How to be indispensable, appreciated, and respected by everyone in your life

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Check out the full article on this topic here: www.scienceofpeople.com/underestimated/

[@bijanteimourian1927]

Is it true that american army has photoelectron weapon that has an effect on brain?( x-ray laser capable of conveying electron )

[@ugoonyekwelu3269]

My Quest now is seeing how to inspire my people to commit to nation building not waiting for the government to do everything for them. Our villages are being washed away by gully erosion devastating our ecosystem, our roads and destroying peoples homes. The government has played a deaf ears and my people are sitting down hoping that a miracle will happen someday while the situation gets worst. I need you to guide me on how to motivate my people into taking positive actions to stop this erosion menace in our community. Thank you.

[@henrysantos7160]

Vanessa Van Edwards,{°❤️°} I like to say Thanks so much to your mom and dad To have a beautiful and gorgeous daughter So sweet and real smart God bless you every single day So much beauty.🌹.

[@bonjo8165]

That's it, exactly! My sister is a dream killer. But, she does give really good feed back. She will definitely tell you exactly what she thinks. Thank you, for helping so many people!

[@bonjo8165]

what do you do if you are really not good at what they want you to do or don't want to do it?

[@bart7874]

A good quest for confidence is "meet 100 people in 1 month" that could be as easy as asking for directions or trying to have a full on conversation with somebody new (has to be new people), a good way to make this even more effective is talking to people you find attractive, by the end of the month you will see that speaking to others is so much easier than before

[@conversationcorner1837]

Asking for directions should not really count. Striking a conversation with a complete stranger and holding the conversation for about a minute is where it's at.

[@stephanieholts7685]

Quality not quantity

[@Angell_Lee]

I love to be underestimated, it allows me to move in silence and make big moves until it's too late for them to want to stop me. :)

[@mikitooo]

Slayy

[@sleeprelaxation8431]

Yes

[@hetedeleambacht6608]

downfall is you have to work alone, no collegues

[@haridineevikhe8549]

You are a beautiful and powerful influence in my life! I feel lucky to have found you Venessa❤️❤️❤️

[@sabermense1702]

thank you. my quest to becoming a good video editor, videographer and a good script writer just being ignited with your big words, miss Vanessa.

[@ScienceOfPeople]

I'm so happy to hear that! Honored to help ❤

[@aylannapriscila]

I have found your videos by chance, because I'm trying to improve my English skills. However, that's a such a great content, I'm in love with your thoughts, thank you so much for them!!!

[@YourMindinBloom]

Aylanna, hi, you can reach out to me if need help with your English skills.

[@joydipmalakar7467]

I am here too to improve my English 🌝

[@aprendiendoespanol2359]

I also improving my listennig skills by listennig to her. I thougth I was the only one hahah

[@DharmaJulia]

Seem with me

[@MsSimple001]

oh hey! found my people here 😊 i'm trying to improve my rusty English with her because her contents are very interesting and that the ways she spoke is very clear and pleasing to my ear. a plus that i will never get bored listening to her which is the most important factor 😂 glad I'm not the only one here

[@sidrakamal3595]

Takeaways: reflect on if you underestimate yourself, operate from a position of power not need, put yourself in a project(increases confidence), listen to dream killers to improve but when need to be motivated listen to dream builders, make a list of technical skills and people skills, make list of 10 people to move on from

[@alcudiababe1]

The giving story reminds me of a talk you've done with Lisa on the Women of Impact Show because what you said about focussing on other people instead of trying to sound smart, be savvy or something like that but when you engage with the person or group of people you take the focus off yourself and you start looking for and reading into their cues and by listening to them, making them feel heard, valued that they have something interesting and worthwhile to contribute it makes sense you'd leave with offers rather than tying to drum your business across to them. It all starts with connection.

[@marlonjones2460]

The success file is a terrific idea! It has become easier for me to appreciate myself more since I have limited my exposure to toxic religion. Much of my childhood and a good part of my adult life was spent in church. We were taught that it was a virtue to be humble and that all pride is sinful. I had no idea how harmful these thoughts and ideas were to my self esteem. I began to realize the main reason I felt unappreciated was because I downplayed myself to others. I put a lid on my light to allow other people to shine at the expense of my self esteem. That is no longer the case and I am still learning how to be better at this as time goes on.

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thank you for sharing this ❤ you deserve to let your light shine!

[@HabitLabPodcast]

My quest is to improve my storytelling and videos I started making on KZbin. I went from barely posting online so sharing things I’m learning and putting out videos consistently. ☺️ The success file is a great idea! I think it’s so easy to forget the how good we really when we are only focusing on all the things we don’t do right 😅. I’ll be starting one right away. Thank you

[@Omnamahshivay8079]

I pledge to develop the following technical skills : 1. Excel 2. Ms office People skills . 1. Learn another language

[@bethiciaprasek9415]

Are you going to focus on one over the next month, or all four? What will you do the first month? Sign up for classes? Why do you want to accomplish these specific goals? I think all these are worthwhile to pursue. :) Looks like you are proactive which is great!

[@kogiclare1561]

My Quest the first time I listened to it was go back to school... now graduating in Oct.. (Masters, MBA) Thank you Jesus

[@shynessbreakthroughcommuni826]

Love the idea of quests and to be constantly improving. If you are constantly improving, your own worth and value will increase!

[@brittanyjernigan]

This is the first time I've commented on a you tube video! My quest is going to volunteer at my local humane society. I want to be able to walk dogs confidently. Being able to walk different types of dogs successfully can be a challenge. Dogs can sense your emotional state without saying anything. Today is my first day volunteering. That's why I stumbled upon your videos because I was nervous about meeting the other volunteers. Thank you for the great tips. I'll let you know how it goes.

[@macavelli8905]

Best way to calm yourself is to speak it as you did,now I'm sure you did fine. And you set the the table by admitting you were nervous.

[@lauragodines8939]

Hello...so how that go with your dogs? Are they behaving good? I love dogs..but sometimes they are so disobedient...

[@stericardo]

Yes Vanessa completely agree with you. Around my past I had negative people underestimated me and at the end I improve in a lot of areas of my life personal and professional, resulting on several international certifications, learn a new Language and be involve in a continuous learning process thanks a lot for your videos your improve the life of thousands people around the world.

[@davidsolinski2988]

I wish I'd found this channel years ago. Not only are you breathtakingly beautiful, you're breathtakingly intelligent. Subscriber for life

[@sylviekaiser1064]

Number 9 deserves to be #1- everything flows from

[@mycoal3016]

My quest: Go to a barber and get my haircut. I've avoided barbers for 28 years. Thanks for the courage to make change.

[@stephanyhalo592]

Don’t find your worth in other people and you’re golden

[@bstewnog]

My new quest is learning American Sign Language and be able to have a simple ASL conversation in 2023. ❤️ Thank you for your encouragement.

[@DemiBrown]

So much value from a single video. If people actively and assertively work on 75% of the tips you mentioned, they'll definitely see improvements in their lives and relationships. Thank you vanessa❤

[@javidmoh2295]

One of your most informative and mind-boggling vids ever! Watched it 3times and took 2A4 pages note! Thanks!

[@issakkat346]

You know I've done a lot of stuff around the city. From cleaning alot o junk that was in front of Walmart and other business to picking up trash on my way walking home. It gets frustrating cause at the time I was homeless and doing to stay warm at night. I appreciate the positive resourceful information that can help me out in all areas i need improvement on. I really hope I accomplish some in life. Thank you again ✌️

[@hayatalturki9995]

I'm having a cup of coffee ☕️ and watching your lovely videos that just radiates a lot of energy and passion 😍 Please keep them coming, I'm sure I and so many others enjoy/need them! ❤️

[@zonaclinica]

This is one of the best videos you' ve made lately, it has so much useful information and you put it on a way that makes you want to do it !... A video to be seen several times, thank you !

[@evelynalbina2154]

Hi I’m Evelyn J. Albina from the Philippines, I wanna let you know that I really love watching you giving ideas to encourage people become the very best of themselves, may you be blessed always! Stay sound and safe! ❤️❤️❤️

[@Hopeful12421]

I have social anxiety that’s been getting worse due to isolation and losing almost all my social skills 😂 but i’m so glad i discovered your channel. Watching this helped me restore some faith in myself and gave me motivation to keep pushing. Thank you! 🥰

[@isaacasdreams]

I got rid of my toxic friends and now I have no friends! She keeps me strong!! I can find new better friends ez.

[@texaslovelylady]

😂🙌🏼

[@vasudevannataraj]

I’m in a 90 day health challenge. Feeling excited. Thanks a lo for you videos...!!!

[@kirtiajmera7103]

Subconscious. Is the . thing.. you put second v by second ..that makes you a personality...no one can overnight..luv ya. More than I can.

[@sreckobutorac7777]

Great video. Thank you Vanessa. I've been underestimated whole my life by people mostly because of my awful people skills (I especially hate being around pushy loud people, alpha male or female type - I just can't get along with them and trying to avoid this kind of people at all cost).

[@hannnahliu3252]

Thank you so much Vanessa! Your video is brilliant! About how to deal with dream killers, it’s very insightful. Instead of avoid them, embrace them! Translate their negative whistles into constructive suggestions👍

[@mels7938]

I'm so happy I found you. You have changed my life. Thank you so much

[@mohdh1129]

this woman is AMAZING

[@pablojpadilla9460]

My wife and I watched this together and we’d re like wowwwww!

[@fernandomaciel2509]

I loved the video... It's very complicated in our Globalized world not understimate ourserlves. It seems everyone is better than us... BUT, we have to switch the key, our MINDSET and feel more confident.

[@paratrucos]

Actually, I watch your KZbin videos as a mean to improve my English. Especially my listening skills. In fact, you have helped me a lot with them. Thanks so much :)

[@YourMindinBloom]

Paratrucos, hi, you can reach out to me if you need help with your English skills.

[@suzannejoseph9968]

Love the idea of Quests....and your energy. Thankyou for the inspiration.

[@aotheblithe7253]

This rings very true for me. Ever since I finally landed my first full time position, I immediately hit up the backburner and stopped learning. I can see all my classmates of the past moving onto the next stages in life, and Im on my own still longing for things of the past i never did.

[@josecosta9058]

Thanks for make difference in people's lives you're a bless to those struggles to make their lives easier

[@aydoganilhan1]

Hi Vanessa, greetings from Turkey. I was in search of a book in Goodreads when I have heard about you. As soon as I start to digest your work online, I see improvements in myself, starting from my general mood. Your "quest" is really admirable! Thank you very much!

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Wow, thank you! So glad you're benefiting.

[@YourMindinBloom]

I love all of your videos. I share them with people. Thank you!

[@celesteryder5251]

Vanessa, great pep talk with concrete steps to boost self-confidence. So much fun to watch.!! I'm psyched to be more prepared and excited about choir directing so that others feel happier and more confident following my direction, and to finish painting our Church's deacon doors with prayer, grace, love and beauty.

[@chrisc6494]

you are such a blessing and amzing woman. Thank you for making those videos…Just want to add some people might seems to be dream. builders and to be positive but if they are discouraging you, they are toxic and worst dream killers…avoid them at all costs and be careful!

[@luwamzumara4361]

Wow! This is amazing!! So so informative, transformative, and relatable.

[@syzygy4365]

I'm so glad I decided to revisit your videos. To be quite honest I feel like I've lost a lot of my confidence trying to rebuild my business. It's pretty unnerving when your supposed to hold your head up high and walk like a queen. I have a bunch of messages from former clients I can go through to help me gain some of my courage back. Thank you!! 🥰

[@brandonhunt133]

The bit about leveraging dream killers is brilliant.

[@guadalupefelix5877]

I love your books and all your videos. I learn from all your resources. Thanks for sharing.

[@rolandodelrio6828]

Wonderful sharing and explanation on how not to be underestimated.

[@mariferavery7646]

Hi Vanessa. Thank you for the video! I wished you could have met my dad. He was the most social person I have ever seen. His influence was unmatched... Over 1,000 people showed up to his funeral from Big cities to rural towns. He was a journalist and believed in dialogue and respect. He was so well liked that he never needed to make appointments. He just went to where the person was at... and usually the other person would see my dad and invite him in no matter what because they liked him around. I wish I could write down everything he taught me and share with you. Thanks for the great content...

[@kristaingleby3126]

Your Amazing! Thank you for making these videos! I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS!

[@khuynh4378]

Ms. Edwards, I wish I had ten thumbs to thank you for this great lesson!

[@skyrenvisuals]

Your message is like an apple in a golden basket..very timely in my current situation

[@Nails_bruh]

The “smart phrases” are just people pleasing phrases, but the rest of the video is lovely

[@Nails_bruh]

What I mean is… I’d say these types of things and end up with way more than I could do. I learned that it’s not a good idea unless you want to be stuck with far too much, and more. You offer help once and then suddenly they use you for EVERYTHJNG, and FOREVER. 😬 not fun

[@shardagovindu]

This is such a valuable training ! Thank you, Vanessa !!!

[@gilroybrown9921]

Really glad I watched this. Really need to build many more people skills and be very confident. Hope I will follow your advice.

[@sabrinashaulis6869]

Wow! Your video is so informative! Its an entire workshop condensed in this 16 minute video. I took so many notes and will take the steps. As a life coach myself, I am so impressed! Thank you for giving so much of yourself so we can grow!

[@ricead]

You're never too anything (old, young, immature, whatever your too is) to learn from Passionate Vanessa. Simple ideas you can easily do.

[@regbaker56]

Vanessa, you always come up with a fresh way of presenting positives to help people, Thank you

[@ScienceOfPeople]

You are so welcome! Thanks for watching. :)

[@siddharthakumarrai3192]

Hey Vanessa ! Was just thinking about you! And here u upload, it's just so interesting to watch your videos!

[@stormlandsman1948]

Where have you been all my life? So grateful to of come across you Vanessa!!! Pleased to meet you!!

[@cruzfernandez4554]

WOW. I am very pleased with your energy and talent. I been learning so much from you. Thank you Vanessa!

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thanks for hanging out 😊

[@khadeejaeverywhere]

You are one of the reasons I have changed a lot! I love your videos and I am so happy to see your success♥️🔥 wish you all the best😍

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thank you for being here! =) That's amazing, I'm happy to hear about your success!

[@Misha_FoundingNationOrg]

Just found you and you are my people! I too read microexpressions and feel like an awkward person and grossly underestimated! Have Captivate on order and am binging your videos. Thanks for making me feel more comfortable knowing others like me can actually be successful doing something you love!

[@abueglarra]

You're a bestie I ever needed in my life!

[@Gab963]

I am happy to have found your channel and I love your content and how you articulate every thing. I surrounded with alot of negative energy and improving each and every day by watching your videos. I love your confidence

[@virginiadavidson7862]

Thank you for the push in the right direction! I tend to dream long-term, and don't accomplish as much toward my "goals" as I wish. But setting a manageable *chunk* of the goal--with a DATE on it!--that offers real potential! So, here's my list for the immediate future--the 60 days you suggested: 1. Learn how to fire vitreous paint on stained glass, in a microwave kiln. [Finish the glass-on-glass mosaic window for which the vitreous paint is needed.] 2. Develop a small chorale group at church. [We sang once, but following through to to sing again--and again and again--will require not only reawakened musical abilities, but also people skills. I can't be a choir all by my self! 😄] 3. Make a dress form. [I've been needing to sew new clothes for myself, to fill gaps in my wardrobe. Having a dress form that exactly mirrors my body, with its scoliosis and the late-60s pudge that I haven't been able to throw away, would greatly facilitate fitting.] 4. Reconcile with a friend who misunderstood me and tried to "humble" me. [What did she see? What could I learn from her? Or do I need to let her stay in the category of "acquaintance"?] Those four would make a good start on a long list. It'll be exciting to grow!

[@ScienceOfPeople]

This is amazing! Thank you for sharing, this is an amazing list! You'll have to let me know as you check things off! to your success =)

[@amanuelageze3467]

I'm uplifted by your steps on the video right now. Thanks for carrying for those who are or fill underestimated and stand to help us. wish u the Best

[@AnnieSophonASK1]

You are now officially my every day dose

[@VictorUmeh]

4 mins in and I'm sold. Great video! 🙃

[@VIDSInsight]

Great pieces of advice, Vanessa! I just realized I have been applying all your suggestions unconsciously.

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Excellent! They'll be even more impactful with some new awareness now :)

[@cristinareimers7833]

I need to learn how to build a solid network (technical skill) and I need to learn how to sell (human skill). Thank you, Vanessa!

[@ScienceOfPeople]

You're so welcome!

[@rupachemudupathi9569]

Such a practical ways to over come my gosh! I actually started making my success file once I started my job , because I am said I was not doing enough , so I did it in anger that helped me further a lot ! I also have to be list but never heard of people skill list wow !

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Oh yay I'm so glad you tried it out!

[@rupachemudupathi9569]

@@ScienceOfPeople ya

[@luzbelitausa]

This is my favorite video so far.

[@houseofjhoanna8163]

I am learning a lot from your videos🥰 thanks and God bless you🙏🙏🙏

[@joannametayer8628]

Wow what a video. Your energy is so magnetic . Your a great teacher and make lessons fun. I learned so much from this video that I will rewatch to take notes to now apply. I was doing a lot wrong and I feel like I just got the solutions. Thanks Vanessa Again!!

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Wow, thank you Joanna!! I'm so glad it was helpful for you. ❤

[@tiniciayoung]

This video is GOLD!!!!! SERIOUSLY!!!

[@yasminelahnin377]

You're a life saver! God bless

[@dalegrange7503]

Hi Vanessa.. I watched many of your videos. You always try to help people And share your own experiences. I learn. Something new each time. Thanks for all you do

[@ggeoffgllnr6482]

Thanks Mom!

[@moshfequelalam354]

It's really a great lesson learned from this video about underestimate. Thanks again.

[@parisjoy7875]

My technical skills I’m learning is cooking & cleaning. I just invested in joining a online group dedicated on those two. My soft skill is negotiation. I’m taking a online Yale class on negotiation. Excited for it.

[@shushanabrahamyan3464]

I’m impressed.You are amazing.Your videos are beathtaking.Thanks a lot for possitive impact.❤️

[@Twan_01]

i love you! thank you for all the good advice you give. how i didnt discover you sooner will be a mystery. but the fact that i did is one of them most memorable experiences of my life

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Glad you are here! Thanks for watching!

[@gballmaier]

Nice audio. Sounds clean and clear. Great job, it's rare

[@sindypetronella]

U have changed my life

[@CowboyCash]

You are amazing..I love how you explain things and break things down..I am so grateful you went on Lewis Howles because I follow him and I would have never known about you otherwise..you’re amazing… Grazzi mile for your quest it’s working!

[@vnaykmar7]

You are amazing venessa. You are changing my life! thank you for this great video 😊

[@ScienceOfPeople]

You're so welcome!

[@bhanu99-1]

Thanks, nice video

[@ralfj.1740]

Quests and skills are so important for building up your confidence. It's not that important what kinds of skills you have but try to be good at something! Great video Vanessa!

[@TalD]

Thank you so much for this, Vanessa! I'm a long-time follower and first-time poster. I felt compelled to comment on this video as it really resonated with me. The biggest take-away for me is to have learning quests to keep growing and learning. I have felt so stagnant, and I understand now how it's not only impacting my confidence but also how people are underestimating me. I am inspired! I will make the list and pick one new quest for each month. I think this will also help me feel like I've accomplished and grown more by the end of the year. Many thanks! :)

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Love this!! Please keep me updated on your journey!

[@nasrinakts7420]

What a video, Vanessa! I love your energy and smiling face while talking.

[@rbodhoo9840]

Hi Vanessa, Thanks so much for this video! Amazing 🤩 inspiring and informative. My quest will be to do yoga daily and take better care of myself. The one area I’ve neglect all my life.

[@REMAX_CCA]

Keeping a "Success File" is a great idea. I've done something similar for years, calling "Victory Journal." Thanks for the nice videos!

[@syzygy4365]

Really? I'm going to make one too then.

[@ForTheLoveOfHomes]

Red is your color! Thanks for the pep talk! A success file is a fabulous idea for when those negative thoughts try to creep into our minds. Reminds me of a joke around our house. Our small town internet company was having months of continual widespread issues. I am sure they had one mad customer after another for months. I did have to call in several times but was always kind. They sent me a handwritten card to thanks for always being so kind to all of the staff. I kept that card as my ace in the hole when my husband thinks I am being grumpy. I jokingly remind him with the card that I have proof that I am nice! 😅

[@Mirakromova]

I'm from Uzbekistan and ur videous are fantastic and I'm getting used to watch them every day. Thank u soo muuuuch❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@ScienceOfPeople]

I am so happy to hear this! Thank you for watching ❤️

[@kevinkyzer2758]

Great job Vanessa 🙏 you explain things very well, very informative.

[@k.mthembi]

You Rock!!! Brilliant ideas.

[@ogurlz]

my quest is to finish a book a week including captivate and cues! i also would like to embrace fasting and do a couple extended fasts this month

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Amazing! I hope you enjoy Captivate and Cues ♥

[@maureenhussey7032]

One is never too old to learn something new. Thank you for giving me the 'push' to start. (71!)