How To Get Confidence like Tyler Durden

Fight Club is easily one of the most influential movies in the past few decades. And why? because it's relatable. It tells the story of a depressed consumeristic man who finds his way into a less depressed consumeristic life by the means of a man named Tyler Durden.....
yeah hes pretty much literally me.
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[@Dandoskyballer]

Step 1: have split personality disorder.

[@kaylebsingsstuff]

Check, what's next?

[@mrdudeman57]

​@@kaylebsingsstuffreal

[@Upuiff09]

step 2: HAVE SPLIT PERSONALITY DISORDER

[@plabdien]

You have something really good going on here. Keep on the grind!

[@adithyanb4895]

Confidence is sexiest trait a man can possess.

[@infaredx]

The whole point of Fight Club was the same as American Psycho, you're not supposed to like him or want to be him.

[@lukestreng3660]

not completely true, the message he brings is great. Rip loose from consumerism and follow your dreams. become who you really want to be instead of constantly frying your brain with dopamine all day. Nevertheless, the way in which this is potrayed is very dramatic to make the movie interesting and to show the duality in the narrators own personality and tyler.

[@bigsmoke2287]

I agree that you don't want to be like bateman but you do want to be like Tyler durden in the sense that he wants people to break free from all of the things making them weaker in turn destroying the weakness and creating new strength.

[@ryken4456]

I want to be like him.

[@chefboyardee4674]

And look at what society has made men.

[@minecraftspiderqueen]

I am him.

[@gloomys5435]

literally the point of fight club was to reject self improvement, just let go

[@abreian]

as much as I agree, the next logical thing from “letting go” which idk what that means to you or anybody, is becoming the best version of yourself. Tyler’s quote about self improvement is referring to working towards a meaningless goal just because to give yourself some dopamine hit like masterbating. If someone is to find their purpose and work towards it, it is not meaningless, and it provides an outlet for fulfillment as well as not just looking for meaningless joy in the consumeristic dopamine filled world.

[@arfius6134]

Tyler didn't tell to REJECT self improvement ...

[@PapiStolet]

My theory when Tyler says self-improvement is bullshit and self-destruction is the answer is that getting out of your comfort zone and doing things you don't want to do, like when he says to space apes starting and losing a fight, that's true self-improvement is not the one that makes you feel good in the moment but has achieved long-term benefits. Accept self-destruction (improvement). Let me know your theory I’m interesting

[@Beleth420]

I thought the point was to stop wasting your life and that its literally showing us, how men need purpose or we will become like that. Obviously everything is up to interpretation I've not actually watched it for about 6 years lol. Oh and that the current working climate and how we are as a society is ruining our mental and basically become zombified having stagnated in such a boring mundane 9-5 life when we used to have purpose not just a shitty job and be a wage slave being depressed all the time LOL. All these men come to tyler because they have nothing to live for. I think I need to rewatch now aha.

[@PapiStolet]

@@Beleth420 great thought mate, we just need a purpose in life :)

[@minecraftspiderqueen]

Keep this up mate. If there is truth behind your words, then you will go far kid.

[@jlau9268]

He's also Brad Pitt, i bet that helps a lot too.

[@Squeshit]

Self improvement is masturbation. Now, Self destruction.

[@Drpebba_]

Holy cow, the quality on this video is top tier. I can tell you're a credible source of advice just by the way you speak. It's Genuine. Never lose that, please!!

[@markflakezCG]

(3:30) I once had long night conversations with a girl I had a crush on. To lighten the interaction and have a more open chat, I decided to have a small drink but with high percentage. Surprisingly, this worked for me, I was able to relax and communicate more freely. However, it's important to note that this approach isn't for everyone. Personally, I tend to feel less comfortable in conversations, with the exception of conversations with close friends and loved ones. Anyway.. I think you giving great Advice man! I will try to work on it.

[@ConnorM2007]

Same

[@shadowmomochiuchiha6839]

"Self improvement is masturbation."

[@TheP0dcastHub]

"But self destruction" 🫰

[@top_10________]

Anyone notice he wrote durdan instead of durden

[@eyes1168]

I'm a girl but I find Tyler very inspiring

[@auxfraudstar]

MEN WHO WEAR THE BLUE RALPH LAUREN BATH ROBE WILL BE REMEBERED FOR MILLENIA 🗣🗣

[@parkerbanks1704]

Ik im late but along with being strong, confident and hot he also rejected self improvement, favouring destruction. Hence the paradox

[@joaqu7002]

This is actually really good advice

[@lumenknight5673]

He’s not you where’s your homeless man mansion bruh?

[@Retort-v7o]

Who is Tyler durden? And why are u showing blank backgrounds with no one

[@banku204]

That's why i pay my internet bills 💸

[@Arya-rg3xx]

self improvment is masturbation

[@justmeeagainn]

I think you missed the idea that Tyler was a psychotic delusion of an insane mind, and was not supposed to be someone to be emulated. You also missed the idea, if you were foung to emulate him, where he declares "self improvement is masturbation".

[@radiogoon1354]

Everyone has their own Tyler durden, the narrators Tyler was everything that he wanted to be, not everyone's Tyler is out to destroy consumerism. You must become your own Tyler, be how you want to be, look how you want to look, speak how you want to speak, the more you do that the more you will let yourself become Tyler durden.

[@ethanwall6994]

"People do it every day. They see themselves as they want to be. They just don't have the courage you have... to run with it," - Tyler Durden I think what he's trying to say is that Tyler Durden embodies what you want to become. So no, we're not literally becoming Tyler from the movie, rather, we are self-destructing who society and those around us are telling us who we are and letting go of all of the bullshit to become an authentic version of ourself free from fear

[@minecraftspiderqueen]

Mate, i am him. I don't think you understand.

[@mstrslay3752]

​@@junij3524He probably meant that u shouldn't be like Tyler Durden, in the movie, as he promotes literal self destruction(1 hr sleep a day, starts a terrorist org, lives in a dilapidated house, steals human fat to make soap...) and discourages literal self improvement (improving ur physique (bus scene), getting a decent job, a decent home, sleep schedule...). I personally see it the way the two other people who replied see it tho, just explained what the guy commented is probably saying.

[@seynpurrp]

step number 1. have plot armour.

[@MarcusAlexander-hu8er]

Love your vids, thank you bro

[@AMXLBEATS]

Thats straight to point Btw your abs are insane dude 🔥

[@speggie9628]

😭😭the way these jokes be placed

[@ieatwater325]

3:29 dude what💀💀💀

[@katjaanderson769]

You have a great voice to listen to. And when you stop caring about what other people think (within reason: you don't have the right to hurt people) improves your life *dramatically*: you stop letting the opinions of "other people" affect your behavior, and how you feel about yourself. (And if Tyler were an out of shape dude, no one would have been inspired by him. Sorry, not sorry.) All the best.

[@jesuslopez6873]

1. It's Brad Pitt

[@realityisawasteland]

The intro is Awesome

[@Fightclubfan69]

I still dont and will never get this masculinity shit

[@kazattak]

dawg FR did these people understand the point of the movie 😭

[@wwleoo]

You are telling me to get a gun?

[@Seiven2077]

Bro, if you are sub5 no one will talk to you. Taje that into account wheb you build your flawless theory of confidence

[@DanielManaois-y4w]

i think overcoming every negative things or obstacle in our lives is a definition of confidence ✨

[@-MSJ]

Learning martial arts is also another good way to enhance your confidence and being more accountable and responsible also will make you more masculine.

[@sagarsahil8728]

I watched your videos and I like it so much I am thumbnail designer and video editor also a movie lover I will love to edit your videos

[@lewieanderson6579]

Just be a figment of your imagination like Tyler durden

[@nonishah1069]

If you're watching this your already lame

[@nøthreat-369]

Learn from different peoples from which you inspire the most and collect all the stuffs to be a better version of yourself

[@sikegaming8873]

self improvement is masturbation ~ Tyler Burden

[@GUYISNOTNORMAL]

American pyscho is a movies not abt killing ppl but how u should feed ur "good side" also ur hobbies amd ur bad side so u wont be the nice guy or full on bad guy anime shit Fight club just dp something that makes ur life better just not stressful hobbies just enjoy life

[@Wander06]

Shit sounds like a castrated Tyler Durden

[@Beasty_76]

Buddy you missed the whole idea. You're not supposed to be like them. The characters itself like they are supposed to be. Be yourself.

[@abreian]

It’s just a video about confidence at the end of the day man, im not saying to be exactly like Tyler Durden.

[@death8987]

Ima do these things and come back with the result

[@DutchVanDarLinde]

Oi mate what happened

[@Arju-z5f]

Hey bro how is it?

[@Soap.Salesman]

wsp

[@loganleslie9814]

Great physique brother.I respect you work ethic.

[@Snewhy0]

If u not prepared mentally don't do it. Do it , but prepare. Don't jump all in 😂

[@clingz_vidz]

I think just have fun with it.

[@cali9059]

tyler is not supposed to be a role model.

[@YABUKIJOE2077]

Wrong

[@OklamaJr]

But he Is

[@Potter12349]

one letter w

[@AkshanshVerma-xu8nd]

Bro got the same abs genes

[@minhkhang3274]

whats at 6:00?

[@TylerDurden-b6j]

You talk too much

[@paulomurici9075]

Peak soundtrack

[@vonthedon3]

Interesting brother, never watched the movie but nonetheless good video

[@abreian]

thanks for the support von, keep up the good content

[@socialdestroyer]

go watch it!!!!!

[@dark_lord125]

Be yourself

[@kyle8175]

drugs

[@XBLxMaverickX]

🫵🏽🫡

[@abdelmajidzaki-hw8ii]

What's the intro theme name ?

[@supercringeteam6666]

i dont remember but its something by mozart i think

[@supercringeteam6666]

symphony 38 first movement

[@someguyinazoo]

Tyler Durden is an Ideal for lonely men,like the people who follow Andrew Tate is his everything they aren’t he’s strong charismatic and gets the women he wants. But I’m the end not even the Narrater could ache I’ve it instead he learned that Durden is wrong and learns who he is

[@Ben-zg8xk]

Durden was a nihilistic extreme, the movie is a warning against this type of masculinity. Its funny that although tyler durden is supposedly anti modernity and anti consumerist, he represents everything that our society values in men. The point of fight club is for men to have a balance of the narrator and tyler durden, and to cultivate real human connection.

[@aliimrankaya4952]

😅😂 You just wanna be good guy

[@enthalpyart220]

actually u should go for detail

[@ajaykumar-ml1dt]

good content.

[@nervinokaras]

What's the difference between your mother and a washing machine?

[@abreian]

when I dump a load in the washing machine, it doesn’t follow me around for a week.

[@GentlemanGaming1122]

​@@abreian 😂😅 fucking hell that is funny.

[@lionforlambs9167]

Good one❤😂

[@lordeddy05]

Thank ya

[@lumenknight5673]

Sigma the Alphas and Betas

[@Ector2099]

In both american psycho and fight club, the whole message is that people become futile by only focusing on "self improvement", but in my opinion, some aspect has become futile if you're only putting effort on that, and nothing else. No, self improvement is not masturbation, but masturbating on your ego with self improvement is.

[@justheretoinspireyou5803]

The lips story is the most untyler durden thing ever Tyler was far from homosexuality

[@infaredx]

also adding the clip of you licking your lips definitely wasn't necessary

[@abreian]

It certainly was necessary

[@hasantnaz2235]

@@abreianof course it was necessary. It brought the while video together

[@SpecialAbonnent]

Of course it was, it broke my nofap streak

[@tipoftheiceberg7034]

Bro packin some BEEF in his draws wtf😅. But nah youre too young you dont realise that the message is DONT become that

[@kefir8257]

You don't wanna be like him, stop.

[@silverleaf1261]

TYLER IS SOMEONE ELSE

[@umanuu]

i feel you're missing the point of Tyler Durden's character by trying to be like him

[@Thebootlegmariobros]

Hes trying show how having some of tylers good traits can help in improvement

[@heltych]

confidence is good when you have a clear purpose. no, being masculine is not a purpose.

[@Gmanj26]

Best video, but how do you stay in his mindset?

[@abreian]

you must adapt into your own mindset, his mindset is only a template for confidence.

[@Gmanj26]

@@abreian thank you bro, got it nailed now!

[@jasminegrace8097]

U look like my ex

[@abreian]

who says I’m not

[@xxRetardGamingxx]

underrated song at the end