This is very helpful for me because I just got put out the house in a toxic household 😢
@jayzarchive9 ай бұрын
Completely understand !! I was in the same boat too. We’ll do better on our own🫡I’m glad I could help🤍
@aubreemiokiyolinn8 ай бұрын
Sameeeee
@Phawks-Phire7 ай бұрын
I truly hope you do get your apartment. I know exactly how you feel.
@lovelygamerplays35437 ай бұрын
lol so did i, we got this tho!!
@yamajaechols90206 ай бұрын
Same 😢
@helixjac23948 ай бұрын
Some great places to buy house items + dollar store + Facebook marketplace + thrift stores + 99 cent store Great places to get cheap furniture or house items
@Hope-bx1wc5 ай бұрын
It so true
@Lolo_SketchesАй бұрын
Fr fr
@carolinemtz91811 күн бұрын
Ross, Marshall’s, at home, Burlington those have lots of house items cleaning supplies clothes
@aubreemiokiyolinn8 ай бұрын
This is the most realistic video I seen on KZbin about LIVING AND how to budget
@jayzarchive8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much !! I’ll always keep it real with yall💗🙏🏼
@taylorgirls11845 ай бұрын
As a strict child of strict parents I definitely understand the want for independence and freedom. I’m 19 getting my first job soon so I can save up for my car first then my apartment. I graduated last year, had a freshman college experience n may take a gap year to grind for a while. I loved the way you explain things with tips. New subscriber 😊
@jayzarchive3 ай бұрын
I’m glad I can help and I wish you the best of luck on your journey!! You seem very headstrong and have great direction I know you got this !!🩷🩷✨
@vkr-b4k6 күн бұрын
Any updates im taking this exact route in about 3 days and just need some reassurance as a 17yo
@Sosaezza8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this. I turn 18 in September and my mental health at home just keeps declining, I’m so stressed about saving and what areas are good and where I should get things etc+. Your video is so encouraging ❤
@jayzarchive8 ай бұрын
I’ve been there my love I promise it’ll make you stronger. When I was going through the same I wished I saw more KZbin videos about this. You got this..I believe in you!! Find ways to distract yourself from your household if you can🤍I’m glad I could help
@heyhannahgirl95158 ай бұрын
Absolutely loved this. You helping me and I'm 27😂❤. This brung some comfort.
@jayzarchive8 ай бұрын
Aww wowww I’m so happy I could help !! This just made my day🤍🤍
@pokemongaming80972 ай бұрын
It’s not just about savings it’s about making your money work for you
@champagnethebest75329 ай бұрын
I cannot wait to move omg lol
@iamvinaaa10 ай бұрын
from a fellow small youtuber to another, keep grinding girly 🩷 loved the vid
@jayzarchive10 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!! You as well🤍🤍
@aubreemiokiyolinn8 ай бұрын
I would love to support you 😢❤ I’m trying to get into KZbin as well
@iamvinaaa8 ай бұрын
@@aubreemiokiyolinn aww thank you! just subscribed 🩷
@XOXO-wv8ie8 ай бұрын
I’m gonna have to move in a couple months and I’ve been sooo stressed, but this video genuinely made me feel so much better ab it. Tysm for the tips!
@jayzarchive8 ай бұрын
Of course!! I’m glad I could help🤍
@alissabee45085 ай бұрын
did u move in yet how is it? I move in to minein like 2 weeks I'm so scared
@hellokittyhaz33 ай бұрын
i graduated 2023 & thinking about going to college & then not wanting to really go anymore is what i’m going through again, i just don’t think college is for me. im glad i found this video cause i honestly thought i was the only one who went through this
@jayzarchive2 ай бұрын
Same sis!! You’re not alone🩷
@OkWoodsSlowed2 ай бұрын
You did precisely what im boutta do rn. I'm boutta save up for 2 months and get tf up on cause I cannot stand it here at my parents place for much longer. I have my reasons. I turn 21 in November.
@jayzarchive2 ай бұрын
It may be for the better🩷I totally understand, you got this. I wish you the best of luck
@GojoSan215 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video it feels like my dad doesn't want me in the house to the point I picked up a second job to hurry and save up..once I get the apartment I'll still be working two jobs since I don't want to return back home
@destinimonae3 ай бұрын
Thanks for this girl! This video resonates with me a lot. I’m 24 & looking to move asap and I think I’ll only have about 3k saved just like you 🙈 but when you gotta go you gotta go!! And that’s where I’m at
@jayzarchiveАй бұрын
REAL!! We’re in this journey together🩷u got this, best of luck to you lovely
@olikroe2 ай бұрын
8:58 The moment you said “it all depends on how crazy you are with your hot showers” I got INSANE whiplash. Like I was snapped back into reality. 💀 I did *not* consider my terrible shower habits until now 😂 Thank you for bringing me back into existence to which I must lock in and break that habit before doing it all 👏
@jayzarchive2 ай бұрын
Lmaooo I’m sayinggg!! I did the same thing I kid you not I was showering almost 3 times a dayyyy in this summer heat no joke. I cut back so quick when I saw that bill though🤣
@Lolo_SketchesАй бұрын
Fr 😭
@tommygoncalves95693 ай бұрын
Nah nbs ts helpful asf.. I'm 19 now, and it feels like I was just in middle school, but life as an adult hittin hard asf and fast asf too😣
@jayzarchiveАй бұрын
Felt this! Glad I could help🤍
@dareeaalprincess8 ай бұрын
I’m proud of youuu keep going girl 🎉🎉🎉 ❤️ you did very well explaining this seriously
@jayzarchive8 ай бұрын
You’re the sweetest !! Thank you so much 🤍🤍
@Lolo_SketchesАй бұрын
My story is one fully of tragedy and some absolutely insane shit. I know this was about strict parents that are still family, but I've been abused all my life by monsters, so i have no blood family, which hell yeah who needs that, found family ftw. The concept of getting out was weird to me. This video is one of the only things that made me feel like there are good people in the world when looking for this advice. Huge congrats on getting your own place. I hope to do soon asap, this is it.
@jayzarchiveАй бұрын
So sorry for everything you’ve been through. I may not fully understand but I sure can relate to you! And of course, I’m really happy I could help🤍you’re strong for being so vulnerable, I respect it a lot
@atnightwkaash2 ай бұрын
I diskike my living situation right now, thank you for giving me hope
@jayzarchiveАй бұрын
You got this!!🤍
@tammytroche16245 ай бұрын
I got a majority of my things for my apartment from estate sales, garage sales, vendor malls, and FB Marketplace. I have a style that kinda caters to a vintage inspired interior so these were the best places for me to buy, but there were also a lot of modern things too!
@Kayla-eh5fbАй бұрын
Im greatful that I'm not in a postition where I have to move but I been thinking about it and getting myself together for whenever I feel ready. I'm so thankful for this video because it helped answer some questions I had. Super happy for you and wishing you the best on your journey!
@JabariArcher4 күн бұрын
I really appreciate how she got into detail about everything, really helpful thanks
@mar12552 ай бұрын
Walmart target and dollar tree will be ur best friend when moving out lol
@asmrBADDIE-il6lfАй бұрын
thankuu so mucch at the moment im 15 and im tryna save 😂😂 ik i wont be able to move out until later later but this was rlly helpful
@jayzarchiveАй бұрын
You’re smart!! I wish I did this at your age I would’ve had such a smooth move in
@Lolo_SketchesАй бұрын
I couldn't because I'm the oldest and had to watch my siblings cause our blood family are monsters. Legit was gonna get hired but didn't fit the schedule cause of being parentifed. Tbh if i was an only child i woulda gotten myself emancipated. I say all this just to validate that what you're doing is smart and deserved, build support for yourself and never look back. Best of luck!
@VonntyyАй бұрын
Another thing one of you guys could use to buy furniture for a cheap price is MacBid don’t use it unless they are located near you , I’ve never had a bad experience but some people have😬
@RememberRj2 ай бұрын
You saved us a lot of time and struggle thank you🙏🏾⭐️
@jayzarchive2 ай бұрын
I got yall🩷
@Tylerthecraatorfan7 күн бұрын
Anyone here who has been in a toxic family or just anyone in general. Your loved ❤
@ricc-w1cАй бұрын
damn ion kno how i should feel cus ion see no dudes ever in comments of vids like dis😂or do niggas jus not want they own place?? shiii im tryna gooooooo
@nmoswifty2298Ай бұрын
we here fam😂
@nmoswifty2298Ай бұрын
well i am😂
@thalishapagan7653Ай бұрын
Thank you 😢 you don’t understand how this video helps me ❤
@jayzarchiveАй бұрын
I’m glad I could help🤍
@AnitaMckean2 ай бұрын
Using fake paystubs to show you make 3x the rent always work. I have used it and i know alot of people use it to gwt around the system. Just get a professional to help to with the tax calculations and trust me you will get approved.
@theonlyaliyahn12 күн бұрын
can they tell the difference between a real and fake paystub ?
@Damaris-dior8 күн бұрын
No I got paystubs biweekly from cyber credible and he made them from a payroll system. Just get a professional to help you . I got approved using paystubs made online
@OnyxHorizons21 күн бұрын
This helped me soo much I desperately needed to move out of my bfs family house the energy is just too much, thank youuu 🎉
@jayzarchive18 күн бұрын
I feel you girl!! You got this🤍
@jaylynnirwin86065 ай бұрын
Can you do a video on how you saved up for a car? While living on your own
@chieko.hermes6 ай бұрын
Your story kinda sounds similar to mine- except I haven’t moved out lol😂
@MalinCzilling6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this!! I'm also 19 now and i'm trying to get out and start over in another city. Fortunately I live in Norway so there's so much help i can get! ❤
@hermindspeaks8762 ай бұрын
This is a great video !!! Very detailed !! …. I’d love to hear about your braces journey
@jayzarchiveАй бұрын
OUU thank you for the great idea !! I actually really wanna do this considering I don’t have family insurance which is another adulting topic I think yall would love🩷thank you
@Leilanycolon_24 ай бұрын
THANK YOU JAY I LOVE YOU.
@jayzarchive3 ай бұрын
Anytime loveee🩷🩷✨
@yassified_toenail_clippings9 күн бұрын
Pretty good video. I'm 19 w no job but I have 700$ rn and I'm doing some brainstorming/planning.
@useridgaf9793 күн бұрын
Sending you my best wishes ❤
@yassified_toenail_clippings3 күн бұрын
@useridgaf979 ty
@ALeahLorenn2 ай бұрын
Im 18 and I turn 19 in November and My friend wants me to move in with her and her boyfriend it will be the first time all 3 of us would be living on our own. And my friends bf is very laid back and very chill which is a good thing but I don’t know how my mom will feel about it
@jayzarchive21 күн бұрын
I think that’s very smart if you play your cards right! I think you guys would do great🤍
@shaylas_snakes4 ай бұрын
Im 17 moving out at 19 bc im living with my parents till I graduate help me I also have to save up for a car myself before I move out
@jayzarchive3 ай бұрын
Yess proud of uuu!! Def try prioritizing one thing at a time and honestly, depending on what you’d prefer, you can finance a car and save up for a place or buy a car off right and save for a place!!
@ssamyaaaaa3 ай бұрын
realist video i’ve seen so far❤
@jayzarchive2 ай бұрын
Thank youuu !!🤍
@ItsJustVerMent2 ай бұрын
Thanks! You deserve this, your experiences and hardships were worth it, hopefully but not too soon, I can do what you do! :D
@jayzarchiveАй бұрын
Thank you so much!! And you definitely will🩷best of luck to you
@izzzyyyyyy293423 күн бұрын
yall don’t sleep on big lots too!
@lasunbarada-realtorri126512 күн бұрын
Woooo Jayniece?! lol i found this video looking for an apartment
@jayzarchive11 күн бұрын
NASHUNNNN🤍🤍that’s crazyyy this video was meant to find youuu!!
@brownskinlawrie66046 ай бұрын
You’re telling me you did all this with at most 3k ?
@jayzarchive6 ай бұрын
Yessss and you can too
@itz.mehh.shunny7707Ай бұрын
@@jayzarchivewhat if I have a newborn to save up for also😭?
@keepupcia30119 ай бұрын
Great video thank you💕
@littlecherry26664 ай бұрын
wait how did you get approved for the apartment without having proof of income for a few months before ? or meeting the 3x rent minimum ? assuming u weren’t working before february
@jayzarchive3 ай бұрын
I waited a little to show some paystubs but even then i was getting paid biweekly so the stubs looked a little beefy😭😭I also informed them that I was working full time & just started so they knew
@destinimonae3 ай бұрын
Also, supposedly, you can show the leasing agents/rental company an offer letter instead. At the end of the day they just want that money lol
@AnitaMckean2 ай бұрын
I used fake paystubs from an online vendor and it work perfectly. I got approved and already moved in
@Stimbots2 ай бұрын
@@AnitaMckeanmay I ask what vendor??
@dreamviewLLC2 ай бұрын
@@Stimbotsfrom Cyber credible i also used his bank statements last week
@daw94403 ай бұрын
I'm def taking notes. I've been wanting to move out for quite some time now. Wanting some freedom to myself mentally and physically. This video gave me hope tysm for that! Also, I was wondering where the tiktok video was at about the zillow, tried searching for it but couldnt find any
@jayzarchiveАй бұрын
You’re welcome I’m glad I could help🤍I think I had archived it a while back but I can put it back up for you if you need. Shoot me a dm aswell I could send you links
@itz.mehh.shunny7707Ай бұрын
My problem is I don’t know how to check or manage my credit
@jayzarchiveАй бұрын
Credit karma! It tells you exactly how much you could be putting aside to pay off your credit and ways to boost your score. I love it
@Ebiikere2 ай бұрын
Hiiii I really hope you see this but I’m moving in with my friends and we plan to get a three bedroom. How much do you think we should save each?
@jayzarchiveАй бұрын
Hi love !! It really all depends on what yall want because where I live, if each of yall chipped in about 500 a month yall could get a 3 bed apartment here in the city for about 1500. If yall want something more pricier with a gym, etc, yall could get a loft which would be cheaper between the 3 of yall PLUS they tend to not have bigger security deposits. Whatever yall agree on I’d say save up first months rent and then match that with the security deposit. If y’all’s rent is 2k split that evenly amongst yourselves and that’ll be how much I would save for the concrete bills. Once you get that out the way that’s when I’d save for play money. I would at least save anywhere between 2-3k for just play money. Again because there’s 3 of yall that number could be smaller seeing how yall can go half on a lot of stuff! Sorry if this was a beefy paragraph haha. Hope this helps🤍
@Kimi-he8mu3 күн бұрын
What state are you from? asking because I feel like this advice varies between states
@CoralineJones-b3p4 күн бұрын
Would be great if you told us how much you make
@taymichi5 ай бұрын
What kind of camera do you use? Also thank you for the tips on moving out I plan on leaving in about 3 months I’m a bit scared but excited lol
@jayzarchive3 ай бұрын
Yess im happy for you !! And I use the sony zv1f🩷
@adrianasoto54062 ай бұрын
this is impossible to do in new york tho 😢
@jayzarchive2 ай бұрын
FELT thisss
@Kingseed-b6g2 ай бұрын
What to do if you don't have any credit ?
@jayzarchiveАй бұрын
Still try applying around! I got lucky and got a place without it
@Destiny_1006 ай бұрын
How much should I be making at my full time job to afford 1,300 rent but I will be going half on the rent with my bf?
@jayzarchive3 ай бұрын
Honestly not that much considering your bills could be split up every week or biweekly. Having that second income will help SO much. Minimum you could be making to still have some play money could be 16-18 an hr
@JasmineMcke2 ай бұрын
what job was paying enough to move out in a month
@jayzarchiveАй бұрын
Warehouse jobs boo! They have really good benefits aswell
@kaadiorrr8699Ай бұрын
i saved 10k in 3months with the help of a tiktok saving binder so it is possible
@jayzarchiveАй бұрын
I LOVEEEE the TikTok cash stuffing binders!!
@Royal_shay15222 ай бұрын
If you don’t have a car how do you get to and from work?
@jayzarchive2 ай бұрын
Public transportation, making friends at work (carpooling)
@raidone7413Ай бұрын
How come no one ever wants to say how much they take home? I can't budget off "a good amount of money" that's not quantifiable. I make $900/wk and am trying to figure everything out to a tee
@jayzarchiveАй бұрын
It really depends on you. If you got other side bills you gotta pay for minus that and save 50 percent of that. My take home was almost 50 dollars every week because I was so desperate to to move out….
@Sylvia-l7p2 ай бұрын
What websites or apps do you guys recommend looking for apartments
@Demo5562 ай бұрын
Im in that 18 year old position with a young sibling and a broke ass mom who complains about absolutely everything. So yes i absolutely must move out. No more helping mom with a single bill since she never learns how to talk to people or treat her own kids as if they were at home. Which i am not, the lord told me my home is nowhere near my mother, and this time im listening to him. 2024 is not the year for us Hs graduates to stay in the house. To give you an example of my moms budget…we buy some honey long time ago, it isnt mentioned again until the next month, suddenly mom asks where the honey is, (the same honey the household of 3 forgot about) suddenly its brung back up and now she talking about “gtfo my house, im tired of you touching shit😂😂.” OK BAD EXAMPLE
@Demo5562 ай бұрын
Replying to my own: basically what im saying is I dont feel at home in my moms home, everytime I see her its a problem, everytime i want to leave its a question on where tf im going (same person who tells me to go outside and talk to bugs) everytime i enter the kitchen i am being camera watched and observed while looking in this empty ass budget ass fridge that you still struggle to put lots of food in and not get mad since i was 1. Then in 2019 you have another which = more bills and more problems. My other 2 siblings moved out, (one with dad and other moved in his own plays) in tryna get like big bro❤ naw fuck that im tryna be the best me anyone has ever seen💯
@jayzarchive2 ай бұрын
@@Demo556 I totally understand I’m happy you’re working towards getting your own place. You will get there, I’m praying it’s fast for you! I wish you the best of luck you def are on the right path🤍
@Johkrr16 күн бұрын
wish i knew some of these b4 I was moved out I was 17 with no plan i js packed my shit n left
@truthwithoutBorder2 ай бұрын
Who did you use for your internet
@jayzarchive2 ай бұрын
Cox! It’s really affordable
@Lolo_SketchesАй бұрын
Kinda random but anyone use mint mobile? It's supposed to be really cheap phone service to stand up to big companies but it sounds too good to be true lol
@liminalspaces68052 ай бұрын
You pay as much in rent as I used to pay for 2 story house Now I’m in a 2 bdrm apartment and paying more than that lol
@Tianalexi4 күн бұрын
How can i get paystubs from cyber credible?
@roseroxx27733 күн бұрын
I need to submit 4 paystubs asap and I just found Cyber Credible page on IG
@KareemHalilu3 сағат бұрын
I received paystubs from Cyber credible. He actually sent it and all calculations were accurate
@wonderfullydi14 күн бұрын
Hi girl. WHERE DO YOU WORKKKK.
@jujustayfilming19 күн бұрын
🐐
@itss.vee1115 ай бұрын
what job did you get if you don’t mind me asking?
@jayzarchive3 ай бұрын
I worked at a warehouse at the time but just recently switched to the medical field. I was also working out of state so the pay was better !!🩷
@liliaaa-h9d2 ай бұрын
Hii this vid was incredibly helpful darling thank you ❤ i was just wondering what job you work to be able to afford rent & bills if u dont mind :)
@jayzarchive2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much🩷at the time I worked at a warehouse for Walgreens in Massachusetts
@CelestialKollie.24 күн бұрын
Where do you work at Jay?
@jayzarchive21 күн бұрын
At the time I worked as a warehouse worker for Walgreens!
@Yourfavyohana10 күн бұрын
Wait did she go to collage
@jayzarchive10 күн бұрын
I didn’t
@kaythlin10063 ай бұрын
What do you work in girl?
@jayzarchive2 ай бұрын
I’m currently in the medical field now but at the time I was in the warehouse industry. It’s actually a pretty stable income I recommenddd
@TreasureJanay10 ай бұрын
💓💓💓
@box3256Ай бұрын
Come back to youtubeeeeee
@jayzarchiveАй бұрын
My move in date is the 9th👀content veryyyy soonnn I promise🙏🏼🩷
@Moddarealest2 ай бұрын
where do you work where they pay you bi weekly
@jayzarchiveАй бұрын
Warehouses !! I worked the next state over from me
@KristalLuevano-fj5mv7 ай бұрын
Thanks for share
@montyr4w44016 күн бұрын
❤❤️🙈🙈
@MB27270Ай бұрын
✅
@box3256Ай бұрын
What happened to uuuuuuuuu
@jayzarchiveАй бұрын
I’m coming back🤍
@amaliasafaryan42565 ай бұрын
1500 for rent? haha definitely don't live in LA then 🤣
@MB27270Ай бұрын
✔
@bonishiblll6853 күн бұрын
This video just went out after and is very similar to this one: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jqXJmp2EnsyIobssi=aZRq7axX8U8EqUum Kinda sus
@MB27270Ай бұрын
☑
@bbeautifulporsche5 ай бұрын
🌟💐
@j284zeinaamrmahmoud72 ай бұрын
Coke is on the boycott list
@KeyasiaTorres7 ай бұрын
Do you think you can do a car video ❤
@Rockstarmade2242 ай бұрын
Number 1. Parents money
@jayzarchiveАй бұрын
Mannn I wish💔💔
@Rockstarmade224Ай бұрын
@@jayzarchive stop the cap
@livelaughlove542120 күн бұрын
It’s not her problem you lack worth ethic
@MALIKMTLАй бұрын
Waist of money just stay at your parents until you can afford to own 😂 your landlord is probably using you rent as a car payment 😂😂😂
@jayzarchiveАй бұрын
He probably is. At least I’m mentally happy where I’m at