Thank you for this video. I just lost 4 weeks ago and my partner asked me, "When does menopause happen to women?", and it killed me, and dealing with a partner's disregard makes it that much harder. I went to church and lit a candle thanking God for showing me I could conceive. The heaviness isn't everyday, but small triggers will come. Thank you again.
@TheASMRPsychologist Жыл бұрын
My thoughts are with you my friend xx
@electricred91 Жыл бұрын
I miscarried at 5 weeks it hurts so much😢😢
@Mytime.295Ай бұрын
Me at 5th month😔😞10days ago
@JesusIsKing1233410 ай бұрын
I want to try and have another baby again after my miscarriage. Praying for all those seeking support. ❤
@TheASMRPsychologist10 ай бұрын
Good luck my friend xx
@k8mitwif3 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry for your loss. I haven't suffered miscarriage personally but my daughter has, and I need to better understand how to help. This is so sensitive and thoughtful. Thank you 💜
@brocku05 ай бұрын
my girlfriend and i are 18 and 16, we found out we were expecting, i got my shit together, got a well paying job, started reading dad books. she was eating better, resting and taking better care of herself. today we got the news that we had twins, but neither had a heartbeat. now we’re left with a box with pictures and 2 teddy bears. i’ve been through a lot in my short time on this earth but this is almost too much to bare. God will bring them back to us when we’re ready.
@TheASMRPsychologist5 ай бұрын
Your wisdom will serve you well, it is impressive. Warmest wishes my friend xx
@Lpriv07717 күн бұрын
I just wish I could hug every woman who is watching this I hope you heal and finally have your baby ❤
@ishaanmaitra3031Ай бұрын
This is fantastic. We just received our devastating news today. Thankyou for giving us some comfort.
@TheASMRPsychologistАй бұрын
Bless you my friend. I'm glad the video gave you some comfort 😘
@comery19816 жыл бұрын
Thank you Emma. Me and my partner watched this after our recent miscarriage. It has helped him to understand his feelings a little more through watching this.
@09shaylibra3 жыл бұрын
Excellent video. Couldn't believe I went thru this but I'm happy there is someone who can relate and offer encouragement and support 💛💚
@leonievw24668 ай бұрын
Thank you. I had a misscariage twice, and what my logical mind is thinking is something else then I am feeling. This helped, I started to live more healthy so I'm seeing this as an opportunity for learning.😊
@TheASMRPsychologist8 ай бұрын
I love your attitude my friend 😘
@BhagyaBlossom23 күн бұрын
Thank you for this video. You said everything I needed to hear to feel better and reassured me during this difficult time. Thank you so much!
@TheASMRPsychologist22 күн бұрын
You are so welcome my friend xx
@amberrussell68533 жыл бұрын
Can’t wait to watch this again with my partner. This just shifted my perspective and I feel as if I’m not powerless, like I’ve been feeling. Thank you so much for sharing your unique expression of this topic!🙂
@stavroulaplaiti433925 күн бұрын
Thank you! This was a really helpful video.
@amnah10000 Жыл бұрын
Thank you this! I had miscarriage this weekend at 9 weeks and I feel devastated but I am grateful to your video for the hope it has given me.
@TheASMRPsychologist Жыл бұрын
Oh my friend, that is heartbreaking 💔 It doesn't always work out the way we think it is going to but that doesn't mean it won't work out. I had 3 miscarriages and now have 4 sons, be careful what you wish for 😉😘
@amnah10000 Жыл бұрын
@@TheASMRPsychologist Thank you so much! It was very painful weekend for my family but I am physically healing and I know my heart will heal, I am hopeful but scared, we have 3 healthy children so we're grateful for that. Thank you again ❤
@NthSA3 жыл бұрын
I can't express how this video and your words help me in one of the worst moments of my life. one by one, the tips soothed me deeply and took me out of the state of deep sadness I was in. I am immensely grateful! 💛
@karens5493 жыл бұрын
Same, I miscarried 3 months ago and words couldn’t describe the pain I felt at the time. I still have my moments but i keep re-watching your video (multiple times a day when it first happened to only needing it every so often now). After a few health barriers that are now resolved, my husband and I are ready to try again. Thank you 🙏
@cauthoncrazy9 ай бұрын
Thank you for making this!
@TheASMRPsychologist9 ай бұрын
My pleasure my friend, warmest wishes xx
@jessicanajera2011 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video I miscarried my twins yesterday at 14 weeks. I feel lost like I did something wrong. It’s hard to stop my tears.
@TheASMRPsychologist11 ай бұрын
My friend, this was out of your hands. There is a way forward from here, you will find it soon. My thoughts are with you, keep in touch x
@debleeann8111 ай бұрын
I’m sorry for your loss,Praying for you
@Phylqueen11 ай бұрын
I suffered loss yesterday. At exactly 16weeks 1day. 😢 I haven't stopped crying since. I already want to feel pregnant again but 😢😢😢
@marinaeller47573 жыл бұрын
This is really really hard, but your video is one of the only things that helped. Thanks a lot
@andreajean52365 ай бұрын
Hi have you had a baby yet ? If not let me know I have some tips that helped me
@smegsone13 жыл бұрын
I wish I had found this video sooner.
@biancamarcellous50078 ай бұрын
This is the WORST thing to go through as a woman... totally destroyed any hope I had.. I’m 32 but I feel like my life is over
@TheASMRPsychologist8 ай бұрын
My thoughts are with you my friend xx
@beautystill8 ай бұрын
4 years later and I still feel empty 😢🥺💔.... But I recently had another child in 2023 so I also give my miscarriage it's own identity because I feel like I shouldnt considered my baby as a rainbow baby it makes me feel like I'm disregarding the lost of my other baby but I thank God for my 3 precious babies I have here with me I just always know my li angel guard us everyday and watching over us
@aner363 жыл бұрын
One of the best videos of this matter, it helped a lot Other ones are just individual experiences, wich did not help us Thank you
@MsAdel493 жыл бұрын
Really needed to hear this! Thank you
@addynyakwenegura17822 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this. . . You do not know how it has helped me cope
@АртурСлепокуров-у5у3 жыл бұрын
In this video, you mention several times about “next pregnancies”. What happens if the miscarried pregnancy was an “accident”, that we decided to keep. Intentionally, we won’t have another child in the future. One parent is for, one is against. How do you deal with this?
@eliagarcia8062 Жыл бұрын
This is exactly my situation 😢
@TheASMRPsychologist6 жыл бұрын
So glad it helped x
@jenniferfrazierlpc71717 ай бұрын
Thank you for the video. It was very helpful!🙏🏾💕
@TheASMRPsychologist7 ай бұрын
You are so welcome!
@ambererickson59404 жыл бұрын
Jesus has been my only comfort matthew 11:28-30
@saryahpittman54934 жыл бұрын
Mine too🙁🥺❤❤
@debleeann8111 ай бұрын
i had a molar pregnancy at age 25,a child at 27,&29,then i just had a miscarriage at age 41 at 9 weeks.I felt i maybe too old to carry a baby although i know many women have babies at my age.
@TheASMRPsychologist11 ай бұрын
They certainly do my friend. I had one a 40 and my 4th at 44! But I also had 3 miscarriages between No 3 & 4. Warmest wishes, my thoughts are with you xx
@sharonjohanna726110 ай бұрын
Thank you
@TheASMRPsychologist10 ай бұрын
Pleasure my friend xx
@maddiefranken88967 ай бұрын
I had a miscarriage recently it was hard and my dr said i couldn't have kids anymore
@TheASMRPsychologist7 ай бұрын
Oh my friend 😔 Do you mind me asking, what is the reason they gave you when they told you you couldn't have kids anymore?
@maddiefranken88967 ай бұрын
@@TheASMRPsychologist beacuse of haveing trouble with bad heart problems and haveing trouble with haveing kids it's hard I cry about it everyday
@TheASMRPsychologist7 ай бұрын
Is your doctor a cardiologist?
@maddiefranken88967 ай бұрын
@@TheASMRPsychologist obgyn dr told me
@TheASMRPsychologist7 ай бұрын
I would be tempted to get a second opinion on this from specialist cardiologist, especially if this is something that is important to you.
@donnajohnso20933 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much💞💞💞💞
@BirthdayGirlEnergyАй бұрын
Years later I still can't get over it maybe because it was my first pregnancy and miscarriage 😢
@TheASMRPsychologistАй бұрын
I wish I could help you more than is possible here on KZbin x I would suggest starting here: harleypsychologygroup.com/tests/grief/ It sounds to me like you may be struggling with a prolonged grief disorder, you might benefit from some specialist help. Good luck my friend xx
@ShivaniRathore-j9k10 ай бұрын
Unfortunately I had two misscarriage one after the other in 2023 only. Its seems like 2023 is very unfortunate for me.Its disturbing me a lot inside out.
@TheASMRPsychologist10 ай бұрын
Oh my friend, I feel so sad for you. I hope that you turn a corner soon. My thoughts are with you xx
@AriannaBailey-nk5xe Жыл бұрын
Had to stop after the first tip, because I have had two miscarriages in 4 months. It’s not comforting to hear the stats that most women go on to have a healthy pregnancy. I didn’t. Someone has to be in the shitty side of the stat. And this time it was me.
@TheASMRPsychologist Жыл бұрын
It's a tough tough time and sometimes there is nothing that can take away from that. I had 3 miscarriages in 9 months, then accidentally fell pregnant. He's 6 now! I wrote the book/created these videos for people like us. During 'my time' I realised that just because it's not working out the way you thought it would doesn't mean it won't work out. Warmest wishes my friend x
@freshprogressbeauty5 жыл бұрын
Excellent video!
@TheASMRPsychologist5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for taking the time to give me feedback, I really appreciate it. Really glad that you found the video helpful. Warmest wishes Dr Gray
@cosmically.chanchal6 жыл бұрын
Feeling better😐
@TheASMRPsychologist6 жыл бұрын
There will be something good round the next corner for you x
@SarahHammer-o2t Жыл бұрын
Stopped video after tip 1…that’s just not true and I felt shamed as a person who was NOT actually able to conceive after two miscarriages. You are a professional, you should know better. I’m disappointed that this is where you start.
@TheASMRPsychologist Жыл бұрын
I understand your suffering my friend, I have experienced 3 miscarriages. I hope that you can find some comfort and I am sorry that you did not find it here. Warmest wishes x
@DunkNat3 жыл бұрын
I just got told to stop being sorry for myself 12 days after, nearly grinded my bottom teeth off, biting my tongue etc, can't stand still, leg shaking, haven't eaten for days. I Don't think I'm just in it for the sympathy....I have been propagating and in the garden to keep busy.