How To Dress Effortlessly Stylish Every Day

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Hi lovely KZbin friends. I hope you are all well. I thought you'd like a video on how to look stylish with very little effort - just some easy ways which you can adapt to your own wardrobe and your own style. I hope you like it! Lots of love. Deirdre. XX

[@FR-tb7xh]

That last outfit - the black silk pants and shell, the sand cardigan, the strappy heels, were especially ‘upped’ with your family bag with that surprise pop of red! Perfect! 😍

[@gkiniolga71]

A timeless silky shirt is a statement piece of our wardrobe. Impeccable outfits!!!

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Thank you so much, Olga. XX

[@MiaHessMusic]

I have yto wear sunglasses, no matter what the weather! So I'm with you, Deirdre!

[@jacquelinedonoghue2135]

I love the black patterned lily silk blouse Deirdre…..lots of great ideas and food for thought. I have to adapt the looks because I’m 5ft tall and size 12 bottom 14 top so tucking things in isn’t a good look on me, but I wear similar to what you’ve shown and leave things untucked and sometimes, if it suits the outfit I’ll use a belt. It’s a matter of getting a good look for your figure. Your tiny figure can carry anything, but your wonderful ideas can be adapted. Thank you so enjoyed it all 🌸

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Thanks Jacqueline. Yes, you are right of course; it's all a question of adapting looks to what suits each individual person. XX

[@marisanepote9255]

You always look great , but today when I first saw you I Said-Wow you look gorgeous! That color looks great on you!

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Oh thank you! XX

[@Melaniexb1]

We loved all the outfits and of course your very helpful explanations of each selection, Yes it is wonderful when you share the family heirloom luxury pieces!

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

So happy that you liked it, Melanie xx

[@vworre2589]

I’ve absolutely been captivated by your channel. I’ve loved all of these looks for years, but never has anyone explained how to pair your clothing. After all these years I finally get it. Instead of searching for a particular look I’ve seen in a magazine, or on women I’ve seen in Paris. I finally understand how I can pair these pieces with numerous pieces other pieces in my closet. The rule of 3, and finally get it. Wearing shades of neutral colors I finally understand. Trust me, this isn’t a talent we’ve all been blessed with. Reminds me of trying to understand calculus in school, then one day a tutor explained the rules of calculus in a way that I understood, and I wanted to do a happy dance! Thank you so much for creating your wonderful channel.

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Thank you so much for your really generous comments. So happy to help. XX

[@Melaniexb1]

Ps just wandered if you wanted to share an update of your health! Continuing you in prayer, because we just love you and look forward to your videos each week!

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

That's so sweet of you, Melanie. I am a lot better than before but, to be honest, I'm starting to get stressed again - probably due to overwork and the run up to the festive season which is always busy. I was talking to a friend today (medically trained) and she said that it's very common for menopausal women to become much more anxious and stressed very easily. I must try to calm myself more! Lots of love. XX

[@Melaniexb1]

Awe Sweet Deirdre, I will continue to pray that you find a happy medium for all your stressful thinking! Yes , I agree with your friend, Fortunate for me I am only affected by spontaneous stress occasions that turn into a instant hot flash. Even though I feel , that I am through menopause 100percent! And Visualizing perfection in everything you do, I can see how it would be quite hard for you to not want to give 100 percent . Praying that your festive holiday, goes smoothly and according to plan ;) Maybe you could take Mr Fred Rodgers point of view, Through Daniel the Tiger teaching.. When you want to calm down….. (Stop what your doing ….hug your self) To Calm down “Give a squeeze , nice and slow, Take a deep breath And let it go!” I find my selfing using the “When your mad enough , That you want to ROAR Take a deep breath And count to 4 1 2 3 4” ( It really helps me , to refocus ) God’s continued blessings upon you! Melanie :)

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

@@Melaniexb1 I love this! Thank you. XXXX

[@monikamichaelis-iw3to]

You wear everything so well. With your figure and manners, everything goes together beautifully.

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Oh thank you! Xx

[@classyvintagetravels6744]

Love the black panda and beige sweater combo! Marie

[@wendymcaleer5983]

Fab outfits! I’d wear sunglasses at dusk😉Lol. ❤️🇨🇦❤️

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Xx

[@anne-mariewalsh6786]

Love the outfits. Really good on you 👍🥰

[@mariec6419]

Beautiful outfits Deirdre 😍 It's definately worth investing in quality, timeless pieces. That's my aim going forward so thank you for doing the hard work and sharing your inspiration with us 💞

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

So happy that you liked it xx

[@marymayer8304]

I truly enjoyed this video. The pieces you showed were lovely. I particularly liked the printed silk shirt with the black pants.....so flattering! You look awesome 👌!!

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Thank you so much xx

[@scara1859]

You can find similar items at any store from Walmart to Kohls, etc…they will not be super quality but you won’t be as worried when holding the baby or getting stains from anything….take the ideas and find your own look and budget.

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Absolutely! I am here for inspiration! XX

[@terridee9637]

Outfit 5 is my fave! Looks like how I dress I like the idea of keeping the jacket fitted and open Very slimming! Also the black silk blouse is lovely❤

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Thanks Terri. Xx

[@gamacaluso]

Absolutely love all your outfits! Such great suggestions 🤗 I’ll be watching this video again for inspiration especially during the holidays! 🥰

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

So happy you liked it. XX

[@victoriahole4717]

Deirdre you always look beautiful. Thank for sharing such wonderful ideas. We love the sand color silk blouse. It looks so elegant. We hope and your hubby have a blessed and wonderful Thanksgiving. Blessings Hugs Love Victoria and Barbara ❤️❤️❤️🦃🦃🦃

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Aww, thank you so much Victoria. Happy Thanksgiving to you, Barbara and all your family too. Xx

[@mizfrenchtwist]

hello , great share . all of the stylings were fabulousa😊😊😊. again , great share as usual thank you , for sharing..........🥰🥰🥰🥰..............

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

You're so welcome. Xx

[@janetshanks6452]

Loved the video and I love classic pieces of clothing. I find a problem with jewellery as I wear glasses all the time and keep wearing the same gold studs and same gold chain when I put anything else on I just feel over done I have tried different things but feel I end up looking like a Christmas tree. Can you offer any advice to ladies like myself.

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Hi Janet. I think if you have found your "go-to" jewellery of choice and you feel comfortable wearing it, then there's no reason to change. If, on the other hand, you want to alter your look a little, how about using the same concept of jewellery (e.g. your gold stud earrings) but elevating the style a little - perhaps upgrade to some different styles of stud- shaped earrings - or very small hoops. XX

[@carolinew6095]

Deirdre, you have done it again! Thank you for being so inspirational! The outfits you have chosen are sublime! You always look so fabulous and elegant! I have really noticed a difference in how I shop for and curate my wardrobe since watching your channel. I now enjoy receiving more compliments than when I was younger ❤

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

That’s so sweet of you, Caroline thank you xx

[@joanannewallace]

You're certainly a great model for Lilysilk as all the items look fabulous.

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

That’s sweet of you, thank you. All the items ARE fabulous! Xx

[@andreedubreuil7594]

One very important item, which is an essential, comforting item in life after 50 is: How to relax and feel great in your pajamas, lounging and evening. After all, that's when you're relaxing and Need to just let your body and mind chill. From cashmere joggers, to Ll bean flannel nightgowns, from sexy silks, or short and sassy nights. Yep, ladies, after hours, let's get going And Deidre, I am sure will get the results❤

[@barbarabb2178]

Thank you for fantastic ideas! I loved all the outfits. I must admit number 5 is very similar to my everyday outfit. However, I LOVED the brown blouse from no 4. Simple yet truly chic!!!

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Thanks so much, Barbara. XX

[@lindahawes3725]

Love your video luv that silky blouse just bought a lovely white shirt which I think goes with a lots of things luv watching ❤❤❤😊

[@veronicadowney6604]

Great suggestions, Deirdre. I have a pair of silk joggers and was wondering how to style them.

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Glad it was helpful! XX

[@ManceyJG55]

The vintage bag is gorgeous - is it from the 1920s or thereabouts?

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Yes, I think so. It was my grandmother's and she was young around 1920-1930. xx

[@christinegallagher2894]

Thank you for your utube channel love looking at them youve helped me so much on how to dress for my age your a very classy lady Thank you Christine Gallagher

[@jennycarley987]

Thanks for a very enjoyable video. I love Lilysilk and consider their clothes to be beautiful 'investment' pieces, so really appreciate the discount code! Cheers from Australia xx

[@joymoody2372]

Deirdre, I am loving your videos. Here's perhaps a crazy question, but I have minimal closet space (7') for hanging items: What is a reasonable number of dresses, shirts, blazers, trousers, skirts? I do go for mix & match where possible.

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

I probably do look “too smart and classic”, but I don’t care, I’m old and I’ve always hated wearing jeans - the easiest way to dress things down. I finally found my first pair that fits, they’re men’s, but I really wanted white ones, maybe in the spring.

[@tracysinger5577]

Deidre can you please do a video on shoes? I seem to suffer from too many shoes needed. I would love to hear your take on color and heel height.

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Funnily enough, I’m planning to film this exact topic next week!! Xx

[@irenemoore2196]

So so helpful

[@gloebee1]

Love silk pants, really unexpected. Love you

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Aww, that’s sweet of you. I think they’re fabulous! Xx

[@laurennguyen1008]

I love your grandmother's purse

[@sonriabooks]

I love silk shirts, but alas, I'm busty, and they tend to gape around the bust area. They just don't seem to sit right on me. I wish they would, as they look fabulous!!

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

I totally appreciate your point as I tend to have the same problem myself. As a solution, I often size up one size which sorts out the problem! XX

[@nickyonstilts128]

Fashion tape can help with the gaping between buttons in the chest area. I'm a 38D myself and short-waisted.

[@thatgirlmadge]

The link for shop my looks is not found for me when I click on it. Do you have a link you can post for the Hermes duplicate belt please? Thanks so much! Great video today as usual. I live in the US

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

So sorry my link didn't work and thanks for letting me know. Here it is: www.shopltk.com/explore/MyFriendDeirdre Hermes dupe belt link coming up!!XX

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

This is the closest I could find - amzn.to/3TAeQMi

[@thatgirlmadge]

@@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre thank you so much!

[@nancykostelac4124]

💗LilySilk

[@barbararowan8738]

A great video. And a beautiful lady

[@margaretbrown8128]

Personally I prefer you to ‘like’ an outfit without feeling you are being paid to do so. I certainly won’t pay £100+ for a blouse, cardigan or trousers, no matter how good you might look in them,knowing that you are being paid to sell them to me. Not one for me, sorry.

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

HI Margaret, I totally get what you are saying and I agree. What I will say is that I NEVER promote anything that I don't use and I don't love. So, anything that you see me talking about which may give me a small commission is also something that I truly believe in and use regularly. I selected the items that you see here because I loved them and they all looked good when they arrived and are now part of my wardrobe. I want to share that with you. As a fashion influencer, I receive emails every day asking me to promote products and I turn them down 9 times out of 10 as I don't love the product. But, thank you for a very valid point and thank you for commenting. Take care. XX.

[@scara1859]

These are ideas and suggestions you can apply to your own stores and budget😊

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

I don’t think the H&M jacket image is the same as the one you’re wearing, it has a much longer cut and a different lapel style.

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

I think it may be a newer version than mine. Take care. XX