How To Handle Pain | Cuffing Season | (Part 6 ) | Jerry Flowers

[@RAYJENEALAINA]

The person who broke you, is not gonna come back and fix you !

[@neandramc253]

Amen

[@MondesThreads]

The side eye I gave after he said pray for them.... But it's true it's for you and not them.

[@aliciajawo8729]

Yea thats a hard one for me too...

[@Rockinnurse]

My friend introduced me to your sermons about a month ago to increase my biblical knowledge and because your sermons are so relatable to things going on in my life since almost dying from covid, now being a disabled nurse, getting divorced, binge watching all your sermons; they’ve changed my life. I watch one or two every morning, sometimes also in the afternoon or evening, sharing on Facebook to hopefully help someone else,( even sent to my ex-husband to watch. 😅). my goal is to save up enough money to watch you in person one weekend, as I live about 3 1/2 hours from your church, but it will be a great memorable day for me if that happens. Thank you so much for all you do for us.

[@_humblekay7075]

“We don’t get even, we get healed.”

[@_humblekay7075]

“You can have trust issues because you fell for someone that had no intentions on catching you.”

[@shanicehill9807]

I never make comments on KZbin but my God. These sermons be so GOD timing, I mean the exact conversations I have with God be preach hours later in the sermons. Thank you for your obedience, and allowing God to use you. It’s been life changing for me.

[@ashleyjones4323]

Girl he be reading me like a book. Like he's speaking directly to me.

[@outcastsofisrael9047]

@@ashleyjones4323 i was just saying this to my friend! Jerry flowers is in ONE ACCORD w those w God's Spirit!! I can tell every time I hear him

[@Naomi.Noble_]

Me too girl

[@LeaderOfTheNewSchool307]

Amen

[@Thatssewsimone]

if anyone reads this ... I’m just asking you to pray for healing for me. thank you

[@derondamonique]

🙏🏾

[@realhousewivesofbravo2924]

Dear Lord, Bless Your Daughter, Simone. I ask that you have Your Will in her life, for she was born for such a time as this. She is royalty and more precious than any rubies. I pray for healing, and restoration of all things that have been stolen from her and her heirs. In Your Precious Name, I believe that my Sister is restored, and we say; Yes and Amen. 🙏🏻 💗

[@marcelwilliams1736]

Dear God, Please provide protection and direction for her. Let your word and your will have it's way. Station a hedge of protection around her. I pray for your healing and restoration. Jesus said man shall not live on bread alone but every word from the mouth of God. Search his word and seek his face. Pray and hope for better. Renew in her a new mind, a new heart and a new spirit. If the message resonates then your going through pain. It hit home for me. I see myself in a lot of this message. I know about running from pain. Drowning your pain. Looking to use others and situations to escape pain. None of it worked. So I look to Jesus to heal me. Gaining new understanding and insight daily. It's a slow painful process! The most painful part for me is to accept my choices. I made the choice to love that woman and now have all of the pain associated with the relationship to deal with. It hurts deeply. I'm in pain and working through. I find peace and healing in being open and honest about where I am. More importantly and the most painful part is having to look inwardly at myself. My low self esteem and low confidence to allow them to treat me a certain way. I wanted so badly to feel love from another person I accepted it. Hope it helps. Part of my healing is sharing openly and honestly with others. Because my heart desires to Love truly the way Jesus does. But I have to walk through this pain to find true love and true healing on the other side.

[@ilovejesus09]

How are you now 🌸

[@sweetupbaaby1903]

Man this message hit soooo hard WOW Jerry spittin that HOLY FIREEEE. Hits home because I was in fact a stripper, working in the tellys slangin drugs, gang bangin, I was a practicing witch, had abortions, addicted to drugs, I hurt people intentionally you name it I did it - that was just over a year ago, since then the Holy Spirit has changed me so much in such a short period of time...you wouldn't even be able to tell by looking at me anymore. I use to HATE modest-looking women- thinking they so pure and holy- now I love dressing modestly and could never think of showing off my goods to just anybody anymore. That's the HOLY SPIRIT- changes you man I swear, wow took a while it's a process for sure but Jesus erases the evidence!!!!!

[@ntrasmr87]

U go girl!!!!!!!!

[@derondamonique]

God is able 🙏🏾

[@jenniferrivera8627]

What a testimony..to God be the glory.

[@jacque_redeemed]

God is able! I'm so proud of you!

[@cwest5187]

You are enough just as you are continue to move forward,and never doubt that you too are

[@ilovegoddoyou7003]

WE DON'T KNOWnWHAT TOMORROW WILL BRING. SO DON'T STAY ANGRY FOR TOO LONG LEARN TO FORGIVE AND LOVE WITH ALL OF YOUR HEART. DON'T WORRY ABOUT THE PEOPLE WHO DON'T LIKE YOU. ENJOY THE ONES WHO LOVE YOU. 💙💕🌻

[@ladennayoung2939]

Amen. God bless you and yours. Thanks for sharing.

[@_humblekay7075]

“Don’t look for peace in the same place you lost it.”

[@Neshtodd]

I find this comforting to my struggles. My heart is so broken but I waiting for my exit. I’m so broken it hurts my soul but I trust in the Lord that my purpose is in my pain😢Thank you Jesus 😭😭😭

[@_humblekay7075]

“Forgiveness frees the prisoner and once you forgive you’ll discover the prisoner was you.”

[@goldenlifelove7251]

I absolutely love this ministry!!!

[@kikib7310]

The Blessing Is At The Exit, Not At The Entrance! You Better Preach!!!!!

[@mariahsmith9283]

Not to put my business out there, but I need to learn how to deal with my pain instead of running to Anger.

[@letsbefruitful5457]

Give it to the lord and he will guide you along the way maybe check the music you listen to or tv shows , just pray about it! Hope this helps

[@_humblekay7075]

“Concealed pain bruises hearts.”

[@chevaneeseturner1835]

I was just reading this comment while he said this. How powerful!

[@beautifulbutterfly2474]

Come on Pastor Jerry... I’m trying to drive and not Cry!!! Lordddd

[@kayahchibuye1947]

For real.

[@RAYJENEALAINA]

Don’t get even, get HEALED.

[@marniejohnson66]

#TheBloodCanTouchYouRightWhereYouAre! I want the #Blood & the #Water; #AMEN!!!

[@_humblekay7075]

“The reason why people keep bringing up your past is because you’re the new you, but they are still the old them.”

[@abeekuworldchanger380]

Dr. Dharius Daniels says things like this all the time too in his messages!! God is always on time. What Jerry Flowers said is true. When you think about it, people bring up the past because they haven't changed. It should agitate us because its showing that you're outgrowing those connections. Some people don't want to grow, and you have to leave those relationships in the past.

[@xandremusicofficial]

"Everytime a Judas shows up, that because something in you has to get on the cross" Bro almost made me cuss 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 sheeesshhh

[@InayaX_]

The blood still works !!! 🙌🏽

[@tyenapierce7466]

There's something in you that has to get on the cross.... that spoke to me Pastor!!!!!

[@pancakeslover5891]

My LAST psychiatrist, at the end of .my 1st visit asked me “u ever heard of pleading the blood of Jesus?” After many yrs of therapy I was ready for discharge within 3 mths. That was 8 yrs ago. She taught me how to heal the holes in my soul. Ur here this morning reminding me how it works. Even when I don’t feel it He’s working. Thank you Lord

[@msaprilj]

"Relocation does not evict pain." Sheeeesh

[@_humblekay7075]

“The spouse of pain is anger. When they get married the have a baby called bitterness.”

[@kenyaparmes1544]

I’m so moved, I don’t even know how to comment!!! Jerry Flowers don’t ever stop letting God use you. Period.

[@shaunierockett4964]

Same‼️ Pastor Flowers your msgs frees my spirit everytime I need it🥲🙌🏾🙏🏾

[@_humblekay7075]

“Never allow pain to be a tenant, only a visitor.”

[@RAYJENEALAINA]

Never look for your peace in the same place that you lost it....COME IN THE ROOM JERRY !

[@abeekuworldchanger380]

That part WRECKED Me so much. Its so true. Places that caused you trauma aren't going to be places of healing, but endless trauma. These are the messages that ensure deliverance and restoration. Life can change in moments just listening to these messages.

[@joycefoster275]

I’ve been here ever single week with my Singles Group !!! It’s soooooo good !!! Thank you Jesus 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 I’m Ready 🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@Naomi.Noble_]

God is getting ready to rewrite your story and make it evident that he is present in your life.

[@bigbapester]

God through Jesus Christ specializes in erasing the evidence of our pain.

[@_humblekay7075]

“The person that broke you is not going to come back to fix you.”

[@_humblekay7075]

“Stop saying God get me out of this, but God what am I supposed to get out of this.” How to handle pain. 1. Talk 2. Acknowledgement (Luke 6:6) 3. Relapse Prevention. 4. Temple Care 5. The love of Jesus (John 21:15-17).

[@gwenmorris113]

I will not allow pain to be room and board!!!! It won't be a tenant here!!!! POWERFUL!!!!

[@brose344]

Ive been watching all your series. God led me to you on the net, so I can start healing properly from a lifetime of psychological pain after being abused by every man (in every abusive way) that ever entered my life, (including the first man I ever knew...my own father). God called me out of the world 3 years ago, but I still have been holding on to the pain and bitterness. I thank God for your ministry. You speak my language (street). Your words penetrate my heart and mind. Keep preaching bro, God has called you to reach a very specific wounded people and generation. God bless you Jerry, your ministry and loved ones. 🙏🏽

[@antoinettehereford8180]

Watched this live last night. Had to listen to this again! You gotta deal with the pain. This message hit my spirit real real good 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽. Shared some of this last night in the live convo, dealing with your trauma sets you FREE. In beginning my journey of healing (about 10 years ago), I had to deal with my past and sexual sins. I had to get to the root of the issue (being molested as a child), and and the effects of that one event. I handed it over to God, forgave the offender, and asked God to forgive my offenses against others. Two years ago, I had to go deeper with healing by seeking personal counseling and bringing to the light ALL my dirt. Revealed ALL the skeletons in my closet. Bringing that stuff to The Light brought such peace. Then yesterday, just before joining this live service, I had a phone conversation with my offender (who is now dealing with cancer, saints please keep him in your prayers). I was blown away that he apologized. Mind you, I had already handed it over to God and was at peace! All of this to say, Pastor Jerry is on point when he says to not let that pain be a tenant in your heart. Saints, be encouraged because THE BLOOD STILL WORKS!!!!!

[@riccireyes8021]

AMEN!!!

[@marcelwilliams1736]

Very powerful testimony. God bless you and continue to lift you up and direct you.

[@TimeWithTea]

Wowwwww. This post was good. God bless you

[@beautifulbutterfly2474]

I had to come home and listen to this again! I was a mess while driving because I felt like this was so personal and conformation about my feelings for the past several months. Thank you so much Pastor Flowers.

[@wambuikahigi5926]

Binge Watching this February 2024...just coming from a painful separation from a pesudo-relationship that I kept dragging on for longer than I knew better to do 😢😢. Thank you God for the confirmation of your intention to heal and make me whole. God bless you ever so much Pastor Jerry & Mrs. Tanisha Flowers 🙏🏽 🙌🏽

[@melissawilliams5861]

Hallelujah!!! God erase the evidence…. God is beautiful ❤️❤️Blessing is at the exit.

[@letsbefruitful5457]

I pray for this Pastor and his wife because I see a little pain in his heart because he has helped people who have left their church, but I just want him to know Pastor,Jerry, you did the work ,that was intended for you to do ,in those peoples lives, their season was up ,and now you help others and new believers like myself! I send you nothing but prayers and strength from me and the world to continue to do what you do ,you and your beautiful wife because let me tell you ,you guys have helped me in the few days that I just found your channel. Amen 🙏🏽

[@letsbefruitful5457]

And I know you have forgave them!

[@abeekuworldchanger380]

I can only imagine the pain they feel. We need to pray for them. Their messages are healing, and the weight they carry has GOTTA we heavy weekly.

[@marniejohnson66]

The person who broke you, is not going to come back & fix you! #HEALINGcomesFromJESUS!

[@_humblekay7075]

“God specializes in erasing the evidence.” We don’t look like what we been through!!!

[@msaverielle]

Concealed pain bruises hearts.❤️💯🙏🏾

[@marniejohnson66]

#HESpecializesInErasingTheEvidenceAMEN!!!

[@donnagarland2478]

Pastor Flower’s ministry is Definitely God sent, and directly from the throne room of Jesus! Every message hits home and builds you up and nourishes your spirit! God Sent!!!

[@favourfadipe7453]

Wow this message really broke me. So much hurt I’ve been feeling. God help me release this pain

[@ncollazo7140]

Your sermons are always on time 😢. Thank you!

[@christineelizabethhorner5829]

If I focus everything I got on loving everyone and following Jesus when it hurts then the evangelizing will happen easier

[@spetrenko7149]

Yes!!!! He specializes in erasing evidence !!! COME ON 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🙌🙌🙌🙌Thank You JESUS!!!

[@kimberlysingleton306]

THE BLOOD STILL WORKS ❤❤❤

[@marniejohnson66]

It's all a part of #TheProcess There's #PurposeInYourPain! #DestinyTiedToPain The #BLESSING IS ALWAYS AT THE #EXIT! #HALLELUJAH!

[@Britt-q1q]

Dang lol I felt that I'm from NC & I keep saying I'm gonna move to Texas 😂😂😂😂 talk on it sir ! Thank you

[@solo.life.travels7215]

Im in greensboro

[@TheHealinghands09952]

Charlotte NC 🙌

[@solo.life.travels7215]

@@TheHealinghands09952 i was there yesterday eating at merts heart and soul restaurant, 🥰🤗

[@beautifulheart2986]

I said the same thing 🤣🤣🤣

[@ladennayoung2939]

Come on to Texas y'all. Lol. We would love to have you. 😊😊😊

[@bloom2124]

Wow….. 🤦‍♀️ this hit home and I’m grateful for this message

[@MarcoHorst-g3o]

Im here, every Week. Listen to you since June.

[@melloniefrazier4421]

Thank you so much for this powerful sermon. Please put me on the prayer list 🙏 for all areas of my life 🙏 Blessings always to you and your family and staff.

[@r3r320]

You almost took me out with this one! Wheeeew “someone I fell for has no intention of catching me.” I have been praying for them even when it doesn’t feel good because they are God’s children too. Help me Holy Spirit. 💛😫

[@hillaryxoxo372]

This was so good from start to finish. This was definitely therapy! Lol

[@cutstone3028]

Pastor Flowers, your message brought me to tears. It is evident that I still have emotional wounds that I need to address. I definitely need to make pain a visitor and not a tenant. It has been a tenant for far too long. I have decided to pray for all those who have hurt me and I will pray for abundant blessings in their lives. Thank you so much for delivering the most impactful message I have ever listened to. You are doing a splendid job.

[@skycutie77]

Heart felt message ❤️✨

[@innerdivine267]

Bleep bleep bleep 🤣 I love the way you make the Bible come alive

[@belovedofgod.3276]

Second time visitor from South Africa.

[@cassybeauti]

Ohhhhh man! I love every bit of this series!🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰woohooooooooo🙌🏼 Thank you Yeshua🙌🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@Foxthecleverlittlefoxx]

I’m not sure how many times I’ve listened to this. The way he ties his words together is brilliant. 🤜🤛

[@gloria9486]

“You know why I dress half naked, it’s because it are representation of your fatherhood! “ WHAT!!! Preach! Preacher!

[@jestinyreed7716]

How to deal with pain 1. Talk • be careful with where you bleed. Everybody can’t handle your mess. If you bleed in the wrong places sharks and wolves are attracted to blood. You can’t move out the hallway without letting God show you the purpose of your pain. 2. Acknowledgement • quit covering up your withered state. God cannot heal what you will not give him. Take off the glove and stretch out your withered hand so he can restore you. 3. Relapse prevention • forgiveness frees the prisoner once you forgive you’ll relive the prisoner was you. So pray for people. 4. Temple care • some weights are released when some weights are lifted. Take care of yourself. 5. The love of Jesus •recognize that Jesus loves you and he holds nothing against you.

[@Ambers_Walking_In_Freedom]

This series is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 I'm so thankful for you Jerry, you always keep it 💯

[@womendestinedforgreatness3132]

Amen! I am learning to let pain be a visitor and not a tenant.🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@riccireyes8021]

"Aquel que te rompió nunca regresará para recomponerte" Pero la "Sangre de Jesús sigue teniendo poder" para limpiar tus dolores y tus pecados "sin dejar evidencia". Praised the Lord!!! 🙏🙏🙏 Thanks for this Sermon Pastor Jerry!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥We pray that the Lord will renew your strength and your call every day, protect your family, your Church and your mission. We pray for our Pastors, as well as all Pastors throughout the world who follow with love, fidelity and obedience the Word of Our Heavenly Father. Thanks 🙏🙏🙏🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@jecillemontes6428]

Hi ! I am from the Philippines , and thank you for your series:) I found this channel yesterday , my boyfriend and I broke up , and this church online really helped me to let him go and surrender everything to God. Thank you for being an instrument to many 💕🤗 Godbless you pastor 😇🙏

[@_humblekay7075]

“Relocation doesn’t evict pain.”

[@lisae3357]

No it sure don’t. I tried to move and join the military and God said No!!

[@rebeccalukusa2899]

He said "The purpose of Judas is so for something to die"😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 Praying for every person especially tennagers struggling with pain ! Stay Strong God's Got Us❤️

[@msangieluzu]

25:28 Oh does that crimson flow , that washes white as snow, no other help I know, nothing but the blood of Jesus , HALLELUJAH!!!

[@ladennayoung2939]

The Lord probably used to wash their feet. Because He was anointing them to go where the Lord would lead and anoint them to go to fulfill His will. Glory be to God. Hallelujah! Thank you Lord Jesus. Amen and Amen.

[@marcelabriones7043]

BOTHHH! Lord! We love you! ❤️❤️🙏🏻❤️❤️

[@bronteesmith4982]

Jesus,"the person who broke you is not going to come back and fix you." This is so timely and God is speaking. Glory

[@brendontakarinda3811]

When a Judas shows up, something in you needs to show up. 🤲🏾🤲🏾🔥🔥

[@dearlybelovedjael5842]

A real teacher, praise God.

[@ChristInCrisis]

Love every message! I had saw you on tik tok and now follow u on Instagram, Facebook and podcast. Always a great, anointed word. Thank u from NC

[@marcellusbrown7940]

Brilliant, I love ur mind the structure to ur commentary!

[@_humblekay7075]

“Some weights are released, when some weights are lift.”

[@Sharon-of1tm]

Hallelujah, I don't look like what I've been through !!!!!!!!

[@chanel.cc14]

Praise God!! This is so good pastor Jerry thank you

[@christinebailey3369]

LET IT GO AT THE FEET OF JESUS WITH MY TEARS" JOY ALWAYS COMES IN THE Morning. HALLELUYAH!

[@ChristinaChemhuru]

Woah, woah, woah Jerry my brother F.A.M, how'd you know that I moved from NC to Texas and for that same reason !?? 🧐🧐🧐

[@msvanessaceo]

The song that Uncle Reece wrote "Hard in the Pain we Worship" I'm reminded of listening to this message. That might no be the title of his song but it's some of his lyrics. Awesome message that moves us to action!

[@crystalcalderon6273]

I was scrolling and came across your video. I have now watch 4 videos on cuffing season and let me say this thank you for your words. it will carry me through this difficult season and pain will not be in my heart permanently but just a visitor. your teachings are so good. thank you and I will start to follow you and join in on sundays.

[@msangieluzu]

Invite the Holy Spirit in your heart let him lead you , God is very real as well as his Son Jesus Christ, they are one in the same and they both LOVE YOU very much, God bless you, thank God you found this , keep watching, you’re gonna be blowned away when you see the “Try me” series 🙏🏿💪🏿🙌🏿

[@darciborelli4263]

ALL your sermons Blow me away & I OVE when ur Gorgeous help mate, wife, Tanisha is preaching w/u🙏🏽😍🤩🔥🔥🔥

[@bobbileon33]

Amazing !!!! 😢😢😢❤❤❤

[@tiaralewis4154]

Man you better preach! God has reached me in my own confusion and has confirmed through His truth by way of this ministry and through the message on two different occasions! I'm married and we've been operating through pain. Didn't even know it. Thank you because I know this type of anointing comes at a price. God bless you.

[@TieranniPieranni]

Here from St Louis. I’m ready!

[@izzyhill2305]

Right across the river girl Saint Charles here!

[@TieranniPieranni]

@@izzyhill2305 represent!! May God and this message bless you!

[@rubyreed7840]

This message though!! The person who broke you is not going to come back and fix you!!

[@inHistime17360]

There is purpose in my pain! yes Lord.🙏🙏🙏

[@chevaneeseturner1835]

Amen

[@CaliLizzo]

"We don't get even, we get HEALED 🙏"

[@CHI-df2zv]

My God... Pastor Jerry, this sermon right HERE!!! You left no rock unturned with this one. What a gift you are to the body of Christ🙌🏽 We are grateful for your obedience.

[@betti3869]

that spiritual chest explosion when he said Jesus gives you an assignment... that was my clarity moment. God led me to watch this weeks ago, the way my mood set up, the enemy is a WHOLE lie & this has TRULY blessed me!! Confirmations in reoccurrence throughout from part 1 to now!!

[@zeal4god402]

No pain no gain

[@natalianperryman6558]

Panama City Florida

[@ladennayoung2939]

I'm from Texas, and I have been present for every single one.

[@maemiNx97]

The first time I heard this message I was blessed. But who knew I would be needing it so much more now in this season I am in. I agree so much with "Temple Care" 🙌😭 God bless you Pastor Flowers!!! 🙏