HOW TO FIGURE OUT YOUR SEXUALITY

[@Sam-yt5yj]

I'm in a constant state of oh I think I'm gay, no wait i think I'm bi, and wait what if I'm just straight and I've been faking it this whole time

[@barrybabygirlbenson]

maybe this will help, if you are a girl/ non-binary person who is fem-alligned: docs.google.com/document/d/14MiPVvdXl2ICg41aFHcfUktxX4DO-058ZXg6v6W_Jg0/edit

[@Taup1_1]

Same here. If you wanna talk about it just let me know

[@claudebest3651]

barry eats the rich I read the whole document and it was so helpful! Thanks for sharing😊

[@barrybabygirlbenson]

Sophia Best im so glad to be of help ☺️

[@kiwi.panada2423]

Abrosexual is when your sexuality is fluid. I have your thoughts constantly but I now consider it the struggles of being abro. There isn’t a lot of info of it on the internet but we have the watermelon flag. Its cute. But i still consider myself bi/pan but I usually describe abrosexuality as a “type” of bi/pansexuality. Hope this helped☺️

[@sheanentheong]

Lmao the gay gods must have heard me because I was literally thinking about this earlier today!

[@carahegarty4683]

FR

[@theikeacompany3261]

Yes 😆

[@sarahgerard8883]

saaaame

[@josephinemarie9090]

Saaammmeee

[@ImjustAn]

Ahh me too!

[@nkfanning]

Does anyone else do this where if someone else mentions that someone’s gay in a conversation you immediately go into a panic 😂

[@sirens4562]

Yes. I get defensive and look somewhere else.

[@Taup1_1]

Last time my aunts were talking of someone who has a gay relationship, debated on "is dating a girl when you're a girl really the same thing as dating a guy ?" and they asked me how i felt about it. I was like "i don't think that's different" but i was like under pressure and all 😭

[@nkfanning]

@@Taup1_1 ahaha ye I definitely would have panicked and stuttered and things. If someone ever casually mentioned like "oh shes bk" or "oh shes a lesbian" my whole body goes into like fight or flight 😂

[@Taup1_1]

@@nkfanning well i totally get this 😂😭 but if i had been calm i could have said like "you can't understand, you're straight, for you girls are just friends" to make them understand and at the same time it would have been obvious i was not really straight 😂 the same thing happened when my grandpa said something homophobic the other day, i wish i would have tried to explain him things but that was too hard for me

[@nkfanning]

@@Taup1_1 Tooootally understandable 😅

[@patipesquero1143]

I needed this, i’m still not 100% sure if i’m bisexual

[@shareefjones645]

Same here like I've had sex with a guy a few times but i never get aroused. See I'm comfortable with cuddling and kissing other men but i don't get aroused by it. I get aroused by women but not however i enjoyed most of my sexual interactions with this other man

[@lrke5710]

Bro me too like I'm in the exact same position and before I was like omg I gotta figure this out but now I see that I don't have to stress about it. Thank god

[@kjs4154]

@@shareefjones645 Maybe you just haven't found the right man

[@shareefjones645]

@@kjs4154 hmmm...maybe

[@anuninspiredusername8293]

Robert Kelly Erm

[@sirens4562]

Just the right video for me. I’m either a closeted bisexual, pansexual, or gay.

[@faydoolan6347]

Same

[@mikuwopukwana2538]

Since I feel the same and everyone's commenting it SSAAAAAMMME!

[@Taup1_1]

Well... same

[@yasqueen3294]

literally same

[@anamarieharrison6508]

Me tooooooo!! But throw in asexual instead of bi

[@iblount4562]

dont be shy, drop the makeup tutorial

[@tasnimswift2034]

I just came out as bisexual to my best friend. I've never told anyone before. She has taken it far better that I thought she would.

[@nkfanning]

Tasnim Swift that’s great I’m happy for you 😊 I hope to do this at one point

[@kjs4154]

@@nkfanning It will be easier than you think so don't worry

[@denisprimeau2535]

Hey common. Please you want to pray ok but nothing except lost your time 🌹🤮🤮🤮🤮

[@kjs4154]

@@denisprimeau2535 ?????

[@alyeska9849]

Me too ! I came out to one of my friends for the first time, and it just felt so right !

[@sheanentheong]

Me: *watches Georgia's videos * My brother: Are you a lesbian now? Me, still closeted: *gay panic *

[@yippeekrieg0501]

at least he seems like he'd be chill about it 😂😂

[@sheanentheong]

@@yippeekrieg0501 actually he thinks it's a joke 😂

[@limatheluma8041]

Sheanieee the Random James Charles disagrees with your brother

[@uhhnahh9972]

I’m just confused like I’m literally in this constant state of I’m gay.. no I’m probably faking it for attention and I’m straight(even tho nobody knows I’m questioning)... no I’m bi. And then the cycle repeats so I’m stuck

[@nataliahayes1496]

wow.....you are not the only one feeling this way lmao. part of me feels like I am questioning just so I can be part of the community (attention). hahahah whatever I definitely like girls

[@alexsolo5092]

ok wait...this is literally me

[@melissaa7146]

Uhh Nahh I feel exactly the same. I started developing crushes on female celebrities/public figures and started losing attraction to men and think I might be a lesbian but I just feel like I’m faking it because I get a happy feeling when I show signs I like girls and don’t want to like guys and I feel like I might be trying to be trendy or something.

[@tiacaseysimpson1572]

Tɪny vɪolɪn wait same!! It’s so frustrating it feels like I have to have an equal attraction and if I lean one way I’m faking it

[@mariasgomila2157]

Tɪny vɪolɪn samee i’m soo confused

[@marslehlbach4782]

when i was figuring it out, i put a time limit on myself and forced myself to pick a label. one of the biggest mistakes i have ever made. please, do not do either of those things as it still affects me today. good luck everyone!

[@liliancarolin1751]

i literally have the same problem!

[@alexr8987]

When I got the notification I was like “Ohh I gotta see this”

[@fallonhunt1529]

Girl how did you know I needed this right now😳

[@Abcdefghijajajaja]

Robert Kelly you neeeeeed to leave

[@moonflowers333]

Robert Kelly not your place here, go being weird somewhere else

[@kylieg8909]

As someone who has been questioning her sexuality for over two years now, I have never clicked so fast. Thank you Georgia

[@nightskystars0762]

I keep going from straight to bisexual to homoromantic bisexual to lesbian with compulsary heterosexuality to straight again. Now I identify as bi

[@Taup1_1]

I think i'm in the exact same struggle as you did... what made you figure this out ?

[@nightskystars0762]

@@Taup1_1 I don't know really. Once I started admitting that I'm into girls i stopped caring for boys and never really looked at a boy ever since so I thought I might be gay. But I've had serious crushes of boys before and have had actual feelings for them. So I think I'm guy with a super strong preference towards females but I know I can fall in love with men too though it's not anything nearly as easy as I can fall for women.

[@Taup1_1]

@@nightskystars0762 okay thanks ! I think i am homoromantic but bisexual and i do not feel comfortable with it cause for some reason i would just have wished to be gay. Like idk i more identify as lesbian but there's this part where i'm not totaly... do you have this struggle too since you're more into women ?

[@nightskystars0762]

@@Taup1_1 yes when I think about being with a guy it terrifies me. And when a guy shows interest in me I feel super uncomfortable. Also I've never had much male friends so I guess it's probably cause I don't really know how to interact with guys. And also I have a friend who's bi and she feels exactly like me.she's far more into girls than men and she feels uncomfortable picturing herself with guys. But then she liked a guy and dated him and she realised she was into guys and she's bi not gay. So I think it's really hard to differentiate between bi and more into girls or gay. But homoromantic bisexual or lesbian is completely valid and if you feel that's what you are then it's completely okay

[@Taup1_1]

@@nightskystars0762 yeah that may be because of that. So you can be uncomfortable about it while being attracted to them or does this happen at different times ? But like, yeah that is so complicated, some things make think i'm gay, and then i remember that thing that makes me thing i would rather be bisexual but there's this other thing that makes me think i'm not that much and in the end i just don't know. What's difficult also is that if i'm indeed homoromantic/bisexual i'll can't fully identify to a community. But with time, i'll may be able to understand all if that better. Btw thanks for the support !

[@deeksha2964]

I just felt so comfortable once I confirmed that I wasn't straight. Putting a label and wanting some clarity lead me to calling myself 'pansexual' and while I still think I am pan I feel like I don't need to conform to it and now I just chill. I think just knowing the fact that I'm not straight for sure is comforting for me, before I would just be so confused and wake up at 2am be like 'am I somehow still straight?'. So getting that one checked out forever definitely helps. Also once you're there, once you know you're not straight for sure, all their clues, all those gay moments will make so much more sense once you start accepting it and if you wish to label yourself at that point....it gets easier. Now when people ask me or I need to say it for some reason I just say ' just not straight' and I feel comfortable with it and people find it more affirming than 'i don't label' so I just go with it.

[@tebasilem3426]

oh, that's how I feel, you put it in words. thank you, it helps me a lot! :)

[@victoriaandrassy6051]

“Beautiful gay music” me: GIRL IN RED

[@T0mi3.07]

Bruh this notification just popped up while I was having a mental breakdown about being way toooooo confused about my sexuality 😌✨

[@melissaa7146]

I constantly feel like I’m faking my feelings for girls because I never had a crush on anyone irl but I started crushing on female celebrities/public figures. I get happy when I show signs of liking girls and don’t want to like guys and feel so guilty for it

[@incognitooooooooooooo123spy]

omg i felt this i have no irl crushes either so i feel like im faking it sometimes ://

[@maggiethiemann374]

I totally get this I don't want to like guys and I feel guilty for it too. For me, I don't really have any personal experiences that have made me scared to date boys or anything like that, but I just want to be gay and just like girls, but I'm not sure if that is the case. Also when I think about not wanting to like boys as well as liking girls I feel like I'm biphobic, but I'm really not, I totally get it and know it is 1000% valid and love people who are bi, but idk I would be fine being multisexual, but idk I just really want to be gay/lesbian. ahhh idk help.

[@daisychain473]

You look so good today, sorry if that sound's creepy, not my intention

[@sirens4562]

You should be able to compliment people and not feel bad. It’s ok.😇

[@daisychain473]

Thank's, I just wasn't sure

[@AleesatheIsraeli]

Not creepy....if you said Dang girl you fine as hell then thats abit creepy lol.

[@GeorgiaBridgersYT]

not creepy! thank you :))

[@jaye3992]

Her top is amazing as well 😊

[@user-bk3ir8mx6i]

I had come out to my homophobic parents a month ago and now I’m living with my super supportive aunt It hurts that they couldn’t accept me but it would hurt me more suppressing my true self I’m in a better place now (physically and mentally)and that’s what truly matters ❤️

[@livelaughmitski3444]

I hope you're happy❤🏳️‍🌈

[@ainhoaaron3960]

Hey! I'm 14, and until a month ago, I was out as bi until I realised I was gay. Figuring it out was one of the most painful experiences of my life. I kept researching every label existent, and as much as I agree with the "don't put a time limit" advice, when I was coming out to myself, I couldn't bear a second more of not knowing who I was. So, if you're currently trying to figure it out, try to imagine how you would feel with a real life boy or girl or nb or wtv, in front of you. It's different to romanticise something in your head, or see it on tv, than to actually experience it. It was only when I really tried to imagine how I would feel with a guy (IN REAL LIFE), that I realised I was gay. Let your mind wander over there, you're not a freak, or a weirdo. Also, it's okay to take time to warm up to the idea that you're going to marry or man or a woman, or no one at all. Love, Ainhoa

[@incognitooooooooooooo123spy]

thank u sm💗 this is v helpful🥺

[@casualoptimists3729]

It’s funny because I did this and I realized I wouldn’t date a guy and I would date a girl but I still don’t feel like I’m straight. I’m so confused

[@ingrid9635]

Lets all hold hands and peek out of our closets, Georgia has posted a new video

[@aestheticoop]

I needed this cuz I've been questioning from lesbian and bisexual

[@carahegarty4683]

SAME

[@barrybabygirlbenson]

tinakris naibot of course, but comphet makes that a bit difficult to answer

[@incognitooooooooooooo123spy]

literally me

[@wonderbrunette4638]

"I tell them what to do and then I never take my own advice" Hahaha, same girl.

[@claireelaine4783]

This is literally my last google search

[@claireelaine4783]

Lol

[@orsoladellagatta4677]

Thanks❤️ I'm really confused about my sexuality and all the free time that I have with quarantine is forcing me to choose a label and it is stressing me out.

[@kierranichole683]

I think I’m bi but I’m not sure. I’ve been with a man for 6 years now and have only ever dated/slept with men. I have had crushes on girls/friends though. I’m interested in kissing one but the dating/marrying a woman part scares me though. I’ve told my partner and he’s very supportive but honestly this is something I have been struggling with for about 5 years now.

[@sarahmaria2621]

You said that you can connect with gay, bisexual, lesbian... KZbinr. One of mine is you😂😂

[@mckinleyuntamed]

I have identified as bi for a really long time but lately I have been enjoying using the umbrella term of gay instead as I feel like I am still unpacking my sexuality even all these years later...im just enjoying the journey of discovering it all. It feels really good to peel back more and more layers of things that arent actually who I am and get closer to who I am at the core!

[@KC-cr2xw]

I keep going back and forth between thinking im straight and bi. I feel like because we've been going to school online and not in-person it's even more difficult to figure out how I feel about girls and guys, and whether I think of them in the same way even though I haven't really had any special connection with a girl yet. Hopefully I'll be able to go back on campus before freshman year ends.

[@ava130]

I’ve been following since you came out, and back then I thought I was bi. Turns out I’m gay, but your videos definitely helped me with accepting myself for who I am. Like you said, I did a lot of research (which is what led to me realizing that I’d been using the wrong label all these years). Thank you for your videos! You’ve helped me so much over the years and I’m truly grateful!

[@emilycornfoot521]

twin! i subbed in 2018 thinking i was bi but i’m lesbian now

[@vaibhavsingh5848]

I'm a simple guy I see georgia I click

[@teambellavsteamalice]

Alternative route to self-discovery: 1 Listen to 5H and think who you like most. 2 Wonder why people ship Cam(ila and Lau)Ren, just friends, right? 3 Read fanfics, just because your are obsessed with anything 5H. 4 Wonder why so many fanfics you like are biromantic or more. 5 Cry over 5H, dive into K-pop girl groups and repeat picking biases and fave ships. 6 Subscribe to Georgia Bridgers

[@nkfanning]

This video gave me a big hug, wrapped me in a warm blanket, and made me hot chocolate . So comforting, thank you so much 💕 I’m pretty sure I’m a lesbian but I have so many days where I panic, feel like I’m lying to myself but with every day I get a little bit more comfortable with myself. Still gonna chill in the closet for a good little while 😊

[@gracelily2358]

we’re all in this together!!!

[@nkfanning]

@@gracelily2358 exactly tysm! every day I see more people online say they have similiar experiences to me and it helps me feel so much less alone!

[@incognitooooooooooooo123spy]

the way i felt this

[@maggiethiemann374]

same, I feel like i am a lesbian but a lot of the time when I think about doing domestic things with girls my brain goes 'boys' and Im scared to even test to see if i like boys like that because I don't want to go backwards or spend time dating or crushing on a boy or thinking i like boys if im a lesbian. and i also really want to come out to my friend group because one is sapphic and the other is a lesbian and i think i have a crush on the lesbian but im not sure and the sapphic girl i think also has a crush on the lesbian and i want her to not feel like im straight and she cant date me but i also am scared for her to know and then it will be weird for me to talk or spend time with her. ahhhh this was a lot idk help.

[@sheanentheong]

4:23 yeah for me that person is Georgia 💖💜💙

[@annaparr9218]

Same

[@tanapsycho1008]

Same

[@liv4238]

Everyone is question if there’re bi, gay, lesbian, but me here... questioning if I’m Abrosexual, demi, genderluid, ace, Trans..- I can’t halp me..

[@MamaSwole]

You’re helping so many ppl. We love you💖

[@madulameira1662]

I’m soo glad you posted this because I question my sexuality literally all day. I’m almost sure i’m gay, but then I remember that i never hooked up with guys so maybe i’m bi? but I don’t really feel attracted to them anymore (before i thought i did, but i think it was just compulsory heterosexuality)

[@faydoolan6347]

Georgia thank you for this, i dont think you realise how many people you help with your videos, i guess what sucks is that if i am bi theres loads of lesbians that will only date other lesbians or hate on bi girls which i find really annoying, i thought i was for sure a lesbian but recently starting to find a few males attractive too so im not 100% sure but thank you for all your advice💗

[@carahegarty4683]

Your profile pic is EVERYTHING

[@emilycornfoot521]

why do u have that pfp if ur bi

[@emilian7052]

@@emilycornfoot521 she probably realised she's a lesbian now

[@leoraf8302]

Summary/notes: 1 Take a breath and relax 2 Do some research -Labels, videos on KZbin, fanfic, music, etc 3 Don't put a time limit on yourself!!!!! -This can cause false identities and a lot of stress!! -You don't need to force yourself into a label 4 Reflect back on yourself and allow yourself to think and explore yourself -journal, do things that make your soul happy 5 No matter how scary it gets, have love!! -chosen family exhausts - love for yourself

[@anna5257]

i’m pretty sure i’m gay but my obsession with harry styles, conan gray, and niall horan keep getting in the way

[@barrybabygirlbenson]

it could be comphet, look this up : docs.google.com/document/d/14MiPVvdXl2ICg41aFHcfUktxX4DO-058ZXg6v6W_Jg0/edit

[@Taup1_1]

I kinda know what you mean, in my case i realised it was sometimes just admiration (or i think it was) but hopefully you'll find that out someday 😁

[@gorshkovatati]

@@barrybabygirlbenson thank you, this doc is very helpful!

[@barrybabygirlbenson]

DarthYuYevon where did u get that from, I just tried to help possible lesbians to realise they’re lesbian, not invalidate bisexuality. bisexuality is real

[@barrybabygirlbenson]

DarthYuYevon oh i thought you meant that w/ “isn’t bisexuality NOT real”. all women experience heteronormativity. however, over time, the specific term “compulsory/compulsive heterosexuality” or comphet only came in use for lesbians who due to societal expectations and pressure created a false attraction to men due to their lack of it. sorry, i misread your words ^^;

[@Anne-cf7jb]

I’m either straight or bisexual. I always liked boys but in the last months I started to think about women. But I “just” read fanfics and had celebrity crushes. And last week when I was at a party, I met a girl. She wanted to kiss me after we talked for hours but I was in front of my friends and I just couldn’t (would’ve been my first kiss). But because I was like “let’s go back to the other guys” she thinks I’m straight and hasn’t reached out to me in any romantic way. And I’m just here like “what should I dooo?”

[@lassam333]

A very good advice video! What I also find to be important is to know that you are valid eventhough you are dating the opposite gender. If your a bisexual or pansexual female dating a heterorosexual man (or vice versa), it still means that you're bisexual/pansexual. It doesn't change anything. Don't let anybody tell you otherwise. I struggled with this for years and only after realizing that I'm valid, no matter what, I was able to finally come out to close friends.

[@bluehomeboi]

I absolutely adore this channel you're always so respectful and make everyone feel welcome here♥️

[@Alahna285]

I can definitely relate to not allowing myself to feel for girls I thought that everyone else could be bi but I couldn't be, also this video is great advice I love you Georgia !!

[@cs543]

I love this kind of videos, it's just like having a chat with a close friend

[@yules2597]

You're two last advices are beautiful! GOD BLESS U

[@mahtaaali]

Thank god queen herself blessed us with the content. I thought i'd never be able to tell whether I'm gay or bi (or even pan). Plus you look amazing sweetie 💕

[@ceciliagonenne810]

for me i was so obsessed with fitting into an identity when i was closeted. then i realized i don’t need one!

[@bergh070]

I am figuring out my sexuality. Videos like this are so helpful. Thank you, really this helps more than you know

[@madlemonred]

thank you so much for this video georgia! lately i’ve been questioning myself lately for the 28293839th time, idk if i’m ace/biromantic, homosexual/biromantic or just lesbian, but this calmed me down a bit isjsjdjdj after all there is no rush, sexuality is fluid and well, who cares if i feel different next week or next year

[@kristiankiser7190]

I wish you would do a makeup and hair tutorial for this look ! Wow you look amazing !! 😊😊🤩

[@constancemay4944]

YES Georgia posted 🌈✨

[@RCrystal34]

Something that helped me immensely was the split model of attraction. I was so confused with this jumble of thoughts that didn't make sense until I found out that it was ok to not be romantically attracted to the same people that you are sexually attracted to.

[@fancyfrog3407]

I read gay fanfics, I sometimes think my friends who are dudes and girls are kinda cute. I watch she-ra, the owl house, and kipo. I also listen to girl in read But I’m still trying to figure it out

[@KT-sd8em]

I really appreciate your friendly and funny way of talking about these things. Very helpful to me and many others I'm sure.

[@lolafranco7399]

I cant figure out if I'm genuinely attracted to women or if its just an intense feeling of adoration. Like I think I had a crush on my girl friend and felt like I wanted to always be around her and hug her and protect her from all the bad in the world but is that just a friend feeling type if thing?

[@lolafranco7399]

Also, I'm not attracted to a lot of women. It kinda just pops up time to time. Is that normal?

[@fun2drawcartoons1]

Im going through a similar thing. It's very confusing lol

[@elliotheg]

i've been watching you since the first viral video with your mom, and i am SO glad i subscribed and was able to follow you on your journey!

[@stanloona8184]

It would be so cool if we would all start a group chat or like a discord with all the people that are questioning currently

[@user-pj9kl1mx7i]

I actually really needed this.. I like this girl (it’s the first girl I’ve liked) and I just like want to understand myself and my sexuality.

[@peribrooks-randall3737]

Thank you so much for this video Georgia! The silver lining of quarantine is it has allowed for a lot of self reflection and journaling! You have become one of the KZbin influences you talk about in this video!

[@diobrando3059]

A few months ago I thought I was bi, turns out I'm a lesbian 🏳️🌈 Love you😍💖

[@camilladuke2666]

Can you make a video talking about your experience being raised Catholic? for me this was a big factor in my coming out and I’d love to hear your thoughts

[@user-ox3bt7eg2f]

ok so i came from the collab video with keara graves where you both gave your childhood signs of being gay and,, I HAD NO IDEA U LIVE IN OHIO??!! and in cincinnati?? i'm not sure if u still live here but,, i'm so glad we have an icon like u from here :)) anyways, still trying to figure out if i like girls or if im forcing(?) myself to feel something i don't.. i know i don't want to be in a relationship with a boy, but i've got no idea what i am rn.. i've had online crushes(?) on girls, but i had no idea how they looked like, it was more like i was attracted to their personality... idk tbh

[@andreavillegas2196]

Thank you so much for sharing this with us 🤗 I definitely went through many of the things you shared from your journey. For too long I rejected any thought of me being not being straight out of fear. I came out back in 2014, but for years I just allowed myself and other people to mislabel me as a lesbian because I believed I "had to choose" just one gender to be attracted to. Luckily, since 2019, I accept my bisexuality 💕💜💙 and I wish this brings hope to someone out there who might be feeling the same. What you do is so important! Love your videos!

[@julzamidala2865]

Can you travel back in time 5 years and tell me all this? Wisdom of the ages, thank you Georgia! One thing I think that has gotten better is that today people seem to feel less like they have to label themselves which is very positive. The sooner we can all just get to 'I love people who are loving people' the better off we all will be because really everything else is just details. 💙💙💙

[@Obscure12345]

Awws the grade school picture of you was so cute! It would be so fun to watch a video where you look back at old pictures of yourself!

[@yules2597]

Belo Conselho sobre praticar sua paixão pq ela vai te ajudar a descobrir o q vc realmente ama! Estou impressionada com a sabedoria, nunca tinha percebido isso e isso é MUITO profundo e verdadeiro! ♥️ obrigada! 🇧🇷

[@whalien21stcentury]

I also got help from reading fanfics. It was then I realized I had internalized homophobia and that hindered me from recognizing my truth. I am glad I identify as a bisexual, though not many people in my life know it yet. Still, it gives me a piece of peace that I am not repulsed by who I am. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈💜

[@dakotawellman676]

thank you!! i needed this. i’ve been struggling with knowing if i’m bi or gay

[@hermesontherun9049]

Journaling helped me so much too!

[@ellac613]

I was having a small breakdown after having a few realizations that are actually making me think i might be gay, but this video has calmed me, so thank you :) I think I've done enough introspection today, because, as you said, there isn't a deadline

[@jackiee_]

Omg I love your earringsss ahhh can someone tell me where I can get theseee

[@IloveDemiiSelena]

Well I'm kinda confused about my sexuality since I was maybe 15? Now I'm 24 and still not sure what to feel about it. I keep having periods of time that I'm really sure I'm bi and then have doubts. I know I'm not straight, this is solid fact. I think I cannot be straight - my body and mind doesn't sees that an option. When I watch a movie and it's sex scene I only look at girl. And if it's lesbian scene I'm like in heaven. And it doesn't have to be sex scene, sometimes it might be a really beautiful, romantic scene and I'm all for the girl. But sometimes guys make me look at them. I find them attractive but not that often that women. What holds me back the most from fully understand and accept my sexuality is that I really want my own kids, it's something I always wanted and I can't picture it without a man but at the same time I can't see a man at my side like in 30 years in the future (that's maybe because I was raised by single mum, my dad died when I was little). It's so chaotic what I wrote but I have so many thoughts and can't write them down properly. If someone have similar story or thoughts I would love to chat about it. Btw I'm from Poland if anyone cares. And Georgia, thank you for your videos! I found your channell few years ago and I really like you and also you are gorgeous! Love your makeup here. xx

[@larissalarmelino6464]

I decided to come out to my mom as bi on Friday, my 18th birthday, but im so nervous. Love your content, it really helped me figure out some things ❤ Lots of love directly from Brazil Edit: Things didn't went that great, but also didn't went that bad. She said i should evaluate according with i have learned with the bible during my life.

[@lobstersoup2785]

I'm not confused anymore so this is a bit late, but your whole channel helped me realise that I'm bisexual too! Fast forward a year (almost exactly) and I'm out to everyone who knows me, thank you so much for helping me realise!

[@sheanentheong]

0:15 is me at every other second while I'm in school 😆

[@ellajane954]

hey georgia! i just got to the part where you're talking about finding lgbtq creators to connect with, and i just wanted to let you know that you were that person for me. i honestly can't thank you enough for that. i don't know where i'd be if i'd never found your channel. love always.

[@nelianascimento753]

I think I'm bisexual, but i've been questioning it for a while now. I've never been with anyone before, guys or girls, but I feel like I'm attracted to both. I never talked about this to anyone, except for my best friend, but my family is always questioning me about my sexuality, which kinda puts some preassure on me. I never wrote about it, although I always write about my feelings. I'm still trying to accept this myself. I thought my best friend would help me, since she is bisexual herself, but she was the worst. I told her I was questioning and she pressured me to come out, even though I'm not sure yet, and she told all of our college friends that I was bisexual. I was really upset about it, but I never told her. Anyway, I've just been ignoring that side of myself, and I've had several therapists, but I never told them anything. Do you think I should talk to my sister, who I really trust? I know she will accept me, and I think this bad experience shouldn't be keeping me from talking to anyone about this. Sorry for the testament, love your channel Georgia, I've been watching you since 2018, and you helped me a lot.

[@someperson3856]

I’m really sorry for what happened, what your best friend did was the wrong thing to do, she knew you weren’t 100% sure about you being bisexual, but she just went and told random people?? That sucks, and if you believe your sister is trustworthy, then yeah maybe you should try talking to her? But then again that’s your choice, you shouldn’t feel pressured to have to talk to anyone about it but if you feel like you desperately do, go ahead and reach out to your sister. And know that there will always be people who love and support you so good luck on your journey!

[@nelianascimento753]

@@someperson3856 thank you so much, I really needed to hear this words. I've watched so many videos about this and I have done lots of research, but it's so good to finally talk about this to someone and feel understood. For real, it's relieving. I don't know if I have the courage to talk to my sister yet, but I'll definitely think about it, because it's something that I need to take out of my chest. I never thought that anyone would read my comment, thanks again for helping me.

[@Djkdkxkcck]

Hii Georgia, im struggling for like 9 months now. And im now way more comfortable with the though i might be gay/be/pan. I would date a woman if i love/like her but i don't know if i will fall in love then. I had girlcrushes and boys but but im not sure if i really feel the same way ab girls. Maybe you have a tip or something like that. I hope you're feeling well! Sending you love! :)

[@yoyoanna1811]

so ive been thinking for a while... im fairly certain i dont give a sht abt the gender of the other person but then again, sometimes i feel like im not sure if i like girls and other genders romantically and maybe its all just a phase and i actually only like guys? but saying im straight feels wrong so where am i now ahhh i think saying im pan would fit but also without any experience or at having a crush or sth, i feel super uncertain abt this bc theres never been that aha moment, only a gradually progress up to this point at which i think im not straight....

[@CloeLaFreniere]

I don’t normally notice stuff like this but your makeup looks great!! Beautiful as always!!

[@urstankysmalltoe4768]

i am bisexual and have homophobic, its not too bad but they find it disgusting and disturbing, especially in the own family. i came out to my best friends (one’s straight but supporting and the other one is pan and we kinda shared our journey). i’ve also came out to 2 of my friends who i got gay vibes from so i just told them and turnes out i was right and they are supporting. then yesterday i came out to 2 classmates i got HUGE gay vibes from and i kinda gave hints like talking about gay series and movies:) then in class they asked a new substitute or smth if they listen to girl in red and i sat in front of them so i read the letter(with permission ofc) and gave it to her. she didnt get it which was sad but then i asked the girls if they listen to girl in red and then said that i listen to sweater weather :) i was so damn happy cuz one of them is like stem/stud and like got vibes. now we crush about that girl and talk about her. im so damn happy:) now 7/8 people know! i know this was long but i just wanted to tell this to anyone

[@hannahpaech2306]

Love how your like find KZbin's that you can look up to. ♥ for the last three days I have been binging ur videos. You are my Bi-con and helping me through all my uncertainty in discovering my bisexuality. Thank you so much 💖💜💙

[@novxmb.r9867]

I think I'm bisexual but I'm scared it's just a phase

[@mariannebrandon8891]

It’s okay you don’t have to label yourself if you’re not quite sure and sometimes labels change and that’s also okay 💖💜💙

[@emilian7052]

Like same

[@cuprisun]

Same👯‍♂️

[@rochestas]

How many phrases can you use with the word “all”? All of them!!

[@emanuelajeong8752]

Thank you so much, this video and especially the last advice really gave me hope ❤️

[@g8yearsago948]

0:12 when someone sings they need more coffee I feel like they don’t need more coffee

[@elinepieters5556]

where are the bisexuals !!! 🏳️‍🌈

[@specodust8770]

Woot woot!

[@abbigailm3727]

Here

[@thegrammarpolice6953]

🤟

[@tylerbeales1987]

I liked your makeup in this video with your outfit it matched perfectly.

[@lizzyholland2337]

you literally give the BEST advice!!!

[@gabbyperris3244]

I'm just so lost aha. I came out as bi to my friends a couple of months ago and now I'm just confused. I needed this

[@abbywilson9982]

soo i never really thought about sexuality until this year because I always had crushes on guys and stuff but recently a lot of stuff has changed. little things like not being sure if u want to look like a girl or if u actually like like said girl. normally i shoot down any "gay" thoughts i have bcuz i know i could never do anything more than a fling with a girl but still it gets a little confusing. sometimes I'm scared that i don't even like guys or don't even like girls or even crazier thoughts like what if i just think I'm bi because of like tv or tiktok but i try to tell myself that's just me overthinking. anyways didn't mean to pour my heart out and thank u for this video it was helpful

[@terencewong4459]

I know I'm bisexual, but I'm too scared to tell anyone. A girl got bullied for it at my school. What should I do?

[@blueseal1425]

Hello there :) I think first of all, you should think about whether there is a necessity to tell people you want to tell or not. Do they really need to know? You don't have to tell everyone - if you wish to come out, maybe choose one close friend who you open up to, or a couple of people in your closer environment. Often, especially when you get to know people more, you might have an idea of how they would react. I, personly would start with those. Or your family. You don't have to hide it - luckily, a sexuality is nothing one can assume by looking at a person (or it should be). But if it puts you in danger, better not actively tell everyone.

[@destiny9419]

I need an advice friend. Cuz when I just do things on my own, it usually backfires or ends with me being embarrassed

[@LILI-oh6vc]

Thank you for this video! I wanna come out to my family but I’m still not sure if I’m bisexual 🤍

[@ronin2128]

I totally was not watching this while I was on my class meeting. I promise I was not watching this when the teacher was explaining the syllabus.

[@JustTravellin]

3:47 laughing dude in the background made me giggle

[@islaelizabeth9694]

did you just sing the beginning of ‘honeymoon avenue’? we stannnn! (also i swear that i’m being stalked, i been trying to figure this out)

[@carolinebrookes5411]

my problem is that i’m attracted to women and like i can imagine myself being sexual with a woman, but i could never see myself in a relationship or married to a female. i don’t know if there’s something wrong with me, am i straight? if i was straight then surely id only be sexually attracted to men. im not sure if anyone is going through the same let me know :)

[@kaitlynparrish9551]

Same! It really bugs me because I used to label myself as bi but now I'm unsure of how to label myself. I constantly find myself questioning if I'm just suppressing my feelings or if I'm actually straight.

[@carolinebrookes5411]

Kaitlyn Parrish it’s the worst because i want to be able to understand my label and who i am - is it guys and girls or just guys? but at the same time i can’t label myself when i’m so unsure about my attractions. wish there was an easy way to tell you know.

[@simonelliott5804]

biromantic?