HOW TO GET OVER SOMEONE

[@maui.tech.0415]

My literal situation. Thank you so much mate. I actually blocked my crush on Insta

[@maui.tech.0415]

Update I followed my crush again. Help!!!!!

[@zuzukram]

@@maui.tech.0415 do the blocketh again, ik it’s hard but my cheeky mistake was becoming really close friends with them and then it felt worse when I knew for a fact they didn’t like me. Although I knew it would happen, it hadn’t completely hit me. Also really take the advice in this video it’s really good advjce

[@hamzzdz61]

@@zuzukram worst for me, she sent such mixed signals but then told me she had a boyfriend? But was joking about us being together idk it was weird I blocked her and she blocked me back 🤣🤣

[@zuzukram]

@@hamzzdz61 at least you took the right option

[@hamzzdz61]

@@zuzukram yeah man no way I was gonna bother through that, it would suck to be her current boyfriend tho. I wouldn’t like my girl to make jokes about being with someone else low-key 💀

[@gioplease6848]

Stop investing your time and energy in someone who doesn’t reciprocate the same energy.

[@ibrar6364]

Than why tf they make us feel so special.. first she gave me all the attention now she doesn't bother a reply. It makes my blood boil

[@hotgirlshit5745]

​@@ibrar6364hope you're doing ok now... I'm currently going through the same thing and as much shitty as it is, we have to learn this lesson from this situation that everyone in this world will change one day..they could've sworn to every force on earth that they'll never cheat u then they do the next month, it's cz they're not the same person now. Ik shitty advice shitty wording but honestly i hate ppl at this point I'm over relationships

[@hotgirlshit5745]

​@@ibrar6364and let's be real we're all pretty young..if we start settling for the bare minimum now then imagine us in the future...we have to know we deserve better

[@tastemyrecipe4706]

Yeah 😢 now I've gotta grow stronger and instead of having any crush on someone I'd better crush my feelings

[@yogitameera]

​@@ibrar6364he did the same with me ... gave me his all attention then told me he loves me and all ... and now he never msgs me .. I msg him first .. I feel like I am being nuisance and when I asked him I was bothering him or something he said no ... I asked him if I've ever hurt him unintentionally.. he said I can never hurt him .. I wanted to ask if I'm that mere of an person that is not worthy enough to even hurt him type of thing ... but couldn't bring myself to say that ... I just said . Okay.

[@ingg2090]

Realise they are human. Let them off the pedestal you put them on and accept just how normal they are, and that it’s ok.

[@renu653]

👍

[@Sapphirestone807]

Is it weird that I actually love them more when they make mistakes?? 😭

[@blessedphoenix6229]

Then you put yourself on that pedestal, because you are more than ok

[@merielx]

Bro my best friend That I have been with for 5 years WHICH IS ALSO MY COUSIN used me and dumped me and got her friends to go against me when i supported them so much I also supported my bestie whne she was in the hospital for 3 months. Sometimes you can’t just forgive and forget

[@non-existent4717]

No. Let me idolise them so I don't have to face the realization of that is me actually LOVING then for who they r I tried so hard to dislike, ignote, hate them and so many times I was like bruh what even am I dougn and why THEM? Lmao? But still I can't. I like them. It's ridiculous wtf. I didn't ask for this. But also I don't rlly wanna get over the feelings abut at the same time I do wanna get over it.

[@margueritemcgeehaygood839]

Thank U - trying to uncrush on someone I work with 🥰

[@margueritemcgeehaygood839]

Oh and found out the crush is mutual followed by - he’s married’s dang it🙄

[@L4uden]

More updates?​@@margueritemcgeehaygood839

[@Beetle57]

If you're not receiving the same love you're giving, cut them out of your life. You deserve better. The problem isn't that your not good enough for her, the problem is shes not good enough for you.

[@AceOfStars0]

They aren't in my life tho 😭

[@bulldozer3582]

I don't care anymore

[@hellenthombozi7030]

At least you're in love with with a womam🤷‍♂️

[@Itsnoahscott]

⁠@@AceOfStars0Yeah that sucks but do the things you like to do & you’ll get distracted with other things & eventually you’ll start to forget about them or at least lose feelings for them.

[@AceOfStars0]

@@Itsnoahscott that's what I'm doing but I just keep thinking what they would say if I told them this in a conversation and also everything relates to them, especially my hobbies because we share a lot of interests

[@urfavv_aarav]

You're totally right! Loving someone who doesn't even care about you is a total waste of time.. And I knew this before but still, I fell in love with him! Now, I'm trying to remove those feelings and I'm sure that I'll be fine someday.. At least, Someday! 💔

[@whysofunnyy]

Stopping Stalking avoids being toxic and obsessive ,this is the real and valid solution to get over 😂

[@delilah.ellise]

I just told my crush that I liked him and he said he didn’t like me. So I’m trying to get over him. So thanks for the tips!

[@keileyloaiza1623]

Your so brave for being able to do that. Don't worry you deserve better!

[@issoadorable]

same:(

[@shagufta2170]

I did the same just now! I feel really bad rn! Please help! How do I get over it?

[@delilah.ellise]

@@shagufta2170 hey! So I’m really sorry abt what happened, it always sucks. But to get over him, it takes a lot of self love and telling yourself that there are so many other people in the world that you could love. So I hope that kinda helps! Lmk if you need someone to talk to

[@delilah.ellise]

@@issoadorable sorry luv

[@hugosnchz2542]

the problem is when no one better comes around

[@lofisky4355]

Find yourself first then the right one will come when you least expect it

[@TurdBoi-tf5lf]

​@@lofisky4355 not really

[@lofisky4355]

@@TurdBoi-tf5lf What makes you so certain to disagree?

[@skyup-ui4te]

​@@lofisky4355 I recently had a breakup too . And I actually believe we get our person when we least expect just focus on ourselves.You are very right here.even if I am not able to move on right now I am trying cause I am a human and it's okay to not feel okay . People just don't want to move themselves up from situation sometimes those negative feelings gives cheap pleasure being a victim card. This is why this people are not able to accept their lives. I didn't replied to that person cause I really don't think he or she will understand so I just replied to you cause I just wanted to share this with someone. It made me feel good

[@trinityp8575]

Yep, I know single people who never found the one… and they are 80 now. Sad.

[@omarezz1092]

i dont think most ppl dont know how to move on from someone, everyone does but the hard part is forcing ur heart to actually move on, i have tried all this and i couldnt move on at all, its not a button u make it on/off ur heart and ur brain keep reminding u and i rly loved that person, i just gave up one relationships cuz i dont think its fair for anyone to try with while i am still in love with someone else.

[@kpopanimeia1256]

Fr even I can't move on- damn I keep getting fake scenories with him- 😭

[@alessadolan5718]

@@kpopanimeia1256same 😕 the man i was talking to, we were really close and we talked everyday. But now it’s been 6 months no contact and i still deeply love him and I can’t help it but make fake scenarios about him. This is a nightmare..

[@trinityp8575]

Yes same. He is even in different country. I don’t see him, don’t speak. Removed everything. And still here I am 💔❤️‍🩹 Yes the World might be full of people, but I don’t click with just anyone.

[@zidedeikery7224]

Ok, zero contact, feel your feelings, don't keep hurting yourself in the pursuit of they want feel the same, and one I'd like to add is take time to heal! Not enough people take time to heal from heart break.

[@joeskwara5823]

Be careful. Every situation is different. The most DANGEROUS person out there is someone you care about a lot but they don’t feel the same but they don’t want you out of their lives. They will destroy you but it’s not because they are evil in many cases but they are sick and you can’t save them.

[@ShellysLivingLife]

I am in that situation-I love him he doesn’t give me same back but still wants me to stay for 4 years now to work it out every time I go to move out 😢

[@joeskwara5823]

@@ShellysLivingLife I’m sorry but it’s time for him to grow up. Don’t let him destroy you

[@ashwinisharma7593]

​@@joeskwara5823Same happened with me. He confessed me first and after some time when I confessed he said that he needs time. I literally gaev everything to him. like literally so much efforts. But now I realised that he never actually loved me. maybe he loved the fact that I like him. now he don't want me to get out of his life but I want to move on. today, I confessed to him that I want to move on and I can't put more efforts. he agreed. but now let's see what happens. but I literally need to move on.

[@ponygirl592]

Thank you🥰 Unfortunately we get attached to people so fast. But as you said, it’s a waste of time. And also it is a waste of our love and energy. I hope all of us will heal ourselves and move on

[@genesis_the_pegasus98]

Really needed to hear this. Was talking to a guy just over 6 months, met once but definitely had meeting up again as an option. Fast forward to holiday season, he says he won't be able to message me as often as he's busy and today I find he now has a girlfriend, so he was dating her within this month. Opened my eyes to a lot of things. I'm sad but at the same time I am glad he found someone for him, I just need time to grieve...

[@PRINCEDMUSICZ]

😢 the same happened to me My gf cheated on me She left me because she wanted to propose someone else And u know the biggest heartbeat? She proposed the guy whom she used to call brother infront of me 😢 How can I even trust anyone now? Idk am just so exhausted rn She broked up with me on 31st December 2022 and proposed him the very next day on 1st January 2023 She didn't let me say anything And blocked me everywhere 😢 We were in a long distance relationship We had planned so much for our future Idk why she cheated 😢

[@darshantyres5763]

Reply to @PRINCED Look I don't quite know you or the way you feel but it's similar to me....and just keep moving on and try your best to avoid her catch up with your friends, spend more time with your family.....and try your best to love yourself and make yourself happy....I hope you'll find a way to move on..

[@genesis_the_pegasus98]

@@PRINCEDMUSICZ @PRINCED Omg, how did I not see tbis until now? I dunno how you have been able to get through this so far, but don't ever let that make you feel bad or like you're not enough. Remember that there's people like us everywhere, and while it's hard to trust again, if we don't want to be alone we have to take the risk. There is always a risk. Just remember that next time, keep your standards high. If you ever get weird vibes from someone you're dating and have some doubts that can't seem to be cleared even if they explain, then maybe it's your gut instinct telling you something is wrong. Trust it. I didn't trust mine and then I got heartbroken. In the past I've trusted too easily too and gave people the benefit of the doubt, only to get hurt again. So, from now on, if I can't feel safe enough to trust someone, I will trust my instinct and leave first. Only if I don't feel satisfied when I ask questions. LDR's take a lot of time and effort to keep alive. She did you wrong. You deserve better, so just focus on yourself for now. Later, when you feel confident in yourself to not need to rely on others, then it's okay to test the waters again. All the best. Remember, you're not alone. We're just some of the good and genuine ones that are taken for granted 💕

[@genesis_the_pegasus98]

@LrXZia I feel you, girl. He made more than promises to just 'kiss' me lol 😂 But I am so grateful I found out who he was before I gave myself away amd regretted it. Now I have moved on, I will keep appreciating my patience to keep myself for the right guy 💕

[@merveuzun2536]

I SERIOUSLY CAN NOT BELIEVE HOW CAN PEOPLE BE SO HEARTLESS! I hope they go through everything so intensely what they make people go through.

[@prbin7510]

I see him everyday at work , makes it hard 😢. I’m trying my best

[@mandolaa4855]

Change work😢

[@cozywinterscarf]

​@@mandolaa4855 no wtf, why should she change her job? that's a stupid thing to say.

[@gargi9319]

Same my ex and i use to work in same office, and ge keeps coming back in my life, and try to talk, so i had no option to leave that job and after that i never saw his face ever again.

[@chewishie_cherishyourself]

I am really desperate now to get over him because I realized that I like him for too long. I think I have said enough or vent enough to my friends so I want to put all my feelings here. So I have like him for so long as I could remember. I don't even see him everyday and honestly I haven't seen him much this year. I could remember faint memories I have back then we where still a literal child. I just thought that I want to be friends with him but little thought did I ever realize that I was developing a crush on him. I never truly accept it but whenever there's a chance I would see him, I couldn't talk and just ended up running away. It's sad to think I didn't get to be close to him other than just being his classmate. Years passed I would still occasionally remember him and I would sometimes mention him to my friends by telling them that he was my old crush. I didn't know I was so much in denial back in elementary. I also tried finding guys to like other than him but they always turns to be different than him that I ended up not liking them further. It's like as if I was finding replacement because I could even see him that much. That it's sad. But eventually in highschool I develop another crush on someone. He was older than me and they are a bit similar in a way. I really like this guy but somehow he always seems to crawl back in my mind. And whenever I look around at school I would imagine him just walking here even though I know his not there. I did get over with the guy I have crush in highschool because he graduated and he had a gf already so I stop. And when I graduated junior highschool and now entering my senior year that I realized something big. Looking up on my FB newsfeed did I see his name again for so many years. Just looking at his pictures made me really have a heart pounding moment. I was truly shacking and in shock to see myself the same way I was back when I was child having lovestruck moment when his around. That's when I knew and no longer deny it that i truly like that guy for so long that i ended up in this predicament right now. I send him friend request on Facebook after confirming my friend that it was h because they go to the same school which is I am pretty jealous of. And I was so happy when he accepted it that I was smiling throughout the day. I would literally stalk his account but there's not much to see so I kinda gave up so I would just ask my friend what is he like on their school and what is he doing there. I found so many things about him that way. I never knew that he played basketball, a really smart and responsible student and as my friend would always mention is that his handwriting are pretty. She would tell me stories about the nice things he would do. I am really happy to know that he seems to be doing well and enjoying life. I wish I could be closer to him. See him at school and talk to him. But I know that those are just wishful thinking. As the days pass by so quickly. I realized that maybe I should put an end to this crush I have because I have been overthinking a lot of things. And I am getting crazy with all the what if's that I ask myself. Eventually I made a decision to confess to him. Through chat of course because I am coward. I decided it to be the day and when it came I was so nerbouse and couldn't think straight. I manage to get enough courage to just say hi and it really took a long time for him to reply to it. And with that sign I already knew that he didn't feel the same way as I did. After months of rethinking life decision I finally let him know about my feelings for him. And as expected he rejected me. In a gentle way because it wasn't direct. That guy sure is too nice. I would have wanted a clear answer. But if that what he choose to say then I accepted it. I guess I was expecting too much that it had taken me for weeks to realize that I should move on. But it seems to be not working and maybe it got even worse for sure. So I am really thankful for this advice. I would want to try them but it would really take a long time for me to stop thinking about him. So hopefully his name would no longer hold any meaning for me. One day I would find myself being cool about this situation I am experiencing and laugh about it. Thank you for listening to this messy story of mine

[@chewishie_cherishyourself]

Update: I am so glad he rejected me, I have move on

[@pearlimalrig]

​@@chewishie_cherishyourselfHope your happy now

[@chewishie_cherishyourself]

@@pearlimalrig I do thank you

[@coc0bean.]

​@@chewishie_cherishyourself girl right now im literally crying bc i have such similar experience. but i'd say mine is kinda weird cause he liked me first and when i knew that this boy likes me i started to make fun of him w my friends cause he was my bully. anyways so he didnt know that i know abt him liking me. we never talked . so after knowing all these i started to stalk him and romanticize every little post he shared abt his crush. i caught myself laughing like an idiot over those silly little cute things he did without even knowing that his crush literally knows everything. SO a month or two later he messaged me thru a fake acc (even tho we were friends in fb but dude choose to listen to his ego) and got caught lol.then after getting caught he smh tried to cover it up by saying thats not him but one of his friends hence the acc was anon. i also behaved so weird as i wanted him to know that i dont like him. I swear on my life little did i know i was devolaping A CRUSH OVER THIS MAN. i put him on a pedestal. i even romanticized every post he liked. i created a whole multiverse in my head where we were the perfect couple of my dreams. the thing that had me was him posting a song of lana del rey for impressing me . damn things went like this for a long time. he didnt even try to put any effort after getting caught and started to talk to a girl (SHE WAS ONE OF HIS FRIENDS EX) and they devoloped a good relationship. they used to flirt w eachother in the comment section. and my dumbass was so invested that it thought he was doing this for me to get jealous. that girl also had a crush on him. she still has and now they are gf bf posting cute stories with each other . he forgot me completely. i dont know how could someone do this if they actually had loved their so called loved ones. he still pops up in my head every time i see wholesome couple videos. its been over a year :) we could make such a nice pair. all we needed was a lil effort from eachother. or maybe he never loved me and i got caught into him forever? i dont want it to be forever. its been over a year my grades also got worse because all of this. i just wanted to vent so bad and your story made me tear up. im so glad that you got over him. anw sorry for my bad english and this long paragraph. my heart feels so light after writing all this down.

[@aparnapaul7494]

​@@coc0bean.It's okay. You'll get over him one day.. I have a crush on a guy and I love him fr.. (my prob is I can't express my feelings I have for anyone, but my actions speaks it all.. In case for everyone) but that guy has the best personality. Am in love with him. I confessed him, he rejected me politely(and I'm thankful too, am an ovethinker) as he has a crush too. I can't get over him.

[@jakethedogluvsyou]

we were together on and off for three years i tried so hard to make it work. it’s been almost two months since we’ve spoken because we decided to go our separate ways. this is the hardest thing i’ve had to go through. i dont feel in love very much anymore but i know for certain i love him so much still. i just want to move on and be okay

[@chrisandlaurie8148]

Im dealing with this now. 3 years. Almost 4. Crazy. When you lose it all you u realize their true intentions instead of helping you and being the invisible hand behind you. That's when you leave glow up and finally wait for them to come want you and give it right back. Say bye and replace them.

[@prodnaki]

can you give a update?

[@tomedlovdrol461]

And how am I supposed to stop thinking about him -He is in the same class -Can't avoid staring at him -Can't block him on snapchat as -I was the one forcing him to add me back -We do snapstreak and that instantly hits my mind that i like him a looooooot. 😢😔🥺 Edit: Guys you can do it I ...I.. I deleted snapchat and it helped me a lot!!. Edit 2: Does someone has any idea how to not stare at your crush during school time... Do tell if u know !

[@lenefyecak9024]

Find another crush? 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@Hazel-nm2iv]

Mans stuttering in writing god 💀

[@sojasoja7816]

Tell me about it😢😢

[@Ana-ty8sl]

Sit a few seat ahead of them, so you are forced to only look forward.

[@sardareditz2103]

US SIS. US

[@naalpha143]

I'm 22, and I've a crush on a woman around 38 years old. I've already confess to her, but she rejected me, but she does everything to makes me feel not rejected. She's a great and sweet woman, but I have to move on, and this video helps me a lot. Thank you so much!

[@hellokitty2848]

Awww hang in there…

[@Sunflower_that_loves_you]

I'm 19 and I have a crush on a man around 26 yr old😭 It's so hard, we met for the first time yesterday... Idk how to get him out of my mind How's the situation for u buddy?

[@SamuraiX6288]

Thank you. Stuff I already know, but it’s so hard to let it out. Especially as a dude. We’re supposed to be unfeeling so it’s hard to be able to vent or process feelings sometimes.

[@the_salamander]

i feel you bro. notjing happened between me and this girl, just friends. but she had a really great energy and it was stupid easy to talk to her. but i was too slow and now someone else is with her. i dont want overthink it cuz in reality it was just a crush that only effects me now, but its hard to think about anything else rn

[@tommygoins4949]

I'll never get over her. Love is eternal. You can't just turn it off like a light switch.

[@natalie7424]

it might seem like that at the moment, but it's not true. love can fade out. memories too. time is all you need.

[@shravyashetty3491]

Love will stay, but intensity of it slowly reduces over time... Especially if you maintain your distance

[@dylanshorrorchannel1378]

You sounds Pyscho. Out of sight out of mind.

[@lessismore8533]

@@dylanshorrorchannel1378I agree with the 2nd part of your comment but hmm calling them “psycho “ over that? A bit harsh

[@octaviom1228]

@@natalie7424 it’s been 4 years for me 😭 it’s been impossible to grow feelings for someone else

[@brynofori-attah2624]

GOD Bless us all Amen ❤

[@Sketched-paper]

I have it so hard , im trying my best to move on but like i actually cant like i have never felt like this with anyone like and ive taken a day of like doing stuff taking a shower and treating myself with face masks and skincare so yk😢

[@Ellianagreenwood]

That last thing you said about someone better coming into your life is so true! I had a a crush on a guy who didn’t like me but then I started hanging out more with my childhood BFF and I started liking him and turns out he liked me for a long time I still have to tell him I feel the same way though so wish me luck!

[@lunarsann5499]

hopefully you have luck

[@maxmayfield7097]

Bro its litterally summer and school just ended and im going to a new school so I'm leaving the person behind and I still love them.

[@YourFanEdits24]

Same

[@Playboimatrix200]

Like*

[@quit4everxx]

your face when you said “you are just wasting your time” had me laughing for some odd reason 😭

[@leonalawrence978]

I wrote down my feelings and felt so good. THANK YOU FOR YOUR ADVICE!!!

[@ClashColors_]

It’s hard when your crush is your best friend 😭

[@niallerswife5914]

I have a crush on someone who’s 20. i’m 15, it’s so stupid bro and ofc he doesn’t like me back! but i’ve liked him for over half a year now and every time I see him he’s so kind to me.. but he’s dating someone who’s his age and he loves very much. he has no idea i like him and obviously I can’t tell him. I can’t stop thinking about him and it hurts so. so bad.

[@RandomAccount-gw5iq]

Bestie that would've be so hurting! 😭

[@coolkirby456._9]

I can relate.

[@xyz7804]

Bestie its the same for me kinda good and kinda worst than your situation first up Iam 13 and he is 20 Secondly he is my first cousin And third he is not dating anyone tho And Finally - he is really nice to me he touches me and all But iam not sure if he likes me as a CRUSH or a sister and Idk if my family would allow So I am trying to get over him and love my anime charectors

[@ultimategamer5743]

Me and my crush have been talking for a while. It went great at first. We both liked each other, just needed to get to know each other better. We are in the same class, so we often talked. We could hold eye contact for 5-10 second, but suddenly she went cold. She had asked to go to a place together, but I couldn't at the time. I asked two days later if it we could hang out then, but she just dodged the question. Now she can't even look me in my eyes. I thought we could work out, but apparently not. She could have been my first girlfriend, so it is really hard to try to remover her from my life. I can barely focus at school now. It is har for me to accept the fact, but I know I have to and I am slowly getting better.

[@Baheieujlsksnen]

Very appreciate this

[@julxxboba]

Tysm, they were so manipulative and the biggest gossiper

[@goofball2228]

Never in my life did I think I would become one of those high school girls obsessing over a cute boy. Yet here I am.

[@lessismore8533]

Lol same here except I’m out of HS and at work going through it😂 And they’re dating someone already but I still have these minor feelings. I guess I’ll let time fade it out

[@goofball2228]

@@lessismore8533 dang that’s tough. I hope things get better

[@maxtoogood5301]

I don't have someone to vent. I can't escape her. I can't do anything. Im losing in a pit of fucking pain.

[@danieldelgado2269]

Thank you so much , I’m actually going through in a situation like this … and nothing gave more relief. Thank you so much 🎉

[@Natalie-gj8sg]

I’m scared he knows now…so I have to just forget

[@YourFanEdits24]

Yep I feel you except my friend who is now my former friend in my brain, told my crush who is her crush, that I like him without telling me and he likes her back so I just have to forget about him

[@Jujutsu12345]

My crush hooked up with my friend. She was really nice and had manners and me and my crush are friends but I never told her how I feel. But my other friend ( not my crush ) came in and just started dating her. I try hiding my jealousy and hate but it’s really hard and I just act so calm on the outside. This video helped me so now I’m trying to move on and find other girls

[@Kaiakataka]

This is me

[@sardareditz2103]

US BRO US

[@XavierPablosEscobar]

BROOO same...

[@kennyoettinger1677]

Kenny rel miss

[@-aiixhwxrya-4673]

These literally present my life. And i cannot get over this crush I had for almost a year. Well things went south and now I need to move on. THANK YOU!!!

[@YourFavorite13]

Thanks, I Needed this!👀❤️

[@HistoricalGeology56]

I was dating someone for 2 years and they just recently left me alone even though I followed them to college at a state I don't even recognize, I loved them so much it made me blind and now it's the worst mistake I ever made

[@jordanferguson2254]

I was being persuaded to do something similar but didn't give in, lol. Good decision in hindsight since we're no longer in each others' lives.

[@HistoricalGeology56]

@@jordanferguson2254 yeah same I’m over it now, gone to a college closer to home and I’m actually studying something I enjoy instead of what she enjoyed

[@Fa1ry1212]

Hey thanks i needed this, I just got my heart broken by one of the most toxic people i’ve ever met.. So thank you

[@Fa1ry1212]

update: it worked

[@Burrito9904]

Thx so much. I’m in this situation rn. I’m the type of person who looks out for others more than myself, and when I met my ex, I had felt loved, and finally accepted, but yesterday she came up to me and told me she didn’t want to be together no more and wanted to be friends. Now she isn’t even talking to me. Thx again, this helps me so much

[@avinash5310]

she's helping us to forgot someon but i fallin love with him 😂😂

[@YourFanEdits24]

My situ, my best friend(former) and my crush(former) like each other and it’s driving me insane!! They held hands while sitting down and I just had to leave. Also then they hugged it bothered me. I only have one person to talk to about this that won’t judge me. It’s so hard but I don’t like him anymore! Why do I feel this way.

[@umioink]

im getting a lot of stress loving this guy, and i always try to stop but i cant. my friend is friends with him but i think he likes my friend so now idk what to do, but this posts really opens me up. Thank you🙇🏻‍♀️🌸😭

[@ssophia111]

tysm but i CANT LIKE I AM SO OBSESSED WITH HIM😭😭😭😭

[@manhavm8472]

Ikr

[@RyanDonaldsonactual]

My gf left me yesterday. I got cussed out in a gc. I was prepared for the pain but it was worse then last time. I finally decided for a smarter approach so instead of getting fat again and becoming a hunk of junk with all F’s again, I’m gonna keep doing my workouts, AND also I’m for sure subscribing to you and other creators to help me with this.

[@mylittlebarofsoap]

My crush's name is Jackson. I swear I'm losing sleep over him. I truly feel like I can't get him off of my mind. I don't follow him on social media or know any of his accounts but I have to see him in 2 of my classes at school every single day of school.

[@imthatkay3302]

Sammeee :((

[@TheMightyKaos]

This actually helped. Especially the last one. Thanks.

[@CavanFoxStar]

I listened to video last year April and it was hard but this advice worked for me and I've never been so emotionally healthy before just wanna say thank u ❤

[@Name-hp6eh]

How to vent if you have no one to talk to. Also it was a 7 year relationship. I feel like I'm dying inside.

[@Acombhair]

I'm in the same situation! Just create a hobby or work 24/7 til you forget why your heart got broken! That's my plan as well. You can do it!!! 🎉🥳🥳🙌🏾

[@Rdxygvhubt5grdcyyhuh]

I'm scared to tell my friends so I will tell it here. I found out about him at the beginning of February this year I liked him as soon as I saw him, he wasn't iny class so it wasn't a big deal, but this year (u know what I mean) he's in my class, and he has a really good personality, and he is also funny, but the thing is he likes someone else 😢and nearly every one ships them... (I'm not kidding) Basically they like each other, I am his class partner but he barely talks to me cause I don't talk much, and he's new to me, it makes me really sad that we don't talk much, and I only want to be friends with him, I'm not good at making friends..... I keep on thinking about him all the time, I haven't been myself because of this, he is also friends with most girls in my class but just not me, amd some loser kid every one hates, I hate her too, she acts like a baby and never talks,people mistake me being like her cause I don't speak to them, unlike her I have friends! So my crush may be seeing it like that, he will be my class partner only for this month, it's like my only chance, if I fail I fail, but I do think it's time to let go... Cause he likes someone else... It's a very long story short!

[@rosaliedior2425]

Welcome to the club :(

[@christine3314]

u better have a good reason to why ur class hates that "loser kid" other than her not talking cause that shit is bullying 💀

[@nikilcygnet6531]

I think you would let him go cuz you’ll receive a person who really cares about you . Trust me

[@grizz_lee420]

How old r u?

[@dinosaurs1751]

How’d it go?? I’m curious, since it’s been 3 months 👀👀

[@noor9230]

Wow this is helpful also i love the way you speak, bff vibes, no shouting this is all i needed rn love you so much ❤

[@Acombhair]

I loved my BFF so much! But everything I touch, chase or love just crumbles. 😢 I loved my right hand enough to let him free! I'll still be around if he needs me! ILY4E L. 🐻😘💖🤗🥰🤞🏾

[@Genidii]

She's my co worker i have to see her everyday it's so hard. 6 months later and it's still hard.

[@lessismore8533]

Lol same here

[@Iceman-cs5lu]

Same

[@rafaiv18]

God bless you women! Thank you so much.

[@lxckz2256]

thanks. Im trying to get over my best friend of only 3 months, but she was like my sister ://

[@courtneychandler7239]

I love this! Do more of these

[@patkica7868]

ok my crush in sixth grade i wrote him a love letter and he tore it up and threw it away- the letter if anyones interested: I write under the streetlight, but none shines as bright as your eyes. My hearts breaking with each letter in fear of rejection, so every now and then I cry again. I like to read, I also like to write, but your voice is more beautiful than any poem. Your smile can make me happy even on the worst day, like a candle in the dark, like water in the desert, like a friend when you're entirely alone. I'm not poor as long as you are in my life, because you are the only riches that I need. You are the most precious thing in my life, the only person I love with all my heart, and I will never let sadness knock on your door. I'm afraid to lose you, because I know far too well what it's like when a lover becomes a stranger. Whenever I see you, a smile appears on my face, and I wouldn't replace you for all the money in the world I cried for 2 days until i noticed that was ffing pathetic and pulled myself together. hardest rejection ive had by far felt so good after getting over it

[@Gothic_girl201]

Thank you so much for this I needed this cause they broke my heart

[@Thegoodsamaritanindisguise]

Thank you Needed this

[@cjwitt2002]

Bro my heart would melt If I could sit there and pray with a spouse

[@yourfavcompilations6129]

Bro Ty so much I’ve been trying to get over him for SOO long cause now my friend is his gf so I couldn’t get over him and this will help SOOOOOOOO much Ty so much!

[@lil_budgie]

Bro that just happened to me but his girl best friend is his new girlfriend and I liked him for so long It’s just heartbreaking 💔

[@yourfavcompilations6129]

@@lil_budgie actually we started dating but he broke up w me today and said he didn’t actually love me

[@shemoglobin1416]

i love you so much what thank you 😭 i needed to hear this

[@JesusChrist_4Lif3]

This is my exact situation, thank you so much for your advice ❤

[@macaroni_and_salsa]

I’ve been thinking abt him every day for weeks and we were never in a relationship. I don’t want to act on my crush bc he his a friend of my friend, but I can’t get over him. He has such a great personality and he’s so caring and so kind and he’s so huggable like a giant teddy bear! Either way I could never be in a relationship with him because I’m gay and he’s not so we could never be together😭

[@user-lc1ww7gc7s]

That makes me feel worst 😭😭💔

[@reconnecting9146]

I had a family friend who I talked to in a group chat with a two other friends. I didn't really know anyone else so when they left the chat I messaged them why? We had all been talking for a while and all they said was they didn't feel like talking anymore. My two other friends in the chat slowly stopped talking as well and I don't live close to them so I can't talk irl. That was my main group of friends, and at that point it wasn't possible for me to make new friends. I'm homeschooling and traveling so there weren't many people my age. But I have new friends now.

[@sweta9803]

Thank you for your advice, i have been crushing over a boy for more than 3years , he never reciprocate my feelings and i feel unlovable person with low self esteem. I have realized that this is just a waste of time. I like him allot but looking at myself makes me regret about my feelings as i think i am way too ugly for anyone. I always think he will never ever like me because i am ugly and i have no right to get feelings for anyone in this world. So now i want to get over this exhausting feeling and want to work on myself, want to love myself. Ok goodbye crush, memories of you will slowly fade away from my mind now. Jope you live a best and healthy life ❤😢

[@kevingenon5904]

instructions unclear, now i have a crush on you

[@Luvxclxudy]

Thank you my friend likes the same guy I do and I kinda lied to her that I didn’t like him so I really need to end that crush

[@emrae20]

but that's the thing he is the NICEST person i've ever met honestly he's my happy place but he's also one of my best friends so i can't and won't just cut him out and try to find someone better because some other ppl are nice too but he is so kind and his soul is pure especially with me and i'm 99% sure he thinks of me as just a friend it used to be the other way around tho

[@ImJustANormalCat]

Thank YOU!!! I've been stuck with this toxic crush that I now hate bc he HURT my best friend and I'm now defending and protecting them now! So I owe you! 😊

[@cyril4284]

But... he’s my best friend and my legit only friend and I can’t vent about him to um him

[@Acee_69]

Yeah I feel u

[@aneesfathima7824]

"wasting you're time" is the one which made me feel better!

[@AmnaNoufal]

This woman is so right. All steps do work 💗💯

[@rheasonalvarez7835]

This actually helps me, thank you

[@pancakes7294]

I need help on this one, I’ve been venting for a year after the breakup and each time it feels worse to say something about them. I still cannot think about them without bringing me pain

[@emyf9197]

Well I found out today that my crush wasn't single and it made sense why he never showed interest during our conversations on IG.. Geez I was starting to think if he was gay😆 Talented, good looking and tall guys are always taken! Note that down

[@gz4187]

lol true

[@lessismore8533]

So true about the LAST line of your comment 😭

[@emyf9197]

@@lessismore8533 yeah all the shortys are only left atm

[@almancera3630]

I just stalked him and have watched almost all of his tiktok videos. 😭💔

[@midknightshade330]

I’ve been friends with this girl I know for a whole decade, and I know it’s not going to work out. But I can’t get rid of my crush. I don’t want to like her in that way anymore, but I still want to be friends with her. But every time I hang out with her, I just feel this sadness knowing it’ll never work. And now I feel I’m just hanging out with her to see if anything changes. She sees my like a brother and has a deep bond with me, and I don’t want to sever that, but I feel the only way for the crush to go away is to cut her off 😢.

[@Riley_27]

6 year relationship over and the best explanation I got was she lost her feelings and needed to find herself. I feel like I'm dying.

[@hey-iq5ji]

Just exactly what im going through right now. 6 year relationship and his best explanation I got was he just fell inlove with someone else. Lol.

[@Riley_27]

@user-mp8vg6ww2z It's been two months, and I'm still in a haze. I really can't say that it's gotten much better. The mentality that must be required to drop such a relationship like that, I can't imagine. It leaves me with just a few logical options, and I don't like any of them. 1. They were miserable in the relationship, and I was oblivious to it. 2. They met someone new and liked them more, very petty and should be discussed. 3. They were or at some point became mentally unwell, because I don't know how someone could just do something like that. Anyway, if you wanna talk about your situation or vent, I'd be happy to listen. I very much enjoy hearing other peoples points of view. It helps me to better understand my own beliefs.

[@hey-iq5ji]

@@Riley_27 maybe it will never get any better soon. We jjst learn to live with the pain. Idk. But appreciate you for sharing. And I can definitely relate. thousands of questions running through my mind every hour in every day and I have zero answers. I asked him why what happened how come. We were supposed to get married next month and tomorrow is his birthday we were supposed to meet. But then lately he just been really cold and distant he hasnt been replying to my messages. And this afternoon he just sent me a message saying he fell inlove with his coworker. I felt so betrayed. For months I worked so hard for 16 hours a day just to pay his debts and save him from his hellish situation. He lost his job he got covid. So i provided everything for him. Food. Medicine. Rent. I even helped him go back home find work so he can start again but... Turns out he'll just fall inlove with his coworker because she cooks for him she cares for him. Lol lame reasons. I just want to stop hoping and let go. Though its really hard when wer'e just left with no reasonable answers at all. I dont know how a human being can do that to someone whose intention is nothing but pure. I loved him unconditionally through thick and thin. I dont think anyone who loves this much deserves to go through this hell. But yeah such is life. I just want to sleep peacefully and wake up without checking if hes online. Anyway, i hope we'll get through this.

[@Jajampan]

This is literally my situation i cried over and over again because i can't let go of someone I loved.. But I had too..

[@zicea]

after i listened to the first tip i just got over him, THANKS POOKSSS

[@bassinblue]

She left me after a 5 year relationship and I honestly got over her in 5 months. Tips: 1. Don't bury your feelings and supress them. Go through it guys. 2. Talk to yourself, yes literally to yourself and talk about this person. 3. Write down or talk to yourself about the good and their BAD. 4. You MUST destroy everything that connects you to this person, like gifts, text messages, pictures, chats, emails etc. Delete them and throw them in the bin. 5. Go through the stages of Shock, Anger, Grief then the last step, Reflection. 6. Keep yourself busy and re-establish connections you lost along the way. 7. Better will come, I promise. And this is it pretty much. If a person leaves you, they're basically saying without saying ''I want someone better'' which is a huge disrespect, so don't chase them nor give them the time of day. You're not responsible for this other adult, let them figure out life by themselves. p.s she came back to me, but I declined.

[@H3LL0_K1TTY76]

Im crying 😭 I miss my Favorite Person 😢

[@9Ballr]

Thank you, this is really going to help me get over you.

[@isaiahalvarez6801]

The exact thing I needed to hear Thank you Nikki

[@capalottyslimalini2878]

It’s a mental illness at this point. I just randomly think about her throughout the day. I’m not even putting her on a pedestal. I just want to get to know her but haven’t got the chance yet.

[@user-ii2ul4fe7r]

❤ AMEN ❤ STAY TRUE TO YOURSELF ❤

[@vegapondz]

When you said wasting your time I instantly got over them, thanks :)

[@Daisy_s_pace]

I was talking to a guy for 3 months, we knew each other from 3 years.. he liked me in school, was my senior. Then, i showed not much interest in being relation, so he reduced talking… then, i got to know he have someone in his life.. we left each other. He blocked me, i never felt that rejection ever.! Broke me, changed me for good. Taught me to mind my business, ppl come and go on their comfort, just build urself so that u are comfortable even if u r alone and someone can vibe too with u..

[@T_T.117]

This is the only reason i got over my crush of 4 months 😂 and then I started liking one of his exfriends a month later 😅

[@rayven1982]

Ugh, going through these motions. I hate it. I’m doing my best to just forget her.

[@martingarrix.unity.]

thank you so much it really helps

[@Ligmabaus000]

TYSM i have been dealing with sadness/depression bc of the toxic friendship i was in, TYSMM

[@Stay_Grounded]

I’ve been talking to this girl for years. Day and night on the phone. Their is no other man but we got into a bad argument/misunderstanding when I went to go see her. She thought I was lying about a few things and she’s just been overwhelmed about a lot of other things. She told me she was thinking about cutting me off over the whole situation. I left her a bday gift the next day and she told me “I seen the gift I appreciate it” I told her “your welcome and I hope we can get past this” I haven’t heard from her since (5 days ago) not sure if this is going to last or not but it’s driving me crazy

[@ollie3784]

Yeah a lot of videos say to stay away from the person which isn't exactly helpful if the person is in every one of my classes ever 😂 but I am gonna try rolling with some of these bots of advice 🔥 wish luck to anyone else in the same shoes

[@sheldonlewis72]

You’re the first person I’ve come across who has used a day glow song in their video, love it

[@HarleyWhite-zk5cm]

I fell in love with a girl who was broken and hide it very well, my relationship went from perfect to ruined, i still love her and we cant block eachother, i feel like i cant go through it without her.