How to Heal Emotional Pain in 2023 | Eckhart Tolle on Mental Health

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Eckhart Tolle

Eckhart Tolle

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For anyone dealing with depression or emotional pain, Eckhart discusses the importance of keeping our attention in the present and staying alert to the mind’s tendency to create further suffering.
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@chickadee677
@chickadee677 Жыл бұрын
My parents were killed in a car crash and the next year my fiancé died of lung cancer. I was devastated. I listened to Eckhart and Tich Nhat Hahn looking for relief. Tich Nhat Hahn said to find the pain in your body, breath into it and tell the pain, "I know you are there." then he said to take deep breathes into the pain and reassure yourself by saying, "I will take good care of you." That was a few years ago, and any time I feel terrible emotional pain, I stay in the present and breathe into my pain and I say "I know you are there, I will take good care of you." Thank god for these two men.
@fortissimoX
@fortissimoX Жыл бұрын
So sorry to hear about the things that happened in your life. Since you are here, watching this video, I believe that you are on good path to heal all your pain, and I wish you all the best on that path!
@janetscully3337
@janetscully3337 Жыл бұрын
You were loved in this world, which is a strong rock to stand on. My heart goes out to you because I've been to the bottom of grief and loss. I know what you are talking about. Blessings
@user-xi4jw4mh7p
@user-xi4jw4mh7p Жыл бұрын
That was very deep. Sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing what helped you through what must have been a tsunami of pain. Empathy to you.
@badtzmarugirl31
@badtzmarugirl31 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this. I will use it when I feel emotional pain. I pray that you are happy and complete wherever you are right now
@susanmumper8334
@susanmumper8334 Жыл бұрын
Ty
@yourcalmplace
@yourcalmplace Жыл бұрын
- I just want to let anyone who’s reading this, and going through a tough time know that it’s going to be okay. You’ll get through it! ✨
@DianeRyanONeill
@DianeRyanONeill Жыл бұрын
❤️
@idowurazaak4430
@idowurazaak4430 Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@ChangeYourLife1122
@ChangeYourLife1122 Жыл бұрын
namaste
@gregk5726
@gregk5726 Жыл бұрын
💙
@kimhoffman8595
@kimhoffman8595 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. I needed to hear that. 🤗
@Jeff_TUDONADA
@Jeff_TUDONADA Жыл бұрын
It took me 40 years to learn when I run away from pain it grows when I embrace pain it dissolves
@luigigiuseppetti8484
@luigigiuseppetti8484 Жыл бұрын
​@@accidentcellar6307 🙏🌻in un modo semplice:accetti quel dolore ,senza giudicarti o condannarti🙏impari ad imparare ad abbracciare quel dolore,prendendotene cura e con amore 🤝🌈🌼ti perdoni per il male che ti sei fatto,perdoni chi ti ha fatto del male☮️😊 metti pace in te stesso, namastè 🙏🌈🤝
@luigigiuseppetti8484
@luigigiuseppetti8484 Жыл бұрын
@@accidentcellar6307 🙏👌rendo grazie a te ☮️🌈in pace con noi stessi 🤝🤝🙏
@tessawilsonart
@tessawilsonart Жыл бұрын
@@accidentcellar6307 Michael singer helps me with this. He talks about relaxing every part of your body whenever a painful thought or feeling arises instead of trying to think your way out of it. When we relax and breathe it’s a form of surrender and is the only way to release trapped emotions
@Oo27254
@Oo27254 11 ай бұрын
@@accidentcellar6307 It's about having acceptance for your pain. "I hear you and I'm here for you", like embracing a crying child. The motivation shouldn't be to get rid of it. Trying to get rid of your pain is rejecting it.
@rogerballet4709
@rogerballet4709 11 ай бұрын
Glad you found the way...
@roguexnation
@roguexnation 3 ай бұрын
Pain body is fuel for Presence 💙
@softersoundsasmr
@softersoundsasmr Жыл бұрын
To anyone listening I wish you the ability to be kind and compassionate towards yourself ❤
@mindfulnesswithmatt
@mindfulnesswithmatt Жыл бұрын
processing emotions while living the vast presence is a lifelong practice. for anyone watching, you got this ☺
@johngreen4683
@johngreen4683 Жыл бұрын
The quality of our peace and happiness are the direct result of the stories we tell ourselves, the vast majority of the time nothing dramatic is actually happening in our real lives but in our internal mental world it can easily become full on non stop drama and chaos if we lose awareness 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@empty_seat
@empty_seat Жыл бұрын
I did lose awareness, and I do have that drama now… how do I get it back.
@johngreen4683
@johngreen4683 Жыл бұрын
@@empty_seat hi E S, its important not to engage with our minds thoughts, feelings and stories but to simply remind ourselves that " this isn't real" no more no less. Please don't analyse and reason why its not real, just accept thoughts are just thoughts and feelings are just feelings and they don't exist anywhere but in our minds. The more we simply remind ourselves " this is not real" the more safe our minds will feel and be prepared to let the thoughts feelings and stories go.. 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@empty_seat
@empty_seat Жыл бұрын
@@johngreen4683 okay i will give it a go. Can I replace some bad old habitual thoughts with new ones tho?
@johngreen4683
@johngreen4683 Жыл бұрын
@@empty_seat hi ES, yes 100% you can. I was plagued for years with fearful habit thoughts and false beliefs, the biggest thing i learned and came to truly accept was that, we can not think our way out of a problem that is created by and maintained by thinking in the first place. Please don't try and analyse and rationalise your way out of this unhappy relationship with your mind, please just trust your way out by simply reminding yourself " this is not real". The really good news is none of us need to fix our minds, our minds will fix themselves just fine, all we need to do is change our relationship with our mind and the thoughts and feelings its produces. Please just let me know if you need any help or support, be it today, tomorrow, next week or next month. I am very very happy to help in any way i can, you will get ttere and you are going to be more than ok, you really are 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@empty_seat
@empty_seat Жыл бұрын
@@johngreen4683 so it’ll help you say, if I don’t replace the thought by positive ones, but by practicing to accept that they’re just thoughts, but reality. And my mind will naturally rewire itself? Is that all I can do?
@funnytv-1631
@funnytv-1631 Жыл бұрын
Remember you have been criticizing yourself for years and it hasn't worked Try approving of yourself and see what happens.....
@grittykitty50
@grittykitty50 Жыл бұрын
It's a wonderful relief.
@Misslotusification
@Misslotusification Жыл бұрын
Another neurosis. As long as we try and improve, we're trapped in improving the ego.
@johngreen4683
@johngreen4683 Жыл бұрын
Good advice that N Z 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@micha_el0815
@micha_el0815 Жыл бұрын
The only possibility to free ourselves completely is to remember who we really are! 😇❤️
@lenurbatalov6445
@lenurbatalov6445 10 ай бұрын
I thought I transmuted my pain body but here I am again, listening to you teacher once again. Sending you love that knows no border dear Eckhart
@tiinaikonen6353
@tiinaikonen6353 7 ай бұрын
Thank you for this comment. I thought too, but hey there is more. Grace is with us.
@lenurbatalov6445
@lenurbatalov6445 7 ай бұрын
@@tiinaikonen6353 sending love ✨
@BecomeConsciousNow
@BecomeConsciousNow Жыл бұрын
That's a very aware thought...the pain and suffering is in me but a mere inch away from my body there is no suffering. Thus, my conditioned mind that is suffering will see the world as a painful, miserable place, which is an illusion. I must remember that.
@Yanto2013
@Yanto2013 Жыл бұрын
It takes nothing to just 'Be". It takes absolutely everything to not 'Be'.
@justinwiebeguitar
@justinwiebeguitar Жыл бұрын
Excellent. I like the part about the negative energy from the pain body being able to be converted to presence. That is definitely a good thing.
@Misslotusification
@Misslotusification Жыл бұрын
In another recently uploaded video, he speaks about the alchemical process of turning lead into gold. Suffering is the fuel to wake-up.
@brendapolar8506
@brendapolar8506 Жыл бұрын
I adore this beautiful man!! Such a gift to humanity.❤
@TheMediumChannel
@TheMediumChannel Жыл бұрын
Thank you Eckhart...what works for me is, well of course practicing presence consistently and while in presence I consciously hold magnified gratitude in my heart center, as well as compassion and love but I feel super grateful for nothing other than the absolute perfection of this present moment...for the now and when I do that and lock into the master frequency of the heart magic happens that is indescribable... I do this even when I'm in pain this present moment is absolutely perfect..It doesn't matter if I am personally experiencing pain as that does not take anything away from the perfection of this now moment. It truly is amazing and it can be used in manifestation work and self-healing..I've experienced miracles in both doing this...hope this comment helps someone. Namaste
@lindapelle8738
@lindapelle8738 Жыл бұрын
Your direction on how you accomplish this would be greatly appreciated. I deal with chronic facial nerve pain, many years after dental surgery.
@TheMediumChannel
@TheMediumChannel Жыл бұрын
@@lindapelle8738 I do offer that and this was my way of giving direction.. starts with Presence, meditation and working with a practice I do religiously called”Heart-Brain Coherence” and what I did was made the reality of perfect health more real in my mind than the physical suffering I was experiencing. It took me three years though if I had no more at the time I probably could’ve done it in a lot less time. I just don’t have the time nor the space to explain the steps on a video comment stream. I have done courses though, and I have several uploads on my channel that I explain more and people are healing. I also recommend people to look into Joe Dispenza, he is amazing and explains how this is done better than anyone I know of.
@giovanniamore7532
@giovanniamore7532 Жыл бұрын
if ýou have to endure a lot of pain, it means ýoure able to handle much.. its an honour to transform more than the ýounger souls.. this planet needs the power of everýone of us, so lets do it 😊👍 lets work
@mokuho
@mokuho Жыл бұрын
-if you truly give attention to nature...it has a very healing effect -be present mean to be present with in and without...in both worlds... -what kind of thoughts you have about an especifique situation? -we must be vigilant -presence is witnessing without thoughts.. -let go of the thoughts -direct attention to sensory perceptions takes you out of thinking. -see the sky, flower, the hand, come to the senses, -to be present you have to not label, just look, -you dont denied what you feel. -watch your mind, dont feed your suffering. -your presence is more powerful, -pain body is a fuel for presence...
@3foldartco
@3foldartco Жыл бұрын
I'm currently processing some newly recovered trauma memories from 23 years ago, and practicing presence is so helpful in this. It's bizarre to feel depressed and raw, but to not *identify* with those feelings anymore. I'm sad things happened, but accepting that they did. Different from dissociation, because I'm observing the feelings and the memories themselves, which are memories of physical sensations and feelings. Layers! This is such a good way to process these things.
@ryanrohn4561
@ryanrohn4561 Жыл бұрын
I appreciate that. I too am processing something similar; the layers.
@andrereloaded1425
@andrereloaded1425 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing and I know how difficult it is to come face to face with your past trauma(s).
@3foldartco
@3foldartco Жыл бұрын
@@ryanrohn4561 I wish you peace while you process. It's hard work!
@3foldartco
@3foldartco Жыл бұрын
@@andrereloaded1425 they're definitely yucky, but I'm so grateful to be *aware* while facing them. Best to you.
@gojiberry7201
@gojiberry7201 Жыл бұрын
That is really inspiring, hope to be where you are soon. Good job on your journey!
@1500lalaland
@1500lalaland Жыл бұрын
yes! this helps me so much with my meditation right now. ive recently discovered pain is limited to my body, but the idea of looking at the objects next to me and feeling it’s peace and neutrality helps so much
@1500lalaland
@1500lalaland Жыл бұрын
to keep my thoughts from adding to the pain body, i believe my body to be an inanimate object like the couch im sitting on and feel the pain of my anxiety as tension and sensation occurring in the present moment that i can feel being that im an aware space itself that the body exists within
@stephaniezach2993
@stephaniezach2993 Жыл бұрын
Oh my! I wanted to leave a comment cuz it always seems that mr. T has something to say about exactly the way I'm feeling I go down to the comments and I read what you guys have said I find myself laughing and giggling so if you're reading this remember we're all in this together and no one gets out alive although we don't need to rush it and we can enjoy it while we're here it's up to us again thank you!!
@elizabethbird5929
@elizabethbird5929 Жыл бұрын
🙏🙏💓💓
@cw-wj1vs
@cw-wj1vs Жыл бұрын
I like this
@stephaniezach2993
@stephaniezach2993 Жыл бұрын
🎵 it's getting better all the time 🎶 I just have to allow it to be so in this 🎁 moment, I've been having a rough time and it's starting to look up because I've let it thank you guys for replying 🙏☮️
@irenerubaum-keller5941
@irenerubaum-keller5941 Жыл бұрын
It's not so hard to be present when the present is just fine but I had a migraine the other day and remembered to stay aware. WOW! So many of my thoughts when I'm sick like that are woe is me. And the woe is me was making it all much worse. To just experience it was way better. Thanks Eckhart!
@kyee9723
@kyee9723 Жыл бұрын
Mental discipline. Not adding the drama stories to power the emotional pain body.
@tnijoo5109
@tnijoo5109 Жыл бұрын
That waterfall sound at the end, I need a long recording.
@charlenedell6788
@charlenedell6788 Жыл бұрын
Yes also the bell ❤
@crystal2911
@crystal2911 9 ай бұрын
The fact he said nature is everywhere! The sky in an urban area, how oblivious I was to this truth! Thank you! Infinite love and gratitude ❤😊
@Artemisofthemoon1
@Artemisofthemoon1 Жыл бұрын
Food for the soul and with body work, mind, body spirit. Release is possible for mental, emotional and physical pain.💗 What is on the other side is peace.
@missartistsky759
@missartistsky759 Жыл бұрын
Emotions should not be so to say closed in a box , in your mind, etc . They need to be released. In a gentle way. In a kind way . But released. This is where you let go of fear and anxiety. You feel freedom.
@khansherani
@khansherani 7 ай бұрын
I have been with my pain body for many years nothing worked but this shining light of consciousness on the pain body and slowly but surely it transmuted and still is under process of transmutation.
@mbutikusekwa3994
@mbutikusekwa3994 Жыл бұрын
Eckart Tolle is a great man of God I dont know where could I be if I could not listen his lectures and read his books the Power of Now and Practice the Power of Now
@nineangels7572
@nineangels7572 Жыл бұрын
He's right, turn your energy towards nature, stand in the sun, watch a bird, distract yourself using nature & the pain will subside.
@K4113B4113
@K4113B4113 Жыл бұрын
I wouldn’t use the word distract as it suggests distance to the pain rather than presence with it.
@ew_323
@ew_323 6 ай бұрын
I had a near-drowning experience when I was about 6 or 7 in a public pool. It was my sister who kept pushing me under and I got to the point where I could not breathe. I finally decided to just breathe in the water and next I remember I was on the edge of the pool with the lifeguard pushing my chest and coughing and in trouble with my Mom when I got mad at my sister for pushing me under. It was never talked about. Since then, I've always had social anxiety, claustrophobia, and breath holding but didn't realize until today when I realized I felt like I was underwater and could not get a breath and that situation came back to my mind, looking up at the surface, not being able to reach it, and deciding to breath in the water when my lungs were going to burst. I thought this dying feeling is actually sort of peaceful. I've never processed this event with anyone. I didn't realize this event from so long I thought I had put it behind me was causing all this emotional pain in my life (I even became a class IV-V kayaker to 'prove' to myself I was no longer scared of water and was 'over' this event) . Like I didn't matter, was invisible, didn't deserve a breath, like the feeling of death/giving up would be more peaceful than living, etc. Life has been a 'struggle' since then, like the struggle under water. But now I can process it and observe it and the related emotions/messages/thoughts in a new way. I really like what @chickadee677 said about saying "I know you are there, I will take good care of you." to your pain. This book and discussion have totally opened my eyes. Thank you
@lindaanderson7507
@lindaanderson7507 Жыл бұрын
This is helpful. I am going through a sudden, unexpected loss. It helps to hear this information.
@lauralunaazul
@lauralunaazul Жыл бұрын
I love him, he s so kind
@jewel2022now
@jewel2022now Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this, always so good. Thank you to all the people in this community
@dmgsoultogetherness6667
@dmgsoultogetherness6667 Жыл бұрын
during any kind of depressive episode....its like climbing a mountain there is def a logical distortion with depression.......and its very hard to over ride those thoughts because they are part of something that we dont know how to converse with
@paulinesantos1378
@paulinesantos1378 Жыл бұрын
What I Do I d works is to find a new environment other than my bedroom. I was in hospital with a roommate and being served my meals which were healthy. It gave me hope and a new perspective of what's going on in other parts of life.
@user-yv8vj5pd1s
@user-yv8vj5pd1s 3 ай бұрын
Dear Eckhart Tolle, thank you from the bottom of my heart, my paing is going as I'm listening to you❤
@jennchavira
@jennchavira Жыл бұрын
It makes sense.. the mind feeding the pain body.
@kighyuga
@kighyuga Жыл бұрын
Listening with the whole body
@Jeff-yb7qk
@Jeff-yb7qk Жыл бұрын
Thank you thank you. I get lost again and again, and sometimes I totally lose my awareness and it feels like I have no choice but to lose it (even though I had a glimpse of knowing I did have a choice at the moment ..) I have been relatively conscious of my mind activity last two months and this month I totally lost it from a trauma in the relationship and it was like a very strong relapse of some drug addiction. hit me in the face so hard that I thought the peaceful state of the last two months was a sort of fraud... but you know. As Eckhart Tolle said, it also feels like it eventually leads to awakening because I can't live with such pain no more.. I just hope I quickly get to the level where there's less suffering even though I think suffering itself is very painful but also a part of the awakening process. Life is so mysterious...
@beautitudes
@beautitudes Жыл бұрын
His teachings have healed me incredible in life
@youngtevanced8818
@youngtevanced8818 9 ай бұрын
Oh man, I love Eckhart Tole, very practical and realistic approach to understand self and the sufferings from the world.
@ChrisLively
@ChrisLively Жыл бұрын
Greetings from Chattanooga, TN. Thanks for sharing your wisdom and your time. These days the negative thought I hear the most is, "You could have done better, why didn't you?" And the constant replaying of what I did just then and the overwhelming urge to find out why I did that or thought that.
@yohenson
@yohenson Жыл бұрын
I have that too. Guilt is a horrible and silent attacker. Only meant for us to stand up behind what we think is good for us. And we are too lazy it yells at us. That’s guilt for you. But too much of it can cause you to cave in and escape all that yelling. So I guess we need to let it yell but keep doing the good stuff. Until we don’t need to be yelled at by ourselves.
@davidharrison2099
@davidharrison2099 Жыл бұрын
If you could have done better you would have done better. We can only act effectively from the state of consciousness that we are in at the time. Don’t feel guilty and don’t beat yourself up. Just learn to be more present and move on. We could all handle things a little better at times but don’t. Such is life and learning.
@ravishing4533
@ravishing4533 Жыл бұрын
Somehow I lose track of the fact THIS WORKS 💕❤️
@coreyrenik6419
@coreyrenik6419 Жыл бұрын
Yes when there is a nail in the wood you must drive another nail through it to become something greater
@cloudsofwonder7004
@cloudsofwonder7004 8 ай бұрын
I am always more aware when I choose to watch and listen intently to how the pain body and self loathing is part repetitive thought pattern causing regret s re past choices When I listen to Echart s teaching and I glean wisdom and Peace returns thank you ☘️❤️
@carolinedominique4876
@carolinedominique4876 Жыл бұрын
What a man ❤️
@profbell7931
@profbell7931 Жыл бұрын
I love his wise lectures. ❤
@jenniferroberts7581
@jenniferroberts7581 Жыл бұрын
This is SO powerful and timely for me (and the world)! Not just for emotional pain, but physical pain as well.
@gracefulindeed6091
@gracefulindeed6091 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Mr.Tolle
@mariarichards5221
@mariarichards5221 Жыл бұрын
🙏transmuting trapped pain, being in the presence of it... thankyou again🙏💝
@ProdByAdenTemaNinja
@ProdByAdenTemaNinja 20 күн бұрын
Thank you sir that really helped me, I'm having Huge pains from my emotions and i've been denying them for 6 years or so, And i'm saying you helped me not becuase i'm cured, i watched it just now, But you woke me up to my past, I did that before I was really absorbant! I had this pleasure for relizing those Tiny tiny details about reality, and you helped me because i was looking for a long time for what i did back then, because i was feel AMAZING For anyone who has that pain this is such a cure, unbeliveble, Not only you won't feel pain but you'll feel a milion dollar, pay attention to reality Thank You Sir :)
@vertrauen212
@vertrauen212 Жыл бұрын
I love so much his humor!! 😄
@ethanredd3342
@ethanredd3342 Жыл бұрын
We love you
@shaffehaffejee3657
@shaffehaffejee3657 Жыл бұрын
Sushmita: just what most of us need to hear and adhere to. Bless to you Sir 🙏 You are truly amazing and admired. Love your sense of humour 💙 humor 💙
@lynnmcquillan2338
@lynnmcquillan2338 Жыл бұрын
That’s wonderful.. Thankyou Eckhardt 💕😊🙏✌️
@poppypoppoppy
@poppypoppoppy Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Eckhart❤
@amin_abdollahi_369
@amin_abdollahi_369 5 ай бұрын
🌸💜thankyou
@Ra-thesunking
@Ra-thesunking 10 ай бұрын
Thank you
@hcharton5722
@hcharton5722 Жыл бұрын
"the pain body is fuel for presence"
@hcharton5722
@hcharton5722 Жыл бұрын
or could be "the pain body is fuel for presents"
@peterhaberfehlner2621
@peterhaberfehlner2621 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for your advice, Eckhart, I struggle with my mental states (depression at the moment) and it was helpful to listen twice.
@sandyvonharten39
@sandyvonharten39 Жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤❤❤ Today is a good day to have a good day!
@MinyCalapa
@MinyCalapa Жыл бұрын
Incredible insight as always. What a gift 💝 Thank you, Eckhart.
@dallasfurnish3031
@dallasfurnish3031 Жыл бұрын
My pain body seems to get activated through negative social media, others telling me of said media and sometimes myself. I do believe I have been able to enter the beginning fazes of presence through the presence meditation by feeling my body and later listening to the sounds around without making a distinction but some days I find it easier then others to enter presence and have been trying to determine why that is. For me when I enter presence it feels like I am opening up like a balloon and can feel the ends of infinite spirit energy that I am already connected to but forgot because of my limited ego causing me to forget.
@lahirugunasekera7867
@lahirugunasekera7867 11 ай бұрын
Shifting to observe sensory perception is practically a fine step towards healing emotional pain. As Eckart mentioned, yet, the impact of emotional baggage persists for some time. For me, revival of thoughts could not be ceased and it's inevitable. In the light of extra awareness, thoughts can be separated from its' attached emotions. I experienced it and thought of sharing.
@mariarichards5221
@mariarichards5221 Жыл бұрын
thankyou 🙏❤️🌹🥰
@russellfeecrouch6136
@russellfeecrouch6136 9 ай бұрын
These are instruction of how to be enlightened.
@jaerrion5560
@jaerrion5560 5 ай бұрын
Yesterday I had to cut a relationship with a beautiful soul. We both love hard and had only been talking for 1 month and two weeks. I felt as if we were moving to fast. We were not respecting the boundaries we had set up. I felt like we were manipulating eachother. I also felt like I couldn’t control myself when it came to her. So I had to let go. I miss her. Though it’s for the better. I feel like it ended as good as it could have. Goodbye Sophia
@miroslavasurova528
@miroslavasurova528 3 ай бұрын
😢
@Omnipresence10
@Omnipresence10 Жыл бұрын
There's alot of unknowns atm, but this is very helpful. Thanks Eckhart and all here in the community🙏
@hereandnow213
@hereandnow213 Жыл бұрын
You can't fight your emotion, but you can live with them in peaceful way by acceptance et feeling them, deeply connect to your sensation (feeling) in the body. That's make you a complete living, not a prisoner of the form
@user-cs4sk5ts4d
@user-cs4sk5ts4d Жыл бұрын
Eckhart,s voice is so soothing. Calms me when I an stressed and anxious.
@meeraraj0
@meeraraj0 Жыл бұрын
9:35 the pain body is fuel for presence 9:00 presence is arising and its gradually dissolving this pain body in you. But your work is not to renew the pain body through unconscious thinking. Be really alert and watch your mind so you don't create more suffering by 9:26 if you no longer feed the pain body The pain body also feeds through drama in relationships, enacting drama The pain body renews itself through Don't add to the pain body, It wants to feed, It wants your unconsciousness. Your not feeding it with your mind anymore and you not feeding it by drawn into insane drama. You just watching it It gradually dissipates and transmutes Write down repetitive thoughts you can catch that obscure your awareness That become part of your fictitious identity Then you have the burden to carry burden of an unhappy self Presence us arising , and it is gradually dissolving the pain body. Your work is not to renew your pain body through unconscious thinking. You have to be really careful and watch your mind, if you no longer feed the pain body through unconscious thinking.. Pain body also feeds through drama in relationships - best ways for the pain body to renew itself It wants to feed, It wants your unconsciousness. But don't give it to the pain body.
@SheerMagnetismDarling007
@SheerMagnetismDarling007 Жыл бұрын
*Good man !* 😊
@Brabdog
@Brabdog Жыл бұрын
Cognitive-behavioral (self) therapy as an on-ramp to Presence.
@Misslotusification
@Misslotusification Жыл бұрын
Tell me more, you do both?
@leoniea138
@leoniea138 Жыл бұрын
I have a great way of fixing pain...i eat myself silly....quite enjoyable
@meifang0218
@meifang0218 Ай бұрын
Unconciousness is good friend of pain body, it is what pain body wants, don't give it to the pain boday. The pain body is fuel for presence, that’s amazing. You have plenty fuel for presence, that's good news:)
@MacyLuv
@MacyLuv 10 ай бұрын
This is conducive to an avoidance attachment style. I would present that the 3 D reality check to bring you back to the present is good for an anxiety attack. But it's a band aid. The best method is to run TOWARDS the pain. Towards the feedback and go within through meditation and other modalities to learn to heal that portion of your "avatar", if you will. Namaste 🙏 ❤️
@jordinner
@jordinner Жыл бұрын
"The Evil" is stronger, but "The Good" is with many more.
@mokkshaartgallery
@mokkshaartgallery Жыл бұрын
Give your total attention to the now the present moment the most deeply satisfing thing to be - Eckhart 🎉
@luuk9659
@luuk9659 2 ай бұрын
It seems there is a pain vortex and a mind (thoughts) vortex. I feel like what works is to stay in between the vortices and transmute the pain. It is torment, though fuel for presence
@anomieailuj1388
@anomieailuj1388 Жыл бұрын
You're watching this because you feel pain. 🫂 may peace be with you. I'm sorry it's up to you to make that commitment to change that perception. I wish I could take it away.
@ghamessmona
@ghamessmona 9 ай бұрын
@devinbeverly7855
@devinbeverly7855 Жыл бұрын
How do we heal trauma and illuminate shadows through pure presence? It feels too passive or placating without progress. Avoidant. Yet on the other hand gripping to much leads to being crushed by undue confusion or heaviness when patient presence is necessary. How do I properly allow Grace and presence in all that I feel to break cycles? How do I not allow my isolation to honor my cycles affect interpersonal relationships? It all feels so cyclic. Where does true transformation lie?
@qqpol
@qqpol Жыл бұрын
What if it is some one/group who hurt your loved one, and there is not much you can do? The situation is not rectified. Then it becomes an ongoing painful experience. I am now physically sick and thinking about the issue keeps deepening the hurt and bad for my recovery. I am hoping for a recovery physically first and then touch the mental pain and work on it. It's so hard to get it my mind off. Maybe I should detach myself from the situation first. Maybe that's the first thing I need to do to first recover physically.
@giovanniamore7532
@giovanniamore7532 Жыл бұрын
life has to pass through ýou, dont let it stuck 😉
@StephanieJeanne
@StephanieJeanne Жыл бұрын
Thanks, Eckhart! Have a wonderful day!☺️💜
@wiesawaniedzwiedzka8679
@wiesawaniedzwiedzka8679 Жыл бұрын
Dziękuję,że jesteś❤❤❤❤❤
@hollywright3610
@hollywright3610 Жыл бұрын
Once out of the mental storm I wonder WHY do I do this and keep suffering .? Ego causes suffering. Easy is difficult
@Misslotusification
@Misslotusification Жыл бұрын
Why? Because the tension and the muscle contraction that goes with suffering gives the ego an even more concrete (real) existence. I suffer thus I am. Ego loves pain, loves the thrill, and all the stories that keep it in place, ruling our lives.
@markfuller
@markfuller Жыл бұрын
@Holly, have you watched the 2005 movie "Revolver?" It's all about that.
@luizalaurastoica2551
@luizalaurastoica2551 Жыл бұрын
Amazing, thank you, Eckhart Tolle ❤!
@vajraloka1
@vajraloka1 Жыл бұрын
That's why we sometimes we can't meditate because we don't look into ,feel into those feelings and let them open, can't dissociate ,but can't indulge either, bringing presence
@meeraraj0
@meeraraj0 Жыл бұрын
2:58 is your mind feeding it. You have a big pain body there which is not in itself bad thing, because a big pain body becomes a very strong motivating force to awaken. Be careful to examine your thinking. Enough Awareness to realise it. Let go of the thoughts. Be present. The pain body is fuel for presence
@gojiberry7201
@gojiberry7201 Жыл бұрын
So soothing to listen to Eckhart's voice
@satchachi6458
@satchachi6458 Жыл бұрын
decree to silence the external being: In the name of God I AM, I tell you, external being: Here you have no power! you shut up! you quiet down! And you obey the authority of the Presence of all life! Mighty I AM Presence: assume command of these your vehicles of manifestation (physical, etheric, mental and emotional body), produce in them your perfection and maintain your domain eternally sustained until I reach my ascension. 💜💜🙏🙏
@K4113B4113
@K4113B4113 Жыл бұрын
Is it the external being that reaches ascension? And what is ascension exactly?
@rishi1613
@rishi1613 Жыл бұрын
Thank you ❣️
@NeilRevin-sb6lt
@NeilRevin-sb6lt 7 ай бұрын
Is the root of all suffering the inability to stay focused on the present moment? What I mean by suffering includes depression, anxiety, grief, loneliness, bipolar disorder, panic attacks, social isolation, shame, guilt, regret, low self-esteem, stress, anger, jealousy, heartbreak, emotional trauma, etc.
@zinknot
@zinknot 10 ай бұрын
I'm dealing with someone who is completely consumed by this. It's horrible. they just want to constantly talk about and share the misery and shuts down any kind of solution. Won't go for walks, exercise or anything except playing guitar in a dark gloomy room.
@yohenson
@yohenson Жыл бұрын
Always amazing to see an enlightened being.
@AilsaMcLean
@AilsaMcLean Жыл бұрын
THANK YOU. This was so helpful.
@shreejithnair4633
@shreejithnair4633 Жыл бұрын
How can presence dissolve the pain body.❤?
@htjedevries3831
@htjedevries3831 8 ай бұрын
Could my paincode Block me with tirednes and other health iseus ?
@Yirdragonflies
@Yirdragonflies 5 ай бұрын
Does that mean to stop thinking about the traumatic experience
@angelarobertson3115
@angelarobertson3115 Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏽🧘‍♀️💚🌱🌌🌸🌺🕊️
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