How To Handle Money In Marriage ? | Working Couple Money Issues

[@dogoodforall8466]

This the another All time Blockbuster vedio ......it should be spread like a fire in whole nation.....

[@drnidhigupta7]

Being judged in every relationship and at workplace…. You have touched the deepest chord……best video…. How you know the real feelings of women. Salute

[@Rishitiwari97]

I am 26 year old, not yet married. But still I watch your each video and like it so that I can show it to my future partner and work on it. Big help Sirji.. Ye sbhi bate Krna 100% zaroori hai.. You are helping the society..

[@1instareels368]

i am 18 but still watching🤣🤣🤣

[@chainpo4683]

I am 4 still watching 😂😭

[@bignavin10]

Dont get married. Thats the best thing to do..

[@rashgyl25]

@@bignavin10 If you listen to Sirji's videos then you know that is the worst solution🤣🤣

[@nishik810]

+1

[@swastika157]

I was almost teary when u mentioned that working women are being judged everywhere and honestly, not just by others, constant self blame that am unable to raise my child properly.. at the start of video I was bit repulsive to the idea that woman like to spend on things that they can tag.. but as the video continued.. I’d say I am in agreement to a larger percentage (still not 100%).. this video gave me some insight into how some of the relationships (acquaintances) are troubled, and I immediately shared the video.. thanks for this wonderful eye opener.

[@krupalidalal8046]

Yes I completely agree with you that women are judged everywhere they go...and also they never get credit or appreciation of what they do or bring to the table...

[@kapooranuj]

Amazing comment. Thanks for the insight

[@tanulatawalawalkar2375]

This is the first time I am hearing someone appreciating women's struggle with the menustrial cycle and harmonal changes. Thank you so much for mentioning it.

[@rameshrana12]

Gold nuggets. There should be a mandatory pre - wedding course for marital counselling, behaviour, expectations, rights as well as duties which make can work as a launchpad for a successful marriage towards 99% relationships.

[@sharmajyoti1120]

My money is my money, and your money is also my money....so true

[@shivanshsharma9999]

But that's not fair tbh ..if u r also earning then u must have helped him financially also ...

[@shyamsunder4697]

I am depressed and want to quit my job because my husband spend all his money on my in laws even they earn a lot, and he expect me to save my earnings for our future and kid . He dont want to spend his money on me.

[@shivanshsharma9999]

U can talk and discuss with him politely and please don't quit ur job mam ..every problem have a solution, u just have to be found which u already done , now it's only need to work on it and resolve it as soon as possible. 👍

[@sandeepintown]

My case- I & my wife were both working & earn joint annual salary of more than ₹75 lacs per annum. However she doesn't want to spend anything, she wanted me to buy a new house & manage household expenses entirely without any contribution. I don't expect her to support me financially but for bigger expenses like house purchase it's expected that she supports me financially. She & her parents expect that since I am husband, it's only my responsibility to manage house while her money is only for herself. This situation surely makes me insecure specially with Indian legal system which is skewed towards females. Situation became so worse, we tried a lot to solve it but it didn't work out. Finally we have parted & moved seperate in life..

[@ravijeeverma876]

Best thing u did

[@sandeepintown]

@@cauliflowerhead2735 you could have been right had you not assumed that she would be earning lesser while keeping your feminist mindset aside. Indeed you could have asked if you required clarity rather than inconveniently judging. Now that we both earn almost equally why is it wrong for her to contribute for home purchase which she & her parents were pressuring me into? Her parents visited my place before marriage and should have pointed out any concerns then rather than cribbing post marriage. They want us to move to a bigger better place without support is total hypocrisy. Plus with our great Indian legal system, i could have been doomed if I had invested alone... Indian rules unfortunately are completely one-sided which doesn't give any confidence...

[@harshlaws9408]

@@sandeepintown feminism is a cancer which is eating up our society

[@priyankapattanaik5414]

Next time just keep in mind...yes you did good thing,but i know it's not easy for you ...fact is that parents hi ghar barbad kar dete hai..

[@user-xk6ku7zg2l]

This is very sad why girls have this type of mentality

[@dss8983]

India me aise nai hota h. Agar divorce hota h to wife ko bas maintenance amount milta h na ki 50%. Isliye women jyada concerned rehti hain about money kyunki ek insecurity hoti h future ko lekar. Agar aap apne ghar ke liye time effort sab dein career ko neglect karke and ek din after divorce aap kahin ke nahi raho sab choot jaaye.

[@baibhabmahanta8967]

sahi hei respect woman 4 wat c did 4 d family, I m lucky 2 hav a lovely wife

[@Ninanani-4085]

Great 👍👍💐💐

[@nootankaushik5449]

आपके vedios बहुत अच्छे लगते हैं बहुत ही सरल और सहज भाषा और उदाहरणों से आप बड़े complecated मसलों को समझा देते हैं शुक्रिया

[@sunitasuraj7569]

Very relevant , practical video....patiyoN ke dil bade hote hain....apni poori salary housewife ke hath pe rakh dete hain..,. working women Kam hi aisa kar pati hai....but what u said make a lot of sense...focus should be building up a beautiful relationship

[@SB-ht6lx]

Sir, I feel businessman misuse and does not respect salary of wife. They divert their gains again in business or spend on parents/siblings/niece/nephew to show off and enjoy credit and attention they get. The working lady runs the house, manages expenses of kids and totally at loss be it physically, mentally or financially. They also put savings of wife to recover business loss.

[@GirijaDD]

This can happen with men in good jobs earning high income and leading a life of glamour and glitter partying and pubbing. Possible that some women do it too.

[@rajniparihar1068]

Very well said words sir. I am going through the same.

[@prashantchauhan1440]

I am 27 and looking for the life partner, learning lot from your videos sir. 🙏🙏

[@nishantsagar5861]

I used to spend all my money earlier on household expenditure but after seeing your video my wife has realised her responsibility and now sharing some part of her income. Her money is her money but she should atleast tell where it is going.

[@arvindjayaswal4246]

Sir I am viewing all of your videos. These are like SATSANG and teaching art of living for a successful life Hats off to you sir for your vision

[@theairwaydocdrmanisha]

Wonderful video totally bang on. I totally agree with uncle. One point you didn't cover is what to do when husband and wife work in family business and husband doesn't give neither salary nor pocket money and nor fixed monthly house expenses. All what he says is maanglo. In today's world if both are equally educated and earning in same business and if you everytime ask and not able to get basic expenses and wife is compromising in each and everything and husband spends lavishly without discussing then you feel you are in trap.

[@prathamnpanchal8653]

Very good topic. same situation is facing every working couple and many get divorce due to believe that they personally exploit from counter part.

[@ravijeeverma876]

Wife's money is her money Husband's Money is our Money.

[@Raythelightlife]

Because housewife is her responsibility and not husband's. To share equal money share equal house responsibility

[@kidsworld1730]

​​@@Raythelightlife yes he should contribute but not mandatory that it will be equally. Both should be discuss and based on their feasibility they can manage. It's marriage and relationship and not a contract. If you are having such thinking, you shouldn't marry and leave your life freely.

[@jeet4605]

True

[@djmind2022]

why no equal rights for men ?

[@SwetaSingh-tf1xf]

Today the men calculate the entire earnings of wife and expect her to give it entirely to them for investing in accordance with their wishes (basically property under their control). They want an independent woman to become so dependent that she even buys a saree with his consent. It’s very strange and honestly dangerous.

[@monikasehgal6055]

Exactly same thing happened with me he bought a plot with my money. And had extramarital affair with maid. He beated me .got me out from the rented house. Now I am living in working women hostel . He enjoys with the maid and snatched plot also.

[@spicecoated]

Hello sir, I have started watching your videos since a week or so.... and most of your videos feel like my thoughts are coming out of your mouth. I can relate to all your videos. Thank god, that finally someone (especially someone like you, who is so experienced and well read) is putting it out there cz when I said such things among my family and friends, everybody just dissed me.

[@KRISHNA-jo1ev]

Guru ji... kya ker rahe ho?🙏🙏 So much gyan and clarity in a single video, that every couple should watch and make implementation in their life. It can release so much stress from your family and make you and your partner relax and more trustworthy. I have to watch it 2 or 3 times more so that I be able to grasp all points and to understand how our emotions play out here... Once again thank you for such a masterpiece 🎉🎉

[@meenu666]

Amazing clarity sir ! This is how relationships are nurtured 🙏

[@aimias4123]

As for money,Husbands should hide a portion of their incomes. As for emotions, Don't open up yourself fully. Everything starts with a GREAT PROMISE. If it's not needed, then great but if ever there comes a time when everything crumbles then that will be your insurance. Don't expect our legal system to do justice. You have to do it yourself. Countries don't fight each other everyday but that doesn't stop them from making sophisticated weapons and missiles. Just in case...

[@Ninanani-4085]

Women should also do the same for her future..

[@sunitamishra6516]

Actually needed this type of clarity People feel bad to talk about it but it is bhi crucial.

[@awesomemausam8740]

Awesome video sir.. I wish ye video sabhi working married couple dekhe and samjhe..

[@priyankapattanaik5414]

Dekhne se kutch nahi hota..moti buddhi wale nahi sunenge

[@priyankathakur6734]

But sir still there are few points which you need to discuss. Agar wife working hai to husband Ghar kharch bhi wife ko dena band kar dete hai kyu phele k time me aisa nhi hota tha.

[@bobbychoudhury4415]

Good insight Sir! Kindly cover the aspect of husbands habitual of giving small and big amounts on debts to relatives without sharing with the spouse. When the greedy relatives do not return, he start squeezing house expenses somehow to manage, as pocket is one or sometimes keeps extracting from her savings too. Else stress to tolerate within family but show off outside that financial soundness.

[@harshatomar4780]

Are sir ke kehne se konsa Maan jaayenge mere papa bhi same krte h apni beti ke course ke liye paise nhi diye but rishtedar ki beti ke liye udhaar de diya 10x amount, ab Roz gaali dete h kya krlo unka

[@AzmirKhanMojlish]

In my case its totally different. My husband wants everything to be 50-50... We share house rent and bills exact 50-50. But he is not interested to buy basic necessary foods like fish meat etc...everytime i have to push him...i buy groceries and everyday foods. So it goes on like 70-30. Here i have to pay 70. Coz he doesnt buy any regular staffs for me or for home...he never brings anythjng special for me...i do...i spend...so in a way all his money is being spent and my whole salary gets finished every month...more on he doesnt help me with house chores as well...tell me how to solve this prpblem

[@SR-mv2mf]

Bad luck that you got stuck with such a selfish person.. hope your life gets better

[@nikhil99a]

Since everything is 50:50, household chores should also be 50:50

[@FauziaPires]

Please speak to him or someone who knows your husband well... may God solve this problem of yours soon.

[@icecreams214]

Divorce him as he is a coward and have no self respect.

[@Ninanani-4085]

Be strong. Never be weak emotionally. Dont cook n wash for him. Let him cook for himself.

[@manjotuppal642]

MAG sir g true knowledge given GOD bless u for bringing a small and slow but significant change in our society 🙏🏻

[@shibooster]

Your videos are so close to reality with zero sugar coating ❤ I enjoy watching it. Please continue to share these knowledge 🙏

[@deepanshuyadav816]

Exactly Sir, you touched the real problem of my married life 👍

[@akankshatr8328]

Sir, hats off for imbibing beautiful pearls of wisdom. I came across 1 video, was hooked and saw 15 videos back to back. Wonderful!

[@leelar8250]

Superb video hai guruji ❤ Watching this after a year.. it's 2023 Diwali time again 🙏🙏

[@sumitasharma537]

Your videos are really very informative practical. This one is amazing. I have gone addictive of these.👍

[@yourstube6235]

I implemented this in my family, 70% of the income will be contributed in the joint account by husband and wife. And for 30%, both can do whatever they want to do with that. Joint account would be used for all the expenses, savings, and investment.

[@utopiancity8138]

My cousin is a govt clerk and earns 30k/40k but his wife is an engineer and earns 1.2lac. but the issue is the wife has to work 24hrs - cooking and managing the household with a toddler and again has to work at office. And brother threatened his wife and kept her ATM with him and told her not to spend a single penny.

[@AnkitKumar-kk3iw]

Aisi ladkiya kaha milti hai bhai 😂 Itna kamane wali kaise shadi kr li 30k wale se? Forcefully reh rhe kya dono?

[@utopiancity8138]

@@AnkitKumar-kk3iw people like her exist too. Bas baat ye hein ki meri bhabi is a good and sweet person or Mera Bhai kamina hein. They were in love to usne shadi karli or abhi uska ek baccha bhi hein to wo nhi choregi usko as we think. Baki bad ka nhi pata.

[@AnkitKumar-kk3iw]

@@utopiancity8138 ohhh Love marriage ka scene hai isiliye 😅 Pr fir bhi bhai.....aisi ladkiya Diamond se km nhi ❤️

[@icecreams214]

The issue is the husband is feeling insecure 😢 rather than being supportive and understanding husband.

[@Ninanani-4085]

​@@icecreams214 most Men cannot handle wives superior to them.

[@ankursingh2289]

Bahut acha explain krte h.. and ye real issues h young couples ke.

[@manasahegde4574]

Very true Sir .. we as women are judged constantly .. especially working women ..

[@meenakshisingh7890]

Excellent sir, may God every man should think like you

[@GyanAddict]

Sir very informative video. You're a very well knowledgeable person. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.

[@namratamirajkar6640]

Video is a good blend of tradition and modernity!

[@Priya10009]

It was a wonderful video. Perfect guidance for couples .

[@JaanoTum]

Very good video. You explained all points well, with the times. Thx. Children sacrificed, well said ... so they have a share too as a family.

[@drnidhi6248]

Such practical advice! Keep such videos coming. Thanks for enlightening us 🙏🏻

[@spacenerd23mu-gv7od]

True , the husband's start providing for his parents and depriving the wife

[@divineLove0102]

Please continue on numerology videos after your 7 and 4 no.s... I'm eagerly waiting for ur numerology series sir ...please take 3 and 5 no. Now

[@divineLove0102]

Very nice video sir...thanks And apki video's bahut informative hoti h

[@pallavigupta3561]

Though all your videos are addictive but this is one of the best one. Spot on, to the point and reality of Indian society today. Please make more on barabar karna syndrome ek bete se nikal kar dusre ko bharna

[@geetharavi25]

What is it sir barabar karna

[@dahliajaji9547]

@@geetharavi25, if parents have two or more children and one of them is doing well in life financially and other one is not so good, parents always try to balance financial disparity by giving larger part of their asset to the child who is not so well off. This causes great strain in relationship among siblings and parents. In Hindi it is called BARABAR karna

[@jyotirrr7798]

Sir plz make a video on how to handle disagreement regarding children between husband and wife. This one was superb thanku sir .

[@rahul_vasishtha]

I always crave for improvement this is the content i need for improving my relationship. Dhanyavad shurkiya🎉

[@IamRahul_007]

Zabardastttttt Mazzaaaaa Aa Gaya, Amit Ji! 🔥♥️🔥

[@rashmiyadav4643]

Superb video. Good clarifications . Helpful for me.

[@charanjeetbhogal1033]

Bilkul sahi kaha aapane aap ki jo samajh samajhdar e Se Samjhe Aate Hain

[@debomita4776]

Sir you r just brilliant you told every thing I'm feeling in my marriage thank you so much

[@ramifly]

I am not married yet, bt your videos are very insightful. 😊 keep enlightening our minds sir❤

[@akshitaaggarwal4896]

Most of women are not aware of investment tools, they are dependent on their spouse for that. Thats why insecurity prevails in their relationship

[@raghavendrabv6142]

Thanks a lot Guruji for bringing video on this topic, i am really very very thankful to you, this really gave clarity to me on many things

[@RajeshGarg-vs3qt]

Great Sir.. Superbly elaborated

[@sanjeevgaba2371]

Sir your all videos are great, excellent, very valuable and practical for a good life, family and society. 🙏

[@utkalakalinga1270]

We both work, we follow this planning, We have made a financial target and my wife keep a track of our financial target. We have created a joint account, both our salary goes there, both are answerable if there is a big spending otherwise we are free to spend sundry expenses. So far we are doing good towards financial target and no major conflicts

[@shikhaojha1844]

I could completely relate to the women psychology you described, even I realised this while listening to this. Thank you so much Sir.

[@diptiswain5917]

Your videos are amazing sir..from the time today i saw ur first video,i have been looking forward to see more..

[@geethabapuji5314]

You are an eye opener for all of us.. true meaning of a balanced counseling sir.. god bless you

[@sgenetics]

Great video Sir! Thanks for sharing your insight!

[@priyankapattanaik5414]

I do job for helping my husband..i spend little on me..i know he needs support..kabhie kabhie mazak mein i said you owe that money...but after some year i never talk about..it could hurt him.. indirectly....now we r strong now.. 😀😀

[@dhwanibhatt3766]

Thank you Sir, for sharing...nobody teaches all this in this day and age...!!!🙏

[@kabirsingh1178]

Dear Sir I am your huge fan, in your each video i wonder 🤔 how could be two strangers be alike. I always felt in the same way.

[@khadijahkh8291]

TV,car,cellphone,trips to Goa are not good allocation of money if you don't have your own roof and your marriage has not stabilised.

[@debayansarkar4699]

Very well made and complete perspective video

[@target4ssc]

Ladkiya zyada hushiyar banne ke chakkar mein apni marriage break kar leti hn rishta pura khrab kar leta hn pyar ki jagha vyar karne lagti hn ...aur kahi bar ye sab ladki ke ghar wale sikhate hn

[@ningyoh3490]

So true 100 percent agree no one talks abt these things ...

[@anitadharwal9179]

I binged watched ur videos as soon as i discovered ur channel ...u are just fabulous ...im a working woman and i admire ur delivery and communication skill with absolute wit and humour touch while delivering in depth analysis ❤

[@kiranmalik9156]

Dono ki salary combined honi chahiye, it should be credited in joint account..or else , wife can transfer her salary from bank account to a joint account with husband ( like we do) . Isse Ghar mein barkat hoti hai. and the biggest thing is both should trust each other. 😊

[@gamesbond0074]

But Husband to generally 3-5X Zyda kamata hai patni se to isme to uska loss ho gya na?

[@progressivefarmer5583]

@@gamesbond0074 Please stop calculating profit & loss in all the relationships

[@swamagic2525]

Your husband is like my wife.she wants me to spend everything

[@Ninanani-4085]

​@@progressivefarmer5583 कल को पति ने छोड़ दिया तो? फिर वो कहां जायेगी? पति उसका अपना घर छुड़वा कर, उसकी अपनी पहचान छुड़वा कर अपने घर लाता है। तो स्त्री का रिस्क ज्यादा होता है। उसका ध्यान तो रखना ही चाहिए

[@puneetyadav7417]

Kaise bana lete ho aap aise video holistic video no question asked

[@moubhattacharyay6891]

Soo Accurate & Matured Advices On This Topic Sir🙏🏻 U've Touched Almost Every Categories Abt Money Matters In Relationships.. 👍🏻

[@dr.s.choudhury8089]

Sir, I really wish this video of yours goes viral. I want to send this to my would be fiancé but don't have the courage to.

[@ApexaKShah]

Thank you. Learned some important points.

[@telegoholic]

Much needed topic sir, thank u soo much🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@Ashokbhandariharmonicamagic]

एक उम्र गुस्ताख़ियों के लिये भी नसीब होनी चाहिये ये कम्बख़्त ज़िंदगी तो बस, अदब और लिहाज़ में ही गुज़र गई…

[@sabirashori3011]

Very relevant ! You ve really hit the nail !These days husbands feel his salary is for his parents and siblings !

[@RanjanKumar-oj8hl]

Sir extra marital affairs par video banaye🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@heerikadua55]

Uncle please make a video on how to manage tax as a couple and basic investments we should do in the initial stage of the marriage.

[@monjoroy]

Superb video Sir!! Do you also give consultation?

[@AnitaGupta-hp9dd]

We extremely need this video

[@suchitrakambi7192]

sir..paisa dono kaa hai...main thing which is absent since past 3-4 decades is trust faith among couples...u do as many vidoes as possible, but when it comes to money, none of partner will reveal his/her real salary and investments..its just because of lack of trust and future insecuities..if possible make video as to how this trust issue is to be sorted out..then eerything else will fall at its place automatically..this is kalyug sir...its not that easy to trust anybody...blind folded trust should exist among each couple sir..which is next to impossible in this kalyug sir.

[@kaulkim]

Very good advice, thank you for your service!

[@sunnyahlawat1990]

Top class video sir... really impressed by your knowledge in every field

[@heenachopra500]

Very brilliant video from both the perspectives of girls and boys, I love it

[@shikharkr]

Spot on, maza aa gaya 😊 I do almost what you told, glad to know it was the optimal way.

[@rashilamba11]

You clear our thoughts so minutely ki jisko bta rahe ye hona chahiye he is be like yar terko to bahut knowledge hai kaffi research kar rakhi hai m aaise follow sango 😂

[@sujatathakur19]

Lovely observation

[@savitasharma8137]

In my case mere husband money nahi dette..but big big spending btta dete hai ..mai gar ke sare spending detail batane me fail ho jate hu...aur bevakoof ka tag mil jata hai

[@CinnamonStickk]

Yahi to trick hai admiyon ki Financially dependent rakho mahila ko Meri mom k sath bhi yehi hua hai Finally mom ne paisa lena hi chor diya, jo kharcha karna hai papa karte hain But usse life me peace aur sukun to nahi rehta kisike

[@bhartigupta2218]

Great video sir, thank a lot❤

[@PreethiS6]

ji you are a genius.

[@kidsworld1730]

Excellent statement, wives are getting judgemental every where.. excellent video

[@rajendrakhanorkar5279]

You should try and publish this as a book I am sure it will be on top selling chart soon🎉

[@punjabitikka]

Most men I know keep their assets and transactions secret from the wife n kids. Ladies kids hue to expenditure kon karega ye soch lena. Many Men believe unki salary is for their parents and wife is responsible for the kids expenditure. Sir wife ko husband ka 20-30% mil sakta hai magar saalon ke case ke baad, husband ko apni salary wife ko Dene ke liye uska boss bhi force nahi kar sakta. Ladies should stop bearing kids unless they are sure that father will support her.

[@Ninanani-4085]

Correct. Patriarchal society me ye saare risks to aurat ke hi hote hain।

[@NeelamGupta-er1po]

Badhiya sir ji... Please thoda details dijiye kyun parents ko palna wrong hai