How to find the Perfect Wife. Masculinity & Femininity in Christian Marriage.

[@viajerovegano9081]

"Why would you stop me from having candy, you are an abusive tyrant..." HAHAHA bro, that was hilarious, and a great analogy to illustrate that point, that's pretty much how most people react when not enabled to indulge in bad behaviors and can not see the big picture. Thanks for making this video, you guys are an inspiration.

[@savvageorge]

"Rejection won't kill you, sometimes rejection might even promote you" Great quote.

[@Shoop8964]

This advice is really good. I’m realizing how much culture has affected my life. As a wife, I’m hoping that I can be better at my role and help our family get into a godly hierarchy.

[@tedbox6299]

You should look up a man named Sumner Wemp. His site has many Biblical advices for husbands and wives.

[@MoonPhaze5]

Fast and pray. ❤️‍🔥

[@bassoonatlarge9752]

This is the most red pill advice I’ve seen from Christians. Awesome.

[@nicoledennis-lawrence-lg6lc]

Please keep sharing your Christian ideals with the world!!!!

[@jamesfrels7492]

Great points on how believing so many small lil half truths & tropes about marriage and relationships, can lead to a life of pain. I’ve witnessed this with my own parents for my entire life. They are strong believers yet this type of conversation has never entered their boomer minds ( I say it with love ) I’ve witnessed an entire room @ a wedding erupting in a standing ovation because the phrase “ happy wife happy life “ was said, again ALL believers. Love y’all for making truthful well rounded videos about the topics that are most relevant & can actually be controlled by our actions. Glory to God !

[@10024westsidenyc]

Great insights, it should be revised to happy emotional regulation, happy life. lol

[@elektromeha]

Dear Scott & Kelly, this video is answer to my prayers. It is just want I needed. I am struggling with my manly hood and relationship with opposite sex. Thank you for making it much clearer to understand the roles and mission in man's life.

[@steveandnaz]

Not sure if its true or not, but we have heard multiple times that hibicus could cause fertility issues to men and young women. Take it for what its worth... God bless

[@mcanultymichelle]

I’m a single mother of two grown sons and I don’t care how old they think they are ,they are not to old to sit down and listen to Scott’s and Kelley’s wisdom.l make them listen to your videos if they want to eat .my house my rules 😆. Thanks for being a good role model

[@AC_2.4-10]

Amen, amen, amen. So grateful for the messages you are sharing, Scott and Kelli. 🙏❤ I just have to share a personal testimony here (tried to keep it short!)...In the midst of my stubborn pride and rebellious spirit within the God-given roles of husband and wife, God providentially brought a serious illness to me that has completely shaken things up in the most positive way. Our marriage now looks so much more like God’s design, and it has truly gotten stronger as time goes on within this design. I’m so humbled and grateful to the Lord - His ways are so much higher than our own and we have joyful anticipation for how He is going to continue leading us! I also have to share a favorite definition I've come across over the years (John Piper): Submission in marriage is the divine calling of a wife to honor and affirm her husband's leadership and help carry it through according to her gifts. It is a disposition to follow a husband's authority, and an inclination to yield to his leadership. Where disposition and inclination are heart words, not merely behavior words. We do this from the heart - so it's a joyful submission, not a bitter or begrudging submission. Such a difference!!

[@nikMAyo6831]

Yes!! :)

[@nataliec4756]

Such an important conversation!

[@lovelifementoring5399]

Thank you ❤

[@JesusFreak4Ever]

Thank you for the language to pray: that God's Spirit Lead us to both to commit to a Biblical World view. Thats the only way this is gonna work. And now I understand why my husband says we shouldn't 'shove religion' down our kids throats, that we should live by example and just let them figure it out for themselves. That is *exactly* the libertarian-type of worldview you're talking about. Scripture is clear we are to teach our kids. Our kids are college aged but Praise Jesus still live at home. So they are seeing the Peace thats come from me getting Saved and husband and I going to church. One of our kids goes to church with us. But none of them Saved yet. It alarms me that my husband doesn't seem to have a concern about this and even got angry at me when I gave the kids an overview of The Bible. But - that honestly was out of order! My husband should've been spearheading that. I did it because he was NOT! (And The Lord did give me an outline). But I understand the earworm causing that thinking now!! I used to think it was caused laziness (and that may play into it some) And he never wants to discuss anything! Now I see *that* as part of this mind virus too!!! God THANK YOU for Truth and Clarity!!!!

[@nikMAyo6831]

Praying for our husband's (or our husband we will meet). God has been working on my heart & mind, teaching me, leading me in preparation for marriage. :)

[@kaylajames3098]

I love you guys. Men, put your foot down. This video taught me about men.

[@Fearlessly91]

If a man compared being in a relationship with me to parenting a child, he wouldn’t be my man for long.

[@sofiabravo1994]

This attitude is why women have trouble getting married and staying married.

[@Fearlessly91]

@@sofiabravo1994 because we have self respect?

[@reneecrotty6910]

What you two said about the Matt Walsh thing is exactly what ive been doing towards the daily wire and Candace Owens .. I always feel anxious and negative afterwards! I try not to click on the videos either!

[@reneecrotty6910]

Im sure we are all around the same age, but I feel like you guys are my parents (in the best way) hahaha! Love the wisdom!!!! You always surprise me 🇦🇺🦘

[@Sugarbaby4l]

I’m single and I want to be a house wife where do I find a man that want a house wife

[@Simplyzipporah]

Pray and fast and then try to get involved in your church and community. Go to Christian events (appear friendly, smile and dress feminine ). Also just choose a church with more young people. Or older depending your age. But most importantly, pray, believe you will receive it. And have faith in God. Proverbs 19:14 - House and wealth are inherited from fathers, but a prudent wife is from the Lord. Psalm 37:4 - Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart.

[@ram47863]

Pray, a lot of my female friend become SAHM They have kind Husband, not only the husband good provider, they also helping with raising children and cleaning the house too Even when the wife not doing 50/50

[@RealFredbaby]

I've been thinking about this subject for the past month and I"m glad y'all uploaded the video. Any books you recommend? Besides "When I Say No I say Guilty" or "Boundaries" or "No more mr nice guy"

[@scarliebee]

How do you teach your boys (children) to be on a mission? Do you have any book recommendations for that? Games for little kids, goals for middle schoolers, jobs for high schoolers? I wonder how we can practice that in a fun way for our sons.

[@tedbox6299]

The only book I can recommend is a book called "fishing for men" written by Sumner Wemp. It's an older book and short.

[@ScottandKelli]

I will have Scott follow up with you on this!

[@GameDevFox]

"Pleasant Wife; Pleasant Life"

[@GameDevFox]

@Sam97-oi4vc A women who is at peace with her husband will always be more happy than one who is not

[@GameDevFox]

@Sam97-oi4vc Agreed

[@JesusFreak4Ever]

I'm 53 years old, been married 29 yrs. 4 kids still at home. Got Saved in 2021. My husband is attending church with me and Lord is Moving in our marriage and family. God's Design for marriage really is Perfect but you are right, it's utterly foreign for the reasons you've discussed. I think most women LONG to have the man be sold out to Jesus and LEAD like that. Cause I'm exhausted. Utterly exhausted. Here's the fear: this is a perfect system for a Christ - Led man. It's a dangerous system with a man who is led by his flesh. Because he will take his whole family down with him. Oh how we need discipleship on this. I hear *nothing* along the lines of how you two explain it. Lord I agree with Your Perfect Plan for my marriage and all marriages. May Your Spirit Guide us in keeping our gaze on Jesus and in shifting the affections of our hearts so we want this. Give us The Fear of The Lord that we would understand our final accounting for how men lead and women submit. I bless saintly men to understand their role as Leader is anchored in always guiding their family towards Christ, and for that position to be held in Honor. Send Teachers Lord. In Jesus's name

[@tinaloewen9006]

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