How to Deal with HATERS, TROLLS and NEGATIVE People

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People hate feelings of inferiority and other deep-rooted issues. They rely on lowering others to elevate themselves and they criticize and ridicule others in order to justify their situation. Hatmakers will hate you because they often come along whenever you are trying to do something new in your life.
If you waste your time for haters, doing so will only ruin your happiness. Because haters are deprived of your happiness and they want you to continue to think endlessly about them. At the same time, they want you to repeat their comments in your mind. Haters are often never happy with themselves, so when they see someone who is happy it infuriates them.
The best way to deal with them is to be kind and just agree to disagree with them. Do not argue with them and get into a flame war -- that is what they want you to do! Just be kind and then ignore them and they will go away to bug someone else. Dealing with haters is a matter of perspective, the way you choose to see them will determine your relationship with them.
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How to Deal with HATERS, TROLLS, and NEGATIVE People
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[@carrieanne2012]

I came from a abusive childhood and a hard life,I don’t say things to hurt anyone,but yet I’m constantly being attacked by people in social media I feel it’s them as a person,no excuses

[@DOTMH_1]

Scapegoating never stops We just need to get better at how we respond to them.

[@gwenriddle784]

I just block them and see them as losers that don’t really have a life or they’re not happy in their life. I’ve gotten better at handling haters. Just don’t respond to them because they obviously want your attention. Bullies and haters don’t like to be ignored. I’m almost 25 and I’m still learning this.

[@digitalnomad3201]

the irony is ur allowing others to bring your own energy down and react the way you do to deal with their actions & behaviour. as they say "anger is the punishment you give yourself for anothers behavior!"

[@FreeSpirit47]

Facing the trolls head on sometimes works if they are over compensating for a much smaller building. Throwing positivity to them instead of attacking in kind also sometimes results in positive outcome. Sometimes, a troll is trolling for entertainment, those are the ones which should only be starved with ignoring, even sometimes blocking. Blocking will only eliminate one troll out of many more, yet, it feels better to have recourse. Sending blessings to them is best, one never knows what circumstance others are dealing with.

[@tommychappell6359]

Brenda B true but other times forgiving someone is another way for people to see you as being weak... or passive. and people nowadays take advantage of people like that... im an example of that..

[@thomasgarcia2991]

I clicked on this video because I thought this was Jeff Goldblum, didn't even notice the title, and now my recommendations are filled with nothing but life coach videos. :(

[@angeliquep8391]

There is NOTHING to understand when you tell a person to go away and they CONTINUE to PURSUE after you told them not interested that's a red flag indicating they are not respectful.... no matter what kind of environment we grew up in, it's not a excuse for bad behavior.... NO ONE HAS TO TOLERATE BAD BEHAVIOR

[@TheRealPeterSage]

Thanks

[@andygriffiths9916]

You teach people around you how to treat you.

[@angeliquep8391]

Some of us are spiritually gifted and the discernment is usually 95% on point of what spirit is revealing to us.

[@crystallvalentine]

thank you for making this video. I have been having a troll that goes through all my videos, disliking them and adding horrible comments to each one. I was thinking about not making videos anymore to avoid it, but after watching this I will not let him stop me from doing what makes me happy and I will try to understand instead of being hurt and mad. :)

[@maylenemcdondald6156]

Thank you +Peter Sage! I really didn't know how to get out of my stagnant environment. I still needed to learn more wisdom and insight on how to understand what causes the negative attitude with people. Especially with family. I appreciate your lesson on this topic. You're an added blessing of inspirational teachers and coaches. Right now I have the frequency of my radio tuned in to "Playground in My Mind!"

[@tommychappell6359]

Maylene Mcdonald a lot has to do that many people today think perception = reality.. therefore if someone thinks something negative about someone that they think to be true about someome when its not.. theyll take that as the absolute truth... its pitiful we live in that kind of world.. where we are forced and subjected by peoples opinions of us.. we feel like other people define us. cause they are insistent about putting people down.. but never once do they really understand.. i think people put a block in front of them to protect themselves, even the cleverist of us... and sometimes those people who are the cleverist are also the ones who are inside the most miserable because rhey are always trying to prove themselves..

[@maylenemcdondald6156]

Tommy Chappell I truly understand what you are saying. I am tired of trying to prove myself so I just stay away from the negative effects of my environment.

[@teewhaay]

My Dad needs to watch this video more often.

[@EroticTales69]

teewhaay ditto

[@ViolindEva]

I think there are no negative people,- just folks who constantly show us what we should work on :-) We are truly blessed. Thank you for your work!

[@ViolindEva]

***** It is but we often use the "I am separate from all the others and they can hurt me" paradigm, which is a painful one. Thank you for showing us what's possible! Cheers from Germany :-)

[@tommychappell6359]

Music Lessons Eva Alexandrian its hard it is...

[@AirElegant]

Hater always hate, lover always love. Love your video 💖

[@TheRealPeterSage]

I also love your comment. Thanks for watching. Stay blessed!

[@stevendomenech7405]

Peter Sage is the BEST. He is a CHAMPION.

[@TheRealPeterSage]

Right back atchya!

[@BuildingLeaders]

That's so true. I like that Protect your frequency that you're broadcasting out.

[@annamiller9153]

Just come across your UT channel and I simply cannot wait to watch more. I got my pen and notebook ready....;) all the best for you :)

[@v10moped]

This man needs to speak at Californian universities. Too many fair-minded students go in and come out as haters.

[@csillabrimer4408]

You are such an inspiration to all of us, there are many many motivational speakers out there but no one like Peter Sage! Thank you for all these videos you share with us

[@TheRealPeterSage]

Your comment also inspire me to make more videos the way you love!

[@Bridget51-Z]

Positive Video and excellent explanation of the conditioned mind.

[@asksteevies4941]

How did this man know this, it's odd how people know this and others don't, This guys awesome....

[@gwenriddle784]

ask steevies it’s from experience :)

[@masterpeace7630]

You are a sage! Thank you!

[@priyankdeep3763]

Sage means Munivar.

[@mowatrcm1]

Another truly inspiring video. Thank you for all the good you do.🙏👍

[@angeliquep8391]

Negative folks try to steal my positive energy. They are called energy vampires

[@DarkJanet]

I got trolled out on Snafu-Comics.com when I was a college student and they were playing with me. So I take your advice how to deal with trolls and haters. My dream is to become an entertainer on HBO and MTV.

[@kittycat5347]

Talking about frequencies, the vibes of this channel are unique and amazing. I discovered it about a week ago and I am now officially hooked. I am looking forward to introduce it to my two boys in about 10 years from now when they will be teenagers. It will provide them a great shortcut in life for sure! :-)

[@TheRealPeterSage]

Of course, you had taken a good decision.

[@laurathurlow3634]

He must be such a great dad! Thank you Peter!

[@herschelbrown1969]

Excellent advice! I will take this to heart!

[@TheRealPeterSage]

💯❤

[@ottosurfer]

I like your respectful approach, because negative people are human beings after all, and at the end we will have to deal with them, liked or not.

[@tommychappell6359]

Roger Otto i think life is a rollercoaster.. sometimes things just come down to luck.. and we cant change that too dramatically. only conyrol what we can control and dont control what we cant.. like he said we cant change people, we have to accept them..

[@tommychappell6359]

Roger Otto ive been disrespected in the past.. or at least thats how i perceived it.. i think those peope are often in denial about their own reality... but even after all that.. im still going strong... i wont give up

[@darrenhudson3983]

This guy is a genius

[@j.l9670]

What a fantastic positive practical video Peter!!! Thanks and keep up the good work!!

[@TheRealPeterSage]

Sure and hope you also help me to watch, and share my videos.

[@marketingsmartguy7468]

man your videos are always soooooo freaking good i engage my self in all the videos you post , and watch one day im going to shake your hand. peter sage is the truth

[@TheRealPeterSage]

I'm waiting for that moment.

[@tinypaperpiecesnypaperdesi8634]

So thankful for your channel and this video that TRULY ADDRESSED MY CURRENT SITUATION!!!!! I now know how to handle this very exhausting situation:)

[@Matt_Niro]

The third time i listened. So illuminating. Thx

[@Zedd1500]

Peter, you are amazing. Thanks for this.

[@boomdunker]

Peter Sage at his best ....

[@marileesaddler491]

I have struggled with this subject for a while now, it is hard when it's your family environment... I just get away by myself, and study listen,

[@CITYBEACHTV]

This is some of the most meaningful stuff I’ve heard in a long time

[@steffidas4785]

Awesome just awesome 🤩extremely effective points,thanks a lot would be useful

[@TheRealPeterSage]

What is your number one takeaway?

[@steffidas4785]

@@TheRealPeterSage I truly don't think if anyone is a normal functional human being he/she would need to heed to what anyone says about him/her negatively,even if we are accustomed to be affected by negative words or criticism those stuffs are not exactly neither directing you what needs to be done or clarifying if you are doing something wrong that can be corrected ,it's just a projection of their own insecurities,generally people hates other people's perseverance specially when they try a couple of things which they themselves couldn't even have the courage to try

[@sanyuable]

Thx 4 teaching us informal education. Saves us a lot of headaches when dealing with pipo.

[@bobdelaplage690]

Radio suckville…how great🤣

[@bilalazizi1]

The heart population is nearly up 10 billion! We don't live 1950s in case you haven't notice that 7 billion population was at that time

[@diannholland]

This is AWESOME Peter. THANK YOU!

[@JenEarly85]

Very powerful. I shared this with everyone I know

[@odeparfoom8127]

Def gonna add this to my encouragement playlist! That radio analogy was just what I needed!

[@TheRealPeterSage]

Stay blessed. Hope my next video also helps you too.

[@plutodrvv]

Thank you. Very insightful.

[@icestatic6287]

Bravo!!! Bravo!! Nice video Peter! I am going to send this video to a couple people.

[@YakMotley]

Awesome video! Great work !

[@TheRealPeterSage]

Thanks for your great review. Stay tuned!

[@dawnwest3766]

I have found you videos very helpful. I am trying to work on my self as I have been full of anxiety for 20years and it efforts my day to day life. One thing I struggle with is when customers are angry and shouting at me, not to take this personally. Would like some advice on this, thank you.

[@israeliamidnight]

Thank you for making this, loved your video "knowing and not doing is the same as not knowing" Quote of the year 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾

[@TheRealPeterSage]

Thank you so much for watching and commenting.

[@NiaDanaHood]

Thank you so much! This was so helpful.

[@asedafghan786]

Good job keep it up

[@ASaltyChip]

good video and message for youtube trolls I get do you recommend to block and remove their negative comments as well

[@youtubeshadowbannedme]

You should only censor trolls if they write illegal or discriminatory content

[@hys0540]

great work, please make more videos, thank you.

[@spartandt9297]

Superb explanation !

[@jimmy1143]

What do you do if the person tearing down your building, is you...?

[@richardfewer9348]

Thanks yes Amen

[@muizzkhan2426]

Wish I saw this last year.....

[@aloumay26]

Great video

[@JimmyNaraineOfficial]

I love the charisma Peter! Out of curiosity, do you have a ritual before filming to get yourself into the winner's state?

[@FleurDeLysPTV]

Yes..I like him too how he talks

[@debbee5418]

🌷

[@judy-9999]

I like listening to YOU so, SO, much, that I wish I could have a 40 inch flat tv on my big wall, playing YOUR random, short video motivational speeches, at the push of a button (like the button, I use, to turn on my first light, in the dark {my daughter bot it for me as a motivational device; thats another good story, for another time} & I like it!!!!). It would be like grabbing a healthy snack from the fridge, when im tired. Your voice holds my attention, your articulate words flow out easily, and I drink them in, like I'm drinking a yummy smoothie, which makes your message EASIER to retain... (and want more). And want to TRY it, right away. I think you are a POSITIVE aspect in our scary world. I wish you could be MY DAD!! or my BEST FRIEND. Or My husband!!! But, I will envision "that life" and "play both the parts" :-》 THANK YOU, very much, Peter Sage, for giving this free gift!!!

[@jo-annlouw3157]

Thank you, fantastic info 👍

[@indym375]

A lot of it is in my opinion is business nosieness if you focus on yourself and what u got going on and stop hoping and wishing and praying for someone else to fail you want have time to hate ..Cause u are worried about You .. Smh 😒 Stop trying to be mean out wit undermind plot on someone else and u will be okay I promise cuz that's coming off as a bully ..

[@dodongai]

Great video ! Inspiring !

[@kennyevans6844]

Beautiful video!

[@Nathan250494]

Hey Peter thanks for the video! I am trying to move from By Me to Through Me. Do you have any practical tips? I feel like my default state is trying too hard and I have to make myself aware (which I have difficulty with when I get caught up in the moment) to let go of control. Is there a way to make it (more) automatic?

[@arrelgates9361]

Peter, I have main question. Do you recommend people to ignore what's happening around them and just try to build their own life around current system? Close the eyes before massive control of people throughout various mechanisms like social engineering and exposing of our primal desires. I was keen to ask you what's your take on this? I think it's quite obvious that we have sick and insane people who are on the top. What you think about belief that our consciousness raising and these people who in power will fall anyway and that it's only a process in which we don't need to be caught in. Thanks

[@TheRealPeterSage]

Thanks for your great reply.

[@bluelightzwit7447]

@@TheRealPeterSage oof

[@chrislawson1988]

Funny thing I keep thinking about watching these is I can agree and disagree with some things mainly cause I can watch this and say yeah see they are haters and that same person can watch this same video and say yeah see he is a hater both of us thinks the other is a hater and that they're right so who's right? Is anybody right? Like a previous video I was watching saying signs you're dealing with a hater first one he said was if the person is indifferent to you but are welcoming to others that means they're hating you for some reason. Later he said if you hear a person lying about you like you said dont try to change them he said to not deal with them at all. I started thinking though on their side of the story maybe they're doing the same thing as you. Maybe they heard you say something they didn't agree with or thought was a lie so they're like I'm not dealing with them so if you say hi to them they act in your eyes indifferent to you others they dont think lied about them they welcomed which then makes you think ok they're hating me for some reason they're a hater I'm not dealing with them while at same time they thinking same about you. Am I making this too complex lol? I keep wanting to take your advice about ignore the haters dont care what people say etc like a lot if these videos say but for some reason I cant. I value all their opinions I guess to much. I dont know why. I don't have problems with myself or where I'm at in life so I'm not saying or listening to anything thinking yeah I hate myself so they're right or something I hate about myself I'm projecting on anybody else. I'm fine with me it just seems like this labeling hey if you're saying something I'm going to call you a hater but I can do the exact same thing even saying word for word what you said but nope I'm not a hater. I'm like what's the difference? You both are doing the same things lol. Am I making sense lol

[@jonathanvermillion7263]

Lovely video! Thank you!

[@televisionaccount8442]

Bro, I was on line play and all I said was…Who thinks Adam Driver is fine as hell

[@GuitarGrrrella]

Sometimes people who think they're positive are actually haters too. For ex., people who undermine or invalidate someone else's problems because they find it easier to blame the victim than to be bothered with someone else's suffering. Then they say that they're positive people so they don't listen to other people's troubles and avoid being around people with troubles but really they're being very negative by blaming people for their problems and not showing any concern.

[@tommychappell6359]

GuitarGrrrilla they are foolish and egotistical and lazy.. like he said.. perception is often seen as reality.. therefore they protect their own reputation over being bothered with someone...

[@tommychappell6359]

GuitarGrrrilla they are showing lack of integrity.. lack of concern, emotional intelligence, real awareness.. instead of really understanding other problems, thry project their own self defensive model of reality onto others..

[@GuitarGrrrella]

Yes, and it can be extremely harmful--blaming people who have cancer, just as an example, by saying their negative thoughts caused the illness. It's a cruel thing to say about someone who is (along with their family) already suffering from illness and maybe looking for some uplifting and motivational words but instead is blamed for their problems. It's sad 'cause I think some motivational speakers could really help people, but too many of them are focused on making money so they say things that appeal to those who have a lot of money (and want to justify selfish decisions) instead of just saying things that could actually help people--rich and poor alike. Hmm... I don't know if I'm making sense here... BTW, I'm not referring to Peter, just motivational speakers in general: Tony Robbins, et al.

[@tommychappell6359]

GuitarGrrrilla that makes a lot of sense... it just sucks that thats how the world is today. but we cant control others, only ourselves... with money things always go corrupt... this world today is corrupt... people dont care about others emotions, only their own... people lack emotional intelligence and forgiveness..

[@tommychappell6359]

GuitarGrrrilla i think its human.. cause we naturally want to avoid pain.. we put barriers in front of us so we dont experience that pain... it makes sense.. but its also wrong

[@amarica09]

I thought he was Jeff Goldblum

[@p0werl0ve]

just hate them back, but with greater passion :-)

[@myownruin187]

Love it... LoL

[@tommychappell6359]

p0werl0ve ye forgiveness doesnt always work.. sometimes it just signals to people that your weak when your not... so ye thats all you can do to protect yourself...

[@tommychappell6359]

p0werl0ve people these days dont deserve forgiveness anyway.. theyll take advantage of you and manipulate you, no matter how rightheous you are, how forgiving you are, how good you are, how patient you are... in fact they might as well just punch someones sainted mother and get away with it... my biggest mistake was showing forgiving for the wrong kind of people (merciless, egotistical, selfish people)..

[@tommychappell6359]

p0werl0ve get angry at them.. tell them to do one.. its the least they deserve anyway... greedy selfish guetts...

[@tommychappell6359]

p0werl0ve get angry at them.. tell them to do one.. its the least they deserve anyway... greedy selfish guetts...

[@tommychappell6359]

this is really great, im a new sub

[@Turkeylungs]

"They"

[@samcuthbert1266]

How to deal with haters: Act Poor

[@TheCitedAviator]

Inspiring SUBBED

[@davidsonnow]

Is this the guy that’s in jail currently?

[@davidsonnow]

Peter Sage ok mate, Nothing better to see than someone who wisely looks back and appreciates the journey, highs and lows. thank you for your response

[@kaushaldamania5838]

you should put captions in your videos

[@johnniebee4328]

Radio Suckville hahaha

[@behoovingmoving]

Hate to sound like a hater, but there aren't seven billion colours, and I can think of, not just two, but at least THREE people, who I personally know, whose favourite colour is blue.

[@arivice9057]

🥰

[@gepisar]

Haters gonna hate; but what if YOU are the hater? And you’re hatin’ on yourself? You know the drill, telling yourself you’re not good enough, and that “you” screwed up, failed at this, failed at that, and lost people money, and upset people for this or that? Dismissing other peoples judgements is easy, they dont know the full-facts! But "we" do; "we" WERE there and did live through it, and "we" were the ones who made the decisions. Can't escape yourself! On the flip side, if we dismiss the haters as some kind of response to alter our behavior (to tear down our own buildings as it were) then the converse must also apply; that "compliments" are also a judgement without full-knowledge and also a manipulation into some behavior, except these ones "feel good". Should we pander to our feelings?

[@freedommachine4633]

As in Motorsports we call it Insta-Carma

[@AskJoeTaylor]

can you make me a moderator

[@clairerobertson6726]

I'm hoping you say "water of a ducks back" but I understand their journey is different its about sourrounding yourself in likeminds at the time of your journey and one complaint i am not understanding the negativity of someone close so must let go not to be horrid to protect myself as I am Grateful for our Children but I don't want to fix it as its more unhealthy choices THAN JUST THIS is this OK? WE HAVE FOUR WONDERFUL GIRLS BUT YOU NEED NOURISHMENT FROM A PARTNER NOT SABOTAGE! I KNOW THE ANSWER LOL BUT HOPEFULLY WE CAN BE BEST FRIENDS OUT OF CLOSE PROXIMITY TO ONE ANOTHER AS I AM MAKING HIM FEEL WORTHLESS BY JUST DOING AND IT HURTS TO WATCH HIM!! SORRY HONESTY BEST POLICY NO LABELS IM GRATEFUL FOR A FREQUENCY I LEARN EVERYDAY NOW I GO TO GET MY SWEET DREAMS GOODNIGHT FROM SINCERE HEART TO ANOTHER AND GREAT NIGHT TO YOU AND PARTNER!! AND AMAZING TEAM 👏 🙌 or others honesty! But I do forgive and hope they know truth! I want no labels and yet complained to you without realising I was doing it THANK YOU!! For if I dig deeper and choose wiser wording that's honesty I cannot guide without knowing these wonderful tools I am Grateful for having a great team in All our corner!

[@mikewhatley9783]

Really great clip Peter, well thought through and just what I needed to watch at the moment. I really enjoy your channel - keep up the good work ! Thanks Mike

[@mikewhatley9783]

+Peter Sage Thanks Peter. I watched your interview(s) on London Real about a week ago and found them really inspirational - I then checked out a lot of your other content on youtube and like your message, and your way of delivering it - thanks again Mike

[@TheRealPeterSage]

Thanks for watching and for your great comment.