Words to live by, “I only grow apart from those who do not grow.” Great talk! 😊
@b52_vishwajeetpatil994 жыл бұрын
Nice pic
@OceanLove3 жыл бұрын
I actually ended a relationship because he was comfortable staying where he was at and I needed to grow and I had hoped we would grow together.
@RosieHollowayLondon3 жыл бұрын
initttt
@heide-raquelfuss55803 жыл бұрын
Indeed! No grow, is not very appealing. People, who do not want to learn and grow and are not curious about much are not the ones, i stay attracted too. Intelligence Curiosity Friendlyness Trustworthyness Having your back Care Empathy Good strong character Healthy loyalty Deep bonding This are a few important things to stay in love...
@mariaware82722 жыл бұрын
Takes too long to get to the meat of subjects bye
@loreladumbrava2 жыл бұрын
1. Create a natural, practical opportunity to get close to one another, like, ask for help when you need it and thank for it. Politely open a discussion, like, how is your day. 2. See what is to honestly appreciate in discussion and share. 3. Give space. 4. Look at how he is investing into your connection to create a relationship and if that adds to your standards. 5. Look at how can you invest to create value while keeping your standards, and how he receives them. 6. Be bold and communicate your needs in a nice, polite way. Those values adds at any level of a relationship, not just at the beginning, to create a strong lasting bond. Relationships are an opportunity to grow as a person and share true value, not a reason to feel a void within the self.
@Katrn303 жыл бұрын
How refreshing that two handsome men with nice voices are discussing women in a respectful manner. No narcissistic jerks here. Videos with males or females who just criticize the other gender while acting so superior are so lame. I actually learned a few good tips here today.
@maureenrobertson60593 жыл бұрын
Give each other space to create desire.....excellent advice...and it's very effective. Married over 50 years and we went on separate one month trips with family or friends. When we got back home, we were like newlyweds with the added benefit of nobody else around to disturb spontaneous passion events. Highly recommend your advice. 💕
@lewishowes3 жыл бұрын
Appreciate you! 🙏
@maryjohnson18902 жыл бұрын
It is what it is. Sometimes we take family vacations, sometimes we don't. I was blessed to have a spouse who both our families were close and we came from family oriented situations. And the passion never left either. So all situations are different and people are different. And cultures are different too.
@LuptonianPrince2 жыл бұрын
@@maryjohnson1890 Yes that's what I'm saying. Bordem is a lack of resources, and we don't have that. We are a couple that sees through new lenses naturally, although I know that time apart would naturally make us miss each other. I believe in this advice for 70% of people but then you have that 30% that are always working on seeing through new lenses every single day. My spouse says I'm naturally mysterious anyway
@sue-annthandy53872 жыл бұрын
@@LuptonianPrince well done I’m with 27+ meet up groups that lead into Salsa Classes,Burlesque Classes, also swimming 3/4 times weekly different venues,Events,Late nights at every Museum & Art Gallery & 30+ people,Strangers bring different energies,safely,Such diversity’s,all races,creeds+ Warner Breaks, 80% none communication couples? Has brought 2!Ex’s curios,circling Thanks so much future good health HERES to 2022 ✅
@LuptonianPrince2 жыл бұрын
@@sue-annthandy5387 This is so amazing. Thank you!
@MsKaylanude8 жыл бұрын
God Bless your mom!!!! For brining you up as a real gentleman!!!!!!!
@b52_vishwajeetpatil994 жыл бұрын
Is it real pic of ur
@Goodfellas9004 жыл бұрын
Yes and as he said he got mulled by women for being like that.
@jayney61763 жыл бұрын
@@Goodfellas900 Remember... a gentleman AND _______. (If you listened to the whole thing!). His problem was not being a gentleman. It was being a gentleman without the “and-something-else” to go with it. Even today, Matthew Hussey is an absolute gentleman - but not JUST a gentleman.
@Goodfellas9003 жыл бұрын
@@jayney6176 hey thanks for the comment. It's been a few months since I watched this interview and I don't recall what AND _______ stands for. I don't have a hour now to rewatch it. Can you give me more tips?
@jimdipuppo11013 жыл бұрын
Jayne Y and rhnk
@ajnyou.youtube4 жыл бұрын
Very impressive how he answered each question with a clear high level of emotional intelligence. 👏🏼👏🏼
@b52_vishwajeetpatil994 жыл бұрын
Hey,nice pic
@oscarwilliamson12644 жыл бұрын
Natalia Antonio, you look stunning 🌺🌺🌷🌷🥀🌹🌹🥀🥀
@cherylwilliams90503 жыл бұрын
Yes, agreed!
@kateashby3066 Жыл бұрын
I love MH because he’s not trying to teach women how to manipulate men. Lots of male to male influencers do this instead of teaching men how to relate to women. Mathew is authentic, smart, and kind. And very wise!
@Mushroom321-3 ай бұрын
Yes!!!😃👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@shirleycolee13 жыл бұрын
The three important things at the end are very good points (which of course he makes elsewhere.) Be kind. Realize you don't know everything (be humble). Realize you have limited time so enjoy being here now rather than regretting missed choices or opportunities.
@sunshinedayz70324 жыл бұрын
Wow! Guys see 30 women a day that they are attracted to?! I am lucky if I see one man that I am attracted to.
@acharich4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 either that or u have super high standards..
@moonkoral10094 жыл бұрын
Acharich Speaks or maybe she just has standards 😭
@b52_vishwajeetpatil994 жыл бұрын
Nice pic💯
@Richjunior14 жыл бұрын
you are confusing lust with attraction. When you consider long term relationships 99,99% of the men that initialy found a woman attractive would never stay with her because it is rare to find a woman that isn't annoying
@PGOuma4 жыл бұрын
@@moonkoral1009 right lol
@Keep-on-ok3 жыл бұрын
I’m attracted to men who are intelligent. They have to have a brain and be kind.
@marriedwithclashingopinion90893 жыл бұрын
They say that you need to connect on a spiritual level if you want it to last. Bodies change, but minds stay the same!
@vajmong3 жыл бұрын
Make sure you’re getting the hits before the head show up on your show
@marriedwithclashingopinion90893 жыл бұрын
@@vajmong what ?
@vajmong3 жыл бұрын
@@marriedwithclashingopinion9089 he says his job is to do something about real life. Why isn’t he explaining.
@yardartistry41213 жыл бұрын
Same here!!!
@livinglimitless79628 жыл бұрын
Don't forget Matt use to train guys and I thank him for helping me find my wife. I use to watch his videos everyday and practice his teachings for 3 years. One of the best coaches for dating!
@Anrt4417 жыл бұрын
Brent Johnson wow I am happy for you. I am too late to listen to him but now I am, I hope I can create my luck like you did. Thanks 😊
@jehhan93065 жыл бұрын
Matt, you're awesome.. Thank you .your advice is gold guys.. God bless You!!
@acharich4 жыл бұрын
Wowzers..!
@daniellecorreia32374 жыл бұрын
Are you still happily married? Just wondering how his advice works out and I do hope you are with kids because nothing drains your banking account like kids jk I love my kid worth more than money..... but are you married still?
@drairlandadiazpino27913 жыл бұрын
I got the "how to talk to men" ebook and I kid you not, in less than a month I was dating the man I am living with right now. I totally believe you, Matt's advice really works.
@sacredcowbbq13263 жыл бұрын
Humble and confident is the most attractive combination ever.
@სალომეგუგავა3 жыл бұрын
you have to get close , have comfort , have too much comfort , get bored , then get more distant , then miss eachother , raise the desire level , get closer , and the cycle goes on like this.
@frenchtruffle47302 жыл бұрын
It does seem to be how relationships go. The relationship is either up or down or boring.
@margaretchristian72154 жыл бұрын
I told my son by being the nice guy you may be considered to be just their friend or their big brother but when you get to be older they will all come after you. When girls come to their senses in the end they want the nice guy.
@carriehealth3 жыл бұрын
Truth
@margaretchristian72153 жыл бұрын
@james cooper My son is grown today and married, just had his first child, good job and not on drugs . I think he did just fine ,
@margaretchristian72153 жыл бұрын
@james cooper I really don’t understand your point
@carriehealth3 жыл бұрын
@james cooper you have a very warped sense of reality. I married a tall dark and handsome man who is also the nice guy and treats me very well. I married after my 30’s and as you can see by my profile, no sagging here buddy... all natural I might add. I’m guessing by your comments you are a narcissist or maybe a sociopath... go target someone else. 👎🏽👎🏽👎🏽 Your cruel and insensitive behavior is why you are single. Nice guys laugh at guys like you...as they walk by with their hot wives.
@carriehealth3 жыл бұрын
@@margaretchristian7215 don’t listen to that noise...he subscribes to a Strong Successful Male Channel and a Forever Bachelor channel. He’s clueless to what real women want. I was chased my whole life by guys like him. They don’t win. Ever. 😅
@redeemed38565 жыл бұрын
The golden nugget starts around the 30:00 mark!! Unique pairing.. ✊
@ReneeHoraney9 жыл бұрын
Matthew is brilliant! He understands human psychology so well!
@martinsophroniisccus90065 жыл бұрын
He doesn’t understand anything. He only repeats the contend of books he read. His long record of failed relationships is the prove. He is only 27yo. You are all a naive gullible sheep.
@lynnc52914 жыл бұрын
Martin Sophroniisccus just because he is a relationship guru doesn’t mean he has to find the love of his life first try to prove he knows what he is talking about. He could go about things manipulative and still get the desired affect but he is trying to help both sides understand eachother more which I myself can appreciate.
@oscarwilliamson12644 жыл бұрын
Renee Horaney,you are absolutely charming 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌺🌷🌷🥀🌹🌹🥀🌹
@laylaindy2 жыл бұрын
@@martinsophroniisccus9006 You are right. Moreover, his answers are what people want to hear not what actually works/doesn't work in a real life situation. He is well aware of what he is doing because he makes a living and a lot of money with his videos, channels, etc. It's all about being popular and likeable.
@TheMomo11092 жыл бұрын
Agree with Renee
@LizR0036 жыл бұрын
I think relationships boil down to good chemistry. some people have a spark to them that is magnetic. I think that spark comes from someone that is genuinely happy on their own. It’s something that can’t be taken from them. I think relationships work if two people who are genuinely okay on their own come together and having the other person in their life just adds more to their own happiness. To keep chemistry going 10, 20, 30 or 40 years down the road I think a couple should never stop dating. Go to the movies, plan a romantic date weekly, write to each other etc...
@maureenrobertson6059 Жыл бұрын
Yes! Yes! Yes! Happy on their own first...such great advice.
@livefreeordietrying58656 жыл бұрын
It’s not enough to have confidence you have to have competence.
@angelm64979 ай бұрын
I was in the states as a child and I am from the UK. I found the statement from people "Have a nice day!" Quite contrived and odd. It is totally different in the UK but now I am older, I find myself saying to people "Enjoy your day!". A little more sincere but I find people respond more positively to it.
@LindaCasey3 жыл бұрын
I'm a 73 year old 'old hippy' and have seriously never thought that people SHOULD marry or try to maintain a long term relationship. That IF they choose to marry, then they should go through a rigorous training session and that it should be much harder to get married than to suffer a divorce. Children SHOULD be raised by a village of wise grandmothers because being raised within a family of bickerers, cheaters or abusers does not produce healthy adults later on. Divorce is damaging to couples and even more so to the children. Never blend families ... date if you must, but live separately. Your children will appreciate this very much.
@belove7513 жыл бұрын
Wise words
@collinsmugodo3808 жыл бұрын
I'm a dude and I listen to Matt almost religiously...really has a way of articulating elements of this relationship game in a way that's very easy to understand and the advice tends to apply to all genders.
@0326hkim7 жыл бұрын
collins mugodo I'm new to him but is this guy very ethical ? I don't want another pickup artist.
@annetteritzmann58217 жыл бұрын
Yes, he is
@collinsmugodo3807 жыл бұрын
0326hkim 100%. I think the pickup industry is transforming so I don't think it's necessarily unethical but I understand the spirit you're asking that question with and yes he absolutely is.
@starbarrage7 жыл бұрын
Just out of curiosity, what does 0326hkim mean when he/she asked whether he was ethical or not?
@prime2016 жыл бұрын
How is it unethical to be a pickup artists?
@1234oconnmar2 жыл бұрын
So refreshing and attractive to hear an authentic man speak about his flaws. And so awesome to hear about that “unique pairing”! That is so true. And for me that feeling of entitlement is my default/flaw.
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
🧡
@desertrose66706 жыл бұрын
I notice how humble and real Matthew is. I think that’s the reason for how successful he has been...his kindness resonates.
@thedatingeffect4 ай бұрын
I'm a women's dating coach and I LOVE Mathew's message! My audience are single, soul-searching women over 40. I encourage my younger audience to listen in. :) SO GOOD.
@Ragani1083 жыл бұрын
Let's bring back that handkerchief drop!😊
@elizabethchewter35326 ай бұрын
Ha ha yep!
@marianhofmann5572 жыл бұрын
Angie, You just took the words out if my mouth. Kindness and Intelligence. I dont need much else.
@speaklove65532 жыл бұрын
I said “ be kind !” Before you did !!! That’s it. Love yourself first is next . Feel gratitude every day is third .
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
🧡
@JosieSanelly8 жыл бұрын
even the interviewer looks hypnotized :D so much charisma this guy has! :)
@acharich4 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@kellyhector43 жыл бұрын
yeah he had the hots for him .
@leesteal44583 жыл бұрын
True. I saw that.
@elainewong01073 жыл бұрын
Mattthew's comments about not expecting men to always make the move is most enlightening! Thank you :)
@yesreneau7 жыл бұрын
Dude, the interviewer's voice is everything. So nice to listen to.
@annettedourte92413 жыл бұрын
Martin Dourte I approach lovely women with humor. For instance, I’ll walk up to a lovely woman keeping the appropriate distance and say, “haven’t we met recently?” And they usually say, “ no I don’t think so.” To which I will reply, “oh, I’m sorry, it WAS recently. I met you in my dreams last night.” And see where it goes from there. I’ve heard all kinds of replies to that from “and we had a good time, yes?” To “oh that was a good one!” to , “oh you got me with that one!” One has to have a gentlemanly reply to each of their comments such as, for instance, “no, I don’t have have you yet, but I’ll keep trying.”
@valarielacasse8033 жыл бұрын
What is so special about it
@michaelaquade28213 жыл бұрын
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@dawnmariebooher32693 жыл бұрын
@@annettedourte9241 Sorry... but that pick up line is cheezy and cringy. I would walk away.
@ChadEricCartman3 жыл бұрын
@@annettedourte9241 Thats cheesy and cringy bullshit.
@quachinator8 жыл бұрын
The camera work for this interview is insane!! This was also a great interview in terms of content, but I'm just blown away by how great it looks.
@missyt32808 жыл бұрын
I just turned 30 and left a seven year relationship, and although I loved him with all my heart, I am so glad we never married. I have a different view about marriage and my parents are still married.
@negvey3 жыл бұрын
good luck finding a guy now
@viktoria8434 жыл бұрын
''You need to have competence not only confidence,,-love you @Matthew Hussey for teaching me this powerful simple sentence!!
@brigittegeorg3 жыл бұрын
Just be authentic, it's as simple as that.
@carolinenorman61413 жыл бұрын
100%
@SC-li6pf3 жыл бұрын
Be unique and irreplaceable
@jennwhite94082 жыл бұрын
I love love love the "dropping the handkerchief" example.
@rtd7066 Жыл бұрын
Enjoy the path we have taken. Do not waste any life obsessing avout the paths not taken. Thank you Matthew
@carolethurlow7001Ай бұрын
Oh yes. A great path, but sometimes a hard one to find.
@Dr.NoorMoussawi8 жыл бұрын
Mathew Hussey, I respect your humility, knowledge and integrity. Keep on growing!
@samwright49985 жыл бұрын
The fact the man is still single is a measure of his success in my book. Finding a woman worth marrying can take a lifetime, if ever. Most dudes just settle too fast.
@anetak.94944 жыл бұрын
Well, on that note he was left for dating rumours with Shawn Mendes.. But I agree with you. Don't settle too quick just for the sake of being in a relationship.
@KeikoBushnell4 жыл бұрын
I hate when ppl ask “why are you single” or has to do with that OTHER person too. And I haven’t met someone I want to spend my life with THATS WHY
@JG-lb6ld4 жыл бұрын
I couldn’t agree more. He knows his worth and isn’t going to settle. I commend him for this so much.
@daniellecorreia32374 жыл бұрын
Way too fun being single. loves for the birds. Lol the irony of it all teaches men manners and women to throw the p*~#¥ so to speak. Throw their Handkerchief lmao and making money on it and stays single smart guy.
@kimgordon36953 жыл бұрын
Okay Peter Pan
@assianeu1977 жыл бұрын
the microphones are so beautiful
@nzungu77736 жыл бұрын
As Drm 😐
@TISHU6 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@innerview62983 жыл бұрын
Yeez, big and pretty mics
@DiscoveryWonders3 жыл бұрын
Your comment is like a rainbow in the sky :)
@Angel-ms7sf3 жыл бұрын
yeah but i’m so bothered by the way the interviewer keeps talking over the guest ughh lol
@MilanElan2 жыл бұрын
What if the woman loves a man who does NOT feel any instinct to love, to protect, to help? A man that expects the woman to financially support herself and not need him emotionally either? What do you think of that man? There ARE men who are incapable of relationships.
@MDN4188 жыл бұрын
"What's the biggest mistake? Is it being yourself?" This cracks me up lol Good job you guys! Keep creating more of this!
@zensvlognotapro4 жыл бұрын
Marriage for me is when two ppl want exclusivility to each other. Through thick and thin they will be together. If not mutual i think ppl dont get married.
@imdannymartins3 жыл бұрын
@@ipage1 exactly 💯 we are always changing u are not the same person u were 5 , 4 ,3 ,2 ,1 years ago.
@theresemeggitt84559 жыл бұрын
He responded immediately when I said I could really use your help with something!
@acharich4 жыл бұрын
😂
@angelblue525 жыл бұрын
damn he's so right about relying too much on one part of yourself, I would over rely on my looks for validation and confidence. slowly building up my character and other qualities I have
@jamilgotcher54563 жыл бұрын
Men would probably rather have a wife who wasn't as good looking that put up with a lot of their b.s. than a beautiful woman who didn't put up with their b.s. and disrespect.
@karenv.4740 Жыл бұрын
@@jamilgotcher5456 Indeed
@wentinggao30644 жыл бұрын
Matthew , I just love how level-headed you are and how practical your content is! Keep up the good work!
@SaraRahimi8 жыл бұрын
I'm getting addicted to listening to these two guys! They are simply awesome! Thank you for sharing your talent and awesomeness!
@DanielleYSmith7 жыл бұрын
#MatthewHussey is so good at articulating the intimacy issues of our generation. Since I've started reading his books and listening to his advise its opened my mind and my heart. I can see thru his suggestions the mistakes I have made thru the years in past relationships. He's helping me get thru my divorce by communicating and reaching out, his consciousness and passion is gonna bring my love life to the next level. Thank you God! (AND Matthew)
@Happy-kt4mk3 жыл бұрын
I believe marriage will work if 1. No porn (porn kills relationship) 2. Hold off sexual intimacy and work on becoming each other's best friend first. (It is only when you become each other's best friend, and you know the person inside out, that you can trust the other person and will have full confidence that giving him or her the space will catapult that person back to you. Just my 2 cents
@gypsywoman91408 ай бұрын
Maybe the second reason is why I'm often left feeling confused by the guy I've decided is my future husband. There's all kinds of signs and stuff that he reciprocates my feelings, in many ways it feels like we're in a relationship, but he hasn't even kissed me yet (he knows how I feel about him) and he says he's not ready for a relationship yet.
@christinaamericapetrous88664 жыл бұрын
The more I listen to your stories and experiences, the more I feel connected to the experiences you have, simply because I have lived and had the same experiences, I feel like I relate and not the only crazy one here like my friends call me. I love your videos. I have learned a lot from you. Keep up the great work.
@dakotastaubach14136 жыл бұрын
I'm speaking this into existence, someday we will have some great conversations! This was amazing and I really want to meet you guys! Its difficult finding people who understand psychology and relationships in the way you guys comprehend these topics. Your advice and understanding could change the world. We need to all be working to better all of our relationships with everyone around us! The potential in what you guys are bringing to the world and humans relationships is unfathomable. I love seeing you both engage together. There is a balanced chemistry in knowledge, intellect, and life experience that comes out when the both of you are collaborating. Even if I don't get to speak with you guys, you both have provided insight that has been life altering in many positive ways, and for that, thank you!
@lindacahoon8292 жыл бұрын
I enjoy listening to Dr Gray too. He explains the reasons men and women behave the way they do and it's dealing with biology and hormones. It's very informative.
@UrDominioN Жыл бұрын
Hi, As much as I like what he says, I heard some red flags as to the limit of his knowledge. Did you really hear everything the guest said? The reason I ask is because I notice you seem to be a very spiritual person who thinks she knows how to manifest. Well, did you hear him say “The Secret” is rubbish! Therefore, the guest is not at all “up your ally”, right? Ok, I’ll await your reply, if you care to respond?
@sherryarnold14373 жыл бұрын
I already have the man and we love each other. Where is the part of this discussion about getting one another sexually hooked and addicted to each other. That is what I expected here.
@None-Too-Subtle3 жыл бұрын
I don't think people literally think "be yourself." What I DO think the smarter ones think is be genuine; be authentic. If you're not, men (or women) can literally smell it. Just my two cents.
@Mary-go8xc3 жыл бұрын
Truth
@tianiemitchell56923 жыл бұрын
Don't have any expectations just go to have fun and be civil to kind of get to know the person you're interested in and don't divulge too much remember they're strangers
@aliciagardner328810 ай бұрын
This is the second time l've listened to this interview. I'm a big fan of Matthew and always wonder how a young man can have so much wisdom! But also, he is genuine and has style. Thank you Matthew Hussey and thank you Lewis for interviewing him 😉🙏💖
@lewishowes10 ай бұрын
So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for listening!
@juliabernbaum1756 Жыл бұрын
It''s so cute to see the beginning of your friendship and then watch it grow! You guys have been changing lives for years now!
@MO-uy8pe3 жыл бұрын
Lewis is so real! How he simplifies things and gives expression to my thoughts through his questions to his guests.... there aren't no other occupying this space but you. God bless you for doing this.
@udayaai8 жыл бұрын
The most underrated channel on youtube
@Moddereff8 жыл бұрын
Lewis, it's unbelievable how you keep picking the right person to interview. This one was great, enjoyed every bit of it.
@user-xt6cr5dm6l Жыл бұрын
I wish there will be as much as effort on the internet to educate men how to treat a woman.
@anneiconex147311 ай бұрын
Min 33: “You were boring.” Thank you for telling your story. We all have had breakups. We understand. 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
@MilkPudding9 жыл бұрын
so much wisdom in this video. thank you
@DCL263 жыл бұрын
Delightful and insightful interview by the two open, sensitive and responsible gentlemen. Thank you.
@gabriellalopez65377 жыл бұрын
Im going down a rabbit hole of watching all these interviews! They're so good! lol
@rosenblau3 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend recently told me that I can be simultaneously cute, adorable, hot and terrifying. I must be doing something right. And: "So adorable.. you're amazing in how versatile you are.. you can be adorable, intelligent, sexy, dangerous, hilarious and beautiful at any given time."
@leesteal44583 жыл бұрын
He loves you. That's all. Lol. Happy for you.
@jobrocket14303 жыл бұрын
Bahahaha that’s so funny.
@wiessiew98533 жыл бұрын
I have never in my life met a woman who was hilarious(or just funny to be with). He must be very lucky.
@rosenblau3 жыл бұрын
@@wiessiew9853 Aww that is sweet of you. Thank you.
@jhjbkj54883 жыл бұрын
i notice thats what my exes would tell me too, i think thats a good sign
@LizRainey563 жыл бұрын
My S.O. is driven to succeed. That's all he thinks about. On the phone constantly, making things happen. But he is also a man with a golden heart, loyal, steadfast, strong and patient, respectful and super handsome. I'll take all those qualities over fun or spontaneity.
@ExtraordinaryLiving9 жыл бұрын
Wow, what a revelation!!! At around 31:37, Matthew Hussey talks about a painful breakup he had . . . a breakup he initiated, and his then-GF responded with "Okay!", being very agreeable to the breakup. And then Lewis Howes made that "Ouch!" facial expression. I had no idea that this can be a hurtful response to the guys even though they are the ones doing the breakup. My last BF was the only one ever to have broken up with me (I did the dirty work to all of my other previous ones when an ending was required.) And because I had been contemplating a long while regarding the viability of our relationship, I simply said "Okay" as well. And that was that. I had never thought about how he felt about my agreeable response. Now, it dawns on me as I am listening to this interview.
@temporarythoughts6 жыл бұрын
ExtraordinaryLiving wow what a great comment.
@Issbb516 жыл бұрын
you can’t stereotype all women like that. That is wrong. It goes both ways just FYI... 😉
@PGOuma4 жыл бұрын
@@youtubetv775 yep dont have strong emotions when things end. I learned that the hard way. It pushes them away even more and makes them even more glad to dip outta that situation quickly! Be cool and they will be like "Dang!! It's like that?!" and they might crawl back to ya. You don't have to take them back though if you don't want to
@hgzmatt4 жыл бұрын
@@PGOuma at that point it's too late anyway.. if it takes mind games to keep them they can stay away
@trinathompson56564 жыл бұрын
boganus699 not all women stop with generalizations
@emondeprosper19779 жыл бұрын
Chilling and enthralling conversation! Matthew gets better and better each time I hear him. Thanks Lewis for shutting out pre-conceptive notions and hosting this. Great work!
@apinchofcoco89734 жыл бұрын
'You're not owed anything with regards to finding the love of your life' is a REALLY good point. But...I have SO many friends that did NO work at all when it came to finding love. They just WERE...and fell in love.
@xfaroutzx36376 жыл бұрын
The pairings that Matthew is referring is called 'Duality". When someone has unique pairings that may be expected to be opposites to each other, it makes someone highly attractive.
@heatherhail69752 жыл бұрын
great stuff here! has to be said !! one stuff from me which is also mind blowing is actually my best friends' trick about natural spanish fly which boosts your energy by 300% !! i had to try it and my man is absolutely different in bed! absolutely awesome
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching! 🧡
@brandonmapes82402 жыл бұрын
@@lewishowes i also love your videos here, i grew up on them 🙂 but you have never mention these drops in your videos . i mean i know a lot of ppl spanish fly using but on the other hand when i ask someone if they know it they don't . i think it's a shame on this channel ...
@mellimel70019 жыл бұрын
Hi Lewis, Thanks for interviewing Matthew! Been following him for 2 years.. he is amazing!
@nitahudson51096 жыл бұрын
As always, I’m pleasantly surprised at how great your guests are on the show! Your easy interview style is a perfect play to the “experts” you have on. I love being introduced to new gurus of thought.
@fridaber60698 жыл бұрын
This must be the best conversation I've heard in a long time. I had to take notes while listening, it was that good. Thank you, truly.
@louiethemouseful4 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@rozannamurayama96293 жыл бұрын
We still have game. 😊
@1NosyRosyWorld6 жыл бұрын
I am blown away at how many of the answers to "What is true Greatness" last question - boils down to humility and Service to humankind. I LOVE your channel! Thank you for your Authenticity!
@nextleveljourney66123 жыл бұрын
Starts @ 17:00 - Previous to that they were stroking each other
@ChrisHanline7 жыл бұрын
DANG! You REALLY highlighted that whole "Hey your show failed" thing dude.
@GiulianaUbertini8 жыл бұрын
How many of us would love to get THIS Guy?! ;) Great interview Lewis!!!!!
@centurionstrengthfitness36717 жыл бұрын
Genuinely enjoyed this interview. I especially loved Matthew's '3 truths'. Wise beyond his years and highly likeable. I'll look out for more from him. Great interview, Lewis.
@iamjcsmit3 жыл бұрын
Excellent advice! I have been coming into realization about the' AND' or pairing. This video brought it together and made me see myself much clearer and the people that I tend to attract. It also made see that it's okay to make the first move towards a man. I always fought with that. Thank you!!
@MsHaileyD5 жыл бұрын
Matt just described the guy I have been looking for forever someone who is nice but with a bit of an edge. I have only found guys who were too nice or too cocky.
@Stevers8D5 жыл бұрын
havent met me :P
@alguedemer7 жыл бұрын
Wow, Matthew, I've never been so touched by your words than on this video, and I have seen a quite a few. Your honesty is great.
@gijoop137 жыл бұрын
Loved it... Awesome "the journey of discovery not lies in seeking new landscape but in seeing with the new eyes"
@estherpianim87988 жыл бұрын
Wow!! This was an amazing talk! Thanks Lewis! Please bring him back 🙌
@patricia74343 жыл бұрын
Yes, yes, definitely have him on again!!
@lollarson69187 ай бұрын
Greatness....unconditional LOVE!
@i_challenge9 жыл бұрын
I love matthew hussey, he is amazing his advice is priceless.
@markbeeman30933 жыл бұрын
The sexiest thing in the world to men is a woman who is kind and treats them respectfully. Also men want a strong woman to demand the same in kind.
@CatherineJones72 жыл бұрын
Oh Lewis, you are SO beautiful. The way you compliment Matthew at the end and also articulate what you've chosen to learn from him during the conversation. It is humble. It is self aware. So gorgeous. Xx
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your kind words ❤️
@gracelewis60718 жыл бұрын
Talk about the "and" - my opinion of Matthew just skyrocketed when he mentioned Esther Perel - she has such a different view on relationships, the fact that he even knows about her, let alone has a lot of respect for her and has clearly learned from her work... yeah that's sexy. It shows a lot of humility too, which is incredibly attractive, and hard to find in a guy. Fantastic examples - I hope there are many people out there taking note! Myself included.
@ShaunnaMarto2 жыл бұрын
Wow, listening to this today, 6yrs later and still so relevant. This is timeless. You asked the best questions and get the best responses because you make everyone feel relaxed. You have had some greats! Thanks. I appreciate you both. 🙏🏽❤️
@julias76873 жыл бұрын
Life changing, the best education on this topic I have ever received! Thank you so so much for doing these sessions together. Excited to listen to the next one :)
@kymberleybyrd69982 жыл бұрын
I’m late to this interview, but this was one of the best relationship conversations. Wow he’s good
@lewishowes2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your feedback 🙂
@nihal_ony5 жыл бұрын
There’s like so much wisdom coming from this conversation. Matthew is a inspiration for me to make myself and my growth first priority again. Lovely ✨
@Fedosa919 жыл бұрын
As he was describing the cocky guy who is also a gentleman I went "awww". Proof right there that this is sound advice, people! ahahah
@sudeshnakar3128 жыл бұрын
such a beautiful interview ! I like how Matthew Hussey cuts the crap and tell you exactly what is required to be done in order to really achieve what you want out of your dating phase/relationship.
@kimgordon36953 жыл бұрын
45:55 Esther Perel wisdom "The space between"
@Camille0526ify3 жыл бұрын
Yessss
@danitarhea10364 жыл бұрын
I totally agree...I still have men who at 60 years old are terrified to come and approach me! Guys approach me on FB from high school 30 years ago who are just NOW confessing their fear to have spoken to me at that time...WOW !!!
@oscarwilliamson12644 жыл бұрын
Danita Rhea,you are so beautiful 🌹🌺🌺🌷🌺🌺🌺🌺🌷
@raqueltelleria35342 жыл бұрын
I am realizing that this guy is super smart, emotionally smart
@korianderson4288 жыл бұрын
😱 The only two people I follow together in a video! I'm so happy right now!
@pnwlady3 жыл бұрын
Really appreciate these guys sharing their process and what they’ve learned.