How to Eliminate Toxic People and Build Your Inner Circle

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You deserve more. More influence, more income, more of what you want. I would be honored to help you. My name is Vanessa Van Edwards, and I’m a recovering awkward person. I’m also the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People (www.scienceofpeople.com/capti..., Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication (www.scienceofpeople.com/cues/), and creator of People School(www.scienceofpeople.com/peopl....
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[@ScienceOfPeople]

Register for our goal-setting class! www.scienceofpeople.com/2024goals

[@nandinidash3195]

Yeah, sometimes it is really difficult but not impossible to remove toxic people from your life.

[@audreaturgeman]

You explained this point so well Vanessa I love how authentic you are This really made me think about leading with my heart Thank you so much for all the wonderful content you spread

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thank you so much ❤ I'm so glad this resonated with you!!

[@susanmeadors2733]

I like this. What a great exercise to do on a yearly basis to figure out who really supports you and who doesn’t. She is right, Seriously!! Get away from the people you question!!! I have been around a person that does not support me for way too long. I wanted to be her friend but over the years she has done so many things that I was asking others is that weird, or she did ____, what does that mean. But every one thinks she is so great! But she has done everything to hold me back. Run from that person, they are not good for you!!

[@ScienceOfPeople]

I'm so glad you were able to let go of that person in your life! There are so many other people out there that will genuinely support you and root for you.

[@MrTotty1978]

What if the toxic people are family or even parents?

[@ScienceOfPeople]

This can be so tricky. You might not be able to completely cut them off, especially if they’re immediate family, but you can set boundaries. You can limit the time you spend with them or avoid certain topics that might trigger negativity. The important part is that your well-being should be a priority. I have a whole article on boundaries that may help: www.scienceofpeople.com/how-to-set-boundaries/

[@leelasaraswat4662]

Fantastic presentation!

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thank you! ❤ So glad you enjoyed!

[@alphabeta8403]

3:25 *Outer to inner and vice versa* 4:00 Ambivalent people

[@deuteronomy3162]

This is a really helpful video thank you. Also I love your hair and aesthetics. I would love to see a favs and rebuy video. Your se is on point. So se is a cognitive function. For instance my functions are te ni se fi and then when I'm recalibrating in ti ne si fe. I suspect you are enfj so yours are fe ni se ti and your recalibration is infp fi ne si te. I love how typing someone helps me understand how their mind works.

[@ScienceOfPeople]

So glad you found this one helpful! 🙏 Personality types are so interesting.

[@artisticagi]

This is so great! How do you figure out if they are in or out people? What questions do you ask, what behaviors should you observe and be wary of

[@artisticagi]

3:31

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Ask yourself: Do you want to spend a day with this person? If yes, they are an in person. If they are a no, they are an out page.

[@unknownstranger6875]

Thank you, I’m adding all this on my goals journal.

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Yay that's great!!

[@vania698]

Thank you!

[@njaneardude]

This is brilliant.

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thank you so much!

[@N5555b]

Hi, How can you expand the inner circle when there are not many people with an arrow inside in the outer circle or there are no people in the outer circle at all?

[@ScienceOfPeople]

You are not alone! Start spending time WHERE your ideal friends would be hanging out. Would they be at dance classes? Hiking? Friends of friends houses? Go where they are to build a bigger circle.

[@japoncercatieymi5567]

🖐️ Hi! Please subtitles in spanish 🙏

[@texaslovelylady]

You and Shasta Nelson should do an event or something together.

[@JerryCherryBand]

Good stuff but your volume is half of where it should be. I want to hear you.

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thank you for this feedback!

[@JerryCherryBand]

My pleasure. Seen you on Think Media and wanted to see your channel ❤@@ScienceOfPeople

[@autoclearanceuk7191]

I only know one positive, clever, hard-working, ambitious person. I totally want her in my life. I do my best to message her and connect. She replies to be polite. But she does not initiate conversations with me. How do I get her to be my main buddy ?

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Great question! Here's an article that may help: www.scienceofpeople.com/how-to-make-friends/