How to Forgive & Forget If Someone Betrays You? | Sadhguru

Responding to a question about forgetting and forgiving, Sadhguru looks at why a person feels the need to forgive or forget, and explains how most people are not suffering life but their inability to handle their memory.
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stop being a victim of someone else’s stupidity and just focus on yourself well-being. ❤

[@ashasandhiasingaram3900]

This 👍

[@alanm6o9]

The timing on this is no coincidence. This is exactly what i needed to hear right at this very moment

[@addsoysauce4862]

Me too.

[@imaXenoX]

True for me too

[@UnitedSoulsFellowship]

I just went through ART therapy yesterday focusing on acceptance and rejection. When you say this wasn't a coincidence, I agree with you 100%

[@sairamya2098]

Me too same here😅

[@suchithragireesh-vz2ex]

True

[@youyemyay2022]

Every word that Sadhguru is saying in this clip is worth its weight in gold. I have had to apply these principles on countless occasions in the past and it has changed (and still changing) my outlook on life for the better. Even though I feel hurt initially when someone says something that is hurtful, my brain reminds my heart about these nuggets of wisdom from Sadhguru and I immediately feel joyful and move on with whatever I was doing prior to the encounter. Yes, sometimes it lingers and smolders longer but I have been able to move on joyfully every time. I have had 2 such unpleasant encounters even in the last 4 days as well as on many previous occasions. Every time I apply this principle and I have been able to emerge unscathed mentally and emotionally.

[@ankitagarwal5118]

Do you try to also hurt the other or just move away?

[@youyemyay2022]

@@ankitagarwal5118 like I said in my post above, in the recent years, I have been making every effort to not react, instead try and move away. I think that is the best way to be at peace with oneself.

[@AnandJohn81]

Bro, could you explain that statement "worth it's weight in gold" ?

[@AnandJohn81]

If u can't, then maybe u got ur answer?

[@youyemyay2022]

@@AnandJohn81 Oh, that was just a figure of speech I used. I just meant that it resoundingly rings true with me and I find it very meaningful and applicable to the path I am trying to be on in my life. If you think that phrase is inappropriate, you very much have the power to ignore or substitute it with your own expression that and I will of course respect that.

[@nigelgoodwin5094]

We need a plethora of Sadhgurus for this planet!

[@alistairmurray626]

what a conflanurite statement! i love it!

[@raymondtendau2749]

Sometimes, our mind remembers what should be forgotten and forgets what should be remebered.

[@solshine2510]

I prayed for saving me from judging others this morning. From tagging and pigeonholing. This is not a coincidence that 10 minutes later this pops. Wise words. ❤

[@Amare-r2u]

What a wise man! And how perfectly he knows people, their minds and life itself... And I really like his sense of humour. And the way he laughs out loud sometimes. 🙂♥

[@ReikiMasterCarlie]

What a truth.💖 All people are horrible, accept them, work with them

[@lifymusic]

Intelligence is needed to understand this and apply it to life.

[@RajSooda]

Sadhguru is a blessing for all of us, Love from Pakistan 🇵🇰♥️

[@dawunigrace9341]

Sadhguru is my God thank you very much

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Sadhguru looking cool AF 😎

[@chasefancy3092]

Namaskaram Sadhguru! Bilqul Say Bhaat Bhai! This is a very serious issue. I have suffered traumatizing events in my past. I use meditation to prevent myself from having "flashbacks" which almost feel like "lucid dreams." I find this is difficult to do because it involves going deep into your neural synaptic wave function. The last thing you want to do is create resentment, bitterness, and negative energy in your soul. It is much better to forgive and forget. I realize this is easier said than done. Excellent Video!

[@jocometa2024]

To me, everything he said made perfect sense.🙏

[@ShivaKailashShambho]

Sadhguru is a wise guy.

[@nemoxero]

forgiving oneself is the most difficult…❤️🔥🌈❤️

[@Soltuts]

Forgiveness is free, may we all embrace it! ♥♥♥

[@RamyaChandramouli-e4o]

just needed to hear this! what a blessing to have you Sadhguru.. I am sorry for taking your wonderful presence for granted

[@_hdawn9071]

“..Long have you thus experienced stress, experienced pain, experienced loss, swelling the cemeteries - enough to become disenchanted with all fabricated things, enough to become dispassionate, enough to be released." Assu Sutta (Samyutta Nikaya 15.3)

[@mgroliveira]

Each and every thing in this tridimensional world has a good and bad side operating simultaneously side by side. We need wisdom to surf these pleasant and unpleasant waves of our tridimentional lives, with grace and balance. Forgiveness happens when we remember a certain painful past experience and no longer suffer, or fall off from our surf board, by getting affected negatively by the remembrance of it

[@Elonmuskateer]

Suffering your memory is an awful mindset

[@warriorshedge6772]

It truly is, insomnia is what i get for it

[@theboredPee-kay]

I think it gets better with time

[@Jinadaz]

Good lesson for your brain but bad for your heart

[@theboredPee-kay]

@@warriorshedge6772 Try Isha Kriya. It is slow but definitely helps and works!

[@ginosalihbegovic7137]

A mind that is set don’t move so break your mindset.

[@praveennov]

Because life keeps moving on. Only wise thing to do for you to move on is forgive.

[@JulianMarkHouse]

Strong enough statements can convince many not all. Agree or disagree with this, that. That's what we are doing today.

[@ritiksain8840]

Sadhguru one video on Isha kriya. Please.

[@EMS01119]

Your talks never dissapoint

[@ritarodrigues9946]

Thank you Sir, great lesson explained. Blessings from Houston, TX🙏

[@kramnam4716]

Forgiveness is kindness to oneself ☺️🙏🏼♥️

[@manjerivenkatramanmuralidh3762]

We FORGIVE YOU AND MOVE ON.

[@DeborahCroft]

I ate from 2 Restaurants Thurs. both of the same brand Name. just a few hours later my head was spinning and light headed which lasted for a 3 day minimum. Both seemed cordial but i definitely did not feel that way prior; and 4 days later i am just beginning to feel better. This is where forgiveness is needed.

[@jamespratt7574]

Thank you I have a smile on my FACE

[@rashmathakur3980]

Sadhguru I love you so much 🎉

[@LuckyRout-l3f]

Sadguru you are my father❤ I choose

[@kishorekishore1144]

Excellent tips you have been given to society. Thank you 🙏

[@Guru_Ti17]

Forgive and move on...best policy. If you are forgetful then you can achieve real peace of mind...otherwise you can become a criminal... Great thoughts by Sadguru.

[@BillHustonPodcast]

Fabulous, thank you Sadhguru!

[@rahulgiri5659]

गुरु देव आपके दर्शन हुए सपने में ❤ पहली बार

[@metalrocker627]

Yes. You should forgive and forget betrayal.

[@RjKatoch]

Sometimes óúr mind remember what should be forgotten and remembers what should forgotten 😊😊

[@shara4036]

THANK YOU for sharing your WISDOM Sadhguru ji ❤❤❤

[@danihealer]

You don't full stop, stand up for yourself

[@vikramjadon26666]

Namaskaram, I'm coming today 5 pm at Isha foundation , Jaipur as promised. I love you.

[@explorer.samrat]

Do the best what's in your control. Other's betrayal and behaviour are not in our control...😊

[@anagha5101]

Namaskaram sadhguru🙏

[@PhillipBarnes-k5w]

Virtues are the forebears of Values and standards. Let's be Honest and stop suffering yesterday and be present, willing and Available.

[@puspajitpanda6712]

Namaskaram Sadguru that's my destiny i hope

[@Tears_2_Raindrops]

Happy Krishna Jayanti!! Sorry I fell in love at the wrong time! Sorry for having just a little emotions!

[@vaibbhavsanwalka4315]

जीवन कुल सहजता में है life is in total ease

[@abhinavgupta6141]

Superb video ...Sadhguru's Wisdom ❤🙏

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😀 love sadhguru from canada

[@lisanathan2995]

Thank you Sadghuru for these words. Bless you - but you already are.I have fermented a lot - liking yogurt a lot :)

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Thank you❤🙏

[@boingbryan8123]

Tq sadhguru...

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Namaskarm sadhguru 🌸🕉️🙏

[@sudharasanjayaprakash3388]

Thank you sg. 🌞👣🌱

[@Nayan_Dutta]

You're Love Guru Ji..

[@bhaskarhazarika5241]

জয় সদগুৰু🙏🕉🧘‍♂️

[@jennybarajas9112]

Por favor traducir al español. Gracias ☺️

[@raghavkumar3396]

You can't forget anything, the more you try to forget the more you remember. Practice mindfulness which is powerful

[@auptag4846]

Isn’t it? Isn’t it so? ❤

[@pulkitpandey3957]

Sadhguru❤❤

[@sublimechimp]

Thank you

[@missepicmandy]

I'm just getting nervous all the time jealous nervous lol. maybe even heart rate goes up. I'm scared sometimes to get rejected or something. or just I believe in fantasy

[@Manish.Meena.M]

You should do inner engineering😊

[@arletteeifler9915]

Very good suggestion​@@Manish.Meena.M

[@NatureHolisticHealing]

How about if its an ongoing experience from close ones and different people? How to move on ?

[@ПетроШколяр]

Run far away and move on

[@prabhasurendran8209]

🕉 नमः शिवाय 🙏

[@JustKamleshP]

9:39 💀 facts 💯

[@ÍndioDaRoleta]

Please no music no songs when sadhguru is speaking 🗣️ please no sounds

[@williambrighton1695]

Agreed

[@NoOne-wg9wi]

there is no music 😂

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🙏🏼🙏🏼

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Guru ji "vimoh" atheist k liye kuch video banaye.. Bhot jyada galat cheejein faila rahe hai aur bhagwan ko kuch nhi smjhte wo..

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Is this your Topic to talk to

[@TheVykingJoe]

Sadghuru looks like a movie or game character

[@jatinvaishnav6934]

Namaskaram sadguru, someone near me has became the victim of non-consensual images sharing, how to deal with the situation where someone has leaked the photos which arent meant to be seen by anybody? aka intimate images, please help, I feel helpless, seeing them suffering. what can they do in this situation?

[@Vinaymittu726]

Can anybody can tell what sadhguru wearing glass name or model name ?

[@johnrainsman6650]

I have a forgiveness problem, and it seems like I only forgive based on awful circumstances. For example, I forgave myself for upsetting my mom when I almost got hit by a car. I forgave my stepdad for his moments of being passive-aggressive, because he passed away. I forgave my coworker when she had a minor injury at work (she's fine now). That's the problem--I forgive based on severe misfortunes, so I guess I don't _TRULY_ forgive...like, not naturally. Does that make sense?

[@joejo7698]

🙏🏻

[@MRINMOYPARAI-mp8nl]

If persons are powerfull and doing conspiracy and trying to ruin a life and family entirely .....What I have to do .....

[@srkananda77y]

🙏🙏🙏

[@stevewilliams7852]

If you touch a hot stove and get burned, do you learn to not do it again?

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❤

[@danielvutran]

5:51

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God

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🙏🏻😇❤️

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there's a book called whispers of manifestation on borlest , and it talks about how using some secret tehniques you can attract almost everything in life it's not some bullshit law of attraction, it's the real deal

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🙏🏾♥️

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🙏🏿🌹

[@PingvinasBuratinas]

Don’t have to forgive. Why?

[@AnandJohn81]

Watch from 8.10min

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Who is here on Sunday 22 September

[@Zhanna-f9v]

💯👍💯

[@satyamvyas7538]

Sadguru hearing from two years you default in many parts in this video chemistry is a Mistry

[@SunshineAISHAH]

Will he come to the point

[@Juhi]

Let me help you summarise - 1. do not forget as if you do,you will repeat the mistake that led you to the heartbreak. 2. To forgive accept the people for what they are as you will not find nice people every corner of your life.

[@SunshineAISHAH]

Thank u

[@rohittamidapati6506]

Uhm! What if someone is being stopped from reading the user manual? Asking for a friend lol

[@devanshverma-dh7eq]

Try again from where you left. Whenever you can 😊

[@rohittamidapati6506]

@@devanshverma-dh7eq Thank you so much Anna. Means a lot. Always trying. Unfortunately Time is all mashed up, I am thirsting for silence, only silence can help me.

[@RakeshKumar-nn5hv]

The fact that nobody talks about the book whispers of manifestation on borlest speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance

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🔱💙🧡❤️🧡💙🔱

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✨🐉✨

[@stuckendamiddle]

it's a second chance of life

[@avinashshahi2263]

8:14 in the nutshell...

[@horse_rike]

If forgive and forget the traitoress politicians and move on 🎉❤

[@rudyponzio5871]

Ha, I betray myself... no one else can do it to me.....Why conservation in all directions is best and never not? You don't throw out your car alarm because it accuses everyone to be a thief? You use it every time you park.

[@RjKatoch]

😅😅😅