How to Find a Husband for 2025

[@R.C.Eidson]

Best advice was at the end Merry Christmas

[@cayceescorner6829]

Haha. I took etiquette classes. I’m a conservative Christian woman who can do all these things mentioned (cooking, cleaning, SEWING, and knitting). I’m also educated and in shape (I go to the gym, maybe 125 lbs), petite, pretty decent looking and not “ran through.” I’m also 30 (apparently hitting this said wall). I don’t know that a lot of the millennial generation has the character, maturity, masculinity, leadership qualities, and/or Christian values that I look for. We have to be able to trust and lookup to the men we are with. Each gender seems to have their own set of problems now when it comes to dating🤷‍♀️ Good luck out there everyone ❤

[@R.C.Eidson]

You sound like you've done all the right things and taken life seriously. The more you accomplish for yourself the harder it is to find a partner

[@brittanyb5942]

Robert you are correct! If I had dated and married the 2 good guys that wanted me I would’ve never ended up being a single mother with an absentee baby father. At 38 (my current) age if I had chosen the good guys I guarantee you I would be married and living happily ever after. Instead I chose the bad guys, yes the drug dealers, the abusers, the abandoners. I have no desire to get married and I didn’t even wanna marry the bad guys either. The only guy I might have married was my son’s father ONLY because we had a child together. My advice for the younger girlies is to stay with the good guys. Most good guys stay good guys. Don’t take their kindness for weakness because in all honesty they will protect you better than the “bad guys.”

[@R.C.Eidson]

❤️💯👍

[@muma6559]

Brittany, what would you call a guy who competes or is jealous? Just going through something and still a good guy or not a good guy?

[@muma6559]

Brittany, what you describe is lack of parental guidance. With good parenting you would have easily chosen the good guy without a second glance at the bad players

[@Zizi-m9p]

Men switch up on you girl! Even the good ones. Don’t beat yourself up. May 2025 be your year of radical acceptance and radical self-love. How you love yourself is how you teach others to love you. Merry Christmas 🎅

[@BakiKing-g8v]

@@brittanyb5942 This is going to come across as harsh. I don’t mean for it to be, but I am a blunt person. You’re going to wind up 50 years old, depressed, and bitter with nothing but cats to keep you company. Your kids are going to grow up, and they aren’t going to take care of you. They are going to be busy with their own lives and their own families. If you want to see the future of boss babes that don’t need a man in the West, go look up videos on leftover women in China. Although the culture is different, the results are going to be the same. We attract what we are. Acknowledge your faults and become the type of person you want to attract, or enjoy your future of boxed wine and cats. 👍 Nowhere in your post did I see any personal accountability. They were bad. Well, what about you?

[@Galaxysparkles]

Strong people don’t need anyone we can live alone, it’s takes a special person to peak our interests and if your not that we move on.

[@R.C.Eidson]

I will move on fast

[@Galaxysparkles]

@ I couldn’t imagine todays dating game I’ve been with same woman 30 years.

[@R.C.Eidson]

@Galaxysparkles horrible man, exactly why I'm single and focused

[@actaccordingly6420]

Lady watcher here. No comments because listening. Not mad, just processing the info and your perspective. I've got the Napoleon Hill book in my reading queue. I'm setting the stage to improve my life in 2025 and beyond! Happy Christmas Eve!

[@R.C.Eidson]

Think and Grow Rich is a game changer thanks for viewing and commenting glad my information doesn't make you guys mad

[@octaviawilliams3159]

I love your honesty. So I work at the hospital. There's a lady that's like 55, never been married, doesn't have any kids, she does own her own home and she's held the same job for 23 years. I suggested to her that she change her schedule. Hey; you gotta give God something to work with. She got mad and stop talking to me. I promised myself to never give a grown woman advice again. The problem is that she's too stuck in her ways... I love how transparent you are. I've been married for 10 years...Emotionally, physically and spiritually!! My husband would agree with you 100%!!!

[@EyvetteColeman]

You can't control anything or anyone but yourself and sometimes we can't Even do that

[@bluepilledworld]

Yup, that's why no people over 60 are in the gym... Cause they don't want to stay healthy and fit.

[@brittanyb5942]

True!

[@lohgannserenah]

I love your channel. Because of your honesty. “You have to get out of the house. They ain’t coming to your doorstep.”

[@R.C.Eidson]

Facts💪

[@3k445]

Thank you for your honesty. Female, traditional and conservative...True work ethic, work out daily, cook daily, clean, love my dogs, embrace Zen and Yoga. Have high standards and it is difficult to find a man with true worth and discipline. It really is hard! ❤❤

[@Hilary945]

I am a very disciplined person, I have done the work to break generational cycles and I have built a good life for myself. I read books, I am currently learning Chinese. I can have conversations about Neuroscience, Geography, travel, languages etc. I don't drink and don't hang around people going nowhere. If a man wants my time he needs to have the level of discipline that I have. Like you said, etiquette is a must and most people don't have manner's either.

[@alexandersupertrump9445]

Nice... These are the qualitys I go for... But its hard when you dont leave your comfort zone and are in a constant cycle of work, comfort and making progress without meeting People...

[@R.C.Eidson]

The more educated you are and the harder you work on yourself. Makes it very hard to attract a partner because the dating pool starts to get very thin

[@Hilary945]

@@R.C.Eidson That's a good thing because people with no discipline shouldn't be a dating option.

[@Hilary945]

@@R.C.Eidson I met a few people my age in college, but they had no discipline. They didn't show up to lecture frequently, they didn't turn in their homework on time and they couldn't keep a simple job while in school and they were not emotionally 35.

[@brittanyb5942]

I have ZERO desire to get married! But anyways have a Merry Christmas 😊

[@R.C.Eidson]

I completely understand. Merry Christmas

[@izaiahcameron]

Love your videos brotha

[@samanthalatrucka]

Solid advice. Thank you

[@R.C.Eidson]

Thank you 😍😘

[@samanthalatrucka]

@R.C.Eidson the heart eyes omg 😩 staaahp

[@R.C.Eidson]

@samanthalatrucka 😘😘😘 Don't play

[@miley23-yk8eb]

I work in a hospital and you got me laughing out loud 😂. As a female I don't comment, I like to listen to what you have to say and listen to other men's point of view.

[@R.C.Eidson]

💪 Thank for being here ❤️

[@Marteen40]

You’ve helped me with my budget. I feel nothing personally because the subject is not my experience however it’s cool, I get the content that align and move on. Thanks for your personal development insights

[@R.C.Eidson]

💪💪 thank you

[@Fat2fitASAP]

So true. A few years ago my ex told me in anger how she "wasted" her youth on me. Which is true because I was a straight bum in highschool and in my 20's. Not a bum no more though 😂

[@bluepilledworld]

She didn't waste her time... That's a NARC abuser right there! If she was wasting her time, why the F she stayed... Don't take that talk... It'll only get worse, then used to abuse you!

[@brittanyb5942]

It’s good that you WANTED to change! Most people refuse to change and want to continue to have that high school immature mentality 😞

[@dawee6196]

Robert’s been through some stuff, and he’s speaking from experience. But, his advice is based a lot on his POV, so he’s right about some things, but not everything. My advice? Work on yourself, be real about who you are and what you want, and don’t be a jerk. Ask yourself, “Would I date me if I were on the other side?" There are plenty of amazing women and men out there, you just have to be one to get one.

[@R.C.Eidson]

Most definitely... A better you will definitely help you find a better partner. ❤️💪💯

[@Thepinatamma]

I'm a dude, and I love your content. My lady cooks, cleans, and is funny. That goes a long way.

[@R.C.Eidson]

It sure does. Merry Christmas man

[@bluepilledworld]

Yup... These modern women are none of that. Funny, men have no problems cleaning, cooking, or having fun... Women want men to do all those things for them.. Instead of doing it for a happy life. These women are toxic...I see how my mom destroyed my dad, and before I could see it... He dead! Now I see it all! What a demon has infiltrated at some point. It's amazing what I see.

[@brittanyb5942]

I did all that for the ex plus had sex with him multiple times a week and he still acted crazy! In fact he took advantage of me. He took me for granted!

[@Thepinatamma]

​@R.C.Eidson Thank you sir!

[@jasonrose1758]

I left my ex and her daughter at a restaurant when she started some shit.

[@R.C.Eidson]

😂😂😂 leave that ass in a heartbeat

[@KaitoXXII]

Yes preach brother preach 💯

[@shineyconker]

As a women, the top traits are emotional intelligence, respect, transparency and emotional maturity. We are no longer running from a sabre tooth tiger so we'll survive, not needing the rest 😅

[@elishadale2342]

Thankyou for this. These level up gurus tell us to be so obviously manipulative and I’m wondering why it barely works. Just being genuine with the right man is enough who would’ve thought. Thanks for this

[@R.C.Eidson]

You're welcome 😘

[@PocaNova1]

😂😂 I laughed throughout this entire video. No lies detected

[@R.C.Eidson]

😂 thanks for watching love the channel keep it up

[@HolisticManifesting]

This message was beautiful and funny. I've already been married and not saying I wouldn't do it again, but it would have to be with a man I consider my friend first. I have observed those relationships being solid, romantic and lasting longer. ❤

[@R.C.Eidson]

I've noticed that too, you gotta have that foundation!

[@muma6559]

yes, etiquette school is really good for women, for sure

[@erbthatsright1103]

Thank you Sir!

[@R.C.Eidson]

You're welcome Merry Christmas

[@shulondamba]

It’s been a min since I been on your page but I loved the content. I think child support is definitely a strangler to a man. It was interesting to hear your perspective that you gave women. I actually enjoyed listening to it.

[@silverempress333]

Honestly, I think everyone can have a different opinion. However to me, child support is our societies way to make men think twice (or maybe 5 to 10 times) before having sex with a woman or even marrying someone who has poor moral standards. Which protects both the men and women from themselves (so to speak). Just my opinion about this. I typically watch your channel for financial advice. Happy Holidays +

[@R.C.Eidson]

Aww thank you for being here. I really appreciate the feedback

[@EyvetteColeman]

Im 56 and in my life I've only had two major boyfriends i thought and I met him we dated a year lived together 7 years and got married my first and last it's up to God to be someone else into my life for that

[@tvaa193]

Thank-you!!! Good message and no offense taken!! Merry Christmas!!! 🎅

[@R.C.Eidson]

Merry Christmas

[@2MasterBuilder2]

Good men don't want to get married. We just don't have time for the shenanigans; and there will be shenanigans.

[@R.C.Eidson]

Agreed

[@2MasterBuilder2]

It never fails man. In a world dominated by lies, bringing the truth takes crazy courage; keep bringing it my brotha

[@alyfoxx26]

I appreciate your transparency, I definitely enjoyed the message. Being single myself it's hard finding someone decent when the dating culture is tainted the way it is. I've always found myself putting in 80% while receiving 20% then when I leave they go crazy lol but I'll remain hopeful. In the meantime I'll continue working on myself and career. Thank you for the advice and God Bless😌❤️

[@R.C.Eidson]

If you leave and they go crazy... You must be doing something right. Might be time to start dating the men above your normal standards

[@brittanyb5942]

Yes same! A lot of men take advantage of you and take you for granted. They take your kindness for weakness.

[@daryl9799]

​@@brittanyb5942 Well its obvious your not picking the right kinda men. If you see it happening move on plain and simple. Im 48 ive talked so many women lately they just drag on these useless guys its just mind boggling its almost funny already. Its your responsibility no one elses just like its mine I move on quick 1-2 dates you can tell right there listen to what they have to say.

[@EyvetteColeman]

Happy holidays to you too

[@R.C.Eidson]

Merry Christmas 💪💯

[@EyvetteColeman]

@@R.C.Eidson Thank you and a huge favor and blessings to you 🙏

[@EyvetteColeman]

@@R.C.Eidson Thank you and a huge favor and blessings to you 🙏

[@ursulac.2952]

This is interesting because many women know how to cook and clean. They may just not be interested in doing so for someone, unless they really like them on a deep level. In addition, there's many high character women it depends on the people you're around and how they grew up.

[@deniseneumann]

I feel so exposed. But I am not mad. I am aware of the fact that I still have a lot of work to do.

[@R.C.Eidson]

We all have work to do

[@makeupbymelisa11]

You should do a live Q&A with women like a call in talk show

[@R.C.Eidson]

Yeah I think I'm about to start doing that at the first of the year

[@Skya1225]

Bright and early everyone 😊

[@R.C.Eidson]

You know I'm gonna be here

[@thevixenxiii]

2:30 get out from under the cats 😂😂😂😂😂

[@R.C.Eidson]

Catwoman

[@brittanyb5942]

😂🤭 I prefer dogs but I like all animals

[@R.C.Eidson]

@@brittanyb5942 😂

[@ma-lovee]

I’m not looking for a husband yet, but i clicked on this soooo fast because I knew it would be a good one 😂😂😂

[@R.C.Eidson]

Aw you're beautiful you won't be single long

[@janiceisaac2209]

You made me laugh for the first time in a long time- I’m ok with or without a man I don’t drink -own my home ,my car ,have a pension my own business - I know how to cook,clean etc etc- a man can only enhance what I got going on I don’t need him to take care of me and he can arrive on a bicycle as long as he has plans to get a car😂

[@R.C.Eidson]

You know he better not show up on a bicycle 😂

[@EyvetteColeman]

My mom passed away 1987 i was 17 34 i got married and she was the same looking for love from my daddy that abusive to her emotionally financially socially All her life she was 40 when she passed away so i never had that to teach me i literally learned on my own i know how to treat a person cause i want that

[@IlluminateYourPower]

Yes, I could stich your sweater - just saying. 😂 I really appreciate your perspectives, keep sharing.

[@R.C.Eidson]

You sound like a keeper, I appreciate the support 😂

[@nanadee5196]

Gold talk hoping he clinch 1million subs at the end of 2025

[@EyvetteColeman]

I love to cook and i think im a good cook i don't like being a house wife i love working im a Sagittarius we are loyal Brutally Honest confidence kind loving I just wear my heart on my sleeve and i have to stop doing that

[@bluepilledworld]

Most women choose the career over family needs... Women think it's one or the other... That they are in competition for making money... Women sacrifice their family and relationship for trying to be bread winners... And ultimately they lose good men that obviously are stronger and durable than any woman... But women can't admit it. They don't want to take the garbage out, but they could, they don't want to salt the driveway, but they could... I've seen it... Many women are narcissistic manipulators and it kills!

[@brittanyb5942]

I love to cook as well. It’s therapeutic for me 😊

[@felicia2398]

The only time I get triggered is knowing my age and how i wasted my youth . I put my effort into " potential" vs a man that was solid knowing what he wanted out of life . As for the child support Im 100% in agreement that men ( only the men ) that are in there for their children and getting sucked dry for the mother to be living comfortable and act of entitlement is sickening. My ex did not want to take responsibility for his child and walked out not signing her BC . I had fights with friends/ family over not wanting child support. I just wanted peace and safety for her and I .

[@R.C.Eidson]

Peace and safety is the most important thing. I've told men and women not to do child support for those exact reasons

[@felicia2398]

@@R.C.Eidson absolutely worth it !

[@BakiKing-g8v]

How to find a wife in 2025. Get a passport. 👍

[@brittanyb5942]

Oh my!

[@R.C.Eidson]

😂😂😂 I hear it is the way to go these days

[@latarrotraylor7329]

This!

[@alexandersupertrump9445]

Its the same Every where...

[@BakiKing-g8v]

@@alexandersupertrump9445 You say that, but you have no experience. If you aren’t an elderly man looking for a girl in her 20s, you can find a good wife.

[@TheComedyHistorian]

Watching this just in case the state mandates being gay in the future, thanks Rob!

[@R.C.Eidson]

😂😂😂

[@thevixenxiii]

7:07 😂😂😂😂omg Robert I’m dying laughing

[@R.C.Eidson]

Shrek 😂

[@deniseneumann]

😂😂😂

[@lohgannserenah]

Him: If you double down you can find you one before the new year. Get out from under the cats 🤣 Me 23 with 2 cats and no boyfriend. Moved to Florida 3 years ago: 😂it’s 8 days left in this year. Deeper Message : have faith that the odds can turn in your favor at any time. You never now the day that your efforts will actually start to work out for you.

[@ma-lovee]

I took shrek to the house 😅😂 love your content !

[@R.C.Eidson]

😂

[@lohgannserenah]

From a males perspective what are 5 traits that you deem as high value woman attributes

[@R.C.Eidson]

Deep thinking with a strategic mind is irreplaceable. Educated/book smart Cooking I think after that it would probably get sexual at least for me

[@lohgannserenah]

@ this video series is good bc speaking for my gen….traditions have been lost and skewed. So much misinformation out there.

[@R.C.Eidson]

@lohgannserenah thank you ❤️

[@TerencioJesenia]

Great content, as always! Could you help me with something unrelated: I have a SafePal wallet with USDT, and I have the seed phrase. (alarm fetch churn bridge exercise tape speak race clerk couch crater letter). How can I transfer them to Binance?

[@lohgannserenah]

Okay but seriously. Part two of this video……list more direct points. 1-5 (1)learn maternal skills (2)how you carry yourself (3)if you want a high value man become a high value women (Traits listed) (4)what type of man do you want? Visualize him (5) how to cater to your man properly. Especially in this fatherless generation or who may not have a strong male figure in their life.

[@Alien-Earth1]

RC!👍💯💙👽🌏

[@Zizi-m9p]

I have to laugh, Robert!😂 As a woman sub...why do you want us to get husbands while the advice all along has been..."Stay cash heavy & single!" Stop Rob. We must stay the course 😂 Merry Christmas 🎅

[@R.C.Eidson]

Fair you got me 😂

[@EyvetteColeman]

I have a Ditater that likes to Control everything simply because he has it and I don't he's basically helping out a homeless person which is me but where legally separated still yeah it's a Bad horrible story im just being honest

[@EyvetteColeman]

Be aware to Get setup cause that's what there into now and using men scamming I've never been that way im very Old school

[@EyvetteColeman]

I never flerted with men why would you if you with the person that thought enough to want to take you out

[@Galaxysparkles]

Do you have any views on pyramids, time travel , time slips ancient pasts , multi dimensions ,Parallel universes ?

[@R.C.Eidson]

Yeah most definitely I sure do. Great topic I'll try to get around to it soon

[@3k445]

Shrek!! ❤❤❤

[@lohgannserenah]

Theo Von voice: “ Do Shawty want a thug? Shawty don’t want a thug. Shawty want an electrician. Somebody who can build you a solid roof” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🩷

[@R.C.Eidson]

😂

[@EyvetteColeman]

God morning 🌄 sir Edison

[@R.C.Eidson]

Good morning 🥇

[@EyvetteColeman]

@R.C.Eidson 👋🙏☝️

[@EyvetteColeman]

My mom passed away of stage 4 cancer but she really died of a Broken heart 💔 that pushed her Cancer out of control I got to spend a week with her in the hospital soon as I went back to school she passed away I was told she didn't want me to see her passing away she was my best friend me and one of my other sister used to go with her to get our daddy from the lady he was sleeping with for decades I would help my sister fight him when he broke mops and broom's over her head and back we have never forgiven him for that never But my momma found it in her heart to forgive him for all of that before she passed away

[@EyvetteColeman]

After she died he's been married 5 times looking for someone to take care of him and he's now 88 years old will be 89 in January

[@dfuk66]

I 30F ...you never pissed me off. Sometimes you say incel things and I realize this is how you ended up in your current situation. This is what you get. Its your life tho do you boo boo. Everyone just follow your heart and take your brain with you.

[@R.C.Eidson]

I'm winning. My life is really good and I'm happy all that negativity projected on me from my children's mother's happens to me while I was young, because I have plenty of time to recover

[@cesars6355]

Man, I’ve seen at least three to four youtubers plagiarize your most popular video’s title and it drives me nuts. Stay sane out there 😂

[@R.C.Eidson]

I see it all the time. I just keep going

[@EyvetteColeman]

Ain't no younger women watching this there somewhere laid up using someone playing games getting setup themselves

[@Wewereneveryoung]

Nah...

[@rickblacktigerwood]

Firefox 🦊

[@makeupbymelisa11]

7:20 not Shreck! So a man?💀 you mean Fiona? I’m messing with you lol.

[@R.C.Eidson]

That's why I started laughing cause I said Shrek but was thinking of Fiona when she became an ogre lol

[@muma6559]

i think you need to live in the east a few years to get a fresh perspective, seriously

[@dfuk66]

This was hilarious...when is your birthday? What is your horoscope sign. 😂 you don't understand women. We don't need safety or a man 😂

[@R.C.Eidson]

Y'all need cats 😂

[@dfuk66]

Nope we need cats, dogs, friends, sisters, children, hobbies, passion ​@@R.C.Eidson

[@latarrotraylor7329]

Y’all don’t wanna pay for it. Y’all want women to actually like you

[@R.C.Eidson]

Depends on the initial approach

[@SamanthaBankss]

😂😂😂

[@R.C.Eidson]

😂

[@latarrotraylor7329]

You probably should heal a little before giving relationship advice.

[@R.C.Eidson]

I'm healed I'm just not stupid. I've been single for years and live a completely drama free life

[@ImperfectJazzyJay]

not the little sausage fingers! bahahaha, sounds like something my Dad would say🤣 I agree with some, I disagree with some, but I'm offended by none. The cheat code for women nowadays is taking care of yourself so you still look like you're in your twenties, but you got that self awareness & wisdom from your thirties.

[@R.C.Eidson]

Very true. Taking care of yourself first is probably the most important thing you can do