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@yellowstarproductions6743 Жыл бұрын
Cool
@MB-tj4wr Жыл бұрын
Hello ted can you transfer to tagalog?many young filipino also watching you especially me.
@ahlee2 Жыл бұрын
Well done 👍
@azkaazeylia Жыл бұрын
can i help to translate?
@whitewalker986211 ай бұрын
The worst kind of rejection is when someone gets close to you, gives you hope to be together and then reject you. This kind of behavior is beyond cruel.
@EchelonPandora11 ай бұрын
It happened to me earlier this year and I even go to a psychologist because of this
@darkprinceofdorne10 ай бұрын
My heart is so broken
@DemonSlayerAnime9 ай бұрын
Self love mate.... that's how we beat this pain
@elzaocean8 ай бұрын
Indeed
@Naan7958 ай бұрын
It’t difficult to know when to trust and put more emotions into these acts that seem to be from an honest interest but you don’t really know
@Ruby_Key Жыл бұрын
I'm glad that they didn't only consider romantic rejections but also platonic rejection as well. Belonging within a group is as important as belonging with someone (if not more).
@Ruby_Key Жыл бұрын
@Mark McEwen i feel u bro
@ireneqq2300 Жыл бұрын
i have had a few romantic breakups and yeah they hurt but nothing has ever hurt like being rejected by the one friend i actually talked everything with. When he said he didnt wish to talk to me anymore i was broken for weeks and a few times a say i would forget why i was sad and think "hm if im sad i should talk to him" only to remember. He is better off now we are apart and im not massively worse off (neutral effect at best) but damn it hurts.
@Ruby_Key Жыл бұрын
@@ireneqq2300 im so sorry, youre prob a wonderful person, he prob just wanted something different. I remember breaking off with my bestfriend at the time cuz of a cold war between us and I wonder if she misses me too, cuz she was a very important part of my life. He may have moved on but you both have impacted each other more than you realized.
@LittleDogTobi Жыл бұрын
When I saw the title, I assumed they primarily meant rejection from interviews/school applications, etc. That's what I'm deeply scared of. 💀
@Ruby_Key Жыл бұрын
@@LittleDogTobi me too bro
@cho-tio5950 Жыл бұрын
The most painful rejection was when they didn't tell you but made you feel it.
@esperanza7948 Жыл бұрын
Me Right now 💔💔
@shadowfox263111 ай бұрын
I feel this hard😢
@heisenberg493910 ай бұрын
Even worse when they make you feel like they like you by calling you cute names and sending you cute pic's, but when you wanna make sure you ask them if they really like you and you are like they will definitely say yes, but bamm! "No, not really." Feels like a gunshot to my heart
@laurens956110 ай бұрын
@@heisenberg4939 They might have a dysfunctional attachment style. Actions speak louder than words. They might not want you to get too close emotionally, so they lie about their true feelings. I am such a person, and I pretty much lost a relationship of 17 years because I was too afraid of opening up and telling her how much I love her. It's only part of the problems in my relationship, but perhaps it can help you understand such a person. You yourself are probably attracted to these kind of people for a reason as well.
@Gstifsyhbbds9 ай бұрын
You said it 🥲
@AceAlbatros Жыл бұрын
Anyone feeling rejection right now, know you’re loved and keep pushing on
@IRosamelia Жыл бұрын
Well said, if anyone here thinks life is cruel, remember you're not alone. God is with you!
@PFGFrankly Жыл бұрын
I know. It still hurts but Im able to move forward. Just a big life change
@thehahvokexperience Жыл бұрын
I'm not loved, that why I was rejected
@AceAlbatros Жыл бұрын
@@thehahvokexperience you are my brother! I’m here to talk if you want
@lozannevanniekerk5489 Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@slavic94376 ай бұрын
not gonna lie, the comments helped more than the video
@Billiegenie2811 күн бұрын
Agreed!
@MichaelC-to7uz22 сағат бұрын
Right!
@waifuchann5173 Жыл бұрын
This hits hard when your classmates that you knew well suddenly ignores you after semester break.
@lolacat4122 Жыл бұрын
Yes
@nolsjawline Жыл бұрын
😔
@IRosamelia Жыл бұрын
Dude, that person does that because they themselves are dealing with emotional baggage. Don't worry, just leave them alone.
@ayyappanchithambaram4575 Жыл бұрын
@@IRosamelia 100%
@eee_eee Жыл бұрын
@calileooo omg finally its here omit guyshsj mini ths here ITS HERE 🤬🤬💀🗿🗿🤯😤🤯🗿🤬
@chimi1924 Жыл бұрын
Ask yourself: 1. Relationship type. Acquantaince or long term? 2. Low opinion of themselves 3. Do the other person value the relationship as you do? Solution: Reconnect with those who value you.
@fromfareast3070 Жыл бұрын
nobody values me :(
@yellowstarproductions6743 Жыл бұрын
@@becky5146 agreed
@ShimmeringPilgrim Жыл бұрын
Do you learn English yesterday?
@MappingRobloxAnimations Жыл бұрын
@@ShimmeringPilgrim Irony 💀
@Zurvanox Жыл бұрын
@@fromfareast3070 maybe you don’t value yourself, by writing this and expect someone else to value you as a replacement for your lacking self-value you display here. If not, it is up to you and only you to connect to others.
@LEFT4BASS Жыл бұрын
I love that this doesn’t downplay how much rejection can hurt. Remember, accepting rejection gracefully doesn’t mean you have to pretend it doesn’t hurt. If you’re rejected romantically, it’s okay to take time away from the person who rejected you, or to even end the friendship permanently if you know you’ll never be satisfied being just friends with them. Relationships should be based on mutual consent and benefit, and if you can’t find a solution that you’ll both be happy in, there’s nothing wrong with ending it.
@SearchOfSelf Жыл бұрын
I can relate to this so much. Rejection hurts and it's okay to find ways to heal. If mutual consent and respect can't be found, it's best to end a friendship.
@artsbybware4790 Жыл бұрын
EXACTLY
@soneforever09 Жыл бұрын
This comment struck a cord in me. Maybe this is the sign I've been waiting for for 2 years. Maybe it's time to end things.
@wilragsdale7344 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. I watch an inspirational video at the end of my every day and I found this one at the end of the day to help with what I went through tonight and I read your comment I thank you much
@asmrcrafts92796 ай бұрын
I'm working on the first half of your comment right now. Needing space because I'm just so upset...
@T-T.... Жыл бұрын
The worst rejection is the one that comes from the one you trusted the most.
@hassanahmed2441 Жыл бұрын
Yes 😥
@esscate Жыл бұрын
Damn anime rots the brain
@T-T.... Жыл бұрын
@@esscate Depends on which anime you watch
@dangerfly Жыл бұрын
Easy solution: Trust no one. [cue X-files theme]
@n0nenone Жыл бұрын
@@T-T.... nah it just does universally lmao
@robertsvf Жыл бұрын
To me, the worst rejection comes when you truly love someone, some group, or some job. They hold a piece of your consciousness that you cannot fully forget. When you are rejected on this level, it is more painful than simply not being recognized or accepted. I still carry pain from rejections more than 30 years ago (marriage) and 10 years ago (fired from job due to office politics).
@hhanie-ng5619 Жыл бұрын
how did you overcome these rejection?
@robertsvf Жыл бұрын
@@hhanie-ng5619 wow. Thanks for asking. I successfully dealt with infidelity via divorce as she wanted to continue the affair. I successfully dealt with the job loss by finding other positions in life where I was accepted and appreciated. My consciousness can never forget the heartbreak, but I can live mostly in the present and be grateful by recognizing the love that exists around me. I love my wife, dog, extended family, clean air, clean water, and all of nature's beauty to name a few.
@suvrojitroy1093 Жыл бұрын
Really! It hurt that bad? I was deeply in love with a girl but she only considered me as a friend although the best friend nonetheless, still when she rejected me eventually, there were misunderstanding, fights and I was deeply hurt. What compounded the problem was that I had to go to office everyday and see her face as we were in the same team. A short term relationship with another girl, a job transfer and a change of city later, I was finally able to shake her off. I realised I was giving her too much importance, there is just one life and change is the only constant, people come and go etc. Also, out of sight out of mind seemed to have always worked for me.
@architchoudhary4782 Жыл бұрын
@@suvrojitroy1093 I've also been going through that. I was profoundly in love with a girl in my class, but she also considered me a mere friend --- albeit a very close one. It made me extremely self-concscious, not so much about my personality and behaviour (because I have been doing everything I can to be the best man I can be) but about my appearance... of which I cannot change much. This is because (a) she is gorgeous, and (b) she was attracted to another guy who was white and "good-looking" according to what you would see in Hollywood, for the most part. While I was Indian with an unusually big nose and a somewhat misaligned jaw (and a half-broken tooth). I felt like I didn't belong there, in the West with all these perfect people many of whom can essentially choose who they want to be with. The realisation that I can be the most virtuous, charismatic and successful man and still be rejected by someone I held so dear was jarring, and ever since I realised it was love I felt for her, I often feel a shiver of loneliness whenever I am very tired or am trying to go to sleep, thinking the moment would be so much more fulfilling if she were there next to me... Of course, it would not be particularly virtuous of me to continue to feel resentful about this rejection. She is a very kind and conscientious person. Even when she does not show it, she means good for everyone around her. It is just that at this point in her life, she might value appearance more than other aspects in a partner... and who knows, it might work out for her. Maybe she finds someone who is handsome _and_ a good man, in which case all the more power to her. Or maybe I'm completely wrong about her prioritising appearance and it's really some other reason for which she rejected me: it could be that I am inadvertently clinging on to whatever moral support I can get to degrade her personality, which is the last thing I should be doing if I really love her because it could just be WRONG. In any case, we have graduated and she is moving abroad for university. I wish nothing but the best for her, for me, and for everyone else in this world. r = a(1 - sin\theta)
@everythingaboutbcs10605 ай бұрын
@@architchoudhary4782Bkl
@WeheartPEACE_helene Жыл бұрын
Rejection is protection. 🙏 been rejected by crushes, jobs, scholarships. But now I can’t ask for better things with a loving partner, a flexible job and about to do my master’s with a full scholarship. Rejections really serve as a sign that some things or people aren’t meant for me and save me headaches. I’ll embrace more rejections in the rest of my life 😊
@dhamotharan1734 Жыл бұрын
Well said !
@evindrews Жыл бұрын
I don't think that is comforting for many. It feels like you can embrace rejection - because you already have what you want. (good partner, good job, etc) but if you didn't still have those things, or lose those things again, the pain returns. Rejection is rejection: usually it's not out of ill will, but it's also not out of protection.
@HaPhan-sw7sz11 ай бұрын
Thank you for your sharing, that’s so deep❤❤❤
@Cookedgurl5 ай бұрын
I'm so happy for you. I know it hurts 💔
@nawjoghschool27147 ай бұрын
Love you mom, for always being there at the toughest and the most painful of times, to help me heal.
@MaeveWinters2 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@cerarobert1989 Жыл бұрын
I always get discriminated at college. First, I cried a lot. After that, I started caring less. It was so horrible that I isolated myself too much. Last week, when other class girl said my drawings are really good. It was the genuine compliment I got after a long time. I started crying. There are still good people out there, who would always enjoy your company. 🥰😊
@hansrajjat7171 Жыл бұрын
Good story 😂
@IRosamelia Жыл бұрын
Wow, you're very sensitive. Take good care of yourself! You don't need other people's approval, remember all the good stuff you have in your life.
@yabxx2317 Жыл бұрын
Bro there isn't trust me or am unlucky asf
@berdwatcher5125 Жыл бұрын
@@yabxx2317 good old pessimism
@IRosamelia Жыл бұрын
@@yabxx2317 Yab, there isn't what, good people out there? Or people who enjoy your company? It's not the same thing 🤔
@alyshasmith4257 Жыл бұрын
Confident people can just brush rejection off but when you’re not confident you can’t... when you try so hard and want something so much to then get rejected is devastating, soul destroying. Constant rejection erodes any self esteem, everything . At its worst makes you want to just give up and make you suicidal 😢
@esperanza7948 Жыл бұрын
Me right now 💔💔 I can’t breath it’s so painful
@remochii11 ай бұрын
Me too 💔💔
@snaald855211 ай бұрын
Yeah.......tell me about it...😢
@aubriellemorgan4 ай бұрын
I don’t care how confident you are, rejection hurts when someone you care about or claims to care about you rejects you.
@sarafatani90843 ай бұрын
@@esperanza7948its been months how are you feeling now? Does it get better Going through it rn
@katakanta1941 Жыл бұрын
I've been rejected many times. Yet it's so human that I don't feel sad anymore
@djawhrkads57636 ай бұрын
But how did you reach that
@ChurlzVA5 ай бұрын
@djawhrkads5763 By literally being desensitized to rejection.
@nicebro85632 ай бұрын
@@djawhrkads5763 Something happens so often that you have grown numb to it
@L0velyEla11 ай бұрын
It’s okay, your life does not depend on that person. If they reject you, it doesn’t mean that you have to go to your room, lock the doors, and cry for 2 hours into a pillow. You’re worth as much as that person. You are special and I’m sure you will find someone better in the future instead. You meet new people in your lifetime, you won’t always be stuck with those people or that person that rejected you. You should think about yourself first and then others, but don’t be too selfish. If you don’t think about your well-being and your mental health, you’re gonna be miserable and sad. Remember that there is over 1 million people that got rejected.
@afraislam91473 ай бұрын
You’re worth as much as that person
@liannecarbone6856 Жыл бұрын
It is so painful. As I get older and am single, it gets harder because indeed it is a survival instinct. I feel it! Glad someone is talking about it
@HugeTTFan Жыл бұрын
Falling in love is like giving that person a loaded gun and trusting them not to pull the trigger
@jimenatroncoso912412 күн бұрын
I would say " to show yourself vulnerable " instead fall in love
@Simouno Жыл бұрын
Being rejected is a blessing in disguise, because once somebody makes it clear it doesn't want you, then you can move on and search for people out there who are craving to have you bust just didn't have the chance to tell you because you were wasting your time chasing an illusion. Move on from rejection and move towards what you deserve
@jordanpatton3622Ай бұрын
Good advice, I think their are some people reaching out to me but due to some social anxiety it has been hard for me to connect. I’ll try to change to that. 😅
@yohohohoheyy Жыл бұрын
4:04 "The pain you're feeling is just part of your system, nudging you to think about your Interpersonal relationship" Gotta note this!
@sammyy1105 Жыл бұрын
when someone who has a high influence in your life rejects you, it really hurts. compared to a stranger with no to little interaction, it doesnt even sting and is viewed like a joke.
@achaides Жыл бұрын
I really love the realization that there is a difference between actual rejection, and you simply not getting the response you hoped for that may have been unreasonable to begin with
@theultimatereductionist75922 ай бұрын
"that may have been unreasonable" Uh... that is STILL rejection. Whether it is unreasonable by any imaginary objective standard would still not make it not rejection.
@hipnhappenin7 ай бұрын
I've been flooded with breakup videos this week (because...algorithm) and this is the only one by far that I find being able to help me cope. Some key points I found helpful: -Just because someone couldn't show up in the way you wanted them to in the relationship doesn't mean they didn't care about it. -When we have low self-value it's easy to misconstrue neutral reactions as negative ones. -It's helpful to self-reflect and determine whether you were expecting more acceptance than was reasonable from your partner. -Your partner wants something different from the relationship, and sometimes what they want might be unreasonable or unfair.
@sitisyuhadaabdulhalim8508 Жыл бұрын
The first rejection hurts the most, I bawl and begged the other party. And then I learnt about it. So let's embrace it guys!
@user-tv4lo9ch5v Жыл бұрын
Needed this. There's someone I'm interested in but the fear of getting rejected is holding me back from even trying my luck
@genie9845 Жыл бұрын
Go ahead, nobody really knows what they're doing so there's always a chance
@zainab_hashmiii5 ай бұрын
any updates..?
@Blue2x2x Жыл бұрын
I just recently started going into the dating/hookup market. I had cases that I get a message to meet, I get excited and ready. And then they block me shortly before the meetup. It stings hard, but it's temporary. What helps is reminding yourself that it's their loss, not yours. To accept that getting rejected is part of life, and move on. Also have a support network does help a lot, even if it's only 1 or 2 people. Though if you don't have such network to help you out. I would start getting one before jumping in dating.
@DicerX Жыл бұрын
Finally, so many young male and female teens are straight-up going incel due to the unrealistic portrayal of love and ways of expressing it as seen on TV shows, movies and celebrity life. People, young and old, need to understand that love and acceptance are not something to unlock or achieve. It can be one-sided, or it can be mutual and spontaneous. In a world where we rationalise everything, this irrational connection confuses some, and the pain can change a person for the worst. Early education in this matter is key rather than avoiding this time bomb.
@atlas2296 Жыл бұрын
For me, rejection or abandonment always makes me consider if there is something wrong with me. I often have times where I think "Am I rude? Am I argumentative? Am I annoying?" and I can never find anything I didn't already know. I think some people, especially in high school wherw I am at, are just too invested in "popularity" or being cool to make new friends with people that aren't popular
@kiarona. Жыл бұрын
Definitely relate to the sentiments this video. Sometimes people reject you for reasons you can't understand. Those are harder to work through, because you genuinely can't figure out what went wrong so it's more difficult to reflect on what happened
@GothCookie Жыл бұрын
This is a lesson many men need to learn these days. Rejection doesn't mean you're bad or worthless or unwanted.
@keyshawnscott12 Жыл бұрын
It does
@crazyfox9oh Жыл бұрын
It's a lesson for women too
@GothCookie Жыл бұрын
@@crazyfox9oh it's a lesson for everyone.
@esperanza7948 Жыл бұрын
Women too 💔
@Marlin001311 ай бұрын
It does nobody cares about me why would anyone want me I am ugly
@ktothej19 ай бұрын
I just got rejected but it’s all in the name of the game. Don’t let it get you down, lads.
@memento5113 Жыл бұрын
Its better to face it and accept the truth. We cant hide our feelings nor supress them. I got rejected today but thats life. I been working on myself latly and that doesnt change. Stay strong my friends and let the light shine upon your loving heart ❤️
@mmrzw Жыл бұрын
It's a good feeling when you realize these thoughts that you had was natural and the thoughts you had afterwards that rejection was actually healthy not denial. It was a good subject. I got kinda mocked by a stranger in my first days in a new city and a new environment few days ago. I was worried that I even cared about it. I feel more reliefed now thanks to you.
@jrtumale3662 Жыл бұрын
Yes just what I needed before valentine's day.
@Gg-ij7li Жыл бұрын
Jesus loves you! Believe in His death and resurrection and repent of your sins and be saved! Remember that He died and rose up again for you to be in heaven with Him! Have an amazing day ❤️❤❤❤
@kimjongun6746 Жыл бұрын
@@Gg-ij7li So far I haven't committed any "sins", so could you explain me for what exactly should I repent for.....
@eee_eee Жыл бұрын
@@kimjongun6746 - Kim jong eun
@123shortvideos9 Жыл бұрын
Being rejected by my female best friend was the worst rejection ever. It hurts more than bleeding from a cut 😢
@Nestera-ys2nk4 ай бұрын
How did you deal with it
@finnishlankans2 ай бұрын
Ngl I just got rejected it hurts AF 😞 I don't know wut to do she was my best friend
@123shortvideos92 ай бұрын
@@Nestera-ys2nk sorry for the late response. To be real time will make things better, just don't be too close to her. I'm still friends with her but not like before
@123shortvideos92 ай бұрын
@@finnishlankans just accept the reality my friend, there are more girls outside, stay away for a while from your friend and time will help you with the pain.
@sentiny Жыл бұрын
A new day and a new video that doesn't say anything new about rejection. I think this topic requires a much more honest and heartfelt approach. To understand it, there is a need of confessions and confrontations. No one (including me) understands it until they experience one.
@lozannevanniekerk5489 Жыл бұрын
I never had anyone tell me that they are proud of me or wants to support me or being kind to me reaching out trying to help me I have no one like that . That is what I actually need yet I have to keep supporting myself and God supports me as well
@sanswiches2 ай бұрын
Saving this for when I ask my crush out, wish me luck…
@betcotime3276 Жыл бұрын
we love ourselves more than anyone but for some reason we value their opinion more than ours
@EricHanefiАй бұрын
Best advice I ever got: relax into the pain, allow it without trying to change it
@anisa2273 Жыл бұрын
rejection is even worse for those of us who are ADHDers as we deal with rejection sensitivity dysphoria...
@jordanpatton3622Ай бұрын
I have ADHD too, I’m rejection sensitive as well 😅
@q-oo6zh17 күн бұрын
Wdym rejection sensitivity
@guillermocubillas4168 Жыл бұрын
Lately I had been struggling with looking for a job (a lot) even if this is not very descent. This video made me break in tears as I thought that nobody really would believe me how not getting the job you wanted over and over started to feel something just as close as being rejected and at some point I was falling in deep depression and with paranoia believing that there’s seriously something wrong with me and I don’t know what is it… It’s not that I’m happy or relieved that I’m not the only dealing with this, I wish nobody would deal with it actually. Somehow it does makes me feel not as bad as I was just moments ago, and also that I’m not the only one and if people did not give up then I will not
@centralrnrockets3500 Жыл бұрын
I like how it's TED-ED essentially giving you social advice.
@joelkirkpatrick5688 Жыл бұрын
To the person out there that may feel like you are being rejected, you're not being rejected. It's just that he/she cares for you immensely especially if they care to walk/talk to you and considered going out with/having plans with you. That person is just as afraid as you are and might not be telling you everything about themselves in fear that you might reject them due to their circumstances or other aspects of themselves. I was in this situation a little while back and I didn't say much because I was afraid she would push me away and I didn't want her to know that I still living with my parents, which is embarrassing to say. I really did care about her and wanted to go out, as I did ask, and she said yes. It's just that I couldn't say anything else or make things move forward more due to her finding out that I was still with my parents. It hit me like a bullet when I felt pushed away, but I knew this might happen. I just wanted to stay with her for as long as I could cause it made me incredibly happy to be near her. I'm still dealing with the pain and sting that the feeling of not being near her and feeling like she thinks I didn't care at all, today. I just want her to know that I cared more than I could say, and she meant so much to me. I haven't talked to her for 7 months or so and she said she was getting a new job, so it might be too late to see her again. Now I have to deal with all this pain and sting because I still feel attached to her and care for her.
@SearchOfSelf Жыл бұрын
It's hard to admit it but being refused isn't the end of the world. Even if it passes through cutting the ties, it's alright if that brings you the best option. Respect and benefit should be basis of any relationship and if it's not possible then there's no harm to move on.
@SheilaTheGrate Жыл бұрын
This should be mandatory viewing. So much hurt could be preventable once someone has coping methods and the realization that they are not entitled to other peoples time and energy.
@on.fam54 ай бұрын
I got rejected. After 2 years of knowing her. It definitely hurts… There’s nothing more than I want to do then cry my heart out, but even more than that I just want her to be happy, even if it couldn’t be me. Why am i typing this out on the internet? maybe i just wish to be heard honestly.
@kelseymathias38814 ай бұрын
I hear you!
@razakebwoy18483 ай бұрын
I hear you
@JamesMay-h5xАй бұрын
Today she destroyed me. For weeks we spoke we everyday. She was so intelligent, caring and curious. It was such a delight. We spoke to each other when times were tough. I thought she was the one, but eventually she started dating again. And threw me completely out of the picture. Its like all that bonding was for nothing and i wasn't important anymore. Not only did i lose the love of my life, i lost a great friend😢
@theresabalick8963 Жыл бұрын
Literally needed this this week thank you
@TheDJboi2011 Жыл бұрын
I just got rejected from a job. Made me go to this video, to cope.
@mdaaaa1211 Жыл бұрын
People have different sensitivity leaves to rejection due to childhood trauma. Second, you can tell someone who has been rejected their whole life to deal with it.
@evindrews Жыл бұрын
I think this is a good video on an endless topic that can have various implications. It shows just how earth shattering it probably is to have those close to you reject you, and why it's a good idea to not lean 100% on any one person, in the case you're rejected. (family, friend, or otherwise) It also shows just how destabilizing it is for people who poor family dynamics, causing attachment issues.
@geri472 Жыл бұрын
I like this! "There's nothing wrong with you"
@gabiwainaina3964 ай бұрын
Rejection from one of your parent's, worst pain ever. They absolutely want nothing to do with you😭
@cajaschmidt Жыл бұрын
this video is so good! im overwhelmed by these animations and how good they bring the message.
@freespiritpearl894 ай бұрын
The thumb nail makes me want to cry.
@justapersonscrollingby753 Жыл бұрын
do remember that when rejecting someone, not only you feel pain, but it can be quite hard for the other party to reject you too
@hoangharley4940 Жыл бұрын
I can deal with the rejection, but the pain... The pain is what I'm still struggling to deal with.
@esperanza7948 Жыл бұрын
Me right now 💔 the pain OMG i can’t I’m depressed now
@ckong25Ай бұрын
When someone rejects you romantically, say, “Thank you for giving me the opportunity to find someone better than you.” Put yourself first.
@kirbymarchbarcena Жыл бұрын
It is important that kids learn to deal with loss, defeats, and rejections. What the elders show, the kids will know.
@Dr-zd9eu Жыл бұрын
I love this channel. You guys really care about your viewers and it shows 💚
@robert17282 Жыл бұрын
This actually helped a lot and made me realize if I do the rejecting I can't be hurt
@devanshkaushik8555 Жыл бұрын
the line 3:20 is so true..we sometimes misinterpret the neutral reactions of others as rejection..and this really gave the way to me..that what possibly i have to ask myself the very next time..thank u, u r my one of fav channel..
@esperanza7948 Жыл бұрын
I don’t get it could you please explain?
@strange_and_magnificent Жыл бұрын
I've been rejected so many times that I no longer feel the pain of it.
@TamalPlays Жыл бұрын
what is pain?
@Luffy_wastaken Жыл бұрын
@Golas Pain isn't real
@Spy_boys Жыл бұрын
Hahahaha! You deserved it for being a mistake that no one will ever love.🤣😭😴👎👎😂
@santoshsam333 Жыл бұрын
whenever someones mean to me I imagine these ted ed narrations consoling me.
@Christ-Is-My-Life4 ай бұрын
Just got officially rejected by my crush. He’s talking to a new girl now and I will probably be crying in bed tonight, I’ve liked him for almost and year and a half
@thorpe11784 ай бұрын
So you've like for him for over a year? Ouch! That's gonna hurt real bad, be prepared, it's gonna be very painful I'm very familiar with that
@Christ-Is-My-Life4 ай бұрын
@@thorpe1178 yeah, after being rejected I don’t even know if I’m still totally in love with him still because I haven’t seen him in person after he texted me that, so idk
@skybluskyblueify Жыл бұрын
Parents or caregivers need to teach how to handle it early in a child's life. Sadly some parents reject their own child and attempt to hurt them one way or another while also not teaching them to handle it. In some societies certain populations need this skill more than others but everyone could do to learn this for the good of society in general.
@karengomez3143 Жыл бұрын
I was exactly needing this ❤ I don’t have a good relationship with my father and that prevents me from having a relationship with any of my relatives, each time I kinda accept to join the expect from me to say that I’m wrong and if not then they try to hit my self esteem, I guess I should try to build a stronger relationship with the ones already accept me, TY TED-Ed ❤
@MuhammadAli-bn9nu Жыл бұрын
That's why I'm always prefer loneliness to thinking about rejection anymore, contacting with people is just causing an endless problems along the lines maybe there is a natural needing to live in society but keeping a little contact with a lot of caution and with clear distance between you and them is helping, finally loneliness is not cool but it's way better than dealing with people
@jacobdriscoll8276 Жыл бұрын
Finding people who accept you is much easier said than done.
@iodinev Жыл бұрын
Right? This video definitely assumes that we all have healthy vibrant relationships to fall back on
@lolacat4122 Жыл бұрын
these videos save my day
@Carol___76e3Ай бұрын
The entertaining world of important refund info
@fmor2779 Жыл бұрын
Rejection is just part of life, knowing how to deal with it is a mark of maturity. Pain is a teacher, make sure to learn from it and make a positive outcome in your life.
@vicgonzales9409 Жыл бұрын
Just dont expect anything to anyone
@theironsmith15 ай бұрын
Been at a point when a lot of people habe rejected me. Relationships, Jobs, Relatives, Close Friends, Dating, you name it
@gymrachelАй бұрын
I don't understand how someone can go from being sweet & loving to going cold & distant. Feeling broken.
@robertdamron2718 Жыл бұрын
Rejections are (in my opinion/experience) OPPORTUNITIES to LEARN what/how I’ve, individually, said/acted towards a person or group that resulted in the rejection, a United States Marine once told me, “PAIN IS WEAKNESS LEAVING THE BODY,” my adaptation of this statement is that further analysis can result in EMOTIONAL PAIN OF REJECTION BEING AN EXERCISE FOR THE EMOTIONAL BODY, aka your mind. More, another quote I was told by a friend stated, “Rejection will make you stronger, there are plenty of fish in the sea,” he said this in context that I was rejected by many women over and over for KNOWN reasons that I came to on much reflection, “I need to be more selfish with MY TIME, if a person will not give you the time of day to even have a conversation over a cup of coffee from Starbucks, Dunkin Donuts, etc, then just STOP wasting your precious time/life on this person and move on- someone WILL appreciate you.
@parodoxicalconfucius7039 ай бұрын
Thanks for this comment
@makeuphacks736829 күн бұрын
The comment section>>>>>>>>>> Video itself. Daammnnn!!!
@amantodescienco693 Жыл бұрын
This is actually a good video to talk about. Well, in my personal experience, I do feel those but I am learning to easily quench them and just claim that this is my world. I can do whatever I want.
@sangwookkim8906 Жыл бұрын
always try best effort to people I think precious to me. don't judge myself by others perspectives.
@aliciac3123 Жыл бұрын
give the poor character a hug :(
@hillerm Жыл бұрын
What happens when you’re rejected by a person who really knows you, who you know as well, and who made the rejection extremely personal?
@liliabagispas1252 Жыл бұрын
I just got rejected
@Yogeshdahal324 Жыл бұрын
Who rejected you ??
@dianebaker518 Жыл бұрын
I just appreciate how you are real with people you are so right. Live it people need to accept themselves. Love it keep letting ppl. Their flaws Noone else does. I love your videos. Keep being real l. Your different and you talk wisdom. Ppl need to hear your wisdom. Keep it real. Alot of people love you.
@RORO-xr7si10 күн бұрын
The person we want may not want us back. Learning to move on instead of repeating unsuccessful attempts is best.
@Mi-be1os Жыл бұрын
Having abusive parents, going to art school and working as a model have all taught me how harsh rejection can be. It's incredibly difficult sometimes but once you stop deriving your self worth from the affirmation of other people it actually becomes a lot easier to deal with. Just know your own worth and keep believing in yourself and you will be able to get over it! :)
@Bentoto97Ай бұрын
If we don't deal with rejection the right way then we will have to deal with regrets and dealing with regrets will be more painful than dealing with rejection.
@aparnamohan56782 ай бұрын
its hard ...but will overcome one day
@mirroredchaos Жыл бұрын
I never thought there would be a day were someone makes a video of my whole life, tnx ted ed.
@princessstewart8196 Жыл бұрын
The animation for this video is so cute :) and a helpful guide to navigating personal relationships
@puneetmishra4726 Жыл бұрын
Why ted-ed animations get consistently better?
@baeyuh10 ай бұрын
know your relationship with the person. Does the rejection matter? Reflect on your self view. They might be rejecting you because of their own view of themselves. Rejection isn't just about you. Their rejection is not proof that there is something wrong with you. Every relationship is unique And you are never alone. Reconnect with those who already accept you.
@nachiket22116 ай бұрын
There is this nightmarish quality with this experience. Like the worst you imagined came to good that too in a lascivious way. Insult added to injury. Feeling of being condescended over. That of cheating and deceit. The intriguing mind that lied all this time under the shell made of sweetness. Like the desecration of your gentle love. The softness inside us been treated with utter derision. Our dignity hurt, to some degree., maybe. The greed to get to have a last audience with her. That mean emotion. The world comes towards me in its horrifying power. The blow to vitality and masculinity. But a lesson learnt. What I am feeling is the worst I ever felt in matters of heart. I only wish it hadn't happened. But it did. And will become stronger after this. This is what most of us humanity feel at least once in their lives. Severe heartbreak. Or do they? Still, the visceral pain of failure in a romantic pursuit is what I feel as a part of one shared humanity. Being eventually getting shown the proof that you, after all, just may not be destinybound to receive that Great Love you thought you were. It'll hurt for a while. But time heals, as it has healed you before.
@Charles__5268Ай бұрын
Understanding the loss of funds and the pathway to recovery.
@henryhell13042 ай бұрын
Never knew i would have to search up this
@midimusicforever Жыл бұрын
To anyone out there, here, have a hug!
@normanryan9145 Жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this. Thank you TedEd
@yuvrajmallick97636 ай бұрын
I m 23. And I have faced rejection all my life. It's now being unbearable.
@craigmerkey8518 Жыл бұрын
Great video, amazing animations. This illustrates the harm of validation seeking!