How To Get Over Nerves Before & During A Game Competition

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Mental Toughness Trainer

Mental Toughness Trainer

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@distortionto1066
@distortionto1066 2 жыл бұрын
No gonna lie I looked up this video right before an esports final, and I won!!!!!! Going along with the nervousness and anxiety is such a mentality changer for me
@fleimtey9174
@fleimtey9174 Жыл бұрын
what game and rank?
@CoachBryceWilson
@CoachBryceWilson Жыл бұрын
Awesome! 👏I make videos on mental performance too, you should check them out!
@grootz6007
@grootz6007 Жыл бұрын
ayyy thats sooo great!! congratulations!! i am so happy for you :]
@khaledali6784
@khaledali6784 5 жыл бұрын
Before any game just say to yourself I'm the best in the world at this . Simple
@sleepythotz
@sleepythotz 6 жыл бұрын
When im nervous i get nauseous and my stomach kills me
@mentaltoughnesstips
@mentaltoughnesstips 6 жыл бұрын
First off, you are not alone. It's actually quite common. Bottom line, nervousness is a result of fears. Lots of info on that at: mentaltoughnesstrainer.com/
@twentiesinmotion
@twentiesinmotion 6 жыл бұрын
Yeah I have my first high school football game today, never played this is my first
@antagonist7924
@antagonist7924 6 жыл бұрын
@@twentiesinmotion How'd it go? Tomorrow is my first game
@lunacomments3746
@lunacomments3746 6 жыл бұрын
I’m late but SAME. I want to overcome this so bad, I’m so jealous of the people that have genuine fun competing. I want to be like that
@TofurkeyMan
@TofurkeyMan 5 жыл бұрын
@@twentiesinmotion howd it go?
@whatamidoingwithmylife9355
@whatamidoingwithmylife9355 5 жыл бұрын
Im in volleyball and play great at practice but at the actual game I get nervous
@jimenabecerra1141
@jimenabecerra1141 5 жыл бұрын
same
@c_ray4850
@c_ray4850 4 жыл бұрын
Same but in footy
@AndreiSimber
@AndreiSimber 4 жыл бұрын
As a libero I’m a good passer but I get scared of being aced or passing badly
@upasangoswami6294
@upasangoswami6294 4 жыл бұрын
Same bro I keep messing up
@phyzics1218
@phyzics1218 4 жыл бұрын
This same things happens to me even in practice games I just get so nervous
@diyprojectsandhobbies9861
@diyprojectsandhobbies9861 7 жыл бұрын
HiI get so nervous from competing as a strength athlete it's like A day before competition I cannot sleep.On competition day: My chest is tight, breathing is difficult, I'm shaking like hell............... like a kid watching a horror movie whose scared to hell. It has become so overwhelming that I have not competed for 10 years in any competitions. I am confident that I am strong and good but the nervousness stop me from competing. Even writing this is overwhelming me now.
@mentaltoughnesstips
@mentaltoughnesstips 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks for commenting and you need to know you're not the only one. It's fairly common in sports, you just don't hear about it much. You can overcome it with help and the right techniques.
@lain3386
@lain3386 6 жыл бұрын
playing a volleyball game for the first time this help so much
@mentaltoughnesstips
@mentaltoughnesstips 6 жыл бұрын
WoahhSophie so happy to hear this! Nice job! Keep it up!
@afrahfathima901
@afrahfathima901 2 жыл бұрын
Me too 😂
@MasonSkills16
@MasonSkills16 9 жыл бұрын
You are amazing, bro!! Thank you so much!!
@mentaltoughnesstips
@mentaltoughnesstips 9 жыл бұрын
+Matthew W You're welcome! Thanks for comment. Craig
@fitforfreelance
@fitforfreelance 2 жыл бұрын
Love these tips- stop pushing against how you're feeling and embrace them! It means you're excited!
@wendylynne8097
@wendylynne8097 9 жыл бұрын
Great tips on how to overcome performance anxiety and fear!
@Bobban
@Bobban 6 жыл бұрын
huh... pretty good advice actually. I think back to when I had to read something in front of the whole class in school, always got super nervous and started to stutter, red face, swettin tons and all throughout that I tried to fight it. Tried to choke all those feelings, but later just accepted that it was going to happen no matter what and just "gave in". suddenly I was much less nervous and I did fine, sometimes fighting is the wrong thing to do, just give up and you'll do better, strange
@mentaltoughnesstips
@mentaltoughnesstips 6 жыл бұрын
Excellent point. Ultimately, you want to clear the belief program triggering the fear response.
@rhblue7204
@rhblue7204 8 жыл бұрын
Mental do you any tips for my basketball game tomorrow because I'm really nervous about how the crowd my criticize me or my friends thinking I did something bad can u help plz?
@mentaltoughnesstips
@mentaltoughnesstips 8 жыл бұрын
+Juan Puga Sorry I didn't see this until now. Focus your mind on all of the things you love about basketball. Fill your mind with things that make you feel good so there is no room for negativity to enter and trigger the nerves. Get my basketball mental toughness program coming out soon.
@rahffy8181
@rahffy8181 6 жыл бұрын
Focus on improving, don't worry about what people think
@jaysontatumroty2357
@jaysontatumroty2357 6 жыл бұрын
think about how nervous the oponenet is
@mockss6475
@mockss6475 6 жыл бұрын
RH Blue did you do well
@paladinsrage4646
@paladinsrage4646 5 жыл бұрын
@@mockss6475 No, he hasn't replied in 2 years. He probably lost the game and gave up on his anxiety and became a professional player.
@Donaldduckfan-mj8oj
@Donaldduckfan-mj8oj 5 жыл бұрын
Where my tennis bros at!
@emib6300
@emib6300 3 жыл бұрын
I usually get really nervous for lacrosse games because I get so confused on the field, LOL. So sometimes I tell myself how quickly the games go by and how I won't be playing the game for the rest of my life. I also try and think of fun things that are coming up after, like sitting with my friends watching the varsity game afterwards and eating food or (if it's on a Friday) what I will do on a weekend. I usually think that EVERYBODY is watching me and if somebody calls out my name and tells me to do something, it makes me nervous and not very confident in what I'm doing. But what y'all (and I) have to do is remember that literally only your parents or your siblings (sometimes not even them lol) are watching you, that's it. I actually have a game today sooo yikes but it's okay because I'm just thinking about the weekend. I hope this might help some other people :-)
@markgormley9692
@markgormley9692 10 ай бұрын
How did the game go?
@anshupriya6133
@anshupriya6133 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks alot....being in situation when we are totally wrecked really let you feels the pressure..but in that point of time I always remember my training...and a feeling arises...and I know this is what will pull me out I just gotaa hold on it tight...
@clayton_christoffels_Pt
@clayton_christoffels_Pt 3 жыл бұрын
You are an amaizing mental coach. Pls be my mentor
@Spiderman-iw2ey
@Spiderman-iw2ey 4 жыл бұрын
oh my god, awesome video. It didn't solve my problems but it gave me new ideas. It was complete.
@tremendous1163
@tremendous1163 5 жыл бұрын
1:18 wow how did you know i had my fencing match tomorrow
@vikkysoni7838
@vikkysoni7838 7 жыл бұрын
love you man needed it
@mentaltoughnesstips
@mentaltoughnesstips 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks for comment!
@vikkysoni7838
@vikkysoni7838 7 жыл бұрын
Mental Toughness Trainer sir i won a Badmintn tournament in my town on Sunday... And i also got man of the match trophy... Thanks to you sir... I was nervous in the final... But i knew what i have to do... Thanks again sir
@ellaturley5419
@ellaturley5419 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you this helped a lot
@itsgonzalits
@itsgonzalits 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot man. That was great.
@pendronator
@pendronator 4 жыл бұрын
I have the Vex IQ robotics state championships tomorrow. I'm really nervous.
@amarsyawal5289
@amarsyawal5289 4 жыл бұрын
I have a game tomorrow for shooting..do you know what I have to do tommorow
@fightrrrrr
@fightrrrrr 3 жыл бұрын
Great words of advice!! Keep it up!!
@shubhamsisodia5413
@shubhamsisodia5413 5 жыл бұрын
Amazing video instant results
@kimyujin3698
@kimyujin3698 5 жыл бұрын
Next week is our game, and I’m already feeling nervous just by thinking about it😭
@Donaldduckfan-mj8oj
@Donaldduckfan-mj8oj 5 жыл бұрын
Kim Yujin TOMMOROW IS MY GAME
@kaushitwakafidi
@kaushitwakafidi Жыл бұрын
@@Donaldduckfan-mj8oj Today is my game. I love the nerves. They energize me and excite me.
@Lebronisthegoat3
@Lebronisthegoat3 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks dude I have a connect four game Tommorow thx so much
@Rocky-mz5yw
@Rocky-mz5yw 2 жыл бұрын
Great vid.
@subhamkumarprasad3553
@subhamkumarprasad3553 5 жыл бұрын
I am a chess player and fifteen years of age right now. I am feeling chest pain out of panic even during seeing this video and thinking of the tournament I have to play tomorrow (27.07.2019). Should I go for a doctor / psychiatrist or simply relax.
@martinm.6472
@martinm.6472 4 жыл бұрын
If you can afford it, I would suggest you to get therapy. I'm a massive underachiever in life, pressure just destroys me. I missed several big chances in my life. I lost the opportunity to study in one of the best universities here in Latin American, I was literally shaking before entering the exam. You are very young and probably very smart, so therapy will probably provide tools that will give you a big advantage in life.
@Beneaddict
@Beneaddict 5 жыл бұрын
I'm so late but i will have a conpetition tomorow and i'm scared i will fail and everyone will criticize me...
@sprott5565
@sprott5565 5 жыл бұрын
Weird someone sooooo how’d it go?
@jackmellor5536
@jackmellor5536 2 жыл бұрын
I play as a goalkeeper in Football (some call it Soccer) which is a position where you're under a lot of pressure. I'm going to play my best game by raising to the occasion despite the nerves.
@CoachBryceWilson
@CoachBryceWilson Жыл бұрын
I make videos on mental performance too, you should check them out!
@kolapaki
@kolapaki 3 жыл бұрын
I know this is Kate, but I get really bad anxiety before football games. How can I fix this.
@talynnbrandon3175
@talynnbrandon3175 6 жыл бұрын
I play a lot of global level tournaments and right before I go into it my fingers and toes become ice cold. I've been losing earlier and earlier in tournaments due to this because I literally cannot move my hands and feet. My lips become blue and my nose is ice cold as well. Not sure how to help this.
@monsterdude9000
@monsterdude9000 5 жыл бұрын
Dustin Brandon Hand Warmers man it helps the blood flow Every single pro uses them.
@donovann8872
@donovann8872 4 жыл бұрын
when im nervous , i get sweaty and cold hands
@T1Earn
@T1Earn 6 жыл бұрын
are there like any pills that help with this when its so bad?
@tanouirdata7427
@tanouirdata7427 5 жыл бұрын
beta bloquers
@monsterdude9000
@monsterdude9000 5 жыл бұрын
Xanax
@Shxine
@Shxine 4 жыл бұрын
Apparently you could get surgery to fix it.
@T1Earn
@T1Earn 4 жыл бұрын
@Bruce Lee As of right now. Alcohol is the only thing to help me.
@NotHunter_18
@NotHunter_18 6 жыл бұрын
I’m watching this because in a month I’m gonna have to go to my tae kwon do championship in Galveston Texas and I’m nervous even know if I lose I will still get a metal but I really want to win
@jamespigg8877
@jamespigg8877 5 жыл бұрын
How did it go
@NotHunter_18
@NotHunter_18 5 жыл бұрын
Draw
@NotHunter_18
@NotHunter_18 5 жыл бұрын
Tie fight
@AnitaCullenAlice
@AnitaCullenAlice 5 жыл бұрын
Whenever i play i can't help but think that i look soo clumsy. I lack confidence when i play and i don't know what to do about it. I also think too much about what the audience will think of my play and will they judge/mock me... It's ridiculous
@oatmealproductions6979
@oatmealproductions6979 3 жыл бұрын
I get nervous and then basically freeze and don't think anymore. Before, I was a great football player but it just keeps descending because I learn about the competition. All I would ever ask for is just to get rid of these nerves. I don't know what to do. Please offer some advice....I am desperate
@CoachBryceWilson
@CoachBryceWilson Жыл бұрын
I make videos on mental performance too, you should check them out!
@saif3081
@saif3081 3 жыл бұрын
I perform very poorly even worst from practice sessions when im nervous . My first debute at the sport was great when i didnt know whats the competition and won a gold after that year im just decending from competition
@piercematthews2907
@piercematthews2907 5 жыл бұрын
Starting my first varsity game as a softmore this week , shitting myself rn
@kaitlin5688
@kaitlin5688 5 жыл бұрын
i can be at home and play like a goddess and when i get to class in gym i suck and all the guys make fun of me
@clarabellelim8582
@clarabellelim8582 6 жыл бұрын
Hey! During training when my team does team drills I manage to shoot in most of my shots and I manage to do my runs right but when I play a full court game and I try shooting I overstress myself and I panic a lot causing me to run the wrong direction, not focus, drop balls and miss my shots :/ and because of that my coach doesn’t want to put me to play a shooter position but I really like to play the shooter position! Any tips to help?
@mentaltoughnesstips
@mentaltoughnesstips 6 жыл бұрын
Clarabelle Lim so happy you reached out! Number 1 of the 5 tips I gave you in this video is really powerful and will help you. We call it mental practice. It takes just 1 minute and it's a total game changer. You practice ahead of time exactly how you want to the game to go. In your mind see or tell yourself how you want to feel and perform. Bring in all 5 senses. You can even picture yourself nervous AND you are still able to focus and perform to your full potential. Another tip is to focus on all the things you love about your sport. You can make a BIG and detailed list and add to it often and then read it frequently. Especially if you are feeling pressure or nervousness. You are playing because you love the sport otherwise you wouldn't be there and sometimes we lose focus of this and the pressure takes over and it interfers with performance. I have worked with 1000's of athletes that have used these methods and they work! Great job working on your mental game!!
@romaineathey6512
@romaineathey6512 3 жыл бұрын
I have used Weedborn CBD products and have healed without any problems. Now my whole family is healthy.
@FreeFlow__
@FreeFlow__ 6 жыл бұрын
The root of nervousness comes from the belief of being a separate self. Awakening is the solution for long term result.
@yngtorres9953
@yngtorres9953 6 жыл бұрын
Free Flow shook
@josephbellofatto924
@josephbellofatto924 5 жыл бұрын
Free Flow I race motocross and when I am in the truck before it looks like I’m shitting bricks anyway to get rid of stress pre ride.
@immolin6328
@immolin6328 4 жыл бұрын
I was nerves before my swimming competition I needed to swim 200 meters
@jasamino21
@jasamino21 2 жыл бұрын
1:38
@typestufff
@typestufff 3 жыл бұрын
Matthew 3:2.....
@jellyboy123
@jellyboy123 6 жыл бұрын
i play bowels and i play good then i fall apart if something goes wrong.
@mentaltoughnesstips
@mentaltoughnesstips 6 жыл бұрын
J o n a t h a n this is common amongst athletes. You are not alone. Use the " AND" world to help you. So you can say something to yourself like " Ok, that play didn't go exactly how I wanted AND I'll get it next time ". I have worked with 1000's of athletes that use this with great success! You can do it!
@hastudios1776
@hastudios1776 4 жыл бұрын
Who else has a wrestling match
@camryyn
@camryyn 4 жыл бұрын
Where are my tennis players? I have a match today 😬 wish me luck!
@bourne8636
@bourne8636 4 жыл бұрын
How'd it go
@bourne8636
@bourne8636 4 жыл бұрын
I have a football game on thursday and im so nervous to play cornerback im not that good at the position
@camryyn
@camryyn 4 жыл бұрын
@@bourne8636 went well actually!
@camryyn
@camryyn 4 жыл бұрын
@@bourne8636 good luckk
@bourne8636
@bourne8636 4 жыл бұрын
@@camryyn yeah we absolutely destroyed them 46 to 6 wasn't even anything special lol
@Bossk54
@Bossk54 4 жыл бұрын
I got drunk in my first rugby match to get passed my nerves
@lance6554
@lance6554 7 жыл бұрын
Real cheesy...nice info though. 😂
@mentaltoughnesstips
@mentaltoughnesstips 7 жыл бұрын
I have more powerful (and less cheesy) info at my website: mentaltoughnesstrainer.com/ :-)
@typestufff
@typestufff 3 жыл бұрын
Repent Jesus Christ is coming soon.....
@pedrosantana245
@pedrosantana245 2 жыл бұрын
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