How to Forgive If You Can't Forget

This lecture was delivered at the National Jewish Retreat, in the Marriott Wardman Park Hotel, Washington, D.C. on Thursday, August 15, 2019 (14 Av, 5779).
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Forgiveness is a process in yourself, it allows you to heal and move on. It has nothing to do with the aggressor that harmed you. In fact, you don’t need to talk to them. It’s not like in kindergarten, when forgiving means that you should be friends again.

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We are directors of our dreams. We can make the person who hurt us to apologize in our dreams. Multiple times if necessary. This allows us to forgive and forget without engaging the perpetrator. Excercise directing you dreams until it works! Fake apologies can bring about real forgivenes.

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I can't forgive for a sin against someone else, but does that mean that I can condemn someone for what he did against someone else, even if he has done Teshuva? What about long term damages?

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