are enough love , keep going 💓💓

[@drizzynya]

She psychic cause everytime I struggle with something she always post something to help me with that 😼😩💓

[@nanaama4083]

It's the consistency for me🤩

[@sirenuty892]

This whole look ? ✨ immaculate ✨.. you’re so beautiful Taty, inside and out 🤎

[@nyiahg5170]

Taty it’s amazing that you just made this video because I was just thinking bad thoughts about myself. God used you.

[@nalie526]

I rewatch this every time I need a reminder 🥰

[@terrybunton194]

OMG you make so much sense. Im a 58 year old gay man and have just been through a rough 4 years. I have a few unique talents and am honing in on them. THANK YOU so much for this. Not enough older people respect OR relate to younger people, they say older = wisdom. Well YOU have it in abundance and btw you loo naturally wonderful probably because you are naturally confident from within. Thank you so much for this

[@lilacxox]

She should start a podcast called Talking with Taty. Ilysm 😘

[@belz630]

i’m already really confident but i love watching this to build it up even moree!🥰

[@crybaby9874]

Oh.My.God. I needed to hear this. I was in the middle of a break down and confused about my worth. You are a beautiful soul, I needed someone to say this to me. After all these years of being talked down to by classmates and parents. People who were supposed to love me no matter what have made me so confused on what I am worth and wonder why I am so different than other people. I so thankful I found this video. I am so thank for who I am.

[@lizie2046]

What inspires me most is the potential I have within myself! ☺️

[@MouniraH]

My queen💗 u literally inspired me to start KZbin so thank you💋

[@TatyCokley]

YAYYY!

[@luisegunther8065]

literally made me cry cause I could relate to every single thing. I'm so grateful for a KZbin like you

[@Michelle-fl8sd]

Heyy booo ! 💖 thanks for the video! I needed it bc I’m finally learning how to love myself and not care what ppl think about me. It’s been a roller coaster and you’ve honestly helped me a lot bc I re-watch all your videos of how to❤️💖 thank you for being an amazing person taty!!!😭🥺

[@TatyCokley]

aw omg i love youuuu

[@lynnegitonga2731]

Yeiiiiih, l was so waiting for her, missed you taty🤗🤗, her vibe makes my night. PERIOOD❤️😌

[@Bingbongq]

Not having any friends really takes a toll on confidence

[@darbreka864]

Imma support your channel because you are a young independent women and we all deserve the best that life offers! ❣❣❣ God bless 🙌

[@aydenmartins2633]

My best friend sees things in me that I don't see in myself. He supports me and motivates me to do my best... He is my biggest fan and it helps so much❤

[@ralucanim5564]

MY BIG SISTER IS BAACK!!❤️❤️

[@aashnachadda4175]

You’re literally a queennn tatyyy

[@roseoaks8973]

Can we just talk about how beautiful her hair is it’s so natural and healthy it’s just so beautiful go off 💅🏽😍

[@jolieyap5993]

She always speaking so pure and genuinely 💗

[@niki2238]

YESS this is the energy I NEEDED 🔥🔥

[@rosielopez1394]

ahh im so glad you posted, today has been tough mentally and I need thisss ily💓💓💓

[@user-ck8gt1vx7f]

Crazy. I JUST prayed about this (confidence) last night & ur video popped up on my home page/feed. Ur voice & msg was pretty much the answer to my prayers. Ur videos have helped me see the light during my darkest moments. Tysm 🙏🏽 Pls write a book! 😭❤️

[@EK-ps4vk]

I'm 44 years old and I'm learning how to love myself!

[@user-ht2qz2lo6d]

Your a life SAVER TATY!!! I have been missing my ex friend but I know they are toxic. Its the holidays and I need to regain the confidence that I lost over the past months!

[@ngv2016]

I love her she is so pretty and know what’s she is talking about ❤️❤️🥺🥺

[@jae-jones]

what inspires me everyday is the self-love and self-determination i have in me ,as well as my family and my brother inlaw that passed away, bc i know he wouldn't have wanted to see me fail🕊💘 #IAmEnough.❤

[@addicted183]

I needed this so much today Taty thank you. For me I never received attention from guys growing up. Now that I've had a glow up in the last few years, I've had super attractive guys come on to me. This feeling feels foreign to be and I'm trying really hard not to crave attention and validation from men by doing things that fulfill me internally. You broke it down beautifully to the tee.

[@kennedy4230]

Can we just talk about how defined Taty’s curls are 😍❤️ I love when you give advice Taty and I would like to see more videos where we get to hear more storytimes and more about you.

[@annnyala]

The timing of this >>>

[@Mimbfffffj]

What inspires me is watching soft life,productive female youtubers videos and vlogs. It inspires me to not only start a youtube channel, but to also incorporate productive things into my life as well.

[@ilaiwright2408]

I love that you always make videos like this! They’re so helpful and relatable. I’ve been subscribed to you for a while & I admire how adamant you are about reminding us how important self love is. 💗💗💗

[@rashreenolorcisimo5527]

I watched this last month and I guess I wasn’t in the right mindset to even grasp what she was spilling, but girl, now I’m more calmed and everything she just said is replaying on my mind now. 🙈

[@angelinaandrew3451]

She's the big sister I never had !!!!! 😔❤ I love youuuuuu❤

[@thandekathando5004]

Hii taty am thandeka from south Africa I've been watching a lot of your shows and you've really helped me a lot bcuz I was really breaking down and I really need a person to talk to bcuz I feel like am losing my self bcuz of tha situation happening around me🙁🙁🙁🙁

[@verushkanaicker3068]

You’re like a big sister to me and I love it sm😭❤️

[@theemarixo]

Its been 5 FREAKING daysss😩i missed you girl💕 !

[@jonnakhan1641]

MY BIG SISTER PERIOD!....I love you and thank you, I really needed this.

[@hcx2885]

It is something I’ve been working on for 2/3 years.. It seams I can’t be confident... I’m still working on it but it’s been hard.. I’ve a toxic family and friends, I’m trying to get ride of them but they put me always down. It’s like the things you say are not true if you know what I mean, for me it’s been impossible I fear a lot, it doesn’t allow me to believe in myself and feel worthy I feel that I’m less then others. But still your videos have been helping me it takes time but I hope to get there one day.

[@tanadin4883]

Get rid of the friends. But if ur still young and can’t get rid of ur family. Stay strong sis.

[@juliabrustad4651]

This is so perfect for me right now... Its been really rough for me. Much love to you!

[@Layla-ph6xg]

Your so pretty gingers are so rare and beautiful

[@bnw1222]

can we have a hair routine pleeeeaaaaseeeee! your hair is so pretty like that!

[@aliyahmesa9359]

I love ads and sponsors that are actually relevant so thank you.

[@AustenTosone]

I love the idea of your value being attached to who you are and not what you physically look like or what you own. I've learned so much about myself in this past year about what means the most to me and what my priorities are and it all has to do with that intangible love of creating content and how I treat my friends and family. Loved this video!

[@ikyouknoweknow]

PERFECT TIMING

[@Jasminesim18]

I think this is my fave video by you. I’m watching it twice because it was just so helpful and everything you said is the TRUTH, it made me cry a little. Tysm 🥺💗

[@viciachilikwako4143]

Just started following and am mind blown My insecurity has always been being too tall, outchea feeling like tall girl Never comparing myself to anyone again!

[@__Itsrye]

thank you ❤️ I could relate to everything you said and now I feel like I know the steps the take to build my self confidence, self love, self worth, self esteem, self awareness etc. 🥺.

[@theladieslounge01]

Your content are always on point. Who else loves her so much😍

[@kaii2602]

I found your page literally today, I'm so glad I found you gorg! I've just gotten over a break up and your advice is what I need. I stan someone like you 😌❤️

[@catrina3909]

Thank you taty for being supportive . Thank you for being a voice , influencer! I hope one day to collaborate with someone like you! Cuz we need to talk about these issues so the world can be a better place 😭❤️

[@lavishly4325]

I have anxiety but ima try this ✨💓

[@joselyntoledo3837]

I’m in school now, I can’t wait to get home and start fixing myself 😂

[@AsiasShow_]

It’s the beauty for me....it’s the hair for me girl u bomb🔥

[@Lex_stewart]

I hate to say it but work. I consume myself with work to think I'm enough 🥺 If I don't have alot going on... I don't feel like im enough. I know it's wrong but im working on not feeling this way. My friends always get on me for being a workaholic. I swear you always come through at the perfect time ❤

[@miavent5946]

Taty cares more about me than anyone else ❤️

[@fatimadelgadomonteiro8819]

Can you do a video “How to stop overthinking “ , please 🙏🏽

[@jane3473]

Wow. I’m so happy I randomly found your channel.