How To Get a Hug From Your Crush for the First Time

[@officialeagleeye9899]

I’ve watched almost all of these types of videos now I’m more confident talking the girls 👍🏻

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Awesome, go out there and crush it!

[@crispymms8273]

OFFICIALEAGLEEYE !!!!

[@davidwx2116]

OFFICIALEAGLEEYE !!!!

[@marioc.8643]

Yeah me too. I've always been shy with girls.

[@taurus-ug3fp]

Same I gotta say, Josh has really helped me alot

[@autisticgaming2004]

Hey guys breaking news ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! I got to hug my crush today we were just talking and I was about to go to my next and last class and I gave my crush a goodbye hug am now officially in no turn backs let's go thanks josh you help me so much :)

[@hc7852]

JOE HENRY ORTEGA omg mine happened literally the same wayyy!! I was about to go to my last period but then I went up to him and started talking about something and the greatest part was that I didn’t even ask for it... HE DID 😂🥰💖

[@autisticgaming2004]

@@hc7852 that's great ! Has anything else happened after that day with you and your crush ?

[@possessionless9345]

It's been 2 years now... Are you together now? :)

[@jacobjackson2275]

My man 😎👉

[@autisticgaming2004]

@@possessionless9345 Nope sadly we aren't, last year in mid 2019 we both went to high school and things were going good but then she started talking to another guy and eventually stopped talking to me without giving a good reason other than feeling a bit awkward around me now and just liking that other guy. It's still saddens me now but it's fine I guess, nothing lasts forever after all. Thanks for commenting under my 2 year old comment super appreciate it.

[@NateSkateTV]

i hugged my crush once i mean she hugged me cause i gave her an oreo

[@clayton8or]

if only that worked...

[@daddylongdick5575]

Mahhhhhh mannnn!!!!!!!!!!

[@lana2776]

Sarah Gullion 3 minutes?!?

[@theodoresweger4948]

Oreos work great on everyone but my crush. Will not give up

[@isabellaprince1731]

Lol a oreo

[@alexiswhite3915]

Honestly, my crush laughs at all my jokes and gives me LOTS of compliments, so yesterday in the school office, he gave me a hug at the end of the conversation. HE’S THE ONE WHO WANTED TO BRING IT IN!!!

[@clare_9438]

make ur mOve

[@tiarareihmequiota6618]

Heh same here but ever since what happened i decided maybe staying single for a while can work

[@mistywalker2173]

Me and my crush hugged on the last day of school

[@PEACHCHULIP]

Awwwwwwwwwwww

[@Joel-xy7qg]

Same it happened when i was in 5th grade going to 6th grade but I'm in 7th grade right now and I have a crush on someone else now

[@dewiihram1400]

That was my plan lmfao

[@s0umyendu]

@@Joel-xy7qg woow😂😘

[@hehaufhauxgs]

I've never hugged my crush and was always rejected

[@GanjaGuy-hi1qd]

She offers me hugs but i don't know how to hug her and im awkward but i like her

[@paawan2709]

GanjaGuy 420 wtf why

[@cascafdasca6379]

what is your zodiac sign, I did the same when i was young, all the time and I'm a cancer.

[@lana2776]

Casca Fdasca zodiac signs have nothing to do with it im a libra and I am very awkard

[@cascafdasca6379]

Zodiac signs do play a roll in regards to the style that we handle and perceive challenges.

[@lana2776]

Casca Fdasca no they don't no they fucking don't there's no scientific evidence

[@Noobie6900]

please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please make a video on how to overcome social anxiety

[@snazzypotatoes2177]

yolo lolll just dab through it

[@jonna3802]

SnazzyPotatoes but what if it dabs back?

[@rwinter13rw]

Jonathan show them your fidget spinners and triple dab back

[@YoureGoonky]

yolo lolll dude the way to do it is put yourself in positions you aren’t as comfortable in a lot more

[@w2719]

Talk to people = experiance = comfortable in conversations

[@johno6366]

That's just awkward when they decline your hug though.

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

It can end up being awkward, in those situations though it's best to laugh it off because there's not much you can do really

[@magik436]

i hugged my crush a couple days ago and it felt like the beat feeling in the world for me.

[@Leon-pn6rb]

You didn't demonstrate how to hug ☹️

[@AD-zi3tz]

12345a yO hoW dO yOu hUg

[@vargash7334]

It’s not that hard to hug brosky

[@cozylime_2006]

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[@DT-vh5yw]

veecatsu you son of a bitch. Beat me to it

[@emp4332]

Bruh it’s so simple

[@autisticgaming2004]

Okay I will try this tomorrow or at least Friday because me and my crush have been making jokes and making eachother laugh and it's weird to say it but she is like a female version of me 😂😂😂 since we have a similar personality type and have the same interests art and theater and same taste in humor .

[@deathgarden0685]

Ha nice good luck mate

[@autisticgaming2004]

deathgarden 06 thanks appreciate it bro :)

[@deathgarden0685]

Yea well mate any time just wait for the right moment and ask her out don't hesitate just do it mate but don't make it load go a calm without hesitatince k mate wish the best of luck don't let you being rejected 13 times drag you down mate

[@autisticgaming2004]

deathgarden 06 sure think I have been rejected before but now I know more of what am doing and how to do it thanks :)

[@freemusic7421]

JOE HENRY ORTEGA Not certain about the points made but ,if anyone else wants to discover how to get a guy to like you try Avyanna attract tactic (should be on google have a look ) ? Ive heard some incredible things about it and my m8 got cool success with it.

[@ronwellnagales2140]

I was finally hugged from my crush since me and my friend went to the play for my crush's play. After that play, My crush gave me a hug! :D!!!

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Thats awesome to hear :)

[@myriadcolours5648]

I just make friends. Then I ask for a hug. Then they give me a hug. Then I'm too scared to ask them out because I've just make a great friend.

[@darthvader0219]

Here is another question, how do you get over a horrible breakup that has left you too heart broken to form new relationships?

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hey great question, I'll make sure to make a video for it next week!

[@pigbenis2812]

Hugs are the best way to begin moving on. Find someone new to hug on.

[@lowkeypsycho7787]

I asked my crush to school dance but she said someone else asked her bt she looked so sad when I asked her like her face said I wish u asked me long time ago. What should I do coz I really like her

[@revupofficial]

@@shlok-vp4xr GG 👋

[@ladyikan6651]

Ask if you want to hang out another time

[@aubreyjohnson5521]

@TDPislife No

[@SuaveMani]

Josh need more views and likes

[@astrosship391]

My first hug with my first crush was very lovey dovey we hugged for 3 minutes and 45 second(yes I counted) I kissed her forehead and we continued to hug I felt like we were meant to be

[@ninjayeets6566]

Aww that’s really nice are y’all still together?

[@aurora_skonyt]

stop making me jealous 😭😭😭😭😭

[@aurora_skonyt]

ur lucky man u really are

[@itsyeboizander8535]

I asked my crush out and she said no but she gives me signs that she likes me

[@Daviasio]

Itsyeboi Zander I know the feeling she's either really friendly or she's playing hard to get, try to get to know each other better and then see what happens.

[@deathgarden0685]

That will happen a lot I've been rejected 13 times and 5 time that happened to me

[@subzero5468]

Maybe she is too nervous to say yes

[@deathgarden0685]

no dont belive this fool sub zero shut up

[@obese_microwave]

She is just nervous

[@deathgarden0685]

Josh speaks I think I'm done of chasing girls I'm been rejected 13 times and never had a girlfriend I'm just tired of getting rejected I thought back to your old video about how rejection can be an advantage but that has never worked I sill love your videos and will watch they I just can't house them any more I will just have to wait until my 11 school no girl likes me in my 15 year life and 11 schools I thought maybe I might get a date but it never works I'm really beat down well I'm sure you get this everyday so I will stop I most likely onto be in the comments anymore I do like your videos they were great help

[@kidadventures9583]

Anything works honestly I’m just starved for human contact

[@05caba]

My crush and I are really close friends and I hug her often and she feel comfortable around and it’s noticeable, first time i hugged her it actually wasn’t me leaning in for a hug she came in and just hugged me

[@ryan4393]

I’ve hugged many girls but still no kiss.

[@aurora_skonyt]

@@enishyusein2360 something I never get 😢😢😢 😭😭😭

[@tetra618]

i smiled like, the whole time I think i broke my cheeks!

[@fernpedraza7036]

Today was the last day of school and to say goodbye my crush called my name opened his arms and hugged me I tried so hard not to make my heart jump out of my heart

[@ellasong2876]

Make your heart jump out of your heart?

[@karinapineda6245]

That's happened to me last year i told my crush bye and he came up to me and gave me hug

[@edwells9586]

the way y'all comment though lmaoo 😭 💀 wanna see your heart jump out of your heart

[@aurora_skonyt]

lmao make your heart jump out of your heart? I can't LMFAOOOO I STILL CAN'T STOP LAUGHING 🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀

[@aurora_skonyt]

@@edwells9586 that got me falling off my couch

[@andonion7644]

My crush hugged me yesterday, all my friends saw it ☺️

[@patrickaltf435]

The Best hug from a girl is when they have an oversized hoodie on. My crush gave me a hug in an oversized hoodie and I could feel the warmth of the hoodie while hugging her

[@ra1d_spxtral251]

I got a hug from my crush and she asked me out

[@aurora_skonyt]

lucky. I never get hugs 😢

[@sebnem2836]

i confessed him earlier he said hes sorry and just focused on his studies.. and now i really wanna hug him. idk if well have online classes again or not. i live every single day like its last day of school..

[@LegoGamer5502]

When I tried to give my first crush a hug (Im on my second one now), it went SOOO wrong, and I felt so rejected. This video helped a lot! thanks!

[@FroggyChairOfficial]

Well...i opened up my arms for a hug and he said “no”

[@pigbenis2812]

Try another time. He might have sweat earlier or something and been self-conscious. Everyone likes a hug.

[@icopiedyou2225]

@@pigbenis2812 It’s been 2 years if it ain’t happened yet then it just ain’t it

[@jacsjay322]

Weirdest 🤭!

[@barcodetryhardssuck8909]

Nothing feels better than hugging your crush

[@aurora_skonyt]

something I don't get.... 😢

[@binodtharu5433]

Man if my crush hugs me I will be super excited and happy

[@aurora_skonyt]

same I don't get hugs 😥

[@B3NJY_NLA]

Soo.... my crush hugged me once on a lunch break in school. Thing is I never talked to her irl before. After she hugged me, everyone stopped making fun of me. Thing that surprises me is that firat time I say hi to her, she skipped the handshake, she went straight for a hug!

[@Zevssy]

Are you in love with she,or she just dump you?

[@B3NJY_NLA]

@@Zevssy Her friends made her to that on purpose to mess around with me

[@Zevssy]

Oh that's sucks

[@professionalshagger6191]

I'm in the police station now

[@raxnyysun7111]

He gave me a hug he was just like do you want a hug and I just said yes :/

[@Chaoss_vsp]

Oooooh hugggging your crush probably feels amazing althoug have never expireenced it

[@sirtaco7785]

Thanks, now I know how I should hug with my crush without making her feel uncomfortable

[@samislam2746]

What I have learned from this video is that sometimes the body language is much more important than talking

[@meek4076]

She goes in for the hug everytime we meet

[@edwells9586]

your luck can't be put into words

[@anuragsosa]

Good for you Wish I get born in western country in next life

[@thebozo26]

@Meek relatable

[@tothesantos259]

its easy just dont be shy boiiiiiiiiii just do it!!!!!!

[@cozylime_2006]

Not sponsored

[@saadmarc8289]

my crush just stay always with her friends wath should i do

[@肖景-b2h]

tothe santos MY CRUSH LIKES ANOTHER GIRL AND YOU CALL ME TO DO THAT IM AFRAID THAT SHE IS JEALOUS LOL

[@possessionless9345]

It's not easy to be not shy, talking about myself btw 🙄

[@kqijiz.3578]

I am big boi scared tho

[@official_jade9639]

Him: hug everyone Me in 2020: thats never gonna happen

[@cyberfacegaming8438]

March 7 2023 Coming back once i hug her....

[@jellyog_chaoscrew0v098]

I’m saved from the high-fives tysm

[@MichaelMyers_272]

Today I hugged my crush she was talking to her friend in the auditorium lunch and I came and hug her she was expecting this and everyone said awww

[@Florida_gyrl]

Thank God there is someone in this world that thinks handshakes are a weird way of interacting with a crush. Most (young) men I have interacted with only know how to handshake me when they see me and I know they like me. It’s the most awkward and weirdest thing I have ever encountered with men. I’m glad you are helping these guys out Josh. I don’t want to handshake my husband every day of my marriage!

[@Aurora-ee3jw]

so i hugged my friend anddd i hugged him too

[@laurensimas3531]

I hugged my crush and he said it was awkward bc we are good friends, then he called my name while I was leaving to go home, he hugged me and said, "see ya lolo" **lolo my nickname**

[@erikszatmari85]

what I noticed with hugging is that it's basically the same with any other thing with your crush, the first one is kinda awkward, but you can do it after without any problems

[@XxReeses]

After 3 months I finally hugged my crush! It was a really tight hug, too

[@armyxonce40]

i just got a first hug from my crush today 😫❤️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️ my mind went blank and i cried lmao HELP

[@txrxntq1238]

How do I ask my crush out in middle school

[@layneb.1687]

You don't. U just wait

[@reghinadirtu5118]

You wait till highschool

[@PEACHCHULIP]

Are you guys gonna "date"

[@cozylime_2006]

-ask stuff like *hey wanna eat lunch with me* and @ lunch say something such as *" wanna go to get ice cream with me/my family"* or *"wanna go roller skating?"* an experience especially with family is a great first date with someone. -ask them to come over to hang out. If you have shared interests (example: marvel movies or board games ) invite them over to say, watch a Marvel Movie or play some board games. -if your family is having a party (example: a Christmas party) invite them over

[@cozylime_2006]

@@PEACHCHULIP as on/off as SOME middle school relationships are, some are more serious than others

[@Nesslingz]

What was your experience when you were 14

[@watchgiostar]

I’m 11 years old and I’m getting these feeling for my crush and I need her to hug me 😀🥹😍

[@isaccwilhite1428]

Did he just say hey playa

[@kroxibass2390]

I’m actually starting to like this girl that goes to my school. We follow each other on Instagram, I vent to them and they love helping me out. One time I was so sad I told them I wanted to staple my arm and make it bleed. The next day they showed up, and hugged me and say “Don’t do that!”. It actually made me explode mentally. It felt so warm and nice...

[@allisonntuba4379]

Thanks Josh. Your help actually worked. I have subscribed and liked the video because you deserve it

[@lilmop8613]

This really dose need to be a tv show

[@ethanpfeiffer7403]

Sorry, but being the "guy who hugs people" sounds wrong to me.

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

haha it does sound wrong when you say it like that but if it's as natural to you as saying hi to everyone then it shouldn't be a problem

[@ethanpfeiffer7403]

The Josh Speaks I know. I just couldn't resist the comment

[@frossty8876]

How is being social wrong?

[@acebalthazar5206]

Key: confidence

[@bringyourzella1991]

My best friend has turned into my boyfriend and I absolutely love him 😍

[@JRH51005]

she always gives me a hug when we say goodbye :)

[@davidpereira7915]

Thank you SOOOO MUCH Josh!! You r the best

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

No problem, I hope the video is helpful

[@kylaholland3742]

Congrats is always a good reason to hug. Also having a bad day is a good excuse. Getting excited about something is also a good reason to hug

[@saylorhiggons]

This video is so helpful. I love it. I love your channel. It has helped me a lot. Thanks!

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

+Cassidy Higgons thanks Cassidy!

[@adelina3071]

Hey can you make a video about how to get your girlfriend/boyfriend to like hold your hand or hug in middle school?

[@t_tsad3st638]

How to stop being shy around ur crush

[@TheBread210]

I just straight up asked her and now we have been together for 3 months

[@vargash7334]

If you’re a girl, go for the hug. I personally love it when a girl leans in first, guys are awkward and don’t like to lean in first

[@stankolev2485]

I know this is 2 years old, but I recently reconnected with a crush I had 8 years ago, but we haven't spoken/seen each other. We went our separate ways I long while ago, so I don't know if I can even treat her as a friend. Anyway, we had a quick chat and we're gonna see each other in about a week. I don't wanna sound corny, but my heart is yelling at me that I need to hug her when I see her, just not sure how she'd respond.

[@xaviermartinez5116]

bro holy shit it worked

[@tosamja7570]

How to hug: step 1.=dont have bonner step 2.=repeat step one

[@JPGpack]

Phew good thing I have a boner and not a horrible bonner

[@girgirl8672]

I was at my neighbors party, and we had a handshake, talked a bit and then when he left he hugged me and said “see you, BRO”

[@AnmolSingh-ig3ji]

Ohhh this is shit!!😂

[@nadeemm04]

Guys Tell me what to do. So I started talking to this girl that is in my year and we Came Back To School in September and we’ve started to get really close and 2 Weeks Ago She Hugged me in front of everyone and someone went around telling everyone we were going out but we weren’t and I said I’m sorry for bringing her into this then she started to flirt with me With The dms And I Want to confess my love to her but there’s 3 other people that like her and I’m not sure if she loves me the most out of the 4 including me.Guys let me know what to do

[@totallynothoodiejudge9993]

Well, I think that the only thing to do here is to ask her out.

[@jcole1464]

She clearly likes you ask her out asap

[@jcole1464]

If she wanted to hug you and she wasn't embarrassed of hugging you then ask her out she likes you

[@powerkinzgirl664]

NadeemM6 ask her out! You two seem pretty close already.

[@deathgarden0685]

Take it slow and get a good conversation going and at the right moment ask her out but don't do the nervous thing cuz that will delay the perfect time but don't scream it out k I hope I helped you

[@jaf6932]

I tried to give my crush a hug in the hallway and a teacher had to pull me away from her

[@veecatsu7096]

i only clicked this to brag because my crush randomly hugged me, i didnt ask, they just walked over and reached out. im happy

[@jenshub]

When someone looks at you weird when you open your arms for a hug, just say “ok I guess not then” or something like that but say it in a, ok your loss, kind of way. It shows you’re confident and you have more people to hug.

[@the_phantom_nova6200]

Dont know why im here but we've all had those awkward hugs where You think a hug is alright to do then they just kinda stand stiff and give you a scowling look for a second while you go in for a hug. I mean come on I cant be the only one whos done that can I?...

[@Soph14valdez]

I have a crush on this boy at school and I am so shy just to say hi to him or go up to him and give him at least a hug.

[@ausra9794]

So i have a crush hes 3 years older. I have told him i like him, he said i was too young😢😢 I cried all day, but i got a text saying if i would be his age he would date me, that made me happier. Today i made up like a Victorina asking How would you like to greet with me? There where 5 options 1. Hug 2. Handshake 3. Just Hello 4. Highfive and 5. Was a secret one. He chose just the word hello, we started chatting and i was at first scared to not say something stupid but then i got brave and now we are dating

[@sofiachloe9373]

me my crush have a LOT of inside jokes hahaha thanks to math class

[@Jewel_Man_Kisser]

Corona virus: hold my beer

[@ava_mjk1]

The fact that me and my crush are the shyest kids in my school and he’s shyer then me and he told me bye when I had to leave and hugged me-

[@ari3828]

My technique (works every time) : Say it's a dare and ask for a hug. It becomes normal after that

[@Lo-Fi866]

Would it be good to ask her out a hug on her birthday while giving her a gift

[@priyabisht83]

Guys today I'm going out with my crush. Please wish me luck. Hope he himself hugs me Or i get into a situation where I get to hug him. ♥️🥺

[@anuragsosa]

Good luck sister Let us know how did it go

[@priyabisht83]

@@anuragsosa none of us did. 😅 But we had a great great time that day. 😍 Travelled 15kms just to have maggie and chai. He went back to his college on 2nd of jan. And I even went to bus station to meet him that day. Everything was normal and cool.. It's just that both of us were getting bit emotional. He gave me a 5 second normal side hug before boarding his bus to Delhi. ☺☺ He calls me everyday now. Everything feels so good these days. This video was lucky for me.💜💜💜💜♥️♥️

[@anuragsosa]

@@priyabisht83 Wow I'm happy for you guys. That 5 sec side hug will soon become a passionate never ending hug. Good luck to you guys and stay safe.

[@itsyoboisaiyamanaka3105]

Wow the first time I’ve ever seen a video that wasn’t a year ago from you.

[@coopershouseofmemes9842]

I clicked to see the comments here, and 80% of it is probably desperate middle-schoolers.

[@daviaa2798]

So the problem is . My crush us dating someone... But he talks to me more than he talks to his girlfriend.. and like idk. Help?

[@LorenzoOnVR]

I hugged her,Thanks My bro

[@noakalocsa333]

Yeah but I see him every day and so I’m not a very affectionate person at all, and so I don’t even like to hug my best friend because it’s uncomfortable and how do you just start that one random day it’s weird

[@PhelipeNascimentoo]

in Brazil, a hug followed by a kiss on the cheek (even with your crush) as a way of greeting is totally normal :p

[@dwat8058]

How can I hug in this Covid time lol

[@Goosy0825]

My crush has a MASSIVE CRUSH ON MEH! what do I do?!

[@oliviaadesua8756]

O my God am confused I have never hug anybody in school before I don't even talk to my crush were can I start

[@bigbassman7170]

Out of no where this girl I liked became my girlfriend and hugged me it's the best feeling

[@joshmoss7060]

Let’s goo I did it boys just open your arms

[@ralphp224]

I went to a winter formal dance at my former high school with some friends back in 2019 and the girl I had a crush on (who was a year younger than me) was there. Before we all went home, I got to hug my crush… two hours before I turned 17.

[@mariamoya9093]

My old crush would hug everyone so that would be easy, I don’t like him anymore but now I hug everyone so that when I get a crush and ask for a hug it won’t be so difficult and weird to get one or ask for one

[@DrifterSam]

Jim Carrey: Hey... How about a hug?

[@Golden_Spud]

No need this I get hugs from both of my crushes yaaaaaaaaaaah and the hugs feel amazing they hug like professionals and it makes me feel proud of my self that I am at the state I can hug them sometimes I shoulder shove theme and say move it little girl as a joke