how to enjoy being alone

[@hannahdownsactress]

i’m so proud of you girl, we’re the same age and i’ve been watching you for years and it’s been so special to grow with you in our 20’s, your content is always so real and comforting and i appreciate you so much for that 🤍✨

[@crystakosovan6986]

I so happy that someone actually mentioned how alone time is good!

[@itssmritisingh]

Ava in her reading era is my favouriteeeeee 💕

[@owamistanley]

There are not enough words in the English language to describe how thankful I am for you and how much you have taught me these past few years. I used to be someone who struggled with the idea of spending time alone and constantly needed validation from others but after watching you're videos for the past three years I have learnt that there's no better company than my own and through spending time alone I have learnt so much about myself that I never knew before. And while sometimes I still find myself wanting validation from those around me, I'm starting to understand the importance of validating myself 💌

[@stephanieatuhaire]

Seeing the care and effort you put into the pot and how you were using the clay adding it at the right time reminds me of how God does the same thing for us humans. Taking His time and effort with us as He molds us into all that He made us to be ✨❤️ Isaiah 64:8

[@dianewong2597]

❤️❤️❤️

[@nivekaperera]

Amen ❤

[@beepb00ppp]

damn isit tht deep

[@sarahs_channel]

He’s an artist and a potter, we’re the canvas and the clay💗

[@arizbakugou2248]

That is SO GOOD❤

[@theycallthewind3038]

So glad you’re finding joy in spending time alone! Alone time really is so important for people in their 20s because you can really make it what you want/need. You learn so much about yourself and what you need in life. Plus it’s always great to check in with and in yourself. As you get older and into your 30s and 40s, alone time looks drastically different. You end up with partners and/or children, your parents get older and you find them needing you present more, you take on more responsibilities at work, etc. and suddenly you don’t have as much time to spend with and on yourself, and even if you have time, you don’t always have the quality. You’ll miss the days when you had seemingly infinite time to do any and everything you want. into yourself is always vital and the sooner we do it, the better we are (for ourselves and for our loved ones) in the long run.

[@toryalves]

i looooove going to the movies by myself, grabbing my favorite drink, some snacks… i mean- i have the time of my life doing it!! feels so good to be ok about being alone. i absolutely adore my own company and this is life changing honestly. i also love spending time with my friends which is something i put a lot of effort in while being in a romantic relationship. my boyfriend just doesn’t take away any of my social battery which makes it so much easier to be around him all the time. but knowing you are your own person is the key. i do spend a lot of time with him, but i never ever ever let myself forget to do things for me. alone time is so precious and also being with people who bring out a good version of you!

[@halliehopee]

hey ava! This video helps so much, I just moved to Oahu and the adjustment and making friends have been a bit hard. I’ve been watching your alone series for a long time and just want to say thank you! You always brought me comfort and taught me to value the independence and alone time from your videos

[@uci1111]

yesss! if you are in a relationship having some alone time is the best ❤

[@aleckzandratalib8193]

You're one of the top reason why I encouraged myself to spend time alone. And noooow, that's my favorite thing to do esp grabbing coffee & reading

[@Anjehluh]

Needed to see this!! Literally was just thinking about how I need to do more things alone besides shopping and not be so scared and eat alone and go on hikes/walks and take art classes by myself. Thank you!!🥰

[@livhurst6789]

Comfort food + Ava Jules = my favorite Sunday night

[@mary.1984]

Noooo cap. Being comfortable with yourself enough to be alone is such a vibe. It can be so scary for some people but you have to learn at one point how to deal with it for long periods of time sometimes, because there's going to be points in your life where you don't have people around you / near you all the time ( not saying they've died or something but maybe they moved or are super busy ). ❤

[@ellelu914]

every scene in this vlog is sooo picturesque! especially the picnic one.

[@prachimahaa]

Ava's vlogs give so much calm and peace to me. Literally ❤

[@hlengizondi1117]

Stressed about my exam tomorrow😣 a video from Ava is what I needed to boost my mood!

[@hannahmeloche]

Love you so much

[@blair_b3ar]

A perfect day alone is composed of doing a yoga class, walking around the mall/shopping, reading books on the beach, listening to music while taking a walk, going out to eat by myself ❤

[@tarrahgaris]

I needed this video 🤍 I work from home while my entire family goes to work and I am trying to embrace being alone and romanizing the little things

[@kaylamichele]

Thanks for everything you do Ava! I’m definitely not a youtuber but your content was the push of motivation I needed to finally get me posting videos just for fun like I’ve always wanted to do. Your stuff constantly relaxes and inspires me and I pray anyone that watches my stuff get the same heart warming feeling I get when watching your content! Supporting you always!

[@savannahalexis2271]

My favorite thing to do alone is to go on a drive and listen to my favorite music! ❤love you Ava!

[@josiekernen7830]

Watching KZbin is my favorite alone time. I love you. Keep being you baby girl.

[@elisalopez8221]

another sunday upload!!! was waiting for this! thank you for brightening our days 🩷

[@yourfriendellen]

I think you posted this at the most perfect time for me. I graduated college about 5 months ago and I’ve gone from being hyper social to having to learn how to enjoy spending time alone. I’ve started taking pottery classes and it’s been amazing for me!

[@gracemiller888]

I’m so glad you uploaded! Been feeling down today and I really needed this 💕🌷

[@natsinternetdiary]

this is the most wholesome vid ever thank u ava girl 🤎

[@zeenattullah]

When you open KZbin and see Ava’s video been posted 28 secs ago 😭😘

[@Mimis_version8]

I’ve always enjoyed being alone but its starting to feel a little lonely. This video is exactly what I needed rn❤️❤️❤️

[@louisecattanach9096]

My favourite Sunday evening ritual. Thank you Ava ❤

[@nicholeservice]

My fav thing to do alone is go to a nearby lake and sit on the dock and read and journal 🥰

[@ameliablackman5849]

i was having a super stressful day and watching this video was just a great reminder that everything is going to be ok, so thank you ava

[@RonjaTuominen-xd1gv]

Your attitude and view of life inspires me so much and these videos really help to not only be okay with spending time alone but also prioritising it at times. I’ve watched your videos since middle school and fell in love with Hawai’i through them. After years of dreaming I was able to move to Oahu for a year but now I’m back to binging your videos while remeniscing and wishing I was still there🥲🫶

[@sarahsiddiqui9950]

your vlogs make me soo happy ava!!✨🥹🥹

[@VlogsSaraM]

I love when you do these types of videos because I’ve been living with my boyfriend and we do everything together and this inspires me and reminds me that you gotta do things for yourself and new experiences by yourself are fun ❤

[@dhwanianand9127]

AVA I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS SO MUCH! your uploads make myday!

[@amyrodriguez6364]

love your videos so much!! I love your sunnies that u are wearing in the beginning! I've been watching your videos for a couple of years and I def can say every time you post your videos they get better and better! keep it going girl and keep growing and apprectiate how real you are with us!!!

[@jeemaarts]

you have no idea how much i wanted this kind of video!! i am in my post grad life and i’ve been really afraid of letting go of relationships that i thought would mean a lot to me but seeing how much serenity you have is encouraging :-)

[@elliethorpe1243]

these are my favourite videos. its so important being able to sit with yourself, its also so difficult, but always worth the effort for yourself!

[@katefabozzi2218]

I’ve always valued my independence and then when you started doing your alone time series, it made me feel even more confident in my decisions to spend quality time by myself! I feel like we are just so similar in our habits with spending time with people and ourselves! Thank you for being an inspiration for me!!

[@angelapapacalodouca4175]

I love taking a walk and listening to music on my own. And going to a cafe to read a book or do work on my laptop :)

[@zoewilliams8966]

Thank you for showing a part of your life that took time for you to work through and letting people know it’s okay to do things alone. I still struggle with this but this helped me realize I can in the future do things independently 🧡

[@samanthajean808]

With my anxiety, I never could do things alone. Over the years and never medicated, I've been doing much better with going off and having a good time alone. Visiting Hawaii every year help more and more. The joy of isolation is very comforting.

[@angelicas1173]

It’s peaceful doing things alone ❤❤❤

[@danielacmoran]

I admire you spending time alone and vlogging in public alone! I always get so anxious doing that but you make it look so easy! I love listening to music in the car by myself and having a jam sesh ❤

[@fredaprak]

i love this!! im doing my best to truly learn to love my alone time because i’m always so used to be around others i need to learn to grow out of my comfort zone for the betterment of future me who will prolly end up spending more time alone than i’d hope cause that’s just life 💞💞

[@michaelj2536]

Most young people aren't too aware of the benefits of solitude.....you are very smart ! And nice presentation

[@jazzgriffiths7001]

fav youtuber, love you! 💓💓💓

[@Elaineelation]

I truly needed to see a video like this rn man this is not what I wanted for my life I’ll scream my way through until I’m finally happy🥺🫶🏽🩵

[@mikeysaint4368]

Without ample time alone we can't create. At my most sociable, I didn't write one song because life was a constant whirl of activity. For other people it'll be writing, painting or reading, but they generally boil down to the same thing: to expand our minds and create we need time to ourselves.

[@novathomander6172]

My comfort person 🥹 I was feeling a bit weird tonight and this video made me so calm and happy. ❤️ P.S I never comment on videos but just wanted to say that I found you through your ”moving away from home” vlogs at the time when I moved out and back to my home country (Sweden) alone. I feel like we have been on this self exploration journey/learning to be alone journey together haha! So just wanted to thank you for that 🫶🏻🥹

[@mansoor3159]

You know it's going to be a best best weekend whenever Ava posts💫💗🤗

[@jjjjjjjjjjjj3029]

Loved the video💞I always found being alone really hard but after traveling alone over the summer it has gotten a lot easier. My fav is just sitting by the water reading (even though I sadly don't live by the ocean so a river will do😂)

[@camera0bsessedx]

you always have such wise words and advice! I think it’s funny cause I can happily go shopping alone, to the gym and even attend concerts by myself but I am so scared/nervous to eat at a restaurant by myself. one step at a time, we will get there ❤

[@adaramos-morris644]

Driving and listening to podcasts or music is my favourite

[@ctdd2536]

Thanks Ava😊. Favoriete thing to do alone: walking in nature, reading. Greetings from the netherlands

[@charliegariepy5206]

yesss i missed you so much this weeeek

[@curlsarestudying5137]

Hi Ava!! Just watched your video!! My favorite thing to do alone is actually drawing or painting!! :) Thank you so much for the advice you give us

[@goghsmind909]

Your videos are so relaxing❤ thankyou for being who you are!🫶🏻

[@moonlightmary_]

Ava's videos are always so peaceful and wonderful ❤

[@tp8136]

ahhh ! was catching up with previous videos and got blessed with a new upload!! ❤❤

[@alejandralopez5829]

GUYS WAKE UP, AVA POSTED!!!!

[@hollycweathers]

Ava you slay and are such a fun inspiration. SLAY THE DAY

[@rinakatofficial]

I loved this one! It’s so great that someone is actually sharing how alone time is so valuable and normal ☁️💌

[@milenamoccia]

i reaaally hope you see this, ive been watching your videos for a few years now and its hilarious to me that we have i think the same age, and when you started to read again and start posting book content, i was in the same stage reconnecting with books in my life, and now ive started pottery classes also like 2 months ago and so did u!! i know that if you lived in argentina we would be friends (kinda creepy to say but i swearrr), you are my comfort youtuber and everytime you post i get excited bc i have a new video to watch in my alone time (yay!! learning as well), or while i eat haha, anyways, always sending love from argentina

[@ashleylock9093]

Miss Ava I am dying for you to start acotar. You will FALL IN LOVE!!! definitely my favorite series of all time.

[@alliegjessee]

i think you’re going to LOVE the acotar series!! i just finished the 2nd book…and now i’m fully invested 🤪 it’s def worth the hype

[@ShelbyEdgson]

I love Ava Jules 🫶🏻

[@AdrianasWonderland]

my favourite thing to do alone is literally everything: read, travel aet and walk around

[@Tiffany0kk]

This video was great!! You’re great Ava 🧡 thank you for being a wonderful inspiration and being encouraging to us all. I hope you continue sharing your thoughts and wisdom with us!

[@hudahnanyonjo8417]

Hi Ava !! Love your videos 💕

[@darrenwanamaker3326]

Keep it up with your reading comprehension and with some more exciting content Ava 😍

[@chocolatechipcookies87]

i am so inspired by you! You're about 2 years older than me but seeing the growth you've had and how you encourage other girls to do well in the world is so amazing. here's to figuring out our 20s together. Love ya! :)

[@venusbucci4829]

Favorite thing when I’m alone is definitely a movie!

[@madisonsylura825]

Yay ava posted ‼️

[@kyragarza5309]

I am a recent college student, and it is for sure weird being alone, but watching your videos and seeing how you manage it, really inspires me to get up and try new things. Thank you for this video!!

[@meganmeneses6135]

Ahh love these videos Ava! The first time i lived alone was in Hawaii and now im living with my fiancée back in san diego. Thank you for always inspiring

[@atashleyunderscore]

Adding exploritivy to my vocab ✨

[@KafiaWaves397]

Love the Polaroid as a bookmark🤍

[@sarahjneve]

Yay yay new ava vlog!! deffffinitely needed this one today 🥲

[@katiesnippetsoflife]

Love seeing you do so many fun activities alone. I love having picnics at sunset alone. Helps me get outside and off my phone for a bit. Excited for your next video!

[@GhysahlGreens]

You're like me in that regard. I like it. There's absolutely no shame in being alone.

[@jess1356]

ACOTAR IS SO GOOD!!! I hope you enjoy it. I have also been finding joy in doing stuff alone in my early 20s

[@vanessagaiser1730]

Love the video❤ watching your living alone series and videos like this one makes me more confident doing things alone , such a positive role model🩶

[@lynnvankeulen3616]

I love to cook alone, and bake as well as discovering cute new coffee places :)

[@bookswithlilly]

GIRL I'm so excited to see what you think of the acotar series

[@sophiabales6086]

Loved this ❤ my fav thing to do alone is journal, read, watch Gilmore Girls, or build some legos

[@tamaragalal4288]

This was healing❤️‍🩹

[@robin-md7bn]

what a beautiful way to spend life! i love your vlogs, they allow me to appreciate the little things you can give yourself every day. side note.. i adore your pink picnic blanket, where did you get it? thanks again for wonderful insight on life

[@natalysaybe]

hi, i love you and your videos watching you and growing up with you has been nice❤

[@Reybeams]

the ‘wild night’ comment after potentially watching another twilight movie was so real

[@raniaakoojee8775]

my fav thing to do alone is going for a coffee run

[@robin-md7bn]

it's seriously the best

[@JessicaH829]

i just finished the first acotar book and it was amazing!!!

[@SelenaHang]

Your are so incredibly inspiring 🫶🏼 I listen to you on your podcast as well and lately been obsessed! One of the things I enjoy on my alone time is honestly just looking outside a window. Is that weird?

[@florafazekas1906]

I really love your halloween decorations, they are cute

[@AlejandraCuellar-v3g]

I love you!!

[@loribrown5235]

I do stuff alone. I go to shows alone. I love it!!!

[@amelie7745]

the laugh when bella punched jacob 💀😭 lmao hahaha love you ava i so needed this xx

[@sylynabetts9807]

Coffee shops and Journal

[@alainacommander6001]

I enjoyed the full video. 😁

[@MsAlison]

i’m so excited to start my first freida mcfadden book soon :)