How to deal with a Cheating Partner | Eram Saeed

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Eram Saeed

Eram Saeed

Күн бұрын

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@asifqureshi2176
@asifqureshi2176 2 жыл бұрын
The person whose spouse cheat can't sleep peacefully. It's not wise to give another chance. Because cheating is not a mistake it's a choice. You should not trust again who are proved cheaters once. Trust is earned its not like a switch to turn on or off.
@Sky21blue40
@Sky21blue40 2 жыл бұрын
Bhai, pehla baar ka gunha to Allah bhi maaf karte hai to phir hum kiya cheez hai.. maaf karne se aap ki shaksiyat aur badi hoti hai samne wale ki nazar me..
@sarahstarr
@sarahstarr 2 жыл бұрын
Bilkul sahi kaha apne. Cheating is a CHOICE. ghalti se cheating ki he nahi ja sakti. Tamam hosh o hawash k sath insan steps le raha hota hai.
@staysee3968
@staysee3968 2 жыл бұрын
Great words😢
@staysee3968
@staysee3968 2 жыл бұрын
@Kashan Pervaiz true
@MOHIBFREEFIRE-d3c
@MOHIBFREEFIRE-d3c Жыл бұрын
I am totally agree with you
@hamzarehman8509
@hamzarehman8509 Жыл бұрын
Cheating is a choice . Once a cheater will always be a cheater . Loyalty is something which does exist rarely in our society . May Allah bless a loyal soulmate .
@kanwalnaz8075
@kanwalnaz8075 Жыл бұрын
But is there a way to gain his trust again ? Is there a way to save my relationship
@hamzarehman8509
@hamzarehman8509 Жыл бұрын
@@kanwalnaz8075 if he's is possessive he won't give any other chance if he does he won't be able to trust you again , Secondly if you are a Muslim keep on repenting and ask for forgiveness in front of the listener, Would suggest you to move on and Don't loose your self respect if he doesn't give ---the second chance. May Allah show you the righteous path.
@umarfarid2780
@umarfarid2780 3 ай бұрын
Yes cheating is by choice it's not a mistake
@boba1112
@boba1112 2 жыл бұрын
Cheating cannot be acceptable at all !
@AsmatBhat-r2f
@AsmatBhat-r2f 5 ай бұрын
I know better the pain of being cheated when u blindly trust and love your spouse .....I think I would never come out of this trauma ...I am silently suffering with the trauma
@umer8226
@umer8226 4 ай бұрын
What happen with you
@habibasyeda5366
@habibasyeda5366 2 жыл бұрын
That's is ridiculous and misleading !! I forgave my husband 3times !! The 1st time he changed alot and valued me and cried and held me close, and was really understanding towards me ! But dnt be blinded it was just his way to blind me with love agen because 3months later wen I was heavily pregnant I find out he has gone back to his ways !! Stop trying to justify a cheating man ! Once a cheat always a cheat !! SIMPLE...if he loves you he wud never hurt you in the 1st place, yes he may value temporarily but then he wud go through a love bombing phase but soon then gets bored and cheat its in there nature!! A good man would worship the ground you walk on, FIND A MAN THAT LOVES YOU MORE THAN YOU LOVE HIM, moral of the story .
@sohelasabrin
@sohelasabrin 10 ай бұрын
Did u leave him?
@kishorkiran3921
@kishorkiran3921 9 ай бұрын
Hlo i want a advice
@sohelasabrin
@sohelasabrin 9 ай бұрын
@@kishorkiran3921 what advice
@madihamotiya3674
@madihamotiya3674 8 ай бұрын
Did you leave him?
@rituitis
@rituitis 8 ай бұрын
R u together now
@fatimajamalussama
@fatimajamalussama Жыл бұрын
Easier said than done. Unless u have urself gone through it, u cannot lecture or advice people. The emotional toll it takes and the trust thats broken does not make it easy to trust again
@kanwalnaz8075
@kanwalnaz8075 Жыл бұрын
True, it's a trust that has shaken badly. How can I trust him back he is a good lier.
@safiasadiq96
@safiasadiq96 6 ай бұрын
Maybe she did
@bushrasalim3972
@bushrasalim3972 3 ай бұрын
Absolutely
@Lifestyleandthoughts
@Lifestyleandthoughts 15 күн бұрын
So just leave him and ,her
@Faiza453
@Faiza453 3 жыл бұрын
It’s not only about cheating, some partner gonna cheat on you but you Will still be nice with you, but some people while they cheat on your they will treat you like a crap they will become rude they will push you on edge so you can leave them .
@kiransaleem656
@kiransaleem656 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@kiransaleem656
@kiransaleem656 2 жыл бұрын
My husband is cheating on me on and off but he's nice to me always he cares about me all the time he said this is nothing but I just can't tolerate these things I'm hurt
@sarahstarr
@sarahstarr 2 жыл бұрын
@@kiransaleem656 if "its nothing" then tell him to simply stop it kiunke uski zaat ko kya farq paray ga agar wo stop kr de no?. That excuse he gives is covert emotional abuse. So sorry to hear about your situation... may God help you heal.
@achtungverruckt5341
@achtungverruckt5341 2 жыл бұрын
Iam in the same situation. As per him IT'S JUST A HARMLESS FUN.
@yasirtunio9717
@yasirtunio9717 2 жыл бұрын
Is it worth ?
@julietastes181
@julietastes181 Жыл бұрын
No need to watch the video, I tell you how to deal with a cheater. LEAVE HIM FOREVER, HE DOESN'T LOVE OR WANT YOU. #TRUTH
@KashanQureshi-t8q
@KashanQureshi-t8q 8 ай бұрын
True because if there is no trust there is nothing behind
@ssp4394
@ssp4394 4 ай бұрын
Most absurd video ever seen
@nairskitchenlifestyle
@nairskitchenlifestyle Ай бұрын
If a person loves you truly that person will neva cheat you
@julietastes181
@julietastes181 Ай бұрын
@@nairskitchenlifestyle true
@Lifestyleandthoughts
@Lifestyleandthoughts 15 күн бұрын
​@@nairskitchenlifestylenhi dear , sach btaau to pyaar ka pta nhi but he has tried very hard to hide it don't know why, if he don't love me then why he can't leave me😢 i always said give me divorced
@anitagandhiclasses5203
@anitagandhiclasses5203 11 ай бұрын
Nothing works for some people because it is an addiction.
@hireeshamarisarla1081
@hireeshamarisarla1081 Ай бұрын
Thank you for your golden words.i truely admire your advice of changing the husband rather than leaving because of the children.
@noon9140
@noon9140 2 жыл бұрын
What do you do if the cheating partner shows no remorse , or even enjoys your pain ? What to do? Can’t leave him. I act as if I have moved on. Normalized everything. Keeping a blind eye to his still on going affairs. Staying in the marriage due to financial reasons. And the fact that I have been married for 27 years. Can’t even show my pain. Don’t know how to keep myself happy . After keeping his parda for 27 years kids found out too. At least my sons are very supportive and a great source of comfort. It still hurts though. He has too much pride. He will never show his love , and his affairs give him energy and happiness and are like his addiction. But he won’t marry anyone else. Chalo. Also then, everyone In the community also treats me like a stupid since everyone could tell about him and I was the only naive one. Now I feel like an idiot too.
@maviishtiaq6146
@maviishtiaq6146 Жыл бұрын
Same is like my husband we are married n it’s been almost 7 years n mjhy b lgta k meri zindagi aisy he nikal jaye gi
@noon9140
@noon9140 Жыл бұрын
@@maviishtiaq6146 I have never seen anyone changing. Not my husband nor anyone else. The best for you is to just stop expecting that he will change. Just do whatever you can to keep yourself happy and don’t think too much. Don’t let yourself be hurt. He is not important. You are.
@pa2359
@pa2359 Жыл бұрын
Same mine and 26 years of marriage, came to know infidelity 2 years back and going to school and soon be on my feet, Will say bye to him. We are separated since then. It does not that right after this happen you can decide on stay or leave. Once you are able to decide a lot more already happened. My partner is covert narcissist and understand him well enough to leave and live in peace.
@Kaleema999
@Kaleema999 Жыл бұрын
Same
@sonya23453
@sonya23453 7 ай бұрын
This is exactly my story. Word to word, it's all the same. 27 years of marriage, sons, infidelity that I just discovered 4 years ago. A feeling of disconnect with him right from the beginning. A covert narcissist to the core. My life is in ruins. Men never ever realize their mistakes. They carry on with their actions thinking that its their right to do so. The wife and the children suffer tremendously and endlessly. It's my belief that with such men, the torture ends when either of the spouses die.
@ranjitadutta3035
@ranjitadutta3035 Жыл бұрын
Cheaters should be punished severely by God ..
@sanz051
@sanz051 3 жыл бұрын
My sister has gone through a Same situation but unfortunately she has done opposite of what u have suggested* 🤦🏻‍♀️ You are not only a brilliant coach but a person will Good heart ♥️ Thank you for sharing your knowledge*
@hasstv4853
@hasstv4853 2 жыл бұрын
اور میرا یہی خیال ہے کہ شادی ہمیشہ ماں باپ کی مرضی سے کرنی چاہیے اور انسان کو خود بھی نیک ہونا چاہئے تھا کہ اللہ اس کو نیک بیوی دے
@SunitaYadav-cx3mk
@SunitaYadav-cx3mk Жыл бұрын
@daudabbasi1989never do something to yourself and destroy your Akhira because of someone else’s fault. Ask Allah for strength and to guide you on right path. Women are not weak. Allah created us very strong but we just have to find that ourselves. ❤
@SunitaYadav-cx3mk
@SunitaYadav-cx3mk Жыл бұрын
@daudabbasi1989went through the same thing except she had 5 kids lol. I tried to fix it for the sake of my kids but never succeeded and now filed for divorce
@babynyra9089
@babynyra9089 Жыл бұрын
My husband also cheated me many times I use to be disturbed cried lots depressed many told me to leave him .ours was love marriage somehow I couldn't do that although I tried ,my life was so much depending on him emotionally but then I got a good mentor she said to me it's his karma u do good and good will come back to u law of universe think positive keep on saying to universe he love me n is loyal to me and that magic will happen...I am doing that now ,but believe me my inner strength has grown and now I guess it doesn't matter if he is loyal or not but I m loyal to him that what matters for me.take Gods path he will guide us give us the strength to overcome this pain n u will be peaceful...thank universe
@stariqmughal
@stariqmughal 9 ай бұрын
@@babynyra9089 plz guide more
@dazzlekesha
@dazzlekesha 3 жыл бұрын
Love from India. This is one of the best advices I've heard on this topic!
@ArpitGupta-tp1sz
@ArpitGupta-tp1sz 4 ай бұрын
Hi😊😅
@AimanZaheerOfficial
@AimanZaheerOfficial 5 ай бұрын
When a person cheats his wife The whole family suffers not only the wife It’s not easy at all to forgive him
@ArpitGupta-tp1sz
@ArpitGupta-tp1sz 4 ай бұрын
Hi😊😅
@noon9140
@noon9140 2 жыл бұрын
There is no remorse no consequences. It happens over and over again and again.. there is no mistake. It’s a choice and men Enjoy cheating and hurting their wives. The get an ego boost with an affair and more ego boost by seeing the wives in pain.
@tiyasroy8243
@tiyasroy8243 Жыл бұрын
Madam kindly enquire on girls, u will find the ratio Is much more higher that boys in terms of cheating her partner..it it current scenario and data
@MyPhone-jm8wn
@MyPhone-jm8wn Жыл бұрын
That's so true ..I caught him cheating recently it's so painful..I feel like committing suicide
@noon9140
@noon9140 Жыл бұрын
@@MyPhone-jm8wn I can understand your pain. Please turn to Allah for strength. Your husband is stupid for not knowing your value. Once you will get over this emotional Turmoil you will be stronger than before trust me. I am. Talking from experience. Turn to God for support. Never think about suicide. You are very valuable. Your stupid husband doesn’t deserve your love, or respect. Don’t waste your life or tears for a third class man like him. I used to think the same. But alhamdulillah I did not do something like this and now I am thankful I didn’t. Wipe your tears. Stay strong and it’s your husband who has lost you. Then these men in their old age complain that their wives don’t respect or care for them .
@MyPhone-jm8wn
@MyPhone-jm8wn Жыл бұрын
It has been 2 years since we are married I have 1 and half year old child I caught him cheating through checking him online then he ended up giving my ID to his gf (without knowing I'm his wife) she was like stop messaging him he is my BF ..I said I'm his wife and he is also a father to a child , she gave me her number and told me on call that she had no idea ..he was trapping her the same way he did to me in university for marriage..if I were to call off the engagement due to family issues he would threaten me to kill himself..I want to leave him but I'm pressured because of family and society
@noon9140
@noon9140 Жыл бұрын
@@MyPhone-jm8wn leave him alone. No need to do his investigation. Once a cheater always a cheater. Be strong. Wipe your tears. Please understand he will not stop . Even after 25 years he will be the same. Now think about yourself. If you want to leave him them thuda marain and leave him. No need to worry about anything like society or something. And if he wants to kill himself then he can gladly do that. Shauq farmain. Now if you don’t want to leave for any financial traps then ignore him. Forget about him and keep yourself happy. Do whatever makes you happy. Job, make up, cloths, parties Quran class anything. and that’s all . Put your heart in your child and your friends and social work and only also use your husband. God has made you for much bigger things than this one lousy man. He doesn’t deserve your attention. Don’t do any badtameezee, do all your farz and detach. . Decision is yours . Suicide is not a choice. Don’t ever think about it. Just make your heart strong and realize that there is no such thing as love. Don’t fall in love and use him like he uses you. If you want love then love Allah and Rasool and ask for their love. You are very young but you will understand with time. May Allah make it better for you. Lots of love .
@sairajabeen9400
@sairajabeen9400 Жыл бұрын
Best advice ever.....right now im already appliying this method and im enjoying .....
@ArpitGupta-tp1sz
@ArpitGupta-tp1sz 4 ай бұрын
Hi😅
@taani1016
@taani1016 9 ай бұрын
I caught him cheating on me many times. But kabhi uski izzat kharab ni ki or bas yhi galti ho gyi mujse .to usko lga me to kuch ker ni skti na kuch bigad skti uska isliye usne fir wahi kaam suru ker diya but is bar usne sab jagah muje bi badnam krna suru kr diya He killed me Kutte kabhi nahi sudherte kitna bi maan samman do rahenge to kutte hi ..
@yasminshaikh6952
@yasminshaikh6952 4 ай бұрын
Same Maine bhi yahi galti ki thi une moka diya sudhrneka our apne parents ko bhi kuch nahi bataya unki izzat kharab na ho isliye lekin unhone fir se mere sat dhoka Kiya me andar se bahut tut gayi hu
@asiyahnoorani8248
@asiyahnoorani8248 2 ай бұрын
Bilkul sahi... kutta hi rahega
@adyan_pro
@adyan_pro 2 жыл бұрын
May Allah swt bless you forever amin sumamin I am suffering from the same pain your advice guided me rightly still I want guidance to come out from depression
@noorulainchaudhary3923
@noorulainchaudhary3923 11 ай бұрын
Aapki hr bat sy agree krti hon. 2 years ago I have seen this video but I couldn't understand its crux but now going through the same pain. Your every point is valid and practical. Lots of love and prayers. I am your true admirer.
@sarkaritayyari6068
@sarkaritayyari6068 10 ай бұрын
Can you explain your situation more ¿
@safiasadiq96
@safiasadiq96 6 ай бұрын
Be patient it will get better isA ❤
@tubazafar8733
@tubazafar8733 5 ай бұрын
such a wise person sharing her wisdom..... applause
@ArpitGupta-tp1sz
@ArpitGupta-tp1sz 4 ай бұрын
Hi😊
@mrs.musman771
@mrs.musman771 6 ай бұрын
Loyalty is very expensive everyone can't afford it
@sadafsiddiqi1462
@sadafsiddiqi1462 2 жыл бұрын
Standard protocol hai ma'am but kuch aise bhi man hote hai jo cheating saamne aane k baad bhi aapse hi ulta misbhave kerte hai 2 din theek uske fir vase hi
@Imranahmad0426
@Imranahmad0426 2 жыл бұрын
Ma'am you are brilliant...aap in actual Allah ko razi kr rahi h
@vandanar2573
@vandanar2573 3 жыл бұрын
How can we be over hurt or pain of cheating? Sometimes it is not easy to decide to leave or stay in the marriage for so many other reasons like children, society etc.
@dipikatyagi7840
@dipikatyagi7840 3 жыл бұрын
Right
@naazibad686
@naazibad686 2 жыл бұрын
Same situation here
@tasminazaman3674
@tasminazaman3674 Жыл бұрын
Same
@sanz051
@sanz051 3 жыл бұрын
so informative I just couldn’t stop watching your videos* love it ❤️
@geethaprashanth1089
@geethaprashanth1089 7 ай бұрын
Your words are absolute right for me. My husband cheated, it hurt me so much. I am unable to forgive him for any reason. But I cannot leave him, I have truly invested my whole life for this marriage, children and family. Hatred and humiliation will not serve any purpose. I still love him from my heart. That’s my character Leaving him is not my task, but can I face the life without him, that’s the task. In spite of infidelity he has many reasons I can hold on. But hating him I can’t make my whole life miserable. I love my life and want to live it.
@SA-cz2uw
@SA-cz2uw 3 жыл бұрын
What about men who brags openly and proudly about. Their affairs.
@iamkr00
@iamkr00 Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@iqranoman1268
@iqranoman1268 3 ай бұрын
Shee ho jaty ha ayse log
@Homemaker377
@Homemaker377 2 жыл бұрын
Give 100 likes to her for what she said. Unfortunately, we get so emotional with the cheating part that we don’t realise what could the other picture be. That’s the time to fight for your possession and don’t let anybody else the chance to get what you have by leaving it. Ultimately things will be in your favour
@kanwalnaz8075
@kanwalnaz8075 Жыл бұрын
I am facing this situation these days. I am about to leave his house
@aastha0063
@aastha0063 Жыл бұрын
@Homemaker377 Ma'am seems like either you've cheated on your partner and hence her words brought you peace and justification, that inspite of being a cheater you should be valued and fought for OR you're one of those woman just like this orator, who're addicted to toxic masculinity and are trauma bonded to this pain of cheating or aren't self reliant and independent to stand on her feet and leave a cheating partner who's earning you bread!💯
@MonaAlaya20
@MonaAlaya20 2 жыл бұрын
What if he repeatedly cheats, beg for forgiveness, show the extreme love n again the damn affairs??
@achtungverruckt5341
@achtungverruckt5341 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Is situation main aurat ko gaslight kar k jataya jata hy tum overthink kar rahi ho. Going through the same situation.
@hzclassicrock9997
@hzclassicrock9997 Жыл бұрын
Yeah, he is taking everything lightly. Do not understand your love
@salimpeeroo6630
@salimpeeroo6630 3 ай бұрын
When someone cheat, this is very tough to accept and the person refuse for se very long time and you discover he or she is cheating, even if you forgive because of children, but when i will sleep with her, i will always think that she will do it by obligation and not because she want you!
@zulfiqarmehdi6277
@zulfiqarmehdi6277 6 ай бұрын
Speaker is saying rightly.
@achtungverruckt5341
@achtungverruckt5341 2 жыл бұрын
Please share your views on habitual cheater jis ko bas bahar moun marnay ki adat ho. Aik dafa pakray janay k baad, mafi kasmon k baad phir say wohi kaam karna shuru karde or victim ko gaslighting karay
@pritidalvi8975
@pritidalvi8975 8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much Mam for your precious advice before watching this video I am very confused now I am clear what I have to do now for my family
@manusharma2987
@manusharma2987 3 жыл бұрын
Mam plz counsel on this kind of issues like... How to stop controlling over partner and how to give space to them.🙏🙏🙏🙏
@mudasserhussain1102
@mudasserhussain1102 2 жыл бұрын
I had never see n listen a wonderful women like u....m also a woman n hv same views like u...u told me how great i m
@ambreenasim5087
@ambreenasim5087 Жыл бұрын
Ok what if the husband is a good person, good to you and your children but is a womanizer and continues to cheat over years and years without any guilt. Whenever confronted, he forces his wife to break the marriage saying I am like this, bear it or leave... how to deal with such situation? When you can't leave and even can't bear it??? It kills you deep down with every breath you take...
@maviishtiaq6146
@maviishtiaq6146 Жыл бұрын
Seems like someone is talking about me
@hajishabbirkhan5667
@hajishabbirkhan5667 Жыл бұрын
it is actually soo painful .. It feels like all the doors are closed and you stuck so badly
@GurpreetKaur-hc2oy
@GurpreetKaur-hc2oy Жыл бұрын
talking about me yrr
@lakshminaveen2467
@lakshminaveen2467 3 ай бұрын
Same situation. Life is hell
@heenashah5012
@heenashah5012 Жыл бұрын
I really like to hear your wisdom in this video. You said so well.
@ArpitGupta-tp1sz
@ArpitGupta-tp1sz 4 ай бұрын
Hi😊
@mubbarahabid
@mubbarahabid 6 ай бұрын
I really appreciate from this inspiration I will definitely attemp this method recently my husband starts cheats me from last few days and am very sad thanku Soo much
@ArpitGupta-tp1sz
@ArpitGupta-tp1sz 4 ай бұрын
Hi😊😅
@hassanali-tn7ng
@hassanali-tn7ng Жыл бұрын
hatss-OFF !!!! Golden words!
@kausarkhan1941
@kausarkhan1941 Жыл бұрын
U are truly right sister❤ thanks for your valuable advice...
@abdulhadi6134
@abdulhadi6134 2 жыл бұрын
Great words of great heart Lady.
@escolasticdsouza4584
@escolasticdsouza4584 3 ай бұрын
My husband is cheating on me since the last 8 years and he is in a relationship with a muslim widower who has one adult boy and the other a child of 12 years. I know everything. But I don't want to leave him as I have a daughter of 11 years old. I have lost my 8 valuable years of my life . Whenever he is at home I feel good but I cannot forget what he has done and doing to me.
@GreeshmaKrishnan
@GreeshmaKrishnan Ай бұрын
Facing same situation now. But I left him and decided to get separate.
@iconsofbehaviour5497
@iconsofbehaviour5497 2 ай бұрын
Cheating can destroy a partner as badly from which he can never recover specially if the victim is male and cheating can never be hide oneday it will open
@mahambatool7630
@mahambatool7630 Жыл бұрын
You are righttt.we should give one chance atleast.Allah also gives 3 chances to his creation
@nimrahtahir8474
@nimrahtahir8474 3 жыл бұрын
Just love your talks mam, keep uploading ♥️
@mtahagamingshorts9884
@mtahagamingshorts9884 3 жыл бұрын
Zabardast aap ki baton se bohot himmat milti h .
@khankhushi8312
@khankhushi8312 2 жыл бұрын
This is practically wrong advice -: 😆😆😆😆 Husband do not have humble heart they didn't think much about their wife , that's the reason they cheat. Wife usually hide everything from their family for their prestige but later on husband think she is foolish poor girl. So ladies leave Sare kacche chatte khol do Sab kuch btao zaleel krke fek do Kyuki ye wahi shauhar hote hai jo dosre aurto ko tumare kamiya bata ke khush krte hai.. don't think about them .
@sairamansoor5663
@sairamansoor5663 2 жыл бұрын
sir me ise issue se guzar rahe hn me is shocked se bahar h nikal nahe pa rahe me kiya keroon y pain mujhe kha geya h
@intikhabathar9245
@intikhabathar9245 2 жыл бұрын
When a man cheats he is not emotionally in love with other women but when a woman cheats she is emotionally involved and that destroys the marriage more seriously. What do you say?
@rebma5
@rebma5 2 жыл бұрын
bull. Islamically dekha jae toh zina , sexual relationship, is wayyyyy worse than just having feelings for someone else. Other than that. Why is emotional cheating worse>> it honestly depends on the person. If my partner, god forbid, cheats i would be equally hurt whether it is sexual or emotional. This statement is just used by men to justify their cheating
@SS-lr7gc
@SS-lr7gc 2 жыл бұрын
@Ammara He/She didn't compare sexual cheating with just having feelings for someone. He/She compared sexual cheating with sexual cheating along feelings. The later is obviously worse when feelings are involved in cheating. That means the cheater stopped loving you.
@sumayyafawad2316
@sumayyafawad2316 Жыл бұрын
​@@rebma5😊
@jainworld6173
@jainworld6173 Ай бұрын
Nothing change!! It's all bakwaas. They find more ways to fool you. Just leave him!
@sonabhalke3486
@sonabhalke3486 6 ай бұрын
no matter what she is speaking sense as there is no definate answer
@nehaupadhyay8613
@nehaupadhyay8613 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks form the bottom of my heart..❤️❤️ love from 🇮🇳
@roselilly2086
@roselilly2086 2 ай бұрын
Very good advice at the end👍 i have faced this
@bint82
@bint82 Жыл бұрын
Most sensible advice. Cheating is wrong but there are steps that lead to it and often the wife does play a role as it is two people in the marriage. People are human, they lose their path nd mostly the communication has broken down far earlier then tbe cheating took place.
@azkaanjum1991
@azkaanjum1991 7 ай бұрын
Lovely advice, JazkiAllah khair ❤
@sidrakhan4514
@sidrakhan4514 3 жыл бұрын
Maam plz discuss this topic how a person can ignore loved ones very toxic criticism... Plz provide techniques i have been following all ur techniques alhumdulillah very fruitful but to everyone it takes time u need to absorb ur soul into it..stay blessed
@SunitaYadav-cx3mk
@SunitaYadav-cx3mk Жыл бұрын
If a spouse cheated and forcefully ask for forgiveness, abusive behavior starts and makes the other spouse feel that he/she is responsible for whatever happened. Never accepts his mistakes. Then what??? And then when you ask for divorce starts love bombing on one side but keep blaming on the other side.
@narmadadevi6543
@narmadadevi6543 8 ай бұрын
Iam in this same position he cheated but blaming me for that and not accepting his fault and not letting me to live my life. I don't know what to do
@vlogsspot527
@vlogsspot527 Ай бұрын
Never get her back if someone cheated you seriously i have so bad vibes
@aaqilsiraj3840
@aaqilsiraj3840 Жыл бұрын
So practical and helpful❤
@intikhabathar9245
@intikhabathar9245 2 жыл бұрын
That’s why a wife cheating is more devastating
@Sara-nl6es
@Sara-nl6es Жыл бұрын
But a cheating Husband deserves a cheating wife, What you think ???
@aditisamanta1078
@aditisamanta1078 11 ай бұрын
Wonderful ma'am. 🎉❤ So so practical advices.
@ArpitGupta-tp1sz
@ArpitGupta-tp1sz 4 ай бұрын
Hi😊
@nimrahtahir8474
@nimrahtahir8474 3 жыл бұрын
Excellent advice❤️🌼
@aleemumer6467
@aleemumer6467 6 ай бұрын
What to do with a partner who betrayed 4 times?
@raheenarahim8729
@raheenarahim8729 Жыл бұрын
Facing the same right now.. Actually he is the one who confessed... And want to avoid her forever.. But she is not ready to move on.. And he is seeking help frm me.. He was always nice to me and our children..and treated me like his queen.. He is saying that he got trapped and couldn't come out frm that as he was afraid of facing the situation.. Like she threaten him wth suicide attempt or filing a police case.. He is ready to wait untill i change my mind and forgive him.. Bt what would i do if he cheat again.. Actually i love him a lot and can't live wthout him..😢😢
@lanaw7304
@lanaw7304 Жыл бұрын
Since you can't live without a cheater , so you are at the same level as him and don't complain about his cheating!
@fatimajamalussama
@fatimajamalussama Жыл бұрын
I am shocked to hear you misguiding people like that.
@PinkyYadav-ps4sn
@PinkyYadav-ps4sn Жыл бұрын
Superb explanation ❤❤❤
@fatimajamalussama
@fatimajamalussama 11 ай бұрын
What if the person cheats again??? I'd love to hear her thoughts.
@ArpitGupta-tp1sz
@ArpitGupta-tp1sz 4 ай бұрын
Hi😊
@ayeshazulfiqar1784
@ayeshazulfiqar1784 Жыл бұрын
Cheating Men dont really dont care Person who wants to stay loyal will find one reason enough to stay loyal Nd one who wants to cheat will find millions reasons where there are none
@ArpitGupta-tp1sz
@ArpitGupta-tp1sz 4 ай бұрын
Hi😊
@quratulainsafder6556
@quratulainsafder6556 2 ай бұрын
What's about a serial cheater..
@akram20972
@akram20972 Жыл бұрын
Hi Maam, what if the person is cheating on you again and again. Even than the wife shud silent and not discuss this with family since this is in early years of marriage. Please help
@hajishabbirkhan5667
@hajishabbirkhan5667 Жыл бұрын
i also have this same Question
@TheStylishIslamicWomen9696
@TheStylishIslamicWomen9696 11 ай бұрын
Alhamdulillah ma shaa Allah I have such a nice husband loves me extremely and close to our beautiful deen Islam ye sb deen se doori ha agr waqiye deen ki.smjh hoti hm.musalmano ko to is rishte ka taqaddus smjhte aur ahmiyat smjhte agr sachi muhabbat ho to asa nhi hota kbhi aur agr na bhi ho to bhi khoof e Khuda ki vja se aur Quran se sahi meaning me jorne ki.vja se insan ase nhi krta kunke vo apne husband ya apni wife ke ilava har mard ya aurat ko apne lye namehram aur haram smjhta ha aur behn bhai jesa rutba deta ha
@arunaarora1443
@arunaarora1443 Ай бұрын
Ma'am meri story to apke samjhane ke level se bhut upar hai. He humiliates me does violence abusing cruelty cheapest language rude behavior says he got married b'coz of my money only spits on me copies my every action, runs away from my shadow, what a woman who is living as dead body, as a more than widow, whom even third party , your kids, all relatives abuse should do ?
@arifasalik9321
@arifasalik9321 4 ай бұрын
My husband cheated on me. Can i give a complaint against them legally?
@ArpitGupta-tp1sz
@ArpitGupta-tp1sz 4 ай бұрын
Yes
@DarishaKhongtaniDarisha
@DarishaKhongtaniDarisha Ай бұрын
Me i have cheat on my bf but he forgave me because i really did a mistake but now he becomes my husband he didn't respond any towards me how can i make him to love me again 😢
@syedafaiza7532
@syedafaiza7532 6 ай бұрын
What if the husband is habitual of cheating again & again? like decade ... not even ashamed
@ArpitGupta-tp1sz
@ArpitGupta-tp1sz 4 ай бұрын
Hi😊😅
@ramankohli4354
@ramankohli4354 Жыл бұрын
Awesome Points.
@meerajain2071
@meerajain2071 7 ай бұрын
I think it is a very good advice
@ArpitGupta-tp1sz
@ArpitGupta-tp1sz 4 ай бұрын
Hi😊
@pa2359
@pa2359 Жыл бұрын
What she is saying doesn’t make sense! It is sky fell on you and how come someone close like children will not know. You will cry and feel helpless. Once you stable already so much happen, and to decide or leave is a case to case, no one can tell all do this trick and will work. Her statement is misleading.
@simplesolutionbysaira
@simplesolutionbysaira 3 жыл бұрын
great listning to u always
@lailaali8865
@lailaali8865 2 жыл бұрын
Perfect really impressive
@NV33333
@NV33333 Жыл бұрын
Very nice solution
@ArpitGupta-tp1sz
@ArpitGupta-tp1sz 4 ай бұрын
Hi😊
@_Fang_Gamer_0p_official
@_Fang_Gamer_0p_official 9 ай бұрын
Thank you Very much maam
@ayeshaaamir8544
@ayeshaaamir8544 11 ай бұрын
2 things you can do number 1 stay in this marriage if you have kids and use your husband for money second if he cant provide leave his ass men doesnt change at all jab jab mafi do wo aur open hokar cheat kartay hain k ab to yay kahi b nai jayegi
@ArpitGupta-tp1sz
@ArpitGupta-tp1sz 4 ай бұрын
Hi😅
@intikhabathar9245
@intikhabathar9245 2 жыл бұрын
Ms.Saeed please comment on these thoughts
@Mysphere4285
@Mysphere4285 5 ай бұрын
No ma'am .in my case I tried to make it personal..but at the end ,his father came to solve or he told his father what I hv told and they argued with me badly.now he totally telliylie that this kind of fact not even happened
@fahimcnc
@fahimcnc 2 жыл бұрын
love you such a nice person and positive thinker you are .one can keep himself the only difference is of gender. i would ask if it happen to husband
@rjkforeverbtsot7442
@rjkforeverbtsot7442 Жыл бұрын
I can't believe that you just said that
@raziamdali3288
@raziamdali3288 Жыл бұрын
Super sis
@noorainelahi
@noorainelahi 8 ай бұрын
Highly impossible to get a loyal partner....in this fake world...love is just a toy for cheters...God and parents are the only genuine ones.....
@ArpitGupta-tp1sz
@ArpitGupta-tp1sz 4 ай бұрын
Hi😊😅
@utopian2000
@utopian2000 3 жыл бұрын
I think if woman work on their sense of possession then they can deal with the pain of replacment or adultry
@anumkhan286
@anumkhan286 Жыл бұрын
How plz help
@utopian2000
@utopian2000 Жыл бұрын
@@anumkhan286 koi bhi apki malkiyat ni hta is dunya mi
@arpansaha8769
@arpansaha8769 Жыл бұрын
​@@anumkhan286 Khudko pehle pyar Karo.Hum sarey zindagi nikal dete hain pyar pane ke liye kisi aur ke liys jo hume deserve nahi karta. Financially independent bano aur phir usko choro.Waise bhi rehkar toh har roz woh darr main rehna hota hain.Zindagi kabhi nahi rukta aur nahi rukegi.Log battein karenge aur karte karte chup ho jayenge tum apne bare mein socho sirf.Bless you.
@safiasadiq96
@safiasadiq96 6 ай бұрын
She is right.
@ArpitGupta-tp1sz
@ArpitGupta-tp1sz 4 ай бұрын
Hi😊
@kshitijsarvaiya5821
@kshitijsarvaiya5821 Жыл бұрын
What about wife if she was done the same mistake
@faizakhan855
@faizakhan855 Жыл бұрын
Agar kisiko bhi inki ye relationship advice galat lag rhi hai toh inhone ye bhi toh bola hai maaf nhi karna or nafrat karte ho toh divorce option hai or agar stay krna h usi marriage mein toh fir miserable life kyu jeeni hai..aap ek achi biwi ki tarah rahe..or zyada door na jaye kbhi amitabh or rekha ka affair dekhe unki wife jaya bachan was superstar before him but still chose to live with his husband..or ek bat biwi ka rutba hota hai..or kese aap apna sabkuch aise hi kisi dusri aurat ko deke ja sakti hain..or kya guarantee hai divorce k bad dusra aisa nhi hoga..
@AliKhan-e3o4y
@AliKhan-e3o4y 8 ай бұрын
Be loyal be rare
@avijitghosh8817
@avijitghosh8817 2 ай бұрын
Unfortunately, people like her encourage extramarrital affairs in society.
@aastha0063
@aastha0063 Жыл бұрын
1:12 How foolish LOL. I was done here, realised it wasn't worth listening to her any ahead
@ArpitGupta-tp1sz
@ArpitGupta-tp1sz 4 ай бұрын
Hi😊😅
@GLau9494
@GLau9494 Күн бұрын
She is delusional. Cheating partners bring stds sometimes. She is jahil I unsubscribed immediately.😅
@nidaunnisa1454
@nidaunnisa1454 Сағат бұрын
Harsh reality 😢 💔 😕 😞
@pihubeautytips
@pihubeautytips Жыл бұрын
Hope so ki apka baate mere life me aasar kare
@ArpitGupta-tp1sz
@ArpitGupta-tp1sz 4 ай бұрын
Hi😊
@gxgaming4660
@gxgaming4660 2 жыл бұрын
im suffer 😭 from same situation
@PriyankaSingh-kz6hs
@PriyankaSingh-kz6hs 2 жыл бұрын
I have one question. He said tm mere wife ho tumara wahi status rahega koi aaye koi jaye iska tension kyu lete ho.What I can do mam
@anumkhan286
@anumkhan286 Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately apny gunah ko jaiz bnany ki bath hai
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