10 REASONS Why YOU Should NEVER Take Your Ex Back After Rebound or Monkey Branching

[@baggergurl16]

A wise person once told me, never give the same person another opportunity to tell you that they don’t want you again.

[@michboo1]

THE PERSON WHO BROKE YOU CANNOT BE THE ONE THAT HEALS YOU!!

[@CGermain-s6l]

@@michboo1 well said my Friend!!!…

[@user-iu6bv8vu8o]

Never take a cheat back & never be afraid to walk away- something better will always come….💯

[@thewishingpooltarot5425]

You are so right. These types of people are so emotionally weak. They can't value anyone.

[@ChrisM-yq2pq]

They can’t. They don’t even value themselves

[@DaveSustain]

A lot of KZbin coaches say it's okay to take back an ex who's been with other people, I strongly disagree with them. Thank you for saying this no holds barred. For people who are okay with it, you have no respect for yourself.

[@WhiteGhost21]

what if it was your fault and youre taking them back on the basis that youve changed into a better version of yourself

[@DaveSustain]

@@WhiteGhost21 Well if it's your fault it's up to you.

[@robertanderson2289]

Mr. Dave, folks follow their heart, not the advice of other people. There are folks who will always accept their ex back no matter what. 👌

[@michaelangelo5783]

@@WhiteGhost21 How is it ever the other person's fault that cheater rubbed their soft wet bits with someone else?

[@timalk2097]

​@@WhiteGhost21there's no such thing as your fault or their fault. It's much more complex when it comes to relationships... You should not get anyone back that left you for someone else + chances are they will do it again in the future.

[@dustinquinton]

If you were heartbroken the first time, you are going to have to heal again after the second heartbreak. Heal and move on! Also, the chance that they have change for the better is extremely low.

[@sandral2261]

They would never respect you. Love yourself ❤❤enough to walkaway

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

Yes, amen to that my friend!!!!

[@ant108]

I like this one. It reminds me why I shouldn't take them back. I don't want to find out how painful it will be the second time around. First time was painful enough. Took me about 3 months to actually feel better about myself and find my confidence. Thanks again

[@Bikegypsy-Studio]

Young dudes! Guys in your late teens and 20s! Listen to this man! He’s 1000% correct. Furthermore, taking back a woman who has left you will damage you subconsciously. This will eat away at your soul and your masculine energy.

[@gogetta6532]

@@Bikegypsy-Studio if she left you for cheating that’s your fault stop switching the topic

[@Bikegypsy-Studio]

@ lol… that’s the topic genius

[@luvurslf-s4h]

Hi coach Paz, absolutely spot on, on all counts !! Your sincere reasoning is hitting me in the gut , but in a positive way. My ex threw away 15 years in 2 weeks , this was 3 weeks ago , so still fresh and now with another guy ,though she broke up and came back twice before ,I took her back cause I truly loved her with all my heart and tried desperately to save our relationship.This time she can go to hell . I'm now realistically realizing that her mindset is emotionally unstable , she has managed to crush my self esteem by telling me loads of things which weren't true at all , so she can definitely go f@@ off to eternity .You have given me the strength to move on once and for all , after endless sleepless nights and bone crushing trauma . You have been a beacon of hope , courage , and strength on the path to my healing , Thank you coach , from the ❤️

[@DeFiCapitalShow]

I really hope you find this comment. This is by far one of the best KZbin channels regarding healing I have encountered. It’s so genuine and no bullshit. Not telling us what we want to hear but what we need to hear. The channel is focused on healing and personal growth. I watched 3 different videos and I immediately bought the healing course. I am so excited for my journey over the next few months to heal and grow and move forward. This video gives clear instructions that we should heal and hope for a reconnection but not after they’ve been with someone else. It’s so sincere, you can feel it in his voice. I sent one last message to her today. Making it clear that I was going to focus on my growth, and character development over the next few months and if our paths crossed again, perhaps we can’t start something new, but the moment that someone else is involved (on either end) the possibility of reconciliation dies forever. I have never felt so free. So excited for growth. I am happy with either outcome. Either I reconcile or I grow so much that I find better. This course is like seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. It’s so liberating

[@ZubairKhan-vs8fe]

The absolute best video on the topic that i heard. Men need to to talked to straight out and told how things are. This coach is not looking for customers, he is telling us to man up. Thank you Paz

[@angelbarajas9364]

First time listening to your content. I am going through a breakup currently, it’s been almost two weeks now. I found out he was talking to other woman and moved on to another relationship while I was still with him. I was with him nearly two years. I’m trying to cope with my mixed feelings and what to do with myself. I am grateful for your raw couching. I have no one to give it to me straight. It’s hard to hear but I know I need to listen and heal and move on. It’s going to take time to get there but with your guidance, I know I can do it. Thank you so much. I truly appreciate you. 😔

[@joneifer8145]

I've watched alot of different breakup coach's. Your authentic approach and genuine empathy takes the cake. Your tone verifies your intention as you talk about these topics. Your honesty and raw feedback caught my attention from the gate.

[@whiggygirl]

What you've said about al the intimate details about them being with another person, is exactly why I have said I can never ever get back with him. I wish with all my heart that he'd stayed on his own and had the "time on my own" that he said he wanted. But after 11 months with me, he was fb official with someone else within 4 weeks of us falling out 😭😭 it's over for me now

[@lotusmccary9365]

@@whiggygirl Wise lady

[@whiggygirl]

@lotusmccary9365 thank you 😊

[@aprilyang1526]

Ong same here. My ex and I just recently broken up on Nov 2 and now his getting married to his new girlfriend on Dec 3. His mom influenced him and said that they are soulmates.

[@dcdidit]

Thanks for being 100 man. Thanks for eliminating all the false hope that Ive found in so many other "coaches'" videos. This is the realest shit Ive heard yet. I appreciate the realism and I'll be in touch.

[@efthimios]

The spiritual connection part is true- we were together over 20 years! Felt inseparable. After the affair and the horrible behavior and things she did to hurt us no matter how hard or what I did to try to save our marriage and fix it nothing worked. Once sleeping under same roof same bed and living together to strangers it’s so sad

[@levelup7god210]

Sooo happy i find this channel, this man tells you the truth nothing less

[@Andyange]

Finally someone who tells the truth

[@Freudster21]

Dude, what are we supposed to do? Nowadays 8 out of 10 women will eventually get bored and monkey branch. 1 out of 10 will end the relationship and rebound, and the last 1 out of 10 is the unicorn who is committed, loyal, and will work through things and grow together, improving together. We supposed to look for the unicorn? I don’t know what to do anymore. The commitment of our parents era is basically gone. Especially as I get older, most of the women at my age or even a few years younger are traumatized and have a bunch of bodies. I could date a 23 or 24 year old that isn’t a ho and is family oriented, but that’s a pretty big age gap, and also hard to find. So I’m not sure lol

[@balkee42]

Dude so true. Times hav changed and not for the better

[@jackjames5694]

Should I block her from social media, her phone, her email?

[@craggyexplores3070]

​@@jackjames5694everything she gets the gift of missing u forever

[@Apheli0nne]

@@Freudster21 true, I've tried to have the same kind of relationship that my parents have but it's failed literally every single time. The game is completely different nowadays

[@Freudster21]

@@Apheli0nne Saaame here, my parents are together and have a great relationship, but it’s failed every time, by the women’s decision. Usually a monkey branch or cheating is involved lol. Crazy times

[@Chydova]

I would have taken him back if he took the time to grow and heal himself. But after telling me that he has another woman in his life, not even a month after breaking up me, and him telling me that she is more grateful than me i am too hurt to take him back. I gave him 4 years, and he didn't respect me. I told him that hurts deep, its basically cheating. But for him he doesn't see it that way since he broke up with me and is no longer with me. I don't understand how someone can be so cold. I can't even imagine dating anyone. I don't even want to stand beside men now...😢

[@shad2795]

@Chydova i feel your pain. I'm in the same situation here and it's hurting

[@ChrisM-yq2pq]

Absolutely. He is a horrible person

[@Destiny-ch5ux]

NO decent guy ❌ can ever be stolen Cheating's a choice & ur ex is a douche

[@arifkhan5600]

Yes, Brother Paz, Very accurate!!. God bless us all loyal persons ❤️

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

Amen my brother!!! 🙏

[@michellemooreochoa8634]

I recognize its all true ! What your explaining! My way to cope with it is no contact! No memories of gifts! Fotos! Music shared!! Not visiting important places!we were together! That was hard to do! Every day! Makes me stronger!; Not over yet! Nothing can ever be the same! Respect! Self worth! Dont be a door mat!! Walk away! Leave Leave!!! Its the only way to move on! Thank you!!:

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

YES my dear friend! 🚀

[@jenniferwarehime1234]

😢it's so difficult and been crying for months just feel I've lost myself and don't know if I'll ever be the same again I'm to old to start over i appreciate ur honesty

[@MichelleGarcia-fg2xq]

Seeing them with another is all the validation you need, it's the best one cause now your doubts are gone. The mystery is solved. I know how badly that hurts. I truly do 😢.... use that pain to propel yourself forward. I've done it. Ya it's hard, grieving for someone who didn't pass away is the hardest thing you will ever do. But in the other side of that, your life transforms ❤ and even without seeing it. Your spirit knows. And the strength you cultivate with be amazing. No, no one deserves this kind of treatment. Let it be the best teacher. The sooner you can go thru it, feel it, accept it then release it.... IT IS A POWERFUL AND AMAZING GIFT!!!! I PROMISE YOU.... ❤🥰🤗

"My greatest teacher" Amen brother

[@Winchdon69]

It's been tough year, now to try and get through Xmas.. but NYE will be tough not sharing a drink together and seeing in a new year, sharing a moment together etc. As parents as well its tough

[@efthimios]

I’m a prime example. Had a happy family life married to my high school sweetheart, never thought had to worry about this. Had an affair and hurt me even after I tried saving my marriage and family. The thoughts are same about resentment and pain. I remember feeling that when we first dated about her exes can you imagine now. It’s hard to let go of your family and part of it is thinking love forgiveness and healing is everything. Fact2 is the pos that they destroy your life for.

[@DanielTwitty-vn9dm]

Same here. But like 7 different dudes over a 7 year period. I'm absolutely permanently damaged psychologically and emotionally for the rest of my life. It never goes away, that pain is there like a recovering addicts cravings ....forever!!!

[@Willa-x9b]

A little late for this necessary advice as I had a revolving door for the same person as I was trying to heal my heart. I’ve learned now and am ready for the pain process.

[@Pinkyxohx]

Listen …. The way how his words went through my head is like Major Payne 😂 I really felt that! absolutely subscribing to stay disciplined

[@jnformisano6771]

Bless you! I agree 100% ❤ I'm no one sloppy seconds! Thank you!

[@geezitscold]

Thanks for speaking the honest truth and wakeing people up!!!!!

[@Biologist557]

Took awhile to find this type of real world coaching about a breakup. Everything I was finding was about how to get your ex back. What if you don’t want them back?? Just want to get past it and move on.

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

@@Biologist557 Yes!!! I feel you my friend! Take this time for you to DO THE WORK! Heal & grow from this! Feel free to check out my Online Healing Coaching Program ➡️ pazgoldman.com/theriseofthephoenix Use the coupon code HEAL to get 50% OFF!

[@tautvydukass]

„The only way to control love is to keep it at a very long distance” I dont remember where I have read this.

[@BankruptBassplayer]

😅thanks, I needed to hear this..similar situation , last week, beautiful time together , this week.. monkey branch….She is. Now history.

[@jacquedavis3779]

This is keeping it real…straight up Thanks for the honesty

[@coolc3090]

I watched a lot videos but this one was a really good one by far he gave it too you Raw 💯

[@RealJustLaw]

Every point covered is 100% accurate, wise words Paz!

[@bobbyhughes4895]

Appreciate the brutal honesty. It is necessary for sure. Damn good information

[@honestytruthful1552]

Thank you so much you are the best you tell it as it is I'm going through a breakup and I wax looking for someone to give me a good reason to move on and only you said the right things thank you so much

[@askquestions1236]

grieving is horrible

[@skybengal]

Love your down to earth explanations with raw honesty. I think your very perceptive, I’m going to keep listening to your advice 👍🏽

[@ericdavis681]

Wish I had seen this 9 yrs ago when I took her back. In my case we were (and still are) married and were separated for 2 yrs. The more work I do, the more resentful I am. Prob too late.

[@markomucibabic5748]

I was waiting this video for so long. Thank you so much for explaining this!! Big love for you

[@THEDANILUCKSSHOW]

LORD I NEEDED THIS

[@Ahicksaf]

@THEDANILUCKSSHOW Oh yea me too ! u have no idea

[@isabelle5003]

💯, big brother Paz is absolutely right.

[@nicolameikle8737]

The most realest shit right here

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

@@nicolameikle8737 always keeping it REAL! 🙏🏽

[@michellechelle3081]

I’ll Never take anybody back after they sat and played in my face

[@jayyyy8422]

Hes 100% correct..

[@Misty-u5w]

I just miss him though...yes, he's a cheating monkey brancher and I will never take him back, but damn, it's killing me

[@craggyexplores3070]

It's natural. But I have to sit with the grief. Eventually u will not care and then they will come back to test the waters. Then u can give em the gift of your silence forever

[@Fkkhan100]

Be strong its happened the same with me. She moved from my home to another boy the worst moneky branching.. after 5 years relationship

@@Misty-u5w Date a guy that's been ghosted by a woman. He understands your pain trust me I know.

[@thatpoeticthug]

I miss her so much too. I miss my family. But she's keeps coming back and leaving like it's so ez for her. Like I'm nothing:'(

[@brendahstarr1349]

@@craggyexplores3070I am at the point I don’t care anymore, especially when his friends are just as worse as he is, and they are cheering on his decision to leave me…

[@mikyl-fo8rh]

Forgive them and ghost them.

[@Paul-of3ut]

I took my ex back after she cheated and after 10yrs she cheated on me again and kissed cuddled me had sex the night before she told me how much she loved me and can't wait to marry me then i came home to empty house she left me and destroyed me. I can't move on because i now hate her and its taking over my life cos i want revenge for hurting me like that.

[@Supking47]

Be silent karma on the right adrese

[@ChrisM-yq2pq]

You can’t get revenge on someone who lied and cheated on you. You can only move on. This person is damaged and looks for other men to fix her. It’s a compulsion. There will always be other men. It’s not about you. It’s this need to feel wanted and the challenge of getting a man who she didn’t think she could get. It’s an insecurity from a deep damage that can’t heal. She’s always going to feel something is missing with whoever she’s with like you

[@Paul-of3ut]

@ChrisM-yq2pq yeah your words are so correct, she is damaged no doubt about that, I really treated her very well I just struggle to understand why she would throw such a good life away but I guess now I understand. I'm better off without her in my life.

[@ChrisM-yq2pq]

@@Paul-of3ut yeah I’ve treated girls well that friend zoned me or didn’t see me long term. You can not believe treating a girl well will make her choose you over a bad boy. If anything she’s into guys who ignore her and mistreat her and even when she’s crying because he’s being mean she’s only wanting him more. Try it out where you don’t get excited with a girl you like and see how she’s doing everything to try to please you more. Women are afraid of commitment when first meeting a guy. They only want it when they see they could lose you to other girls. Giving into a woman too quickly will bore her fast. Women like a challenge. Women like to feel needed. Not needing her validation makes her wonder why you feel she’s worthless and that triggers an anxiety that all women want and feel the need to fulfill with you. Yes it’s backwards logic but that’s why we are men and they are women

[@TTBNetwork]

This is an insecure mindset! Our exes were sleeping with ppl before we got with them! & Once we break up we are all free to sleep with who ever we want. We don't control ppl!! Be more secure within yourselves..... Now if someone sleeps with another person while y'all were together yeah leave them & never look back.

[@gavinfarris7624]

@@TTBNetwork what I took away from the video is that you shouldn't take back an ex who has already moved on. They may say they haven't moved on, but physically they have.

[@Arpit-v6k]

twin's bound to win the cuck olympics this year😎

[@mariefricchione437]

He came back and I said NO BUT it never heals fully💔

[@janashaba7535]

Agree 100% .Thank you !

[@podcasts2321]

He was flirting with the girl he told me not to worry about. i have no idea what else happened between them or if it got physical

[@craigypd]

You talk real shit ❤

[@nikolaradakovic5050]

You are very spiritual mate :) God bless you

[@kaylarose3833]

It all comes to self-esteem I guess... which is very low for me at the point 😔 he ghosted and cloaked me on everything. This shit is hard to process...

[@PassportBrosAndBlondeManWeaves]

I feel like it’s nothing wrong with taking back a ex that has worked on themselves to be a better person…. If they were abusive in anyway, or cheating I say do not take them back!

[@charlesdemar9612]

Mine left after 9 yrs 3 kids moving states,i left my career,she left basically on a whim and hid a dude i had a feeling about,he was married too..narcissistic i feel..or just toxic? I caught them and she claimed they were friends i think it was going on before she left me,3 days before saying she loved me,i dont make what i used to and this guy comes from a wealthy farm family..narc,toxic or money? She wears a good face

[@martyc2637]

Tough one Charles. You are not alone.

[@jenniferwarehime1234]

I've had physical health problems due to this u r so correct

[@Jayy-Wz]

“Bounce back like a fucking yo-yo” had me dead 😭🙏

[@emmamalasabas-di4sk]

Brilliant ❤ absolutely right Sir coach🎉

[@babydii3487]

MUCH APPRECIATION COACH PAZ 💯💯💯

[@Aaron-ii2lq]

I been watching all these other coach vids and i been hoping she comes back thanks coach paz your so right i wish i found u sooner everything u say is so true ive watched a heap of vids since i found u a week ago my girl of 6 years ran off with some guy and it destroyed me i been walking around with a broken heart all year in the last week i really feel happy i dont want her back it would never work i know i would haye her deep down and do something stupid im happy for her and i dont care if i never seen her again u helped me alot and them other coaches dont know nothing at all i sat here watching all them for the past year what a waste of time

[@_ewa5a19]

How do you kill the hope of them returning? Even though you know you should reject them when they come back it's like you're just waiting for them to break up so the pain can stop, how do you get over that?

[@looneyville3]

My wife is monkey branching to her aunt. Her elderly, well to do, cancer stricken and now childless aunt. I feel like such a sap. I helped her pack after the death of her cousin because her "aunt needed her". I had no idea she was actually leaving me.

[@Budd1470]

Hi Coach Paz... Great Video and super great advice. Thank You..

[@Budd1470]

***** Need to add to this comment**** Sorry if its long. My Ex asked for the break up a little over 2 months ago. Its been 66 days of No Contact for me so far. We were together for about 4.5 years. Long Distance. I'm in Jersey, shes in Mass. The distance between us was always an issue for her but I had no problem. There is a 17 year difference in age. Me being older. She expressed on several occasions to be married, I have no desire. She pushed constantly me moving up there, I cannot due to work, family and all that goes with that. I never asked her to move here. There are other things I can include in this list but I wont. Just 2 days ago, She posted something on Facebook along with photos of her and another guy spending a long weekend at a resort in RI. I am still friends with her. I am tempted to pull the trigger on blocking her and unfriending her but wanted to hold out a bit longer (90) days or so to see what happens. Obviously she monkey branched me and rebounded to this new guy. Who by the way is a bit younger and lives and works in the same town as her up in Mass. Convenient huh? anyway, I'm torn as to my decision on totally blocking and unfriending her or riding it out on No Contact to see what happens with this rebound. Coach Paz and community, and guidance would help. Thanks all.

[@StephenFrancis-tp2le]

Never take them back…

[@petemorton8403]

Wives have less invested in building up yhe family yet Entitlements encourage taking more.

[@fancyfolk89]

But you crack me up. I love this channel you’re hilarious.

[@keepitrealfacts9308]

What about if this is your legal spouse and we have kids together, married 15yrs together 22yrs.😢💔 Still not take them back even after forgiveness?

[@JohnDoe-gp9kw]

I love your channel man!!! Thank you for your work i love your videos

[@Hopeera-m1f]

We have dated only for 7 months. We recently broke up. She gave me the break saying that I took her for granted and treated her very bad. From November I've been pursuing her with letters and flowers but she said I took her for granted and she resents me now. She's very cold towards me. She is removing me from everything. We go to the same class and same college. I love her so much. But it has been only 20 days and she is going on dates with a guy and very happy. She even said that he is giving her flowers without asking and treating her like a princess. That I asked her because I saw her status. What should I do?

[@mariefricchione437]

I do not believe if you are in love you ever really get over him/her. Even though rejection means death so does grief for a lifetime! 😢

[@bodhi9464]

great video mate. god bless you. 🇦🇺

[@dusanpalkovic4460]

I'm surprise somebody felt like me. Months in tears and pain. She prepare the new supply almost 1 year before the discard ...... I'm broken

[@sachawisznia9685]

Paz IS my big brother! 👍

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

My little brother, much love 💪🏽🤍

[@RandomUserAct]

Are you talking about them eventually moving on after the break up ended and them being with someone else?, and not take them back down the line? Or them doing this while in the relationship..? Cuz some ppl when they end are already checked out.. they wanna explore something new, but eventually they see no one is you, and they come back even after they have dated someone.. should we not then take them back? Idk if it went over my head. Yes I watched the entire video lol

[@prettyangel3012]

@@RandomUserAct this is delusion you know right

[@fancyfolk89]

I don’t agree with the first point. I don’t think I’d ever think about the first point. Like isn’t it reassuring that they slept with someone else and they came back because the other person wasn’t better than you?

[@Smartbeautifulawesome]

Envy or anger or something weird. That is strange

[@cheers70]

Better to wait for someone who actually cares about you. Life is too short to be with someone who doesn’t care about you.

[@Goodluckbuddy1408]

Thanks for everything coach!

[@cashizcashiz1955]

The second time she left was so much fucking worse then the first...even flew across the country for her just for her to pull the same shit again fuck i wish i would have known this before....

[@jackjames5694]

Coach paz My ex girlfriend told me after 8 years in relationship. That she lost feelings for me .is it because she is in love with her new supply?

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

Do you know that she have someone else?

[@jackjames5694]

@PazGoldmanOfficial yes I do know that she is seeing someone else. All I want to know is how can they have a change of heart after 8 years , mind you our relationship was a healthy one before she met someone.

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

@@jackjames5694 i’m sorry to be the one who breaks it down to you but your relationship wasn’t healthy at all! This type of behavior is not something that happens overnight , if you would like to understand it better feel free to book a call with me so I can explain it to you and also analyze and dissect your unique situation. www.pazgoldman.com

[@GuidedByAngels]

You really are my hero right now 🎉😂😅

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

@@GuidedByAngels lol 😂 I’m glad to be here to help you my dear friend! Please let me know if you have any questions or video suggestions. Also Feel free to check out my Online Healing Coaching Program ➡️ pazgoldman.com/theriseofthephoenix For more help :)

[@mcostilla7603]

Facts all the way ..💯💯💯

[@raymond4775]

100% FACT....

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

@@raymond4775 🙏🏽💪🏽

[@Ye80s]

You're the best. You think exactly the same as me. And by the way, im even more extreme. I will only marry a virgin. ❤ And i took revenge on my ex by cheating on her when she came back. 😂

[@romanbarrett-x5h]

You convinced me thanks.

[@Godsbusinessonearth]

Sir i like your illustration of A + X and dark monkey rebound and you said it's not possible to be broken even with the help of God?

[@Tyson-tz2jr]

I guess it's true that our phones really do listen to us. I'm in the thick of it right now. After 2 and 1/2 month break up and her having a rebound relationship, yes they had sex, she's come back asking to be with me again.

[@luvurslf-s4h]

As heartbreaking and painful as it can be ,stand your ground 💪, and tell your ex to f@@k off , there aren't words to describe how much I loved and cared for my ex , the pain I'm going through after a 15 year relationship is just immense, I accepted her back twice before, and 3 weeks ago she did it again, and this time round it's been traumatic, believe me !!! All my love has turned into total resentment . So pls get the necessary strength to refuse her straight away , you'll be saving yourself from further and greater pain cause each time it'll get worse, and the one thing that you must keep in mind is that she's been with someone else ,thus violating the sacred temple you had in the relationship, like coach himself said , it's now contaminated!! Stay strong, and believe in you. It'll start to heal with working on yourself .

[@Tyson-tz2jr]

@@luvurslf-s4h Thank you. I told her this morning to kick rocks.

[@luvurslf-s4h]

@@Tyson-tz2jr Well done, as it takes hurt and courage to do it, now focus on yourself and start to move on gradually! The wound will start to heal . Take care of yourself and remember that you deserve better, and she will realize what she lost, her loss , your gain , as painful as it might feel , and remember also that once a rebounder, always a rebounder, they'll remain so , and they'll never find true inner peace, but you will !!

[@smh6016]

Absolute TRUTH BOMBS!!!

[@lars1480]

Never go back to a damp squib 😊

[@mariahgrazia7399]

You are soo right!

[@scutelnicalina1437]

my ex left me 7 times in 7 years of relationship, 3 months ago he left me again with no explanation, moved to his dad house, talking with his ex and in the same time sleeping around with another woman Who i was for him 7 years?😢 He never even tried to contact me to ask if im alive But i strongly decided that this time was his last chance with me 3 months but still heart broken I lost good few friends because of him Nobody agreed my relationship with him A fuckin Narcissist….older than me with 15 years and think he is a Macho

[@gracelikerain5039]

@@scutelnicalina1437 your very pretty from what I can see on your profile Picture and you can find someone else I'm sure alot of guys would be happy to date you

[@mathehanyane6246]

What if we broke up but he never got with anyone? Then he falls sick and is put on medication, he goes to therapy and then comes back bcoz he's not coping with the separation? But he's still refusing to grow up and be reliable.

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

@@mathehanyane6246 I would advise you to NOT take him back. There’s many reasons but 1 is enough- he lack self accountability and this is major red flag 🚩

[@gavinfarris7624]

Yeah it sounds like you're considering taking him back out of pity. There's more than one good reason not to take back an ex. If you don't respect and admire him that's a good reason not to take him back. You'll be saving him from a lot of hurt in the long run as well, because it wouldn't be a healthy relationship anyway.

[@creatureofstyle]

I disagree. I and several of my friends took back our exes months or years after they left and got into another relationship. They saw the grass wasn't greener and fought to get us back and we all ended up marrying them 🤷‍♀️ During the separation we had dated other men as well. Sometimes people don't know what they've lost til it's gone. People grow through learning lessons. You don't know what you don't know and by closing doors and not working through issues together you could be depriving yourself of an even deeper connection than you would ever get with someone new

[@PazGoldmanOfficial]

@@creatureofstyle If you’re so happily married, WHY you are watching this kind of videos???

[@creatureofstyle]

@@PazGoldmanOfficial I was married for 15 happy years. I am no longer married and am starting to date again in this completely unrecognizable dating culture I've experienced this one chance mentality where I was discarded for not immefiately getting everything exactly right and perfect by the first man I dated (after I had not dated for 18 years, which he knew). There were extenuating circumstances that could have easily been worked out with some communication but he decided to ghost me instead and just go find a new girlfriend despite the fact that we had extremely high compatibility and chemistry, which in my experience is rare I'm sure his new girl will end up being discarded too, and the cycle will continue even though he says he wants to get married and have kids, and I'm left wondering what the point of dating is if this is how people relate to each other now When I dated before I was married the goal was to stay together, not throw each other away at the first sign of a minor inconvenience

[@aaroncastro2487]

You clearly don’t understand how men think. You’ll learn with time though.

[@Michael-m2x3q]

@@PazGoldmanOfficial 🤣🤣🤣

[@ibrahimorakc9356]

Thank you so much Brother…