How To Get A Girlfriend Video

[@amcspaceape1580]

Elisha the type of guy to be disappointed in gym bro for not getting his girl's number.

[@vicphysiques]

Elisha the type of guy to ask you if you got the number, and then call the girl to make sure you called her.

[@sonarbuge7958]

Based profile pictures

[@lostcloud6615]

lmao elishas that bro, a bros bro

[@ICEcoldJT]

When you start taking care of yourself you start feeling better, you start looking better, and you start to attract better. It starts within you. 🤝

[@greyofficial1]

what da hell boi i didnt know Jt watches elisha.Both W youtubers

[@guitardrums195]

"How is your- how are your books?" Bro I was dying 😂😂😂

[@TROLOLOLOLOOOOOOOOOO]

"How iz your books?" Lmaoo

[@blueshanks1]

0:05 "I'm the highest thumos in the room" 🎶😂😂Elisha man I love ya

[@gabrielsbeitinsh6689]

Wanted to comment that!😂

[@KurtisElgood]

He’s Such a g

[@thestoik5440]

This is the video thats going to make Elisha famous.

[@Ncarrera123]

He’s already famous 😈

[@3rviLMusic]

facts

[@bettermanchannel770]

🔥🔥🔥 everday

[@dusky_og]

yuuup

[@Jamess0090]

I saw your comment on literally every video of elisha.

[@JonPeacock]

The flower doesn’t dream of the bee. It simply blossoms and the bee comes.

[@ElishaLong]

We are the bees brah

[@ryan_the_overlord]

@@ElishaLong Lmao

[@lofromental8504]

19 year old here. Ever since quarantine I changed my life around - quit my addiction to weed and porn - started to lift weights and read daily - got an internship and work for a purpose I've even started a youtube channel to spread this internal knowledge we all know of. If you are on the path, my content will remind you why you do what you do. PUT IN THE WORK!

[@roastedbread2915]

How are you now bro

[@ferguspitcher7911]

Man I wish I could, I literally cannot meet anyone. We’re stuck in lockdown again and everyone is scared of each other. Nowhere is open. The idea of a world where I can go and meet people seems so far away... everyone thinks it’s the right thing to do but I look around and I feel sick, we live in a world of fear where you either comply or are shamed for not doing so. The irony is the fear they have of dying is keeping them from living. I feel so isolated but I’m staying strong, keeping my mind and spirit healthy and it’s videos like yours that help keep me on track.

[@rkh3391]

The so called elites are trying to control us. To live in fear is to not live at all. Good luck bro

[@ImReadyD151]

Excuses Excuses. You can literally go anywhere. Wally world, the grocery store, other random stores, school. Etc.. etc.. Its possible, get out of that mindset, its just an excuse to not put yourself out there. Its possible

[@clydefloyd8751]

@@rkh3391 bro exactly, we gotta keep waking everyone up !

[@lrj4422]

Hop on tinder and get some girls lined up on there. You're probably overthinking it and no need to rush the process as well since we're all playing in this game for the long-run

[@Florian00]

@@lrj4422 Tinder sucks man, only wacko's and arrogant girls on there

[@calebwolffenduro]

High Thumos. Thanks for the vids Elisha. I’m glad I jumped aboard. From Aus 🇦🇺

[@ElishaLong]

What's up man. Got any new content on the way?

[@calebwolffenduro]

Yeah getting close man. Cheers

[@MultiMCGoober]

This is seriously the most quality content. Absolutely the pinnacle of your brand, got me stuck between cracking up and absorbing all this good information, I love it Elisha!

[@ElishaLong]

Thanks bro. Anything else you want to hear about?

[@MultiMCGoober]

@@ElishaLong For me personally, you talking about any philosophical topic like stoicism is very enjoyable due to your ability to distill things and make them easy to absorb, but I’ll watch anything you make

[@Sonnykendrick]

I walked up to a chick last week and she told me a week later that I looked like I could take on the world to her.... and all I did was walk up to her and talk to her. We got this in the bag homie!

[@mohamedadan6678]

yes sir! wish me luck, gonna ask a girl out this week and accept his challenge

[@ryanpatterson9526]

How much pressure should we apply when cupping the nuts? I don’t want to sound like a chipmunk on the phone.

[@MisterJunichi]

as hard as possible bro. High Thumos

[@bighex5340]

If you're high enough thumos, squeezing your balls deepens your voice not heightens it

[@johnnycutterr]

"I don't care if it's a girl with a needle in her arm on the side of the road" 😂😂

[@wodensol5000]

Very true. Got my current girlfriend from just going up to her (whilst she was working in a shop mind you) and just told her i thought she was cute and wanted to say hi. Just remember you will fail A LOT more times than you succeed. What sets you apart is being able to consistently approach even though its likely to not work out.

[@sebastienjul6223]

I forgot how funny elisha is lol.

[@oscarperez5539]

Fr hahah

[@morganpage6239]

Elisha why don’t you post more lifting content? Like you in the gym ripping heavy weight etc

[@adamion1993]

Corona

[@jacobhate]

@@adamion1993 If the Jiu Jitsu dojos are open where he's at something tells me that the gyms are too. Use your head man

[@poisonsquid37]

Because anyone can make videos of them lifting weights but not everyone can spit truth like Elijah.

[@techelitesareadisease8816]

that stuff is kinda repetitive

[@Ncarrera123]

If anyone here works at a drive thru, literally try and have a conversation with everyone, it’ll make this 10x easier

[@gabrielkatkic8183]

I’m a waiter and it’s worked for me in that way

[@Theairisalive]

"Oh oh the cats choking"

[@tsepontelele2588]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@dzim8822]

9:24 " ... a girl with a needle in her arm on the side of the road...'how you doin', miss?'" lol

[@dominik9388]

The lighting is great in this shot/ video!

[@zaczourbang4454]

You get me more amped than any of these other popular self help youtubers. You deserve more subs bro. Pulled me out of my depression 3 years ago. Keep it up 🤝

[@ImReadyD151]

I just spent the day gettin choked out in bjj Elisha. IM FEELIN ELECTRIC

[@joelzusein]

I'm back watching your videos again Elisha. The past months have been great for me. Living the high thumos lifestyle, no busting nuts for no reason, talking confidently to girls, being a man (or at least being in the process of becoming one). Its good stuff. It takes work. And there are many sacrifices that you have to make. But I'm glad to be on this path, you were certainly one of the biggest influences to get my shit together.

[@ElliottPrendy]

Yesssss, you need a MISSION lads. It feels great. Thank you sir. HIGH THUMOS!

[@MrArnieZz]

Bru elisha.. 88K! few years ago I bumped into your channel with 900subs.. helped to turn my life around! Fcking happy for you you're growing so fast!!! keep changing lifes man!! FuAaarkk!

[@appledrug2]

Voice tonality and masculine frame are damn important when dealing with woman. Good topic big E

[@oscarperez5539]

Yep. No gamey gimmicky shit or cringey lines

[@NAKEDCOWBOYNINJA]

HIGHEST THUMOS IN THE ROOM!

[@KyleWilliamsMusic1]

I’m married so I don’t need to watch this to support my favorite youtuber! Love you bro!

[@Crambull]

Your energy in these videos keep bringing me back.

[@BigwantPrezentacje]

High thumos algorithm: if you are having highest thumos in the room then change the room, repeat until no new rooms left.

[@rkh3391]

This is one of if not the best channel on KZbin great content bro

[@oatmealgains2617]

I will get a girls number this week challenge accepted

[@lumiauser3373]

Let's do this bro

[@yato329]

did you do it?

[@lumiauser3373]

@@yato329 Not yet

[@yato329]

@@lumiauser3373 get out there dog live your best life!!!! dont waste the day

[@cultofpunktionality3302]

@@lumiauser3373 ssup ?

[@Crambull]

The 'grab your balls' when you talk is reminiscent of Elliott Hulse's _'breath into your balls'_ technique. Lol, gotta love it.

[@The_Piano_BeatEtudes]

just a tip, I thinks its better to say, "let me take you on a date," then "let's hang out." It shows more masculine agency and leadership.

[@adamion1993]

Well, considering this vid is for the clueless, i think the hang out is better. We just have to make them get comfortable with the presence of attractive females. Maybe some lower tier ones just to make them start recognising that they are people too, just with a vag

[@ren.8137]

Some women dont want to feel rushed into a date. Lets hang out sounds neutral and they obviously know if you like them.

[@philipchilonda3328]

Just found your channel, this is dope stuff my guy👊🏿

[@drphill7561]

I am 35, 5 ft 4 inch 145 lbs, indian, thats after 20 years hard training. Was in a 7 year relationship. Been approaching a lot. No luck after 3 years. I have the balls and confidence of 10 men.Tried all kinds of pua stuff. Not giving up but women see a manlet and an indian and today women expect nothing less than thor.

[@ElishaLong]

What about dating a shorter indian?

[@drphill7561]

@@ElishaLong talked and gamed them by the 100's. The short indian girls all want white guys over 6 feet. The social media brainwashing is real. I get the best responses from mixed race girls. Such a shame that i can't be valued by my own people and culture.

[@oscarperez5539]

@@drphill7561 look up John Anthony lifestyles. He's helped a lot of ethnic people have successful dating lives. You said you did a lot of pua stuff.. that's probably the issue. You were going in with no proper strategy and using gimmecky lines as most guys do when they follow pua

[@lrj4422]

Man I tried with several and failed now I'm all burned out lol so I've realised I gotta level up ten-fold. I also know that timing matters so opportunities may present themselves unexpectedly without you even trying

[@muhammadalimalik5510]

I tried this exact same technique with cold calling. The girl agreed on the spot but she flaked after so literally what the fuck lol

[@itzalansugarboi3748]

Straight after the video I went into to town with the intention of getting a girls number, I realised this was too big of a step but didn't want to leave without having taken any action so I compromised by telling myself I had to say 'hi' clearly to 5 people before I went home, I said hi to 12 people. I now have a plan to do this everyday for a week. It's a small step but one that I've procrastinated for almost 2 years now. Thank you for the push Elisha

[@white6505]

well done friend. after two years, how are you doing now?

[@thewayfarer8849]

Thumbnail face "But really, SHOULD YOU? Until you're lifting iron, you don't get one". I could genuinely hear him saying that with that look hahahha

[@zigco2418]

I wish you a great starting week, brother Elisha! As of this topic, I rarely care about getting a gf. Rather, I'm trying to leave my conditions/my own determinism. Thank you for your honesty. Have a blessed day!

[@matt_fs]

From a few months of barely meeting any new people (especially with curfew due to covid) I met two new girls this week and it's going pretty well. Having the cold approach can do wonders lol

[@frosty2660]

where do you meet them and do you have your mask on?

[@matt_fs]

@@frosty2660 coffee shops. And no lol, not with a mask 😂 I do the covid test regularly for work

[@frosty2660]

@@matt_fs Ok lol because in my country masks are mandatory inside and people are being pretty hysteric ifnyoure not wearing one.

[@chuppa1chups]

1:58 That sounds calm, cool, and collected, more than anything. If she can't handle that, she is probably insane, and best left alone.

[@ElishaLong]

Haha Yeah you're right.

[@PaulAndHarris]

I thought you said dump your girlfriend, and we don't need one? Haha. Video: "Why you should Consider Breaking Up with Your Girlfriend." I got dumped anyway so whatever. I'm taking this time to focus on myself. Working out every day, Greasing the Groove plus larger workouts, shaving my head, eating clean keto OMAD, feeding my brain with positive and inspirational podcasts and classical music, and your favorite, Brazilian Jiu Jitsu!

[@aaronbarreguin.4211]

8:45 you have to get a girl’s number. Challenge excepted.

[@mohamedadan6678]

something ill try and complete this week!

[@Rezector]

travis scott needs to sign you bro 😤🔥

[@john-atallah]

Thanks for this video Elisha. Called a girl today and asked her on a date. It wasn't a yes but I'm glad I did it regardless. High Thumos

[@chepesantacruz777]

"It wasnt a yes" bruh

[@almightyvibes2567]

Damn man, broke up with my girl earlier this past week, then u post this gem, funny how life works, time to get to work

[@bufflows1291]

don’t go looking right away man, take your time

[@almightyvibes2567]

@@bufflows1291 yea I was chillin out anyway, gonna get this money first

[@asifalrazi4107]

Bruh i laughed so hard in the beginning

[@beastmode4865]

Boom picked up the phone

[@Kiddlekud]

Lmbo bro this sounds crazy but very reasonable/logical as well 😌

[@ksjproductions6083]

1:35 tell me that isn't what I thought it sounds like

[@angelofgod8783]

That was the chair creeking

[@emie1170]

my man eli 😹

[@ElishaLong]

@@emie1170 lmao the chair

[@samuelvelazquez8834]

😂😂

[@joseph9778]

This had me geeking so hard, nice vid bruzzo

[@a.schweighardt]

Yo, but for real, the "how's your books?" line would work.

[@havenpiper4351]

Have a blessed week Elisha!

[@derboy3363]

Lol i just thought in my head i will never ever deal with women again and than i saw this vid

[@autissmboi9031]

Same dude wtf

[@kinta069]

ehre

[@derboy3363]

@@kinta069 danke bro

[@symboIiq]

Me too. I think a lot of guys are adopting that mindset due to the games women play

[@punkfreak1414]

I’m not sure if you have any videos on this topic but it would be cool if you talked about ways to get better at speaking to strangers. I have this issue in my head where I don’t talk to people because I feel like no one cares about what I have to talk about and it’s all just bullshit small talk and I’m really trying to break out of that negative mindset. I understand it’s just repetition and practice but are there any things that helped you along the way to get better with speaking to people? I would love to hear anyone else’s advice.

[@gustavorio329]

Oh yeah.. I have this mindset too

[@amcspaceape1580]

As much as I hate small talk it's important to get good at it. People will open up to you more and you'll have deeper conversations

[@blblbl4543]

go on omegle

[@pablomedina9895]

0:43 bro that stare was halarious 😂

[@Giablo1]

I adore this video. There was this beautiful girl working in a coffee shop the other day in my new town, I regret not calling her beautiful and asking a number so bad. But this is an excellent reminder and boost to keep trying.

[@Frederick0220]

“I have bad gas 💨” 😂🤣😆

[@AkshayDidIt]

High Thumos brothers! I almost wasn't gonna watch this video. Glad I did. Edit: Bruh, this was hilarious. The energy is contagious. Seems like you really found your missing link Elisha.

[@chuppa1chups]

Completely cold approaching yields very little success. Myron Gaines has the looks of a fitness model and has cited a success rate of about 1 in 20 *in everyday situations* if I recall correctly. Others have cited 1 in 40 and as high as 1 in 100. Perhaps one may have far greater success, as well as not exclude those who may have reservations about interacting with a complete stranger while being mentally unprepared, by meeting new people through weak ties or repeated exposure? For example, being classmates provides for enough repeated exposure that most people won't be uncomfortable about being approached. Another example is punks or metalheads meeting at a show. Scene kids are generally friends with a couple of members of the scene, and everyone has (quite literally) hundreds of weak ties to everyone else in the scene. Not being a complete stranger and having something in common by default is enough to make this environment an easy place to find dates.

[@ChillinAlways92]

Ding ding ding. Find a place where girls routinely visit (a shared activity like volutneering, dance class, parties, whatever) and talk to them there. You don't have to friendzone yourself but you don't have to approach complete strangers. Most relationships naturally arise from proximity.

[@oscarperez5539]

Look up John Anthony lifestyles for optimized cold approach strategy

[@stone_pilot]

I was laughing so hard Elisha, you have no idea. I haven't felt this good in years. I'm sorry I've shit talked you before 😂, I had no idea how funny this is. All I have to do is ask her for her number 😭

[@ElishaLong]

Haha glad you're feeling better man

[@MrZERK7]

Maaan I’m guilty of not closing the deal. I approached this girl in the supermarket a couple months ago, she was pretty and we a had a nice convo but I didn’t go for the number. Now I’m obviously regretting and when you said what’s the point of cold approaching if you’re not going to for the number, you hit them feelings bruh... Lesson learned captain!

[@santiagorubioramos659]

1:08 Hey... How u doing? Me: Joey Tribbiani tricks!

[@wedontdolows1598]

Elisha in the thumbnail like ”you sure you want to do this bro?”

[@henryg3702]

Getting the number really isn't that hard..it's getting them on the first date alone that is the challenge.

[@AnthonyParraTheGreat]

I feel like you need a car to maintain a girlfriend

[@ChuckNorris-gv8pv]

It’s a paid dlc

[@GreatKingBenis]

Its simple but not easy. The hardest part is being in a place where you can approach women. All the places I go I don't even see women by themselves around my age.

[@adamion1993]

What are you waiting for? Approach them when they are with their friends and whatnot. Would you get upset if a good looking girl came up to you when you were hanging out w ur mates?

[@GreatKingBenis]

@@adamion1993 again my man I would, but there's not any out, whether they're with their friends or not. I've got literally one thing I can do that will me an approach opportunity and I'm trying to get the most out of it now

[@hikari6706]

Bro so true whenever I go out, which I do relatively often, I don't see these women that are around my age at all, they are nowhere to be found. And on that rare occasion when you do find one more than likely she has friends with her.

[@bighandsome9165]

I would have made a joke about having a farting contest but still a smooth 9/10.

[@BUSCUS012]

I legit got a girls number after watching this video.

[@stargalaxy7291]

Great video Elisha💪

[@TuyaTheNasty]

For real, i've met all of my past girlfriends through social interaction including my current girl.

[@user-fz3ip3ke8p]

You are like a dad i never had. Thanks man

[@JustinC3810]

*just realized u stare the camera in the eyes*

[@SgtCarson]

funniest shit ive seen all week thanks elisha

[@kosmokramer3772]

Step one be handsome

[@Frederick0220]

I’m proud to say I’ve done 1000s of approaches. Daygame till I die.

[@oscarperez5539]

Awesome man.. curious of your success rate.. in terms of how many converted to dates/bang

[@Frederick0220]

@@oscarperez5539 Thanks bro! My conversion rate isn't so hot, only because the ghosting has gotten so bad with social media, online dating, etc (giving girls dozens of options). I have a decent amount of dates and pulls but my bangs are lower than they should be since I don't drink and because I don't drink, the girl doesn't drink, and it's hard for a girl to have her 1st bang with a guy while stone cold sober. But if you want more details, we can chat on social media or something

[@oscarperez5539]

@@Frederick0220 nice man.. I'm soon gonna start daygaming as well since I live in Tampa Florida and there's tons of hot girls and a very outside city. Im working on getting good with online as well. Want to incorporate both. Idk if you've heard of John Anthony lifestyles but his stuff is very straightforward and simple. You can close back at the place without drinks, just gotta have a strategy for it. He teaches it. I'm gonna implement his stuff.. leagues above any pua.

[@Frederick0220]

@@oscarperez5539 Crunk! I'm more of a TOdd Valentine and COrey Wayne guy b/c John Anthony has been accused of hiring prositutes and was once arrested for rap3 but we can link up! What's your Discord info?

[@oscarperez5539]

@@Frederick0220 that's all false. He's made videos regarding that and debated people who accused him of that

[@LaioAroca]

thanks for this Elisha.

[@hubertcumberdale2651]

Don't even bother with an American girlfriend. Move to Brazil, Poland, Colombia, Ukraine, Vietnam, Taiwan, etc. for that

[@sonarbuge7958]

True, just no racemixing

[@Alex80000]

This is just anecdotal but most Brazilian girls seem to be crazy SJW feminist types, particularly the ones who emigrate to Europe

[@hubertcumberdale2651]

@@Alex80000 Rich Brazilian girls (particularly from Sao Paulo) are DEFINITELY huge snobs, but the more working class girls who have never left Brazil (partially because they can't afford it) have the most golden personalities in the world.

[@arturolievano1350]

Loving the video quality

[@Juicerock12]

i used cold approach in the summer a lot and i'm 16 but i 've been feeling like shit without playing sports i saw some girl yesterday and we had small talk but that's all the female interaction i've gotten in a while

[@khoiminhhoang]

Ok brb gonna go to the grocery store just to hit on the checkout chick

[@ericlsena]

YO WHATS UP ELISHA💪

[@TaurenTLT]

Positive Energy only and Abundance Mindset 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻

[@pauloguga]

Someone should do a compiltation of all the times he said "Hey, its Elisha"

[@abrany_6675]

A good idea is get a cute dog and go to dog park or random park with no intention of taking to a girl, its a good conversion starter cuz cold approach is near impossible for me

[@benjibucks4811]

Damn, the moment u uploaded this I actually broke up with my 2 year long gf.. sort of mutually, didn't want her wasting her opportunity of starting a family. I'm just not ready for that, living together and raising a kid. I love her, this was probably the second hardest thing I've done since burying my granddad 9 years ago. So my question to you Elisha, how the hell do I get over this ASAP

[@ElishaLong]

Be honest why don't you want to start a family eventually? Not right now but maybe 4 or 5 years down the road?

[@benjibucks4811]

@@ElishaLong I'd like to, but I'm 23 and in 4-5 years I don't think I'll be sure about it. Also she would be 28-29. So I guess the age difference played a part

[@holditdown3744]

@@benjibucks4811 how old was your ex ?

[@appledrug2]

I likef your old camera videos more. This focal lens makes you look different

[@Ethnx]

I love this guy...

[@marianc7333]

Let's make this chaleenge guys!!!

[@justingeorgopoulos4875]

You should do a psilocybin trip then make a video talking about your experience!

[@kristiann__7]

Is it just me that sees it that way or are you slowly becoming the white version of Larry Wheels?

[@clydefloyd8751]

Physically or the he acts? Lol

[@gitasgaizauskas7196]

Elisha Long and Casey Zander should make a video together

[@fermedmor4607]

1:40 How is your books, how are your books? LOL

[@user-gq3rf3us2j]

That thumbnail😂

[@klearman9612]

What was your perspective on models by mark Manson I’m quite curious

[@ElishaLong]

Never read it man.

[@johnmurray20]

Good question

[@klearman9612]

@@ElishaLong you should read it man it would be a good video for men struggling with women it should only take 3 sittings to read it

[@siegel947]

Elisha : how to get a girlfriend I : ignores female I again : not want to get the cancel culture from feminist

[@BIGDDrome]

Bro I just don't even have a drive for it. I'm 21 and never had any positive relationships with females no female friends really or a girlfriend and now I'm just complacent and I don't want to be rejected or be in a weird situation for no reason.

[@adamkenny28]

@@BIGDDrome that ain’t good man

[@Newshoesonthetable]

@@adamkenny28 its kind of for the best, you don't want to end up getting hurt as it can mess you up.. I know its sad but young women like to use men, the script has been flipped... they don't want love and affection, they want to be tricked and treat mean in accordance to the rule book of modern dating... focus on yourself, TONY said it first, first you get the money then you get the power then you get the women!

[@adamion1993]

@@BIGDDrome i am 21 as well,had my first girlfriend at age 16 who i broke up with, nothing up to half a year ago now i am going on dates with 3 different girls and they know about eachother and accepting this picture of me being the prize...honestly.....i took a lot of things in conjuction that increase total and free testosterone and decrease estrogen and prolactin. Its like i am a different person now, pretty convinced i have not changed as far as looks but DAYUUUM it just feels good to look in the mirror now 😂

[@benmitchell0036]

@@adamion1993 what have you done to increase testosterone ?

[@user-jm5qr1sl3j]

Hey Elisha, any advice for long distance relationships? It’s especially hard to reassure her because she “can’t trust me” and doesn’t want to open up to me. I just don’t want to get hurt again, and I feel like I’m holding back in this relationship because of that.

[@ElishaLong]

How far is this distance. Straight up I don't think long distance works well for that long.