How To Cope With Miscarriage - 6 Tips

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The ASMR Psychologist

The ASMR Psychologist

Күн бұрын

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@glendav.8159
@glendav.8159 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. I just lost 4 weeks ago and my partner asked me, "When does menopause happen to women?", and it killed me, and dealing with a partner's disregard makes it that much harder. I went to church and lit a candle thanking God for showing me I could conceive. The heaviness isn't everyday, but small triggers will come. Thank you again.
@TheASMRPsychologist
@TheASMRPsychologist Жыл бұрын
My thoughts are with you my friend xx
@electricred91
@electricred91 Жыл бұрын
I miscarried at 5 weeks it hurts so much😢😢
@Mytime.295
@Mytime.295 Ай бұрын
Me at 5th month😔😞10days ago
@JesusIsKing12334
@JesusIsKing12334 10 ай бұрын
I want to try and have another baby again after my miscarriage. Praying for all those seeking support. ❤
@TheASMRPsychologist
@TheASMRPsychologist 10 ай бұрын
Good luck my friend xx
@k8mitwif
@k8mitwif 3 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry for your loss. I haven't suffered miscarriage personally but my daughter has, and I need to better understand how to help. This is so sensitive and thoughtful. Thank you 💜
@brocku0
@brocku0 5 ай бұрын
my girlfriend and i are 18 and 16, we found out we were expecting, i got my shit together, got a well paying job, started reading dad books. she was eating better, resting and taking better care of herself. today we got the news that we had twins, but neither had a heartbeat. now we’re left with a box with pictures and 2 teddy bears. i’ve been through a lot in my short time on this earth but this is almost too much to bare. God will bring them back to us when we’re ready.
@TheASMRPsychologist
@TheASMRPsychologist 5 ай бұрын
Your wisdom will serve you well, it is impressive. Warmest wishes my friend xx
@Lpriv077
@Lpriv077 17 күн бұрын
I just wish I could hug every woman who is watching this I hope you heal and finally have your baby ❤
@ishaanmaitra3031
@ishaanmaitra3031 Ай бұрын
This is fantastic. We just received our devastating news today. Thankyou for giving us some comfort.
@TheASMRPsychologist
@TheASMRPsychologist Ай бұрын
Bless you my friend. I'm glad the video gave you some comfort 😘
@comery1981
@comery1981 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you Emma. Me and my partner watched this after our recent miscarriage. It has helped him to understand his feelings a little more through watching this.
@09shaylibra
@09shaylibra 3 жыл бұрын
Excellent video. Couldn't believe I went thru this but I'm happy there is someone who can relate and offer encouragement and support 💛💚
@leonievw2466
@leonievw2466 8 ай бұрын
Thank you. I had a misscariage twice, and what my logical mind is thinking is something else then I am feeling. This helped, I started to live more healthy so I'm seeing this as an opportunity for learning.😊
@TheASMRPsychologist
@TheASMRPsychologist 8 ай бұрын
I love your attitude my friend 😘
@BhagyaBlossom
@BhagyaBlossom 23 күн бұрын
Thank you for this video. You said everything I needed to hear to feel better and reassured me during this difficult time. Thank you so much!
@TheASMRPsychologist
@TheASMRPsychologist 22 күн бұрын
You are so welcome my friend xx
@amberrussell6853
@amberrussell6853 3 жыл бұрын
Can’t wait to watch this again with my partner. This just shifted my perspective and I feel as if I’m not powerless, like I’ve been feeling. Thank you so much for sharing your unique expression of this topic!🙂
@stavroulaplaiti4339
@stavroulaplaiti4339 25 күн бұрын
Thank you! This was a really helpful video.
@amnah10000
@amnah10000 Жыл бұрын
Thank you this! I had miscarriage this weekend at 9 weeks and I feel devastated but I am grateful to your video for the hope it has given me.
@TheASMRPsychologist
@TheASMRPsychologist Жыл бұрын
Oh my friend, that is heartbreaking 💔 It doesn't always work out the way we think it is going to but that doesn't mean it won't work out. I had 3 miscarriages and now have 4 sons, be careful what you wish for 😉😘
@amnah10000
@amnah10000 Жыл бұрын
@@TheASMRPsychologist Thank you so much! It was very painful weekend for my family but I am physically healing and I know my heart will heal, I am hopeful but scared, we have 3 healthy children so we're grateful for that. Thank you again ❤
@NthSA
@NthSA 3 жыл бұрын
I can't express how this video and your words help me in one of the worst moments of my life. one by one, the tips soothed me deeply and took me out of the state of deep sadness I was in. I am immensely grateful! 💛
@karens549
@karens549 3 жыл бұрын
Same, I miscarried 3 months ago and words couldn’t describe the pain I felt at the time. I still have my moments but i keep re-watching your video (multiple times a day when it first happened to only needing it every so often now). After a few health barriers that are now resolved, my husband and I are ready to try again. Thank you 🙏
@cauthoncrazy
@cauthoncrazy 9 ай бұрын
Thank you for making this!
@TheASMRPsychologist
@TheASMRPsychologist 9 ай бұрын
My pleasure my friend, warmest wishes xx
@jessicanajera20
@jessicanajera20 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video I miscarried my twins yesterday at 14 weeks. I feel lost like I did something wrong. It’s hard to stop my tears.
@TheASMRPsychologist
@TheASMRPsychologist 11 ай бұрын
My friend, this was out of your hands. There is a way forward from here, you will find it soon. My thoughts are with you, keep in touch x
@debleeann81
@debleeann81 11 ай бұрын
I’m sorry for your loss,Praying for you
@Phylqueen
@Phylqueen 11 ай бұрын
I suffered loss yesterday. At exactly 16weeks 1day. 😢 I haven't stopped crying since. I already want to feel pregnant again but 😢😢😢
@marinaeller4757
@marinaeller4757 3 жыл бұрын
This is really really hard, but your video is one of the only things that helped. Thanks a lot
@andreajean5236
@andreajean5236 5 ай бұрын
Hi have you had a baby yet ? If not let me know I have some tips that helped me
@smegsone1
@smegsone1 3 жыл бұрын
I wish I had found this video sooner.
@biancamarcellous5007
@biancamarcellous5007 8 ай бұрын
This is the WORST thing to go through as a woman... totally destroyed any hope I had.. I’m 32 but I feel like my life is over
@TheASMRPsychologist
@TheASMRPsychologist 8 ай бұрын
My thoughts are with you my friend xx
@beautystill
@beautystill 8 ай бұрын
4 years later and I still feel empty 😢🥺💔.... But I recently had another child in 2023 so I also give my miscarriage it's own identity because I feel like I shouldnt considered my baby as a rainbow baby it makes me feel like I'm disregarding the lost of my other baby but I thank God for my 3 precious babies I have here with me I just always know my li angel guard us everyday and watching over us
@aner36
@aner36 3 жыл бұрын
One of the best videos of this matter, it helped a lot Other ones are just individual experiences, wich did not help us Thank you
@MsAdel49
@MsAdel49 3 жыл бұрын
Really needed to hear this! Thank you
@addynyakwenegura1782
@addynyakwenegura1782 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this. . . You do not know how it has helped me cope
@АртурСлепокуров-у5у
@АртурСлепокуров-у5у 3 жыл бұрын
In this video, you mention several times about “next pregnancies”. What happens if the miscarried pregnancy was an “accident”, that we decided to keep. Intentionally, we won’t have another child in the future. One parent is for, one is against. How do you deal with this?
@eliagarcia8062
@eliagarcia8062 Жыл бұрын
This is exactly my situation 😢
@TheASMRPsychologist
@TheASMRPsychologist 6 жыл бұрын
So glad it helped x
@jenniferfrazierlpc7171
@jenniferfrazierlpc7171 7 ай бұрын
Thank you for the video. It was very helpful!🙏🏾💕
@TheASMRPsychologist
@TheASMRPsychologist 7 ай бұрын
You are so welcome!
@ambererickson5940
@ambererickson5940 4 жыл бұрын
Jesus has been my only comfort matthew 11:28-30
@saryahpittman5493
@saryahpittman5493 4 жыл бұрын
Mine too🙁🥺❤❤
@debleeann81
@debleeann81 11 ай бұрын
i had a molar pregnancy at age 25,a child at 27,&29,then i just had a miscarriage at age 41 at 9 weeks.I felt i maybe too old to carry a baby although i know many women have babies at my age.
@TheASMRPsychologist
@TheASMRPsychologist 11 ай бұрын
They certainly do my friend. I had one a 40 and my 4th at 44! But I also had 3 miscarriages between No 3 & 4. Warmest wishes, my thoughts are with you xx
@sharonjohanna7261
@sharonjohanna7261 10 ай бұрын
Thank you
@TheASMRPsychologist
@TheASMRPsychologist 10 ай бұрын
Pleasure my friend xx
@maddiefranken8896
@maddiefranken8896 7 ай бұрын
I had a miscarriage recently it was hard and my dr said i couldn't have kids anymore
@TheASMRPsychologist
@TheASMRPsychologist 7 ай бұрын
Oh my friend 😔 Do you mind me asking, what is the reason they gave you when they told you you couldn't have kids anymore?
@maddiefranken8896
@maddiefranken8896 7 ай бұрын
@@TheASMRPsychologist beacuse of haveing trouble with bad heart problems and haveing trouble with haveing kids it's hard I cry about it everyday
@TheASMRPsychologist
@TheASMRPsychologist 7 ай бұрын
Is your doctor a cardiologist?
@maddiefranken8896
@maddiefranken8896 7 ай бұрын
@@TheASMRPsychologist obgyn dr told me
@TheASMRPsychologist
@TheASMRPsychologist 7 ай бұрын
I would be tempted to get a second opinion on this from specialist cardiologist, especially if this is something that is important to you.
@donnajohnso2093
@donnajohnso2093 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much💞💞💞💞
@BirthdayGirlEnergy
@BirthdayGirlEnergy Ай бұрын
Years later I still can't get over it maybe because it was my first pregnancy and miscarriage 😢
@TheASMRPsychologist
@TheASMRPsychologist Ай бұрын
I wish I could help you more than is possible here on KZbin x I would suggest starting here: harleypsychologygroup.com/tests/grief/ It sounds to me like you may be struggling with a prolonged grief disorder, you might benefit from some specialist help. Good luck my friend xx
@ShivaniRathore-j9k
@ShivaniRathore-j9k 10 ай бұрын
Unfortunately I had two misscarriage one after the other in 2023 only. Its seems like 2023 is very unfortunate for me.Its disturbing me a lot inside out.
@TheASMRPsychologist
@TheASMRPsychologist 10 ай бұрын
Oh my friend, I feel so sad for you. I hope that you turn a corner soon. My thoughts are with you xx
@AriannaBailey-nk5xe
@AriannaBailey-nk5xe Жыл бұрын
Had to stop after the first tip, because I have had two miscarriages in 4 months. It’s not comforting to hear the stats that most women go on to have a healthy pregnancy. I didn’t. Someone has to be in the shitty side of the stat. And this time it was me.
@TheASMRPsychologist
@TheASMRPsychologist Жыл бұрын
It's a tough tough time and sometimes there is nothing that can take away from that. I had 3 miscarriages in 9 months, then accidentally fell pregnant. He's 6 now! I wrote the book/created these videos for people like us. During 'my time' I realised that just because it's not working out the way you thought it would doesn't mean it won't work out. Warmest wishes my friend x
@freshprogressbeauty
@freshprogressbeauty 5 жыл бұрын
Excellent video!
@TheASMRPsychologist
@TheASMRPsychologist 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for taking the time to give me feedback, I really appreciate it. Really glad that you found the video helpful. Warmest wishes Dr Gray
@cosmically.chanchal
@cosmically.chanchal 6 жыл бұрын
Feeling better😐
@TheASMRPsychologist
@TheASMRPsychologist 6 жыл бұрын
There will be something good round the next corner for you x
@SarahHammer-o2t
@SarahHammer-o2t Жыл бұрын
Stopped video after tip 1…that’s just not true and I felt shamed as a person who was NOT actually able to conceive after two miscarriages. You are a professional, you should know better. I’m disappointed that this is where you start.
@TheASMRPsychologist
@TheASMRPsychologist Жыл бұрын
I understand your suffering my friend, I have experienced 3 miscarriages. I hope that you can find some comfort and I am sorry that you did not find it here. Warmest wishes x
@DunkNat
@DunkNat 3 жыл бұрын
I just got told to stop being sorry for myself 12 days after, nearly grinded my bottom teeth off, biting my tongue etc, can't stand still, leg shaking, haven't eaten for days. I Don't think I'm just in it for the sympathy....I have been propagating and in the garden to keep busy.
@disheeple
@disheeple 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@annoconnell9835
@annoconnell9835 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you
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