How to deal with the Jealousy, Anger, and the need for revenge after your ex-monkey-branched!

[@unclejay1634]

The best advice is”just set back and enjoy the show”works every time be patient

[@silvavasinlana6762]

@unclejay1634 are u sure because I am going through this ?

[@unclejay1634]

@@silvavasinlana6762100% this is the best response sit back and go do something else and really that’s all you can do

[@Connor-Prince07]

Only a month has passed for me, and I feel great now don't hold any grudge against my ex, instead I worked out, fixed my sleep schedule, started dieting, and did the work I was procrastinating on and I am proud to say I've healed because of coach Paz very much love from the Philippines❤

[@whiggygirl]

You are an absolute legend!!! You have set me free. Thank you ❤

[@EricaWaxer]

I love you Paz!! Monkey branching is the worst!!

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

@@EricaWaxer I love you too Erica! I checked out your channel too and I LOVE YOUR SONGS 👍🏽

[@VaultBGC]

My ex blindsided me 4 months ago and monkey branched to a coworker after 12 years together. We were high school sweethearts so needless to say this has been (and still is) a very painful experience. Your videos have been helping me a lot, i haven't seen any other coaches dive this deep into monkey branching/monkey-branchers psychology. You've helped me understand my ex's mind which allowed me to find some peace among all this pain. Thank you coach Paz.

[@sh4l1t45]

Two half month for me Keep it up buddy We will be reborn as a new man

[@CujohRamirez]

i can't imagine the pain you felt, my relationship was 1,5 year. it took me 6 months to heal and process all of these bullshit, Paz Goldman is the right person to listen to, trust me. i hope you heal and recover soon, may god bless you

[@VaultBGC]

@@CujohRamirez Thank you brother, i'm slowly healing day by day. I can't wait until i feel 100% happy again.

[@CeeP211]

I'm so sorry. Sending love your way ❤

[@VaultBGC]

@@CeeP211 Thank you 🙏🏽

[@Plaughrey]

I am 3 months from when my wife left me for another married man who was her co-worker. Paz your videos have really elevated my understanding of the hurt and pain I've experienced. I have been doing the work, (Gym, meditations, self-love) and I am starting to realize that I feel sorry for her now. I can see the pain she is going to endure for the rest of her life, based off of her default responses. I am also excited to see how I can grow into my true self through this trauma. Your "Rise of the Phoenix" program is aptly named my good sir 👏👏👏

[@dianameyer9361]

This is gold! Thank you Paz. So true! Applies to my ex!

[@nonenone-n3z]

Your insight and advice is amazing! I’ve watched hours of this stuff on other channels and yours is by far the best. Thank you 🙏

[@JudithPolito-k5m]

You just mentioned a drug addict he literally is a recovering addict of every drug known to man. It totally makes sense that u just referred his actions to an addict. Your content helps me tremendously

[@dennishaas4745]

I am still in radio silence since my narc ex monkey branched to a coworker. I can tell that I am getting better because I could care less and I realize she is the new supplies karma !

[@Rachel-s2w]

Dennishaa l had the same 😢thing it would be his karma , when l discovered his infidelity, he wanted, to put in a psychiatric hospital, he told me l was crazy, his monkey branch for 2years it so hard sometimes 😢😢

[@JudithPolito-k5m]

Mine left for a coworker as well. After he left his old job to move and be with me. I helped him get the job then he leaves me for a coworker. Horrible human

[@dennishaas4745]

@@JudithPolito-k5m Do you think a coworker relationship lasts longer than a monkey branched regular relationship ?

[@JudithPolito-k5m]

@@dennishaas4745 no clue. It’s been over a year for them now and I hear he gave her a Diamond 🙄🤡…. Mabye she’s the one for him. I did everything for him and she gets the benefits. Awful

[@ghostplaymakers3681]

I’m stuck in the eye for an eye phase.. Law of reciprocity for real…

[@witsuw]

Timely video, thank you.

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

@@witsuw you’re welcome my dear friend, thank you for watching 🙏🏽

[@Budd1470]

Thanks for the great advice and great videos. 60 Days into No Contact for me.

[@jonathanhunt371]

Thank you Paz. My partner monkey-branched to a married guy in an open relationship. Because my ex is his 2nd partner, they don’t spend much time together. They hardly see each other, and I figure they probably will never really get to know each other deeply enough for their shit to surface. Perhaps this shallow relationship of theirs might actually work as they will never have to face their demons?! To me she is running into a relationship style where she will get away with her lack of emotional maturity. Interesting scenario! But yes, my focus HAS to be on personal growth, and so far it’s been phenomenal

[@pratthameshchakorr2834]

You are great, thank you for sharing your own experience, that is supporting my damaged right brain.

[@pam7022]

Well said. Heart break and ego. And I totally agree if you knew what you know now there’s just no way you would go on. they had a Headstart and it is what it is and remember this the new partner knew all about you but still went after your ex. They both deserve each other. Garbage attract garbage and that’s what you’re missing is a piece of garbage.

[@alvaroramos9391]

Thank you Coach Paz. I am coming out of a 7 year relationship where my ex monkey branched to her married former boss .She would complain to me about how her boss (the CFO)had a crush on her and touched her inappropriately once. I should have done something then but I she told me she would handle it. The incoming CEO thought it was suspicious that she got promoted so quickly and so often by this guy and suspected an inappropriate relationship so they fired her. I defended her. Turns out the rumors were true. She left me at the beginning of the year for this guy after they both plotted their "relationship" for months. Almost everything she did is the way Coach Paz has described it. I felt so much anger. Mostly at myself at first then wanted to punish this guy for being a groomer and predator. Still working on my anger issues. It's been 10 months and I feel stuck. Just when I feel that I'm making progress something happens( she pops up , new boyfriend pops up etc) and I feel like it was the day one.

[@kessiangeorge4367]

Almost one month ,i listening to you to get over it

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

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[@Karloz-zr3hv]

Thanks coach. I was lucky didn’t get jealous shook the blokes hand thanked him said she was never mine was just my time with her good luck. Never wanted to get revenge it will all end in a mess. Did get a bit angry because oh her lies the money she took and blaming me it was my fault she did what she did I mad her do it. Plus was angry she put our 2 year old in a very compromised and toxic position. But it will all end up being a mess for her in so lucky. I should have left when I wanted to when she started treating me like crap 3 times I wanted to but with a newborn she even abandoned us both when he was just born but came home had lost natal depression so it was hard and I wanted him to have a family thinking it could be fixed. Dr even sent her to counseling she went once and that was that. I’m so lucky and you explaine I so well without this help I would be stuck. But I’m healing and leveling up big time. Thanks coach

[@natethedesertmaster8529]

I’m 2 weeks in. I was over it and she could sense that and that’s when she started monkey branching. It’s like I got a monkey off my back. I was upset but now I just focus on me and growth and I completely blocked her out of my life. It feels a lot better. The water is fine boys, just jump in. These girls aren’t worth anything in my opinion

[@toostrong2209]

My Ex monkey branched with her ex boss. he is twice her age. Thanks for all the explanation. Now i understand that its not about me. Its very relieving. I understand that i was more or less a rebound who she kept for more than 2 years. i feel so sorry for her right now. she is doomed. i almost want to tell her how fucked she is...and that she needs psychological help...

[@rscholey85]

I don’t have jealousy or anger, I have disappointment in my self because I should of known but I didn’t, once I found my mistakes I fixed them ( watched KZbin vids of what I could of done wrong because she didn’t tell me ) it’s all I can do, my feelings are real my love is real my child crying because she doesn’t know which house she wants to stay at it’s all real, I made my choice to have kids with her that’s family, I really hope your right about the monkey branch but my ex is engaged and it’s such a shame to have kids caught in the middle, 12 years together and monkey branched to a friend for 10 years did she fancy him back then ? It’s questions I’m full of, he looks like a friend you wouldn’t worry about him being friends what so ever it’s odd is it the money ?the sex ? I never wanted to exit I didn’t know anything was wrong, usually you know you see it not working etc I’m exercising a lot I’m going out a lot, you seem like a nice man I thank you for talking about this

[@NeveN-XI]

I was one of those who see red flags on my ex. Many times want to brake, but somehow didn't do it.

[@mongol4757]

Hoping everything will be alright 😢

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

Do you want to share with me a little bit about your situation?

[@PhilClarkson-l9c]

I wanted to leave and I didn’t. Why didn’t I leave. She then leaves and I’m heartbroken. I blame myself but I’ve learned my lesson.

[@RR-yg3mr]

@@PhilClarkson-l9c in some ocations i also wanted to leave but i did not do it because my empathy and i thought in her feelings. On the contrary, when she knew this new guy did not take into account my feelings, Zero empathy.

[@quinntrejo1068]

Brother I left and once I found out I was monkey branched it tore me up trust me it wouldn’t have made it better

[@viennpalome2730]

yes ur right.....i almost want to exit but i believed on repair...yet this happened...

[@roseamey370]

I get a sense of relief at 9.22, to hear you say of the 3rd party, what sort of person takes anothers partner? She's been occupying a Lot of my head space trying to work her out ,as she comes across as outgoing, super friendly, interesting, intelligent, considerate, hardworking, but then some stuff she does actually was very disrespectful for example being asked multiple times not to do stuff, but still doing it any way, then putting up a post on facebook saying she hated being told she was too much, or that the talked too much ( she does) (she lived at my place for a year before my ex monkey branched with her immediatly after ending with me.)

[@quinntrejo1068]

5 weeks in staying stuck keep meeting up with her

[@MDDR-io7nh]

3 months after a 22 year relationship is NOT enough time! I've been I NC for over 2 years. He never reached out & He's living with the person he monkey branched with. I'm done. My feeling are now indifferent.

[@yuggessundram3091]

I am done with him. Over!😂 his new supply is nothing to compare with me. No job, widow with two children, old and not good looking. 😂. Now after i went quite he tried to contact and stalk me in social media. He is just waste of time and energy for me now! I love myself more❤❤❤

[@BC-yb1mq]

Yes, I didn't leave many times...

[@magdalenag5046]

This is so true My ex monkey branch with his friend from work And now - he quit the work 😅 because he will work with his new girlfriend - he was lifeguard, now he will teaches how to swim with her He is in no conntact with his father, he did not see with his mother from that time when they Heard about it He cutted all his friends He is almost 40, leaving with his 26 new gf and her child (funny thing - she did the same with her housband) I do my best to level up - he looks śoo bad, but still talking that he is so happy now 😅

[@baka_nerd2267]

I am into 3 months of a 7 year long distance relationship where she is in a relationship with one of her co-workers and i am still in the same stupid stage as the day she dumped me and got to know she is with someone else.

[@iLKEErdec1988]

How often do we see women make bad decisions in relationships?

[@JudithPolito-k5m]

It’s been over a year … I still struggle badly 🥺

[@nim_ytyt]

It'll be okay. Take your time to process and heal fully. You will get through this

[@brianbondy5667]

I had broke up with my girlfriend late last year. We continued to see each other and have sex. Two and a half months ago she finally had a new boyfriend and a month after that they moved in down the street. This isn't quite monkey branching, what would this be considered? I was only mad at the way she handled it in the end but hey I made the call myself, what is there for me to be mad about? I am realize I didn't grieve the loss of our relationship because we were seeing each other but have been working on it now.

[@Flwrgal7]

Same. He kept in contact for 4 months after breakup until he found some one new and cut contact without a word. Felt like monkey branching as I had hope he would come back😢

[@brianbondy5667]

@@Flwrgal7 That just shows how weak of a person this man is. I did get the rise of the phoenix and it really helped speed the recovery process for me. I remember back to the pain of the early days when she ghosted me versus now. Today I feel bullet proof. I haven't seen her drive by in a couple weeks ow and don't even care when she does or would.

[@eishajohnson7411]

I wanted to leave so many times and l did but he kept coming back every time and l took him back thinking he changed only to find out he got worse 😢 lm out and on my own.

[@jackiep5009]

He monkey branched to a mother approved person. Very low vibration I hear. The only thing that upsets me is she has my dog

[@pratthameshchakorr2834]

It's taking more than a year. am i dumb or more irriational than others😢? answer please.

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

@@pratthameshchakorr2834 you are not doing the work correctly my dear friend… I would advise you to book a call with me to guide you and put you on the right path ASAP! you don’t have more time yo waste. Click here ⤵️ www.pazgoldman.com

[@Msusiengineer]

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[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

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[@zeldsfan]

Well you see, her new guy is 17 years older than her and likes kids a little bit too much so uhhhh. Certainly lower value. Like, im not saying this out of spite, its merely being rational and logical considering that I connected all dots the few months after the breakup, like, dots between her first ex (17 years older than her ect). But I am doing much better now