HOW TO GET YOUR RIDING CONFIDENCE BACK| Helping our subscriber overcome fear after a broken pelvis

[@debbiecole3555]

❤the 80/20 rule is so important it’s the first thing you should learn. Good video…..watch it again! ❤

[@christinecreeney4207]

You are the bravest lass Ash to go infront of all the viewers like this.You are inspirational.

[@YourRidingSuccess]

YAY!! She is amazing x

[@emmafalconer6407]

Listening to the addiction to horses voice instead of the procrastination voice is defo the voice to listen to - we only live once and have to make the most of every opportunity. So fortunate Ash has you Alicia for support and encouragement as fear can be paralysing, so much easier said than done! 🥰🤩

[@YourRidingSuccess]

This is true! :) Thank you!

[@carolinehall5527]

So, so good to have found this, and grateful to Ash to have shared her story...I broke 4 ribs a year ago, stupid fall in the arena!! Then 8 weeks later…just getting back into it and my horse tripped in canter and I went over his head…and got a crush fracture to my vertebra! Then….bought a really sweet wee horse when I was recovering, who needed lots of time off….now here we are a year on, aaaand….time to get back in the saddle on the new horse…and all the fears are there! I still have the old boy btw, he has arthritis in his hocks which is what caused all the trouble. So I’m doing lots of work on managing anxiety, and fear and working on my fitness and skills!

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Oh no! That must be super scary for you!! But LOVE the fact you still decided to get up and conquer that fear!! Go YOU!!

[@kimcloss7918]

Thanks for sharing! A huge takeaway for me is to break down the fear with theory and deal with your mind first so that doesn’t interfere when it’s ride time.

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@reikolinde16]

Way to go Ashy! Your seat is so much more ‘connected’ to the horses back now (with your new tools). Just beautiful!

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Yes!!! So much progress! x

[@sylviarogers4510]

I soo love your 80/20 rule! Especially in the canter it’s such an awesome feeling to stand in your stirrups and let the horse canter underneath you. Now I’m starting to get the hang of it in the trot too. Thank you Alicia! And what an awesome job Ash.

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Love it!!

[@sammurray133]

This is by far the most relatable video I have seen on your channel. I'm currently going through this for the second time and this time its a very similar story to Ash. Thank you for doing these videos and showing that we are all in thr same boat! Sitting in tears watching Ash tell us what it felt like trying to get back on. So familiar to me ❤️❤️❤️

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Aww thank you Sam! :)

[@benitascott3533]

I think we all became invested in Ash's story after your video of her first ride back, post-injury. At the time, I thought "OMG, that's huge!!" & was surprised that she mentioned that fact like it was of incidental importance! And she didn't appear to be tentative or holding back at all. Very brave, I thought!! A great demo of how proactively dealing with rider fear, can really help one, get back in the saddle & move forward again, with confidence! So great idea to reveal the full story, Alicia, especially now, in the lead up to the Rider-fear Masterclass!! Cannot wait for the full story! Good on you Ashie: Fearless Riders United!! And thankyou for sharing, Ashlee, Alicia & The YRS Team! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🐎🐎❤🙏

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Thanks for following Ash's story with us, Benita!! So glad you enjoyed it x

[@kellyross551]

Well done you for not letting fear take over what you really won’t to do x

[@YourRidingSuccess]

YAY!!

[@bethjenkins4204]

This is so huge for me to hear right now! I am just getting back into riding with a little cow horse who is quick as heck. I already fell off of her because I was so unbalanced going into right canter that I just slipped off. I was able to get right back on and have been able to do right canter but it is UGLY! I am unbalanced and that causes me to have the fear. I would love to see more of Ashy! She is such a inspiration! and of course you too Alisha! 😉

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Thank you for watching, Beth! Love that you got so much from this video x

[@lesliedarling9324]

So hard to even comment on this riding fear can’t wait to watch have my reminder on 👍

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Good job on getting that notification on! We can't wait to see you there! x

[@everydayequestrian3401]

Learning that I have the power myself to get back to the FUN of riding after an accident a few years ago leaving me with a broken leg. Will definitely be doing more research on TSMG and NLP. Thankyou so much for sharing, this resonated with me so much it was like hearing myself speak about how I feel when I think of my riding.

[@YourRidingSuccess]

You are welcome and thanks so much for being here! :)

[@lynthomson4297]

Looking so forward to this video on Sunday. Thanks Ash x

[@YourRidingSuccess]

So glad you enjoyed the video! Look forward to having you join us at the masterclass!

[@elenamiyagi6669]

Wowww Ash you are so brave!!! I would like to have some help some day to get the confidence to do it. Is so hard when you have to do it by your self

[@danaadams9165]

Such a big difference in your position and seat afterwards! Thank you for sharing your experience, so we can all learn from it. Congratulations for surpassing your issues and getting back on :-)

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Yes!! She is amazing! Thanks for watching x

[@alisonmortimer9830]

Goooo Ashy Inspirational story. Thank you for sharing 💜

[@anastasiaselkirk8689]

I am so glad I am not the only one having these thoughts while riding! I love the sport and spending time with the horses...but that fear is constantly holding me back and weighing heavy. Like ash, I also constantly make excuses as to why I can't ride even though I want to so badly!!

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Thanks for sharing this with us! That must be super scary for you!

[@erynd2524]

I can totally relate!!!! My horse spooked on the way back from a trail ride and I corkscrewed off her back and landed on hard ground, breaking my L4 vertebrae and transverse process. The next 3 months allowed that fear to hook me like a fish.

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Oh no!! That must be super scary for you!! I hope this helped in getting back the confidence you need in riding x

[@Στεφανία-φ1τ]

Oh my God! I had a fracture at my vertebra because of a similar situation. My coach suggested me not to ride again, but my doctor said it was ok to get back on a horse after six months... What about you?

[@jennoula]

Ash is such an inspiration and I admire the bravery and willingness she shows us every time we see a video with her. I have a misaligned pelvis and still have minor wobbles with my confidence but I am working very hard to try and over come those and my social anxiety issues that crop up sometimes when faced with new people in my weekly group sessions. Like Ash, I do not own my own horse, nor am I able to be horsey as often as I dream to but I am stubborn and refuse to give up on my horsey dream as being around horses, not just riding them, helps my mental health in huge ways, just wish I was closer to London so I could have an Alicia hug too! And ofc to smooch that lovely black Wes nose! Love to you all ❤️❤️❤️

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Thank you for sharing so much about you! We love that you never gave up on your dream and glad it's been helping you in many ways! x

[@laurastott940]

Thankyou Ash for sharing your fear and actually showing us how you overcome it! Amazing and so Plzd for you ❤ 💥💥🐎

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Thank you so much!!

[@Loocarrx]

Thanks Alicia. I’ve been slightly nervous to ride my stallion in a few months since he got a bit silly out on hacks and would take off cantering, and my biggest fear is falling off. I’ve moved my horses to a new yard with a round pen! Today I finally got back on and loved it xxx

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Wow! You are awesome!! You did so good!

[@Moonmoona1211]

I have really been focusing on 80/20 and realize now it isn't just to improve my riding but to secure my safety. Seems obvious but this makes me a lot more confident that I won't be in a situation where I'm "sitting" on the horse and thus taken wherever they decide to go if things go sideways. Thanks as always! - Anne

[@YourRidingSuccess]

YAY!! So glad this video has helped in making you feel a lot more confident in your riding! We can't wait to hear more about your progress! x

[@clover426]

My biggest takeaway was the 80/20 rule and that you shouldn’t sit on the horse , but have control of how much weight you have in your seat verses your legs. Thank you so much for sharing your story, you’ve improved so much! I can’t wait to see more of your progress!!❤️❤️🐴

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Thanks for sharing!! I love this! :)

[@kirstylewis633]

Aww you are so good! So encouraging and I wish I had someone like you in my life to help through my problems. Ash is a very fortunate lady to have your support and help. X

[@YourRidingSuccess]

She is super amazing!! Thanks so much for watching this x

[@OfficiallyBreezy61303]

Best of luck going forward Ash! This helps me so much. With lack of riding and progress in lessons my confidence has nose dived, thank you so much this is helping me a lot!

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Woohoo! Glad this has been helpful for you!

[@BLUNDENEA]

Well done ash! 🥰🥰

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Thank you! :)

[@DARKhorses73]

Whaat?!?! She looks like a grand prix rider. She looks great on horses. Unbelievable!!! 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Thanks for watching!!

[@sarahbennett5312]

Ash you are great looking good u are an inspiration ✨️ 💖

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Thanks, Sarah! x

[@marie-pierrebelanger7329]

Amazing moments of your stories thanks for sharing

[@YourRidingSuccess]

You're welcome! :)

[@8sour8]

I’m so excited!! ❤️ Hope she gets better at riding (since she broke her pelvis)

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Yes!! x

[@abbeythompson3270]

Thank you Ash for being vulnerable and real with the world. You are so brave on and off the horse. You should be so proud of yourself! Looking forward to learning more about fearless riding on Sunday in the masterclass!! Mwah xx

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Ash is super amazing!! You can be like her, too! See you at the masterclass! x

[@nailatasco6738]

happy to hear your story very inspiring

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@lisamaher6388]

Great job Ash and Alicia. Very inspiring.

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Yes, super!! She is awesome x

[@lisaeaton1210]

Very good to hear your again.

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Thank you! x

[@nataliebudge4798]

Ash you are practically me! I’m currently hitting the bottom of the rut, with the collapsing forward and taking my leg off and leaning on the reins, and it’s awful! I hope I can get to where you are! Worried I might’ve missed this evenings seminar though! Will there be a replay?

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Hi Natalie! Thank you so much for tuning in! You can definitely get there!! Could you kindly email us at [e-mail] regarding the replay? x

[@carollinnan4268]

thanks so much for this video, i haven't been able to ride my young ottb consistently for a couple months now due to a family member having a medical issue. so am looking forward to this video series!

[@YourRidingSuccess]

I'm sorry to hear this, Carol! We hope your family member recovers soons!

[@TaylorParnell]

SOOO EXCITED FOR THIS!! My new horse is very spooky this is just what we need ❤️🙌🏻🙏🏻🔥

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Woohoo!!! We're all super excited x

[@drcparrott]

great story Ash!! I took WAY too long to get back in the saddle after my last fall. Looking forward to the masterclass :)

[@YourRidingSuccess]

So excited you will be joining us at the masterclass! :]

[@beateindahl8100]

Way to go Ash☺🐴 Great work 🤩

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Yes!! She is amazing x

[@danaberries11]

Yayy Ashy!!! Thank you SO much for sharing your experience, and all your lessons with us 💖💖💖 Your story is crazy, and I can't believe we've see every one of your rides since your accident! Like, what?! That's incredible! You look so good up there!! Can't WAIT for the seminar this weekend!

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Yes!! Ash is amazing!! See you at the masterclass x

[@annikak.4734]

Can’t wait to see her further progress! 😍

[@YourRidingSuccess]

We're all super excited! x

[@HiveCreekFarm]

Thank you so much for sharing your story, Ash!! It’s so awesome to hear that having a plan and relearning your seat is worth the retraining process! Can’t wait for this weekend!

[@YourRidingSuccess]

So glad you enjoyed this video! We can't wait to see in the masterclass x

[@josephinegaarde4476]

Wauw, what an inspiring story Ash!! Thank you so much for telling it for all of us to learn from it. SO glad to hear that you are back on track with great help from Alicia and that you now have some tools you can use when you feel fear!

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Thanks so much for watching! Yes, Ash is super amazing in dealing with her fears x

[@suzanneholland9460]

Thanks Ash amazing work

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Yes! 👏👏👏

[@philippcheyne9987]

Inspiring story Ash, gives me hope as a much older woman returning to riding after decades! Love to know what TSMG stands for

[@YourRidingSuccess]

This is super exciting!! See you at the masterclass x

[@Life.on.the.wrong.leg2020]

This is me!!! Little scare when I was riding in the lunging area even, fell of - broke my hip. Took me a lot of time to rebuilding my confidence when I was finally allowed back on my horse (which I bought one week before my fell). it's just recently that I started to feel a bit more confident, but I still avoid some situations. What helped you the most Ashley? Tinkerbell and the pelvis in the middle, what else? I can fully relate to you Ashley. You go girl 💪 💗 See you sunday!!!

[@YourRidingSuccess]

So excited you will be joining us at the seminar! We will be discussing the system we used with Ash that helped her :]

[@melissarobertson386]

Great video guys!

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Hi Melissa! Could you email us at [e-mail]? x

[@jennybuckley4640]

Thanks for sharing your story Ash. I have felt more stable in the saddle since learning the 80 20 weight distribution from these videos. I'm interested in learning more. I have a fear of the horse tripping and falling since that happened in a lesson a few months ago in canter. I had very bruised ribs, so now I ride in a back protector. Trouble is, the bulk at the front of the back protector made me fall backwards whilst dismounting the big Clydesdale I ride and I hurt my elbow!

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Thanks so much for tuning in and sharing Jenny!! Hope you will be joining us at the masterclass! x

[@johnjoefitzsimons1313]

This is a great video you are super confidence builder wish l had as a coach

[@YourRidingSuccess]

YAY! Thanks so much for watching this x

[@samiaachard6118]

omg i cant wait Alicia! xxxx

[@pascalegibelli3971]

👌👌

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Yes!!!

[@samiaachard6118]

@@YourRidingSuccess omg you replied! x love your channel btw xxx

[@ninaspringer7387]

Hi! I bought the whole Fearless Mastery program, and it does help, but now I see there is this TSMG aspect that can help even more. Is this included in the program I bought?

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Hi Nina! Thank you so much for tuning in and reaching out! Could you email us at [e-mail] so we can help you x

[@englishcentre-gj]

See you on Sunday 😊

[@YourRidingSuccess]

See you! x

[@nathanamesbury5879]

When I am riding I am always afraid either to fall or do do something wrong, but I enjoy riding none the less just wish I would rode "correctly "

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Hi Nathan, how can we help? Please let us know what you are working on.

[@nathanamesbury5879]

@@YourRidingSuccess the most important part for me is how can I be sure I am doing things right? BTW I am using my partners KZbin account my name is Petra xx

[@puddleduckvi]

Will this class be available prerecorded later? I’d love to take it but I’m not available on that day and time 😔

[@YourRidingSuccess]

We will have a recording available for those that have registered x

[@puddleduckvi]

@@YourRidingSuccess signed up so I can view later. Thanks!

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Love it!

[@vickiosgood7182]

Hi guys, does anyone know where to get Alicia and Toby’s new video ? Thanks.

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Hi Vicki! We have a new video with Alicia and Toby coming out Monday 6pm UK time x

[@sylviapayne2491]

Are you able to watch this later if you cannot make the time slot x

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Yes, the replay will be sent to the ones who have registered. xx

[@tinawhitfield126]

Hi Riders! I searched "TSMJ" and can't find any material on it to learn more. Any suggestions?

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Hi Tina! Thanks so much for tuning in!! It is actually TSMG! If you would like some more info you can email us at [e-mail] and we can send you some info xx

[@knegg9333]

I did fall of my old Horse 2 times on a big circle in canter. And in the open spot I just got a bad feeling and the fence comes to fast. The horse did go the wrong way and I hit my back and arms on the fence. So I’m scared to canter in a big circle when the fence/wall comes to fast. I get dizzy every time and cry if the horse go the other way

[@YourRidingSuccess]

So sorry to hear about your fall!! We would love to help you work on getting your confidence back! You can reach out to us at [e-mail] if you need help xx

[@helensmith5369]

Hey guys i know this is an old video where do i learn the system that was mentioned in this video i had a massive fall from a spook a few weeks ago fell on my head broke my helmet and was barley able to walk for a week same sort of situation i have been on but the whole time i am tense thinking this could happen again because like she said it wasnt at a jump or anything i did not even see what he was so scared of but i feel scared and not sure if im enjoying it anymore and he is a lovley horse but does do a few spooks and even a small one now makes me scared Kind Regards from Australia. X

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Hi Helen! We would love to help you - you can sign up for our free class on overcoming fear here: www.yourridingsuccess.com/class-fear - let me know if you have any questions :)

[@puddleduckvi]

My biggest takeaway is that you can overcome your fear

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Yes! Love it! :)

[@Piet-wu6pv]

😭😭😭 I fall off my horse and now I'm to scared to ride and it hurts to my to see friends starting to jump and I'm to scared i just need someone to speak to that lost their confidence 💔 😔

[@YourRidingSuccess]

Have you registered for our free workshop on overcoming riding fear? We would love to help you!

[@Piet-wu6pv]

@YourRidingSuccess no i haven't but thank you very much for telling me!🥰