I'm not a big talker. But if I'm going to talk to someone my main intentions are to just be nice, make them smile and make their day a good one. Because when someone is sweet to me, I know I feel good all day. And knowing I've made someone else smile, it leaves me smiling. 💗
@JakPiggottКүн бұрын
I would say you can't get a better mindset than this ❤
@Jitensinghdhalaria2 күн бұрын
John boy : you either die a hero or long live enough to see yourself becoming a villian❤
@potapotapotapotapotapotaКүн бұрын
is that ed edd and eddy
@JakPiggottКүн бұрын
John boy is definitely a hero
@xsierrax116 сағат бұрын
My friend showed me you the other day. I was 'depressed' and anti-social. The minute I watched your video I was so much happier. So much fuller of life. Thank you, man, for helping the next generations.
@Jitensinghdhalaria2 күн бұрын
Moral of this video : Be 100% of yourself around peoples.
@xassassin6092 күн бұрын
I agree, but I do have to remember to behave like an ordinary human being too
@mack3009Күн бұрын
@@xassassin609 this is the hardest part. Cuz my sense of humor is too retarded lol
@JakPiggottКүн бұрын
@@xassassin609 haha yeah can't forget 😂
@JakPiggottКүн бұрын
True, it's really all you need, as long as you continue to build on your authentic self and make it even better 👊
@pacifistvoyageСағат бұрын
@@xassassin609 it's just being optimistic about your surroundings, that's it
@Efeamuge2 күн бұрын
From someone who has dated an attractive,"charismatic" person,even such people get tired of the attention they can get from the wrong person or unwanted type of people. Thank you for highlighting what's actually important as a human being.
@JakPiggottКүн бұрын
That's facts bro, haven't thought about this perspective for a while
@DanielGuan7Күн бұрын
I'm pretty introverted so I typically don't talk to whoever, but getting called charismatic was one of the best feelings of my adolescence.
@JakPiggottКүн бұрын
Yeah it feels pretty good aye 😂
@Zachary-b7zКүн бұрын
I have yet to be called charismatic the closest I got to it was being called "pleasant" or "charming"
@aqib8755Күн бұрын
@@JakPiggottI get called a weakass mentally ill person it hurts but ok 😅
@GabeAndersКүн бұрын
I've just started learning this stuff myself. It really is about having pure intentions and not giving a crap. You said it just about perfect, Jak. Keep inspiring the young men and God bless you. 🤝👍
@JakPiggottКүн бұрын
It's the foundation brother, without it requires extreme levels of manipulation, which I do not have and don't want to have 😂
@MrTortiePlays2 күн бұрын
My charisma mostly consists of dark jokes and random bs 💀
@lelexUS342 күн бұрын
dark jokes are like food, not everybody gets it - Stalin
@MrTortiePlays2 күн бұрын
Dark jokes are also like women, not everyone understands them.
@runin122 күн бұрын
Personally don’t find the appeal of “dark jokes” and depends on how far you take it
@lelexUS342 күн бұрын
@@runin12I do agree with you on that one
@KRTHK92 күн бұрын
"dark jokes" goofy ahh
@Realinterlinked2 күн бұрын
Hey I'm from Malaysia,20 years old and I can say that not only American that ur helping but also all over the world...much love Jak❤
@JakPiggottКүн бұрын
Makes me happy to hear this man, much love ❤
@breaism2 күн бұрын
You are such a genuine, bright person that it radiates through the screen, love your videos keep it up!
@JakPiggottКүн бұрын
Thank you, just being me ❤
@Diss_Kay2 күн бұрын
Appreciate Your Work Brotha🗿☄️
@JakPiggottКүн бұрын
Thank yay my brother ❤
@thegamebois64602 күн бұрын
Thank you bro, I needed this so much. I did not realize how far off I have been from being authentic, I used to be a charismatic person, but recently I lost it, this vid helped me realize why and hopefully make it better.
@JakPiggottКүн бұрын
Authenticity is the sh*t brother. At least for me haha. Never lose it, it's what makes you unique and what forms strong, meaningful connections that actually last 👊
@edmundolschewski2 күн бұрын
Appreciate you bro!! Thought I would share this message with you all. "Don't let life discourage you; everyone who got where he is had to begin where he was." ~ "Life moves in one direction only - and each day we are faced with an actual set of circumstances, not with what might have been, not with what we might have done, but with what is, and with where we are now- and from this point we must proceed; not from where we were, not from where we wish we were - but from where we are." ~ reminds me of Jak.
@JakPiggottКүн бұрын
Haha I love that bro, had to read it twice to really conceptualise it, just like the flow of a river ❤
@edmundolschewskiКүн бұрын
Absolutely! Love you man.
@gabrielbooth72122 күн бұрын
I can confirm that when I started not caring about what other people thought about me, I was able to speak how i felt without being scared of being laughed at. A girl this year apparently likes me and she likes being around me a lot. I would 1000% recommend just talking and expressing yourself while talking to someone.
@RiceBoi-bo6xdКүн бұрын
dude i have the same thing, some girl likes me but she is shy around me and wants my number now
@JakPiggottКүн бұрын
TRUTH
@jetthesweat38632 күн бұрын
What helped me learn the be a better communicator or a better charismatic person was being an observer. I started paying attention to people who were magnetic. You know those types, the ones who can walk into a room and instantly become the center of attention, but not because they're the loudest. I watched how they interacted, how they listened to others, how they used body language. I'd pick up on small things like how they made eye contact, smiled at the right moments, or even how they made others feel seen. Much love hopes this can help anyone out 👊❤️
@JakPiggottКүн бұрын
100% bro, it's literally a cheat code being an observer instead of a player/consumer. You learn so much and don't attach yourself to the positives or negatives, you simply experience them for as they are
@_dontcare772 күн бұрын
you got this. no matter at what point you are in life
@JakPiggottКүн бұрын
Everyone is on their own timeline 🤞
@XavierBrunskill2 күн бұрын
Bro this stuff is hitting to hard now... I've watched around probs 10-12 videos of your and just the minecraft music in the background and you be liking an older brother is just, like damn...
@JakPiggottКүн бұрын
Man, thanks brother, this means more than you think and I hope you realise that ❤
@deltalock52 күн бұрын
I personally love making people happy and laugh but I always think they are laughing at my jokes but they really laugh at me... I think that i might actually should start trying standup comdedy so that people start viewing me as a comedian instead of a joker Thanks for the great Video, Jak!
@JakPiggottКүн бұрын
You are the definition of a person who turns a "negative" into a positive. This inspires me
@straummerguten2 күн бұрын
I thought once that my friends were true friends. That was until I understood that they were not themselves. They found out of my flaws, and left. I'll try improving my social and communication skills. I'll be back when the comment hits 10k.
@JakPiggottКүн бұрын
It happened for a reason, put trust in that brother, real homies will accept the flaws you have because not a single person on this earth can go without one, keep your head up brother ❤
@straummerguten5 сағат бұрын
@@JakPiggott I was too open about my sex life, me being too much of a freak, being a creep and checking girls out. I didn't know until it was too late... But here I am, learning from your channel. Thanks man, I am thankful for your support.
@Xqero_mКүн бұрын
You seem like such an authentic person, the way you talk and give advice really helps me open my mind to a lot more different perspectives. I genuinely appreciate you coming on here and spreading this, as I have been watching your videos recently. Thank you
@bear-gj7oq2 күн бұрын
Your the hero man that your generation needs ❤❤
@dittoplayz31832 күн бұрын
You're*
@Biatba2 күн бұрын
@@dittoplayz3183that was so incredibly unnecessary
@JakPiggottКүн бұрын
Nah bro I'm just a regular guy, but thank you ❤
@bear-gj7oqКүн бұрын
@@JakPiggott no man your more than a regular guy there’s people like me who look up to you now keep up the good work jak
@PatrickMorrow-kl5isКүн бұрын
Your voice is so calming also
@phrodizzle93872 күн бұрын
Thanks for all your videos man, they have really helped me in the past few months.
@JakPiggottКүн бұрын
I hope you give yourself as much credit as you give me ❤
@phrodizzle938718 сағат бұрын
@@JakPiggott yeah I need to work on that
@theresponsibleuser902 күн бұрын
People always seem interested in me until i started talking 😂
@JakPiggottКүн бұрын
Is that actually a fact or it is just your interpretation? Has anyone ever called you boring?
@theresponsibleuser90Күн бұрын
@@JakPiggott Some people called me boring and some interesting, I'm introvert and spiritual type of guy but cool too, Sorry for any grammatical mistakes, Love from India 🇮🇳
@mansurabdi1637Күн бұрын
I haven't started the video yet brother but all i have to say is you're doing amazing work. I discovered your channel in the last week & im shocked & grateful to how much i relate to you & your experiences, You’re an australian youtuber & im some random Brit but it just shows how universal & normal these experiences & struggles are! You've been doing brilliant work & im so glad theres a community out here that we have to understand & help one another, I wish you the best in life brother & stay strong!
@Omar.Mohamed_YT2 күн бұрын
I hope I get the love of my life
@JaylanCarponКүн бұрын
Jak Piggott, it’s awesome to see that you posted another video on self improvement. I just finished watching and I can definitely say that I feel educated, and satisfied after hearing your meaningful speech. I’m making massive improvements on my life, and so are you! I’m glad we can bring everyone along on our journey and do this together. It’s an amazing feeling to be here with you on your channels journey making progress. Good video today. 😊
@kridayB192 күн бұрын
I think jak needs to bring back the old videos just speaking sitting in the car, or surrounded with nature, etc. i think some of us would like to see that
@ColbyOlivier2Күн бұрын
Bro I just wanted to say that I absolutely love your videos. I relate so much to you and what you speak about and the ideas you bring up. I have no clue to what extent, but you have truly changed my life. In some way or another, you have changed my life. I really hope you see this just to let you know that you are doing great. You are inspiring people. You have certainly inspired me. I am 16 now and I am so glad I started watching you a year or two ago. You have been crucial in who I am becoming and who I am as a person. It might sound stupid to some people that a KZbinr has changed my life, but they aren't me. Thank you for making these videos
@aidynrl6 сағат бұрын
Man honestly your so real and it actually is just so good in a world of people who have ill intentions, keep up the videos man ❤
@joaotomasfernandessilva95082 күн бұрын
jak thank you for all the help that you are giving me
@AmateurEditz72 күн бұрын
I agree, be confident with intentions, the intentions that you reflect on others is very observable and contagious.
@SuperPlayerR-pu5hr2 күн бұрын
I have started taking green smoothies around 3 weeks ago and switched my food to whole grain and the difference is amazing. also I was doing just that what you said sending positive energy yesterday while playing a nice game and I helped beginners didn’t get hung up on people not wanting to chat and just having a good time I’m glad we see charismatic ways of communicating the same way.
@Rip_firassКүн бұрын
The pov that I had of charisma before and after this vid has changed 180 degrees my pov of charisma was being confident and showing people that you are perfect and that you are the one that he has the aura of the world and this shit but now man I really understand that charisma is making people feel comfortable whit you and that you are relied on and being your self whit people and not caring about what they think just be your self whit being confident and giving that aura of that “hey I am here I am present” so thank you therepist
@ergonomicofficechair10009 сағат бұрын
the growth is insane brother. ive been watching since around 150k
@ninguemabsolutamentenada39917 сағат бұрын
Man i have seen a lot of motivational videos and i can say that yours are the best, like seriusly, there are some channels that i see thousends of motivational and i dont absorve shit, some of the channels i see for literal interteinment but i swear that every single video that you make just make me think for at least the next 2-3 months.Really great job dude, keep the good work, you are saving our generation (and sorry for bad grammar i from brazil and we don't speak english here).
@Space-Pug3 сағат бұрын
Hey Jack I just watched ur “if ur x years old please watch this” video and I just wanna say I rlly resonate w some of the stuff you’ve said, especially the stuff about loneliness and not fitting in which. I’m 15 in year 11 of high school and I’m just tryna get my eyes on what I wanna do w the rest of my life and ur vid rlly helped man. Cheers
@Goldfranks11 минут бұрын
hey man just wanted to say that your videos are really helpful, and i definitely needed this a lot since i'm looking to improve my communication skills myself! and especially with all the negativity that's online nowadays it makes me very happy to see someone spreading positivity to the world. thanks 🤞💯
@InstantMotivationClips2 күн бұрын
If you really want to gain confidence, really care about people but also dont give af about the haters
@joshuacollins5594Сағат бұрын
Thank you Jack I've implemented your teachings into my own life and you have really made my day today by making me feel important and happy around others.
@pocket369Күн бұрын
I just want to thank you for your videos, youve been helping me a lot lately. Wish you the best brotha
@straummerguten2 күн бұрын
Bro is reaoly a great dude, he tries to give people advice, and he has wisdom to share with all of us. A moment of silence for this guy.
@Austriandogo2 күн бұрын
Thank you for always being there out for us, Jak ! You have helped many young men, boys, etc. If I’m being honest, your video is motivating, but sadly I must tell you, im a nice guy. I try to always help around in my class, but rather then receiving something from them (for example: also helping me in various situations), what I get is bullying and ruthless behavior. What’s the point then in helping someone when he doesn’t care of you…? But Jak, you are a great guy, you make my day brighter :)
@p3thiago175Күн бұрын
dude in my vision the point is just being a nice guy and not expecting nothing for anyone, they are not obliged to give something to you and vice versa, but you still do it anyway for your spiritual peace by being a nice fella
@thegoatmattwuhu2 күн бұрын
I got a stupid story to tell you. I was buying books for school from a girl and she seemed very nice in the conversation we had while texting about meeting to buy these books. The day of the meeting came up. I was actually excited to see her. I wanted to tell her a joke related to what she texted me and I choked and I didn't say it. It's probably because I didn't take off my earphones with the music playing. It might sound stupid but it's been over a month since that happened and yet it still comes back to my mind very often and I'm just mad at myself. The saddest part is that I started to be more confident lately and then something like that happened
@manpreet_singh_dhaliwal2 күн бұрын
I stopped giving a fuck and my life changed alot i became alot happier and now ive also gotten rid of my fear of being judged completely and my life just keeps getting better however that came with a cost as my life is so good i didnt have any bad moments that i could use to stop my addiction to corn i had gotten rid of it but it has started growing back and this time also with lust i hope i will be able to change it, i dont know why you read a random story about a random dude but thanks for reading and have a wonderful day!
@VoralCoral2 күн бұрын
You should start a spotify playlist of advice like this. There would be a lot of people which would listen to it one of them being me.
@soniagarg49992 күн бұрын
Firsttt😊😊also i am a new sub . Thanku soo much bro . U have made me realize so much in such a short time❤❤❤ as a JUST BECAME A TEEN and a genz life seems quite hard especially with the immense competition in asian countries but i feel like i can rely on u ❤❤❤ thanku again 😊
@PatrickMorrow-kl5isКүн бұрын
Thanks, I’m only thirteen but when I’m old and have kids imma make them watch your videos
@Vehicle_Index2 күн бұрын
Congrats on a million subs bro, keep it up!
@MaazQadri-t1uКүн бұрын
“I am not a guru or coach just a student like you” 😊😊
@tweedymoon16282 күн бұрын
Jak, throughout the past few months, u have changed mylife
@Reddit_Is_Better2 сағат бұрын
I'll explain how is that this don't work for me, He's like: 🗿 And I'm like: 🧟
@Andy.man813 сағат бұрын
Bro deserves a Nobel prize for saving our entire generation
@BrothebombКүн бұрын
You gave me confidence with your whole career
@MicrowaveGenieMan2 күн бұрын
I'm asking her out in a week. Wish me luck bro 💪
@kingsigmalamboboyКүн бұрын
Now is as good of a time as any
@MarcelDore119 сағат бұрын
Wish you luck budy
@VortexTC-qe7p2 күн бұрын
Thanks for theese types of vids they help out alot
@Gangsta4Eternity2 күн бұрын
Man this guy being all the help I need
@Idontevenknow-l3j2 күн бұрын
as an ohioan, when I clicked on the board and saw a massive "OHIO" i was SCARED FOR MY LIFE DAWG😭😭😭😭
@abhinavff31222 күн бұрын
Just did my workout thank for appreciate ❤❤
@dhairyasheth6359Күн бұрын
Yeah bro. "Nobody's getting out of here alive" that's what I remind myself when I'm afraid of initiating the conversation with anyone. Who cares? Make them happy. Give that compliment. Say what you want to say. And you're right. You can't do that if you're have a certain level of insecurity. If you think you're ugly, work on that, physically and mentally. You don't need to be completely perfect chad, even if you are a perfect chad there'd still be people who won't like the way you look and that's okay. That's completely fine. Just keep on imporving yourself, that's the way you'll love yourself, and you can only love others if you love yourself. You are not an introvert, you're insecure.
@prinsepierre5619Күн бұрын
Love you jack. Wish you the best in life 🙏
@D1drik10 сағат бұрын
*Day 2 implementing this* I have started developing an visible aura.
@KrishPawar-et5rgКүн бұрын
Well its all about disciplined thoughts and a calm mind.
@EldenXordСағат бұрын
We riding a gyat to ohio with this one 🗣️🗣️🗣️🔥🔥🔥
@MisterPot.2 күн бұрын
thank you Jak for helping us males to become better men. You have my honor
@thegrandmasterguru98292 күн бұрын
Yo Jak I'm ngl I haven't watched the video yet but I wanted to say thank you so much for everything man I love you like a brother, you've helped me and countless others so much . I've lost weight, been healthier mentally and physically and I've had clearer goals since I've started watching you man. Much love to you bro keep it up and I will too ❤❤❤
@nanaadjoaboamah10192 күн бұрын
Thank you 😊 Jak.
@_Jack__Shirley_Күн бұрын
Well said again master. Your our hero
@shariqvids7764Күн бұрын
U R CHARISMA YOURSELF BROTHER
@tinablackthorn2442Күн бұрын
I’m from Dubai, and I’m not a very good talker 😅😅 so I clicked on this and was surprised to see my own city on the board! Haha. Amazing points though!! Thank you so much❤ you’re awesome man
@CarlSky-l4x2 күн бұрын
The problem is that there is basically no one who I know that aligns with my beliefs
@Efeamuge2 күн бұрын
Don't actively search for such people, unless it matters to your career or passion. If you search desperately for such people,you might meet people who would fake it just to be with you for an unknown reason or another
@kkettleytКүн бұрын
so
@bigshoewithbigpotato92312 күн бұрын
Day 2 of asking: Are you a Christian? And if so, please tell us more about it.
@TheChristianMens2 күн бұрын
OMG finally you got 1million i a sooooooooo proud dude 💗💗💗💗
@Manuelksg2 күн бұрын
Love you man this is too facts.
@just.a.browser7 сағат бұрын
I'm sorry😅 but the title made me laugh 😂😂 "question ur sanity"😂🎉❤
@mercuryvegeta2 күн бұрын
Bro can you make a video on how to get confidence and how to find topic to talk to someone
@prathamacharya29792 күн бұрын
hey Jak i have been seeing your progress for a year now. it feels refreshing to see someone my age with my mindset. love your videos bro! prouda you! can we be friends 😂❤️
@RiadhChelihi-OG2 күн бұрын
to be charismatic be yourself that's it
@nnnmmmable5 сағат бұрын
That is not charisma.
@creationsbybrothers29862 күн бұрын
Bro u made my day hats off to u bro
@I000I00I2 күн бұрын
A youtube shorts once said "90% of men run for their women, the rest 45% becomes billionaires"
@seoirsenorris99843 сағат бұрын
People have said im giving cereal killer vibes because in just too nice
@DylanPrimus-d5x2 күн бұрын
If you see this your the reason why I started working out everyday I stoped doing many things I used to fail classes now I got out of programs I am a A+ student thank u
@Bleed-ky4qq2 күн бұрын
This video couldn’t have popped up at a better time….
@TheAllMightyGoofball2 күн бұрын
you should really make a platform where people in the same situation in life can meet and have fun, like a discord server or any type of platform
@heph4estus570Күн бұрын
Title is magnetic af
@garfield50096Күн бұрын
ay these videos with the white boards i like keep doing em
@Folisher82 күн бұрын
watched every video of you bro... slowly becoming better... in everything except lust, i cant resist lust no matter what and i end up doing it once or twice a day
@mohamednaoufal38162 күн бұрын
Nice work bro🎉
@advaymanhas55552 күн бұрын
hi bro love your work
@yoyo_cyends2 күн бұрын
My class stops talking when I rise my hand i think i went too hard on the beginning of the school year, i'm not that serious, but i'm glad they do that 😂
@Himmothy03Күн бұрын
Love your vids, man
@echo_maybe2 күн бұрын
Genuine advice from the heart.
@timtedi9735Күн бұрын
thank you jak
@ImNotsoairjordan2 күн бұрын
I’ve been talking to this girl for like a month now and I like and it’s pretty obvious she likes me but idk I’m still too nervous to ask her out what do I do
@NoidWasTaken2 күн бұрын
If its obvious she likes you just ask her out man, you have a 100% success rate since she likes you back. Confess/ ask her out in an expected moment, she'd be very shocked and suprised and probably a bit nervous
@AbderahmenTuihri2 күн бұрын
if it really is obvious then ask her out, worst she can say is yes
@ImNotsoairjordanКүн бұрын
I’ll try on Monday
@Zembie1Күн бұрын
Bro if your talking to a girl, she probably likes you. Why else would she be talking to you instead of another girl?
@ImNotsoairjordanКүн бұрын
@@Zembie1 it’s weird bc it’s just at school I don’t have her number or anything but at the same time she didn’t start talking to me until I started taking my looks a little more serious
@Dapro_Gaming2 күн бұрын
This shouldn’t be free
@Damien_NixКүн бұрын
Thanks brother, I’m trying to attract a girl and this will really help