5 Ways to Tell if Someone's Lying - Catch a Cheating Partner

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[@markAngel847]

You know she's lying: 1. When she says yes. 2. When she says no. 3. When she's awake. 4. While she sleeps. 5. When shes breathing.

[@jimnech5066]

It is really easier than that, if her lips are moving, she is lying!

[@aCycloneSteve]

So if you want her to stop lying she has to stop breathing? You better hope the prosecutor doesn't ever read this post. 🙂

[@gregoryadler7806]

When her lips are moving?

[@Jcope-ce9ef]

Your right ,innocent people Don't get angry or start to cry.

[@JRINASIA]

My 47 years of the Philippines. Filipinos & Filipinas never take responsibility of anything period.

[@TomScott__]

Find a woman you can trust. If you constantly think she is lying, then she might as well be lying. You will not have peace in your relationship without trust. Once the trust is gone, let the relationship go.

[@pcabraham2580]

I agree. Why date someone who you don't trust?

[@ExpatNTraining]

100% Spot On! Sadly, 99.9% of Filipinas I have encountered act precisely as stated in this video.

[@GordonRogers-b1n]

Thanks for the info. My filipina goes to the philippines sometimes to visit her children, she stays in a province that has bad wifi most of the time, Or I am led to believe that. One time I finally got through and got wifi long enough to visit with her. She got annoyed at me for asking a few questions about her visit there. She wasn't answering my text either. So I'm going to let it go and separate. Then she can have all the fun she wants with whomever.

[@garyt7232]

When she can't keep her lies straight, then it begs the question what else has she lied about.

[@gregwil694]

Would be gone before that question arose.

[@themacker894]

Great video. You may end up speaking to these ladies a lot longer than I would have. ;) I just don’t have time in my life for games. “You disappeared for 18 hours and can’t give me a good reason? Sorry you made that choice.”

[@gregwil694]

Me too. Bye bye

[@adriver4471]

Don’t expect a filipina to ever admit that she lied to you They simply won’t admit lying even when proved 😮

[@johnbrown0224]

I caught a cheater who had committed to an exclusive relationship with me. I set up a fake profile and chatted with her using a pic of a better looking guy, a few years younger and a little wealthier. She took the bait big time. I copied and pasted all the cheating conversations and sent them to her. The fake profile did the same. Never heard from her again.

[@BillyTimes-dw7vs]

Dude if u haven't met in person she belongs to the world how old are you??? 10

[@celuiquipeut6527]

​​@@BillyTimes-dw7vsDid you miss the part where she was in a monogamic relationship with him? They both agreed to a LDR. Faithfulness and loyalty is non negotiable in ANY RELATIONSHIP. What she did is cheating. Good on him for testing her. Or maybe you are one of those who is ok with cheating?

[@FoundingYouTuber-2005]

Wow, good job. I do feel bad for how you felt at the precise moment she took the bait. I sense happiness (that your clever trap worked) mixed with despair (that your relationship was over) and a sense of relief (that you found out early on that she was a cheat).

[@etfremd]

Bro! You don’t have any relationship without meeting her in person! These are Reekay’s rules. Yeah you can meet and start a relationship but when you get on the plane your relationship is over until you are back boots on the ground! Filipinas require 100% attendance….So she really did not cheat you but she lied to you certainly. Expect that. They will chat many until you show up in person…

[@MickeyMousePark]

@@etfremd but when you get on the plane your relationship is over until you are back boots on the ground! i talked to a expat that found out that: his girl was fantastic while he was in country...they would drop him off at MNL then on the way back home she was boom booming the driver ..safe time for her since he could not text or call her while in flight..of course she told him the driver would be a great pick as a driver since he was her "cousin" ...expat finally figured it out after a few trips in and out of the PI

[@Gary-lj7pi]

Guys don't be a simp .

[@etfremd]

Hitting the nail on the head with this one Reekay! As she stood to defend her boyfriend’s story (lie) and did not take my side…ask the question is this a woman in love? NOPE! All very clear…

[@etfremd]

@@trysciencegood point or just with your money….

[@markakira8988]

Personal experience, she always answers he texts in another room and constant late texts at night, past 11pm.

[@ricktharuler7911]

I just caught my girl cheating today 😭 crazy to see this video as I go on KZbin 😳 but this video is so true. I’m 7000 miles away so LDR is so easy to cheat. But social media in this case helped me catch her. Hurts like hell but I will just lick my wounds and move on.

[@troobix_s]

How did social media helped you to catch her?

[@stopcensoringmen5044]

Watch out for the projection, deflection and emotional manipulation.

[@Wistundra]

you nailed it PERFECTLY !

[@TheyCalledMeT]

no young woman in todays time "forgets" her phone .. if that would happen .. hell would freeze over and she would turn around and go get it within an instance

[@dovoso5685]

555 Reminds me of judge Judy... Great video 😊😊

[@TomScott__]

22 hours isn't sleeping. 22 hours is a coma. Be careful how much you explain to her about why you know she is lying while confronting her. Too much of that is only making her a better liar. Save yourself some pain. If she doesn't admit she lied, tell you the truth and be better in the future, breakup with her right there. It's only going to get worse. You will lose more money and self-respect and your breakup pain will increase the longer you stay.

[@michaelpalosaari9460]

Accurate on all accounts and it goes both ways. Thanks again!! Peace ☮️

[@paulfri1569]

Great content 👍 Long distance relationship are frustrating as. Yeah sleeping patterns or they stay up all night is a big sign and then she says she might be pregnant even though you haven't seen her for 3 months + you see that she had her have period before you went back home.. It's not good, They have too many options and temptations that's why it's so easy for a woman these days even a average looking one .

[@hafiseanwar1366]

Another great video Reekay! Thank you for sharing youer experiences and wisdom on this very important matter!

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

Glad it was helpful!

[@marcrichard7251]

A lot of gaslighting instead of owning up to what she did….

[@theone3774]

Outstanding analysis..... Great topic. Well done. Thanks

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

Much appreciated!

[@mikelevesque9389]

Listen carefully to the words she uses. Filipinas tend to use the same english words she's exposed to. If new words pop up and her syntax changes. You can bet shes chatting to another foreigner

[@RandyRudder-c4g]

My thought is why anyone would be doing a distant of 7,000 miles away would be even online phone or dating program. If you want a lovely lady in your life there go live there. If you are not ready to move there why even waste your time or money feelings.

[@Ron-oe7hg]

In my experience bro. It doesn't matter my testing her or questioning her to get to the bottom of things. Im simply not gonna do that confrontation type thing. If i feel something is wrong , im just gonna tell her i have to go, then leave. Its better if i leave while shes not there but im walking.

[@dunementat2191]

One lie is one too many… hasta la vista baby!

[@rlh125]

"There're that many drug dealers on the beach at 1:30 in the morning??" 😂 All of the things you list in this video apply to women in the west just as well as they do in the Philippines. My nightmare scenario is getting with a Filipina that cheats on me. Been there here in the west with my ex wife. It didn't break my heart, but I don't like being made a fool. It also offends me that someone I treated so well and didn't cheat on when I could have betrayed me.

[@jeffjohnston3504]

He's spot on with this. No stranger to Filipina ways. I've been listening to videos from a lot of people over the course of 2 or 3 years. There's only 3 people I trust with information. This guy, The Filipina Pea, and Danny from Whiskey & Rum Pro. Thank you for the great information and entertainment.

[@aCycloneSteve]

How can you tell? Her lips are moving. 🙂

[@andyburton8346]

It’s not just filipinos it’s All females!!! 😂

[@thanhmac5672]

Very helpful thanks. Good luck to your new life

[@Jcope-ce9ef]

Oh God! When do they don't lie?

[@bu5761]

I know you know. But this is some old guy shiii.. Been playing these BS games here in the west for years. Just don’t play the ‘no accountability’ game. Just like anywhere, if she’s doing something behind your back she’s already made up her mind. Leave it alone, just stop and walk away. Pushing the issue makes it worse. It’s not worth it fellas.

[@floribertosousa2251]

Hi Reekay. Thanks for a great video with great advice. I think from your list of 5 things to "watch out" for, mine would have to be number 4. Take care and keep up the great work.

[@ervinalexander1734]

You're so right and on point 👉 I have meet some Filipina who would not take accountability and always want to be the victim 😊

[@Jcope-ce9ef]

It's hard to know when their telling the truth.

[@jtadventures183]

Do you know how to tell when a Filipina is lying when there lips are moving.

[@fornoeyesonly3870]

Yep! Plenty of situations like that in USA. Why I'm done here. I'll hollar at ya when I get over there.

[@CLCIII]

More Great Reekay advice from someone who both knows and cares. If I have reason to distrust a woman it will certianly be a good one and I'm not gonna play the 20 questions game. Just not gonna put myself in that position. Best way to avoid all this drama is to be there with this person and have eyes on the situation. To anyone that puts up with this kind of behavior, more power to you. As Always, May God Bless you and yours! 😇

[@jesustorralba2360]

People lie. The only way to avoid being affected by people lies is to not have anyone close enough to you that would then affect you with their lies. People can lie all they want as long as their lies won't affect you then they can accumulate enough lie points to qualify for hell and it won't worry or affect you.

[@RandyRudder-c4g]

I am not even on social media because don’t want it causing problems in a relationship. When I was on social media had thousands of ladies hitting on me. Just like opening three other businesses with my ex the ladies that were customers were hitting on me. Get rid of problems like that on both sides and live happily.

[@kenbeck6779]

Let's break up and were done" Ok peace out

[@emileneslo5695]

Keep in mind that in the Philippines blackouts or fallouts for electricity and internet/wife are the norm over there. So her saying I could not charge my phone and or I didn't respond due to no internet can be legit. Keyword: 'can'

[@wolfgangpagel6989]

You cannot catch her and make her tell the truth. Your power is in walking away. You can't reach her? Walk away. She is not worth the effort.

[@russellzigler2180]

Great video thank you.

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

Very welcome

[@fedsaitam5755]

Better install micro navigation on her phone or in her car so u could easely trace the where about of ur partner and u will easely know if shes lying

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

there are many apps for that on google-play.

[@T0mThompson]

Listen to all the videos sounds for me women in Philippines are the like here in EU. At least the weather is better :)

[@IntrovertRoad]

I’ve learned not to expect a reasonable, rational response when calling out someone in the Philippines about anything. Especially in the actual moment. You may, just maybe get them to own something they’ve done wrong at a much later date and time. But wouldn’t count on it. They are happy to leave most things unresolved and expect you to forget or let it go. My Filipina gf drives like a maniac, gets called out by me or other drivers and she just cant wrap her head around the idea that she was the one that did something wrong. She just gets angry and curses at everyone, never apologizes. Only to later admit wrong while blaming the way I confront her as reason she gets so angry. (Simply asking, “why would you do that”) 😮😅

[@FoundingYouTuber-2005]

Trust your gut guys. If you are suspicious of what your Filipina is up to, odds are your suspicions are accurate. Our host is correct. If you are in a love, affectionate, or exclusive relationship with your Filipina, it is NOT normal nor acceptable for her to, for example, "disappear" for five to eight hours (at least not without your knowing beforehand what she is doing). Disappearing acts are not what loving exclusive couples pull on each other. Bonus Tip: Mutual trust is the bedrock foundation in all love relationships. The old saying couples recite from time to time has been proven 110% accurate over the centuries: "Ours is a relationship built on a foundation of trust." If a love relationship does not have that, it is doomed to fail. Bottom Line: If after silent reflection you conclude your relationship is in a death spiral, it is time to pull that ripcord guys, and guide your parachute to land somewhere else.

[@oahuguy3918]

Reekay, I've been following you ever since you started Vlogging in Bohol and I don't remember you ever being in a LDR... Did this instance occur while you were visiting family during the Chrismas holidays?

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

after Vi and I had spent all of 2020 and part of 2021 locked down together during covid in cebu, i had to go to calif for a while because my mother was having medical issues. so it took some time to get back into the PH after that.

[@Silverarrow2]

Interesting video!

[@ngothianhquy7561]

Hi reeky what do you use to generate these ai image model

[@guardianmiketv1586]

Good Job 👍

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

Thanks 😁

[@johnwatson8323]

👍👍👍👍👍🔥🔥🔥

[@TheTreasureSeeker01]

Trust but verify!

[@maxingaroundtheglobe]

exellent advise.

[@RandyRudder-c4g]

I have heard those exact relationships that I was paying for half million dollar home on the lake they wanted so bad and that is exactly why I ended relationships with beautiful ladies.

[@timhnc75]

There lips are moving 🤣

[@Realstranded]

This is true lol what you said there stories dont make sense

[@jeffmccord575]

Good stuff to know wherever guys are in relationships. However there is something I'd like to bring up. Being logical like us men are doesn't compute with women. Asking logical questions automatically puts women on the defensive. Maybe logical hear and there, but not a line of questions. They start to figure out you are on to them. I don't have any real alternative tactics and have no practical experience with anyone from the Philippines. The exception being Philippinas brought back to the US.

[@Abelius]

We have a saying here: "Se agarra antes a un mentiroso que a un cojo". The more prevalent issue is when we don't want to see the truth. And maybe that's why Point 5 is valid: they know there are more weak-willed guys than strong-willed ones.

[@SmittyInVegas]

Ahh. there was a lot of deflect and project narcissistic behavior. Yeah. Just keep gaslighting me baby.Lol

[@Jcope-ce9ef]

There's more than 5

[@billisrael6676]

It doesn't happen only in the Philippines. I live in the Dominican Republic and I do not believe any women here tells the truth. My ex girlfriend was a master at lying. Her reactions were and still are exactly as you describe. She never started crying but she would get angry. Her favorite response was "I am tired of talking about this". Once she said this I knew I was very close to the truth. Another of her favorite sayings when I caught her cheating was I don't care for him, it was only sex. Once a person lies to you it is better to be done with them. It will only continue. It is better to be done and go on your way.

[@MickeyMousePark]

low bat/no load...

[@franksmith3602]

Don't, Believe she has.... 15 uncle's from five country's. Who always visit for a week.....and they stay in and just talk....😂😅😂😅😂, I love you no shit. Buy me Honda...WE do boom boom.....🎉😂

[@rayleo529]

Man.....thats just women in general. 😅😅😅😅

[@lagoonlane]

Hilarious

[@BillysWild]

Why do you have stretch marks around your mouth? Well I ate a whole watermelon.

[@FoundingYouTuber-2005]

Excellent presentation. Liked, subscribed, and rang that bell. Congratulations on getting to 100K subscribers!!

[@Lifebeyondthesea]

thanks!! :)

[@craigjones3846]

Living in the southern US is dealing with women that weigh at least as much as men and horrible life decisions. I was a CHAD and the very few who aren't sweathogs we call them have been ran through more times than the holland tunnel.