HOW TO HANDLE FALSE RUMORS | what NOT to do when toxic people spread lies about you

[@Rrynnii]

Every day in College they hate how I carry myself

[@MotivatedByTrevonJones]

Be genuine, Be yourself, Be kind, and if someone hates you for that, that’s on them

[@sedingwemaduo]

you are not alone brother😍

[@Besties490]

Jesus and God loves you

[@itzlotv]

I’m going threw the same thing right now my brother. Hopefully your in a better space and I get there eventually.

[@Jawsandabs]

We can’t control what people say or do so just be your beautiful self and they can continue to be their miserable self… ✨ shine

[@heaven33957]

Jealousy defines their feelings about themselves 1,000,000%

[@Babesinthewood97]

I thought after a few months people would stop staring at me if I keep a low profile, but no. It’s been 6 months and groups of people are still glaring at me. When I tried to smile politely at them they turned away. And the problem is that they seem to tell actual friends to ditch me and my work boss to think badly of me too. I’m not sure I could ask for a reference now. It’s a shame I’ve told personal information to these people. They’re probably using it to trash me. :( My crime? I have done absolutely nothing more than to keep away from people who are rude. That’s enough.

[@GahmConrad]

If they’re spreading false information about you, then it’s defamation, and you could technically sue them over it

[@Clumsyhumann]

Same exactly same A muslim girl first manipulated me by asking my crush and calling me "gay" On telling i have none, then she guilt trapped me by calling me gay and i just took one of my relatives name, cause i thought may be crush meanse like that only with whom we play and feel happy, but no my heartbeats never got raised as we were childhood Friends and they spreaded this to whole collage but hided their real crush whom they approached.... And got clear rejected.... And then we had little discords because of A new friend and then she revenged by creating shit that i am Dating A guy and i used to go to meet him but the fact was i used to go to meet my school friend A girl and in a fully awarness of my parents and her parents and... She did this on my birthday when i didnt ask that muslim girl and whole group to come and celebrate with me, dimple my school friend requested me A lot so i decide to celebrate with her just to spend time peacefully near the lake..... That muslim girl ceased everybody to tell me that i world Fight with her and they used to joke that was not actually A joke and when i tend to ask then she herself use to answer "mazak h", how cruely they ganged up and messaged me cheaply by unkwn phn no and insta accounts by dirty nonveg messages and harrased me mentally, at first MSG i thought it was my cousin but when the nonveg messages started i got Its not him and i Even confirmed with him that stop pranking like this, & after that multiple WA msgs and insta account MSG i got mentally exausted by thinking what is happening and j showed those messages to my sister, as i was always open to her at my home, about everything, Even i shared my daily routine everything that used to happen.... I could never conclude thst A girl who called me her friend stabbed me at my back like this.... And acted as my friend on my face.... And after 3 years i got to knw behind all cheap taunts and harrasment was A girl whom i trusted the most in that group and she revenged me for small discords of friendship.... I am totally speechless, i cried and begged then to say what was going on behind me but they lied.... And how mean girl who herself had relationships in past acted as like A swan, Some parents forget to give morals to their child and this lacking affects others life... She was never slapped at her mistakes and this was the result of that carelessness

[@Ifyouseekyou]

It's been a year... They won't keep staring at me. And the rumours won't go away either. I've developed severe anxiety

[@pinkbetty7]

Exactly what's going on with me. But since I left the job with no notice. The rumors have spread throughout the city.

[@oscaroscar7904]

I find people who say untrue things and spread lies/ rumors deserves karma i really really do, heres the thing i look at what a person dose not what he says he dose, your a good person and you sound like your surrunded by alot of selfish a.. holes who lack self reflection, and its also a cowardly way to try to get power over people for some, thats why i look at what a person dose not what they say they do, if they use all their free time or time in general spreading lies/ talking thrash what do you think other people are saying about them? Thats what karma is, its nothing magical but its how we behave, people do pay attention if someone talks and say untrue things or think the worst of people and will probably dislike them after a while, but iv heard self reflection is as low as 5 to 10% in the population😅 but i would just ignore or make them inviseble since its not much you can do to change these people, life is to short to use energy on there misreble "reality show drama spreading gossip bull," it really is to short its like george harrison said " a lifetime is so short, a new one cant be bought."

[@Tex777_]

Thanks for your videos. Currently dealing with a tough situation where some really aggressive lies are being told about me and your advice is greatly appreciated.

[@nazimsaifi4957]

Same thing happened with me and I lost couple of weight and mental health but I am trying to be fit again

[@MystiC860]

💯 Thanks for this. Very helpful... My first workplace had a circulation of rumours about me which even impacted me mentally for a long time. These are great tips.

[@gatogringo6382]

what i found works the best is finding people that are smart enough to not judge uou bedore getting to know you.

[@Tdtheprodigy]

Fr because if they believe the rumours without ever talking to you they were never supposed to be around you in the first place

[@Userm2155]

Absolutely, I figured out that people don’t even believe these rumors when they know you and are more like no way. I recently had people I don’t know spread false rumors about me. When people don’t know you, they spread such ridiculous evil lies that others will never believe it when you are the last person to be guilty of such things. Initially, it feels like your reputation, relationships and dignity may be destroyed and suspicion may develop. But you’ll actually see it backfiring, handle it with honor and goodness, and your dignity increases.

[@hithere7056]

I guess the bright side is that you get to find out which of your friends are fake, and which ones will have your back and believe you no matter what 🥰

[@bluephoenix3865]

I bet this would work at work too thanks brother😀🙂😌

[@hughholtz6632]

Rumors are usually based on someone’s misperception or misrepresentation of a partial truth about you. There is nothing you can do about it other than be your best you and live your best life. Do they pay your bills? Do they truly care about you? Forget them! Living well is truly the best revenge! Keep smiling and keep your head up! The people meant to be in your orbit and life will find you, and see who you really are and see past the half truths that are only half lies. They are the ones that will love you, and will value your time. The others are a waste of your mental energy and time. I plead with whoever is reading this to stay strong and soldier on!!! 💪

[@donnayork4533]

The greatest freedom is learning to not care who says what to who or who believes what.

[@YW2324]

I watch a KZbin group and someone decided to spread a rumor around about something related to something they were joking around about. Why do people see the need to do this to someone, especially if they dislike that individual. Like if you don't like them, thats perfectly ok. But dont try and hurt others because of your animosity toward someone. 😊 I hope that makes sense. Logic sometimes isnt there.

[@lajimolala4968]

Thank you. Great advice. Positive and details. I hope everything in my life will turn to be okay soon.

[@bananaz934]

recently i got a rumor spread about me and i feel so shitty right now

[@lajimolala4968]

@@bananaz934 I can feel you. Always be positive and spread positivities. You know your truth, so please to always be yourself. Let people see you. Sooner or later they will figure out and realize everything (what's really going on, who's the toxic one, etc). When people ask you about what's going on, tell them the truth (your side of story). But dont force them to believe you or your story. Let them choose by themselves what they're going to believe. I have narcissist coworker. She and her flying monkeys are very VERY toxic and evil. I do all the advice above every day while dealing with them. Slowly but sure, one by one, the truth is revealed. Stay strong. You can do it. We can do it.

[@DriftLibrary]

Today I cut the final tie to my extended family. They are always so full of hate and always gossip about me. I haven’t been to any family gatherings with them for almost a decade because of their energy. Every time I see them there’s something new about me that I didn’t even know 😂 So for my own personal health I just have to let them go. Although I want to love my family, they’re just so toxic and it’s hard to maintain any loving connection with them. Seeing this, I know I’ve made the right decision. Thank you dude ❤

[@helensophia2900]

Love this video! Amazing advice,thank you🙏

[@sck7458]

I come to this video from time to time and each time I'm left with utmost assurance of true vindication. Time has a way of sorting alot of things out. I used to be highly reactive when I had my integrity questioned. Now I don't react at all,thanks to your video I got my calm back.

[@MotivatedByTrevonJones]

That’s good! That means you’ve really understood the message, encourage others and keep your head up ✊🏾

[@t3slu]

this helped me a ton thank you, i recently was upset abt people calling me a hoe in school and spreading it when im not a hoe andd this helped alot

[@jalondaroulette9975]

im going through the same thing this guy keeps saying i fucked his friends which is so cap idek what to say or do but we’ll get through it imma just be me🩵

[@t3slu]

thank u for this you reminded me of whats really important:).@James-gp5cw

[@t3slu]

@@jalondaroulette9975 so i just got out of the situation recently all i did was start keeping to myself and ignored the allegations acted unbothered etc i mean theres still people saying things but i just ignore it

[@Ashley-js5se]

Be the greatest you being great all the time. What sucks is when that group of people are from different groups and not connected and are all lying about you and then having to walk around and people seeing and thinking about you and you’re false image because of everyone’s lies about you and then another false image of you popping up everyday!

[@Yuriko_St4rr]

I have a rumor I think I know who started it 1. My ex-friend 2. My old friend I don’t talk to anymore 3. My bestfriend’s twin sister

[@mayabatana836]

My ex is spreading rumours that I continuously tried to cheat on him but didn't have any takers, apparently their was a guy who could have slept with me multiple times but didn't outta respect for him. SMH, I wonder what this clown will come up with next, why can't he just leave me alone 😤

[@me-hk4ro]

i went through the same thing literally

[@Msh4rky]

I met my Ex at a friends and family gathering where I wasn't related to anyone but my mom and sister. He did some stuff that made him look like a possible neo-nazi and I immediately broke up with him. Someone out there has been saying that he was my cousin and that I'm still dating him, I know who said that and I want to confront them on it before this ruins my life, what should I even do?

[@RasmDenStoreDK]

I had someone in my class that desperately tryed to make 2 rumors about me there where both jokes i made in the pass, one was that i had necrophilia and the other is that i drew porn

[@aka_dumbo]

Ok so it’s currently on brake and my “friend” told me she did inappropriate stuff and asked me if I did and feeling pressured I said yes and then one day she got mad at me and told a bunch of people and I’m so scared to go back from school cause I’m scared I’m gonna have no friends

[@GeorgeWashington-xg2su]

Therese’s a rumor about me in school and i graduate in 2027 so like this so when I graduate I’ll give an Uptade ‼️

[@LUCIFER-STEELERSFAVORITE]

Yeah, I got people spreading rumors about me right now I’m a pedophile and string tension and I should never give them power on Tuesday. Now it’s keep going again like I did a couple years ago and now her do it again I just lost friends for no reason.

[@2009Andersen]

How do you change the world. More like the same question. It is amazing to me, that people who spreads rumors has no empathy or remorse anymore, when they devastate a persons image or soul in the first place. Not seeing what they do and actually look upon themselves hurting another person. They can traumatize a person just, because some dumb person or a narcissist has created a false rumor without facts. How can people not understand, that they are not directly helping the narcissist or a bad person, but they subconsciously help him/her hurting other people. Then the toxic person is just laughing behind the scene. 10-20-30 people. Do you want to help toxic people like that. NO! Wake up out there! Dont take part in it!

[@esme752]

I NEEDED this. False rumors are being spread about me left and right, like this one girl is telling everyone that I got mad that friend zoned me so I threatened to kill her family. None of that ever happened, but thanks for the advice 🫶🏻🫶🏻

[@niyawinchester]

Quaaalityyyy🔥🔥

[@between_happenings]

Hey why don't u try uploading videos with captions so it'll be easy for people around

[@MatthewHong-w3k]

If a popular kid with a better reputation than you and you have a bad reputation because of previous false rumors meaning people don’t trust your word the only solution A have a even more influential friend B be popular and nice and everyone knows you C kill the rumor spreader hire someone to clear you name by using thair influence to make sure everyone knows that your innocent threaten him with no evidence against you so that you can make them tell everyone he was joking by using online evidence and more

[@leezoo3891]

Everywhere I go people know me because of those rumors and they can't stop judging and honestly it's just spreading even though I cut myself off from everyone and changed my environment but the world is small everyone knows everyone and if one person know me literally so many others get to know about it too. How do I live in an environment where everyone knows me because of the rumors and not me

[@lovelife4111]

Go ahead and start thinking about what you going to call your subs. 😂 It's only a matter of time. Great vid. 💯

[@MotivatedByTrevonJones]

Got any ideas? 😂

[@aizentheg4369]

@@MotivatedByTrevonJones homies

[@powerofhonesty9583]

Thank you for sharing this brother. Our neighbours spread false rumours about us calling us ISIS etc. All the new neighbours believe them and look at us dirtily. We are a Muslim couple surrounded by evilness. They destroyed our flat and car. Now some new Muslim family moved in and they ignore us and one of them came with a bunch of their family right outside our door laughing and talking really loud and letting their kids play with our letter box banging on our letter box and the adults were laughing. We told them when they first moved in that these neighbours call us ISIS and got a gang of 50-100 guys with dogs outside our door with weapons surrounded us, and even after opening up our heart to them these neighbours did very similar. It’s so sad how people treat us differently just because we are Muslim. Our own Muslims believe them that’s even more heart breaking and gang up on us with them. We been suffering with this for 7 years and since last year we spoke up.

[@sivakumara8198]

Thank u so much 4 this video❤🥺💓💓

[@stooglesgoogles7246]

Im in high school and i walked in the locker room and everyone just started laughing at me. Im so confused. I wasnt wearing anything weird or doing anything. Just walking in there for gym class and everyone just stared and laughed at me. I feel so alone

[@Chamberlain-ef9pk]

Great video...kill the music

[@MorriganJade]

Also, do not be like me and enter into a villain era when it becomes relentless. Being purposely antagonistic, as that would defeat point 2. I learned that the hard way. I don't think this stuff surrounding me is ever recoverable, but despite their opinion, nurturing kindness despite adversary is a much better route. Like the paraphrased quote of Marcus Aurelius: "the best revenge is to be unlike your enemy". Which implies "do not even *go* on revenge. Just be a better person than they are."

[@gaia01lucas01]

almost every day with people i mean my neighbours 😣 they dont even know the real story behind and they are gossip things not being true or are mean 😣😐 how to handle them, and to go out normaly ? i have a dog and its hard when are all on you 😪 any info and help ? sorry for my english 🙏 greetz

[@brucemah609]

Thank you so much!

[@lukes401k]

got banned from the subway i used to work at and fired from my job at smoothie king in the same day because girls made up rumors that i went into the girls locker room and that I had a hit list. It just kind of sucks, but it's best to just move on. Im 17 btw

[@lukes401k]

@James-gp5cw nah, I’m just gonna drink and smoke

[@elijahstephens1179]

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[@sineshabalala6249]

Solid advice thank you so much 🙏🏽

[@YMSocialMedia]

May I use your last tip in a project I'm making? I am not monetized and I will give you credit.

[@MotivatedByTrevonJones]

Of course!

[@kz9620]

When its the government though making false stories 😳

[@bleh2590]

Thank you, your editing made me laugh and your advice gave me peace of mind

[@rizmacadillac]

Talk about rumors. I used to believe in the "sticks and stones" theory and attempt to not worry too much about rumors. I was basically and fundamentally a good student and there was not much more to my personality. As a kid, was I sometimes stupid? Did I sometimes act like a kid? I suspect so but one of the first complaints I heard as a kid came from a girl who attended a church similar to mine. We were in Science Class together and she began ranting and complaining about the evil of Science and how it offended God. And there were complaints about Science vs The Bible and what I should study and such but I was not going to disrupt school or cause people trouble. But I had a cousin who wanted to be a Medical Doctor and I've always believed he would have done well. But he did not make it ... he ended up becoming a Professor (PhD) instead but working in a field related to Medicine. I never asked him but once I saw the damage critics could do to my life I wondered if other critics hurt him and his goal of becoming a Doctor. Not only are you taking courses and studying material that adults force you to take BY LAW, but you are also young and unable to understand why people are such harsh critics... because a rumor you are studying Chemistry or Biology is NOT a FALSE RUMOR but simply a truth that some people find immoral and believe makes you a dishonest individual. I'm still really bad with people but there is a lot I would change for the better if I could and had to go back to school. Better ways of expressing and defending myself and a hugely better way of understanding the world. And I was thinking about comparing my behavior to the behavior of someone else I know, but that would be spreading a rumor and even if it is a true rumor I believe people have to grow and mature. But I was raised a Christian and even though everyone in town knows what the school system teaches I had a mother who might have been happier if I had reported the school system to church authorities for proper punishment by the church. Basically, I'm glad I learned the material and behaved in school because I still don't know everything.

[@TheHiddenPathToHeaven]

Amen man🙏❤️‍🩹♾️✨ God said evil will try to dig a hole to push you in but they shall fall in themselves, be still and know God is God and do NOT give the devil a reaction. Amen Mann thank you

[@pumapath2282]

I’ve been a football coach at my old high school from 2017-2020. Then a coach at different high school from 2021-2022 and brought my team to a state championship. All by age 26. My best friend lied to girls and boys I was friends with saying I was “playing football with the high schoolers” What a loser he was for saying that. Time went by and people realized he was a habitual liar and I ended up making more friends afterwards. My best friend lied to people and s

[@1unknownsoul997]

Wow your an genius 😮 I done the exact opposite I needs to chill

[@MotivatedByTrevonJones]

😂😂 yeah I wouldn’t recommend the opposite LOL

[@1unknownsoul997]

@@MotivatedByTrevonJones 😂😂😂lesson learning big time. Thank you💯

[@keithdrummond1003]

Awesome advice. For those that don't mind reading: Meditations, Marcus Aurelius Stoicism

[@Bandowdf]

Yessirrr🖤

[@gintsgavrilovs2062]

I was in school and my bestfriend gave another friend called Mya a drawing that she drew and Mya was going around saying that she drew it when she didn't. She showed 2 other ppl and I (QUIETLY) said its not your drawing it's my best friends and how could they hear that then Mya said that I gave it away And she kept spreading it and I was following her around and I even told my bestfriend. Mya was mad at me and just shoved me while walking past me or idk how to say it but then she apologised

[@pinkbetty7]

It's throughout my city. Never experienced this before.

[@blackflyingfox3365]

I never had to play detective because for me the rumors started when I was living in a small trailer park surrounded by a whole lot of nothing but woods and trees. When you only have daily contact with like 10 people it's really easy to figure out who started the rumor and who continues to spread it. I moved to another town 15 miles away and presto all the rumors stopped. As soon as I moved to another trailer park where kin of the first trailer park lived the same rumors started up again. I figured out it was an entire family that was spreading the aggressive rumors. I moved again and to no surprise the nasty rumors again stopped. Some people are just toxic.

[@voce_simul]

Ahhhh this video put my mind at ease so much... Thank you for helping to be more mindful ❤❤❤

[@catzska]

Not in my neighborhood. My neighbor has been telling lies and retaliating against me for years and will not stop. I keep to myself, I do not engage at all. However she have convinced most of our neighborhood I am this horrible person and these people don’t even know me or the ones that did still choose to believe my nasty, lying, bully neighbor. I can not move, every time I go out I get started at, the neighbor shouts at me and about me from fer backyard to me. I never react or respond. They do not go away. In fact it has gotten worse and worse. She has cameras pointed into my windows so I have to leave my curtains closed all the time, she harasses me on a daily and nightly basis and has for years. She is an alcoholic and throws parties all the time. The police have done nothing. I have documented everything. She threw poison into my back yard trying to poison my dog. She throws dog poop into my yard and told many neighbors I did that to her into her pool. Everything she does to me she is the one who has done these awful things to me. I am terrified of her and I stay silent. I don’t react or respond.

[@TheHiddenPathToHeaven]

The TRUTH AKA YOURSELF WILL SET YOU FREE BE WITH GOD THE MAN OF GOLD IS REAL🙏💪

[@graysonwells4959]

I’m in middle school and I’ve said stupid things a while back that truly were jokes but people only screenshot one thing and that leads people to believe I want nudes from other people and I’m on break rn and scared as shit to go back to school and I’ve lost friends but that’s okay because they are actual shit friends.

[@riyatomar9400]

They're just dumb people who don't get sarcasm . Do you amd ignore them. You don't have to be afraid of anyone.

[@yagirlskyunmotivatedroadto1834]

Bro are u ok? Give us updates maybe we can help more

[@mekdestesafa9709]

Thank you for this I really needed this 💕💕💕💕

[@khalanitalton7061]

Thanks cause somebody got a video which is not me and going around saying I’m ran thru

[@Unsubiquit]

can u make a video on dealing with people who always suspect you

[@ailiajafri2726]

Someone also spread totally false rumors accusations agaiant my health falsely labelling me mental health patient i never had migraine in my life not at all a drug addict .Classmates recently tried to troll me through social media assocoiating me with phobias i never had like i never had height phobias had been on planes many times visited abroad .Even lived in towers love altitude places someone falsely assocating me with all this .

[@thatbombshell]

yo dude trevon, you are so cool and amazing like i love your advices. it really makes me confident! thanks man keep it up 😃

[@SUNAINAGARIMELLA]

This really helped me.

[@SteveSmith-nw2xg]

Great advice! Great job. Thank you

[@sherdeana]

Thank you you are so positive family members do that to me all the time my whole life is like that I went through it for very long time with family members and school jobs especially people miserable these days I'm going to pray and keep my head up

[@liza3337]

Honestly best advice without all the nonsense. Thanks

[@drsundipshenoy2471]

🙏👏👍

[@InsightWisdom22]

Thank you this really helps

[@Rhcpitar9495]

My ex started telling people my dad threatened to hurt my sisters ex but he’s friends with him rn but someone he told told me thanks for the advice

[@ProphetessDanii]

I like how you got right to the point 👏🏼

[@Hardhatreptiles95]

Helps out a lot

[@MikeLawry1111]

I needed this.

[@MariNomayriWisdomIslamicSchool]

Thank you for sharing

[@MariNomayriWisdomIslamicSchool]

Thanks for sharing

[@Misana]

Good advice

[@cat5177]

Thanks a million to ya !!

[@Marcus-Spurius-Furius]

Good advice.

[@heartattackchuufromloona36]

i cant do this anymore

[@heartattackchuufromloona36]

@James-gp5cw aww thank u i became better now

[@scottsummersreloaded4618]

🎯

[@slut5797]

Love your energy