HOW to get THE RING & make him stay for a LIFETIME

[@basicinfo2022]

29:36 if he doesn't romantically love you... he is settling for you as a placeholder. It's sad and you will internalize the rejection as low self worth. Leave. Go where you are loved, wanted and are their dream girl.

[@ladanpeach8915]

What If Im so lonely and If I leave nobody would ask how is my day or how am I doing

[@MRWOLF360]

Make a friend- even online! Go out and talk to people. Good people.

[@KandyKoatedKrafts]

Get a dog!!

[@irinaivanovic9792]

Don't be fooled; when a guy meets his "dream girl" he can also abandon HER years later. Men are truly unpredictable. Not worth the stress and heartache. I'm 41 and have checked out. Men have destroyed me and my self worth too much for my broken heart to handle any longer.

[@irinaivanovic9792]

A dog is not the same a human being. They don't ask you how your day was, or hug you, or have true emotional intimacy much less physical. Don't get me wrong, I love dogs and they are great company for loneliness but let's not try to actually convince each other that a dog is a substitute for a human man. (Whether that's a good thing or a bad thing, is of course subjective person to person).@@KandyKoatedKrafts

[@catcat9582]

I'm so glad I realized there's nothing u can do to keep someone

[@purpleskies4553]

I love your style of content especially how you deliver it, no nonsense, straight up but with love. It really resonates ❤

[@sp4rkle81]

Same!

[@basicinfo2022]

14:00 it's the toxic men who gaslight women that marriage is "just a paper" but it's a legal contract that grants the wife benefits and rights to protect herself, children and their assets. If its "just a paper" then why not just sign it lol. Children are emotionally and mentally stronger when their parents are committed as husband and wife too.

[@omh186]

Maybe they aren’t religious at all???

[@basicinfo2022]

@@omh186 it's a *legal* contract, not just religious if you add on religious ceremony which is optional.

[@unvaccinatedamerican9620]

@basicinfo2022 This mindset is exactly why some men will never sign a marriage license. You go into the contract and expect guarantees from the man, enforceable by the State, while providing him no such guarantees yourself. What you want is financial leverage in the relationship at his expense, even if he does nothing wrong. On a whim you can go to court, take half of his assets and get monthly payments for child support. You want equal rights to work and compensation, but unequal rights in marriage. What a joke.

[@Petunia1738]

As a woman, I actually think it’s just a piece of paper as well. I don’t need a materialistic ring and a wedding to feel committed.

[@electricbop]

@@unvaccinatedamerican9620She is giving you years of her life, children, and basically staking her life on you as a partner. Why should she get nothing if things go south. Older women have a more challenging time rebuilding their life. A woman risking years on you has some value

[@nancykenessey7889]

You're like the best friend I never had margarita! I'm learning to love living in my own skin finally, and Getting to Know Myself and who I want to be. I can't get enough of your train of thought and thought process. Thank you for sharing it and being of so much service!

[@Kattykat63]

What if he's treating you indifferently, you feel in your gut something isn't right yet he denies his behavior?

[@si.rascol]

I really felt the need to have a chat with this guy who’s been hot and cold with me but as I was listening to you I’ve calmed down and realised that it’s not worth it. Thank you for what you’re doing!

[@danilaroche1156]

Men need space but if you feel something is off..then it is. He can at least communicate.

[@AnyeshaV]

"sister friend" I screammeeeddd!!!I love everything you say. Keep doing the lords work sis !

[@lizmartin4555]

Gift giving is a really common love language for avoidants.

[@cinderling5472]

Good point!

[@zulupilotgirl]

You are so wise. You’re like a virtual big sister who has ALL the information. Please can we have more videos like this. I love you ! ❤

[@ShopgirlNY182]

In my marriage I basically convinced him to get married and did the chasing, Margarita is correct (as always) that is not a life you want. We got divorced which was a good thing but it took 18 years to finally decide this is not for me. Then I thought I found someone special we dated a year back and forth long distance and I was doing a lot of effort and being in the masculine, now I realize my mistakes and am working towards being in my black cat feminine energy and just being and not doing. It really hit home when Margarita said along the lines in one of her videos they don’t value you more just because you’re doing more. I now am taking all that energy I wasted on them and putting into myself.

[@DearYoungerSelf111]

Your dry sense of humor is what I live for! I like to be a little cheeky myself - glad to know ita others who express in this way.

[@missiejin]

23:10 I can repeat this a hundred times. Every word here is gold and 100% true

[@asl6299]

One of my love languages is quality time although I’m an introvert and spend so much time alone (and enjoy it). But I believe time is the most expensive currency bc everyone has only 24h a day. You can always make more money but can never turn back time.

[@surpriseimblack]

I don't know who this lady is but she is speaking straight facts...

[@nedjlanedjladz6597]

I slept praying to god to make you happy margarita,you are changing me

[@MarissaLaipsker]

Margarita, you opened my mind to see things I’ve heard in the past that I never fully understood (nor could I put into practice because, for me, it’s difficult to put something into practice that I don’t fully understand the reasoning behind). You effectively convey information with relatable rationales by chopping each idea up and feeding it to me in such a clear and effective way for my understanding. Thank you for being the first who has been able to do this for me with the topics you integrate into your content. I needed this, and I appreciate you as I would an older sister who loves me and wants the best for me! You’re so gifted, and I am grateful you chose to create content that is so helpful for me and countless other women worldwide. ❤🙏🏻 thank you!

[@anyaz77]

I love listening to these on Spotify and then revisiting a day later and seeing you talk it through! And yes please have guests too!

[@Illuminatelove36]

❤❤❤ You are soo healing, therapeutic, honest, and encouraging ❤ THANK YOU CONGRATULATIONS 🎊 ON BABY #2

[@Linda-uo8hh]

Thank you Margarita this episode was very straight foward. I am working on being in my feminine energy, as being the head of my elderly family members health and estates fell into my lap. I have been single and celibate for 2 years now after a failed long term relationshp that didnt end in marriage. This time I plan to casually date and voice the vision of my future to men. If we do not see eye to eye early on, I will amicably move on and wish them the best. I am saving myself for the right one who will commit and share the same values as myself, so I can allow him to lead when the time comes. ❤

[@adelialestiya8090]

Hola darling! I am from Asian country. in my place, still minim about this discussion. About self acceptance, self development, feminine energy and relationship. btw, I went to translation so I could watch and comment on your channel hahah lol OMG sorry. This is quite in tune with the gradual training. so I really like and enjoy your content. I find it strange that still most people don’t see the gift what’s in front of them... And I found a diamond. yeay!!! Blessings and good health to you Margarita! Balanced and consistent great woman. thank you thank you and I Love you

[@annettemoorshead7019]

Always lovely, inspirational, thought-provoking, and spot-on - love these talks!! 😊❤

[@lauraruseno]

Anything that give me struggle life, remove it from existence. 🙌🏻

[@alessa6964]

I do love these episodes! you are so good at what you do and thank you for always being real!

[@MihadGesey]

Me being a married women yet I'm still watching this video because Margarita is just a beautiful relatable women...love your videos ❤❤❤❤

[@carriefawcett9990]

Woman= singular Women= plural

[@livingoutloud4210]

​@@carriefawcett9990thank you!

[@cajunnbeauty]

Margarita just SNATCHED my life together! Thanks I needed this❤

[@sarahsophie4532]

Please, I would just loove to have a conversation with you. (!) This podcast blew my mind- I am so grateful for your insights sister. Thank you for being here with us and sharing! Xo Sarah

[@jitkaharazimova2714]

Dear Margarita , i love these episodes. Please, continue with this work. It is great and rational. Great JOB❤️❤️

[@ladyindigo1649]

"We relax and breathe through it!" Love it. Hello? That's what a metaphor is. The opposite of literal. Thank you for the tips.❤️🙏🏽

[@angelslove13]

I just had a crazy thought. If he’s not paying bills, that’s absolutely ok. As long as he makes my life easier and minimizes my expenses 😊 27:19

[@babytg93]

It's not crazy but I'm not sure I understand. If he's not paying bills, how is he minimizes your expenses?

[@absolute3112]

holy shyt, U said : Uncle Google I say that all the time. Love your channel, you speak to me directly and yes, right off I sense... Leo-sque (Queen of Wands) energy in you, as with me. You're giving to me, what Ive given to others my WHOLE ADULT LIFE! I really needed this, thank you for sharing. I am in the process of rebuilding my life, into something MORE AMAZING than before.

[@mekenaharvey]

I was nodding after every sentence you said. I’d love more content around advice on attracting a high value man.

[@Alexistxsj]

girl, it is like the Holy Spirit speaks through you thank you for this advice. The best advice I’ve heard from you yet. Is you can not take back a reaction but you can always say how you feel, later on. 🥵💯 i’m learning to be more in my feminine thanks to you. 💕💕💕💕💕

[@itsYourChance]

This is so good. I must be more of a masculine woman yet im also feminine outwardly. Cuz i do not emotionally dump with other women and i dont liek them doing that to me. And i dont pick mens brains or get needy. I think i relate so much more to men in many ways.

[@estherharing7430]

Very good content. Love these kind of episodes. I finally get the fountain of feminine energy flowing inside of me. I was so much in my head with men, now I am in my body and just embracing my feelings and authenticity. You have to be polarizing. Weed out the men that aren't vibing with you and wishing them well. I am deserving of a man that feels good, like home and a bit like heaven.

[@NawrasMatee7]

I had never been this excited to see someone's uploads in my life❤❤❤❤❤

[@basicinfo2022]

25:27 as soon as he asks me for exclusivity and to take myself off of the market for him while dating, he has to provide and take care of me. It sets the standard and proves that he will be a provider when married.

[@ajnaughtin1]

As I guy with money I disagree. Margs is correct. Asking for this is not wife materiel. Guys will pay but not take you seriously, its disrespectful.

[@karenrusso3773]

I NEVER expect a boyfriend to pay my bills. As a matter of fact, I enjoy and expect myself to contribute to the relationship by occasionally paying for dinner out, cooking for him just as he sometimes cooks for me, making plans for us just as he does at times. I want my independence and I’ve found that men respect that. What man wants to be used as a provider for a woman’s needs/wants just because they are girlfriend & boyfriend? I don’t want a man expecting the same from me as he would a wife unless we have committed to that type of relationship.

[@basicinfo2022]

you dont get to set the standards a woman has for her life and self when in a long-term exclusive relationship with a man. if you dont like her standards, go find another woman. @@ajnaughtin1

[@basicinfo2022]

ok, pickmeisha. @@karenrusso3773

[@vuyisekaluphuzi8249]

@@ajnaughtin1I respect women giving out advice on relating with men. But I tend to believe it more when it comes from men themselves. I take care of myself financially and it makes me feel confident and comfortable in a relationship. I cannot imagine myself asking for anything from my boyfriend. And he is quite successful and does have the money. But it makes me feel empowered to have my own life that I finance myself.

[@thelavenderdancer]

such great tips. you talk so well. love your little accents and wordplay

[@Anna_annua]

"you are the fountain of absolutely everything amazing" 😍😍

[@EleHeath12]

This was SO good-please do more videos in this format, like a good mix of both single themes and these Q&As. I love your mindset, thank you for your wisdom always ✨🤍☀️

[@smile15kz]

Love the format! Thank you, Margarita for being so honest and open!

[@rachelhantz9644]

The last point Margarita makes about not being in your feminine energy if you have to work, grind, and provide, made me a little hopeless because it's hard for me to imagine not having to work so hard. Otherwise, I loved this video so much. Thank you!

[@nikkibreezy6058]

You can do all those things and still be in your feminine energy when u with your man and outside of work

[@samco63]

I personally LOVE the luxury brand megaphor ❤ Inspires me to raise my standards for myself and make sure I don’t settle.

[@sarahpeyton1640]

Wow. Very eye opening! Like how have I NEVER considered the deference in men and woman and how we process

[@КалинаКостова-ъ5з]

Маргарита, съдържанието ти е уникално, изключително полезно и поднесено с толкова хумор! Страхотна си!

[@GoddessGirl555]

I always come back to this video! Such beautiful gems you provide for us ❤

[@danettecook2709]

I loved this episode. So practical and sensible. Thank you.

[@evelinvahter4255]

Omg.. it is so good, it's so honest and simple and so good how you Margarita explain the real life what we have lost in ourselves. Thank you for doing that!

[@peacefulwarrior3429]

Margarita, you are such a blessing girl! Listening to you on repeat, soaking in. Lots of love from Russia💜

[@roxy7255]

So true about chatting it out to release those toxins. I don’t have the community or village but i do this with my beauty therapists!!

[@OurFavouriteClips]

You’re the Auntie I always needed x

[@sarvinozsaidakhmedova3156]

dear Margarita, i absolutely love each and every video of yours!!! i feel extremely grateful for finding your channel. I'm gaining a lot of new knowledge. THANK YOU!!! MUCH LOVE FROM UZBEKISTAN❤❤❤

[@londonlevyn]

Girl. First of all you are hilarious. Second, I absolutely love it 🥹

[@kimkean6216]

Love this brilliant 😂😂 very black and white! 😘

[@margaritanotacocktail4912]

I love all your content, thank you so much for doing all of this, especially when you're heavy preggers but still giving us the content! And my thoughts on you having guests - feel like I wouldn't want to see guests on your podcast. I really like listening to YOU and that's what brings me back to your page.

[@kitascorner7227]

Love your sense of humor and straight forward personality… loved listening to this one!

[@garlicheadrecipes]

Margarita you are literally my favorite creator - thank you so much for this wisdom! I love this style of video and would really be interested in hearing your thoughts on how to ensure you're in your feminine energy at work. I really struggle with this and would love to not "force" things and really just stay in flow (the last question of this video). Your advice would be so interesting!

[@apichinim]

Margarita, I'm listening you from Brazil and I can't explain how good it feels to hear you bringing about all this issues to us.. I've watched a lot of your other videos and I'm just obsessed. THANK YOU!!! keep going!

[@CupTheCakeMasta]

Can’t wait for the guest videos! Margaritas voice officially in my head and guiding, I am making better choices for myself 🥳

[@normalandaverde7763]

That’s exactly how I do it in the beginning of my relationship, I told a guy in my first date the I want to get married again. I thought he listened to that. No he didn’t, after 6 months in a relationship I brought it again and he pull away. Which it hurts at the time but I am glad it happened

[@ycantucmesssmile]

Loving your videos on my first full day off in a long time 😁

[@onyagnes6192]

i love listening to all your vids, so eye opener

[@chanellecoates4541]

Thanks so much for your efforts with these videos Margarita. This one was particularly great! I’m still wondering if marriage is necessary for me. If it was, I would definitely align myself with the advice you’re giving, and learn to set boundaries around this topic.

[@suziandchopstix]

Second time watching this. You are literally my teacher I love these topics thank you ❤️ love all your videos!

[@PetraChaloupkova]

Damn, this was simply beautiful, straight, honest, feminine...I'm inspired. Thank you Margarita!

[@cocoaocean]

Congratulations! Baby on the way!! ❤❤😊

[@Eng4555]

an authentic woman calls her man that is pure normal !! i know this relates to one of your podcast

[@aubriannarowe634]

Listening to your podcasts gives me so much peace and direction. Loved this one!

[@MRWOLF360]

You’re my favourite KZbinr! Thank you for your free content - I can’t afford much but this is amazing ❤😂🎉❤❤❤ I need to work on being lighter and playful!

[@ycantucmesssmile]

15:27 - I feel like that’s only “young” men, if only in mentality. I’m so judgmental and dismissive at this point in my life and I look for outward markers of cleanliness, intelligence, manners, truth and trustworthiness, loyalty.

[@joalanemohobane5273]

I love these...i recently just discovered you...thank you

[@priyankap250]

Can yu pls do more of these Q&A. Love it when you are pissed! Its like the kick i needed in kickstart!😄

[@nicolemercado2214]

Hi Margarita! Love from the Philippines 🇵🇭

[@afroaesthete3701]

This was gold! Gem after gem 💎

[@MonikaKowalinska]

Margarita thank you for your wisdom. Never married I am still hoping for a beautiful relationship, and I guess at 50 it is too late to hope for a wedding one day

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

You can do it!

[@MRWOLF360]

Never too late. I know people who found each other at 60!

[@vauoia6064]

Thank you for your channel, You have become such a big part of my healing journey 🙏🏼 I’m also interested in the content episodes 😅 congratulations on your pregnancy!

[@pinksealight]

I’m about to watch and I WILL do everything you tell me to do

[@Nicole-jc8hl]

One of the best videos I’ve seen in a long time! I’m very glad I watched. You’re speaking truth through and through. Loved it!

[@misssunshine7650]

margarita such a beautiful name( my grandma’s name Margarita)💗. Girl I just love love love this type of content! You bring such value to KZbin community 🌸

[@elenieleni26_8]

I’ve just found you, I freaking love you!!! ❤❤❤

[@alinaowo1141]

i agree with everything this woman says

[@kandiblick3822]

❤❤❤ Sincerest thanks! You have such a warm and beautiful smile. Wishing you a wonderful day 😊

[@bonisiwegwala5705]

Hi margarita love from South Africa❤

[@bodrugmaria9179]

Girl, you know all the good stuff but is your sassiness that made me subscribe.

[@durusu4255]

I’m glad to find you on TikTok, I love your content and your great personality. Lots of love from Germany ❤️

[@sofiamd1]

How do we be strong, set boundaries and like break up with them... If we're trying to be joyful youthful fun happy etc .. And if we're in a happy relationship and you're both attached .. But he's just not proposing. It's been 2.5 years.... I'm frustrated... He says he wants to get married... But it's been too long. How to set a boundary and be strong without being a nag. And how can you just walk away from your best friend....

[@maritamaltezaki8588]

I find you amazing because you are very close and feel very comfortable with your feminine energy!❤

[@iprosper8395]

I hope u see this message ❤️❤️❤️ u changed my life ❤️❤️ please keep talking keep enlighten us and help us in the. Journey of our feminine energy.. i have a question if how to know if my boyfriend is a provider of not ?

[@LizHKWealth]

"I don't care if you marry a crocodile 😂❤."

[@juanitagonzalez8333]

😂

[@ItsELE3]

😂😂😂

[@mbarcco]

That one took me out 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@JASONJESUS-c4v]

Jesus Christ is part human and part reptilian. I live again.

[@loiceokoth8938]

😂😂😂

[@deliafb]

😅” but I don t need a solution, I need to talk right now “ 😘💖 you re soooo sweet and smart ! Merci

[@lizzy_qtin]

I am so grateful for u and your videos, their my reminders

[@sandyvazquez9210]

I’m enjoying your content so much. Thank you

[@Legacychaser_777]

I love all of your content! Although a more mature age, I find something I can learn from & new tips & tricks to keep me refreshed! Thank you❤

[@MandyJRoss]

If you're reading this I pray you receive the highest form of love. You deserve the best.💗🙏🏼

[@healthymelody]

Thanks for another fab video ❤ I'd love to hear your wisdom on what to do if you're in a loving relationship but you've played a little too much "wifey" without a ring and marriage. How do you get out of the "playing wifey" zone and get an upgrade to ACTUAL wifey zone?

[@sacredgem8732]

Your analogies are so funny yet so accurate and I’m here for it 29:45

[@nfgbanshee]

How to transition in a long term relationship from acting Wifey (or mothering) back to black cat. How do you just stop nurturing suddenly without it seeming like a pouty protest ? I am guilty of acting like a wife to a black cat man ( dismissive avoidant) and I'd love to turn the tables to be in my feminine 😊 Also, can't wait to get your book 😍😍

[@bonisiwegwala5705]

can we get her to 1Million subscribers please!!!

[@Margarita.Nazarenko]

Love you

[@basicinfo2022]

22:40 I desire a man with that loyalty gene lol a cheating husband is emotionally abusive and stressful. He has to give me seperate dream house for me to tolerate cheating and I won't be sleeping with him for years if he cheated.

[@heraldo623]

It's actually the opposite. Men start to cheat when the wife is not sleeping with him anymore. Sex is a biological need.

[@Luuwixx]

I love these videos, they're so eye-opening ♡

[@Kristinewildnfree]

Your advice is fabulous, love it! Thank you 😊