HOW TO BUILD YOUR CONFIDENCE AS A STYLIST! TIPS THAT HELPED ME

[@alyssakb808]

Hi, did you ever struggle with mental health issues like anxiety and depression during the beginning of your career? Because i do have those problems and it’s been on and off since I started. My confidence really drained but this video actually answered a lot of my problems and I really appreciate you for that. I just wanted to know if it’ll get easier cuz I’m literally a first year stylist.

[@haleigh7592]

I soo needed this! I’ll be graduating from cos school soon and I am definitely a “doormat” type of person and highly critical of myself so I am absolutely prone to letting people take advantage and I’m glad others can relate and have overcome it! This was such an encouragement to me, great message🤍

[@aprildamski7372]

Thank you for this video Jess. I became a stylist in 1988, I got out of it because of confidence problems and working in Toxic salons. I'm much older now, and am ready to continue my passion for doing hair and making people feel beautiful! You tips really helped me. I will remember them as I go forward! Thanks Again! - April

[@cassandraathome8081]

I couldn’t agree with this more! I’ve been doing hair for 3 years. It was not as easy as I thought it would be at first. These are all things I have struggled with and learned over time. I still criticize my own work and I’m still always learning.

[@elizalange]

I would love to see a video all about booth renting and tips and tricks on how to be successful!

[@VictoriaMeadors]

Wow this video came at the right time. I’ve had a few clients these last few weeks that have questioned my career with hair.

[@xoprincessgab_NCHair]

Yesterday was my first day at my first salon and it was terrifying. But by the end of the day I couldn’t have been happier ❤️

[@laurenjicinsky9491]

This is so nice to hear, I recently no longer have a salon home due to COVID-19 and workplace bullying so this makes me feel better. I totally appreciate you being up front and honest that our industry can be so difficult!

[@elizalange]

At my first salon job, I was bullied and it was really rough. I noticed as soon as I left that work environment how much more confident I was and how much I grew! I wish you the best of luck finding a good salon! It can be tough, but you’ll find one!

[@amyspatz5821]

I totally needed this. Last week I had a client flip out on me because I was "to new". Mind you I never even cut it, all I did was part it. It rattled my confidence for a few days.

[@priscillanieto3322]

Sorry that has happened to you! I recently had a hair cut appointment at my school and the client looked all worried when I was cutting her hair, especially since she's getting married this fall. That makes me a little upset because she went to a school where everyone is learning and then acted like she was worried and that I didn't know what I was doing. I get it could be scary but if you go into a school you have to mentally prepare for anything. I find it hard to build my cofidence when clients act like I have no idea what I'm doing.

[@soimsha.]

Just because you’re new doesn’t mean that you don’t know what you’re doing

[@TheIrenevlogs]

LOVE YOU & YOUR WORK! This video couldn’t have come at a better time. I’ve been doing hair for 2 years and my confidence has been up and down lately... Thank you for taking the time to post. You have been a huge inspiration to me on my journey! I have been watching you for over a year now and your growth is amazing!! Keep it up. 🙌🏼👍🏼👏🏼

[@christinajones7377]

Needed these reminders today Jessi! I've been doing hair for 14yrs, returned to it full time 3yrs ago after a 5yr break, just opened my tiny 1 chair salon...in a pandemic no doubt...and I have just struggled to find my footing! Being OCD & extremely critical of my work doesn't LOL. BTW...you look great & hope you're enjoying your sweet boy 💙

[@oscarjr1991]

Congratulations on your baby!! Love your videos your such an inspiration!! And your looking so beautiful!!

[@kpstyling]

Great! Video. I sent it to my team full of new and experienced stylists. Thanks for your content!

[@thecraftyhairdressercardsa205]

What a great video, it’s always good to keep up with other stylists I think. I’d love to see videos on how you will juggle being a mum and working ☺️

[@sunshine-bs2jx]

I agree with that in the beginning we try to please and get walked all over sometimes. I'm 30yrs in the business and you do learn !

[@iwonabojko8755]

Could you do a video on tips how to build your clientele?

[@kobrasakha1032]

Hey can you make a video on how to advertise yourself and build a clientele? Thank you in advance! 😘

[@LeatherAndLace23]

Thank you for sharing ,, I’m new hairstylist

[@smilejesuslovesyou8108]

That’s awesome!!! Good for you, don’t give up on the hard days it’s going to get hard... persevere and show them that you were trained to give them a service and follow through!!! New eyes and new stylist are great!!!

[@makeupbyrowyn]

amazing video ❤️

[@latanyalaine5269]

I’ve been doing hair for 8 months now & it’s definitely scary lol

[@chrystalledbetter2954]

Fuert Neigt she just had a baby....talk about bullying...she looks glowy and beautiful

[@arwenwild7743]

Maybe when your baby is 3-4...... you can do one , of how to build your confidence back after Having a baby/toddler. ♥️

[@kirk46738]

Can you cut my 3 daughters hair and color thire hair

[@Rose-ui2eh]

💕💕

[@hairstylist135]

🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

[@metalkingtohorses]

are you having an allergic reaction to something your face looks swollen ( I'm not saying this to be mean , I am just noticing cheeks ) I had a friend who was allergic to medication and it did same thing

[@ryannhansen]

she just had a baby!

[@justjessiiii]

Thanks for the concern, i just had a baby 5 weeks ago so i have about 15 more pounds to lose;)

[@metalkingtohorses]

@@justjessiiii you are gorgeous always and glad you are well I was worried take care!

[@smilejesuslovesyou8108]

Ok so how long do you wait to not be walked all over lmao... I know That’s terrible and I love my clients and their needs are very important... however I’m a person with a life and NEEDS beyond lashing and hair

[@VictoriaMeadors]

Sarah Shepard I totally get how you are feeling!

[@Carmelj90]

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