How to help someone with Bipolar Disorder or Mental Illness

Hi All-
This video outlines ways to help a friend or family member who may be suffering with bipolar disorder or mental illness. In this video I share my personal experience and also list tips from a great web site I found at www.mentalhealth.gov/talk/inde.... For those of us with mental illness it can be difficult to open up to friends and family about our struggles. It helps to have a strong support system to lean on during tough times. Education of family members and friends is key and can lead to early diagnosis and treatment for your loved ones.
As always I hope this video is helpful. Please let me know if you have any suggestions for upcoming video topics or any questions that I can help answer for you.
Until next time,
Lisa

[@NDGOCHYLD]

I'm sure you hear this all the time but your eyes are so beautiful. Thank you for sharing this info with us. You are a blessing!

[@jaguarpaw46]

Thanks for doing what you do . I have BPD 2 and it's a challenge to live with everyday and often the disease makes you feel so abandoned....so having support is a must .

[@lillianharguess3340]

I want to know how you can tell of someone has it

[@lovehealthfitness23]

Lisa, I agree with you, non judgemental support is invaluable.

[@carlossotelo845]

Thank you so much. It made me understand that my friend needs me and if she does something that hurts me, she doesn't mean it. You are a life saver and keep up the good work, we need people like you.

[@ProudToBeBipolarLisaMarie]

Thank you so much Carlos. I hope you and your friend are doing well!

[@tammybrock5366]

Your eyes are sooooo blue. Omg I have never seen eyes that color. Beautiful! I know it’s off topic but Wow. Great video. Thanks

[@worldthroughmyeyes8154]

Thanks 4 color contacts, right.

[@kjbrocky]

Lisa these videos are so helpful. I have several friends who are bipolar, a few of which refuse to take meds, even after years of their lives falling apart. Neither friends nor family know how to help them anymore. Thank you so much for shining a light on this very serious and mysterious condition.

[@ProudToBeBipolarLisaMarie]

kjbrocky thank you for the note! I am so glad that these videos are helpful. It is so tough when you want to help and they don’t. I was in the same boar when I was first diagnosed and thought I could manage without meds. I couldn’t and it took me awhile to see that I needed meds and support from my loved ones. I have not been active on my channel due to life changes but my goal is to start videos soon. If you have any topics on Bipolar or mental illness that you would like to learn more about, please let me know. Take care!

[@elenabelacastre7789]

Support, love, understanding is the key to any illness & life itself! I feel I'M a walking miracle,, I also suffer from bi polar!( Symptoms & how the lows & highs manifest themselves though vary with each individual!) I often look back at my life & wonder how the HELL I made it this far, having started with a very abusive, (every way ) family, age 7 in foster care, as well as the other isolated traumas that has & still gets thrown at me more often than they should! I have no criminal record, got into counselling, Im on medication, ( Lithium, best for Bp) managed to put myself through college, own a condo, raised a daughter by myself with very little support or encouragement, praise, more often than not I was critizized for the things I did wrong! I managed to walk away 5 yrs ago from my narcisstic sisters, & have only since started to gain more confidence & set healthier boundaries for myself I SWEAR TO U, I DON'T UNDERSTAND HOW IVE SURVIVED TILL NOW & HOW I DIDNT END UP SIX FEET UNDER! FAITH, HOPE ......maybe, ...... someday perhaps I can become part of the solution & not the problem!! U ARE BLESSED, THANK GOD EVERY DAY FOR THE REAL LOVE & SUPPORT THAT SURROUNDS U! IT'S A VERY HARD ENOUGH ROAD TO TRAVEL WITHOUT IT!

[@jannawalters232]

You are ADMIRABLE to stay so strong!! God bless you.

[@tamaraniefergall2090]

Hello , thank your for Talking About mental Health in this open minded way! I suffer from Depression myself and it really help dealing with my illnes when I know i am not alone. It's very important to share our experience and help each other trough this hard time. Dealing with mental Health issuse is hard enough , but People Keep judding you for beeing ,,differen " or "crazy" all the time. so thank you for sharing

[@Fenixfyre1976]

I stumbled upon this video and you have a great outlook. As someone with Bipolar 1 it is great to find community and understanding. One thing I would suggest is not using the word "suffering" and instead using "affected by" because suffering leads to defeat in dealing with a particular illness. I look forward to seeing more from you, thank you for being a champion!

[@ProudToBeBipolarLisaMarie]

Chad Miller thank you Chad for this insight! I have been inactive for a few years which I hope to explain in an upcoming video :) take care!

[@dansmith8389]

it is totally fine for friends and family to know about and how to help someone with bipolar disorder, but when you don't have that support network it makes life even harder, it is much harder here in the uk at the moment the local mental hospital as closed down, so I have also lost that network, I have no medication for 4 an a half months now, I am getting worse, the local general hospital never helped. I don't know where I am going or what is going to happen next , slowly but surely I am feeling that little bit stronger, I am glad that there are people like you that are out there doing videos like this and making people aware of the bipolar illness.

[@animalsareking]

I'm sorry you're so alone Dan..that must be very hard. My daughter is bipolar and struggles with this everyday. I can not even imagine how you must feel to be so alone with this. I'm glad you're feeling stronger, I've been thinking a lot lately about the medications and it might just be a good thing that you're off of them. The pharmaceutical industry doesn't profit by keeping people well, they only profit if we remain sick. I don't see that the medications are helping my daughter at all and have begun to think they might be keeping her in this suffering state. My heart goes out to you. Stay strong.

[@juhoturunen]

My ex GF is bipolar. I tried...but all that behaviour hurted me so much and she always blamed her illness. Illness is not excuse to treat someone badly, mentally abuse, cheat etc. I understand it's hard to control. I cared about her, still do. I love that woman but she always blamed her illness. I supported her, i tried to understand but i became so depressed myself because of her abusive behaviour.

[@ProudToBeBipolarLisaMarie]

Thanks so much for your message. I apologize for my delayed response. I am sorry to hear about your experience with your ex girlfriend. A relationship with someone that is bipolar can be challenging when they are struggling with the illness. You were very supportive of her and tried your best! Often it takes the person struggling to take ownership to get better. I hope that you are feeling better about the situation. Take care!

[@nowaynoway4081]

+ProudToBeBipolar Lisa Marie (Proud to Be Bipolar) its all a bout money and fame . bye bye

[@tiktokjohnnysaint2234]

i know man what is like,,,my ex was,, and too bad my new one is b polar.....is suck big time , i do the best for her and still that fucking mental shit is our way ..............im with you man big time.. hope find the right one for you,good luck man

[@nowaynoway4081]

+Johnny Saint the only way out is by stick to natural places as long as you can sea side , desert , forest .just take along time in these places .

[@nowaynoway4081]

+Johnny Saint your frequency will change she will feel better but she still need to change her thoughts patterns

[@dianewhitmire4756]

I love her BLUE contacts!

[@cringirl]

I was diagnosed about 30 years ago, I've been hospitalized three times, twice to county hospital. My family is small and doesn't understand at all. I can't afford health insurance, can't get on any programs because i work and have a mortgage. I have never found a group to help me, and have lied to my family that i had so they wouldn't worry. So, basically, sure, it would totally help to have support, but i don't. With less than $50 to my name and facing foreclosure I feel hopeless, almost all of the time but i lie, so that it won't scare people. Thanks, but i can't just invent a support system.

[@stephenfermoyle4578]

you were and are very lucky to have the support

[@saronjohnson9393]

You’re amazing! Thank you for sharing!

[@JazzyJ712]

thank you so much for this video. I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder in 2015. it has been total hell! My first manic episode was crazy and emotionally draining. it still bothers me to discuss it or tell people why I do what I do. it is so nice to hear from someone who is going through the same thing I am.

[@ProudToBeBipolarLisaMarie]

Jasmine Johnson hi Jasmine! Thanks for your post. I know I am super late in replying (goal is to start posting video soon) my first manic episode was crazy as well. It does get better I have found once I took control of it. I hear you on talking about it. It is tough to talk about especially until you have built trust to share! I find it inspiring to learn from others as well so that you so much for taking the time to share your story. Take care!

[@annbet3684]

You are not alone I have it too.And I have OCD and a addiction. I'm 60 had 3 suicide attempts. And I'm sick of it! Plus I live alone. But me and you are here for a reason. We have some thing to complete. Hang in there it gets better.

[@Mortisioner]

So good to hear from someone who actually has the disorder. I've been with a girl that I love with my whole heart and she has bipolar disorder. I will never give up on her and will always be there for her. Every time she gets severely depressed she pushes me away (like right now) and say she doesn't love me and never will and all sorts of other things to push me away. I know she doesn't mean these things because she has told me "I don't want you to leave, I just don't know how bad this is. I'm scared of my own feelings. I'm trying to wait it out but it's getting worse each day" and also to tell me "You are a very special person to me, know that much" Unfortunately when she pushes me away I can't help her, or can I? I would just love to hear your take on what might really be going through her head and possibly how to help her through these times. Thank You

[@ProudToBeBipolarLisaMarie]

Hello- thanks for your message. Being with someone who is Ina depression can be tough. I have been there. When I have been depressed i felt a lot like your girlfriend. I pushed my loved ones away and isolated myself from my life. It took me some time to realize that I needed to get help. My boyfriend at the time was supportive just like you are being. But also realize that a person has to want to help themselves. If she could go in to see a counselor to talk to someone that may help her as well. I hope this helps! Thanks! Lisa

[@acmvnate]

u live only once. get out and live your life.

[@mariemkhac5055]

Adam Baxter it depends when u both commit to a relationship or a marriage things will get tougher she will distance her self, she will give u the silent treatment, she might not even want to sleep in the same bed all this cause tension and affect people’s lives u will have responsibilities job may be even kids and U have to deal with her disorder depression, and coldness, u will feel like the disease is consuming u are u strong enough to handle it, I am a happy person so I hate this disorder because little things in life make me happy, I had to be strong for my kids, but had I known about my husband’s disorder before marriage I would of never went through with it, the mania, the anger, the depression and the loneliness I feel it’s not easy, I hope I helped to give u a vivid picture about what to expect living with a bipolar person to make a better decision, best of luck.

[@randysullivan5723]

I feel ya . In the same boat .

[@gieanngonzales]

@@acmvnate If everyone (who has no mental illness like bipolar,etc.) in this world will have the same mentality as yours, who would be left to love them unconditionally? People with mental illness didn't want their condition in the first place. They need someone who will not easily give up on them and that will mean a lot, will even save their lives. Accept that there are people who will go the extra mile for their loved ones. Respect their decision as much as we respect yours.

[@nicbro3831]

I'm trying not to tear up.. my sister is having trouble. Thanks for the video I just sent it to my mom. I hope this helps her.

[@JuliusMuniesa]

when i smoke i feel like I'm standing from a third perspective and can see what's wrong and right ect... its magic and the best part is, u feel not only relieved but also best feeling :)

[@kaiman5307]

Thanks for putting this video up

[@richardsargentsr.1384]

Thank you, I'm suffering..... your video made me feel a bit better.

[@jannawalters232]

I think the sad thing is how Bipolar affects relationships. I wish more people were more understanding. still it takes a toll on everyone

[@pamtime22]

Thanks for the info.

[@hula62]

Thank you. ♥️ Good stuff.

[@shelvaspraglin6071]

Thank you for sharing.

[@BrandonCruz-js5sc]

my girlfriend is bipolar. I am guilty of writing off her illness. I am really trying to understand how she can swing moods so fast. thank you for your videos. they are very informed. thank you again.

[@rozenart5768]

I am exhausted!!! Our 41 y/o daughter is not well. She attacks me! We tell her we love her, she is living at home again. I walk on egg shells all day every day in our own home. I am terrified to say the “wrong thing” to her for fear of her screaming fits that leave me feeling line I’m going to have a heart attack! Then she’s back down again. All this happens when she and I are alone... 😭 If I even tried to mention to her about getting help she would say I was the crazy one and never speak to us again. I am at a loss. I pray for me to die to stop seeing the suffering she is in and putting us through and on top of it she has MS. 😞 she acts like she hates us one minute and the next it’s the opposite. I have no where to turn to. I guess you had a great outcome. Congratulations on your success on getting well.

[@heatherbastress2580]

I'm so depressed im sitting here crying my eyes out and contemplating suicide, im so irritable, I hate myself, and my life im so mean to my loved ones and the people who are important to me, i don't even like my self my moods shift so dam much im trying to do better but it's so uncontrollable my moods ' even if I'm happy one minute with in a split second its gone '

[@matthewfike4491]

Thank you. This video was helpful.

[@ProudToBeBipolarLisaMarie]

Thanks Matthew! I am glad you found it helpful!

[@lisahind8858]

I am a 54 year old woman who has been diagnosed with bi-polar for over 25 years. I stay on my medication (Lithium) and see my psychiatrist plus go to support groups and like to keep physically active . Thank you for being so open and sharing here. I wish you peace and stability. :)

[@robynhoodliving8862]

lisa hind how do feel the lithium has helped with your systems? And are you bi-polar 1 or 2?

[@NotoriousCRB]

So glad I found this! My roommate won't leave the house. He's a male, about 29, I'm 24. He's told me before that he's very great full for me helping him out and he feels like talking to me has been very helpful. He's also accused me of being a narcissist "like his dad", apologized saying I'm so sorry only to say I was demon possessed. Part of me wants to beat some sense into him but I know that won't help, I've struggled with depression before and had a brief period of psychosis. I'm still in counseling but I've been seeing some great changes in my life. I've only been trying to explain how I can understand because I've wrestled with a lot but I think I pushed to far. I always said it nicely but last night I really pushed it and tried to MAKE him understand he needed. Next thing I know he's talking about demon possession and bam! He tells me Satan loses Jesus wins in the end...so yea.. I know I pushed to hard but can I still be of help? This will pass right?

[@southjerseycountrygirl]

I have been bipolar most of my life it took some time for my family to get it now they are very supportive my parents are involved with nami and my treatment plan with my psychiatrist and therapist which are wonderful people. with all the supports I was able to carry on with my life by going to college and having a career. My family seen me on the toughest times in my life. If I have symptoms they do recognize it. I don't feel alone anymore because 1 out 5 people have mental illness.

[@jesusliveswearethebody28]

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[@michel333100]

Hi Lisa, My name is Michael Newell and I am a father with a daughter that I believe is bipolar. I live in Niagara Falls, Ontario,Canada. My daughter has a 13 year old daughter and she has somehow managed to cope with her illness but still has struggled for a lifetime with it. I have tried everything to be in her life but she is so depressed and manic all of the time that I can not get through to her. I also have another daughter with Borderline personality disorder. It has turned my life upside down .the guilt and sadness that I feel for them has destroyed me. Even as a father the tears cannot be held back. I have talked a great deal with my wife about our daughters and there is no answer. My oldest daughter also has a 17 year old daughter that is severely autistic. All of this in my life is overwhelming. I feel like I am about to have a breakdown. I am a father and I feel helpless. I don't know where to turn. Left standing in a pool of tears. Where do you go from here? There's no cure or solution. My daughters will not let me into their life. Left so hopeless now. I feel like I am the one that should be out on a ledge now.

[@neotheone5340]

I am an un medicated bipolar person on a rapid cycle 97% of the time. I have found that after my mind created other versions of my own personality, it is hard to keep my memories. Not long after I was officially confirmed with bipolar and developing a personality disorder due being un medicated for medical reasons I had to get into a writing habit in all my versions. It took me a while to get to that point where I could keep track of myself. I keep a journal-ish book on hand that I reach for if I feel a mania coming on or I notice my mind starting to hit that switch. It seems to work so far, I am not lucky enough to keep the memories of that mode of my mind but it is usually written. I feel at the least it keeps me on track and I can see what that part of me is going through. If you do choose to journal your mind if you slip memory when you go in manic state of mind just be careful reading it later. I have found that sometimes it can trigger manic episode, so maybe have a trusted friend read it and give you cliff notes on it. anyway sorry it I wrote so much I hope this helps in some way.

[@ProudToBeBipolarLisaMarie]

+Neo The One hi thanks for your message! I am glad that you have found writing in a journal helpful. I used to write a lot myself and it helped a lot. Something I should do more of. When I was in the hospital with mania I wrote a lot of poetry and looking back a lot of my memories of that time are blurred. Thanks so much. You have helped remind me of how much I miss writing and have inspired me to start again :) Take care!

[@neotheone5340]

+ProudToBeBipolar Lisa Marie (Proud to Be Bipolar) I'm happy that you have found yourself in the urge to write again. Writing is a good way to keep stable even in normal everyday life. It allowed me to write a young adult faery tale. Which was written in different parts of my mind but came together in the end. Keep writing , Without written word the world would be lost to us all.

[@johnthomasespinoza9970]

Thank you for your youtube video, I have a close friend who is Bipolar. I have seen her destructive anger, alcohol uses, trouble with the law and you name it. She has been arrested and serving probation for 30 months, along side of trama and battery counseling. I believe she is not taking her medicene and I am noting she is making bad choices once again. I have tried to support her financially and just a waste for she spend it what she has foolishly. I do not how to reach her, as we speak she became angry and has cut me off. I do nto know who to contact, yet she is seeing the right medical people but just going through the motion. I need to help to help her. John

[@BipolarPerson]

Hi, I'm sorry..there is a tedx talk by a psychitrists who had a brother with schitophenia, he does an amazing demonstration. The psychosis can be a part of bipolar disorder if she is delusional. I hope things get better, sending love and healing.

[@sulaijasterrogue]

Hi there, maybe this message can be reached by you Lisa. It's like I'm on the deep end right now, I am at my limits in struggling handling my GF by having a mental illness. Sometimes we like always having this complications in our relationship. Usually she wants to breakup with no reason. I already gone through 2 years with her and still trying to get to the point that her illness can be cured or can be reduced. I am really struggling to calm her down, to usually accept sometimes she wants to breakup and regrets it, but wanted to break up again. I already supported her needs, her desires, her complications in work, or social life, etc. But I get the feeling that "Why isn't it enough?". The point is that, right now here, I am really don't know why I felt so sad, and felt being easily replaced. The truth sometimes that my GF really loves me when she is on normal behavior, when she is in the other behavior she thinks otherwise. In reality right now, i became more depressed, felt mentally abused, and it is not good for my own dignity nor personality.

[@Kaybeezie92]

My sister is bipolar, and she is really scaring me. We took her to a therapist and she outright lied to her therapist. She said she was bullied her whole life, I went to school with her, she was popular and her friends and her wereknown for bullying kids. She said my parents stole money from her, when she gave it to them. Now the therapist won't allow them into group therapy. My family has a history of bipolar disorder. My grandma broke my mother's ribs, and my aunt broke my cousin's nose. I don't want my sister to get like that, and I'm afraid she is on her way. My stepdad (her father) has a bad heart, and he cannot have any stress or it will trigger a heart attack, so she screams in his face until he gets chest pains. She's made fun of me because my dad left me, and belittles my sister and mother until they are in tears, with no remorse. She's now dating a guy twice her age, no job no car, and she sold her blood to pay his bills. She started video chatting with him nonstop, even showing us when we are changing clothes, after we all repeatedly told her to stop. My mom got fed up and changed the locks to the doors. I love my sister, but I don't know what to do. We can't even get her to take her meds anymore.

[@myfriendpam]

Great video!! Thanks for sharing

[@ProudToBeBipolarLisaMarie]

Pam 22 Pam thank you for watching!

[@sagelogan7959]

Thank you for this, I have been dealing with this in a relationship and I realize now that I was judging, blaming and accusing because I did not understand at all, what my partner is dealing with. This will help me overtime to approach the conversation when he is in a calmer state.

[@ProudToBeBipolarLisaMarie]

David Palinkas thank you for watchi! I am glad it was helpful.

[@vluxegroup858]

What did it take for you to become self aware? To accept the issue at hand, to accept and begin treatment and medicate? I have a dear friend that just experienced an episode which caused to her to go missing for 8 days. She has since been found and is currently under observation but is refusing to take medication. This is the first time we hear that she may be suffering from the disorder. She keeps saying faith in God will help her, says she wants to figure it out on her own but you and I both know it's easier said than done. What types of conversations should we have to guide her in the right direction without being judgemental, without her feeling pressured? I have started researching extensively but would love feedback from someone who is dealing with this and having success. Thank you!

[@ProudToBeBipolarLisaMarie]

Hi Everyone! Happy New Year! I hope you are all doing well! I am looking for some inspiration from you all! It has been awhile since I posted a video and want to get back at it! I was hoping you may share some ideas of video topics on bipolar disorder and or mental illness that you would find interesting to watch. Any feedback you have would be awesome! Thanks! Lisa

[@fwb41]

Well...your video topic reminded me of a book I read not too long ago, called "Preventing Bipolar Relapse" by Ruth Ward M.D. She had a four point program called SNAP, which stood for Sleep, Nutrition, Activity, and People. Her section on people kind of disturbed me, because her premise was that the more Friends a Bipolar person could make, the better the chance for the person to avoid, or at least minimize, a Bipolar relapse. The problem I had with her premise was that she seemed to be advocating for Bipolar people to assemble a support Staff for themselves, by lining up people who would be most willing and able to provide whatever assistance the Bipolar person might need...like feeding the person's pets, or driving the person to doctor appointments, or doing the person's grocery shopping, or picking up the person's kids from school or daycare. She also went so far as to advise Bipolar people to categorize 'friends' by their abilities to provide different services for the person, and their reliability for different functions and services to be provided. My problem with her premise was that she seemed to be encouraging Bipolar people to Use their Friends/Staff for what they can get out of them...not keeping in mind that those people might have Their Own Lives too, with kids, pets, jobs, etc....and that they might not be able or inclined to be there at the Bipolar person's beck and call...and that might also be a good way to Lose friends/staff. Your video deals with helping Bipolar people...wouldn't it be better and more helpful for people to assist the Bipolar person to Help Himself/Herself...rather than be put in a position of being a Staff Servant? What do You think?

[@hebahmuhammad8607]

Lisa Marie how to get a loved one to ask for professional help.. Mental health in relationship..

[@patrickcoffee8624]

Mine girlfriend has bipolar this is such helpful video thank you so much

[@ProudToBeBipolarLisaMarie]

Patrick Coffee thank you for watching! If there are other topics you would find helpful, please let me know. I have been inactive on my challenges but my goal is to start up again soon :)

[@shiling7376]

Thank you for the video.I was dating a guy for 3months, started to notice bipolar symptoms, we are long distance, and once he could be so warm, creative and charming then he could ignore me for days, i'm so suffering but don't know how to help him.So now we are not dating anymore, because this gave him too much pressure and he's pulling away from me . He acknowledge he doesn't like to be with people and can't handle close relationship, he lives in forest to avoid close social contact with others, he can't focus, always swing in mood, hypersensitive, overthinking, blame others, self-center. But I don't think he is willing to change or knows he has this disorder. How can I help him? Even if I can't be with him in a romantic relationship, but i really like him and want to help him. I don't think I should tell him i think he might has bipolar disorder, how can I start to help? how can i at least to make him realise it and may take ownership to work on it? I really appreciate your help and advice. Thank you very much!

[@JohnDoe-bc4rf]

Well I've been diagnosed with manic depression. I stopped taking meds over a year ago and I'm doing just fine. Either that doctor wanted a thicker wallet or I can handle it pretty well. I think it's okay to get extremely depressed to the point of considering suicide on occasion. So long as I pull myself out of it. Besides, medication restricts my personality. And if I really wanted to, no medication is going to stop me from killing myself.

[@ProudToBeBipolarLisaMarie]

Hi- thank you for your feedback and for watching my video. I think everyone has a different way of dealing with Bipolar disorder. For me I need to take my medication. It sounds like you have been able to be ok without them which sounds like works for you. Thanks again. Happy holidays!

[@miamilady2278]

This video is amazing i am bi polar, depressed, and have ptsd possibly but i feel more like it's bi polar becuse i dont really get "depressed" and dont lose interest i what i love but my mental illness has caused me to lose boyfriends and all of them have said i needed help. I wanna go to a psychologist but im about to be a student and cant afford insurance.

[@richardleeder1404]

My husband and I are looking after a bipolar but his very difficult very dependent on his meds Mood swings going to maniac depression Very stressful Kids left the responsibility to us

[@angelcutekid2]

My sister had a break that led to her running away three years ago. She was 37 at the time. Shes a wife and mother. She said she thought that taking a car and driving from PA to NY was her way of saving her son and husband. She claimed she knew too much. Shes been diving into conspiracy theories online and follows this community online that feeds into her paranoia. She was found in an abandoned subway with no shoes on and bloody. She was committed to a mental health ward and diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder. After she was taken home she didn't take her medicine and slipped right back into not feeding herself, not caring about showering. Her husband doesn't care to help. He is asking her for a divorce instead of talking to her about how she doesn't live in reality. She writes all of her post on social media in code. I'm worried for her. I dont know what to do. I dont want her to hate me forever if I decide to have her involuntarily committed.

[@lotusquel]

Our bipolar family member won't take his meds on his own - and he just moved out on his own. We are trying to convince him to move with family. We are afraid if he doesn't move into a home with family (who can give him his daily meds) that we will lose track of him completely (possibly living on the streets or who knows what else). We are a very loving and supportive family but how can you help someone who doesn't think he needs help? This is so challenging for the entire family. We just don't know what to do. He did have access to a clinic but now refuses to come back into town and they won't refill his meds unless he is seen in person. Gosh this is so difficult and heartbreaking.

[@aprillove143]

I really need help dealing with my cousin/best best best friend who is going down a destructive path that is so shocking. Full manic breakdown. Shes lost everything including her job kid and boyfriend. and shes railroading ALL of her family members who tell her your concerned. I hope this video helps me to put my letter together. Everyone says if there's one person who can get through to her, it would be me. And the time is here to say something.. because she is litterally ruining everything around her... But I want to be careful on what I say.... Telling her she has any mental disease has not helped though, only made it worse it seems.

[@llriley64]

thank you you were very helpful on your blog im bipolor /clinical depressed please put more blogs up on hear thank you very much and i will be whatching for more blogs in the near future again thank you lorie .......

[@nadjiguemarful]

i hope youre doing good!

[@tysilver247]

Thx you for this video...my sis suffers from this...we just found out...I needed to here your story..it truly helps to understand this illness better

[@cassidyrose7221]

my friend has bipolar depression and was depressed on the bus and I said whats wrong shes my best friend since 3rd grade and when I asked her she said I have a therapist to care and it hurt a lot because shes like a sister to me and I said some things I really regret and I don't know what to do please help asap!

[@hebahmuhammad8607]

Hi, I think my BF is Bipolar, he snaps at me when he's angry he becomes a completely different person, he acts litteraly crazy n takes up to hours cursing himself and the world and everything. He acts like a child under the slightest pressure, he spends lots of money buying things he doesn't need.. He gets depressed a lot and he cries like a baby when he does.. He come up with great big ideas that he never act on, he can be very lazy at times and very hyper at other times.. he's been through a lot lately, from work to family to a Divorce 6 years ago to a heart attack 4 years ago.. He drives me crazy sometimes.. at times he can be like an excited child and others he can be like a very old grumpy man.. He divinity has anger issues, he can be mean n nasty to me asking me to leave the house and shouting at me n cursing.. He can be a lil controlling too.. Everything is his way or the highway.. He had multiple emotional breakdowns, and the last one was two weeks ago, he got completely transformed into a different person, ANGRY nasty person just because he couldn't rent a car.. Please I need someone to give me an opinion on what that might be.. I need help... I forgot to mention the smokes weed excessively n he's on some antidepressant that I forgot the name.. I spend most of my time reading about mental health and learning how to deal with mentally ill people, I love him so much but he always avoid speaking about it n doesn't do anything about it even though it affects our relationship hugely. It's So confusing for me and mind messing when one day he's completely in love and others he's angry bitter and mean... He shuts me out and doesn't wana speak about real issues.. Please any words of comfort? Someone please tell me sth?

[@ImOddTodd]

Thanks, Lithium helps and Trazadone for sleep but I'm still trying to get rid of nagging depressio and anxiety.

[@ProudToBeBipolarLisaMarie]

Thanks for your message. I hope hat you are able to find something that works for you soon. I know it can be frustrating trying to find the right medications! Take care!

[@ikaeksen]

I got completly rid of anxiety and depression when i got schizophrenia, and i love that. But voices are boring to listen, but ok since they positive.

[@elapik1973]

Lisa , I wish i would have seen a video like this before aproaching my wife about her bp disorder, she has alot of resentment. toward me for petitioning her to go to the hospital, i didnt understand and freaked out not knowing what was happening. I dont regret it but yet i do , I'm the bad guy ya know? Im no angel my self for reasons i dont know but with out going into it, theres that too! She is takin her meds now flawlessly, however they may not be quite right, I still see her anxeity is high , but not to the level where she is going manic, almost like a cycling between pissed n happy alot? i know geting the right meds can take a long time in some cases, im depressed and seeing a therapist now, she juggling a divorce in my face, we have an 11 year old boy who is my ROCK! he is also in therapy.i dont know? i guess i just wanted to see what ya thought? I love her and I know she loves me... but im not and never will be a quitter! 23 yrs together ...I also just wanted to say My wifes eyes are bright and beautiful blue just like yours! Is it true blue eye people have bp than say brown? thanks for your videos 1st time commented

[@reapadragunov4948]

Hey i could use some advice. my dad is bipolar and has paranoid schizophrenia. He's beyond stubborn and doesn't listen to anyone, no matter the approach. he'll burn bridges with anyone he disagrees with and has been prone to becoming violent when he refuses to take his meds and drink instead. I'm in a position rn where i have to temporarily live with him and he'll explode and get violent with me. I'm not sure how to approach him and calm him down with out getting hurt so all I do is keep my distance. what can i do so he actually starts helping himself and not isolate himself constantly

[@khulodhariri7211]

hello lisa, i wanted to share my story with you,,, my boyfriend is acting up-normal lately and we were having a lot of fight,, so i assume that he might have a mental issue so when i read about mental illness i guess his having a bipolar disorder, because he has the symptoms, I broke up with him because i can't stand more of his way of acting and the manic episode he was having were unbelievable, but i still love him and i wanted to get back to him, what do you think i should do to help him get over this what is the better way to do it? and Btw we talked before about going to counseling and he agrees to that, but now how can i tell him that your having a mental issue and you need help,, Many thanks,

[@elizabethgreene788]

are u experiencing any bad head ache? because i am 15 and everyday my brain feels very raced and every time im trying very hard to talk to people im having very bad head aches or im trying to concentrate,or read a book it is very hard for me to read or comprehend it.I am experiencing ome very abnormal things id really never do like im very talkative and really couldnt focuse much.I tried asking my ADD doctor but all he really says is that im aright and that there isnt really any concerns.so im really trying to figure it out.also i tried talking to people but my sentences or either my words never quite fit what i really want to say so it gives me really bad head aches.I also experience some really bad aches when im just trying to look at them or even trying to focuse so i try squinting my eyes a lot to try but i dont really know because right now im just trying to understand whats really going on with me.

[@ProudToBeBipolarLisaMarie]

Hi Elizabeth- thank you for watching my video and for your message! I don't get bad headaches very often. Sorry to hear that you do. I would definitely talk to your parents and doctors about this to see if they can help you feel better :)

[@danaallen5972]

I have a sibling that I feel may have this disorder. I didnt notice his behavoir closely until now as I dont see him regularly..anyway,Ive never approached him about it. Do you have any suggestions of how i can bring it up to him?

[@Shyguyexplores]

Very informative video. Thanks :)

[@ProudToBeBipolarLisaMarie]

Thank you for watching! I'm glad you found the video helpful :) Lisa

[@ProudToBeBipolarLisaMarie]

Hi again! Are there any other topics on Bipolar Disorder that you would like to see me do a video on? It's been awhile since I uploaded one and always like to make a video that people are interested in :) thanks!!!

[@jackjack-zp7vg]

Hi Lisa, thanks for the video. Would you know what´s the effect of taking a lithium carbonate and lithium orotate? Thanks again.

[@randyahrlett2243]

I have bipolar1 and love the info you put out there.

[@ProudToBeBipolarLisaMarie]

Hi Randy- Thanks so much for your note. I am Bipolar 1 as well. I am glad that you enjoy my videos. If you have any suggestions on video topics that you would find interesting please let me know and I will incorporate into an upcoming video :) Take care! Lisa

[@kizzymulcaster6057]

Your Eyes wow beautiful. Great video.

[@ProudToBeBipolarLisaMarie]

Kizzy Mulcaster thank you for watching and your kind words :) take care!

[@anniemoose1666]

I don't have full blown mania but I do have hypomania. Once I get up its scary. It's like I'm filled with so much adrenaline it's scary. I just start to break down and the feeling lasts about an hour (that strongly) but the rest of the week I'm still buzzing. What can I do to help myself when I get like that?

[@jasonlarson934]

I have adhd and depression. My friend has the most server case of bipolor. Is there anything that I can do to make them feel better.

[@carrymehome7561]

hi, uh, I'm a fifteen year old and I'm nearly positive my mom has bipolar disorder.. my grandma is diagnosed with schizophrenia and she was really abusive, so I'm almost dead sure my mom has SOMETHING. I've developed anxiety from this and I think my oldest brother is also showing signs of bipolar disorder. I think my mom has diabetes too, my grandad had it and I'm worried it runs in the family. I feel really scared and I don't know what to do. My mom denies she might have it and she won't get treatment, and I'm not sure if it's just my anxiety but sometimes I'm scared she'll hurt me or my brothers or herself. please does anyone have any ideas of what I could do? my dad is deceased and my mom's family is far away or also affected, so I just feel really alone right now...

[@lovegivens8005]

XxSynchronizedxX Get a job, and run as fast as you can.

[@johnthedespicabledutchman7406]

Excellent advice you have given I 100% agree ....Just run for your dear life!

[@franciscowilson8773]

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[@franciscowilson8773]

XxSynchronizedxX I may have a solution for you.

[@olivrose9226]

I Kno this video is old but I was hoping to get ahold of u. I think my brother is bipolar n he sees a psychiatrist who prescribes him 40 mg of Adderall a day. I think he may be abusing this prescription and I believe the adderal is only making his health worse. I've tried talking to his doctor about this but his doctor won't listen to me and I think he's a pill pusher. Neither me nor my brother have money to put towards this I was wondering if there was anything I could do for him or where I should turn? Thank you

[@tw750]

Hi Katie….my son has been diagnosed with this disorder. Look into "Community Health" services in your city. They will usually provide you with services and prescriptions with low to no costs. Hope you and your brother are doing well.

[@elsiezebra4514]

I understand manic is when the person feels they are on top. Depressive does not have to be defined. But I see behavior that is violent and aggressive and overreacting. Is that depression? I know someone that has changed drastically. From being "gigted" to making no sense, being aggressive and not acknowledging it at all.

[@mirnamarrufo9524]

Hello my 23 year old Is manic depression biopolar. And as many have mentioned she blames all her destructive behavior on her diagnosis. I am her mom and don’t know what else I can do? She does not want the help but it breaks my heart to know that my daughter that was absolutely an angel till 18 years old does everything to hurt herself and living high. On Xanax mixing with alcohol and not knowing who she is talking to including myself. I feel helpless she’s been hospitalized twice and will be good for a month or so then go back to drugs and start texting me she’s killing herself. I need help to be able to help her ran out of options.. don’t know what to do? Please advise how do you help someone that does not want to be helped...

[@curtjcs]

Thank you for your video. The link to the website is broken. Is it possible you can update it? Thank you

[@pearlshourd6062]

I have a sister that is being treated for bipolar. She is not doing well at this point in time. She has completely stopped eating. ( Is this something that people with bipolar does) ? My sister and I had a horrific childhood. Can this play a big role in her bipolar disorder? When I ask her what is bothering her she responds, "I don't want to talk about it." She recently had to put her dog of 11 years to sleep. ( Can something like this trigger a bipolar depression episode) ? Mental illness also runs in our family. Our mother who has passed was deeply depressed and stopped eating for her last few years of life. My son had severe depression for several years. He finally came out of his depression and he is now happily married. My sister's son also deals with bipolar disorder. What is your advice on how to talk with her when I call her. I have been depressed before, but never to this degree. I had racing thoughts, voices ( not literal , but things I heard saying I wasn't worth anything and other bad thoughts ) I take a low dose medication for this and I am doing well. I just so much want to get my sister better. She isn't eating and this really bothers me. She says she can't eat. I can't understand this. Any advice is welcomed. I am afraid that she will try to hurt herself.

[@ProudToBeBipolarLisaMarie]

Pearl Shourd Hi Pearl, thank you for your message. I am sorry to hear about your sisters struggles. Sometimes eating patterns can be impacted when someone is struggling with mental illness. You mentioned that your sister is being treated for Bipolar disorder, which is great. Has she been able to see a counselor or talk to a professional about her situation? I have found that talking to someone who is objective can help. Do you think she would be open to seeing someone? Also I have pasted a link to a site that gives some great tips and questions on how to talk to someone struggling with mental illness. www.mentalhealth.gov/talk/friends-family-members/ Your sister is fortunate to have you care so much about her! My advice is to continue to support her in the best way you can and encourage her to continue her treatment for Bipolar Disorder. It is also important to take care of yourself as well! I hope this helps! I will keep you and your sister in my thoughts and prayers! Lisa

[@pearlshourd6062]

Thank you! Yes she is seeing a counselor and she is presently being housed in a place for treatment. She is beginning to show signs of getting better. Thanks for the site , I will check it out.

[@ProudToBeBipolarLisaMarie]

Great, so glad to hear that your sister is getting better!

[@karensmith5185]

Ive done all this with my best friend and tried helping her and 6 months ago she turned on me and want have anything to do with me but text me every now and then and I tell her everyday in a text that Im here for her and I havent given up on her. She blames me for things I havent done and says its all my fault I have stood by her side for 3 years bc i promised i would not let her go through some things alone, Ik she needs me she became family to me well we became family to one another and I just cant let go bc I care and love her so much. Help me get my Best Friend back by helping me help her. I have hurt her in the past and We talked through that Ive told her Im sorry thousands of times. I need to know what to do bc she has no one but me. Thank you: Aubygirl

[@mahtazdin]

they love me. but my anger push everyone away.

[@rhinojaxx4197]

Hey. my friend pushed me away. I was the only one who stayed when everyone was pushed away by him. I dunno what to do :(

[@confidentchihuahua9101]

Rhinojaxx that happened to me too :(

[@tomcraddock7127]

What amazing beautiful blue eyes you have! Breathtaking!!

[@tq5788]

I agree!

[@HiyanCoverlandSaluBlu]

i agree haha actually i was looking for a comment because of her eyes beautiful

[@SuperGuanine]

yes colored contacts - she must have been in a manic state when she got them.

[@MB-jr2gr]

Friend is bipolar and isolates. She has anger issues. Pushing family and friends away. Is medicated. Any suggestions on how her friends can help her?

[@stephaniechristie3869]

Hell Lisa, my daughter bipolar who feel I'm alway judging her. I seem to be the only person she always angry with and use blame everything on. I've tried to be there for her however, when I am there for her she still isn't happy. I receive blame cussed at, betrayed and totally disrespted.

[@ProudToBeBipolarLisaMarie]

Hello- thank you for your message. I am sorry to hear that you are having some issues with your daughter. I have had a similar experience with my mom when I was first diagnosed. Looking back I know she just cared about me, like you care for your daughter. It just took me time to realize that and that may be the same for your daughter. My mom and I learned how to communicate together over time. I hope this message helps and that your daughter is doing well. Take care, Lisa

[@stephaniechristie3869]

Thank you, Lisa. I continue to pray for my daughter daily. I know prayer changes things. God Bless you. Please continue to help people.

[@heathermarble7916]

My son tries to push me to my breaking point every weekend. He is struggling with personal relationship s, and has pushed most every one away. He doesn't understand what he does to others. At times he doesn't sleep for days, isn't taking meds... It's killing me.

[@drawntoexcellence]

Heather Marble never resort to his level, remain calm. Try and be patient, I know it’s difficult.

[@bere274]

What can I do my partner is really depressed sometimes and he hutr me a lot times..he just scream for everything..he use to be on meds but he quit bcause he feel like sombie but he want to do cannabis oil he say..is that ok for a bipolar person!?...

[@daesyeen1020]

I would like to be more proud to have bipolar. I am very strong. no job in 10 years. nerve and tendon disability in my hand due to attempt in 2008. mom with bipolar and active addiction, no family support. sexual assault and the r word throughout adult life . I take medications for 6 years now. meds are effecting my health my thyroid I believe. my hand is causing pain on the entire left side of my body. I don't know how I get through each day. I just know that I want to live and that isolation is death. that singing is helping get through this physical pain and emotional mental pain. I don't know if I will ever have a job. I know my special place in this world. to everyone experiencing any kind of pain. all you need to do is be kind and loving. show gratitude. be yourself and bipolar is not you. its something we maintain. get to know the bipolar. know yourself more. get to know your individual bipolar and how to be aware and maintain it.

[@ProudToBeBipolarLisaMarie]

Hi Raven! Thank you so much for your message and background on history with bipolar. You have been through a lot but your perseverance and openness is inspiring! I love that you you know your special place in the world and that singing helps you! You are so right that bipolar does not define us! Please feel free to reach out anytime! Take care! Lisa

[@tw750]

I know this is 2 years late, but if in the case you still get these messages, please get the book, "The Great Pain Deception", or look up Dr John Sarno. This will answer lots of questions for you. Hope you are in a great place now :-))

[@maryabooty]

As the girlfriend of someone with bipolar disorder, I sometimes find it really difficult to not take things personal especially after exhausting days. Do you have experience with how suffering from bipolar disorder and being in a relationship and how it affected you?

[@ProudToBeBipolarLisaMarie]

Hi Mary- thanks for reaching out to me! I do have experience in this area. When I was first diagnosed I had difficulty maintaining the relationship I was in because I would fluctuate between mania and depression. I left my friends and family exhausted and unclear on how to help me. Lucky for me they stood by me :) Over time I learned that I needed to take ownership of my Bipolar disorder because I was hurting my relationship with my significant other and my family. I was lucky because my ex boyfriend who I dated for 11 years was supportive of me as I worked through the challenges of having BD. I am now engaged to a wonderful guy who I was open with about my Bipolar disorder from the beginning. As someone who suffers with Bipolar disorder I was thankful for the support I had, but I know it wasn't always easy for my friends and family. I totally understand why you feel exhausted, but your boyfriend is lucky to have you. I feel that being open with him about your feelings is key, so that you can work through things together as a couple. I hope this helps! Take care- Lisa

[@carrie9833]

ProudToBeBipolar Lisa Marie I think a video on this would be very helpful. I hear you on being supportive and non judgmental but that can be so challenging after years of being judged and hearing the barrage of insults from a mentally ill person. It can sometimes be so hard to stay in the game.

[@jannawalters232]

The HARDEST thing if you have a relationship with your loved one, during Bipolar episodes, they are not themselves. this can last a long time, it's still so hard after close to 23 years

[@purpleherb64]

You What do you do when you have no support system ????

[@louknox1392]

I was recently diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder. Once I was diagnosed it all made since. All my life when things went wrong I wanted to die. Sometimes I wanted to die just to die. I never attempted to do it. Just thoughts or dreams of dying. I remember being disappointed when I woke up and realized I was still alive. When I was younger the riskier the situation was I would be tempted to fall into that. Buying things I can't afford drinking too much, ect. I am struggling with finding the correct medications. The Dr. Has tried two different medications and neither one seems to be working. I have so many questions and my therapists don't understand some things I say. Hell I don't understand things I say. What meds work best? I'm having dizzy spells with the one I'm on now which is Seroquel XR. Also which med has the lowest side effect of weight gain. I am normally a very healthy eater but since I have started this medication I find myself eating sweets and other not so healthy food and lots of it. It's like an insatiable feeling that never stops. I need to figure this all out. I want to feel better but I also do not want to gain weight because I work so hard to be healthy. Anyone ?

[@ProudToBeBipolarLisaMarie]

Hi Rhonda- thank you for your message! It took me some time to find the right medication. I understand how frustrating it can be. I wish there was a test that would tell us which medications would work for us. It comes down to trial and error and having patience. It is good that you are seeing and talking to your doctor. That is very important. I am on a medication called Lamictal and it has worked for me. I hope this helps and you find something that works for you soon! Take care! Lisa

+ProudToBeBipolar Lisa Marie (Proud to Be Bipolar) For years I think iv been struggling with this disorder (BPD) But I dont know if its me or if it's a behavioral pattern i've learned from my mum, she to spent much of her time alone, filling her life with "things" some expensive some not but always something to make the new day seem new to her. Today I find myself a recluse as well, filling. y life with things that I think I own but they end up owning. me because I have to maintain a certain lifestyle, one that I learnt and this causes me to buy lavish luxury items just because I like them but also it gives me a sense of accomplishment but hen I get depressed a few day later when I see that ive robbed my daughters custodial account to buy stuff, the account I set up for her and from time to time I use it to feed a need. is that me being BP or just a learnt behavior. I can stop myself when I go to the bank but unfortunately for me, the car I buy things for is a high-end car that requires an expensive upkeep, both my daughter and I enjoyes the car when I use it but in one way or another I feel bad about spending money I had set aside for her future, 4his is what I grew up experiencing in my house, my mum bought things because she was depressed but it made the house beautiful, so I cant differentiate habits/ learnt behavior from signs of BP

[@sweetpeas1012]

Every time I try to search for a way to help m sister, I come across all kinds of people like yourself who are very aware of the fact you have bipolar. How about when she doesn't think there is anything wrong? Our father was diagnosed as a oung adult and took medication on and off but basically was ok for the most part, functional. until he lost his career due to an injury, got on a plethora of meds and eventually slipped into psychosis and delusional thinking before hanging himself in the garage. after his death, I believe this is when my sister began to really change. It was VERY subtle and slow but a couple years later, she divorced her husband of 10 years, then after the fun of being single wore off , the deep depression set in and I feared for her life. but she turned to marijuana and believed it was a great help. this is when the paranoia came. for two years she got worse and worse.. but ever so vaguely. when she had her "manic psychotic break" well honestly I didn't know what was wrong. I flew from Florida to California immediately to find out what was wrong. I honestly thought she started doing meth. At that point, I hadn't really known a lot about my dads diagnosis. it was more of information in passing so this wasn't even crossing my mind, when I got to ca and saw her... it further confirmed my suspicion that she might be on meth. She was a different person. The moment I saw her, she was already in an uproar, she thought there was an apocolu=yps coming and was trying to leave, she had just come home from walking away at 2am from her roommate and our other sister trying to get her to not drive anywhere. 5 min after I got there I called 911. she didn't even recognize I was there even thought I hadn't seen her in a year an a half. she was highly agitated and could not be calmed or just stop and talk to me or anything. she went to a psych ward for 4 days where the diagnosis was givin. now she is out. believes there is nothing wrong and her family "put her in there" to have drama for ourselves. and its so bad and hard to talk to her because she it so highly excited- in a bad way, about all the bad things in this world and we cant have a normal conversation. she thinks I am judging her like you said, because I want her to be helped. she said "what if I do have some mild bipolar, what does it matter when children are suffering and dying and animals are being abused and tortured?" well yes, those things are horrible. but I have lost my sister, I cannot even mourn and grieve her loss, because she is still alive.

[@sweetpeas1012]

sweetpeas1012 I forgot to say, there were no trace of drugs in her system and this diagnosis was hard for me to understand at first but now I see it is true. Up until the point where I knew there was something wrong and I flew out, I kept chalking up her strange, unhealthy or unsafe behaviors as just still part of her journey to find herself after a 10 year marriage. she is 33 so that's a long time to have a sister, and suddenly they completely change. hopefully you will have some helpful insight or perspective lisa marie. also the Walsh Research Institute has been studying mental illness for 40 years in relation to biochemical nutrient imbalances and there are ways to help heal your body rather that put a MEDICATION BAND-AID on while your brain continues to deteriorate from these brain damaging meds over the years. look into the Walsh Research Institute.

[@ProudToBeBipolarLisaMarie]

Hi- thank you for your message and for sharing your sisters experience. It can definitely be tough to take control of mental illness. Like your sister it took me a few years to come to terms that I had bipolar disorder. Once I did though it made it easier to stay stable. I went through a few years where I believed I could manage it without medication and it sounds like your sister is going through the same thing and self medicating. Do you think she would be willing to see a doctor or counselor? She may benefit from talking to someone and maybe she would consider medication. Bipolar medication has came along way over the past few years. The tough part about being a family member or friend of someone with Bipolar disorder is that it can get frustrating for them when their friend/ family member does not want to address the situation or seek help. Hopefully, your sister will take control and take steps to take control of her Bipolar disorder. You are being a great sister by showing her support and being there for her. I appreciate you reaching out to me. If I can help provide any other information, please let me know. Take care! Lisa

[@confidentchihuahua9101]

Why did my friend discard me after she came down from the mania stage ?

[@cintifitz]

1. an informative video that helps me now understand events with a former girlfriend and some of the confusion that surrounded our relationship. It's difficult when someone's internal sense of things go unexpressed which ultimately leads the "other" to question but to guess, to fill in the blanks, to create some sense of order for a better understanding, but without guidance this is usually done incorrectly. A real quandry. 2. Lisa Marie has stunning eyes: piercing, distracting, so very intense. Quite rare. But of course you know that already.

[@ProudToBeBipolarLisaMarie]

Thanks for you message and feedback! I like your idea for an upcoming video topic.

[@adamquinn4677]

is their a link with blue eyes and bi polar? I also have extremely long eye lashes

[@trenee993]

Thank you so much for sharing this information... My son has recently been diagnosed with bipolar and I want to help him any way I can. He hasn't accepted his illness at this point but I am hoping after this 3rd hospital stay he will start realizing it is real.

[@ProudToBeBipolarLisaMarie]

Thanks for your message! It can definitely take time to come to terms with everything!! It did for me as well. Your son is lucky to have a great mom who cares so much! I am hopeful that he will accept the diagnosis soon! Being bipolar is something that we should not be ashamed of and is something that we can rise above. I wish you and your son the best!

[@littledemon4139]

You say he is bipolar then why don't you prove it you know why you don't prove it because you can't bipolar illness is fake the medical definition for a real illness is defined by something you can test for there is no test for bipolar disorder look it up and that's because it is fake if you don't like what I am saying then prove it you can't my mom works in the medical feald so I know everything about it all the medical feald wants is money they don't care about anything else and did you know all those medications cause brain damage when you are on them long enough you can look that up to you people need to stop drugging yourselfs and start facing reality it is just feelings not a mental illness wake up people.

[@robertmatta56]

Whats the best way to not let my sadness consume me i mannage it pretty well already im in the marine core but instill struggle alot to be happy my boyfriend helps but he can only do so much any tips or things i can do i dont have much time to thinknor breathe

[@ProudToBeBipolarLisaMarie]

Hello- Sorry for my delayed response. A few things that I do when I am depressed are talking to my family and husband. I also find that exercise helps me as well. I am Bipolar and have been on medication for quite a few years, so I make sure to take my medication everyday. In the past I saw a counselor and that helped me work through rough times as well. I hope this helps and you are doing well. All the best!!! Lisa

[@michaelureadi2884]

Hi Lisa..I don't have a support system or maybe I should say, I'm ashamed to have anyone support me. At the moment my life is spiralling out of control with a series of mixed state episodes which are suicidal ideation and severe agitation. I'm presently un medicated because in the past I largely wanted to take control of this illness through exercise, nutrition and positive Pyschology. Although I'm not well, I do admit I should be under some sort of mantainance medication. I still resist the fact of approaching my doctor, because of the length of time it takes to be initially seen and then a further consultation with a Pyschatrist(I live in Scotland..could take up to several months..believe it or not))...My family members would not be a good idea to approach because of the stressors which would ensue from them.Any ideas of who would be good to chat with(in Confidence) or manage it to a certain degree myself.Thank you...you're video is very helpful.

[@ProudToBeBipolarLisaMarie]

Hi Michael! Thanks for your message. I am sorry to hear that you are going through a tough time I have been there myself. It is good that you are realizing that you need some help. That is the first step to getting better. I am not familiar with the health care system in Scotland, but based on your symptoms I would strongly recommend getting in to see a physician as soon as possible. I would explains the urgency of the situation to see if they can expedite getting you in. Also is it possible for you to make an appointment with a counselor ASAP before an appointment with a doctor? I find counseling helps because they are objective versus talking to your friends and family. Hopefully, one day as to start to feel better you will feel comfortable speaking with your loved ones. I was surprised by how positive my family was. at the end of the day mental illness is something we were born with and something we should not be ashamed of. Stay strong and let me know how else I can help!

[@michaelureadi2884]

Thank you Lisa!..keep up your very helpful videos..They really make a difference..

[@staceyparker2864]

Do you have any tips for me to help my friend with bipolar disorders . I don't know what sort of bipolar disorders

[@JuliusMuniesa]

Canabiss works fine for me, I dont take any sort of drugs or medicine, I dont drink alkohol, I have bipolar disorder and it angers me sometimes, i tend to forget I have it when I dont smoke in a 'couple of days'... When I dont smoke, really tend to believe this is normal behaviour .. its scarry but Im more stable than ever.

[@ProudToBeBipolarLisaMarie]

Thanks for your message! I am glad you found something that works well for you!

[@JuliusMuniesa]

im wild when i dont smoke , its so funny

[@oscarcorrea9264]

Hi. My girlfriend she has bipolar and she never told me untill she said that we needed to brake up i didn't know why she broke up with me untill she told me that she had bipolar i didnt know what to do so i kept searching for answers to help her and we been only together for 1 week i guees she didn't tell me cuz she didn't know how i was gonna react. But ik that she going to alot. And i care alot for her like i wanna get back together with her please help me!!!!!

[@kimbaugh7352]

I'm bipolar and my soul mate died my best friend died my dog died and now my son's in jail for murder I trust in God but even that's getting hard how do you deal with this and be bipolar

[@runawaycooki379]

Hmm.... My friend thinks she's bipolar, but she's been to the doctor and they said she had major anxiety. But she thinks she still is , I told her she's not and she got all offensive. I don't know what to do, please help.

[@runawaycooki379]

+HiddenJoy okay thank you

[@stevewarren1241]

I have a grandson that is 26 , my question is should he be going to the doctor on his own rather than with his mom/

[@ProudToBeBipolarLisaMarie]

Steve Warren hi Steve- thanks for your question. At 26 it may be a positive experience for him to go independent of his mom so that he can truly express his feelings and or concerns. Going with his mom could be in addition if they have issues that they are trying to work in together. A counselor can also be helpful in addition to seeing the doctor. Counseling has helped me in the past. Hope this helps. Thanks!

[@benitacoriano9515]

What does a mother do when her bipolar daughter constantly verbally attack her. Just her. No one else.

[@carolynosborne3141]

my beautiful 20 year old daughter has just been diagnosed with bipolar disorder, we had a brain scan done for her, and is now prescribed the proper medication. I highly recommend brain and genetic testing for proper treatment

[@ProudToBeBipolarLisaMarie]

Hello- thank you for your message. I am glad that your daughter is doing well and that genetic testing helped. I have heard that is can be very helpful especially since mental illness can be tough to diagnosis properly. I wish you and your daughter the best. I was diagnosed at her age and it does get better especially being on the right medication and having a good support system. Thanks!

[@littledemon4139]

There is no brain scan for this fake illness my mom works in the medical feald don't say that there is a brain scan you can do for this fake illness when there is not you are wrong I have looked it up there is no such scan for this fake illness and that is what it is a fake illness so if you still say it is real then prove it and yes I know how to read brain scans I have had brain surgery two times so I know how to read them and just so you know I am ten years old and I am in 11th grade in high school my IQ is very high so don't waste my time trying to tell me I don't know what I am talking about because I do I had brain cancer two times and I have beat it finally and that is because also there is a cure for cancer and there has been since 1986 that's another lie that the medical feald has been telling everyone and here is my proof look up doctor bruezinskey and you will find your proof.

[@myron49512]

Beautiful blue eyes...

[@MikeyNOTMickey666]

I've recently started seeking out treatment. I haven't been to a doctor for a very long time, over ten years, and have never ever had a psychological diagnosis. I'm seeing a Therapist on Monday. Really nervous. I don't know if I'm Bipolar or not but I honestly feel like I have a lot of the symptoms.

[@ProudToBeBipolarLisaMarie]

Hello! Thanks for your message! That is great that you took the steps to see a doctor and therapist! I hope your appointments went well and that you are feeling better after seeing them! Take care!

[@nicolas689065]

never seen such eyes. wow. Are these natural eyes color?

[@cierakitty]

Is it common for them to blame others for their problems ? I have gone way out of the way to help someone, yet they say I am triggering their depression. If I say one thing wrong.....it's all my fault that they are acting the way they are etc. I am ready to say to heck with it and move on.

[@Rockprincess4188]

Bobbie LaVanway. Yes it is. I have an older sister who is bipolar and that is exactly what she does. My parents have done everything humanly possible to help her but she refuses to get help, saying nothing is wrong with her and it's just us. You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink.