How To Get Actual COMMITMENT From The Person You LOVE

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

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[@carolinechase614]

I actually stood up to my long distance relationship because i felt he was flirting with going out with someone else. I told him i am a loyal woman and will never give my man cause to question me about anything and i felt that i didnt deserve his acting like he was going to ask her out, im not ok with that, i dont share my man ever, just as i dont share myself with anyone else when in a committed relationship. I havent heard back from him today, if he doesnt call then he doesnt deserve me and my value.

[@TheJollyMama]

This is a great example of how a sense of self worth and the ability to let go and trust God with your future creates polarity even when there are still many masculine characteristics still present in a woman’s personality

[@MJ-ny3kp]

Self concept changed therefore her identity shifted. What is expected is given because it’s your birth right. When we control our emotions we have a sense of well being. If you’re anxious learn to be secure first before trying to get something. You already have it all within.

[@sirajsyeda3714]

This was a wonderful discussion. Brody and Antia you guys kept on asking great questions: you kept on honing in on different aspects of their courtship and driving more information out of them. This is important because most of us are stuck in the dating/ courting phase and lose it from there. So going through their timeline and asking what they were feeling and thinking at a particular moment was so important 🙏🙌👏💕. Thank you 😊

[@AnneB1101]

Loving this conversation! It makes me realize what actually CAN be. I really like how Janelle says what she wants/ no games. I love how her husband responds to that as well. I think we as women in general need to do a better job of offering suggestions and not putting all the pressure on the man to plan everything then complaining when he does. I am much like Janelle in that respect...I've always clearly communicated what I want, no games. If I say I don't want flowers/ a gift, I MEAN it. If I want something specific, I don't want something else instead. If I say I don't care where we go, I don't...if I do, I'll speak up. That said I know two men well and they respond in opposite manners to this. The one consistently does the opposite of what I clearly have stated I want/ asked for, almost like he thinks I'm playing those games, even though there's not one instance where I have (it's just soooo not me I can't even do it)...the other takes my word for it. And I can tell you that the relationship with the second man is wonderful (not perfect, but great)...the relationship with the first man is beyond frustrating. So...women speak up. But men...if you have a gift of a woman that does this, for goodness sake appreciate it and use it. The other thing I liked was her thoughts on submission. I think men and women both overthink and ill-define this, similar to meekness. And from my experiences with the two above, I believe submission is something that starts with your choice of partner. A woman needs to select a partner she CAN submit to, with her whole soul (and I don't men co-dependent, but absolutely trusts his leadership, respects him, etc). Then this doesn't become an issue because she is already there, she already respects him and trusts him. If you select a man you don't trust at this level, say because BEING the right person is more important than FINDING the right person (worst relationship advice I ever got frankly, led me to settle and landed me in a very toxic relationship)...well submission is something that the woman is just not going to be able to do in that relationship. She won't want to align, at her core; she won't go the distance to do that if it's not convenient. Once you've chosen wisely, THEN the being the right person applies. But IME, you have to find a right-enough person to be the right person. Anyhow thanks for showing this. Love seeing how things CAN work out when they're done well. Love also that Janell shows some vulnerability and doesn't fall into the trap of "be like me and it'll all work out"...because even when you do everything right, there's still an element of luck/ chance involved. He's got to be a great guy to her great gal. So it's nice to hear her acknowledge some of that too.

[@Lisagriggsofficial]

I loved this. Its so funny. I knew she was an avoidant. Tvere is a huge upside to that. Lol😅 Im tve same. And we believe we can have any man we want. ❤

[@lke4907]

I really enjoyed this video! Well done!

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Thanks and glad you enjoyed it! :)

[@BettyRobinson-gg5tz]

😘😘😘😘😍😍😍😍💕💕💕💕💕💕. Much love to you💖!!!!! I absolutely love your dress!!!!! Thanks for sharing!!!!! Your videos are awesome!!!!!!

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

You are so welcome and glad you liked it! :)

[@danicaharley6273]

This is such a great video Antia, with the four of you. So open, real and honest. So insightful, thank you so much. Bless you and your beautiful family ❤

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

You are so welcome!

[@2009galactica]

Would be great if you make videos for men how to treat a woman.

[@lateshachurney5965]

Sounds like she was the initiator. Got it.

[@Lulu-nn8mg]

Right? Didn't he just say persuing is masculine.

[@222littlecat]

I enjoyed and learned a lot from this conversation. It’s quite a special angle to hear from couple interviewing couple . Keep creating more content like this please . Thank you ❤

[@TheJollyMama]

The scavenger hunt! 😂❤❤❤❤ so cute and relatable

[@jasminealexia]

What a gorgeous couple! I like Janelle! She is just sweet, spicy, and charismatic for sure! 39:12 really resonates with me! And 45:00 brought tears to my eyes 🥺 Janelle knew and got EXACTLY what she wanted. Definitely gives me hope 🙌🏽 Nobody but God put this couple together! ❤❤

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@Helloyou902]

I thought she was asking for someone like him and got introduced to him on Instagram. But she was in a relationship and he was too? Why did the couple even recommend him to her? Why was she even asking if she was in a relationship? Did I miss something?

[@AnnaWhite-go6nz]

I heard the same and the low key stalker vibes with buying gifts on the scavenger hunt- is not high value. Come on. That is desperate as well

[@xiaonanz9411]

So did she ask the couple for someone suitable while dating someone else?

[@ChinaSu-i3k]

Nice interview.

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[@loveheals2828]

something about her does not ring genuine to me. Trying too hard to seem a certain way. She seems quite masculine.Ugh how she goes on! Too much giving and aggressive, but hey it worked for her.

[@YTMatrixWakeUp]

@loveheals2828 Obviously I don’t know her but not feminine, gentle and loving women she is for me. This is not how I feel real feminity. But everyone is different, and that’s beautiful. She looks and feel masculine to me.

[@kimberlysanchez8731]

are you talking about Janelle?

[@YTMatrixWakeUp]

@kimberlysanchez8731 Hi there, I was talking about guest lady with a black hair. I am not on this channel often so don’t remember their names.

[@loveheals2828]

@@YTMatrixWakeUp yes she was not feminine or likeable.

[@YTMatrixWakeUp]

@@loveheals2828 Don't know the lady personally, but definitely not kind of my vibes. Plenty fake people around. You can not fake the energy which you radiate from within. Some still needs to learn this... all the best to you.

[@Lulu-nn8mg]

I hosted a birthday party for myself 😂

[@lateshachurney5965]

Who asked who about being Instagram friends ?

[@yanamclaughlin]

They are going to have the most beautiful children ever if they don't already

[@laleezy77]

Who does a scavenger hunt in the airport???? Wrong place! U know how many tall dark & handsome men there are...just a lot of ppl period in an airport & wht employee is gona wait for hours for sole random to show up for a small gift while thy are working??? Nobody has time for that...that's too much..she seems like an avoidant/anxious attachment

[@danicaharley6273]

She admitted she is avoidant anxious

[@laleezy77]

@danicaharley6273 yea I didn't get thru the whole thing before I Commented, the airport story made me avoidance anxious 😁

[@lizardavery8752]

I wish they didn’t go on about “god” I don’t believe in god so i want to listen to this but it’s frustrating

[@ddblessed]

Why would that bother you? He is part of it, believe it or not. I listen to plenty of things that everything someone is saying doesn't pertain to me, and I can still take away with what I feel pertains to me.

[@lizardavery8752]

@@ddblessed so im from Australia so we arnt really into the bible stuff unless brainwashed. I also am aware Americans are full blown bible believers. I see no point in bringing up religion in a conversation. Religion is a form of control. If you sin, you go to hell. But god loves you. Haha ok. Anyway that’s off topic. I just like listing without this god rubbish.

[@ddblessed]

@lizardavery8752 you're mislead on all accounts and did you really just group an entire country into your craziness... you have never cracked a Bible so don't comment.

[@Lisagriggsofficial]

I'm so Glad I gave my REALationship over to God. He helped me attract better than I could ever choose for myself. A man and woman that have their priorities in order are a true force! ❤

[@bethdouty4591]

Yes,if you don't want to hear about their religious beliefs,there are many other such platforms. No need to feel uncomfortable about it.

[@AnnaWhite-go6nz]

Sorry but the gifts and poems at the airport is borderline freaky behaviour and desperate . End of . Do not buy gifts for the man before you have even dated. No, just no

[@Lulu-nn8mg]

He's feminine and she's masculine..it's hard to watch and goes against what this coach preaches

[@AnnaWhite-go6nz]

@ i am glad you said this, bc I also feel the same. I think a great example of the reversal of genders in our modern society