How to Honor a Man | Marriage Today | Jimmy Evans, Karen Evans

[@The_Food_Police]

I just got married last year, and I've noticed that it's easy to get stuck in a routine of pointing out what each person does wrong everyday. It's true that when you keep pointing out the faults in someone, he/she will stop trying to be the best partner possible. Praise and encouragement work better than belittling and complaining.

[@mspixiedust100]

This should be required listening at least once a month for us women.

[@EloraLiveZ]

hahah yes!

[@lilypowell1123]

No, I will not hold up anyone ...no matter what sex they are , unless they deserve it !!!

[@elizabethmarrerocreates]

Amen! The enemy is constantly whispering accusations of them to us. We gotta listen to God and echo His voice

[@shawandawilliams5540]

That man is really teaching! Some sound, simple, but powerful truths! Sheesh!

[@a.m.thomas9366]

" A MAN WILL GO TO THE LEVEL OF HONOR THAT HIS WIFE GIVES HIM." Wow...

[@Kayla-ue8bm]

What does that mean.... I’m not comprehending that that means.

[@luxurywithportia]

I am so blessed to have a man who loves the Lord. When you find a man that has a strong relationship with God he truly does treat you like a proverbs 31 princess! YAY FOR JESUS!

[@sandrahooper1756]

Good Word

[@sandrahooper1756]

Good Word For Today

[@lilypowell1123]

Yeah my husband claims to LOVE the Lord ..and believes he's forgiven all the time ..and he still cheats ...I guess when he's done his " "thing " ..he must say thanks God for you forever forgiveness !!! What the hell is that all about !!!?? Yeah , I know how many times does Good forgive ...70 times 70 !!? every day !?? So he can do what ever he wants !!!

[@morgangreenlee2091]

Amen sister

[@karlhanson1229]

@@lilypowell1123 there is a difference between forgiveness and consequences. Ultimately we are accountable to God but as iron sharpens iron we can knock off the rough edges of the other or press charges against as the case may be

[@tylerbarnett6730]

You’re sermons are saving my marriage. I always thought we were doing it the right was but listening to you and reading scripture has shown me how wrong I’ve been. Thank you for your service to the lord!!!

[@Chris-ss8vi]

Reading the comments to this video and also the ones giving instruction to men , many women refuse to receive instruction but always want to tell the men to “listen up “. They don’t seem to see that they are their own worst relationship enemy.

[@Rudelherz]

This is so beautiful. We have our 5th year wedding anniversary today actually and YT comes up with this, haha.....He is the best so it is really easy to praise him, but I can see how good it does to him and I will continue to do so even more ♥️ Thank you God for 5 wonderful years, even though tough sometimes, you were always with us. 🌈🙏

[@Atlanta718]

Confront him in love and allow God to change his heart as the enforcer Be a partner Don't punish him Pray and ask God to change your heart Honor him and treat him on the level he should be on He rises to the level of your honor Believe in him Focus on strengths Stop the accuser He hates relationship Take your thoughts captive Praise is against the devil It stops depression and oppression This day, I will pray all day Praise spouse all day There is a payoff Focus on what he does right Think about and focus on the good Speak the truth Honor your spouse

[@pa811]

Woooowwwwww...thank you sooooooo much. Let me put this in my notebook.

[@andredyer9687]

Amen & Amen!!!!!

[@eboniking4860]

A man can go to the level of honor of which his wife speaks of him

[@angelmd43]

If we treat our spouse the way we want them to treat us there would never be divorce. God is wisdom and God is good!

[@lilypowell1123]

Well that's good to hear on my wedding day my " new" husband jumped me and held me down while he pulled my fingers backward , screaming , " take it back , take it back "!! I only had said " you know I think ".... And he was in me !! He latter told me he " thought I was going to agree with something his best friend had just said ...but that was over thirty years later !! That was my honey moon !! It was over , after , and ever sense , he feels he can jump me and hurt me if I don't agree with anything he says !! He claims he sorry , but he's still the same , I have no were to go , and nothing to go with !! When I work he takes the check puts it in his bank account , and says when I make more money then he does , I can say something about what happens to the money !! Yeah , I feel like lifting him up !!! ...not !! You all must live in some kind of ' fairy' land !!!

[@toomuchinformation]

@@lilypowell1123 You're in an abusive relationship. If your husband has assaulted you then he should be looking at jail time! You don't have to put up with this. Don't you have ANY friends or family? You need to get away (at least temporarily) to get your head straight.

[@nellymiller7669]

I honored my husband and he got more and more selfish - he took for granted everything I did and said for him

[@nellymiller7669]

@@hedgemist691 exactly

[@cheryl71000]

Afraid both people have to want to change give it ago. It can't be one person . I did it for eight years. I was treated like a doormat, totally ignored. I went to counsellor after my divorce from. As I found out ten years of my marriage he was with some one else and had a child with her. The counsellor told me , you still have your ex husband on a pedestal, why?? I stopped . You cannot have a good marriage when it is only one person putting in the effort. Eventually you will get divorced unless the partner changes finally . Mind couldn't care less .

[@lke4907]

If he is a godly man, he will elevate WITH YOU ALONG SIDE HIM. If he is ungodly.. he will elevate without you and leave you behind.

[@caliwis8049]

Men need respect and encouragement. Good advice for wives! BTW, I will be praying for your marriage, Teresa (tlowe8622, has comment below). God bless.

[@hannahcolon83]

I loved this short encouragment. For me when he talked about saying "well u know what I think, now I hope u will respect me." Or something like that. Lol but I always try to keep pushing my point until I feels like he gets it. That is so much less stress and arguing just to use that phrase. Thanks. Everything else was great too!

[@JMKrech]

Such fantastic advice for marriage.

[@kimberlyhachey9879]

Why does my husband hate when I express my thankfulness when I notice he does something in the house? It’s like he gets mad at me when I say thank you

[@anandram7063]

Putting things on paper 📜 makes it easy to understand and follow. 🙏.

[@reeceribbonaar8876]

i'm so glad i these videos are available. My mind is peaceful right now. Thank you

[@erejo3274]

I pray I never forgot this teaching so help me God. Absolutely lovely! Thank you

[@mightythrong]

Wonderful message. I really need this🙏✨

[@vijayharprit1461]

Bless you pastor and Karen....so very helpful

[@Eclectifying]

Does this work both ways? It seems to me that we women need honor as well, that we need someone to believe in us in order for us to believe in ourselves, also.

[@gracemakasi4617]

women need value and men honor

[@Godfavorabletome]

Eclectifying sow seeds of what he needs an God give you grace for what you need

[@lilypowell1123]

@@gracemakasi4617 That's crap , sounds so " sicking sweet !! But it's as wrong as wrong can be GOD has never seen women and men as different !!! They each have the same feelings , they both have the VERY SAME NEEDS !!! I AM SO SICK OF HEARING THIS LIE !! MAN , MAN , MAN , MAN , I HEAR ALL THESE STUPID PREACHER TYPES ALWAYS TELLING POOR WOMEN WHO " WORK "ALL THE TIME !! HOW THEY HAVE TO TREAT THAT LADY NO GOOD SO AND SO !!! A "GOOD MAN "... IS ALMOST IMPOSSIBLE TO FIND !!! TRUTH !!!

[@johnreed9050]

@@lilypowell1123 And so is trying to find an unselfish non entitled female who thinks the world revolves around them just because theyexist.females used to be an asset but are now nothing but a liability to a man's life.They offer only sex and lots of misery and aggravation in return

[@graftme3168]

@@lilypowell1123 That is a lie. God made men and women different. That doesn't mean they are unequal in value, but still, they are definitely different. God gave men and women different roles, and therefore, they are different. Believing men and women are the same denies the Word of God.

[@eb4478]

Great word !

[@bigdaddysugarcane2894]

Man is your master ladies, do as your told.

[@journey2oneness100]

Can someone please provide the verse that helps me see that the Wife was the reason Her Husband was known or became an Elder of the Community? I haven't seen that translation. It would be great to read. Thanks.

[@eboniking4860]

Satan hates relationships

[@eboniking4860]

Praise your spouse all day long

[@loletha1167]

This is a Guide from the Holy Spirit of GOD. Thanks Jimmy and Karen Evans for being obedient to share :-)

[@eb4478]

This is soo good !

[@MrVarkeyengland]

this speech is awesome

[@Johnrider1234]

I am divorced raised four alone. Now I am alone will die alone. Life sucks

[@nicolelocsin-sioson6536]

God can restore any marriage :)

[@sophiaosei1980]

You statement brought sadness to you! Please know that life is WORTH living because God reigns!!! Keep your head up & be encouraged!

[@meredithr9824]

Me too!! But it wont be so bad.

[@lilypowell1123]

@@nicolelocsin-sioson6536 GOD can do what ever he wants !! Most of the time it's not what' I' want !!!

[@piyabiswas9475]

Very nice...

[@ronorckstr]

Has anyone got the link to the whole service

[@MegaGracious1]

Praise my husband all day long

[@eboniking4860]

Your thoughts have to be taken captive or it becomes the devils playground

[@NenaKeruvim]

What does mean to honor your husband? I take care of everything at home, paying bills, paperwork, cleaning, cooking, translate, interpret, accept the decisions of my husband, stand by him even when he's wrong, but he still says I don't respect him. I have no idea what else I'm supposed to do. I have told him I don't understand him, to please tell me what exactly is he talking about.

[@catherineadaji7782]

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[@MlleOluwaseun]

Wonderful ! ^^

[@patriciaowens766]

Good Word ❤❤❤

[@anthonyorji536]

SUBMISSION As I looked at a woman(Lawyer), I discovered she was married to a carpenter. Looking at the woman (Lawyer), I discovered she was too PROUD of her title and not only that, she is even arrogant before her husband. Looking at such marriage, I discovered it will not stand the test of time. As I looked at a Pastor, I discovered he has a wife that never opens her mouth to utter a WORD(derogatory) and as such, the man was so pleased. As I looked at another Pastor, I discovered he married his wife out of BEAUTY(false) and as a result , did not wait to hear from God if the woman is truly his wife(mystery) or not. Now, looking at the fall of man at the GARDEN of EDEN, I discovered the original PLANS(mystery) of God was for the TWO to live forever in the body of the FLESH through his anointing but because of DISOBEDIENCE, they were meant to LIVE for a TIME (mystery) and a TIME (mystery of mystery) in the FLESH before they will now LIVE forever either happily or not in the soul state. Now before the FALL, woman was equal to the man in all things except ONE THING. What is the thing? What is the thing? Yes, a woman is never, never considered EQUAL with her husband before God but as man fell at the garden, it became even more. Yes, a man is tied to the LAW of God and a woman is tied to the LAW of the man provided she is married to the man. But once the man dies, the woman is no longer TIED(mystery) to the LAW of the man but to another LAW! What law is that ? What law is that? A widow is either tied to the law of Christ if she is a born again or the law of the devil if she is a sinner. Now, talking about a woman being submissive, husband and wife are ONE FLESH but two different SPIRITS living under the same roof. If the spirit of the woman succumb to the spirit of the man, the woman will see herself being SUBMISSIVE but if the spirit of the woman does not succumb to the spirit of the man, the woman will see herself being ARROGANT. Now talking about the SUBMISSIVENESS of the man, it will be by the GRACE of God , seeing the man is truly the HEAD of the woman. A woman wants to put on TROUSERS and the husband shouted at her if she is an HARLOT, now if grace is not given to the woman to restrain herself , the devil might put bitter words into her heart to speak to the husband and when she does, the man might be TEMPTED to do the otherwise if heaven does not release GRACE on the man. Now talking about SUBMISSION, men are the might of God on earth. Writing that, a woman quickly looked at me and was angry. Why looking at me(Writer) that way? Why looking at me that way? Yes, you wrote that men are the might of God, why that? Yes, the God (Jehovah) that created heaven and earth is neither a man nor a woman but he is in the FORM of the FIRST CREATURE - ADAM. On writing that, she quickly shouted "JESUS"! Yes, men are the might of God and the devil knows that too. He(devil) can only CAPTURE a man(might of God) through a woman. Once Eve was captured at the garden of Eden, it was easy to CHAIN(Capture) the man (might of God). Now, still talking about SUBMISSIVENESS, it is not easy for a man and a woman under a ROOF not to have QUARREL, yes, they are not corpse but human hence there will be quarrel but the ability to settle it AMICABLY matters. Now it is not for a WOMAN to stand on her DECISION which her husband OBJECTS to, but for her to use for womanistic behavior to make her husband SUBMIT(MYSTERY) to her decision. What is the womanistic behavior? What is the womanistic behavior? Yes, God in his INFINITE WISDOM has given women power upon the bed. Ability to sweet - talk your husband upon the bed on a matter that he disagreed on. Now once she touches her husband in LOVE and womanistically lowers her VOICE(enticing) and remind the husband on the NEED(mystery ) to accept her own DECISION and God gives the husband grace to ACCEPT upon the bed, that settles it but if upon that bed, the MAN(MIGHT OF GOD) SAYS NO!!! HEAVEN WILL STAMP IT AND IF THE WOMAN DOES THE OTHERWISE, SHE WILL NOT JUST INCUR THE WRATH OF THE HUSBAND BUT OF GOD. IT IS FINISHED! IT IS FINISHED! Books by the writer is available on Amazon( Search - books by Anthony Orji)

[@eboniking4860]

Satan is always accusing believers to God.

[@eboniking4860]

I live sin and evil free

[@eboniking4860]

My thoughts are Satan free

[@eboniking4860]

Satan accuses relationships to each other

[@queentalktv9805]

Amen

[@kristine95660]

I believe most of what you're saying to do is right, but to say that nobody has the right to "dominate" the home is very strong. I'm not seeing any scripture to support that. Can you name one time a woman led her husband in any situation in the bible and it went well for them?

[@HouseofWilkerson]

haha right!! ain’t that the truth! we can go back to adam and eve… eve was deceived and wrongfully lead her husband into being disobedient… adam should’ve been leading eve instead of allowing his wife to lead him. men are for sure supposed to lead while the women are supposed to be “help meets” for their husbands. to help meet his desires, help meet his goals, help meet his needs all while being UNDER the mans authority

[@eboniking4860]

Satan accuses believers to themselves

[@eboniking4860]

Satan accuses God to believers

[@kleaangeles1351]

This is so wrong. It hors both ways. You can't ask wives to elevate husbands. That creates grounds for resentment and failure. Both husband and wife so should support each other.

[@Godfavorabletome]

this is honor your husband an he has one that says husband love you wife so yes it does

[@lilypowell1123]

@@Godfavorabletome NO IT DOESN'T !! YOU NEED TO WAKE UP AND SCREW YOUR BRAIN DOWN . IT'S ABOUT TO FALL OFF !!!

[@stanleymalafu4646]

@@lilypowell1123 So much bitterness coming from yours. smh

[@Solrac1424]

respect HAS TO BE MUTUAL; other wise you;re enocuraging men to be tyrants and bullies! I doubt no woman is going to want to be told to only respect and not love herhusband

[@lilypowell1123]

And if he is a real nasty person and physically hurts me .. I'm supposed to praise him !?? That's just nuts !!!

[@embracewithchristina]

No you don't. The word instructs women to submit to their husbands as HE submits to the Lord. If the husband is not truly walking with the Lord you do not have to honor him. He must honor the Lord FIRST. The word also tells husbands to "love your wife as Christ loves the church." Meaning he needs to be an example of Christ love. Lastly, it is NOT God's will that anyone be in a marriage in which they are being physically, emotionally threaten.

[@magisterhpp]

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[@toomuchinformation]

@@magisterhpp What relevance does that have to Lily's comment that she's being physically abused? How does that relate to her situation? Why are you using a SECULAR video about a different subject to make a non relevant point?

[@toomuchinformation]

@@magisterhpp And who the hell are you, Mr Angry Self Righteous mate. You still haven't answered Lily's question but just gone off on your misogynistic rant.

[@Tony-mq2br]

No but you’ve got to be an idiot to pick that sort of man and a man who physically hits a woman isn’t a man

[@lilypowell1123]

I see more about making the MAN HAPPY !! WHY !??

[@Tony-mq2br]

And this is why you’ll have a life of Cats 😅

[@leslierusgrove164]

Both parties should be made happy. NOT just one or the other. This is about how we as women can take care of our man.

[@alonzamitchell]

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[@lilypowell1123]

I find the" man" is wrong most all the time !!! Just because they have ...what !??

[@solomonphoenix732]

Shut up bitch