the secret to stop obsessing over someone FAST ASF

[@simonesimmons]

The "10 evil ways to make someone obsessed with you" using dark psychology -- kzbin.info/www/bejne/jWq2iYN6YsurnM0

[@Veujze]

Sooo excited am struggling with my mental health this days but ur videos make me feel better no matter whats the topic is 👩🏻‍❤️‍💋‍👩🏻

[@mondayprecious2022]

Watch a video of yours & got obsessed with ❤ & then this video just showed up... OMG😊😂

[@madhurima9796]

i needed a reality check cuz i was getting so delusional over someone who doesn’t even gaf about my existence THIS VIDEO REALLY HELPED ME!!!

[@ayasouaber]

Me tooo girl he doesn't even that I'm excited 😂😂

[@mybestselfenrico]

sameee

[@madhurima9796]

@@mybestselfenricothanks for the reply cuz rn im obsessing over someone and needed a reality check once again lol

[@African_girlfromNigeria]

​@@madhurima9796 Girlllll Stand up now

[@Bhawnii_Sharma]

THE TIMING THE FREAKIN TIMING MAMM

[@michelletan03]

For real the timing is perfect 😭

[@kpopstan.horanghe]

Fr ! Needed this

[@kyoky4r]

ikr??

[@bebetter-love]

I lost my fucking mind

[@banzosimba]

I swear bro

[@KimberlyR.Hamilton]

I recently went through a difficult breakup. My five year relationship ended few month ago, and it's been incredibly hard. I still have so much love for my ex , and I can't seem to get her out of my mind. Despite my best efforts to win her back, nothing has worked, and the thought of being with anyone else feels impossible right now. I know it might sound odd to share this here, but I miss her deeply and can't stop thinking about her.

[@MathiasSchreiber-y9p]

I completely understand the pain of letting go of someone you love. I went through a similar experience when my 10 year relationship ended. I couldn't imagine my life without her, so I tried everything to rekindle our love. I eventually found guidance from a spiritual counselor, and their support helped me bring her back into my life.

[@KimberlyR.Hamilton]

If you're open to it, seeking help from a spiritual counselor might make a difference. How did you find your spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with them?

[@MathiasSchreiber-y9p]

His name is Fatherabulu, and he's an incredible spiritual counselor known for helping restore relationships.

[@KimberlyR.Hamilton]

Thank you for sharing this valuable insight. I just looked him up, and I'm genuinely impressed.

[@wvniez]

I need a whole OTHER video on how to stop obsessing over simone

[@simonesimmons]

hahahahaahahahahahaha ily

[@syaesto]

hii do u wanna try giving insta to each other n try becoming friends?

[@wvniez]

@syaesto Haiiii! I'd loved to!!! I don't have insta but I have tiktok we can talk on there after 13 June because im banned hehe

[@syaesto]

@@wvniez tbh i deleted tiktok because i was too obsessed with it and now im waiting for the end of school year and then ill get it back. So i know this is weird but are you okay with the idea if i comment here again on june 13th and if u can get insta then we could continue there. I swear id love to talk on tiktok but i really dont wanna get it back because it takes me a lot to get off it especially if i have work to do. 🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@shivangisingh395]

Same here

[@wabi-xc2jb]

The fact that she posted this EXACTLY as I was simping over someone

[@slaaaaay2536]

SAME

[@ektaa5]

We all are living same lives in different bodies 😂🤣

[@pritikathakuri94]

Me too😢

[@Itseulexis]

He’s honestly not that great , but the constant hot and cold behaviour triggers my need to prove my self worth 😔💔 working on loving myself more 🤞🏻

[@NCVII22]

Ultimately,you are never obsessed with the person but an idea/ideal . Ever since I learned so,I've been wrestling with the true essence of what love really is. Among the things I've come across is that it is definitely a choice.

[@Euphoriavibe]

OMG this is exactly what I needed rn I've been destroying my self-esteem by loving someone who doesn't value me and this exactly reminded me who I really am Thanks a lot bestiee

[@Seraphina93]

Oh they’ll know when u leave. But don’t let them back in ur life queen

[@MeganWalton-r4m]

It's common for relationships to encounter obstacles, but there is always a solution. My own marriage faced considerable issues, but with appropriate guidance, my husband and I worked through them and deepened our connection. Solutions are achievable if you're ready to work together. Stay hopeful-there's always a way forward.

[@ElizabethRedmond-r3y]

I'm facing significant relationship problems and can't stand the idea of losing him. My love and longing for my partner are profound, and I'm ready to do anything to restore our connection. I would greatly appreciate any advice or help you could give.

[@MeganWalton-r4m]

Parting with someone you love is always a challenging process, but in my experience, I had the guidance of a spiritual guide who prevented my marriage from collapsing. His name is Father Akunna.

[@ElizabethRedmond-r3y]

I'II quickly search for him online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that taking this approach will yield results for me as well; his absence is keenly felt.

[@MeganWalton-r4m]

I promise you will not regret it.

[@ElizabethRedmond-r3y]

I just searched for Father Akunna online indeed he is a very generous man and the most powerful spell caster that I have ever seen he brought my husband back to me with so much love ❤

[@xen5917]

I'm convinced that she got cameras on us

[@isimpforsugawarakoushi1479]

Fr😭

[@JEONgukk-02]

SHE GOT 😂

[@vladilenanouzen]

I've just gone through my first break-up 3months ago and i thought i was really over him until one of his friends told me that he's spreading my traumatic past to everyone and I'm so devastated cuz he's the first one to know and i trusted him which is my mistake, now i found myself stalking him worried what he would do and obsessing over the fact of what he's doing, and your video is so on point, idk what to do but i just know this won't stop me so aaaaa thank youuuu Simoneeee i really need this one 😔

[@nehasinha3861]

so sorry to hear this :( It's not your mistake that the person you trusted ended up being this shitty. I hope you heal from this in the best way possible

[@wangcheng5188]

Interesting video content, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

[@paulinebricks3441]

its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back

[@wangcheng5188]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

[@paulinebricks3441]

Her name is shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@wangcheng5188]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

[@angerodz6782]

Process and let yourself feel what you’re feeling. Be compassionate with those thoughts and understand them as they are, thoughts. They will come and go, and right now this is the withdrawal effect or part of the grief journey. If you keep pushing it away and not accepting your thoughts and feelings or feel uncomfortable with them, they will keep coming stronger because you’re trying to repress. Take care of yourself and maybe watch inside out❤

[@inhaleexhale3738]

i never commented on your channels, and now it suddenly hit me - i feel so grateful for what you're doing, it's so valuable. imagine reality without youtube - id need to have a very good, wise and experienced friend to get all those advices. and now im just getting it all for free, unconditionally. i realise how many people you supported apart from me, and i just feel happy that things work that way. ❤

[@zodiacnights712]

I LOVE HOW WE HAVE SO MANY VIDEOS ON HOW TO GET DETACHED ON YOUR CHANNEL AND IT KEEPS COMING LIKE YOU KNOW US TOO WELL 😭✋

[@lubnaabdulkarim2808]

FACTS! it applies on 'superficial friendship' sometimes you want to befriend someone just for things they have not for morals of real friendship, you see a lot of those situations in high school and university era and after graduation they are no friends and the squad is broken 🤷‍♀️

[@switchunboxing]

So true about the third person thing! It’s so interesting how this is going in phases for me. I used to imagine I would say something, and he would laugh about it or make a comment. And then we go back-and-forth about it. The thing is, that happens sometimes in reality. But in reality, sometimes it doesn’t. And then I’m left feeling completely fucking stupid. So sometimes I will come up with things to say, and I imagine how he would react. But then I see him in person and the vibe is so different. Thankfully, I have minimized how much I imagine these conversations. But I’m still not over it at all and I’m having the same struggles even though I realize the patterns now. I can’t seem to pass this. I could talk about it all day. I never understood stalkers until now. I’m just so so glad I’m not on that level. And I won’t ever be. I’m also very glad that if I don’t see him for a week, he starts to completely drift away from my brain. I am so grateful for that! Unfortunately, we have the same friend group in common so we always see each other at the bar or at a show or somebody’s house. Alll the time. I have heard for some people, they can go months without seeing the person and the obsession continues. I’m so glad I don’t have that problem. So I guess I do have a few few things to feel grateful for but ultimately I’m losing interest in activities and second-guessing my entire life. Losing my identity. It’s bad. It almost feels like this person is doing it on purpose and I’m a victim… but then I start to think that’s all in my head And BettwrHelp was NOT helpful. It was a WASTE of money. And I was shamed for my thoughts. Tried 3 people and they all thought I was overreacting. And the ability to message someone whenever you want? OK, true, but they don’t ever have to reply. The last therapist would say she only uses that for scheduling.

[@switchunboxing]

Giving in feels so good though. Somebody compared it to getting drunk. You really are. You’re getting high off of a fantasy, and you’re getting high off of those good feelings you get when you talk to the person. But I feel like the only problem is, when you get the high, there’s going to be a low and it’s going to be very very low. And you don’t even know where it comes from…

[@Laniya.]

@@switchunboxing it's like an addiction from that fantasy and it cause you to keep doing knowing that it's not real. I have struggled with this for years.

[@_taenosaur]

this video really opened my eyes and I think I've been obsessed with a guy for the past 3 years because of their lifestyle I actually don't like him as a person atall but just because he has the lifestyle I desire I cant seem to block him out completely. simone thank you so much cuz he was creating problems in my relationship as well now Ive realised the cause and I can uproot it

[@sarafox4375]

Lol... thanks for being so open. That opening story, precious we've all been obsessed with someone.

[@victoriasvetlana18]

PERFECT TIMING AS ALWAYS

[@postcardsfromluna]

A few hours ago i was wondering what unhealed part of me is attracted to this man when he's constantly on-and-off with me. Thank you for this video Simone! ❤️😭

[@marssnow7985]

Thank you so much! I needed to hear it. The garden metaphor is so on point. To attract beautiful butterflies, I need to taking care my garden.

[@YosserAbidi]

Honestly the video about detachment and the mindset that changed my life I think were a game changer specially the part about the chemicals in your brain and the fucked up dopamine levels truly helped me in an era of my life were I loved a boy for no reason I was really mentally disturbed at that moment and after watching them till now i know exactly how to sustain a type of relationship without being attached at least a healthy type of attachment and I can get over a person easier it took me even a week to get over a guy that I was dating for 4 months thanks simone love you❤

[@ilovespringrolls]

I SWEAR TO FREAKING GOD, HER TIMING IS WAYYYY TOO ACCURATE LIKE WAYYY TOO MUCH. I HAVE FREAKING TEARS IN MY EYES. SIMONE IS A BLESSING TO HUMANKIND GUYS!

[@HoneySugarMoon]

EXACTLY WHAT I NEEDED RN

[@mingguk1342]

HOW TF DID YOU GET MY TELEPATHYY? GOD THANK YOU SO MUCHH!!😭

[@winterdeadgirl]

never thought i would need this video 😞

[@ezzjn]

Simone you should make a podcast! 🫶

[@laylaphan7095]

What helped me is defining 3 categorys of goals and creating a plan to archieve it. 1. Shortterm plan 2. Mid tern plan 3. Longterm plans Example : I had enough free days available at my job :1 month free Short Term : reorganize and redesign/decluster kitchen and bathroom. Anything that is old/used/dirty gets thrown out. Then I bought "organizer tools/shelves" to use the space the best way possible. Same with clothes/shoes. Mid Term goal : physical improvement -> starting a hobby( boxing and pole dance and yoga) having a workout routine. Mental improvement -> Starting therapy and do inner work Gratitude improvement-> Working at homeless shelter, this will teach you true humbleness. Longterm goal: Improvment of skills -> Taking extra training to advance skills. Social networking, workshops anything that helps you. Of course you have to take breaks and laying around and just watching movies, go out with friends, vacation and fun times...but it helps to truly focus and build for yourself...because you will feel better, accomplished and this is the true definition of self love....

[@annac.5630]

The third party observer hit hard. I thought I was the only one who did that lol.

[@hooman1910]

i was so anxiously attached to this guy bc he acted so well..on no contact w him for 5 days now, but still these obsessive thoughts and overthinking about him doesn’t go away.. what do i do?

[@denisamichalkova1886]

Heyy, I just wanted to say thank you. i come back to your channel every once in a while and it always helps. You are such a safe space and I wish you all the best in the world.

[@V2K_x]

I did that, I cut him off 2 months ago. I just randomly blocked him and told him we were over I know it’s very violent but I really thought it was the best thing to do. Yet I still think about him every days, sometimes I even cry because it feels heavy but thanks to this video I saw what I wanted from him, I genuinely wanted his love and to give him mine but mostly I wanted this healthy life he had. So I think I’m going to give that to myself. But I really loved him for his everything, his past, his passions, his imperfections, just everything, I just love him I care about him I wished to see him smile and laugh. And now I’m so fucking lost because I thought I’d felt better after cutting him off but I don’t And even I don’t want to heard advices from anyone anymore, not because I want someone to tell me what I want to heard but because I had enough of overthinking this is way too complicated I just know I have to take care of myself from now on. Even if I don’t agree on that

[@nandikabhardwaj26]

its always the PERFECT TIMING that you have

[@Brownskinndoll1]

Girl I click on this video so fast because I’m going through it

[@Therapytails-c8h]

you know what,i am obsessed over someone from 7years now ,even we haven't seen eachother from years or we don't come across on any socialmedia or any contact but that attachment and attachment of him in my subconscious mind is so painful

[@poisonivy6017]

I really need this I'm obsessing with him because of his compliments and I'm trying to change also I need therapy so bad😭😭😭

[@likewordsonsand]

I wish he watches this video. I really need him to move on from me-

[@enchantunes]

Simone you look so pretty 🥺 I rush over whenever you upload smth hehe

[@simonesimmons]

ilyyyyy

[@enchantunes]

@@simonesimmons ly2 💕

[@Amyra-w6e]

Literally I'm supposed to enroll in the most competitive exam in my country in like 2 years but the thought haunts me right from now onwards .😭 Sorry for the irrelevance but I thought that someone ought to know my situation.

[@cupokat5998]

The timing is immaculate ✨

[@hailzils]

Wow I literally needed this right now. It's been ROUGH

[@hangingwiththegrlz4891]

My family told me the exact same thing, that he put a spell on me.

[@eshitasingh1765]

OMG SIMONE THIS VIDEO WAS SOO FREAKIN HELPFUL THE UNONSCIOUS DESIRES WALA PART THTA'S SOO TRUE THANKSYAA FOR THE HELP

[@KabirahBoss]

Wow. I sent this to my therapist because you explained my situation perfectly.

[@user_user123]

A guy texted me that he got my dream job and I started to think about him non stop

[@chachachan143]

I dont know how you do it but you are ALWAYS ON TIME QUEEN

[@minaria7073]

Whenever I needed something..she's there! She's just pops up out of nowhere 😂 lysm!!

[@ishitam1569]

here because i gave him multiple chances but he cheated on me, continued lying and manipulated me. i need some strength 💗

[@helena_dominguezz]

Thank you so much for this Simone, you are amazing and your videos always help me a lot. You are such a QUEEN💓👑😭

[@drisyakrishnan9q697]

Thankyouuu sooo much ❤❤❤a much needed one . Im really grateful to you and universe to show me this at right time. Thankyou ❤

[@Shts-n7h]

I was not talking to them for almost 20 days but I still think about them.

[@nehasinha3861]

NEEDED THIS THANK YOU QUEEEN

[@coolscorpiosuperstyle]

omg but like when simone said that i should have a therapist well, simone i have to be honest with you…. u are the best therapist to be honest 😭❤️ ilysm you are the best keep slayinggg

[@Marsie027]

So I am unconsciously obsessed over the boy who was my classmate two years ago and he got the highest grades 97% and I was obsessed over how he is like intelligent and also good at sports and chess etc. he was an all rounder and also he had a really good social life like good friends and had fun, he wasn't that good looking i didn't have crush on him I just imagine myself as him like I am the all rounder and everyone is clapping for me how great I am at everything I do..so what should I do about it and I don't even use social media, I don't have any contact of him it's just in my head how do I get rid of it!? ofcourse I am working on myself, i am studying hard but not getting satisfied with the result 😔

[@ffpagalshort]

The fact that nobody talks about the book Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance.

[@CherryWineHouse00]

What if im obsessed with everything in the person not a specific thing, and cant remove them out of my life, and cant stop thinking about the person everyday. I just cant do it.

[@tobinslosttail2465]

I NEEDED THISSS......I LOVE YOU SOO MUCH GIRL😭

[@HarnurKaur-z3j]

Timing is CRAZY

[@ankitasarkar3646]

ayyooo mother is here !!!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@asterialumin_2030]

happy you uploaded! still waiting for more vlogsss! btw simone can you make a video on high school, like a guide. Ive watched ur other study videos and things youd killto know in high school but i was wondering if you could make one of like an experience, how to make those 4 years worth it, mindset, study tips etc. Ty in advance

[@ananyaaa_017]

omg wow- this was quite literally like, an awakening.

[@marooka]

"Unemployed activites" GIRL YOU'RE RIGHT 😂😭

[@layla_shin0011]

SIMONE I LOVE YOU YOU POSTED AT THE PERFECT TIME!! 🛐🛐🛐

[@mona-bn4zg]

Same happen to me, he put a spell on me, that I need to let my guard down and I will find a man to fall in love with me. He planted it in my head. Then he ghosted me. I have known him for 22 yrs. I never wanted to be with him. He always wanted me to chase me, 22 yrs ago.

[@Taytayslove]

Shes an angel for making this video.

[@nicoletan1199]

shes so real for that quote

[@asherlbryant]

Transformative video. I am, in all seriousness, a different person after watching this.

[@freyawantscats]

timing is unreal tysmmm

[@delilahamin9221]

this video is GOLD!

[@Selmaaaaa12]

The " ich lebe dich,tschüss" was a Good one fr

[@s4lly79]

I unconsciously made someone obsessed with me 3 years ago and actually got with him then he stalked me, threatened my family and more. He painted this ideal picture of me in his head and got mad when my behaviour didn’t play into his fantasy, so please guys when she says having someone obsessed with you is dangerous, LISTEN😭

[@SofiaSantos7]

She made this video for ME! I love you, queen 👑

[@JEONgukk-02]

*LADIES AND G WORDS WAS PERSONAL* 😂😂😂😂 SHE IS SO *CUTE* AND *FUNNY*

[@bebetter-love]

How its the fucking perfect timing .... im having a heart attack

[@Debssssss]

Thank you ,Simone that was helpful 🎉🎉🎉

[@humaira2347]

queen has uploaded 👑

[@Srayoshi._]

Me who is a psychology student, but still watching this

[@twinkie7802]

I'm obsessed with my boyfriend. I don't know what to do. I feel like I'm slowly losing myself to this relationship. I obviously can't cut any form of contact because we're in a relationship. I want myself back, but I love him so much too and I'm scared of losing him.

[@Taytayslove]

NEEDED THIS SM.

[@mapleceres]

QUEEN I LOVE YOU FOR THIS ♡♡♡♡♡

[@Tamako_life24]

The loud SIP was THE MOMENT 😂❤

[@sunnyshin6298]

the timing is of this IS celestial

[@sunnyshin6298]

it has been over 6 months of no contact..yet he still pops in my mind every day and it is actually making me sick

[@ilakkiyarj6090]

​@@sunnyshin6298 ikr , even me i liked a guy like over 2 years and im not over him yet ;)

[@user-eh1es3hr9u]

one of the best advices. thank you. that was eye opening

[@Daisy_Choi]

the timing I REPEAT THE TIMING

[@NewMe-gx4hh]

I got to know the reason i obsess over him and thats financial stability😮

[@moshi2075]

needed this soo muchhh thank you Simone ❤️

[@Marauder-eu9om]

What to do if I got obsessed because of the attention that he gave me? We used go talk do much for months but now all of a sudden he stopped talking to me much , this made me obsessed. He kept telling me he liked me but he also is honest that we don't have a future together.

[@zruuuking2041]

thank you for the sharing tip & i gald you drop this video ❤️❤️❤️ I needed to see this....

[@razz0dazzle]

Wow wow wow wow 🤯 thank you so much for posting this. I love the analogies especially the one of the beautiful garden. My question is let’s say this person has a family (children, a home etc - they’re divorced) and you’d like that. How would you begin to create that for yourself?

[@ervinsmoviecorner8748]

Happy weekend, Simone!❤❤

[@PUJAROY-hn3qp]

Hi Simone, how do you know what am i thinking? btw can you make a video on " how to decide between two options. each has it's pros and cons".love your content girl!!! ❤❤

[@vanilla_bd]

oh my god i love you this video helped me so much

[@sandarayatar3562]

I've been tweaking bc i hooked up with my long term crush 2 days ago & now i can't stop thinking about him & him & him. how did you know that Simone? thank you

[@grace.1123]

ugh the part about getting a job is SO true. i left a toxic job in june and moved back home, joined a kickball team and have a crush on a guy from my team and because i still haven't been able to find work my anxious attachment/limerence to him has been insane the past few weeks. i want to get back to work so bad. my mind has way too much time to ruminate and obsess over why he hasn't messaged me back

[@StarsAbove24]

I LOVED THIS VIDEO!! Omg simone if u ever get to see this I bought a red gold serafine necklace a year ago and I recently gave it to my sister but she lost it. Will you ever have that beautiful necklace back in stock queen? 😭😭😦

[@bella9148]

Hi Simone, I really enjoyed your video and your insights on this. I just had a follow-up question: how do you know if an attraction/obsession is good for you or not? Sometimes finding true love is not easy and smooth. If one always talk oneself out of any attraction, how do one find love?

[@iluwurmom]

Girl your accent is so soothing and uniqe. I could listen you speak for hours

[@mansoor3159]

Simone I clicked so fast As soon As I Got the Notification and How's your health and I wish you have a beautiful weekend😀😀💗

[@Kleillaa]

The sad thing is that I'm growing older and I'm still delusional.For example I'm crushing on my friend for the first time after YEARS of knowing him and I think that it's mutual but I don't think I have signs it's mutual meanwhile it's better to not take the risk and show something ..ffff