How to fix a broken heart. Handling a breakup

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[@LordTaylor007]

The movie in your mind is the toughest thing to change. I’ve started to get involved with other interests, like cigars to replace the old memories.

[@Libertarianmobius1]

Keep up the good fight. "A warrior doesn't give up what he loves. He finds the love in what he does."

[@alexrawls7407]

I love you bro and I respect your opinions and Scripture posts but I somewhat Disagree with your opinion of Mgtow. I am living the philosophy of Mgtow as a life plan, I tried the dating and relating with the intention of Marriage. I’ve lost 2 homes, lost 2 engagement rings and suffered a Heart attack for my troubles. At the age of 38 after so much damage has been done to me I can honestly say I’m done with women, I simply don’t have the financial resources nor the physical energy to entertain a woman again. My plan is to live out the rest of my life in peace, better my health both in body and mind. Buy a home with a little land and live quietly in prayer to God.

[@NorthernBell4612]

Good Afternoon George, How to fix a broken heart. Handling a breakup A timeless question. Experiencing one breakup in my 20s was a heartfelt and ponderous time. Lessons learned and applied certainly. A person cannot give of themselves what they do not possess. That could be in and of knowing yourself, clarity, maturity, values, compatibility for the long haul and communication as well as those of the other. As time passed I was thankful for the break up. I thought I may be single the rest of my life, not out of disinterest or opportunity but wasn’t interested investing in the would be suiters. I was discerning and remained to myself. It was just how it was and likely to be so until otherwise noted. Thankful to have kept to myself with a clear mind and heart space it led to meeting a wonderful man and a happy devoted marriage. Life is full of lessons should we take heed to them. After my husband’s passing I thought could I or would I have the capability to love another? The answer to those questions for me turned out to be yes. It didn’t diminish the love and respect I had for my husband nor should it impede the quality of love for another if it was to be. For every ending there is a new beginning. It was a daunting horizon in many aspects of this new landscape. The gentlemen I later met also in his 60s (now since passed) we also enjoyed a beautiful loving quality and devoted relationship. It is a year this month since his passing. So for now I get it in experiencing a female version of a temporary phase and type of MGTOW as I process things. Two time winner in having such deep quality relationships or two time loser in being separated by death. I’ll focus on the good, not the sad thank you. There was a bounty of goodness. For every ending there is a new beginning I say to myself now looking at a uniquely seasoned fossil in the mirror. One of many lessons I have learned along the way regarding relationships is the heart has the capacity to love again after breakup or widowhood. It is a personal choice. It is my belief within the vastness of the heart there are places no one has ever seen or been and remain undiscovered and virtually untouched. There are also special places solely occupied by those we have loved and lost by death who rightfully and reverently reside there. There is life after heartbreak and loss. It is our responsibility, privilege and opportunity to continuously grow and pour the ”living” back into life.

[@city_by_the_bay7769]

The most simple and efficient way is to find someone new.

[@K-ONE16]

That’s dangerous because you could hurt someone since you’re still in a state of emotional pain

[@DiscussionsofLife]

Yes, but I would say not to do this in spite of the person that hurt you. Take a set amount of time (a couple of months) to acknowledge your feelings, then do what you must to begin recovery. If you ever loved that person to begin with, love from a distance. You will be more at peace for it.

[@stonesfan285]

I caught oneitis a few years back. For me, moving on took time. But basically I sat down, meditated and tried to think about the reasons why it didn't work. And why it couldn't work in the future. She landed on her feet, met a guy who seems to care about her and they seem happy. This is why I refuse to get attached to people now. Attachment leads to fear that you'll lose them and you'll do irrational things to keep them.

[@Baybay_85]

I disagree with part of this…. I say dont look to replace the person so quickly. Give it some time. Work on yourself. Because you can hurt someone else all because you are still hurting. You want to be able to give another person your all, not part of you because your ex still has the other half of you.

[@mosely25]

Point!

[@benjudahyisrael1727]

NEVER GIVE YOUR ALL TO ANY WOMAN---ONLY THE MOST HIGH YAH DESERVES your all...don't give no broken seal woman your all--she already gave her all when she gave it to the first man--its his all--- and the saying is true---SHE NEVER FORGETS HER FIRST..........you will never hold what the first man holds...everything in nature has YAHSHUA's Divine seal on it----TAKE THE SEAL....u do the same thing when you buy stuff in the store---u don't buy broken seal items---throw that shit away bro

[@eckhardt76]

Life is too short to grieve over a girl that dumped you and you could be with someone who is not only better but wants to be with you.

[@michaelj.8104]

Love it, great advice!

[@darnellj.9812]

Heart and thoughts can be painful !!!!

[@askyourselfwhatdoyoureally3542]

It's not broken. Little banged up. But still works...

[@solosportbikerider5734]

Very good knowledge I took notes 👌💪👍

[@maheshnanavare1517]

00.23 What a great simile you used, to explain that bad psychological habit easily.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ 1) Bhul jao completely 2) Baar bar yad krna matlb jakhm ko khuredna band kr 5.25 For me

[@alankrantz5834]

The singer Bonnie Tyler song It’s a heartache

[@jpoeste]

Goldie my captain!

[@skacharlie4714]

I appreciate the fact that you do not embrace MGTOW. It seems like a black hole for men unwilling to do the work of becoming greater. Learn the rules of the game and play accordingly. If you are a young man and you are unwilling to do so, then you my friend have been selected for a Charles Darwin award.

[@CyKoS100]

Great advice George!

[@akbauer2525]

Redirect your thoughts elsewhere. Restart or take up a new hobby or interests. If you can meet others through those activities you have mutual interests from the start. But don't make that activity only a tool to meet someone.

[@RokSlana]

I respectfully disagree. Going from one person to another is only delaying the inevitable and that is learning how to be happy and content on your own - first. It's how this relationship deal work : you either put up with the other persons expectations, trying to assert yours as well and get something of value in return (if you're lucky), get some of the good stuff, some of the bad and some of the ugly stuff that comes with all of this. Or you come to realize that the only thing you can change and work on is You. If one is miserable alone there is no one out there that can change that but You. This might not be the desired advice for a younger person without kids but still this is how I see it. There is only one spin to this - once you start to appreciate your time alone you also have no reason to be inviting drama and trouble in your life. But understanding better yourself, feeling okay with yourself first is probably a better start to finding a healthy relationship than just blindly going from one person to the next, hoping they somehow find you worthy of sticking around. Best of luck to everyone out there !

[@geodude6244]

Nah dude your wrong. It's in our DNA to not want the be alone. Sure you can become ok with being alone but being alone you eventually figure out isn't the way.

[@RokSlana]

@@geodude6244 being alone can be understood in more ways. I have kids, I have great family members, true friends and a lot of stuff that interests me. I am not advocating for loneliness, just saying that people would be better of doing some work on themselves first instead of searching for happiness blindly in other people. But alas - I too learned that the hard way.

[@trevorflarty1811]

On a minor note:The sound is back up to parr,George.

[@freddavidson286]

Father please continue to work on my life and my wife please work your will in both of our lives heal has only you can in your time amen

[@urwrstntmre]

Timeless advice, worth hearing again and again. Although I must say, those glasses kind of make you look like a serial killer 😂

[@marciabernard3820]

Lol

[@daviddaughenbaugh1080]

Grrreat!

[@supremelordoftheuniverse5449]

She wasn’t the one, couldn’t care less about her. The question is more: how can I achieve the part where I hang out with ANY woman, much less many of them?

[@abubakardaudyut]

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[@rx7engines]

I'm 61 with 40 years of marriage under my belt, I can tell you this,

[@ernestbuckley8671]

😂😂😂

[@racebannon96]

And?

[@rx7engines]

@@racebannon96 I'm 62 with 41 years of marriage under my belt, I can tell you this,

[@johnwaters3771]

Do REALLY WANT TO TAKE ADVICE FROM A PENNSYLVANIA BARBER? DUH

[@themoonbleu627]

Yes

[@mba2ceo]

F' another WOMBMAN - that is the answer

[@benjudahyisrael1727]

all women have walls. all men have a pen. WARNING TO MEN: DONT GO AROUND SIGNING YOUR SIGNATURE ON A WALL THAT HAS MANY SIGNATURES BEFORE YOURS. BE THE FIRST....and most likely you may be THE VERY ONLY signature on her wall...AND THE VERY LAST. When you go to buy something in the store and you open it and read the WARNING: DO NOT USE IF SEAL IS BROKEN (or words similar)...would you buy anything in the store that already has a broken seal or has been tampered with or has been previously opened?? ABSOLULTLY NOT NEVVEEEEEERR. SO men listen up..if her seal is broken, put it back on the shelf or report it to the manager (her father). You only buy fresh sealed items....never used stuff. AND AND remember this...WHOEVER FIRST BREAKS HER SEAL IS THE ONLY RIGHTFUL TRUE OWNER...all others are a line of signatures on her vaginal wall.

[@KubiG1000]

Kind of disagree, young people do stupid things with stupid people, and regret (and hopefully learn from it) it later. Men are the same. To me it is more important how mature the woman is, and whether she's truly 'done' with her exes.

[@marciabernard3820]

Someone hurts u. heal

[@jeremys3951]

Lol do you know how hard it is to be the “first”? Unless you looked like Justin bieber back in middle/high school you ain’t gonna be her first, gimme a break

[@benjudahyisrael1727]

@@RustyShakleford1 ....marry both of them. The MOST HIGH gave them to you---YOU are the true head of household so stay in her house and hold on tight

[@Wu_36]

Why do I keep fooling myself? When I know you love someone else… Only a fool, breaks his own heart. Mighty Sparrow and Byron Lee