How to Deal with Self Doubt

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Vusi Thembekwayo

Vusi Thembekwayo

Күн бұрын

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@aarleyswift5338
@aarleyswift5338 9 ай бұрын
2years later and this still slaps hard, who else is here in 2024
@Funny_cats694
@Funny_cats694 6 ай бұрын
Watching it for the first time
@abdulrahmanajibola3177
@abdulrahmanajibola3177 5 ай бұрын
I'm here ☺️
@kingingking1542
@kingingking1542 5 ай бұрын
I'm here and in awe
@best_music_trends
@best_music_trends 4 ай бұрын
I'm here🎉
@rieschelleannjavier-basina7371
@rieschelleannjavier-basina7371 3 ай бұрын
Here
@abamotechnology8794
@abamotechnology8794 2 жыл бұрын
Thumbs up for your open declaration of our Lord Jesus Christ. its a very rare one. God bless you
@NgobiJulius-g8z
@NgobiJulius-g8z 2 ай бұрын
Vusi! This is encouraging... I remember you recently in Uganda🇺🇬 It was marvelous
@opeserah7225
@opeserah7225 2 жыл бұрын
I didn’t know when I started crying... I wish I was born into a family that practiced genuine love and respect.. my people only know how to instill doubt into me and project so much insecurity .. it’s really hard fighting life alone and just learning how to figure life all by myself! I’m a strong lady but I just can’t help breaking down sometimes.. I just wish I had a place I can find genuine peace , I wish I had a home! Sigh..this video really brought back the spark and I’ll be back to my normal self tomorrow morning. Thank you Vusi 🥺! I’m grateful for you 🙏🏾
@UnpackItWithThando
@UnpackItWithThando 2 жыл бұрын
I'm sending love sis💟💟you are not alone, many of us are walking that road with you but It will be well and we will make the homes we desire 😇
@SoftRod
@SoftRod 2 жыл бұрын
God Has a way of bringing into Your life journey the necessities of where He is Taking You.. Find Your tribe of people that encourage challenge and are rooting for You to Win in Life.
@kayondothomas7392
@kayondothomas7392 2 жыл бұрын
You're not alone me too...I came down to three conclusions, Different mindsets Different characters Different work ethics Only solution is to stay focused on pursuing your dreams
@ovilhelha
@ovilhelha 2 жыл бұрын
Sending flowers 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
@opeserah7225
@opeserah7225 2 жыл бұрын
@@UnpackItWithThando thank you so much ❤️
@KefilweKodise
@KefilweKodise 5 ай бұрын
Everybody starts at zero,yoh tears are rolling on my face to think that I've been having a dream for 5 years to start a business but ever since nothing had happened, this is the 6th year,i am not employed,a mother who stays at a house where no one is working,57 years old not yet qualifying for a state grant,only live by R370 srd,but the passion for opening a fatcake business has always been with me and I have self doubt also,so thank you Vusi when i get the capital to start,i will do it will no doubt because Everybody starts at zero,so inspiring,God bless you ❤🙏
@TWATSTAR
@TWATSTAR 19 күн бұрын
Hi Mam it's about 20 years now same dream of opening a Fishery. But for me I have been working for 16 years now I believe I will do it through Christ who is my strength and courage ❤ 💪 start please you will win 🏆 ❤
@dithatomogoiwa9424
@dithatomogoiwa9424 2 жыл бұрын
"High achievers are high achievers because they doubt themselves therefore they prepare more, work harder, commit more time." Eishhhhh Vusi....hits home.
@thequeenmidas
@thequeenmidas 2 жыл бұрын
This is very true. You are plagued with doubt and analysis paralysis tends to be way to work through them. It's a find line.
@priskela1
@priskela1 2 жыл бұрын
Best thing i have heard today...i will take it and use this all the time
@investirenbourse-brvm1328
@investirenbourse-brvm1328 2 жыл бұрын
Yes this is great.
@thabonyawohandymanservices
@thabonyawohandymanservices Жыл бұрын
Thanks
@Luminousdigitalcampus
@Luminousdigitalcampus 5 ай бұрын
I am in for it
@fenwickcyril
@fenwickcyril 5 ай бұрын
Watching this in July 2024...."The qualification you need is the dream you have" That hits hard,
@KamogeloMaponya
@KamogeloMaponya 2 жыл бұрын
Self doubt is the root of a lot of my problems. I am a first year student in a highly competitive degree and school. Being surrounded by the most intelligent people has made me anxious , made me question whether or not I am even capable of achieving this degree. This video came at right time. Thank you for your words of wisdom
@wawerumaina2570
@wawerumaina2570 2 жыл бұрын
You're there as the very best....worst case scenario you're an equal. Give it your 💯.
@nenesibanda4171
@nenesibanda4171 2 жыл бұрын
I am anticipating your graduation. You made it that far cause you too are intelligent 😊🎓
@naumiyomi15
@naumiyomi15 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes we measure our intelligence and capabilities based on how others project themselves around us. Let's bring it to the assessments and assignments, how are you doing...because that's the greatest measure in this regard. I bet you are kicking ass. Best wishes ❤
@makabongwensibande1038
@makabongwensibande1038 2 жыл бұрын
I can relate but the time taken assessing others is the time we could have been using for our benefit... I bet they feel the same (about u). Focus on you, you will make it at the top❤️🔝
@thequeenmidas
@thequeenmidas 2 жыл бұрын
Being surrounded by the most intelligent people means you belong there with them🤞🏿
@olusegunadedeji3713
@olusegunadedeji3713 2 жыл бұрын
The qualification you need is the dream you have. This is powerful! Thank you, Vusi.
@Ladyle4ever
@Ladyle4ever 10 ай бұрын
Amen 🙌
@RealTalkWithNthabi
@RealTalkWithNthabi 2 жыл бұрын
When it comes to pursuing new opportunities everybody starts at 0, make sure you are the most prepared 🙌🏾
@gumanimashavha46
@gumanimashavha46 2 жыл бұрын
Wow very true
@pleasurizebaloyi9991
@pleasurizebaloyi9991 2 жыл бұрын
Powerful
@rismaamalia4939
@rismaamalia4939 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for saying this because i need this kinda word
@marcoribeiroinvestment3449
@marcoribeiroinvestment3449 2 жыл бұрын
Do the company have a expert trader? Because this is one of the reasons that people lost their money in trading
@neliswanoah7663
@neliswanoah7663 2 жыл бұрын
Powerful👌
@modianemapaya4731
@modianemapaya4731 17 сағат бұрын
Watching in December 2024. Thank you Vusi. You have confirmed something I have been questioning about myself. You are God’s gift to the world.
@ZeliaHaruna_
@ZeliaHaruna_ 2 жыл бұрын
I felt it when he said “it’s not because they are succeeding all the time, it’s because they are highlighting” 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@cookingwithnajeebah
@cookingwithnajeebah 2 жыл бұрын
The qualification you need is the dream you have.. Needed to hear this 🙏🏽
@njidekaasuzu9489
@njidekaasuzu9489 2 жыл бұрын
Can't be said any better than you did. Your dream is the only qualification
@NeozeranyConcepts
@NeozeranyConcepts 2 жыл бұрын
True! I'm worthy. I believe in myself
@zininziketeyi261
@zininziketeyi261 7 ай бұрын
😢
@andilemahlalela5991
@andilemahlalela5991 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks bhuti Vusi. You just reminded of the Alchemist -"And,when you want something,all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it". I needed to get this assurance.
@rosa629
@rosa629 2 жыл бұрын
God of heaven, I need you more, than ever ...
@sheilaaakinyi8103
@sheilaaakinyi8103 3 ай бұрын
Keep your eyes on what you're doing not your competitors.... Stay focused on the things you can control , everybody starts at zero,
@lydiaoctober26
@lydiaoctober26 2 жыл бұрын
It's so unreal how I ended up watching this out of nowhere, I woke up from a dream where I was asking God to give me answer as to what to do next. I felt this message deep within my soul, I understood the message, thank you Lord and thank you Vusi for being a vessel and making sure that I received this encouragement ❤
@flowwithmildred
@flowwithmildred 2 жыл бұрын
It just showed up in my feed. It so happens I had just finished praying and resigned myself to just focus on the next step of what I have been avoiding.
@lydiaoctober26
@lydiaoctober26 2 жыл бұрын
@@flowwithmildred wow, God is good 🤍
@vedawattieram1974
@vedawattieram1974 Жыл бұрын
I discovered that l if l lean in to the challenge, l build confidence. I lean in...It's not easy. But I do lean in , time after time. Be strengthened, friend!
@patrioticalliancefanbase
@patrioticalliancefanbase Жыл бұрын
I also prayed to God to ask him for answers - because I felt I was not going anywhere - I felt undervalued and overlooked, despite the efforts I put in and ridden with doubts about my abilities - and here this message just popped up on KZbin. A Truely profound experience!
@amosamedius
@amosamedius 4 ай бұрын
What I've learned from this: 1. Everyone starts at zero, focus on becoming the most prepared. 2. By focusing on what you are doing every time, step by step. 3. Also, it is essential to unlearn your learned insecurities by focusing on what you can control. Thanks, Vusi
@WorldAthletesRecruitsWAR
@WorldAthletesRecruitsWAR 2 жыл бұрын
Vusi you are a blessing to the young entrepreneur in Africa
@the_prince_abdulkadir
@the_prince_abdulkadir Жыл бұрын
thank you i will remember "keep your eye on what you're doing not who you competing with "
@justicehybridmukaro944
@justicehybridmukaro944 2 жыл бұрын
I really loved the closing words, He who put the vision in me will manoeuvre the world to surround me with people who’ll help me get it done ✅
@paulocaldeira9649
@paulocaldeira9649 2 жыл бұрын
Wow Vusi, this is powerful. I am 55 years of age, voted most likely to succeed at school, have 3 degrees and started quite a few businesses - some wins, some blow-outs, and many times just wanted to crawl into a hole and give up! Great to hear your story, and realise that even moguls like yourself have self-doubt sometimes. South African youth need more people like you giving entrepreneurship advice - that is how we are going to make them successful - by showing them our mistakes so that they can perhaps avoid some of our pitfalls !
@lesegontsoele6678
@lesegontsoele6678 2 жыл бұрын
" The qualification you need is the dream you have" wow! This is what I needed to hear. All of it. Is what I needed. God bless you sir.
@LifestaybyDolcee
@LifestaybyDolcee 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much Vusi…Im just seeing this video after 2years and I’m encouraged never to doubt myself. I love you
@gweynnanettemhute4945
@gweynnanettemhute4945 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this. I won't forget this line 'Focus on things that you can do better and not who you are competing with' .... God bless.
@samanthamunangandu6218
@samanthamunangandu6218 6 ай бұрын
Thank you Vusi. I just bumped into this video and just teared down. I remember how I just feel so out of the room. Before I can present, the first thing that come to my mind is how I should have just been home coz what an embarrassment the world will view after this. I can only hear voices of people sighing in disbelief. I have heard very few people giving such words of encouragement. From childhood being told you can not go anywhere
@ValueForYourMoney
@ValueForYourMoney 2 жыл бұрын
I am good enough, I am competent, I am worthy and I am NEVER EVER doubting myself again!
@TinaChristinaTD
@TinaChristinaTD Жыл бұрын
Amen
@glitterrose1810
@glitterrose1810 2 жыл бұрын
This man personifies black South African excellence. I am glad I can come here to find excellence when my current immediate environment doesn’t provide me that.
@karabomotaung3010
@karabomotaung3010 2 жыл бұрын
Evertime I watch your content. I leave with a renewed perspective. Thank you Groetman.
@prosperplay6321
@prosperplay6321 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Sir VT this is so inspiring. This reminds me of when I was trying to get my ACCA as a Nigerian at a point I felt I wasn't good enough but Jesus and my family kept encouraging until I qualified 2 years ago as a chartered Accountant ACCA.
@muchakazulu9258
@muchakazulu9258 2 жыл бұрын
I remember listening to this on my way home from night duty a few hours after it was posted. Today I came back here because this week I have an all important meeting which I know is going to positively change the trajectory of my career. I came back here because I have been doubting myself. I have been thinking, I don't deserve to sit in that room. However I will remind myself that on that day, everyone starts at zero, I just have to make sure that I am the most prepared person in the room. Thank you Vusi for sharing
@amandamagawu5194
@amandamagawu5194 Жыл бұрын
Thanks bra Vusi! Your words means a lot of sense to me . I resigned from work because of the passion I have for business. Last month I opened a cooking business and it's not doing well , I even thought maybe I don't belong there coz everyone who sell next to me theirs are doing well. But something said to me don't give in keep pushing. Now that I here your words I believe that one day I will be proud of myself.
@evansmokebe2280
@evansmokebe2280 2 жыл бұрын
For the fact that I have discovered you after I started dreaming again, it is complete proof of what you have just said and thank you VT for being that virtual mentor I need!!!
@skinnutrientsbyenny7190
@skinnutrientsbyenny7190 Ай бұрын
Am watching this in November 2024 this is the video that answered all my questions thanks
@sheylahsilungwe6904
@sheylahsilungwe6904 Ай бұрын
Me too
@sanelemeyiwa
@sanelemeyiwa 2 жыл бұрын
Lord knows that I needed this. Thank you Vusi.
@modestychinyeaka3650
@modestychinyeaka3650 Жыл бұрын
Self doubt is one of the biggest challenges I face anytime I want to take action or trying to do something new. Thank you so much for this Vusi.
@muzic4lyfe2005
@muzic4lyfe2005 6 ай бұрын
Me too ... I'm sick of it
@illlaw5523
@illlaw5523 2 жыл бұрын
6 minutes in i can picture everything hes talking about. What an amazing storyteller.
@noelstruben1426
@noelstruben1426 8 ай бұрын
" the qualification you need, is the dream you have" 💯
@DevineCyrus5
@DevineCyrus5 2 жыл бұрын
And the min he confessed that Jesus is his lord and savior 💓🥰🥰I just fell more in love with everything about you sir... thank you for allowing God to use you to change lives... All the love from 🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼
@asnetojoel6778
@asnetojoel6778 2 жыл бұрын
Jesus is lord
@nicogoliath4902
@nicogoliath4902 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this comment.
@dlepuno
@dlepuno 2 жыл бұрын
I find it very disturbing that such an intelligent guy could believe in Jesus Christ, the myth. The man who has never existed but created by the Roman's to manipulate, control and to enslave the stupid. Jesus Christ is just the disillusionment, in other words believing in Jesus the Asshole is utter nonsense. He should stick to entrepreneurship without indoctrinating or coercing us into believing in his religious beliefs. I mean you don't need the so called God or Jesus to succeed.
@matakamotanyane3257
@matakamotanyane3257 2 жыл бұрын
Indeed dear, that brilliance can only come from Jesus Christ. I have fallen in love with him. It's my 1st time to listen to Him him and I believe my God leaded me to this speech, I needed to hear everything he said. As a woman who has just started pastoring, I have always thought am not good enough to do it, now I know that I must shift my focus, and put more effort on developing my skills. Thank you Vusi, to God be the glory.
@dlepuno
@dlepuno 2 жыл бұрын
@@matakamotanyane3257 What an illogical reasoning! Jesus Christ plays no role in somebody's success, in fact many successful people and including some countries are atheists. Take for instance the founders of the computer that you're are all atheists and they're all extremely successful. Many well known engineers, medical doctors and scientists are atheists. The so called God and his/her/its son of a bitch Jesus Christ have done nothing for us Africans and as long as we still believe in this nonsense we'll never go anywhere. Religion as whole is a stumbling factor for a black child period.
@maureenkimani1519
@maureenkimani1519 2 жыл бұрын
At the verge of giving my dreams up and then this pops up..."most high achievers work hard because they feel they're not worth it" bless you Vusi
@alexolabode7557
@alexolabode7557 2 жыл бұрын
stay strong sis!!!
@mncedisilindokuhlesibiya5928
@mncedisilindokuhlesibiya5928 2 жыл бұрын
Love and light ❤️
@erasmustettey2479
@erasmustettey2479 2 жыл бұрын
Growing up, I always felt like the least in the room even though I believed I was the most prepared. I got scared almost every time and told myself I’m not worthy. And here is the irony: I always won every competition I engaged myself in and in the next, I still doubted myself. Your video brought a huge smile on my face. Many thanks and God bless you 🙏🏻🙇🏻.
@mncedisilindokuhlesibiya5928
@mncedisilindokuhlesibiya5928 2 жыл бұрын
I’m actually shaken by this. I grew up being told I was not good enough and a lot of insecurities emanated from all those experiences. I’m currently trying to redefine myself. Not there yet but I’ll definitely reach my best level! Thank you Vusi
@kenyamckenzie7108
@kenyamckenzie7108 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Vusi, your words in this video appeared to me like an angel. "...the company u work at has got a job posting, u think u can do the job...think you're not good enough..." the very same day I listened to this was the day I applied for the position at my job. This helped me. Tks Vusi!!
@wondermagoso5619
@wondermagoso5619 7 күн бұрын
Needed this, thanks VT. December 2024.
@shafondjodilukaslukas3868
@shafondjodilukaslukas3868 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you sir. Since I discovered you my life has changed tremendously. I'm a born again Christian now and I have attempted starting a couple of businesses that have failed, but just because my past has been following me refusing to let go. But I'm winning though, small victories maybe but victory's still. Thank you and God bless you chief!!
@mncedisilindokuhlesibiya5928
@mncedisilindokuhlesibiya5928 2 жыл бұрын
Keep going chief!
@shelialstrickland
@shelialstrickland 5 ай бұрын
He [God - Yahweh] will manuever........................yesss............powerful!!! Thanks Mr. Vusi Thembekwayo!
@nosimathebula
@nosimathebula 2 жыл бұрын
You know what? This came at the right time. Tomorrow I will be at that spot i had decided on with my mobile kitchen. I am done being negative.
@d.o9115
@d.o9115 Жыл бұрын
I have had this clip on my watch later for over year, however watching today it couldnt have come at a better time, thank you . I wanted to take a moment to express my deepest connection and gratitude for the clip on "How to Deal with Self-Doubt." Your words struck a chord with me in a way that I can't quite put into words, and watching this video couldn't have come at a more perfect time in my life. The way you addressed feelings of overwhelm and imposter syndrome by emphasizing the importance of focusing on one's own journey rather than comparing oneself to others truly resonated with me. Your reminder that "Everyone Starts at Zero" is a powerful message that I needed to hear. It's easy to get caught up in self-doubt when pursuing new opportunities, but your advice to stay prepared and keep moving forward hit home.
@mihlalihoofman8970
@mihlalihoofman8970 2 жыл бұрын
I asked God for a confirmation to join moot court, and this video popped up on my screen🥺 this is it! I’ll take one step up the stairway
@Violet-Plum-fr5yl
@Violet-Plum-fr5yl 5 күн бұрын
I found you pretty late....early this year but sir I love you, I hear you. I thank you for the lessons, the teachings and above all you are the cheerleader a lot of people are lacking in their lives. thank you so much.
@kayboyo
@kayboyo 2 жыл бұрын
Oh Vusi. I follow you like a leech and listened to every word you said here. This is for me as I stay back home jobless and doubting myself after working for over a decade. Thank you for adding the faith part as well. I trust that I am being prepared for my NEXT!
@shellyannrichards6565
@shellyannrichards6565 2 жыл бұрын
It's His pauses for me. I realized I was literally hanging onto his words and waiting for him to spill more. 🤦‍♀️ Thanks Vusi.
@Tom-q8b
@Tom-q8b 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the invaluable work that you do for each and every African wo has a dream to be best that they can be. You embody the kind of teacher & leader the entire world needs.
@aduramigbamc
@aduramigbamc Жыл бұрын
This came in at the right time. My highlight is that you should FOCUS on what is in your control.
@karojames8202
@karojames8202 2 жыл бұрын
As a Nigerian I'm 100% inspired by your teaching Sir...... We never give up, we never back down....we keep moving till we get it right.... May God help us all as well all strive to help ourselves positively
@pepianacoco
@pepianacoco Жыл бұрын
💯
@insightsfarmers
@insightsfarmers Жыл бұрын
That's us
@TheAngelofLaw
@TheAngelofLaw Жыл бұрын
I admire Vusi's sense of humor. Highly impressive!!. You get glued to the screen and find it difficult to pull out.
@hardusschoeman6260
@hardusschoeman6260 2 жыл бұрын
What a legend you are man. Thanks for this message. Love that you give God the glory. So Much blessing in that.
@Limcyy_0fficial
@Limcyy_0fficial Жыл бұрын
Self doubt is unarguably the Hallmark of my life,it precedes everything i do in life
@chisenga7945
@chisenga7945 2 жыл бұрын
One can actually get the heavenly principles in what you say... It's ok to doubt as long as you keep moving towards the goal and feeding into the vision... Great energy Vusi... Not sure if you Christian but when Paul says you are partakers of my grace"- it literally applies to You, people can partake of your energy and be motivated to keep going, piush, break boundaries of doubt. From what you say- one can tell, you have had your share of failure and owned them and dominated.. Best wishes to you Vusi..
@choiceoliver8668
@choiceoliver8668 2 жыл бұрын
Everybody starts at 0.. the only qualification I need is my dream This is my first time of listening to you, and it's so worth it
@nickcheruiyot9353
@nickcheruiyot9353 2 жыл бұрын
Powerful sharing Vusi,am learning that when it comes with new opportunity everyone starts from zero my assignment should be I should be the most prepared
@elsiengwana1216
@elsiengwana1216 2 ай бұрын
2 years later, October 22. I was looking for an affirmation to keep me going since I'm busy with my exams. This got me crying. Thank you so much, Vusi, for this motivation. Growing up, I starved for success, but I was always told I'm stupid, and I believed it. Today, it's me fighting with my insecurities because I know I have potential, I am smart, and I have what it takes to be successful. One day, I will look back and be proud of myself for not giving up.🙏✍
@abongileprudencemagandela9682
@abongileprudencemagandela9682 2 жыл бұрын
I follow you alot, I like your mind and personality. Truth is I wouldnt even want fund from you but mentorship, just learning from you. I wanna be a business woman working on a few things but I still pray for your mind.
@nothandondlovuraw7388
@nothandondlovuraw7388 2 жыл бұрын
I'm with you here, the mindset is amazing
@lelobuys769
@lelobuys769 2 жыл бұрын
I'm with you on this one sis❤
@shaymo2020
@shaymo2020 2 жыл бұрын
Me too 🙈
@yellowhousetv7773
@yellowhousetv7773 2 жыл бұрын
Vusi talks to your soul bro, like Wtf? Its Crazy. The charisma, the charm, the intellect to discernment, the didactic delivery of knowledge and wisdom. The decorum. If there's a South African that I feel is well put together, its this man right here. The one thing that really surprised me was his humility, the fact that he include faith in this inspirational rhetoric is genius, if anything. While other countries might have the likes of JBPeterson and others the infamous yet equally inspirational Andrew tate, South Africa has its very own Vusi Thembakwayo. We my friends are lead.
@extrovert5829
@extrovert5829 2 жыл бұрын
Well I don't know why I bumped on this 3 am. I grew up feeling like am not good enough something that has affected alot. Interesting when I'm pushed to do something I end up doing it better than I thought. Lesson to self: everyone starts from zero Focus on what you can fix and good at . I won't doubt myself again I will train my mind to focus on what I'm good at.
@dennisnganga2883
@dennisnganga2883 2 жыл бұрын
Keep your eyes on what your doing not who you are competing with,,,,hit me differently 🎯
@SoftRod
@SoftRod 2 жыл бұрын
I've have been in a Rut In my Job application Process and I have been struggling with a feeling of imposter syndrome and I have been ignoring and disqualifying myself from applying to Certain opportunities that I know deep down I am more than competent enough to take Up. This Mesage is timely from God through You; It has liberated my thoughts rather than suppress and ignore. When You Have a Good enough why You can face any How.
@angellaalakit
@angellaalakit 2 жыл бұрын
You have described me in a way I only know how to in my heart. This has been eating me up for a while now.
@keillanhadden798
@keillanhadden798 2 жыл бұрын
You will get a good job! You are good enough. Be confident ❤
@SoftRod
@SoftRod 2 жыл бұрын
@@keillanhadden798 Thank You For the Vote of confidence ❤️
@keillanhadden798
@keillanhadden798 2 жыл бұрын
@@SoftRod no prob.. have u found anything as yet?
@profdapoet
@profdapoet 6 күн бұрын
That's powerful broer - I don't know why I only saw this two years later because I have been following you for the longest of time. My mentor, the late Prof Tom Parker who was also my lecturer in Southampton taught me about everyday voice training even when you don't have any talking assignments. I still practice it right down to this day - every morning, religiously. Thank you for being such a great motivation. Will meet you someday - hopefully (in small letters).
@folayanayodeji9921
@folayanayodeji9921 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you VUSI, I'm fired up again, going to give my next attempt all my best effort. I'm going into my next business attempt more prepared than ever before
@jeroonlarkokwao9615
@jeroonlarkokwao9615 Жыл бұрын
First time here and I'm in love with this.Thanksss
@SizweMGwala
@SizweMGwala 7 ай бұрын
2 years later but this still makes so much sense to me, thank you Mr Thembekwayo
@setshegoledwaba8232
@setshegoledwaba8232 6 ай бұрын
I needed to hear this today - so much. I’ve taken a two week leave to reconnect with myself, rework my plans, pray and meditate. I know a lot of people take leave to travel, spend time with family and friends or whatever else people do. My two weeks will be spent pumping positive talks, motivation, prayer and pushing my small business forward. I have all the ingredients in me to succeed, I CAN and I WILL SUCCEED. Thank you Vusi for the encouragement and motivation. God bless you.
@BrandonPMotsilanyane
@BrandonPMotsilanyane 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this from Botswana its been a tough time for me as a young person since graduation varsity last year been trying to apply for jobs with no luck a guy who is looked down in an interview cos i had no viable experience against the people i applied with i have also tried my hand in starting my business but i met problems after problems and I'm still looking for one thing today just to start small even though i was told just give up by my family by strangers who when i asked permission to rent out space from them shut door in my face but I gotta keep going cos I can't quit.
@tochithevoice
@tochithevoice 2 ай бұрын
Watching this in Oct. 2024. A fantastic story to uplift my heart! Thanks Vusi!
@blessedwoman5219
@blessedwoman5219 2 жыл бұрын
This popped into my life just when i needed it.I needed to hear that.So much self doubt in my life it's almost crippling.Thank you for sharing.You are a blessing.
@marylinemukonda7383
@marylinemukonda7383 5 ай бұрын
I have been watching your video for a while now. I thank God for making you part of this world so that you can be of service to others and help people to acknowledge who they're in this world. It pains me each and everyday as a graduate for 3 years now looking for a job I'm not getting trying to figure out what to do for a living, but still failing,cos the money I get from small business i do is the money I use to travel again going out when called for interviews. Starting from the scratch it's not a good thing, but I'm so thankful because your words are healing me each and every time.
@muneneantony4452
@muneneantony4452 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Vusi for taking an initiative in inspiring people like me who think so lowly of themselves. I believe you are heaven sent. This talk will stick with me for a long time and I gonna push myself to become the best. '...the only qualifications you need is that dream you have.' From Kenya with alot of love Thank God for providing material to inspire my spirit.
@beatricethuo5878
@beatricethuo5878 2 жыл бұрын
Insecurities are learned.... That got me. That means we can learn new things.
@olorato.mod.
@olorato.mod. 2 жыл бұрын
It's the genuine laughter that comes from deep within his soul and the way he radiates light👌🏿
@nthabi_royaltymasango4915
@nthabi_royaltymasango4915 2 жыл бұрын
This man is so loaded with light and wisdom, one can feel his spirit, I'm so touched.
@smm7718
@smm7718 Жыл бұрын
In tears, this insightful knowledge should not be given for free… if you listened to this guy … he will definitely change your lie 🙏🏿🙏🏿 he is so good!!!
@heidibezuidenhout8708
@heidibezuidenhout8708 Жыл бұрын
Thanku Vusi for your advice. Very often as a child of God, I feel like I don’t fit in, I’m not good enuff & being ‘old school’ my values are not appreciated, fought against & someone somewhere is always using me as their scapegoat to cover up their failures or mistakes and then I am left to clean up the mess & do the right thing. I’m a loner & work better on my own so when working in a department with other ppl, I expect them to do what is right, be honest and put the integrity of the place we work for 1st like I would do..this does not always happen & it frustrates me because when something goes wrong, we ALL get put into the same basket & judged. I often forget that because I am God’s child, HE will fight for me, vindicate me & his glory will be seen in & through me. I have lost my ability to believe in my God given talents that make me stand out for Christ in an environment where ppl are self absorbed & only care abt what they can gain by using others as a stepping stone for their self gain instead of being an instrument/vessel for God to use for His glory & not my own🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
@stephenpeters4679
@stephenpeters4679 2 ай бұрын
This is the thing about value, it sticks irrespective of how long it's been out there. You don't need to be the best in the room, but you should be the most prepared. Thank you Vusi October 2024
@getrudelucyamondi947
@getrudelucyamondi947 2 жыл бұрын
Self doubt has been killing me inside, even communicating with my own family I felt i I don't match them to even speak among, and even my friends, even my colleagues at work, even my clients that I plan to meet, Thanks Vusi, I need to do everything to ensure I am the most prepared and focus on myself.
@beatriceokuedei1886
@beatriceokuedei1886 2 жыл бұрын
I have been following your teachings, and master classes for years now. you have been a great source of not just motivation but positive growth for me. I appreciate your time and philosophy. I appreciate your love for African entepreneaurs.
@vuyolwethumtiki7390
@vuyolwethumtiki7390 Жыл бұрын
This cuts deeper, thank you Vusi!🙏
@praisebotha5123
@praisebotha5123 2 жыл бұрын
This video deserves a million views in the next 2 weeks
@mekonnenhaftom9217
@mekonnenhaftom9217 2 жыл бұрын
I have been in a place with no internet,.....for the past two years. today, I just tried to browse and download some guidelines for my work interview on Monday 09/01/2023. thinking how tough the other candidates are, how tough the competition could be and most importantly, thinking about the candidates' managerial experiences. I watched the video right now, completely sinking in it, I felt like every word hits my brain and my pulse rate increasing.... But I don't still I think if am gona win it!!! but I will try to make sure am the most prepared! thank you very much sir, appreciated!
@noble9944
@noble9944 2 жыл бұрын
VT has a great gift to lead 🙏 get so focused when listening to him
@phyllismbugua4186
@phyllismbugua4186 2 жыл бұрын
So true.
@SharweKok
@SharweKok Жыл бұрын
Hay My Brother. The last 2 weeks I have felt like I am not good enough. I Left school at 15, I struggled my entire life. But I work harder than anyone I know 12-16 ours a day. My dream I sometimes think is way to big for my capability's, But I work towards it every day. Thank you for this message. Actually want to give you a hug brother. Your the man.
@candy4087
@candy4087 2 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this today.....I was feeling so down and funny thing is I didn't even search for this video,it just appeared and Lord am I glad that I opened it❤😊🌻 I will achieve all my dreams😊 Thank you Mr. T
@candy4087
@candy4087 2 жыл бұрын
@Proper Psychology I'll definitely do😊👌
@ziboshobamarobela1995
@ziboshobamarobela1995 Жыл бұрын
keep your eye on what you're doing, not your competition! I felt that! Thank you Vusi, we are grateful for your existence!
@AllThingsLindo
@AllThingsLindo 2 жыл бұрын
Going through a season of self doubt in my career and this video was just what I needed to hear "Everyone starts from zero, just make sure you're the most prepared!"
@marcoribeiroinvestment3449
@marcoribeiroinvestment3449 2 жыл бұрын
Do the company have a expert trader? Because this is one of the reasons that people lost their money in trading
@tsabanimasilela7280
@tsabanimasilela7280 2 жыл бұрын
Good stuff bra Vusi ,this powerful.
@LucyRatau-jc6ro
@LucyRatau-jc6ro Жыл бұрын
Hi Vusi. I am 61 , an estate agent who is so much believe in my goals. The highlight of my listening to powerful guys like you is when you say ' ALL EXCUSES ARE VALID BUT THEY WILL NOT CHANGE YOUR CIRCUMSTANCES ' There is so much power in this , yoooo. Keep keeping on, I love your confidence and your willingness to open people s mental eyes to the realities of life. That you are a black / brown South African who show others to stop excuses and leave their dreams is a Xtra cherry on top. Uyoyitholaphi u hlezi e khoneni. God bless you with more overflowing wisdom so it can flow to other south Africans and the world at large. You are smart Mfana wa se kasi
@jonathancharles1538
@jonathancharles1538 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much Vusi I appreciate this..i have doubted myself alot of times. The encouragement was needed thank u
@kelvinmavawani1583
@kelvinmavawani1583 2 жыл бұрын
Last night, I was concerned, calling out God on why I even have such dreams and why was I exposed to this certain industry? With doubt from my past failures, I was watching a random video on KZbin and thank God, this played next. Oh my goodness, I'm grateful I came across this. And I'm loving the comments section too, so encouraging and reassuring. "Focus on what you can do better, not your competitors/critics."
@designersworld7771
@designersworld7771 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly what I need to hear, let me take a seat first
@lubabaloqumba2523
@lubabaloqumba2523 2 жыл бұрын
mmm. Thank you so much. I started shaking after this speech, my heart just turned cold. This speech spiritually turned me. I have been going through alot as an entrepreneur. So much honesty, truth. This speech Vusi...incredible I thank God for allowing you to pour out your heart like that, this will change many lives and you will continue to earns Gods favor upon your life child of God.
@redartnaynek_
@redartnaynek_ 2 жыл бұрын
Brooo this is legit stuff, I always wanted to participate in Public Speaking but I never got the chance, I will begin persuing it now. Love from Kenya.
@estiennevalentyn9664
@estiennevalentyn9664 Жыл бұрын
Today you are a lifesaver, Vusi! I felt like you were speaking just to me! Thank you Vusi! You rock!
@derricknakile4532
@derricknakile4532 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Vusi. We all start at zero. This is the attitude I’ll take with me for the rest of my days.
@Kaleli.
@Kaleli. 2 жыл бұрын
Am a man who doubts on himself allot. Vusi you are such encouraging, God sent. Thanks.
@banjilubobya284
@banjilubobya284 2 жыл бұрын
I really love the setup of this video. It feels very personal, like he's speaking directly to me. Great message too, I cannot count the number of times that self doubt has crippled my resolve to act. Thank you for this.
@AdobeaMireku
@AdobeaMireku 11 ай бұрын
I needed this at this moment, I’m resigning from the only real job I’ve worked after school I’ve felt stuck but was in my comfort zone, but now I’m venturing into an unknown world. Thank you Vusi
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