How to Draw the Heart of Your Loved One

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[@leahgracelove]

I need to watch this video every day to reinforce my needed behavior changes. I have such a hard time leaving my spouse alone and letting God work on Him. I'm always wanting to say the right thing, pray the right prayer, and write him notes with scriptures and words. Lord help me to trust you more.

[@MrBobaby]

I have a hard time with it too. I do almost the same thing and I’m just pushing her further away.

[@johnrambot]

Same here. After 11 months of trying my way I have pushed her into another man’s arms and it’s a deep regret and pain. Letting go and letting God control is the hardest thing to do but the best thing. I need Godly sorrow, patience, renewing of my mind, and guidance.

[@user-xu4xj2cd2j]

Any update

[@kenmoek4025]

Any update nearly a year later ?❤

[@DwightHerreira]

Same here

[@turbo1gts]

Thirteen months into separation from my wife here. I was the prodigal but she left me. I deserved it for sure. I started changing quickly, but she had to go through a process, too. We have swapped unfaithful/betrayed/standing roles a couple of times. One big change was the difference between needing her back and wanting her back after my need bagan to be for Jesus. Now we feel closer to reconciliation while we just sit back and let God work on the marriage and each of us. Glory to God on the changes in us and the marriage.

[@32189djsddk]

Praise God. Hoping he can makes the changes in me and her if necessary to restore.

[@juliabentley8022]

I have no words… yesterday was a revelation and today this video. Church… I ask for a global prayer for Matt Hartley, in Oregon for his salvation. Pray the Lord our loving Savior come upon him in such a loving merciful way to lead Matt to repentance… in my excruciating pain of a breakup, I am obeying the Lord and not trying to do this on my own…

[@cbk6576]

May The Lord richly bless you Mr. Herbst, for allowing Him to use you. I cannot tell you how much this timely message has set me free from bondage. God is Good!!!

[@weecher8956]

He’s 💯. We so often turn our spouse into our idol. That’s a recipe for disaster. God should be #1 in our focus, then we will love them through the Lord.

[@lowcountrygirl7779]

Thank you Lord for your servant Dominic. I clearly see my own selfishness, wrongdoing, and especially idolatry in my attempting to force my will, instead of total submission, and surrender to the Father, Son, Holy Spirit, and His ways instead I've attempted to force my will ,and timing instead of yours Lord. I repent and get off of the throne. Thank you, as always Dominic. God bless you, and yours ,as all who have ears to hear, repent, and obey the Word ,and Holy Spirit. The throne, Calvary, the Blood, the Resurrection Power of the Lord Jesus. My first desire is to walk with the Lord in obedience, and seek first the Kingdom of God, and His righteousness. Thank you again and blessings! '

[@claudiapennisi7987]

This video was speaking to me. Almost five years into spousal abandonment and multiple affair partners, the Holy Spirit has gently guided me into the correct path to follow. If he comes back or not is not as important as following the purpose and destiny God has orchestrated for me. Tomorrow I am physically taking a long trip toward my rehabilitation, having understood through prayer that this is God’s plan for me. God bless you Dominic 😍

[@marievickicola8798]

I pray for my prodigal husband to turn to the Lord. It's been over 11 months separated after 37.5 years. I have faith & pray my prodigal husband hears our God's voice reaches his stone heart, in the meantime I praise trust God restoration with God first, then us with God centre of our life ❤ 🙏. I surrender myself to God and pray trust His healing. My prodigal husband left our Lord's covenant and I will pray & ask Jesus Christ can forgive us for sin, heal us both and fill us with Holy Spirit 🙏. Thank you for your encouraging words Frank.. I understand to continue to pray for my prodigal husband as I turn to God and let God guiding him. This painful process will end up beautiful when we both bond first to God then love each other as God loves his church and keep God centre of our life ❤ 🙏 🏡. I trust our destiny & relationship with God will bless us with Faith. Amen 🙏.

[@user-xu4xj2cd2j]

Update?

[@rafaelquinones9522]

I was a prodigal. Now is standing for my marriage. My spouse throw the towel. I’m not giving up on my wife. Praise to The Lord!

[@debrabenavidez3382]

Same here 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@user-xu4xj2cd2j]

Any updates?

[@estherpeggy2160]

Its treu ! My spouse left for the 3 time. We didn’t repent. Now we divorced. God spoke in my dream . Two years ago ‘Focus on healing ‘ I saw two houses standing next to eachother , with two green trees on every house. This was a dream of God. The waiting is long. I get delivered and let him go. There is another women in his live. I’M standing.

[@samuelroberto7400]

I needed to hear every single word from this message. Thank you Lord!

[@glorymarieministries2381]

Wow wow wow wow!!!!!! This is amazingly on point with what I have been doing with my husband. I do not get in Gods way. I surrender him and focus on me and God. This was timely CONFIRMATION! Thank you so much!

[@monamohabir4897]

Glory Marie ❤..love your ministry also.

[@spencerblankenship1732]

Thank you for such a great message, I needed this. Sending 50 text messages a day and Bible verses wasn’t getting it done lol. When I first started seeking God after my wife left I was really getting close and then like you said started fearing and letting the enemy win. When I’m all alone at the judgment throne, it will only be me. I’m so thankful he sent his son to die for me. Thank you again

[@user-xu4xj2cd2j]

Did she come back

[@sandiebeach0926]

How is your marriage now? I am standing for my husband, but I am feeling overwhelmed

[@deve274]

Thank you and God bless you Dominic. This is going to change my life for the better.

[@jerkycam]

I also want to be closer to God than the other person so that I won't be needy or insecure. I want to feel His love.

[@LydiaBotello]

Thank you so much for this wonderful teaching. Your teachings are anointed and I am receiving much healing thru them.

[@Adrian-fi2nk]

It’s true all what you’ve said..I’ve tried my way to get her back desperately, gifts, offerings, telling her I’ve changed.. all it’s done has pushed her further away. I should have prayed and trusted Jesus since the beginning for transformation and reconciliation. I want her back very much but I want and need is Jesus close and for him to work on me on us first.

[@pamtejankella5496]

Lord I Thank You!! 🙏🏽 Lord I surrender my Relationship to You Please forgive me for all the Sins I have committed known and unknown. I believe in the Death And Resurrection of our Lord Jesus Christ 🙏🏽Please give me The Strength I need and also restore Peace in my heart In The Mighty Name of Jesus Christ 🙏🏽 and 🙏🏽

[@peggyspecht1692]

I praise Jesus late at night for leading me to your video, all you said is all I have been doing to try to bring my spouse back to me, fully thinking I was doing the right thing.... I surrender this all to the Holy Spirt and commit it to God's hands. Thank you for such a powerful video for my eyes see now that I can't fix this only God can fix us both.

[@annagrace1159]

Salvation is our only hope and we are walking in the light and still struggling.. Now imagine the torments of our spouses 💕 heart's they are hardened and darkened in their rebellion. They need our prayers which avail MUCH. Letting go of my idolatry for a restored marriage and perfect family life and letting YAH heal my pain and brokenness.

[@user-xu4xj2cd2j]

Any updates

[@helloianzakharov]

I was asking God so many times to give me an answer and watching this video I can feel I have an answer

[@drchontay8129]

You are an excellent anointed teacher. You make it plain. Thank you. You set captives free with your teaching ❤

[@iamtlc4u]

I like his teaching too. ❤

[@ff1xteam]

This is so Amazing thank you i know i willl get my family back. I just need to get closer to God!

[@freckles492]

Please I need prayers for my marriage my husband and I are separated it's is so painful

[@tane6394]

Thank you for your message, my faith is being strengthened in waiting on the lord, but I just had a reality check on motive!! I really am working on root cause of some of my behaviour through trauma, but through this hardship the motive was to get her back, not continue the work of deliverance and trusting gods steps .. thank you so much! 🙏🏽 and if anyone is reading this I hope that restoration is blessed upon your relationship

[@margaret46100]

You are such a blessing to me and so many others! Thank you so much for your ministry and your faithfulness to the Lord! May God continue to use you as an instrument in the healing and growth of all who are going through the refining period. To God be the glory!!

[@samarahepburn7463]

I receive this message. Thank you Lord for your mercy.

[@Cristina_43]

Sublime message! Thank you, sir! After a month of despairing, this has set me free. God Bless ❤️🙏🏻

[@KelliReacts]

Thank you so much for allowing God to use you in this way! I needed this today. 🙏🏽

[@g0ttacrushapm]

This video is such a Blessing, today is the last day of my 7 day fast and on the 1st thing on my prayer list was to save and transform my husband then 2nd to restore our marriage. Ive been doing so much soul work in my time of Isolation, this isolation was hard, lonely and sad but so needed. I know for certain I know and serve the true living God.

[@user-xu4xj2cd2j]

Any update

[@allisiathompson4421]

Yes, any update?

[@JesusISKing95]

I turn myself and all my worries and anxieties over to you Lord. I ask that you keep me and protect me, uplift my spirit and mend my brokenness. Let you light and your love be what guides me towards a more purposeful and fulfilling future. Please continue to be with me and please be with John. Watch over him and allow your love to lift the veil of the enemy off over his eyes, and let him see clearly that it is your path he must follow to earn redemption and reconciliation. I give You full power and full reign in order for Your holiness to wash away any negative or unwanted thought. Do not let temptation come between us, and allow both of our hearts to heal under Your name and under Your will. God I give myself fully to thee and pray that you forgive me for my past transgressions and sins. Lift me up with your divine spirit and enter my heart in a way I've never thought possible. I love you Lord and I trust You. Amen.

[@timkobe487]

Perfectly written. A great prayer! I am guilty of trying to win back my wife. I should have been trusting God, not my own heart.

[@debrabenavidez3382]

Amen & Amen 🙏🏼 🙏🏼

[@lourdesgoico1502]

I am surrendering to God! Thank you

[@wishingonthemoon1]

I’m on a binge of your videos. Thank you for the work you’re doing xx If your spouse has cheated or moved in sexually, the Bible says you are released. You are obliged, biblically, to let your spouse go. If they cheat and try to say, it is biblical and holy to divorce them. It’s the only reason given.

[@jtika1978]

Very debatable. Read Hosea.

[@susanoneil9825]

Not obliged. Allowed because of the hardness of our hearts if we don't surrender to God's will.

[@lauratempestini5719]

Pray for me to TRUST!! I want to gloss over the offenses to be reunited.

[@ideeg7205]

Blessings! Thank you…this has blessed & encouraged me. Great teaching.! Thank you and God Bless You!

[@terrielalone9417]

I just love all you videos! Thank you for all that you do for so many! God Bless You!!!

[@Candlelight777]

I love that im in agreement when you pray you pray that God bring that one partner or loved one back to him not you the relationship between them and God is more importantly than you. We all need more of God and not more of people, relatives, friends ect. Though shall not have no other gods before me. We are not here to make someone our god we are neither no god to anyone. Notice I spelled these false god with a little g rather than a big g. Because God is our solution not people. Amen

[@mamag8285]

Thank you so much for sharing this, it answered so many questions, God bless you

[@maribelrivera300]

Praying that I can come closer to God, help me surrender and heal. I also pray for my deliverance. Yes Lord I want to marry Rick, but even more than this I beg that Rick is restored to God's paths, even if I lose him. Lord I want a Covenant Sanctified Marriage, but our salvation even more. Help me God, I can't do this alone, help me to trust You, you first. I also bring to you my Adult children. Lead me, cleanse me. I want You first

[@antoinettebranellec5374]

All Glory to Almighty God in Christ Jesus' name through the Power of His Holy Spirit Amen. May Almighty God continue to Bless you and your precious family and ministry in Christ Jesus' name Amen.

[@Shiwaitamba19834]

Thank you I needed this wisdom.

[@julielees8833]

Thank you for these videos! God is good!

[@betsyjohnson9213]

In my disparity, I find myself noticing you links, finally I'm watching you videos. I pray we both heal, but his healing has to be of his choice and it starts with him reaching out to God. For God's always been there, even when he falls, just he won't reach his hand out. So here I pray for me, for him foe God to lead us .

[@williambutler337]

That was such an incredible message. Thank you so much 🙌 ❤️

[@vanessa8002]

Thank you Lord for showing me this channel, with true teachings from You. i'm getting more and more closer to You.

[@joyofsalvation100]

Good teaching. Well spoken. Thanks.

[@philippians.4.8]

Thank you so much Mr. Herbst for freely sharing your gifts of teacher, mentor, discernment, counselor, etc with us.

[@terrivaughn5909]

Thiis is such a great teaching! Thank you sir!

[@La-bq6jj]

Thank you!! This was very helpful

[@mariajanineminoza4473]

You are a blessing ❤️ Thank you. Praise God.

[@T.Barnes]

OMG, this bless my heart SO much!!!!!

[@cynthiakudzie]

Thank you for such a timely message. It really spoke to my heart. God bless you

[@jeanniemcdade6585]

Thank you Dominic, May God continue to Bless you and your teachings.

[@elh5825]

Thank God so much for His revelations through you, may God continue to bless your ministry.

[@tonyaking-charlton6570]

My GOD...Thank you Jesus.. I'm listening

[@Jesusislord22]

Wow sir thank u soooo much this help immensely! God bless you brother !

[@timbongterence1400]

I thank my dear lovely father in heaven through your son Jesus christ Amen

[@sylviacollins652]

THANK YOU HEAVENLY FATHER!! This is an answer to prayer...every question I had in my heart was answered...ONLY GOD!!! Lord God, I pray for my daughter and granddaughter...I commit them to you...please protect them from the adversary...help me to trust you more /to cast all my cares upon you. Help me to cast down the "what if's and create in me a clean heart with pure motives, oh God. I pray your perfect will be done. My heart's desire is for total healing and reconciliation with my daughter. Bless your HOLY NAME, JESUS!

[@aforjesus2413]

Thank you. NZ❤.God bless

[@verodianakifita896]

Amen🙏🙌thank you Lord

[@ansonawilliams6792]

Wonderful teaching

[@crustydragonslayer]

So true. I made a mess of things.

[@lilvon9942]

Amen

[@lc8491]

This is just brilliant

[@nunyabb]

Thank you for your videos ❤

[@jameshaynes6992]

Please pray for my marriage James & Kai I miss her terribly. I turned it over to God 100%. I pray 2-3 hrs a day, praying fervently .. I have suffered greatly. Nothing I have done deserves this treatment.

[@jtika1978]

You have to remember we wrestle not with flesh and blood. It’s so hard to remember this when our spouse hurts us. But they are under demonic influence or even control in some cases (my husband’s).

[@karagill203]

SO GOOD!!!!! Have you/can you do a video on intercession and "how to"?

[@sallyooko1464]

Thank you for this

[@idelkafermin4820]

I should’ve known this before!😮

[@TaniJohnson]

Thank you!!!

[@chrismathew1952]

Powerful

[@kathzambas6827]

I pray that God will touch Mads' heart & be opened to reach out to me. I pray Mads will completely trust God in everything, increase his faith, & obey God's plans for him & for us, not lean on his own understanding & plans. I pray God will heal & restore my relationship with Mads...to part the waters in front of us & make Mads see that God is paving the way for us to finally be together & progress to marriage. May God keep Mads' body pure for me & keep him away from all the temptations & remove his desire of flesh. I ask these in Jesus' name. Amen.

[@leomireles2024]

Right on time.

[@Nobodyscreen]

Best video

[@Nobodyscreen]

Thank you sir.

[@godsown7947]

Amen !

[@maribelrivera300]

I am so trying, I fail much. This man is I have loved for 30+years. We been seeing eachother for 2yrs 8 months. He has pulled away, and I have made mistakes in wanting to bring him back, I know I have faults too, and yes we both need healing and deliverance. I myself have been struggling with surrender, I try but then I find myself trying to reach out. I am praying on this for Grace to let him go. But now I hurt cause he is going to start to date someone else. And it hurts so much, cause I live him and been praying and fasting for both of us to come into a sanctified covenant marriage. I don't want to see him with another, to shame me with bringing another to his apartment. We live next door to eachother. I hurt, but I so want to be with God first and I wanted to love Rick with and through God, I never wanted to place him above God. I want to finally marry Rick but I want him more for God, I pray for strength and help in surrender and the ability to truly let him go, and focus solely of God, in Jesus Name

[@maribelrivera300]

Still praying for them and myself daily

[@lovejones1897]

​@@maribelrivera300if he isn't your husband God is telling you to let go so he can send your spouse

[@sheilastuart6611]

@@lovejones1897how do you know what God is telling her? You don’t.

[@aagapeministeriosibarra4175]

GOD # 1 - Build my self with God first - face to face - peace and diligence - step by step - NEVER BE IN A HURRY

[@alnisaeaddy-glover1620]

Thx!!

[@franceswright7390]

Thank you for your message. I needed this so much. I will trust God and not fear.

[@dhanbiswa3561]

Thanks God

[@charlemagneclamosa6775]

pls pray for my spouse Honeymae Clamosa and I Charlemagne Clamosa to be restored..and to fully surrender our lives into our Lord Jesus Christ..Let the Lord direct our step..and I surrender all to you Lord and ask for forgiveness..pls pray for us..my dying marriage.

[@Jewelkraft.]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@tracyhamilton8439]

May Fredrick heart be drawn towards me In Jesus mighty name Amen

[@sandiebeach0926]

What do I do when he wants to come around, spend time with us? Will I be getting in the way? Or is this Gods way of touching him and softening his heart?

[@lke4907]

You should let him be around you if you have the Holy Spirit living in you! Show him the love of Christ Jesus.

[@samelamare-xb4re]

amen

[@adriannakukielka6941]

I feel attacked😂 I can definitely say I’ve been selfish and that’s one reason why I’m in this situation.😣

[@lauratempestini5719]

Please pray a strong aversion for my husband to a years long companionship that took my place!!! 😭

[@zukelwakalipa740]

Wisdom 👌

[@alliyalove5891]

Please my fiance walked out on me today and I'm pregnant please I pray that he forgive me and come back and I pray that God for give me too for my mistakes 🙏 Amen

[@janegriffin3872]

My husband is still home- what would you all say about that? He is quiet, detached- 6 mos ago he started to go through a depression and the. 2 weeks later he is questyhis love for me. It was bazar and hurtful. He seems to feel better from the depression but still verbalizing even in his counseling- with a Christian he is not sure if he wants to stay married. He is a believer which is ironic! It’s like he left God-

[@illegitimategame]

All True

[@Nobodyscreen]

34:30 amen

[@ChrystalSafariRoy]

🗡🔥♥️

[@Nobodyscreen]

28:30 yes

[@JMAGIORDANO1]

Great teaching! Thanks! My question is if I still wear the ring, how could it be possible for her to think I am not there any more waiting on her. Any suggestion?

[@donnabootes7272]

I still wear my ring too and I still have our wedding photo on my bedside table so I'd like to ask the same question

[@shannonalleman2801]

I do not contact my husband surrender him to God. What about family members of his? I have a close relationship with my mother in law.. I have stopped talking to her unless she text me first but should I stop all together?

[@user-mf1xn8ie5z]

What if my prodigal does not want or seek God’s restoration?

[@Nobodyscreen]

29:00 yeah you heard

[@marcs-mn4jr]

Restore my relationship with my ex partner and daughter after I mess up relationship

[@pierrehoneywood5347]

Please I need prayers for my marriage me and my wife is separated