How to Deal with Severe Behaviors in ADHD Kids

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@smgrignon 8 ай бұрын

I cried when he said this behavior does not mean you have done something wrong. The shame and guilt are crippling. I cannot tell you how much your videos have helped our family. Thank you so, so much for your channel. I have been watching for about a year and the changes have been very noticeable. You are truly changing lives.

@jasonwilliams8016 6 ай бұрын

You're doing everything you can! You are a great parent. When your kid gets older they will be grateful🙏

@Caratdarla 8 ай бұрын

When we learned to calmly walk away from our sons verbal assaults they decreased in frequency! And now they rarely occur! Game changer!!

@ADHDDude 8 ай бұрын

That's great!

@jdawg414 8 ай бұрын

The fact that you are familiar with this behavior, specifically the knife threats, is so huge to me. I’ve dealt with that and discussed with therapists and they never help with how to react to it. I truly appreciate you!

@ADHDDude 8 ай бұрын

Thank you, I really appreciate it.

@emilybeaulieu999 8 ай бұрын

Dear Ryan, can you please make a video where you talk about parents with challenging children and how the parents can best care for themselves? Specific reccomendations to be able to have the mental bandwidth to be able to handle outbursts and arguing and stay calm while doing it?? Emotional regulation is very hard for me as a parent also all 4 people in our family have ADHD. I am so burned out mentally that I unfortunately give in to my children's behavior a lot of the time. Thank you.

@ADHDResourceSpecialist 8 ай бұрын

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@Caratdarla 8 ай бұрын

I feel your pain. While our son is the only one in the household with ADHD I bear the brunt of his behaviors. My husband has not educated himself on ADHD or ways to parent it. Its a lonely island I am on and frequently find myself on the verge of tears. The emotional toll effects every area of my life.

@ADHDDude 8 ай бұрын

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@martamccurdy1379 Ай бұрын

Me too, I feel like I’m on an island but even after reading, learning so much still struggle to regulate myself. I cry almost every day.

@B.johnson36 6 ай бұрын

Thank you 👏🏾

@Katieandfam 8 ай бұрын

You are a God send

@ADHDDude 8 ай бұрын

That's very sweet of you, thank you

@drbalouzmeryem7313 4 ай бұрын

God bless you I love your video good work

@ADHDDude 3 ай бұрын

Thank yu so much!

@Guidinglight582 4 ай бұрын

Hi, my son is 6 years old, turning 7 in November. When he hits his younger brother and i disapline him, he has anger outbursts. Even though i talk calmly or sympathise with him, he will say means things or throw things. When i move him away from the room to calm down or tell him stay until his calm he will scream mean things and keep coming back. I will move him back n fourth and it drains me out. I would love to know how to deal with that situation or how i could do better.

@ADHDDude 3 ай бұрын

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@Musicalskulls 8 ай бұрын

Hi Ryan, These videos have been very helpful. Thanks you soo much for doing this. I am sure many other families in the US are experiencing this, but there is a major shortage of some medications in the US and it is increasingly getting harder to keep a reliable supply around (and you wonder why the US has such a mental health issue). How would you suggest dealing with the lack of medication with school and home? Academics are doing fine, but behavior is crumbling at an accelerated rate? What can we do as parents to be supportive of the child and the teachers? Thanks again

@ADHDDude 8 ай бұрын

I have many videos on behavior here at the channel, as well as the behavior playlist. As for your question I don't think I'm able to answer broad questions like that accurately as every situation is context dependent.

@Lad61 8 ай бұрын

Your video describes my son, except that he is 38 yrs old. It is a nightmare. He didn’t do this as a child, started around 21, and has gotten worse and worse. Are there other adult children doing this?

@ADHDDude 8 ай бұрын

He's not an adult child, he's a grown man and if he is making anyone feel unsafe with his behavior, that needs to be confronted, and there many need to be police involvement. Being an adult with ADHD does not give you a pass on how you treat others or behave.

@ladyc444 8 ай бұрын

Oh my…. wow..

@Lizakidsfoodsideas 7 ай бұрын

Hi, my son is seven and non verbal and extremely aggressive of late, he is currently having a episode and it’s 3:30am in South Africa, me and my husband have decided to not go into his room like we usually do, how do I deal with a nonverbal child in this situation.

@ADHDDude 7 ай бұрын

I couldn't answer that without any information or the ability to ask questions. If he is not medicated, I would strongly recommend you speak with a child psychiatrist or nurse practioner as soon as possible.

@Spmama444 6 ай бұрын

What is your child doesn’t have constructive shame ???

@ADHDDude 6 ай бұрын

I can't answer questions without knowing your child's age.

@jade_iix 3 ай бұрын

this is what i do

@bessiepadua 8 ай бұрын

This is my grandchild lately he alway's use knife and alway's say he will commit suicide he's only 10 year's old😢

@ADHDDude 8 ай бұрын

Please feel free to show his parents this video.

@Eva-mf7sd 8 ай бұрын

This video is excellent.

@ADHDDude 7 ай бұрын

thank you!

@VictoriaJenks-u8z 8 ай бұрын

Yh I definitely talk too much. He's rude even more

@VictoriaJenks-u8z 8 ай бұрын

If he don't get a reaction from me, he bullies his younger brother and he gets alot of emotional reactions.

@ADHDDude 8 ай бұрын

Are there daily expectations in place for him earning the things he wants? PLease see my video here about daily expectations.

@arundhatin1601 Ай бұрын

My son displays socially unacceptable behavior like farting on the kids, spreading germs by touching kids with his dirty kerchief in school. He gets entertainment from this.What can I do to stop this?

@ADHDDude Ай бұрын

Teach him persspective-taking skills and have daily expectations in place at home for him earning the things he wants, based on how he treats others. Perspetive-taking is covered in the Socially Smarter course. Establishing daily expectations is covered in the Creating Daily Expectations course. These behaviors are inevitably going to cause him to be very socially isolated and lonely if they continue.