How to End Strife With Your Spouse x Sarah Jakes Roberts & First Lady Serita Jakes

[@incognitoriaanonymousita]

Pastor Serita Jakes is SUCH a lady. I love how she is so calm and quiet. LOVE it.

[@emeliakusi]

Have you watched her roar in prayer or during her ministration, lol. I would say she's fierce and calm

[@kimberlywhite7065]

Yesss, I love it!!! ❤️🥰❤️

[@kidchocolate9253]

Yes, she's so Elegant.

[@tracygaters4901]

Exactly

[@latoyathompson7940]

I do too. She so calm. Glory to God for gifting this whole and giving them the ability and blessings to share. I'm always looking for to other interviews as well as emporium sermons please don't let it end anytime soon

[@cynthiahillian]

Scripture also says.. In quietness possess your soul. Meaning, in part, gather your emotions. Get you whole self together. I love Serita Jakes.

[@veronicachita8348]

I just love how calm they both speak.

[@veronicachita8348]

@@mercithompson5285 definitely it Is

[@florencemwilole2194]

They are Provers 31:25... she speaks with wisdom and faithful instructions is in her tongue.... its the God In their hearts

[@victoriavicky5728]

Right!!!!😍😍😍 I love that about them!💜

[@caroline-hz8ix]

I also think it's the meek and quiet spirit that 1Pet 3 talks about, beautiful

[@realtalkwithphil]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 im having fun from listening to them.

[@tiffanybrooks691]

"...in silence and quietness, I found confidence." Practicing that!

[@morethandetermined-iyusaf245]

I just love Serita's spirit she's so graceful and naturally funny.

[@KM-oy5yh]

💕💕💕✔✔✔

[@ShajiraYaniceli]

A soft answer turns away wrath. Holding onto that forever.

[@PSALMSOFSONGS]

That is so so hard. But God word is always true. 🙏🏾

[@emilyn7572]

I'm glad she reminded me of that. I've been on both sides of this and it really does work. It's like pouring water on a fire, instantly stops the wrath in it's tracks.

[@gloriagone1601]

Yes Lord!🙏🏽

[@user-xe2io2go1f]

It's in the bible

[@KM-oy5yh]

😇✔✔✔✔✔✔✔✔

[@natalielmr]

What a pure blessing to be able to have mother daughter discussions like this, and both mother and daughter are walking in holiness. I pray that I can live long enough to see my children saved, and to be able to have these kind of discussions with them from a biblical perspective. It’s a blessing to be able to see the fruit of your labor. ❤️

[@scaj76]

Do it Father God in Jesus name. Took me a while but came to know Jesus at age 29. Now at 33 I'm having conversations with my mother. God bless you it's coming.

[@idowu0704]

As you have said it, so God will do it in Jesus glorious name amen

[@gloriagone1601]

Amen 🙏🏽

[@KM-oy5yh]

AMEN AMEN, SISTER!!!!😇💕✔

[@lovingkingjesus4822]

You will live to see! In Jesus name amen.

[@robertaclemmons7999]

"You can always out class a person but you can't out trash a person!!" What you say, come on niiii! Love it

[@tiffanybrown9784]

Put Let

[@tajjames430]

Right!!! I Love That! That’s my motto! Keep it classy… Not trashy!! 🔥🔥🔥. Silence is key.

[@IntimacywithGod121]

I can attest to that, a quiet spirit can overcome even great mistakes.

[@charitymurugi2908]

Serita 's voice is so calming 😍 Her personality is enviable 👌😍

[@laneshastanley5034]

The calmness in Sister Jake's demeanor is so rich and beautiful

[@AnaM-j4u]

This is everything, father teach me to balance out battles, silence will be my answer, I love my spiritual family, bless them.

[@deborahjennings2974]

"A soft answer turns away wrath." So so true!

[@aliciarich4485]

“I have to outrun my history” in order to become! Powerful sis!

[@telzininalowo1052]

The Gospel!!

[@noluthandoradebe7288]

Literally, EVERYTIME Pastor Sarah speaks, I hear her speaking directly to me and since my deliverance in 2019, she was the first Pastor God directed me too and more and more, I see, understand and appreciate why!! What a blessing to have her in my life ♥️🙌🏼may God bless her with more wisdom, peace, joy and more years. One day I declare and I decree that I will meet her 🙏🏽 in the name and blood of Jesus Christ Amen! Glory to God.

[@helenmaxwellekokeme3769]

I don't know how to explain it this is just me speaking through you

[@noluthandoradebe7288]

@@mercithompson5285 The power of tongue 🙌🏼🙌🏼 The God we serve is so good.

[@shureesmith5695]

aq

[@patricesilva8004]

Amen

[@keyonaivy10]

I love you so much Sarah you don’t understand how much you keep me going in grounded with faith and understanding

[@nyaluv143]

Me too sis ❤️

[@cristalroberts9962]

😍😍😍I just love first Lady Jakes love her personality 💕

[@ladydignity]

Classy lady!

[@pamzungu6953]

Like-she’s amazing!

[@loredanaroberts7866]

SAYING HELLO TO YOU,MRS. JAKES, ROBERTS. THIS WAS THE 3RD TIME THIS WEEK, I'VE HEARD A MESSAGE ABOUT THE ARMOR OF JESUS...ARMOR, I'VE FORGOTTEN... BLESSINGS OVER YOU,AND YOUR CHURCH. LOREDANA ROBERTS, LOUISIANA

[@611mellissa]

I could literally listen to Serita all day long! But I felt that. Don't provoke me because she's still here.

[@pinkbetty7]

Her glam squad is always on point. She looks absolutely beautiful.

[@trevavaughn5]

Yes Keshia. I love her dress and make-up

[@ghm77755]

Facts

[@sylviajenkins4784]

Yep i wonder if we are the same size, im here for her hand me downs 😂😆

[@chancarter3440]

Yeeees!!!

[@FromtheeyesofShaun]

She's soooo fly and down to earth , i reallu admire that about her

[@lijah7150]

When First Lady Serita Jakes said Hallelujah I felt the Anointing!!

[@sfreeman417]

Yaaaassss First Lady!!!! I can totally relate. In quietness and silence I find power!!!

[@TAlexanderMusic23]

What was surrounding me isn't going to form me!!!! Wooooooo that question alone!!!! Sheeshhhh.... Thank you for this. You are truly an amazing woman!!

[@iamwhitneynm]

“She’s alive” part...✨😂✨ I loved this!!!

[@trinafolkes7859]

Mother and daughter have such a sweet and relatable spirit. ❤️

[@theblackcarriebradshaw]

I absolutely love, how transparent they are in every setting. I came here bc I am practicing being a better woman for my husband and not argue all the time.

[@Ymoreno2024]

This is why I came here too❤

[@laura-sk6vo]

Going through that now with oldest adult son. I ASK GOD TO HELP ME TO GIVE A SOFT WORD TO TURN AWAY HIS WRATH. HE HAS MANY SPIRITS EVIL SPIRITS HIM, a rebellious one a disrespectful one a filthy one a disturbance one frustrated he's aggravated he's silent and he's a monster with Hennessy and I cannot take it anymore. Yes, Love is patient, I still Love him but patience ran saying enough is enough. BAD COMPANY CORRUPTS GOOD MANNERS. He can make me very 😡 😆🙁🙂😅😢Lord have mercy. Help my son and i

[@repottedchangeforbetter5926]

Great question/statement. Took me a while to learn and decide that... "What was surrounding me isn't going to form me." DEEP. Life Lesson!

[@Nwayzeroo]

I could listen to them speak all day. Such power and wisdom. Beautiful conversation ❤🙏

[@monaie755]

Out run your HISTORY…. Well said! It’s a beautiful feeling to be surrounded with progressive women. You can learn something from everyone that enters your life. God will bring you the people you need! Glad I came across this!!!

[@gabriellerocker]

I’ll be quiet but never a pushover! Love the fact that they acknowledged being in a safe place to be quiet..not being provoked.

[@nicholbeck8108]

I needed to hear this❤️❤️ I don’t have to have a rebuttal for everything. Amen

[@Keesha7Luv]

ME TOO‼️Amen 🙏🏾

[@LadyFay716]

This is hard to do...but God

[@Coco-og7zw]

Same!!! My husband says this to me at least once a month so not a coincidence that this showed up in my newsfeed.🧐🫣🙏🏽

[@ladydignity]

Love this conversation, and Sarah's transparency!

[@normajohansenministries]

Sarah Jakes Roberts is sooo wise and deep very interested to listen to....lots of take aways to apply. Thank you Ladies

[@myab7155]

I don’t normally listen to Sarah but I AM HERE FOR ALL OF THIS!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@MsSummerable]

I always say that when you see me quiet understand that one of the other personalities aren't gonna keep quiet so I need to keep quiet so we can all be quiet and not be ignorant. Ps: I know quite a few friendships like that. It's natural to feel some sort of envy but it's not natural to build on it. Pray over it and not prey on it

[@myeshawilliams3553]

I say the same thing. I stay quiet to prevent the situation from escalating. It’s a healthy coping mechanism. It’s nice to know others feel/experience the same!

[@Finishedin52Insurance]

I have always loved Serita Jakes...and still do. A beautiful example to women.... her daughters life is a manifestation of her mother's wisdom.#thank you for sharing

[@jodyann77]

First time I've ever heard TJ's wife Serita talk! Now, now I understand why he loves and cherishes her the way he does, she's an incredible soft spoken woman! Wow, I wish my mom would've been like her😢❤️

[@Tiffany_3x]

Jody Ann may I ask why you say that? The reason I ask is because I had to "get over" how my mom was in order for me to move forward in my life. I had to accept the fact that she had things go on in her child hood and life that she didn't get help for and she acted what she knew. It doesn't excuse things but it helped me to forgive, not so much for her but for me and my children..... 🌹🕊️💞

[@soniagainer492]

Same..... life could have been so much more different

[@idowu0704]

God made your mom to be who she is, because where God is taking her to. If she act or speaks like Mama Serita jakes, she might not make the journey.

[@soniagainer492]

@@idowu0704 I pray you're correct

[@reaverhobson7575]

I love Sarah Jake Robert her videos has help me so much with my depression and my lowself a steam because I was so ashame and carry so much weight on my shoulder because I date rape and after leaving a abuse marriage of 27yrs Thank you so much and with God Grace and Mercy who Rescue me I would love to meet her someday ♥

[@jasmine-fw4yq]

may GOD see you through!! God bless you ❤️❤️❤️

[@traceykilgore8081]

This truly blessed me. Thank you Lord!!!. I've always watched and admired First Lady Serita's grace and calmness. It is something I pray to carry into my own marriage. Many blessings to you both...

[@rose3411]

So happy I heard this. I was the one to always go toe-to-toe. Thank you for this message!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🙏

[@veen0610]

@roseyrose Me too girl lol! But I'm in a relationship now with a man that makes me not wanna roll my neck and pop off at the mouth. And it's nothing he's said or done to make me be that way with him. It's just something about him that makes me want to respect him differently than any other man I've dealt with and makes me wanna be meek like a little lamb with him lol! And I love it lol

[@Darling.Efia.]

I've watched this video at least 8 times since I first saw it and I always learn something different. FL Serita is so graceful!❤

[@sheriehill6883]

That verse kept me throughout the years!! Proverbs 15:1

[@zouky4life]

Back in the day, I was listenning to pastor TD Jakes a lot and his sermons truly delievered me from a lot of this. I’m now discovering and grew to love pastor Sarah even more! She’s so down to earth and saying out loud what we-women/mothers in our thirties-think. I dindn’t know the First Lady was that funny. I love their bound!❤️ God bless this family!

[@genevebernard3713]

I just love, love these ladies. Even when their clowning, God is bringing forth truth through them.

[@gorgeouswales9635]

She’s mama Jakes, with daughter just Priceless 🔥 God Bless♥️

[@Mscoffiedash]

You can always out class a person but never out trash a person

[@sunstarsunshine4547]

Exposed to things I don’t ever want to become. Too sweet in spirit. Thank you ladies 🙏🏾

[@JustBeingJaz.]

I love their dynamic. I love the transparency. I love the lesson taught 👏🏾👏🏾 I needed this for sure! 😊

[@novletmills9244]

Yes, yes, and yes again. This setting needs to be on regular TV as Christians forum. This is surely enriching! They both share empowering words! May God continues to shine through their lives. In Jesus's name. Amen.

[@chaundasumara]

I luvvvvvvvvvvvvv hearing wisdom from your mom. I remember her speaking back in 1999. Please let us hear more from her.

[@andrewknudson2979]

Hello dear can we be friends

[@Kelesitse.m]

2023 God willing i will attend Woman Evolve... Amen

[@cebisilemabaso8445]

Me too. I so wish.

[@SantannaDean]

Same

[@thulisilenomsuthu6154]

Me too sis.. . 🙇🏽‍♀️

[@daniellerussell1610]

They kept it SO REAL! You don’t have to sell your soul to the devil to keep it real. Just tell the TRUTH and that’s as real as it can get. Thank you 🙏🏾.

[@lifetipswithbrandy]

This is so good ❤❤❤ "I especially couldn't see myself talking back to someone who talks for a living" 😄 whe. She said the way her ears are set up, it heard it as if the other person didn’t like her". That's real 💯 Thanks for being so transparent Pastor Sarah ❤ Thanks for this!!!

[@patricialove9999]

Mom Sarita Jake is a powerful speaker and teacher. Alot od her testimony is what alot of us woman grew up in. Thank you Jesus for change.

[@kawannadixon4327]

THAT'S WHY IT'S SO IMPORTANT TO NOT BE UNEVENLY YOKED TOGETHER WE BOTH HAVE TO BE ON 1 ACCORD AND WE DON'T ALLOW THIS UNGODLY AND SINFUL WORLD TO INFLUENCE OUR RELATIONSHIP ESPECIALLY OUR HOLY MATRIMONY GREAT CONVERSATION!👏🏾❤🙏🏾🔥💯👋🏾

[@overcomebyyourtestimony]

I honestly love this. A teachable moment indeed

[@ricoperry6094]

I love when she says you .your awsome Sara. ,you and your father I’ve been watching you guys for years and I got atleast a hundred people fallowing

[@krownedone4587]

Wow I needed this I feel this is what the lord is trying to draw that snappy side out of me I pray he provide me so much positive change inside we’re I can have full control in those moments

[@lindohlily]

Me too brother

[@gloriagone1601]

Amen 🙏🏽

[@lindasquinonez5440]

They are a blessing to my life. I need to work around the darkness that my husband does. The Lord knows what is about.

[@JustToyaandking]

Blessings... Nothing I love more the unity amongst women💃

[@KM-oy5yh]

✔✔✔💯💯💯

[@nyamavundakatambi9666]

I just love first lady , she's authentic

[@yahneyoung5505]

Thank God for these W.O.G🤝🫂🫶🏽

[@zeerie7521]

This is absolutely beautiful conversation. First Lady Serita Jakes told her testimony well. Thank you sisters in Christ for telling your testimony 🙏. This has been so profound!! Thank you Jesus.

[@jackier7835]

Love it First Lady Serita,,,the power of SILENCE is the best weapon. Sarah is still in the flesh we will pray for her deliverance.

[@cuethelights8195]

God gives wisdom and intel. We women have to use and apply the knowledge and that's a job...

[@ladytee7502]

Wow. I didn't stumble upon this video by accident. God my father wanted me to hear this quick message of truth. The truth hurts alot of us and this was as plain as a bag of lays... After hearing this im going to continue to outrun my history and allow God to keep pouring into my spirit and soul for his glory. I was also delivered from hating on another woman in my younger years then realize it's all in my head how I view the next individual. People either make you bad or better. So now that I've cleaned my life up I'm my own best friend and treats myself with enrichment and loyalty. My God will supply all my needs and the wealth of the wicked belongs to the righteous. Hallelujah I'm rich in spirit and in truth. Amen amen n amen. 😘

[@LL-ew2hz]

What PEOPLE do is reveal what's IN you🙏♥️

[@Ruthisinnocent]

I need the rest of this, this was too good and relevant right now.

[@rachidawhite8413]

Yassss sis I need it!

[@tinozungunde988]

This is EXACTLY what I needed to hear.

[@wendy8561]

Two beautiful powerful women of God hallelujah thank you Jesus Hallelujah praise God praise God thank you Jesus! 💜💜

[@ThemDevons]

First Lady Jake's is awesome. I believe she has her daughter's cracking up

[@ptyaudio]

As a men I appreciate this conversation, after separating from my previous partner, I can see where we use to hit under the belt many times and gave a bad example to the kids we where raising, this level of understanding its deep, when Sarita said there's no need to respond to everything its told to you, silence and quiet you find confidence. you can outclass but not out trash. With today media it does not help at all neither.

[@Nahnie-jb8wo]

I don't know if you're still married and just separated but if just separated, I'm praying you and your wife find your way back together again. May God allow you to find love in marriage again. ❤

[@ptyaudio]

@@Nahnie-jb8wo appreciate it much, I was ready to marry her to be honest.

[@gloriagone1601]

I was so broken… I started doing this and didn’t even know!

[@eyram5098]

You can always outclass a person but never out-trash a person

[@hollylanders4923]

So very THANKFUL FOR MRS TD JAKES AND HER WISDOMS IN HER TRANSPARENCY AND HONEST TRUTH

[@angelahicks7897]

First Lady is always so elegant with everything she says

[@gurugirl1000]

I so love Lady Elect Serita Jakes, she is soooo REAL, so funny, and so peaceful and cool. Love you Lady Elect Serita Jakes.

[@rayniceh2386]

This is exactly what I needed !! It’s so real !

[@shantellylacew]

Yll spoke to my whole soul. I wished that I had watched this years ago. Whew! It would have saved me from so much grief.

[@monalisawm]

Pivoting relationships and out run my history amen amen amen gloryyyyyyyyyyyy Hallelujahhhhh

[@jeanellreynolds7291]

I love this🙌🏽 Sarah I get so inspired from what God has put in you to bring to the world.

[@stevebell6872]

This is wonderful to hear man can also gain frm this Blessings

[@neishasibley]

Lady Serita Jakes has so much grace..

[@zamacele6646]

Thanks Sarah for sharing your truth🇿🇦🇿🇦very few ppl can be sooo honest and transparent Especially abt the person they used to be❤❤🙌🙌

[@CherryJ2911]

This family is blessed by God with DIVINE WISDOM

[@chichis7768]

So inspiring, I just love the message. Thank you beautiful Sarah and first lady Jakes. I love you.😊🤗😘💕💕💕👏

[@lovingkingjesus4822]

You can always outclass a person but you can never out trash a person. Wisdom speaking!

[@shaywilliams6881]

GOD IS SOO GOOD! HE MEETS US RIGHT WHERE WE ARE. ! THANKYOU JRSUS

[@celiawilliams9005]

Please do this segment more often!!!! I feel my help…. Chile!!!!! Gurl… Thanks Mommy Jakes 👸🏾

[@vjp4699]

TWO BEAUTIFUL BLACK WOMAN!❤💯 MOM JAKES IS JUST SO ELEGANT!❤💯 BISHOP JAKES AND MOTHER JAKES❤💯 YOU HAVE DONE A AWESOME JOB🏆❤💯 SARAH! YOU ARE SO NEEDED! ❤💯 PRAYERS OF SALVATION TO ALL❤💯

[@Pulchritude.0]

"A soft answer turns away wrath".. I'll forever cherish and practice these words. I'm 21 and I struggle with talking back and I absolutely hate it, and so does my mom.

[@dorothyvaughn9397]

A soft answer turns away wrath Amen 🙏🏽

[@willibce1]

She (Mama Jakes) out-ran her history. Wow!!! That's what I'm called to do as well Yes yes yes SJR and Mama Jakes. I so honor that Mama told her story.

[@sheliafisher6128]

Praise the Lord! powerful. Thank you for sharing.

[@faith9595]

Thank you for this Pastor Sarah and First Lady Jakes ❤

[@tribeofjudahfamily]

Love it "you can always out class a person, but you can never out trash a person." 😍😍

[@jermellfortune7944]

Happy birthday Mrs . Jakes

[@bnkn8431]

I love y’all honesty. I’m so blessed by this

[@kayronwalker5635]

Praying for the work of the family. We men and women have both sides of us. Yet self control has nothing about the other person but view of self worth is leading us to self control. We need to rest in the Lord.

[@anellamorrison738]

This is such great conversation thank you both for sharing.

[@angelicakassa3859]

Early morning listening to these wonderful women of God.

[@oco987]

Silence is powerful. But it depends on who you are dealing with