How to handle people who spread lies and rumors on you

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Tyler JTI

Tyler JTI

7 жыл бұрын

In our society today, people like to spread lies and rumors about you. This is what nosy people like to do and it's their passion and love because they don't have nothing else better to do.
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How to handle a person who lies on you? How to handle people who spread rumors about you? How to handle people who spread lies on you? How to know when someone is lying? Spreading lies! Spreading rumors!people are spreading rumors on me! People are spreading lies on me.

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@Tula_Darkwater
@Tula_Darkwater 5 жыл бұрын
"When people have nothing bad to say about you, they make stuff up".
@bettabelieveit34
@bettabelieveit34 5 жыл бұрын
@MeccaEvil💯
@gamergeek_2470
@gamergeek_2470 4 жыл бұрын
I’m already going through that
@dietrichdietrich7763
@dietrichdietrich7763 3 жыл бұрын
That's Right. They don't have a life.
@nadien4513
@nadien4513 3 жыл бұрын
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@_-.--.-..-.-_ 3 жыл бұрын
@@gamergeek_2470 damn..
@johnT906
@johnT906 11 ай бұрын
Jealousy is the main reason people gossip about someone
@KM-oy5yh
@KM-oy5yh 2 ай бұрын
AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉
@carriehopewell389
@carriehopewell389 7 жыл бұрын
Nobody ever has the guts to tell me,they just stare and judge from a distance and deny all knowledge. Cowards. Mainly jealousy and boredom
@TylerJTI
@TylerJTI 7 жыл бұрын
Carrie Hopewell. A lot of people are like that they refuse to tell you in your face.When telling them they will be in denial. Peace and blessings to you carrie hopewell. Thanks for your comment.
@carriehopewell389
@carriehopewell389 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the video. I live a decent life without harming anyone and yet these foul people with much more dirty laundry than anyone do these things. I have had a rough 2 years with this rubbish
@derrick325b
@derrick325b 7 жыл бұрын
First of all shout out to you T-JTI. Real talk!!!! @ carrie hopewell As annoying as this stuff is..and it is...you have to look at it in its proper context. People are cowards by nature because its easy to judge from a distance than to get to know who a person is. I keep people at arms length because you have to in order to keep your sanity. At my job people are rude, dismissive, judgmental all the time....yet simultaneously so damn fascinated by me that they do anything and I mean ANYTHING to get fraction of my energy or a clue about what makes me tick. How psychotic is that? However, let it be their psychosis. Think of it as an extremely backwards complement.
@aliciababwah6320
@aliciababwah6320 4 жыл бұрын
@Deborah Smith im in the same position. Im tired of it
@ashleyperry8993
@ashleyperry8993 3 жыл бұрын
@@aliciababwah6320 Same Here They Think I'm Scared But I Don't Want to Get Into Any Trouble But I'm a Very Quiet Person it Takes Alot to Get Me Going and When You Do I'll Yoke a Bitch Up By They Damn Neck💯💯💯💯💪
@Namastee0000
@Namastee0000 6 жыл бұрын
Let your haters be your motivators..And let Karma handle the rest....
@connorshekelstein6432
@connorshekelstein6432 6 жыл бұрын
Bey El Karma doesn't exist I wish it did but they will go unpunished
@Soadfan-xv6yf
@Soadfan-xv6yf 5 жыл бұрын
I wish karma was always instant. Karma is the best thing to ever exist.
@Soadfan-xv6yf
@Soadfan-xv6yf 5 жыл бұрын
Connor Shekelstein it has to do w cause and effect. Which is a universal law. Everything is connected in the universe and we can only understand so much about what’s beyond. (Like spirit). You can make karma exist too through thought and manifestation. Even witchcraft is a thing which so many ppl claim that it works. If you don’t believe in karma then I guess you can just practice black magic w no consequence then lol
@tenaciousandresilient9687
@tenaciousandresilient9687 5 жыл бұрын
Someone told lies about me last year and when one of the lies was said to be false, said person was called a liar and was bashed by multiple people sometime following it. I'm no longer angry because this person got a taste of what they were putting me through. Oddly enough said person sought sympathy and tried to say most of what was said wasn't true. Ironically, it was the act of trying to bash me was one of the things that became the catalyst for it all. When you talk about others, others will talk about you.
@fredmad4988
@fredmad4988 3 жыл бұрын
Yes they will, living deep in insecurity will invite dementia into their lives.
@hollymay8187
@hollymay8187 5 жыл бұрын
I find 80 % of the time, the lies people spread abound you is actually what happened to them . They are trying to create a distraction from themself or to see how other people deal with what they went though.
@robbocop33r12
@robbocop33r12 5 жыл бұрын
That's actually true! , guy that was spreading rumours about me in a bar had been ejected from nearly every other bar in town for the same shit he was saying 'i' did! :-)
@spacelyman9482
@spacelyman9482 4 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@evadiva3085
@evadiva3085 3 жыл бұрын
Holly may You are so right I’m finding out! I’m focusing on myself as I watch them continue being nosy and starting rumors The light shines on every lie sooner or later!
@accountcompromised2166
@accountcompromised2166 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly, Deflecting and Projection
@scottsummersreloaded4618
@scottsummersreloaded4618 2 жыл бұрын
yep its narc PROJECTION!
@LittleBird888
@LittleBird888 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been a victim of slanderers. It sucks but it’s helped me learn to walk away from people.
@susiesa8295
@susiesa8295 Жыл бұрын
it is so sick and evil how far they go to frame others just to make them happy!! i can not do anything to stop them especially when they are stalking and purposly trying to ruin my rep.
@Adelina24244
@Adelina24244 Жыл бұрын
@@susiesa8295 sorry Susie protect yourself and have a pepper spray
@susiesa8295
@susiesa8295 Жыл бұрын
@@Adelina24244 thank you
@tommyparkerparker
@tommyparkerparker Жыл бұрын
I had this happen to me a few times in high school. I been out of high school almost 40 years now. I been away from my hometown now for 20 years. Just a few friends, I haven’t had any contact with classmates since I graduated. I don’t know why but to this day some of those same people for some strange reason are gossiping about me . I have not seen or heard from these people since high school. You would would think, times passed, we all move on in our lives such as finishing college, working,starting a family or moving away to settle yourself or wherever. We all differ and that’s OK but sadly some people never grow up and some of these people will just assume the worst in you and haven’t seen you in years.
@LittleBird888
@LittleBird888 Жыл бұрын
@@tommyparkerparker exactly!
@wghost1
@wghost1 5 жыл бұрын
Here's a better way to do it , let them talk ignore , ignore , ignore , just be yourself and you don't have to hang out with anyone to prove a point , they don't even exist
@coco2blessd
@coco2blessd 5 жыл бұрын
Love your comment.
@pamelabibby8642
@pamelabibby8642 4 жыл бұрын
people need to stop spreading rumours
@jesbinj
@jesbinj 4 жыл бұрын
i mean that sounds like being a loner, sadly a lot of smart people beleive in rumors and lies and they take ur silence as guilt
@_-.--.-..-.-_
@_-.--.-..-.-_ 3 жыл бұрын
@KingCross like success? “success is the best revenge”
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@_-.--.-..-.-_ 3 жыл бұрын
@@jesbinj yep true. Lot of “smart people” do believe in rumors.
@lobostriker85
@lobostriker85 5 жыл бұрын
Alot of times even proving them wrong will still not change anything. Most people will believe what they want to believe regardless of how generous, real and authentic you are to others. My best bet has always been to separate myself from that environment and not associate with those people at all. There are alot of people with no tact or ability to think for themselves and will follow the crowd. They are sheep and wolves dont lose sleep over the opinions of sheep!
@ashleyperry8993
@ashleyperry8993 3 жыл бұрын
@Im a Train Fanatic is back Real Shit With They Fake Asses.
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@_-.--.-..-.-_ 3 жыл бұрын
@Im a Train Fanatic is back yeah..
@KM-oy5yh
@KM-oy5yh 2 ай бұрын
Sooooo #TRUE N Sooooooo #WONDERFULLY said 🎉
@EvilSwordman
@EvilSwordman 5 жыл бұрын
I just don't understand how people are capable of doing that by spreading lies about others.. I know I couldn't do it.
@3vanguardofthephoenix335
@3vanguardofthephoenix335 3 жыл бұрын
I know i am guilty of it, but I try not to talk bad on people in a way that spreads rumors. If I need to vent I go to someone I know isnt going to gossip It's so hard for me to forgive because I am a loyal person. I try my hardest to treat people good but its hard when they hurt you. I had a really close friend of mine, and we were venting to eachother and I told her one thing that pisses me off is when someone undermines my intelligence. Anyway I work with her 8 hrs a day 5 days a week, and she eventually started being really mean to me. And she called me stupid and smirked... Saying "just kidding" as if thats a pass on intentionally insulting me. The next day she interrupted me and was super rude. Anyway now we work in different areas and i havent talked to her since. I know we are supposed to forgive one another, as God forgives our sins... But its so hard, because I would never intentionally hurt her like that. I pray God gives us the strength to forgive those who have wronged us, because we should be examples of his children representing heaven on earth Love you man, praying for you and me and everyone else here... Cause we are all hurting and could use some good spiritual wisdom, healing, courage, strength, ambition, and tenacity to fight our demons! Mine are lust, addiction, distraction/sloth (video games), feeling alone and worthless (which isnt true idk why i believe the lies these demons keep telling me) Thats what it is folks. The grand secret. We have good ("angels") and bad ("demons") interdimensional dieties indirectly affecting our reality. Every person in a position of power, on tv, a wealthy person etc i believe is being controlled by evil spirits. Call it the illuminati, cabal, vatican, brotherhood of darkness whatever... They exist. All roads lead to Rome. Do your research. Pray the holy spirit of our righteous creator fills you with wisdom and eyes to see and ears to hear! Neither light nor dark can directly affect the outcome of things until the final battle. A humbling fact is that we are as pawns. A pawn doesnt know who crafted it. A pawn is unaware that it is being moved by a human. It cannot possibly imagine what a human is, nor what a human is capable of. It cant even see or hear the human. All it knows is the chess board. The grind. The 9-5. Scary fact is, most pawns dont know which side they fight for. If you allow evil to happen, and do nothing, you are responsible for the suffering of others. That is why we fight. For our loved ones, for our animals, for our enemies. We must love everyone and be an example of how humans should treat eachother. This life is a gift given to us by a creator we don't understand, or cant remember. Treat this life as a chance to show your creator love in every way! In the vital nutritious food you eat, in the way you selflessly help others, the way you smile and treat even the least insect with grace and respect! Be a flower! Blossom into the beautiful happy being you were before we let society dictate us :) Thanks for reading my rant. Yah bless you all ❤
@Shay4YourMind81
@Shay4YourMind81 7 жыл бұрын
Too true. These people are deeply miserable, have far too much time on their hands, and nothing going on in their lives. As soon as I get an inkling that someone is the type to whisper/gossip about people, I keep my distance, and deal with them with a long handled spoon. Misery loves company!
@TylerJTI
@TylerJTI 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Shay4yourmind. Thank you so much for your comment. Peace and blessings to you.
@self-love2355
@self-love2355 5 жыл бұрын
Love this! Ignore them and keep your distance!
@ashleyperry8993
@ashleyperry8993 3 жыл бұрын
@@self-love2355 💯💯
@KillerCreatureFeatur
@KillerCreatureFeatur 6 жыл бұрын
You got that shit right. The worse thing about it is 90% of the time it's someone who was previously yohr best friend not long before
@soulmutent6433
@soulmutent6433 3 жыл бұрын
Right man today I am just watching this video cuz my bestfriend started saying rumors on me and I am so sad
@h6h8272
@h6h8272 3 жыл бұрын
Istg this is so true
@deltahomicide9300
@deltahomicide9300 4 жыл бұрын
"Even if you hear a bad story about me understand there was a time I was good to those people , but they won't tell you that"
@RinAsami1
@RinAsami1 3 жыл бұрын
Yes👍🙏
@tamarag9981
@tamarag9981 2 жыл бұрын
Yes!!!!Exactly!
@Lovely_Diva
@Lovely_Diva 5 жыл бұрын
This is the reason I'm a very private person. Because I dont want people spreading things about me. But I've learned that even when you are private some people may try to manufacture lies about you based on some simple known facts about you....smh. People who spread lies are usually jealous of you because their lives are miserable and they want to drag you down to their level. It's best to just stay quiet when someone is spreading rumors because those that know you well wont care and wont think less of you regardless. The truth will come out some way and karma will handle the gossiper💯💯💯
@Lovely_Diva
@Lovely_Diva 5 жыл бұрын
@UCtsHXOCQzjmRQeEf_1DPG6g Its sad how people are...smh. Just hold your head up high and keep doing you!!
@danicastein7660
@danicastein7660 Жыл бұрын
I AM a private person and a neighbor STILL smeared me... wiretapped my house and made vicious false accusations that caused a lot of harm including loss of a lot of money. Even being private doesn't save you from a malignant narcissist who is willing to break the law. "Thems the breaks" they say.
@Lovely_Diva
@Lovely_Diva Жыл бұрын
@@danicastein7660 Damn Im so sorry for what you went through. Your neighbor was very jealous and vindictive smh. I pray for God to protect you and to restore the money that is due to you.
@Giovanni-01
@Giovanni-01 Жыл бұрын
Your comment is very accurate
@Lovely_Diva
@Lovely_Diva Жыл бұрын
@@Giovanni-01 Thanks❤
@SouthLondonJamaican
@SouthLondonJamaican 4 жыл бұрын
It’s simple just BOYCOTT them all Don’t say hello don’t say bye Don’t say Good morning Walk into work walk straight past them don’t greet them if they greet you don’t reply. And if anyone asks you why you deal with them like that just keep it real simple “ I don’t talk to or associate with Two faced, gossiping, compulsive liars”
@j.c.2787
@j.c.2787 4 жыл бұрын
Facts. Fuhk em all
@Babygirllivecam
@Babygirllivecam Жыл бұрын
My manager use to get so bothered whenever I didn’t say “hi” to her like you don’t even like me she always nasty to me and just bitter and miserable in general 😂
@daze77gaming
@daze77gaming 4 ай бұрын
@@Babygirllivecamsame...i don't even speak to managers and co workers anymore and now they despise me even more
@7s29
@7s29 6 жыл бұрын
Let them spread lies, as long as they get my name right. I ignore, and delete them.
@MissClarinda
@MissClarinda 5 жыл бұрын
Those type of people are also called narcissists. Spreading lies around and gossip is their biggest 'red flag'. Your advice is spot on, because we indeed need to focus on our own character. The truth will alays come to the surface one day anyways. It's not between us and them, it's all about who they choose to be and who we choose to be ourselves, and everyone will see who is truthful and who is the liar. They'll only be working against themselves... and then they'll try to find the next victim...
@danielfulga3517
@danielfulga3517 4 жыл бұрын
This is why i stay home and play games or read books that is what made me a nerd and an introvert
@platform4entertainmenttv
@platform4entertainmenttv 3 жыл бұрын
You made the best choice! Keep away from the snakes, cobras that hiss in the grass.
@KM-oy5yh
@KM-oy5yh 2 ай бұрын
💯💯💯💯
@KM-oy5yh
@KM-oy5yh 2 ай бұрын
​@platfo✅️✅️✅️rm4entertainmenttv
@lauralei400
@lauralei400 7 жыл бұрын
These toxic people have put my job in jeopardy 😐 I'm a Good person who would Never do others that way.
@angelinafrida819
@angelinafrida819 5 жыл бұрын
Terri Wilson I WILL ALWAYS BELIEVE IN YOU AND YOU ARE AWESOME AND UNIQUE NO MATTER WHAT
@deborahawe5428
@deborahawe5428 5 жыл бұрын
I have people like that at my job I can never get away from these people like never everytime I see this person it’s always a problem she always trying to look for something bad in me I just wish she can disappear I don’t have to see her face again I don’t want to be around this person because this person is toxic I can’t have that around me because I will become like them too so in order for me to be happy I have to keep my distance from people like this.
@ViiCiiii
@ViiCiiii 4 жыл бұрын
I've met someone like that, she talked so badly about me, constant lies about my life or my family, just to hurt me. She doesn't even know me or never met my family and she really enjoyed it. PURE EVIL:
@sacrifice308
@sacrifice308 2 жыл бұрын
Mann tell me about it, started talking to a girl at work, and people make up lies that I have gf. Now she doesn't want to talk to me anymore. A bunch of grown jealous ass people , that is sad af
@mel1_0202
@mel1_0202 2 ай бұрын
Same happend to me. Was talking to a guy and some jealous people thought it was fun to ruin it by spreading rumors that i fucked other guys and that person even went so far to show 'evidence'. He showed conversations with a girl he probably fucked and just put my name there to make it look it was me. The guy I spoke with wanted time but i have heard he is talking shit about me too now. I have been putting all my energy in trying to find evidence so yesterday I went to the rumor spreader and have now everything on camera. But you know what, now that i porved my point, I don't even want to interact with the guy I spoke with because why should I have to put this much time and effort into someone who just wants to believe others. I SHOWED him the real me and he still believed the rest. If it's meant to be, it will be. That means that neither the guy i spoke with nor the girl you spoke with were meant for us. Just ignore them, you don't have to prove them anything and if she wants to believe them, it's her loss.
@MauriceRivers415
@MauriceRivers415 Жыл бұрын
Gossips, busybodies, and backstabbers are all losers. They have nothing else going in their lives, except to gossip and tell lies, and stir up trouble. Jealousy drives a lot of gossipers: they always have some juicy tidbit of info they're trying to scatter around, and it's mostly (if not always) lies and tall tales. Don't associate with gossips and busybodies: they're nobody's friend.
@KM-oy5yh
@KM-oy5yh 2 ай бұрын
AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉
@thedreamweaver6514
@thedreamweaver6514 5 жыл бұрын
Action speaks louder than words. Excel in everything you do and let your good character shine
@sharonanderson6926
@sharonanderson6926 7 жыл бұрын
people like to judge you. know nothing about you I don't fool with them.
@TylerJTI
@TylerJTI 7 жыл бұрын
Sharon Anderson. Thank you so much for your comment. Peace and blessings to you.
@journeyofjamaria
@journeyofjamaria 5 жыл бұрын
Fr
@agentjordan605
@agentjordan605 Жыл бұрын
Gotcha
@akio2595
@akio2595 6 жыл бұрын
Also, if you aren't offended by people teasing you, especially if their younger, just smile. It will show that they are never going to get through to you and they will eventually get bored
@_-.--.-..-.-_
@_-.--.-..-.-_ 3 жыл бұрын
Many arent. They will keep doing that for years
@socalbarbie1040
@socalbarbie1040 3 жыл бұрын
Some people will keep going! They’re nobodies with nothing going on!!!
@hutch2811
@hutch2811 3 жыл бұрын
It’s so frustrating knowing it’s happening with the ones closest to you but you can’t do anything about it..
@anscrailfanner6812
@anscrailfanner6812 5 жыл бұрын
I just experienced something like this today. The boyfriend of a female coworker at my job called me up today saying he would have to beat me up because I body shamed his girlfriend. I kept telling him that I didn’t know what he was talking about. I was friends with his girlfriend and she knows I’m not that type of person. When he called me, I was so shook and confused. Unfortunately I couldn’t get through to him. So now I’ll just continue to live my life and not even think about it. Somebody at my job must’ve made up a lie.
@MrKirbyEnterprises
@MrKirbyEnterprises 5 жыл бұрын
I've been through this before. Some people have been spreading lies about me.
@_-.--.-..-.-_
@_-.--.-..-.-_ 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah
@corathompson9852
@corathompson9852 3 жыл бұрын
Get away from all of these people. They do not care about you. Focus on building your life and head towards a positive direction. We are in the last days and morals are at an all time low.
@tommyparkerparker
@tommyparkerparker 3 жыл бұрын
I had this happened to me quite a few times. But I learned a lesson from this. You see people's true colors.
@jennifercooper3547
@jennifercooper3547 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful people, there is something ornately powerful in letting other people sit with their perceptions of you, wether accurate or contrived … and leaving them there. 🙏
@coffeepandacat
@coffeepandacat Жыл бұрын
Great words ✨💫
@MrStarofTruth
@MrStarofTruth 5 жыл бұрын
i have a neighbor that said i broke into his house when i was at work , he has no proof of this and he has went to other neighbors and told them this. he has no guts to confront me .
@ajl2232
@ajl2232 3 жыл бұрын
Reminds me of my ugly landlord who a few days ago banged on my door and threatened me to open it. And now she acts all defensive and a victim. The many abuse I've endured because of her unwillgness to help me dealing with people who were abusing me and for her to go after me and abuse me. She doesn't have the willingness to discuss the matter because she doesn't have the ability to carry out a logical and civilized discussion. She is a liar.
@traceyowenhughes9223
@traceyowenhughes9223 6 жыл бұрын
I have been through this a lot Tyler. I enjoy proving them wrong. The more you talk, the more I excel. When I was younger I use to try to defend myself. Now, I have gotten tough skin. I let God take care of my enemies. A lot of time, people spread these lies out of envy. I enjoy your insightful videos Tyler.
@sherylcastro5688
@sherylcastro5688 6 жыл бұрын
Stay awayyyyyyyy from ppl. Period.
@nobantusibeko6425
@nobantusibeko6425 5 жыл бұрын
Sheryl Castro I heard that!
@reneemassey-2827
@reneemassey-2827 4 жыл бұрын
Amen! People are problems!
@ashleyperry8993
@ashleyperry8993 3 жыл бұрын
@@reneemassey-2827 💯💯👏
@KM-oy5yh
@KM-oy5yh 2 ай бұрын
​AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉
@lenbo_
@lenbo_ 5 жыл бұрын
Some people today were spreading rumours about me and you helped thank you
@jayban7745
@jayban7745 2 жыл бұрын
I've been in the situation of being lied on. When people treat people differently based on alleged accusations, they are weak folks with very gaolable and influenced minds. That says something about them and the quality of their character and personality. In a way they are the victims because of the way they can easily be lied to and mislead and preyed on.
@wadesomad4428
@wadesomad4428 5 жыл бұрын
This video is so old, yet it gave me so much comfort. Bless your soul. I needed this as I lay in bed at the point of teary eyes. You saved me from a tear being shed. I will try to move on from this lie. It's doesn't matter if it is false. Thank you
@User2jn
@User2jn Жыл бұрын
I usually just intimidate people with my demeanour. They can usually sense that I am somewhat unhinged.
@KM-oy5yh
@KM-oy5yh 2 ай бұрын
AMEN AMEN, Me 2🎉
@rainbowlady1532
@rainbowlady1532 Жыл бұрын
As a victim who's going through a tough time where I fear that my own family (except my younger brother, half sister and sone aunts, uncles, grandparents who are very sadly no longer with us anymore, family members who I haven't had contact with for years) have spread lies about me......yet there's a nasty inkling that it's true. For example, they would sometimes say things such as I never went to anyone's house, I never tried new things, I hogged all the attention away from my siblings, I had issues with other children getting praised, I never stood up for myself, I never socialised or shared my things, I only liked cats, I only liked the colours pink red green and purple and it's making me doubt my own life, my purpose and so forth. I'm actually scared I will develop an ED or do the unthinkable.
@KM-oy5yh
@KM-oy5yh 2 ай бұрын
Sister, U R #Not the only one who has been #LIED ON by #NO good relatives, Keep ur #HEAD Up, You r #Not Alone 🎉
@ismaelvazquez5279
@ismaelvazquez5279 4 жыл бұрын
i watch this back in 2017.. now i’m back in 2020 just to motivate myself again, thank you.
@jimmyval1430
@jimmyval1430 6 жыл бұрын
You should be a public speaker, you’d be great 👍
@geoffjoffy
@geoffjoffy 4 жыл бұрын
A pastor
@-coke-
@-coke- 4 жыл бұрын
When people lie about me nobody trusts me anymore
@DiscoTimelordASD
@DiscoTimelordASD 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for reminding me of my own self worth. It's so easy to forget sometimes.
@ajl2232
@ajl2232 3 жыл бұрын
There is a person who was spreading rumors about me and I confronted her aggressively. Ever since then she has been spreading rumours about me and doing malicious things and pinning the blame in me. She has pitted many people against me and everyone is taking her sides. I'm now on the verge of being kicked out of my apartment because of this ugly evil woman! I want to clear my name. I want to expose her and get justice. I can't let her get away with this. Anyone have plans?
@ellona3645
@ellona3645 3 жыл бұрын
Yes! It's funny how the people who gossips about my family don't even know us 😂😂 they have no idea the people they are saying it to are close friends to my family and they tell us everything. HUMBLENESS IS KEY. Crab-mentality, insecurity, jealousy is a terrible trait to have. We just ignore it cause it's not true.
@natashasamuel9346
@natashasamuel9346 Жыл бұрын
You have to learn to walk away from them when they come to start trouble with you. They are weak. They usually travel in groups. I understand everything that you are saying. I am speaking from experience. They usually go after the "Quiet Types". STAY FOCUSED Do not let anyone distract you from achieving your goals in life. Especially, if you know that you're studying and working hard to create a better life for both yourself and your potential husband. Do not let anyone distract you from achieving your goals. That is the strategy that they are trying to use. Don't fall for it. STAY 100% FOCUSED. Thank You, Natasha Samuel
@akashdeepsidhu8451
@akashdeepsidhu8451 3 жыл бұрын
God bless you man, really just helped me out. I would get accused for things I didn't even, and them so called "friends" would never have my back. I don't need people like that around me. You made my week man. Thanks a lot.
@traceyhughes6424
@traceyhughes6424 7 жыл бұрын
Great video Tyler What hurts when It comes from the very people you do the most for
@honeyabdurahman2412
@honeyabdurahman2412 5 жыл бұрын
I freaking love this guy🦂
@ethanstopic
@ethanstopic 3 жыл бұрын
People tried to ruin my relationship 🤦🏾‍♀️
@BRockin25
@BRockin25 5 жыл бұрын
3:27 isn't true all the time but this is also a signal to ignore/get rid of the listeners. If they don't defend you the entire environment is toxic
@msd7514
@msd7514 4 жыл бұрын
I'm having this issue with my partner in my relationship. He keep bringing me garbage to me what somebody said about me.
@P121-27
@P121-27 7 жыл бұрын
you are such a blessing, good person
@TylerJTI
@TylerJTI 7 жыл бұрын
OldSchool4Life. Thank you for your comment. Peace and blessings to you.
@Ankhakaru
@Ankhakaru 2 жыл бұрын
Ignore it, focus on yourself & push forward and it will all fall off of you like water upon a jagged stone.
@belahomes6894
@belahomes6894 5 жыл бұрын
Yup exactly what happened lol I'm over here watchin this😂 and like " yup, yup"
@Rebecca-bj6uz
@Rebecca-bj6uz 5 жыл бұрын
You described my situation perfectly. Thanks for the affirmation that I'm handling it in the best way possible.
@danielsreal5426
@danielsreal5426 10 ай бұрын
Did someone spread rumours about you
@williamcrowther2006
@williamcrowther2006 3 жыл бұрын
Wish I had seen this sooner with the amount of lies no one believes anything that i try to say but thanks for helping before it got worse
@domar6274
@domar6274 3 жыл бұрын
This happens to me too they keep spreading lies to me life is too hard
@arandomshitpostbot9186
@arandomshitpostbot9186 5 жыл бұрын
Tyler I just wanna say thank you. I know its common sense not to listen to these fools, but it always helps by hearing what needs to be said by another person. People been calling my brother a rapist because he's a social shut in, but he's never been with a woman in his entire life. Thank you so much for speaking the truth. Thank you so much for the video. Thank you so much for the time.
@terriali645
@terriali645 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tylor going through what you just expressed for some time now. God will deal with them.
@laceyyuan7781
@laceyyuan7781 4 жыл бұрын
Never needed to hear this more in my life. Thank you. Focus on good character. Focus on kindness.
@AimeeAminho
@AimeeAminho Жыл бұрын
Worst is when your own family and relatives spread rumours to pull you down
@KM-oy5yh
@KM-oy5yh 2 ай бұрын
AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉
@fromAshyToClassy
@fromAshyToClassy 3 жыл бұрын
Yesssssssss, same person's lies on me, there are people who have destroyed them with lies.
@mattlogan5098
@mattlogan5098 6 жыл бұрын
people need to get a life
@Koiriko_
@Koiriko_ 6 жыл бұрын
Matt Logan word......
@sharebeartay
@sharebeartay 5 жыл бұрын
the person who talks the worst about me is the one with absolutely nothing else to do with her time 🙄
@Keys879
@Keys879 4 жыл бұрын
@@sharebeartay And you're doing things, at least in their eyes. So they're going to mess with you. I have the same thing going on at my job. They've done so much damage though.
@acorncap8032
@acorncap8032 4 жыл бұрын
Wolf God periodt😭
@mysecretsketchbook865
@mysecretsketchbook865 4 жыл бұрын
Matt the person who lied about me at the time wasn't a public figure but she had many things going for her. Then in an instant karma changed everything straight after she spread the biggest LIE about me.
@bruh6830
@bruh6830 5 жыл бұрын
This helped me because one of my friends parents are lying that I have a Facebook (I don't) and I post stuff like "my dad doesn't love me" etc. I was getting really sad but this helped me to feel better, thank you even though you probably won't read this.
@MrTriumphantLad
@MrTriumphantLad 7 жыл бұрын
Thank You! This is very inspirational! I've been through hell and back in the past 1.5months, and just lately starting to get back on track and trying to stay positive, but every so often these heinous horrific rumors resurface and no matter what front I put on, it worries and gives me anxiety...
@TylerJTI
@TylerJTI 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mr. TriumphantLad. I am very glad that this is very inspirational to you. I am glad that it can help. Always keep focused and don't think about the rumors that in your past. If you need to message me or need a listening hear, you can send me a private message. Peace and blessings to you MrTruimphantLad. Hope you visit my channel again.
@kaishenanigans833
@kaishenanigans833 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this message! I really needed it right now.
@KnottsBear-yTalesPreserved
@KnottsBear-yTalesPreserved 9 ай бұрын
Currently dealing with that on a theme park project I am working on. Claiming that I am discriminating those on the autism spectrum. Yet me and half of the team working on it are on the spectrum ourselves. It is absolutely frustrating and mental draining. Like it hurts so much. But regardless. I gotta move on and hope that the Truth will prevail one day.
@preciousgems4036
@preciousgems4036 5 жыл бұрын
So people talk shit and lies about me and they say it don't matter because its not true But the people who hear the lies treat me according to the lies
@preciousgems4036
@preciousgems4036 5 жыл бұрын
Franchee Day THANK YOU FOR YOUR INSPIRATION GOD BLESS YOU !!!!!!!!
@Questloot-wp2gt
@Questloot-wp2gt 5 жыл бұрын
Why would you to get to know or befriend the people who believe the lies, Screw them and move on.
@bettabelieveit34
@bettabelieveit34 5 жыл бұрын
@@Questloot-wp2gt Amen 💯
@joyceprater4647
@joyceprater4647 Жыл бұрын
Thank goodness they don't have nothing better to do but make up lies about my life, Glory to god no weapons formed against shall prosper amen.
@gominamyoung6071
@gominamyoung6071 6 жыл бұрын
Tell it like it is Tyler. Keep the videos coming bro man! 😁😆😆😁😁😄😄😄😁😆😁🍷🍷🍷🍷🍷🍷🍷🍷😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍🍷🍷🍇🍇🍇😃
@Movieclips_101
@Movieclips_101 Жыл бұрын
When they can’t find nothing on you they start spreading false rumors about you 💯
@KM-oy5yh
@KM-oy5yh 2 ай бұрын
AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN, This is Soooooo #TRYE, I'M A #LIVING witness 2 this 🎉
@queenbronx3153
@queenbronx3153 3 жыл бұрын
Two guys have sexually assaulted me on different occasions; they are both lying on my name and most of their friends I was cool with also. It makes me feel sad knowing I can’t do anything to defend my name but things are being said which are untrue. I hope God reveals their colours to people
@carpathianken
@carpathianken 2 жыл бұрын
Sexual assault is a serious crime. For your own well being & for the safety of others you really should report those guys to the authorities
@theminuteman3460
@theminuteman3460 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the advice. I really appreciate it. My ex girlfriend (and some of her friends) from 8th grade and early High school started spreading serious rumors about me after I broke up with her. This whole situation started around this time five years ago. People kept giving me a hard time during my 10-12 grade years. I graduated from High school about year and a half ago and I still occasionally get text messages from old classmates saying that I’m a piece of shit. Personally I just wish people would leave me alone and move on with their lives because this rumor happened a few years ago.
@ayandawendy1538
@ayandawendy1538 4 жыл бұрын
I HV been going through this pain for so long... And now it's get worse than before... Bt I believe nd trust God that he will fight for me... its hurts so much😥😢 bt I'll keep on being strong 😊
@nostalgic762
@nostalgic762 7 жыл бұрын
I'm being called a "snitch" which is some elementary thing to say in high School, and this person just keeps telling everyone about it , when it is obviously lies since he doesn't even know what happened, or has any proof. he talks behind my back but never comes up to me. i don't know what to do I'm just planning to stand up for myself but im usually the anti- social person who does not talk to people, I'm a serious person and only talk to certain people. it's giving me stress for no reason when I know I shouldn't be worrying about something that is a lie but, everyone stares at me now.
@TylerJTI
@TylerJTI 7 жыл бұрын
kimmy Chavez. peace and blessings to you. In a situation like that, don't focus on that person who is spreading lies and rumors because soon of a later, he will get exposed by his or her wrong doing. People will believe the lies at first, but those people who are spreading lies or rumors to spend a week or a month with see what type of person you are. if they don't comply, don't worry about them. focus on your goals because it's a waste of time focusing on some one who spreading lies. if you want to talk more about it, i am here to listen.If you like a request for me to do a video on, i will look into it. thanks for stopping by my channel. hope you visit again. hope everything gets better
@akio2595
@akio2595 6 жыл бұрын
Park Jiminie honestly, i dont see anything wrong with being a "snitch". The people in my class use that term all the time and its why i never really see people getting told on by the actual student. If your telling a teacher that someone is doing something wrong, then your improving the learning environment and helping other people learn. Its just an endless cycle of people getting involved in things that they shouldn't be. Someone being called a snitch really is a stupid thing to call someone as they are doing the right thing. My friends on the bus were talking to this frenemy of ours and he pointed out my friend saying "you think that because you like to learn" in a sarcastic voice which is honestly really stupid. If you like to learn, its going to lead you to a great life. Besides, even if you won't have a friend in school, you should have a friend outside of school who can understand your situation and help you.
@miguelcruz2682
@miguelcruz2682 Жыл бұрын
When ppl talk about me I don't say anything cuz my ACTIONS DO All the talking & I live in there Heads RENT FREE!! Plus makes me feel famous!!!.🙌👍✌️
@rebeccamatherz
@rebeccamatherz 4 жыл бұрын
I had a guy who I worked with who would tell me to do random jobs. I had just been trained up on a new job and told by trainer not to do any other jobs on the side as I had to make sure machinery was working properly. This guy asks me to do some jobs that I'm not trained on. I said thats not my job or even in my department, I was just doing what I was trained to do. If I left to do something else and something when wrong, that was on me. He proclaimed that he was a manager. I found out later that he wasn't. He tried to get me into trouble with the real management. I get called to the office. I told management that I was just doing as I had been told to do, but I also mentioned that he'd been bothering me allot. He ends up getting into trouble because the management saw he wasnt working on camera. After that someone approched me and said that he had said to tell me that he 'hated me' and had been putting in a bad word to everyone. I ended up losing my job and got put in a lower role. The worst thing about it was noone told me that I was being replaced on my job. Someone else walked in and just took over what I was doing one day.
@carpathianken
@carpathianken 2 жыл бұрын
That sounds like a seriously toxic work environment & it only enables dipshits like the one asking you to do his work because the communication from the management is non existent
@gamergeek_2470
@gamergeek_2470 4 жыл бұрын
I’m already going through the same thing. Thank You 🙏
@JuliaShalomJordan
@JuliaShalomJordan Жыл бұрын
Lots a wisdom here. I really needed this encouragement. Thank you!
@valerinasilva6488
@valerinasilva6488 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. This is so true. I have a neighbor that has past hurtful lies about me and my family. Some of the neighbors has mistreated me and my family because of these lies. I want to sell and move but I can't. I try to maintain positive but it it so hard.
@mommytorres16
@mommytorres16 6 жыл бұрын
Valerina Silva That's what I'm going through right now. Somehow it is harder to believe that I'm reading a book and minding my own business than...get this...that I'm working with a gang AND corrupt cops. 🙄 I'm disabled, don't know a single cop nor have I ever been involved with any gangs. I just know that I'm losing the use of my legs and while I can, I'm reading outside for a few hours a day instead of only seeing the 4 walls in my apartment. They're not going to run me away with their paranoid delusions and puffed up ego and sense of self! I'm doing what I always have, reading and minding my own business. They've turned out to be horrible "friends" and a type of "Christian" that doesn't follow scripture...which I have no room in my life for. It sure would be nice if they'd MOVE though!
@lilbean8199
@lilbean8199 4 жыл бұрын
I feel so much better after watching this video, it made me see things in a different perspective, thank you!!😊😊
@3vanguardofthephoenix335
@3vanguardofthephoenix335 3 жыл бұрын
I know i am guilty of it, but I try not to talk bad on people in a way that spreads rumors. If I need to vent I go to someone I know isnt going to gossip It's so hard for me to forgive because I am a loyal person. I try my hardest to treat people good but its hard when they hurt you. I had a really close friend of mine, and we were venting to eachother and I told her one thing that pisses me off is when someone undermines my intelligence. Anyway I work with her 8 hrs a day 5 days a week, and she eventually started being really mean to me. And she called me stupid and smirked... Saying "just kidding" as if thats a pass on intentionally insulting me. The next day she interrupted me and was super rude. Anyway now we work in different areas and i havent talked to her since. I know we are supposed to forgive one another, as God forgives our sins... But its so hard, because I would never intentionally hurt her like that. I pray God gives us the strength to forgive those who have wronged us, because we should be examples of his children representing heaven on earth Love you man, praying for you and me and everyone else here... Cause we are all hurting and could use some good spiritual wisdom, healing, courage, strength, ambition, and tenacity to fight our demons! Mine are lust, addiction, distraction/sloth (video games), feeling alone and worthless (which isnt true idk why i believe the lies these demons keep telling me) Thats what it is folks. The grand secret. We have good ("angels") and bad ("demons") interdimensional dieties indirectly affecting our reality. Every person in a position of power, on tv, a wealthy person etc i believe is being controlled by evil spirits. Call it the illuminati, cabal, vatican, brotherhood of darkness whatever... They exist. All roads lead to Rome. Do your research. Pray the holy spirit of our righteous creator fills you with wisdom and eyes to see and ears to hear! Neither light nor dark can directly affect the outcome of things until the final battle. A humbling fact is that we are as pawns. A pawn doesnt know who crafted it. A pawn is unaware that it is being moved by a human. It cannot possibly imagine what a human is, nor what a human is capable of. It cant even see or hear the human. All it knows is the chess board. The grind. The 9-5. Scary fact is, most pawns dont know which side they fight for. If you allow evil to happen, and do nothing, you are responsible for the suffering of others. That is why we fight. For our loved ones, for our animals, for our enemies. We must love everyone and be an example of how humans should treat eachother. This life is a gift given to us by a creator we don't understand, or cant remember. Treat this life as a chance to show your creator love in every way! In the vital nutritious food you eat, in the way you selflessly help others, the way you smile and treat even the least insect with grace and respect! Be a flower! Blossom into the beautiful happy being you were before we let society dictate us :) Thanks for reading my rant. Yah bless you all ❤
@Sweetjunglequeen
@Sweetjunglequeen 3 жыл бұрын
You are preaching 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@GoldenEagle_Matariki_Kaleolani
@GoldenEagle_Matariki_Kaleolani 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tyler !!! Thank you for empowering us with your words of wisdom, I am forwarding your video to others who needed to hear your advice =)
@TylerJTI
@TylerJTI 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much I appreciate it😊
@familyloyalty43
@familyloyalty43 2 жыл бұрын
Truth, they're talentless manipulators. Thank you for this..
@ananya_kathak
@ananya_kathak 2 жыл бұрын
My mom does it all the time. Becomes hard to think bad about her and ignore stuff easily.
@lenitypious6579
@lenitypious6579 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks dear brother that's really true on how to handle the poker friends.
@TylerJTI
@TylerJTI 7 жыл бұрын
Aderick Anatol. Thank you so much for your comment .Peace and blessings to you.
@mikesmith6594
@mikesmith6594 4 ай бұрын
So true Tyler speaking facts!
@marylynch951
@marylynch951 5 жыл бұрын
Hi Tyler Omg I needed to hear this video today And yes omg people have ripped my character apart Who did this ? My ex abusive husband told the most appalling lies about me And because he is the Mr nice guy to the outside world Family and some people turned against me and believed him Thank you Tyler And God bless you always
@logisticsdoctors7122
@logisticsdoctors7122 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. I needed this.
@2009Andersen
@2009Andersen 5 ай бұрын
How do you change the world. More like the same question. It is amazing to me that people who spreads fake or bad rumors has no empathy or remorse anymore for how they can devastate a persons image or soul in the first place. Not seeing what they do and actually look upon themselves before they do it as good people. They can traumatize a person just, because some dumb person or a narcissist has created a false rumor about a person. 10-20-30 people. How can people Not understand, that they are not directly helping the narcissist or a bad person, but they subconsciously help him/her hurting other people and then the toxic person is just laughing behind the scene. Do you want to help those toxic people create a world like that. NO! Wake up out there! Dont take part in it and spread fake or bad news! Break that human behavior pattern. Think by yourself and commit to take part in the goodness of healing and passion for the entire community. Talk to the person that is hurt. Tell them. It is bigger than yourself!
@quickstep145
@quickstep145 5 ай бұрын
"I was quiet, but I was not blind." Jane Austen.
@kevinturner3400
@kevinturner3400 7 жыл бұрын
Kimmy chavez only stand up for yourself when peoples come and ask you and tell your side of your story its ok to be anti social to those don't mean you well treat them with along handle spoon don't worry about the lies he told. Everyone and behind your back you know its not true you know who you are sooner or later all the peoples he told them lies about you they will get mad at him and turn on him and some will want to be your friends and every tree is knowed by its fruit be strong keep your head up and focus on you and your goal or goals for yourself much empathy
@juliechurch1799
@juliechurch1799 3 жыл бұрын
Tyler . I can see you a good decent person . Your right ignore liars jealous bitter people . From USA
@thepersonalprocesspodcast8949
@thepersonalprocesspodcast8949 2 жыл бұрын
Appreciate you. This was a terrific video sir!
@Serious-note
@Serious-note 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for helping me out 😊
@isaiahwhitney3007
@isaiahwhitney3007 6 жыл бұрын
Preach brother Preach! He reminds me of Katt Williams 👍
@jasminejp5899
@jasminejp5899 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this encouragement
@givetolive635
@givetolive635 6 жыл бұрын
awesome...gos around comes around..
@lovelysouls3205
@lovelysouls3205 4 жыл бұрын
Here I thought I was alone experiencing this...
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