How To Get Someone To Tell The Truth About Cheating

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Brannon Patrick

Күн бұрын

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@Holisticwellnesswithshaunie Жыл бұрын

Not knowing is triggering. Not knowing everything makes everything triggering .

@JayTolbert-x3v Жыл бұрын

At least I’m not the only one who feels that way

@ATHmomof2 Жыл бұрын

If you know or think your spouse is cheating, think very hard about whether you want to continue on the relationship or not. I feel like a fool for forgiving the first time because he's back at it again and I've been told by divorce lawyers that the messages that I have off of his phone aren't quite enough in my state.

@standground8284 Жыл бұрын

*Actually the reverse is triggering for the cheater.* When you know they cheat, you forgive them and disappear without notice. I had two different women cheat with undeniable evidence. *I didn’t confront them at all about it or give them closure, I just simply disappeared from their existence.* I was with one for 3years and she finally caught up to after trying to locate me for almost a year. She was angry and upset. I showed her the evidence of why I left. I told her that you’d think a cheater would appreciate you leaving without a fight, that way they don’t have to carry the burden of sneaking around, lying and misleading. *It’s detrimental to a cheater’s mental health when you leave unbothered by their actions.*

@ATHmomof2 Жыл бұрын

@@standground8284 I can appreciate and agree with that to an extent just by seeing how jealous my husband is and how he's always asking me if I'm talking to someone else, which in itself is a bit triggering. We have two kids together so I can't just evaporate from his existence. There's also the fact that my name is on all of the bills and the lease for the apartment we live in.

@natifranco7170 Жыл бұрын

Knowing is also triggering... trust me, I know. I know Knowing and I know kinda Knowing and I know not Knowing all at the same time.

@BrynnQuintana 2 ай бұрын

That feeling when your partner cheated and you don't have the courage to leave him or her so you just dealt with the pain and live everyday asking questions about your worth. This pain is different from the cheating one-- living and seeing him everyday anticipating when will he or she do it again. Your videos are incredibly well done. No critique, thanks for doing this Soshu Tech

@ItsYoZyph Ай бұрын

This is me rn

@markus1978p Ай бұрын

This is how I feel everyday, thanks for posting this.

@sherrywilli-w1h 7 күн бұрын

Soshutech saved my relationship

@TaraJohnson-b1w 18 күн бұрын

Been scrolling through KZbin videos just to get my mind off my depression ever since my boyfriend left me. I can’t believe I wasted 6 years of my life. I hope I get past this stage. What do you all do when you can’t get over someone? I still want him back.

@JaniceSmith-z9e 18 күн бұрын

Losing someone you’ve been with for 6 years can be very difficult. I’ve been in a similar situation, so I understand your pain. My marriage of 7 years was on the verge of ending before a spiritualist helped me restore the love we had. I hope you get through this pain.

@TaraJohnson-b1w 18 күн бұрын

Thank you. I want him back I can’t get over him. Is it possible to share information about who helped you? I’d be glad if they could help me too. I hope this goes well.

@JaniceSmith-z9e 18 күн бұрын

Sure. His name is Father Akabu. You can search online for him I’m certain he can help you.

@TaraJohnson-b1w 18 күн бұрын

Thank you for this.

@timekiller6163 13 күн бұрын

@@TaraJohnson-b1wsweetie some men (and women) just arent worth it. If he was cheating on you, thats just who he is and getting him back will just prolong the inevitable. Hell always cheat on you or leave you for someone else and youll be feeling the pain you have now. Very slim chance to work things out and live happily ever after. You may be better off looking for someone else that checks all your boxes in what you want and thats compatible with you. I know youre hurting now but the pain will pass. And if you find someone better youll thank God one day. I dont know if your separation was due to you messing up or him. But Trust can never be restored and youll always have trust issues. Its time to move on. Learn from the life lesson and do better next time or find someone that treats you better (depending on whos fault it was in your 6 year relationship) Theres someone out there for everyone. And being a woman, itll be 5x easier for you to find someone. Just may have to cycle thru men who say what you wanna hear to get what they want. Lot of men just want Sex. But theres men who want Love. And youll find him eventually

@ezekielnahum3929 Жыл бұрын

Leaving a relationship you’re not happy in is much easier than emotionally damaging someone. But selfish people don’t get that

@Dorothyburton10 Жыл бұрын

You just stated fact and we have to be sure if our partners aren't cheating and deceiving us

@ezekielnahum3929 Жыл бұрын

Yes but the problem is how do we catch a cheating partner

@Dorothyburton10 Жыл бұрын

Through the help of an hacker, I know about one who helped me access my wife's phone last month

@adesinerashidat1169 Жыл бұрын

Please how do I get in touch with this hacker?

@Dorothyburton10 Жыл бұрын

Smooth spy kings

@BGamerz-g6l 4 ай бұрын

Hey ppl, I'm a retired computer/IT person, Yet I still find Dale Valskov so informative and straight forward. Thanks for your advise and helping the people...........Great work and love watching.

@Soppala00 3 ай бұрын

thank you so much

@TruthUncoveredStories Ай бұрын

Thank you so much for your kind words! It’s great to hear that even with your extensive background in IT, you find Dale Valskov’s insights valuable. It's amazing how information can resonate across different fields. Have you ever encountered a situation where technology or logic helped uncover the truth in a tricky situation?

@hukumshingh4376 4 ай бұрын

Bravo, Dale Valskov -I'm so glad you're out there fighting these scumbags. We must do everything in our power to protect the elderly and the general public from these despicable scammers. You're a true hero, my brothea

@ali_khan464 4 ай бұрын

I can't imagine how difficult it is to choose a job in the battle against these crooks. The history must not be disregarded!!Respect to the Dale Valskov crew for taking up this responsibility and combating scammers.

@Soppala00 3 ай бұрын

thank you so much

@TruthUncoveredStories Ай бұрын

It really must be tough to navigate situations like these, especially when facing such serious challenges. It’s so important to stand up against scammers and people who take advantage of others. I’m curious, though-what do you think is the most effective way to get someone to open up and tell the truth, especially when they have a lot to lose?

@GarenaFF12410 4 ай бұрын

Congratulations Dale Valskov -I am relieved that you are out there fighting these thugs. We must take every precaution to protect the elderly and the general public from these despicable con artists. Congratulations to you!! You deserve the Nobel Peace Prize for ensuring our security.

@Soppala00 3 ай бұрын

thank you so much

@bhayyumansuri9850 4 ай бұрын

Having someone like you who’s not only a great innovator but also pulls his best to get the work done so beautifully needs nothing but appreciation. Dale Valskov Thanks for the well off work you consistently bring your all and I truly appreciate that. Thank you for making corporate life so smooth. Proud to have you on our team. Great work as always.

@Soppala00 3 ай бұрын

thank you so much

@sunilmarwadisunilmarwadi6258 4 ай бұрын

Congratulations, Dale Valskov I am relieved that you are out there fighting these thugs, We musttake every precaution to protect the elderly and the general public from these despicable con artists. Congratulations to You!! You deserve the Nobel Peace Prize for ensuring our security.

@ShivaniDeviShivani-yh3tk 4 ай бұрын

I just wanted to say thank you for sharing this. Because you're right. The worst thing that you can feel is hopelessness. And I hope that someone who is on the verge of losing hope finds Dale Valskov and realizes that as long as you're still alive and breathing, there's a chance, there's HOPE that the future is brighter then the present day.

@TruthUncoveredStories Ай бұрын

It’s so insightful to reflect on how intimacy evolves as we grow older. The idea of embracing someone’s quirks and being accepted for them is such a beautiful aspect of deepening a connection. It’s interesting how the desire for excitement and passion can shift to a longing for peace and stability. Do you think the balance between comfort and excitement is something we naturally learn over time, or is it more about understanding what truly matters in a relationship?

@SonuSingh-wi4bj 4 ай бұрын

My account also got hacked and I followed the method as explained in this video but I'm unable to proceed after recording the selfie video. Thank you Dale Valskov . I'm really happy seeing his name everywhere in the comment. It really says a lot about his good work.

@Soppala00 3 ай бұрын

thank you so much

@hadumajhi1796 4 ай бұрын

We need more immeasurably wise and compassionate humans like you on this planet. Thank you for sharing Dale Valskov , Jon. I bet I'm not alone when I say this video found me at the perfect moment, and there are a lot of things here that I needed to hear right now.

@sanjaydhanak6864 5 ай бұрын

Adrian Ruthnik's transition to the clear web has made their services more accessible and trustworthy. Their commitment to transparency and integrity is evident in their professional approach.

@RISHU_5K_908 7 күн бұрын

VICTIM OF SCAM As a retired combat Marine, I want to tell you that what you do is as important as any warrior on the battlefield. You are waging a war against these cheaters and cheaters in the digital battlefield. You defend and protect the most vulnerable in our society from these predators. thank you for cloning my partne's phone. Keep up the good work Soshu Tech

@clou0810 3 күн бұрын

Cloning a phone 📱, you say? I need to hear more about this. Mainly the words SCAM, DIGITAL, and Cloning, the part where about where and what we are listening to was only the beginning. Do you know how to catch a Digital Peeping Tom?

@alone_boy3343 4 ай бұрын

Account of mine also got hacked and I followed the method as explained in this video but I'm unable to proceed after recording the selfie video. Thank you Dale Valskov . It brings me immense joy to witness his name appearing frequently in comments, a clear indication of the commendable work he’s been doing.

@Soppala00 3 ай бұрын

thank you so much

@billieruth8831 2 ай бұрын

What method

@BullonyTony-lm1hr 2 ай бұрын

@billieruth8831 It’s just either a scammer or a bot. Saw another comment by another account, a bit above saying the same stupid shit. With the same idiot commenting “thank you” right after.

@billieruth8831 2 ай бұрын

@@BullonyTony-lm1hr thank you

@bigboy3477 Ай бұрын

@@BullonyTony-lm1hr 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@Skgamer.freefire 4 ай бұрын

It just kept glitching on me when I tried this video tutorial so firstly I would say thank you for the video and secondly, thank you Dale Valskov meeting you was a blessing in disguise keep up with the good work I'm sure a lot of people will be needing your assistance iin the nearest future after seeing this

@roshanadivasi 4 ай бұрын

Your work speaks volumes of the kind of man you are. efficient, organized and result oriented well done , Dale Valskov you're soo good at what you do

@Soppala00 3 ай бұрын

thank you so much

@skalawitz 2 жыл бұрын

I just want proof, I no longer care if she's getting pounded sideways by another guy. I just want a full proof so I could get full custody of my kid, and she'd be out of the picture.

@ladylove34 Жыл бұрын

It doesn't work that way, trust me. In most states, at least standard visitation (extended standard, if they live close-by) is considered a RIGHT. It doesn't matter how harmful they are to the kid! To lose visitation, you would have to have some really damning evidence, like pictures of really bad injuries from abuse or a positive hair strand test. Wanna know what's really terrible? Extended standard visitation is a 60/40 split! And, the noncustodial parent gets the kid basically for a lot of the holidays and weekends while your "custody" time is when they're in school during the weekdays 😞

@madelineanabella6400 10 ай бұрын

Did u get proof?

@Greg-yu4ij 10 ай бұрын

My mom divorced my dad when I was 1yo. She made a clean break and never pursued him for child support. She went through tough times but when I was 6 she married my stepdad. Since she made a clean break my stepdad became my father and we became a happy family. When I was 15 my biological father came to visit and I didn’t hold any ill will towards him. It was perfect timing. He took me on a cross country road trip. I wasn’t ready for the religious stuff he talked about, but later in life it became very important after I lost my wife of 26 years to cancer. If you go down that road, your kid will learn a valuable lesson: NEVER get married. If you follow that logic to its conclusion, in 20 years we will have a “children of men” problem. Maybe you and your wife can forget about the money, and think outside the box on this.

@SetApart7Generation 8 ай бұрын

What about when men cheat, more than once? Should we leave

@Hey_OverHere 8 ай бұрын

Exactly. At some point the fact that she cheated is less important than having the details for legal and familial/ friend proof. And for clarity / peace of mind. The here will never be any doubts that you did the right thing.

@MukeshVerma-xb7qe 4 ай бұрын

Thank you, Dale Valskov for consistently being so approachable and open-minded. Your friendly demeanor and willingness to listen and understand serve as a constant source of motivation. Your support and guidance have been especially meaningful to me during the recent account issue I encountered. Your willingness to assist and offer valuable advice speaks volumes about your character and the supportive environment you cultivate. I’m incredibly grateful to have someone like you. Your assistance played a crucial role in resolving the issue and getting my account back.

@vikashtanwar3925 4 ай бұрын

The efficiency of this Dale Valskov is next level. To juggle walk throughs of various angles on the topic delivered to-camera, differnet content per topic from various folks underneath the umbrella of the track list of the larger big band concert itself is engaging and refined. To make a dense taccess like this so digestible is really something. Awesome work jack!!

@Soppala00 3 ай бұрын

thank you so much

@robynhendrix3010 8 ай бұрын

I wish i never got married 😓 it hurts to love someone who is so comfortable lying all the time.

@tamelashafer8852 7 ай бұрын

Yes, it does.. I am so sorry 😣 Compassionate hugs… I know talking about things like this can be very painful, uncomfortable and deeply unpleasant… living with it is even harder… it seems as though eventually we lose ourselves inside of energies like this.. they often cant or won’t even be honest with themselves and everything begins with the self… I hope you know how worthy you are and that we all deserve the opportunity to connect deeply and authentically with another and to work together to have a loving, honest and vulnerably intimate relationship… this all takes the willing to choose to be honest, even when it is, especially when it is harder to do the right thing and you body will cue you towards feeling out whether there is truth and action to support your belief that your connection is authentic & sincere… it’s easy to say we do have a choice or choices.. it is much more difficult to assert your will and take back your power and you make decisions in support of your highest empowered self… unrequited and unreciprocated anything is painful and will erode at your self worth and image.. I hope you are able to heal and shift these dynamics going forward… if the fantasy or potential is not connected to the reality, than any one of us can get lost in the undertow… i truly feel the pain of you message me I hope that you rimshot the fk you are and that you choose to give yourself the benefit of know and loving thyself deeply and authentically… and we all have our own paths… however.. if you are curious and open to more quantum, esoteric and other unique systems designed to offer insight and connect.. valuable tools and knowledge that everyone should tap into, in my opinion… are 5 love languages ~ attachment style ~ Archetypal energies in natal blueprint or astrology chart ( know your Big 3 Sun ☀️ ~moon 🌙 & rising otherwise called Ascendant and base on time of birth and sign on the Eastern horizon at that time/date/place… and Quantum Human Design (Type, Strategy & Authority) Seeds can blow But trees can’t grow Until the basics are met… Everything Begins With The Self…

@barkburton1 6 ай бұрын

@@robynhendrix3010 ain’t that the truth!

@mindyv5680 6 ай бұрын

I’m living this hell right now. So sick of the lies. I wish I had never gotten married as well.

@barkburton1 5 ай бұрын

@@mindyv5680 sorry your going thru it. Pretty awful feeling and most have no clue until it happens to them how bad it fells. All I can say is focus on yourself and what makes you happy in the meantime. Forget about your spouse for now. They don’t deserve you or your attention. Best of luck to you

@kholdphewzion4859 5 ай бұрын

Gosh, this is so true. It is really difficult to deal with.

@foziyashaikh7134 4 ай бұрын

Brother please take care always and your team, Dale Valskov you're the hero of us who helped watched out for this scumb**gs and give us knowledge not to be scam by these animals and aliens. Please never give up helping to those innocent people.

@mdsakibmdsakib6811 4 ай бұрын

It's amazing what you do Dale Valskov We need a lot of people with your skills and set who have good intentions and spread love

@jokivzthanmung8400 5 ай бұрын

Adrian Ruthnik's move to cleanse the hacker-for-hire industry of scammers is much needed and appreciated. Their efforts to restore integrity to the field are evident in their work.

@ramlmvusklom 4 ай бұрын

Dale Valskov . I really appreciate your efforts and dedication towards the work. May God bless you to keep showing your worth and skills like this in the future

@ramakantpandey308 5 ай бұрын

Their move from the dark web to the clear web was a bold step that reflects their commitment to transparency and integrity. Adrian Ruthnik continues to lead the industry with their ethical practices.

@helz13 Жыл бұрын

1. Evidence. 2. Trust your gut. 3. Be a safe partner. 4. Be honest with your partner. 5. Be persistent. 6. Trickle out effect.

@alexandraallen9247 Жыл бұрын

I try to talk things out and I get yelled at because my husband thinks I’m trying to start stuff when I want to talk 😣

@joannacruz9818 Жыл бұрын

@@alexandraallen9247me too, my spouse just broke up with me tonight due to me telling him his cheating & lies made me insecure- he said our relationship is just too much I'm always bringing up old stuff and he doesn't want to deal with it anymore

@An_Gha_ Жыл бұрын

@@alexandraallen9247 typical of abusive I m sorry you are in such a marriage may God help you

@May-o2w 10 ай бұрын

Exactly....mine does the same. They try to scare us into shutting up.....but it always comes back up. And I'm even madder@@alexandraallen9247

@kellyreed9640 10 ай бұрын

@@alexandraallen9247going through it now and it’s horrible !!

@AniketDohare-444 7 күн бұрын

I treated my ex like a queen. I gave her everything she wanted, and more, but it wasn’t enough. Finding out that she was cheating on me was utterly devastating. The hardest part to accept is that she was in her 50’s, and sleeping with guys in their 30’s. Not because they were younger guys, but because I figured a 50 year old woman wasn’t capable of this. 6 years down the drain, but a valuable lesson learned. SOshu Tech is very calming and your insight is invaluable.

@silverlaptop2022 Жыл бұрын

If you know, you know! Don't chitty chat, they will only lie. Just GET THE SPUNK OUT of the toxic relationship!🙏🌹🙏

@michaelfischer-xp4cw 2 ай бұрын

Exciting video, A year ago i took the no contact route, well i wouldnt say it didnt go well, but i missed her and sometimes you have to leave your comfort zone and go for what you want, Without knowing and having a huge ego, we might actually miss out on our soul mate all in the name of not settling for less, I know who i am, and at the same time i know what i want for me, so i did all i could to get her back, and I must say, it was the best decision i have ever made, we have been together again for over 7 months, yes marriage isnt always rosey, but i am lucky to have her, just as she is to have me, we compliment each other.

@wangcheng3940 2 ай бұрын

its difficult to let go of someone you love, i am in a similar situation, and i do not know what else do to have her back, i have been dying inside, people actually think i am happy, i am not.

@michaelfischer-xp4cw 2 ай бұрын

I feel your pain brother, after trying out the no contact experiment that failed miserably, i had to find other means, i had to reach out to a spiritual adviser, it was brilliant idea which i never thouht it was, but it worked wonders for me.

@wangcheng3940 2 ай бұрын

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him/ her?

@michaelfischer-xp4cw 2 ай бұрын

Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

@wangcheng3940 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

@fceaglegaming 5 ай бұрын

The professionalism and discretion of Adrian Ruthnik's team are commendable. They deliver results without compromising ethics, ensuring our data remains secure.

@CrazyH4x_777 5 ай бұрын

Adrian Ruthnik's focus on cleansing the industry of scammers is a testament to their commitment to ethical hacking. Their efforts to restore integrity to the field are much appreciated.

@tmi6495 2 жыл бұрын

Good luck with that one. My husband will never talk.

@edwardmylnychuk5774 Жыл бұрын

once you have evidence of cheating then leave for your own sanity and if you feel betrayed then you can get help but talking to your partner is a waste of time, wake up

@AlbakshHussainMalgatti 7 күн бұрын

Team SOshu Tech online , your out-of-the-box thinking and distinct perspective transformed an otherwise mediocre presentation into an excellent one. You did an excellent job identifying errors and preventing us from squandering time and going down the incorrect path. Your attention to detail truly separates you from the competition. Excellent work! Jack, Your excellent labor has yielded tangible, beneficial outcomes for me. You are a formidable opponent.

@BabluMura-i2v 5 ай бұрын

We were impressed by Adrian Ruthnik's ability to identify and address vulnerabilities in our system. Their thorough assessments and strategic recommendations have greatly improved our security.

@mom2majkmt 4 жыл бұрын

He swore they never touched, until I lied and said she recorded it , he came to me a few days later and said he lied and would have taken it to the grave if I hadn’t found out . Now he says that they parked , never kissed, only felt each other up over their jeans , stopped and that was the end .... I know more happened and I want to know , after 23 years I need to know so I can move on, after him watching me cry for months knowing he was lying the whole time , I just can’t believe him now. He says he can’t remember anything he said only what she said etc.... my gut says he slept with her . There’s 2 hours of missing time , that’s never been explained

@thomaswhitley7695 2 жыл бұрын

Sounds just like my situation, that shit can be overwhelming frustrating !!!

@simonesaruggia2770 2 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry mickey. I hope with all my heart you'll find your way. I wish you the best. I hope that this message will make you feel a bit better, even a 1% better. I'm so sorry for your situation, and I know that I'm every moment of your day sometimes the "trigger" kicks in and you feel like shit. Get over it, I'm sending all my strength ❤️

@jeff305 Жыл бұрын

It so easy for people to say get over it. I just wish people could grow up and take responsibility for their own faults and the damage they cause to us honest men and women who are praying for the same in return

@Christopher-bx8pl Жыл бұрын

Dang

@fransiscothecubanrockiguan6378 Жыл бұрын

I feel you

@MaryRose-z1q 7 күн бұрын

𝐒𝐨𝐬𝐡𝐮𝐓𝐞𝐜𝐡, you're one of my favorite people on this planet.. (And I don't even know you personally). The way in which you present your work, the content and the access is just awesome. Thank you!! This project is unbelievably amazing and thanks for presenting my the access with so much positivity!! All the best from Germany....!!!!!!

@meathead5670 Жыл бұрын

You only find out the ugly details when they know you are leaving. Once they not you are not buying their lies and definitely moving on, the will tell the truth to hurt you. That only validates what you knew . Thank them for finally being honest. Keep it moving and NEVER, NEVER take them back no matter what.

@pusparajmali 7 күн бұрын

I wish there was more people like you to stop all these cheaters, they need serious jail time for that, especially when they take money from you in the relationship, keep doing what your doing SOshu Tech on the internet put the wind up these low life oxygen thieves. Love what you guys do keep up the Great work mate well done respect...

@HERMANMagdaleno 2 ай бұрын

This man is a hero and the most dangerous man at the same time, but in the best wayyyyy possible! The simplicity with how he explains it and performs these tasks is frightening but educational at the same time. You sir, I would trust you with my life! I applaud this man and need more of him Soshu Tech

@FrankBishopPS3 10 ай бұрын

20 yrs of toxicity I’m permanently damaged.

@Rusty-Brown_ 10 ай бұрын

******I HAD 28 YEARS OF IT ***!!!!!!!!!

@Kathy-qu8zj 9 ай бұрын

Pretty sure I’ve been fed lies and half truths for 25 years..buncha BS.. traumatized

@Rusty-Brown_ 9 ай бұрын

@@Kathy-qu8zj IM SO SORRY FOR YOUR HARDSHIP SOME WOMEN DO FIND BAD MEN EVIL EXSIST WITY BOTH SEXES !! I JUST WANTED A GOOD WIFE LOYAL AND HONEST ID CLIMB THE MOUNTAIN AND SLAY THE BEAST FOR HER !!

@nospoon4799 8 ай бұрын

Me too. Liars are the pits.

@pjmrees 8 ай бұрын

23 years with an abusive, pathological lying, gaslighting, covert narcissist. He should be a millionaire by selling his lies in a book. I finally had to hire a PI to get evidence so I knew my gut was right. Why can't they just be single instead of f!#$# up other people's lives with 100% BS lies.

@fatcat7msk7ru Жыл бұрын

Cheated once = means cheater. Time to build "not care" not the trust.

@AR-zn1uy Жыл бұрын

Maybe in that relationship but I cheated when I was 23. It killed me knowing what I did to her that I stayed single for 10 years. First girl I met, I didn't cheat, no porn, she cheated and destroyed me. I will never cheat ever again. I was young and made a selfish decision and regret it deeply. My ex didn't even give a shit. She was so malicious and heartless i may never trust again.

@standground8284 8 ай бұрын

@@AR-zn1uy Are we supposed to feel bad that you got a taste of your own medicine? I just don’t understand why you stayed single because you decided to hookup with someone you preferred instead of dumping your gf prior. It amazes me that some of you cheaters can’t keep it a buck and act like you can’t be truthful. If you approach your partner and say that you’re going to cheat or you prefer someone else… no worries, they might dump you and encourage you to pursue the person you want to cheat with. Y’all cheaters are arrogant if you think your significant others prefer to remain with you if you want someone else.

@AR-zn1uy 8 ай бұрын

@standground8284 lol get some counselling and maybe hit the gym. Lil miss perfect. I cheated once and learned my lesson. You, on the other hand, are bitter because you aren't good-looking and continue to get cheated on. Which is why u wrote me a paragraph. Try staying away from the cookies

@barkburton1 6 ай бұрын

@@AR-zn1uy this sounds a lot like me. I was a MESS in my teens and early 20’s I would screw a snake if you held its head. No I would screw a wood pile if you told me a snake was in it… that all went away and my karma is I ended up with the snake everyone screws apparently 🙄

@pablorages1241 Жыл бұрын

There is no "healing process" after cheating ... only a weak person who lacks any confidence takes back a cheater

@KyleALarkins 11 ай бұрын

You’re in a fixed mindset, which is perfectly fine. But you undermining others decisions doesn’t validate your side any more. If anything, it shows your insecurity about if you should’ve stayed. Think about what you post in these videos. Vulnerable people come here for guidance; not your negative judgements.

@pablorages1241 11 ай бұрын

@@KyleALarkinsTelling people comfortable lies doesn't help them .. women tend not to cheat from sexual desire but from emotional connection ... once the emotional connection has been broken in a relationship it is very difficult for it to be reformed ... people go through the stages of grief ... depression is common and even PTSD ... the majority of relationships never recover from one of the partners cheating and suggesting to people that they do is just setting them up for further emotional injury

@DakotaSmith971 11 ай бұрын

That’s not true.. there is always a healing process when a person experiences ANY trauma and you need to listen to how silly you sound. Also, as well, people who stick around trying to fix things aren’t “weak” in fact they’re the strongest of people. A weak response is the “flight” response. Which is the easiest way out & the route that people take so they don’t have to be strong. Don’t say silly things.

@pablorages1241 11 ай бұрын

@@DakotaSmith971 You are living in a fantasy world

@standground8284 10 ай бұрын

@@KyleALarkins Making an observation isn’t judgement. Was it rude to call use the word weak, maybe but that’s subjective. You used the word insecurity. Nothing screams insecurity like “I’m afraid to be alone or preferably with a faithful partner” so I’ll take my chances by remaining with a known cheater instead. It’s absolutely sad that cheaters have some of y’all so brainwashed that you decide to remain with them and make excuses for them after they betrayed you. I can’t think of anything more degrading, humiliating and pathetic than fighting to remain in a relationship with a known cheater. Especially under the guise of a cheater calling you weak for dumping them and moving on with your life. That sad thing is, the person who cheated on you and realize you didn’t dump them will look down on you moving forward for your lack of self respect. They’ll just get better at hiding the infidelity, next time they’re caught, they’ll likely say duh you let me off the hook the first time.

@AR-zn1uy Жыл бұрын

I'm so grateful someone had told me. Otherwise she would've quilted me into staying. I'm so grateful i was set free.

@caucasianafrican1435 2 жыл бұрын

Don't confront them first. Get proof, then confront.

@SS-zy5dc Жыл бұрын

No point they still lie,deny,manipulate

@craigy691 Жыл бұрын

They turn every thing on you they say your crazy your being silly paranoid etc even though your hitting them with facts I’m getting a divorce but she still hasn’t admitted to it

@luluchan9946 Жыл бұрын

I had evidence, found thongs that weren't mine. Found hair ties when I don't use hair ties in the car..a apron and cap from a fast food restaurant. Worst of all a condomn and yes you guessed it we never used any because he said he was allergic to them. Also he knew I could see his location, there are several times he was in motels and again on days we didn't go to. Also he would be in the parking lot of his work..way after working hours. I had the screens shots of his location where it said the time and place and how long he was there and the videos of the stuff I found in his car...and he said the GPS was wrong, that he just passed by...then he said he sometimes lends his car to his nephews so the stuff is probably theirs..and the cherry on top he said did I see him, no I didn't right so then I have no proof and therefore nothing happened. I have a 2yo with him and he is always crying to see his dad so I'm just waiting for him to speak so I can make up a reason to where he won't be seeing him and not cry.

@caucasianafrican1435 11 ай бұрын

@@SS-zy5dc Indeed. Cheaters will lie while holding proof of guilt in their hands. It's absolutely maddening.

@caucasianafrican1435 11 ай бұрын

@@craigy691 I know this is late, but she is a loser. What a crappy, loser thing... for her to not even grant you the peace of knowing what happened. It's crazy-making and disrespectful.

@stephenskayla2079 2 жыл бұрын

Before you confront them get proof. Hire a private investigator. They can file pictures and affidavits for the one being cheated on in a divorce case. Judges actually look at this after it's filed by your attorney.

@caucasianafrican1435 2 жыл бұрын

Good advice.

@karinasierra5659 Жыл бұрын

It’s expensive 😢

@Bkbabu999 5 ай бұрын

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@nathaliacastillorodriguez6451 21 күн бұрын

I did it I told him what I felt and I showed him all the reasons why. I tried being understanding and supportive but he still didn’t accept it.

@mandachaudhari3674 5 ай бұрын

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@cnote3580 8 ай бұрын

Don't expect someone who betrayed you to all the sudden be upstanding and honest about it. Just walk away.

@davidcarraway3784 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the video. I caught my wife writing postcards to a convict. Apparently before he got in prison my wife and him had been out several times together even with my wife’s older son and his wife who, yes knows that we are married. My wife continues to this day says that they did not have sex but the same daughter in law sent me text messages that my wife and her were having at the time. They stated many sexual things, including a phrase my wife use to say about me and she said it about him. My wife denies the texts saying that her daughter in law made the messages up which these messages are time and date stamped. I don’t believe my wife at all about the sex which she has admitted to seeing this guy. It’s been about8 months since everything started falling apart. I’m trying to move past things but don’t know how when I know in my heart I’m being lied to.

@msbonni3408 Жыл бұрын

Trauma triggers 🥺 so real…

@Eymen10s Жыл бұрын

This man really hit the ground running and hasn't stopped yet. He gives us more understanding of him without interviews and negative antics he just shows us who he is through the Recovery. True living legend. We salute you. *Brian hacks Online* . The execution, creativity, and goodness that came from it were inspiring on a number of levels. Cheers Alex & looking forward to seeing what you do next!

@Jessica_OS12 Жыл бұрын

Thanks *brian hacks online* for the remote access into target's complete phone activities

@gregorybush1403 Жыл бұрын

This message is to recognize your contribution to the team’s tracking and spying success. Your commitment had been exemplary and your hard working is an inspiration to everyone around you. You’re a professional *brian hacks online*

@hernadezrita4226 Жыл бұрын

Working with you is an honor, working without you was an absolute horror. Working under you is a pleasure, an experience that I will truly treasure. Thanks, for getting access to target's phone *Johnson spy*

@rhondaelkins2427 Жыл бұрын

Can you help me?

@BREAKOUT444 7 ай бұрын

If you feel like they cheated and they make you feel crazy instead of taking the time to talk through it with you, that's enough. Leave.

@donaldedgar1004 Жыл бұрын

In order to be a good lair. You need to have a good memory bless every one even the cheaters when they tell the truth. Amen 🙏

@arianbyw3819 Жыл бұрын

You cant. Cheaters lie, don't care about you. There's zero point trying to even make sense of it. Just get gone!

@shaynemyelende7046 8 ай бұрын

You said you'll never cheat but you take another man's hand but I'll always still like you man.

@jasongomez5012 7 ай бұрын

Confronting in any tone will set off a bad, and loud response. No matter what angle you try to approach it at.

@PeaceDayCortez 7 ай бұрын

I felt it, that put me on notice. I sat back and watched. He pointed me in the direction I needed to go to figure it out.

@apple_pi. Жыл бұрын

Ugh, I sure screwed that up. Might be why I'm stuck in my recovery. Oh. Hey Brennan! Fancy seeing you over here. I've been listening to your podcasts for the past year but never looked for you here. Thank you for all the work you do to help all the firecrackers like myself who are dealing with betrayal. xx

@gc2161 9 ай бұрын

A tricked her by saying if I had a little honesty then i could work with it, we could work on it. See? I can also be deceitful. As expected to get me off her back she gave me little but admitted that there was indeed another man. This was the last piece if the puzzle that I needed. Divorced. The key to this is as this video says, stay persistent.

@barkburton1 6 ай бұрын

@@gc2161 DAAAAM! That’s a burn! But good on you… still hurts tho

@marcdriggers3335 Жыл бұрын

I have tried to tell my bpd ex that I know what happened, and I understand why it could have happened. I called her today, and basically told her that she hasn’t been honest with me about what happened, and she of course denied it. I didn’t let her try and make excuses that nothing happened, there is too much evidence that says otherwise, and I just told her her without blaming her that we both know that isn’t what happened. I knew it was starting to get to her because she started getting angry! I just told her that I wasn’t going to contact her anymore and that I was moving on, and if she wanted to talk she could reach out to me. When I told her again that, she hasn’t been 100% honest with me, she just said bye and then hung up, that’s enough proof to me that she is starting to at least think about things, and knows that I know something.

@chrissemenko628 Жыл бұрын

Bravo! I liked your calm, cool and collected approach. It's just a vibe I got off your words.

@jrjosee Жыл бұрын

I would've lost my shit bro. I respect y'all for being emotionally strong. I'm not doing okay tbh :/

@lacyjrice8295 Жыл бұрын

Mad respect for the holding it together. I lose my shit every time and it's like open mic night at a trap house. I didn't get much from this video that I haven't got from every other one I watched or article I've read. I just don't know how to know if it's my gut, past triggers or my head or heart telling me shit, but I just know he's hiding something. 🤔

@Chanoey1308 11 ай бұрын

I just found out that my boyfriend is cheating on me. I came home for a month and , within a month he did this.. I'm devastated. I can't even cry. It feels like the world is crashing.

@standground8284 10 ай бұрын

Well, you should dump him and pursue a relationship with someone who’s faithful. You should prefer to be alone and single. That’s better than being alone in relationships since your significant other is out cheating with someone else.

@phoenixcain3552 5 ай бұрын

Be relieved you didn't marry him. Right now, you can leave with no strings attached. Walk away and dust yourself off and heal

@alansamuel2454 4 ай бұрын

Sorry for this, you're a better, stronger person and will come through this. Please don't feel that it's your fault by any means. I'd normally leave someone who cheats but only you know what you want. Make sure though that you don't just forgive simply with him facing no consequences cause that means he will likely do it again.

@abuneol161 Жыл бұрын

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@MaryJane-qx7pk Жыл бұрын

Thanks *johnsonspy* for the remote access into target's complete phone activities

@hernadezrita4226 Жыл бұрын

@dam230711 Жыл бұрын

Just read this on another video you cyborg

@candisewazeka6340 7 ай бұрын

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@manfredc1001 11 ай бұрын

Just tell them; "i know whats going on." And leave it at that... now watch em squirm!

@kennethos8089 Жыл бұрын

When the accuser is unsafe and created the environment, this all becomes extremely unhelpful. One more coach not interested in helping, and worth ignoring. Thank you for helping me to save my time by not listening further.

@phaujeeRam2323 4 ай бұрын

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@SuperBrilliantbrunet 2 жыл бұрын

This is exactly what I am going through. Total denial his actions were/ are anything that wasnt professional. So frustrating!!

@mistygarner2823 2 жыл бұрын

Same. He finally told me about one time but I know there are more. He only told me because I was about to pull up to the girls house. He got mad at me and called me everything in the book...

@hunter_alex101 Жыл бұрын

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@Jameson_luke Жыл бұрын

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@CarolIncierto 11 ай бұрын

I have a cheating husband before. I confronted him with solemn queries, he answered with shouts and slamming of doors where neighbors can hear and get his malleta to leave me. Oh my goodness! Many times i begged him not to leave me and forgive him without any doubt, without any discussions. After 12 years guess what? I was fed up. I throw all my energies in revenge and get even that my thorns on my head grew long. I cant control my revenge. And this time i brave enough to let him go. I am fed up... Need to find myself and my worth. I dont want to be imprisoned with someone who makes me a puppet, a scare crow, a maid, a pass time, a nobody. I left with the children without his knowledge. Guess what? He didn't look for us. Insread he said okay you go on. After many weeks, he had another woman. They are happy. Good. I hope they are for each other. I will not worry because the best is yet to come for me. I will just be good single mom, take care of the children, obey God. And be happy. Thats all

@MrLopez-lm4jk 11 ай бұрын

Sheeesh u soumd hurt sounds like he been wanted out

@standground8284 10 ай бұрын

Geez, it’s safe to say he wanted out if he didn’t look for you and the children. The fact that he didn’t freak out means that he trusted you to do what’s best for you and the children.

@Gotoworkkk 6 ай бұрын

I’m sorry to say this, but it looks like he dodged a bullet with you! Some marriages just aren’t meant to be and he proved that…

@janetralchenberger4800 3 ай бұрын

@@standground8284 , I DONT GET IT THOUGH.. WHY R YOU ALL SAYING IT GOOD ITS GOOD..... 🙄🙄😵😰😰😳😳THAT KIND OF GUY... DANNNG.. DESERVES A GOOD SWIFT KICK... WHY BE HAPPY FOR HIM.. HES A BUM.. A JERK.. HOW CAN YOU BE HAPPY FOR THAT KIND OF GUY... HURTING YOU FOR SOO MANY YEARS.. HE IS TOTAL TRASH & SOO EVIL.. RUDE& A CREEP... THAT DESERVES PUNISHMENT.. BUT I GUESS AS YOU SAY.. " OK LET THE LORD TEACH HIM A LESSON.. MAYBE KARMA WILL BITE HIM IN THE ASS TOO!!" I HOPE!!! JERK ASS GUY!

@mzlil Жыл бұрын

Oh my goodness, everything you said is spot on with what I’m going through.

@Bhardwaj1482 5 ай бұрын

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@kathyt9453 Жыл бұрын

So I don't have hard evidence no but my my gut feeling and I can sense when something is off I can sense when something is different just by how my boyfriend acts and does things

@larrystrange-i5c 4 ай бұрын

I agree. A pathological liar will continue to lie

@AdrienneJung.M Жыл бұрын

What do you do if you think your spouse cheated in the past and will not admit it

@jessiesheldon-huffey1824 9 ай бұрын

Let them know you need them to do a polygraph that you set up with a professional to set your mind at ease so you can trust. An innocent partner will do a polygraph.

@yungenvy436 Жыл бұрын

I just don't get catering to my partners needs and making them feel all safe and cozy to get them to tell the truth about cheating. Why give them anymore when they've already taken everything from you?

@00Palana 5 ай бұрын

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@heavenboundfarm2159 2 жыл бұрын

I seen my husband in the act .and he tried to convince me I didn't see anything ...and tried talking me to go to a nut house ...

@adventureswithmimi 2 жыл бұрын

I hope you are no longer with that person!

@caucasianafrican1435 2 жыл бұрын

Get away from that Gaslighter!

@greenfiregarden204 Жыл бұрын

Hardcore gaslighting. Sorry you went thru that.

@becky1925g Жыл бұрын

Same here. I caught my husband with a woman and all he would say was that I was the one who was cheating. When I wasn't. This happened more than once.

@Mithreniel Жыл бұрын

@@caucasianafrican1435 Dude I immediately thought of a few scenes from the movie Gaslight. 💯

@fu7rigfiig2 Жыл бұрын

Doing a good job is not always about impressive innovation. Sometimes it is only about doing something with plain dedication. Well done *Johnsonspy* . This message is to recognize your contribution related to hacking. Your commitment has been exemplary and your hard work is an inspiration to everyone around you.

@MaryJane-qx7pk Жыл бұрын

Thanks *johnsonspy* for the remote access into target's complete phone activities

@hernadezrita4226 Жыл бұрын

@gregorybush1403 Жыл бұрын

@georgeenke7482 27 күн бұрын

I intentionally didn’t look for ALL the details because it was was way too painful for me. But I definitely knew. One thing I didn’t anticipate was that I know so much that I will never share with our kids about her because I don’t want to hurt them. Meanwhile, she maliciously tells our kids so much trash about me, real or perceived, just to gain their allegiance.

@deanlemaster Жыл бұрын

Hello, i need to access an account urgently but i dont have the login details. Please how can i do this?

@deanlemaster Жыл бұрын

Please who is that?

@tysonnesbitt1166 Жыл бұрын

I feel like we set each other up for telling lies about if we are cheating in the beginning of our relationship that started 9 years ago. We told each other that was the one thi g that would break each other and im afraid it's taking form now after 9 years. I know something is going on there is so much that doesn't add up. And when I confront her she is already at a level 10 to my 3. And throws what I've done up or blames my paranoia on my PTSD meds from the VA. She says the meds have changed me. I love my wife with all I have but it's so hard for me to put up this wall when I know deep down something not kosher. I'm scared to death to find out the truth but feel like I need to hear it so I can start getting over it. My heart hurts something fierce everytime I look at her knowing that there is deceit there.

@Jess-kn8vl 11 ай бұрын

Woah dude. If she is blaming your PTSD meds on your "behavior" that is emotional abuse. She is emotionally abusing you rather than being a supportive wife. Those are things to never throw back in someones face. I hope you are okay. These things are important to bring up to a therapist or counselor. She might not be aware of how abusive that is. Either seek support alone or together. Im speaking from experince here. My dad is a disabled Vietnam Vet and my mother is emotionally abusive and want to see her in jail.

@lauraainsworth3800 9 ай бұрын

This is evil to do to a Service Member. When you know, you know (and you do). Restore your strength by leaving.

@tati001 Ай бұрын

You just said, “how do you know your partner is cheating? Maybe you found something. You go through their phone…” I don’t believe I’ve ever had a partner go through my phone. I would consider that a huge invasion of privacy. If I ever feel the need to go through my partner‘s phone, that’s a huge sign that I shouldn’t be with them.

@hdw237 Ай бұрын

I was always very respectful of my husband's privacy. I never went thru his phone. I trusted him as a wife should. He repaid me by cheating with multiple affairs over a decade. You should be able to ealk up to your spose and say let me look in your phone. I made the mistake of trusting my spouse. Never again. 😢

@SHARANABASAVAV-c1n 4 ай бұрын

I'm a Maldives born and living in UK and I cannot express enough how much I despise these scumbags. Literally whenever people ask me my nationality I just tell them I'm British because idiots like these give us a horrendous reputation, not to also mention they scam other Europeans too. It warms my heart to see stuff like this, please Dale Valskov keep up the great work destroying these scammers!!!

@happy_bubble7 2 жыл бұрын

Okay... but what do you do when there ARE already trauma triggers?

@trisharitter Жыл бұрын

Never second guess your gut instincts

@davidmulligan8274 2 жыл бұрын

Jesus just leave like seriously just leave, if your stuck with kids regardless you will be forced to leave so it's better you leave on your own terms. Save up hard cut hard then just leave pal

@kasheem1747 2 жыл бұрын

I don’t have solid evidence but I saw her co worker standing unprofessionally behind her one day as I entered the building he suddenly switched to her side as if then started complementing me as if to distract from what I just saw so idk then she swears he wasn’t standing behind her when I walked thru the door lol so what do you think she’s a front desk lady and he’s the house keep ?

@MasterEggroll Жыл бұрын

That’s what my gf did. The trickle out effect. I told her just to be honest with me. I know what I saw. Then should be tell me a little more information but nothing that would tell me she cheated. Then more information.

@Shannon71172 5 ай бұрын

We TEACH people how to TREAT us……God bless. 🙏🏼❤️

@r2rinaday Ай бұрын

I think a cheater will never tell the whole truth and will downplay everything. They are dishonest individuals by nature or they would have left you first or adked permission. Betraying someone's trust is the death nail of any kind of relationship being happy. Could you trust a business partner that siphoned half your profits off to some offshore account "belonging" to someone else?

@Strode78 11 ай бұрын

In my experience it never works when you simply say you want them to tell you the truth, no matter how safe you present yourself as the partner they have lied and deceived you and telling you the truth is something they never wanted to do. They are being asked to just because they are caught but still they are very unlikely to do so when you ask for the truth. The best and most effective way to get the truth out of a cheater is by telling them you already know everything but want to hear it from them. Then let them sit there and start spilling things because they aren't sure if you do know or what you know but from my experience this is the best way to get them to give you any bit of truth by making them think you already know the answers to what you are asking them. It really does work because it plays on their mind and scares them into at least telling some of the truth.

@Gotoworkkk 6 ай бұрын

Sounds like too many games. Without any proof? He’s gonna just think you’re crazy.. find your evidence and then leave him!

@killakrazyproduction4245 2 жыл бұрын

That shit hit me when he said triggered into trauma I felt that !

@leonsmith2216 9 ай бұрын

I hacked his phone and see everything. When I confront him he told me is me did everything with his phone because I hacked his account and he did not do nothing.